AscendingRogue Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it? 98%!? That is wild! Absolutely delusional!	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/26 09:13 PM
3	A male's choice to oppress women is rooted in their fear of women's social, emotional, & intellectual power. Cheers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/26 12:05 AM
3	A male's choice to oppress women is rooted in their fear of women's social, emotional, & intellectual power. As a man who had traveled the US extensively, the south (east) is something else. The rest of the country is not like them in many ways (for better or worse).	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/26 11:45 PM
4	A male's choice to oppress women is rooted in their fear of women's social, emotional, & intellectual power. Sure, you'll find sexist men who will have a problem with women having positions of authority, but if you're asking my opinion on men in general, I would warrant a guess that the majority of men would not have a problem with submitting to a competent woman in a position of authority within a system of meritocracy. As for the second part, you're just entering into the Victimhood Olympics of "who is oppressed MORE" which is a tool used to divide the oppressed and pit them against one another, so I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/26 10:58 PM
8	A male's choice to oppress women is rooted in their fear of women's social, emotional, & intellectual power. Recommendation: stop framing oppression as a gender issue. A tiny minority of men are oppressing everyone when oppression actually occurs. Bob down the street has no real power to oppress you, sweatheart. There are multiple forms of control and oppression, including the ones you mentioned. Trust me, they have nothing to do with women (exclusively) potentially rising to the occasion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/26 10:32 PM
1	I absolutely hate to admit it but the release of the Epstein files is exactly why people get anxious over potentially false claims of sexual assault It's been proven that the best publicity strategy is to not say a word, even if you're innocent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/26 03:06 AM
–	Q4M: Do most men really want trophy wives/gfs (or bfs if they’re gay/bi)? There are women who are only interested in spending time with their partners when they want to be entertained. They view their man as a source of excitement, adventure, drama, and comfort, but nothing more than that. Because this is all that these women are interested in, they fail to connect with their partners on a deeper and more devoted level. She doesn't want to go on a date to spend time connecting with her man. Rather, she wants to go on a date for the sake of what the date activity is al…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/26 03:37 AM
–	Q4M: Do most men really want trophy wives/gfs (or bfs if they’re gay/bi)? That is not what I mean. It is extremely presumptuous for you to project your expectations onto me in order to paint me as the villain you want me to be so that you can feel justified in your militant attitude. I am not talking about not putting effort into the relationship, but I can see why men wouldn't put effort into a relationship with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/26 03:27 AM
–	Q4M: Do most men really want trophy wives/gfs (or bfs if they’re gay/bi)? I just want a loyal and devoted woman who actually wants to spend time with me instead of expecting to be entertained, has enough shared interests to where we can enjoy recreational activities together, and has enough going on in her life that she can spend time away from me without cheating. If she is kinky in a complimentary way, that would be a plus.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/26 10:03 PM
–	Men are biologically privileged and should stop whining that women are privileged Was this supposed to be a response elsewhere?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/26 09:42 PM
1	Men are biologically privileged and should stop whining that women are privileged She clearly did not. She just jumped in with zero context. Smh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/26 09:40 PM
1	Do women really sleep with the “hot guys” first and marry the average ones later? Here's the thing. Men are complaining about a lack of empathy. Most women pretty much refuse to admit they have this dynamic available to them in the first place, compared to men. On top of that, they then pull up the ladder behind them by complaining that men aren't as emotionally developed and put them down very publicly on social media. I do think that a lot of men are seeing this and deciding that they need to develop themselves in these areas independently of women's involvement, but that n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/26 07:55 PM
1	The only way for men to move forward is to recognize both the positive AND toxic traits of the men who came before us, including our fathers I agree for the most part, but women are generally more compulsive spenders when it comes to finances, so depending on the specific individuals involved, that's probably the one thing I might disagree with you on. I feel like you aren't going to get the amount of pushback you were expecting for what you posted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 12:12 PM
4	TRP’s irrational (and unproductive) hatred of single moms is fully driven by the Madonna-Whore complex It's not hatred. It's just that we recognize that USUALLY there is a lot of baggage with single moms that we simply don't want to deal with. It's more like a MGTOW thing than a hatred thing there. Stop taking it so personally, OP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 12:00 PM
