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| 2 | I've heard people say that men's lack of success on dating apps doesn't occur in real life. I don't believe thatI don't want a man getting in my freshly washed sheets after the gym without showering first That sounds incredibly reasonable tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 05:40 PM |
| 1 | "Missing out on being a hoe" - is this real?Not every relationship needs to be for long term. Wish someone had told me that 10 years ago haa | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 03:05 PM |
| – | Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time.6'1 is tall but not "very tall" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 08:23 PM |
| – | Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time.I'm going to need more than a AIO post lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 08:23 PM |
| – | Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time.Now, imagine you're a hard working but awkward guy studying to be a brain surgeon. You're ignored by women throughout your years of hard work. You start practicing and making 700K/yr. Suddenly, women who had ignored you throughout college -- women who didn't support your goals, and dated men with little potential -- they suddenly starts expressing interest and wanting to marry you. I can't imagine going through medical school and being blessed with the ability to be a surgeon and still giving a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 05:05 PM |
| 3 | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typePeak reddit is having people debate a topic posted by a recent high school graduate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Reading dating profile bios doesn't make sense if you're a manI've matched with women and messaged them something on their profile and still gotten ghosted lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 11:32 AM |
| 4 | Reading dating profile bios doesn't make sense if you're a man"Feed me tacos and tell me I'm pretty <3" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 11:21 AM |
| 13 | Females Use Good Guys For Bailouts From Bad DecisionsI think I get what he's talking about. Being a good guy helps but being conventionally helps 60% more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 11:16 AM |
| 2 | Those who use the phrase "if men want the same sex opportunities as women, then just go for the gays" - you simply confirm all the claims about high female standardsIf you're white and attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 01:09 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIn a row? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 12:43 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI know. I think it's a little bizarre | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 12:44 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADweird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 12:26 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADpersonality of someone willing to commit a murder lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 02:51 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADSame women are going to complain about male superficiality haha I love it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 01:59 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADMeeks had features about him that made him unique. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 01:58 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADNah, I agree with him. He's not Meeks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 01:49 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYeah but the trump shooter didn't dampen panties lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 01:38 AM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADSuprised there isn't a thread about him on here already lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 01:09 AM |
| 0 | Do most men on dating apps just try to match with virtually every woman?It's like playing the lottery? You're not expecting to actually match with these women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 05:04 PM |
| -1 | Do most men on dating apps just try to match with virtually every woman?What if some people just like fat women??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 04:38 PM |
| 6 | Women Chase and Casually