–	Misogyny is often mistaken for confidence in online dating spaces I think you may have a misconception on what constitutes a "shit test." This term isn't a derogatory term for women vetting men, but a very specific kind of behavior that is often subconscious and not even intentional. A "shit test" is when a woman challenge's a man's emotional stability by poking at his feelings in order to see if the man is strong and resilient to such attacks. Usually the women who do this do it many times. Examples of this include trying to make the man jealous or poking at …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 11:32 AM
1	Feminism is undermining its own credibility by repeating bad science Ngl I really am here to try to break people out of corrosive mental frameworks. It's probably not worth it though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 06:15 PM
3	Feminism is undermining its own credibility by repeating bad science Admittedly, I haven't looked at the studies. I'm just going based off what OP said. I might be wrong. Tbh my arguments in this thread have been pretty weak, and I've made an ass out of myself a little bit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 06:04 PM
5	Feminism is undermining its own credibility by repeating bad science Ah, so now you're gonna boost those numbers up by adding rape? Tbh you might be right at that point, idk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 05:56 PM
3	Feminism is undermining its own credibility by repeating bad science I would hazard a guess that the number of men financially ruined by women, socially ruined by women, and driven to suicide by women outnumbers the femicide victims. Regardless, it's not really relevant to the argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 05:28 PM
3	Feminism is undermining its own credibility by repeating bad science You probably won't. By your logic, literally every single person is dangerous, though. Everyone has had a violent thought at some point or another. It's hard to take you seriously tbh, but I do encourage you to grow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 05:24 PM
5	Feminism is undermining its own credibility by repeating bad science I want you to think back to this comment the next time you think (not even say, but just think) about something you would never actually do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 05:17 PM
4	Feminism is undermining its own credibility by repeating bad science The whole study was based on considering unrealistic hypothetical situations. The context matters, bro.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 05:15 PM
3	If you’re a teenager or young adult into the “red pill” pipeline or “manosphere”, there’s a strong chance you’re going to end up really regretting it Holy shit this is gold. You are in total denial about your own bigotry yet are completely exposing yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 04:59 PM
9	Feminism is undermining its own credibility by repeating bad science My point is not to invalidate your group (despite largely not agreeing with it), but to point out how troublesome your reaction is. OP: "Feminism regularly makes these two points, which actually undermines the movement since when we scrutinize the studies these points originated from we find that there is no solid foundation for those arguments." You: "It doesn't matter. I'm taking this as an attack and therfore I shall justify why the group should exist." Like, that kind of thinking closes you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 04:44 PM
5	Feminism is undermining its own credibility by repeating bad science Ladies and gentlemen: here we have a misandrist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 04:38 PM
2	Feminism is undermining its own credibility by repeating bad science "I don't really care what studies or evidence is used." ETA: Also, just bad faith argument from you. It's like you didn't even read what I wrote. I never said I have a problem with women empowering themselves. It's cunts like you that are vile and disgusting who use feminism as some moral justifications for your despicable actions. Fuck off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 03:56 PM
-5	Feminism is undermining its own credibility by repeating bad science She destroyed his life in this hypothetical scenario. Damn, girl, you are projecting your little practiced snippets where they're not even applicable. Buzz off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 03:54 PM
4	Feminism is undermining its own credibility by repeating bad science It perpetuates misandry, framing men as oppressors. It creates a mental framework for its members to see any kind of opposition to its ideology as an attack, resulting in said feminists to slip into a fight or flight response. This further reinforces men as"the enemy" since that's what we do when we're in such a state. This is then used to justify emotional attacks on men in their day to day lives, treating them as subhuman. It marginalizes human suffering because "men have no excuse with all th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 03:51 PM
-2	Feminism is undermining its own credibility by repeating bad science If you could murder someone that you absolutely hate, who is objectively a vile, evil person, and they definitely deserved it and you would never get caught, would you? Really think about it. Would you consider changing your answer from"very unlikely" to "unlikely?" Now, what if some of those men who answered that question happened to think about a revenge fantasy involving some woman that destroyed his life? Is that person actually a serious threat to women? Is it fair to lump him in with the m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 03:38 PM
14	Feminism is undermining its own credibility by repeating bad science "If my group is wrong about something it doesn't actually matter" Smh😐	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 03:29 PM
6	Feminism is undermining its own credibility by repeating bad science Feminism is now attacking men. Be grateful for those things, by all means, but the modern feminist movement is not that same movement. It has transformed significantly, and it is now the villain. You are the bad guy now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 03:26 PM
2	Who deserves love and chad treatment? Are they mutually exclusive? But, see, your argument is disingenuous then since you are covertly changing the subject matter of the discussion. Again, there is a difference between attractive behavior that gets you excited to be with someone and behavior that sparks libido. We are talking about the latter, while you are trying to squeeze a shift to talk about the former.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 09:12 AM
–	Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassion I agree. Men need compassion from women. Women need compassion on men. Women are currently withholding compassion, thus making it a gendered issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/26 09:32 PM
–	Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassion Yes, but to loop back to my original point, men will jump to comfort women with compassion. Women do not do the same for men. It's one of those "female privilege" things, if you will.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/26 09:28 PM
–	Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassion I cannot ignore the many reports that a significant portion of men are emotionally stunted and repressed, so there is probably some truth to that... But... In my lived experience, men are more likely to show one another compassion than to receive it from women. I actually have quite a few platonic female friends, and the women who have shown me compassion are angels I am grateful to have in my life, but most of them close up and distance themselves if a male friend in our group is going through …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/26 12:45 PM
3	Who deserves love and chad treatment? Are they mutually exclusive? Yeah, I get what you're trying to say, but there is a difference between emotional fulfillment and lust. You can't honestly tell me you have looked at a man washing dishes and have that be the reason you get wet. It's dishonest to conflate the two.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/26 11:33 AM
22	Misogyny is often mistaken for confidence in online dating spaces You're not wrong, but I want to add some nuance to this. Women often reward misogyny and then act all surprised Pikachu when they have five boyfriends in a row who disrespect them. A significant number of women punish caring men with shit tests. The men who pass these with flying colors are the ones who simultaneously are aware of the shit tests and also truly don't care. There is a lot of crossover between misogynists and the men who are like that. Honestly? It kinda works out since this acts a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/26 11:09 AM
2	Why does it seem like only in pill communities are men failing with women? I work a weird job where there happens to be a lot of people dating each other (it's a very large workplace). Over the years I have watched a lot of drama. Just because there are lots of relationships, that doesn't mean they are high quality ones. Both men and women are paying one another while having the emotional intelligence of a six year old despite the fact that they are all well into adulthood. Like, yes, I get that there are men who are failing despite actively trying, but one of the effe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/26 08:15 AM
1	Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassion "Blah blah blah I'm a victim because of my gender!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/26 07:57 AM
-1	Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassion Women withhold compassion from men all the time while giving it to fellow women. Men do not withhold compassion from women. It is a gendered issue. Like yes, we should all give compassion, but this is like the emotional equivalent to the orgasm-gap.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/26 07:57 AM
1	People who claim women are "happier single" have never spoken to a truly undesirable woman Oof. Are you making your daughter suffer so that she can "be better?" If I'm wrong, feel free to point it out, but it sounds like you just harbor ill will for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/26 02:23 AM
1	People who claim women are "happier single" have never spoken to a truly undesirable woman Maybe. Why do you want men to be hurting?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/26 07:45 PM
13	People who claim women are "happier single" have never spoken to a truly undesirable woman What did I just read!? 🤣 I know this article went viral a bit ago, but I never bothered to read it until just now. It's honestly kind of sad that women are having this kind of reaction, especially in regards to putting so much focus on curating their social media for digital likes and comments from strangers rather than, I don't know, the people in their actual lives. I expected this to be an article dunking on men, but it was more about how women care more about their social image than their re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/26 10:28 AM
1	Women date men like they buy fixer upper houses and then act shocked when the walls do not rearrange themselves Women do sometimes enter into relationships with a private vision for the future and how they want to grow as a couple. This leads to unmet expectations that were never communicated properly. Yes, this happens. I dated a girl once who was extremely complacent with the status quo and her stagnant state ended up being a deal-breaker for me, so this isn't quite as one-side as you might think it is. Personally, I think the beauty of relationships is when a couple grows together. Men, just like women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 12:50 AM
1	Redpill works if you're patient and consistent enough Lmao, what? 🤣🤣🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/25 09:26 PM
1	Redpill works if you're patient and consistent enough Monolith thinking 🤣🤣🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/25 09:25 PM
2	Redpill works if you're patient and consistent enough Yup. It is what it is, but it's not rape.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/25 09:24 PM
1	Why do men think there are so many good men Yes, I think so. I have traveled a lot around the US, and I have met a lot of people. Most people are good people. When women complain about there not being enough good men, they usually either have standards that are too high, bringing adversarial energy to initial interactions with men that sabotage the foundation of a relationship, or they are inadvertently chasing the wrong characteristics in men (despite most people being good, there are still plenty of bad men out there to choose from).	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/25 09:16 PM
1	Do men actually prefer if their girlfriend is a virgin? Not at all. It's about building synergy, not some kind of novelty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/25 12:21 AM
1	Do men actually prefer if their girlfriend is a virgin? I'm not arguing otherwise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/25 06:32 AM
1	Do men actually prefer if their girlfriend is a virgin? You are probably overestimating how important I value this factor to be. It's not a deal breaker if the woman has had previous sexual partners, so long as she is still able to healthily bond. Given all other factors being equal between two women, the virgin has a significant advantage. Think about it like with girls and their preference for tall men. Is a shorter guy outright excluded from her pool? Probably not (generally speaking). If his value as a mate is close enough to another candidate, w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/25 06:30 AM
–	Men demand empathy from women, and at the same time they punish women for being empathetic. I understand the phenomenon. I acknowledge that it exists. I just don't think it's very important if you don't give those kinds of people any power in your life. I sincerely will be rooting for you to move past this. Happy holidays!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/25 01:04 PM
-1	Do men actually prefer if their girlfriend is a virgin? I am not. We can still grow, though!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/25 12:58 PM
0	Do men actually prefer if their girlfriend is a virgin? It seems like you really want me to be condoning objectifying and exploiting my partner, which is not at all what I'm saying here. I'm not a big fan of waiting until marriage to have sex. Sex is a significant part of a relationship, and I think it would be best if a couple ensures that they are compatible before tying the knot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/25 12:57 PM
2	Do men actually prefer if their girlfriend is a virgin? That's awesome! I'm glad you found something so special!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/25 12:51 PM
-1	Do men actually prefer if their girlfriend is a virgin? I feel like you're trying to shove me in a predefined box of not wanting to learn what my partner likes despite me stating otherwise. I understand your perspective and recognize that it is a valid approach for you to find a fulfilling relationship; I am asking that you consider my point in good faith to do the same. We don't have to be opposed to one another just because we're looking for different things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/25 12:50 AM
0	Do men actually prefer if their girlfriend is a virgin? I'm not a Christian, but I do understand that there is an overlap of views there. Also, I actually don't have a distaste for a woman who had fucked someone else. I just want a partner who will grow with me, and that includes sexually. I also recognize that certainly there are virgin women who simply would not take that journey with me. My comment isn't a cop out. I just know what kind of relationships I value most.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/25 12:44 AM
1	Do men actually prefer if their girlfriend is a virgin? I'm so happy for you! Way to share living the dream with a treasured partner, brother!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/25 12:33 AM
0	Do men actually prefer if their girlfriend is a virgin? I understand why you feel that way given your experiences. I'm glad you found some good lovers and discovered a dynamic that works for you. I do want to point out that a man taking on the leadership/teacher role doesn't mean he shouldn't be open to and implement feedback from his partner. A good man will want to learn what his partner responds to. It doesn't have to be a one-way street. 😉	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/25 12:28 AM
5	Do men actually prefer if their girlfriend is a virgin? People are different and there are many various paths they can take to be fulfilled. In terms of building a relationship, I think the one I described above is quite valid for certain people. If it doesn't resonate with you, that's fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 11:54 PM
2	Do men actually prefer if their girlfriend is a virgin? This is a thing for some guys, so I get where you're coming from and I understand why you feel that way. Surely there are guys who prefer a virgin for other reasons too, though? I challenge you to read my comment earlier in this thread that provides a more wholesome perspective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 11:49 PM
14	Do men actually prefer if their girlfriend is a virgin? Here's the thing: what a lot of guys want is for a woman with whom they have already developed the foundation for a loving and caring relationship to bond strongly with them through sex. Sex is a journey, and trying out different things and finding out what is fun and getting better at it through practice is a delightful activity of growth with a committed partner. The fantasy is to do this with a virgin, not because she (as some feminists would clam) "doesn't realize how bad you are in bed," bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 11:26 PM
1	Should men be openly critical of women who are bad or boring in bed ? I don't think men talk about how sex with their partner is as much as women do. I don't think they should start, either. Men should, however, recognize when the sex is bad, use communication to try to make sex more fun and exciting, and dip if their partner doesn't want to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 10:51 PM
1	The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not women I just want to point out that nobody is having an issue (rightfully) with the combination of the words 'male' and 'women' in the same sentence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 10:45 PM
6	Men demand empathy from women, and at the same time they punish women for being empathetic. Self-centered women who are incapable of (selective) empathy should be avoided and shamed. Self-centered men who are incapable of (selective) empathy should be avoided and shamed. But I suspect, OP, you're just looking for validation, conflict, and a pity party with this post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 09:52 PM
–	The "she provoked me" trend where women try to prove dogs have more self control than men is just another man hating campaign Stop giving them attention.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 11:22 PM
5	Men should not approach without obvious signals To be honest, yeah, kinda. We're all human and we fuck up social interactions, but the best men learn to take crazy, demeaning rejections with grace and indifference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 10:22 PM
2	Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring? Not sure if this counts, but I broke up with a girl who gave me amazing sex all the time because she was stagnant. I wanted a partner to build a life with. She was happy with the status quo so long as the bills were paid and wanted to scroll on her phone all day outside while smoking cigarettes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 10:14 PM
0	What motivation is there for dating in a Red Pill world? Like, we can still appreciate and value the majesty of the romance while still understanding what oxytocin is doing to our brains and the resulting hormonal effects.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 09:53 PM
3	Women are OK with men decentering them. There is much more pushback from men There is definitely a movement for men to decenter women in the self-improvement and red pill communities. This kind of backfires on women since it results in delegating women to a background role of casual sex when paths cross and the circumstances are right. It promotes hookup culture by turning women into random sex encounters since relationships (should be) are a very intentional thing. And yes, I know that women have their own version of this when decentering men - this isn't meant to be ta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/25 12:06 AM
1	Where do women want to be hit on? Dude isn't here in good faith. He just wants to fuel his superiority complex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 02:39 PM
0	Where do women want to be hit on? The difference is when you say "men are animals" there is an intent to be derogatory, and in this case, outright dehumanizing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 02:38 PM
-2	Where do women want to be hit on? I do not understand why some people are so offended by women being called females. Like, you're the one applying the derogatory meaning and then getting offended by that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 02:13 PM
1	Men, could you go without love if all other traditional desires were met? Today? I could live like this. That said, being in a loving relationship is one of the most treasured experiences of my life. I don't think my life would have felt complete had I not had that previously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 11:44 PM
2	Even if a research proved tomorrow that women's standards are 110% delusional they are still entitled to it Says to check out other comment. Hides post history in profile. Bruh, fuck off. Either post it again, open your profile, or stfu. We aren't wading through all the comments to find yours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 02:10 AM
0	Men are lonely because women are changed. Speaking as a man who loves submissive women, I think you're right about a lot of what you said, but I want to clarify an implication that seemed to be inherent in your post. You stated that women no longer need to be submissive and adore men with worship. It's not that someone like me wants women to be locked into this as a need, to be trapped into dependency. Rather, I have witnessed first hand how fulfilling that kind of relationship is, and that fulfillment is shared with the submissive wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 12:47 AM
1	Q4M: Why do you ignore obvious social cues inviting you to approach? Most of the time, when I got shown interest, it's been at work. I have a rule not to ever get involved with anybody I work with, so I ignore it. I think in most of those insurances those women thought I was hopelessly oblivious and gave up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/25 08:31 AM
1	The red pill is driving women away from men and is central to why modern dating sucks Feminism is infected with widespread misandry that brings out the worst in women. A large reason why dating sucks is because of the epidemic of selfish, uncaring women who treat men poorly. There's two sides to the coin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/25 12:07 AM
2	"Both women and men believe that their gender disadvantages them. When so many men feel underappreciated and so many women feel mistreated, it creates a vicious cycle of resentment." → Research There is a difference between the upper class who isn't burdened by these social issues and the mass of average men who are just as locked out of the board rooms of these institutions as women have been. As far as men just now getting some influence in the realm of social issues? Yes, that is new, small, and already being attacked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/25 02:36 PM
6	"Both women and men believe that their gender disadvantages them. When so many men feel underappreciated and so many women feel mistreated, it creates a vicious cycle of resentment." → Research I disagree. This applies to enough women that it needs to be pointed out and shamed. If it doesn't apply to you, don't worry about it. The fact is, though, that it's a large part of the reason why so many economically successful women are single, and it's causing social issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/25 02:32 PM
3	"Both women and men believe that their gender disadvantages them. When so many men feel underappreciated and so many women feel mistreated, it creates a vicious cycle of resentment." → Research Uh, yeah, most men just want some love. Like, is this not the norm in your society?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/25 02:26 PM
13	"Both women and men believe that their gender disadvantages them. When so many men feel underappreciated and so many women feel mistreated, it creates a vicious cycle of resentment." → Research Here's the thing: women have strong institutional power, money, and momentum talking about their issues. This is a good thing for their more valid concerns. Men are only now gaining similar traction, but it is significantly lesser, is taken less seriously (often mocked and victim-blamed), and is met with resistance from feminism due to either misandry or a zero-sum mentality. Ironic, isn't it? I grew up in a society full of men recognizing women's issues and taking them seriously. Yes, there wer…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/25 11:47 PM
–	Q4M: decision time - peace or love? This. I give my all in relationships. I'm picky now. I'm okay being on my own. If a woman loves me and intentionally works on building a relationship with me, privately working through our problems while presenting publicly as a unified person, let's fucking go! 😍 Otherwise? Nah, I'm good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/25 12:29 AM
1	Previous Archived Post: Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity to. The problem is that a significant portion of women have decided to bounce around between desperate men and players who offer only money and sex since those relationships demand very little from the women. It is parasitic behavior, and many women fall into complacency, not developing themselves into well-rounded people. This is a socially detrimental phenomenon that women collectively refuse to address because of "muh sisterhood."	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 11:54 PM
4	Society threat profiles men if they approach women, and clowns on them if they end up lonely and "unfuckable" To a certain extent, I agree. Nonetheless, women are more fickle in following through on commitment than men are once the commitment has been made. This is resulting in less instances when men commit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 01:27 AM
5	Society threat profiles men if they approach women, and clowns on them if they end up lonely and "unfuckable" Some women want to be chased and want pursuit even after they say "no." Some women are hoes and want a purely sexual connection. A lot of women like you don't seem to realize that when you encounter men who do these things, they're trying to feel out if you're playing the same game that they're trying to play. They don't give a fuck if you're not since the next girl will. If you reject them with hostility or defensiveness, they'll throw it right back in your face.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 11:34 PM
6	Society threat profiles men if they approach women, and clowns on them if they end up lonely and "unfuckable" More men would commit if there were more women worth committing to, just saying...	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 11:29 PM
10	Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them? Thank you. Welcome to the brotherhood. A lot of our social issues are very invisible to women. We're trying to resolve this, but a lot of women are resistant to even considering them, and a lot of us men are bad at social politics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 02:05 PM
4	Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them? Understandable.I wasn't trying to one-up you, btw. I wholeheartedly agree that the Oppression Olympics just gets in the way of talking about social issues. I was more trying to point out that there is often a disconnect when trying to compare the different types of struggles since a lot of context gets lost due to a lack of lived experience. That said, some of the social problems are caused almost exclusively by members of the opposite gender. I don't have a good solution for that, but recognizi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 01:57 PM
-1	Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them? Very interesting take. Thanks for sharing. I would argue that women are not inherently loyal, though. It's a minor thing in the larger context of the point you're making, I know, but I challenge you to consider it when you have time. I agree that men are only as loyal as their options, but men have a limited resource of time, attention, and energy to give. Is it my dream to have a harem of devoted women? Sure. But would I choose to pour all my focus into one devoted partner over having a roster …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 12:47 AM
18	Why do women think that men have it easy compared to them? All valid. That said, I think you may be minimalizing the depth of the psychological and emotional torture a lot of men go through specifically because of their gender. The pressure to perform hits differently. The constant need to sacrifice chips away a lot over enough time. And often, it feels like we're scrounging for crumbs of love, and if we show the wrong side of ourselves, even those will be taken away. And that doesn't even get into the labor of emotional compression that is never recogn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/25 12:35 AM
9	Pick Me Girls are not respected by men. Women are not jealous of them. I gotta love how women make these long posts trying to prove that the game is stacked against them when really what men want is for women to see men as people and treat them with honesty, kindness, and empathy. The problem isn't that men don't know what they want, it's that there are too many women that need therapy to stop being so self-centered be hold themselves accountable when appropriate to do so. So many women are trash that when they see a good woman trying to build a relationship instea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/25 05:06 AM
0	Too many men just want validation and admiration, not love. The thing is, the internet has sadly revealed that a significant portion of modern women are self-cenrered, uncaring parasites that are not worth putting effort into.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/25 09:57 PM
23	More men aren't single because they have "bad personalities" The thing is, women have absolutely refused to admit this, and men believed their denials. You're right, it does make sense, and it's recently been the subject of a paper by Easkwick, Sparks, and Finkel. Women value looks just as much as men, but they downplay it's importance more than twice as much as men do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 10:54 PM
3	Why do men need women? That's okay. Everyone is on their own journey. They'll get there when they're ready to. Thanks for bearing witness. 😁	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 12:53 AM
5	Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twenties Living is not the same as optimizing. Aim for 7 hours minimum, 8+ hours as a standard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 12:50 AM
9	Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twenties I'm not saying that you should avoid discomfort in the pursuit of bettering yourself. I'm saying that chronically being sleep deprived is self-sabotage, and the idea that you're being more productive by engaging in such a practice is delusional and short-sighted. Too many people think that suffering automatically equates to something of value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 11:10 PM
3	Why do men need women? I'm talking about spirituality and transcendence here. The red pill is about how we are biologically wired and/or how modern society has stimulated particular neural developments to a critical mass point where we have to recognize and guard against the resulting phenomenon. Men and women don't have to be shit, but, sadly, most are. TRP is about maneuvering that reality. Edit: Also, to add on, red pill guys can be shortsighted dickheads too. We're not a monolith 😅	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 11:01 PM
5	Why do men need women? Fuck it, I might as well go full metaphysical on this one. Women need men for the same reason men need women. The masculine and feminine are two complimentary opposites of an immutable force found in the cosmos. Through unification (selflessness being the key), we humans can reconnect with Divine love and transcend the dualistic nature of the material reality we currently find ourselves in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 10:34 PM
14	Why do men need women? Bro, I say this with kindness, but if you feel like a brooding, unwanted asshole when you're single, you should work on that. Become someone you're happy to be, regardless of outside validation. You can do it!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 10:26 PM
12	Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twenties Sleep is so important. OP's post is downright dangerous. Don't exhaust yourselves, people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 10:02 PM
5	Women fail to understand the sheer scale of emotional labor men perform for women. That's called MGTOW, and, apparently, it's so hateful that it needs to be banned across multiple platforms. You just exposed yourself, bigot!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 01:37 AM
0	Men are easily blinded when it comes to women. Consider that perhaps women are so good at validating each other's feelings and promoting feelgood vibes amongst one another that they inadvertently cover up each other's faults, thus resulting in a plethora of basic, boring bitches.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 04:14 AM
1	Men have absolutely no legitimate reason to be angry at women Tu quoque. Get outta here with that nonsense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 01:06 PM
4	Men have absolutely no legitimate reason to be angry at women I don't think men are angry at women so much as they tired and fed up at how selfish and uncaring women are, especially if that sabotages a relationship where the whole idea is that both parties focus on what they can give to support one another and trust that that person also has their best interests in mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 03:09 PM
1	Biggest reason men are mad at women? Miserable paths. Nah. I'm happy with the path I've chosen to walk. Women just kinda suck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/25 01:53 PM
1	Men are delusional about how many bad men are out there You know, I kinda suspect that a large reason contributing to modern dating woes is that people don't really know how to love anymore. Love is something that you build by finding someone who matches your values and intentions to unify. Love is selfless. It's partnering with somebody that you trust, and then each person thinking about what they can do to support their partner, finding joy in giving. It's trusting your partner that even through disagreements that person still has your best interes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/25 10:25 PM
–	Highly attractive humans being bad doesn't corelate with reality The average person is so far beneath the more developed people that this worldview isn't untrue. This isn't to say that all human life doesn't have the same intrinsic value, but let's be real, there are some among us who are just better people than most.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/25 01:20 PM
1	Q4W: Would you rather be the king's mistress or a peasant's wife? It is, but it's in terrible taste. "Haha, men make terrible husbands and make their wives miserable!" "Haha, those husbands should die!" "Haha, you go girl!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/25 01:00 AM
-1	Q4W: Would you rather be the king's mistress or a peasant's wife? 65% of intimate partner violence (including all non-homicide violence) is dirrcted at women. I wonder how much that statistic would be skewed if we magically included all the women who poisoned their husbands and got away with it...	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/25 12:58 AM
–	Who do you think carries more invisible labor — men or women? Men also do emotional labor, and it is largely unrecognized. Look up "emotional compression."	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/25 02:20 AM
1	Why is the conversation about men defending themselves against abusive women so weird? Really? Dude brought himself forward as a real world example to counter your point and you're going to pivot to semantics? Gtfo	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/25 02:06 AM
5	Passport bros, porn, OF, age gap relationships, prostitution and sex robots are all ethical. The only reason why (many) women oppose them is due to threat of intrasexual competition Aw, this is so cute and wholesome! You both are arguing, but without vitriol, and you're expressing tiny concessions to signal receptiveness and respect. Love is in the air!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/25 01:23 AM
10	The cognitive dissonance behind men approaching women is the same cognitive dissonance behind men objectifying women. The point is that women aren't realizing that their interactions with men are getting skewed, they walk away with a worse impression of men as a whole, and their messaging/attitude becomes more hostile towards men, pushing the ones who are listening further away. A lot of men who are involved in the current gender discussion are aware of this, but the women are not. Women need to wake up to this phenomenon before it can be rectified and fixed from both sides.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/25 01:07 AM
4	Why do women hate the man when the man has moved on from them despite they are ghosting the man? Boy oh boy are you out of touch with the male experience. That's okay, but take into consideration that men are reporting this as something we are encountering.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/25 12:40 AM
–	Why do the avg women dont want the bottom 80% of men? It was fine as it was. I was just highly amused by my own confusion and wanted to share and say thanks for that moment, Queen!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/25 11:07 PM
0	I've come to the mindset that men should just learn to be comfortable with making women uncomfortable. Nah, then we'd be apologizing all the time for doing nothing other than putting our best effort forward, sending out the mating call, and seeing who responds. Women need to get over the fear that men might suddenly freak out over the smallest thing like a rejection. We shouldn't change our approach to include "I'm not one of those" since it will undermine us, and frankly most women wouldn't believe us anyway if they're that paranoid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 08:13 AM
1	Why do the avg women dont want the bottom 80% of men? Lmao, I forgot I made this comment 🤣. I saw your response in my notifications and was so confused (I am very much not chaste).	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/25 02:26 PM
1	Why do the avg women dont want the bottom 80% of men? Aw snap. From 35 to 40 (I'm 35) the stat drops from 60% to just 25%!? Thanks for the heads up! I must hold strong; women will not get mmeeeeeee!!!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/25 11:35 PM
0	"Women were forced to be with terrible men back in the day"- Then what about today? I am not saying the following to excuse modern women (collectively) from any accountability for the current situation, but... Women's dating pool has been skewed for the worse these days compared to before. A lot of men have checked out of dating. The apps are borderline useless for men and are a huge drain of time, energy, and emotional endurance. IRL men have been told not to approach women, especially at work, the gym, and the grocery store. The "better" men, the ones with more intelligence a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/25 12:36 AM
-1	Nice guys are given contradictory advice that keeps them in a loop and never answers their predicament Be flirty. Be playful. Be that way with all the women, not just the ones you're interested in dating. Be excited to see each of them as a new interaction begins. Be comfortable being silly. Tease them lightly. Call them out on their bullshit with a warm, friendly tone and a smile on your face.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/25 11:57 PM
1	Men have their own version of beta bux for women but don’t like to acknowledge it Okay, yes, there are men who think like this, but I am reminded of a talk given by a prostitute I watched about how so many men were seeking companionship and connection, not necessarily sex. In my own personal experience, I have found "hot" fit women to be more fun in bed, but I definitely go for the deeper connection regardless of if that's part of the package. I want to point out that if you're looking at this group of men who "settled" cynically, you're probably lumping in a lot of happily m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 11:45 PM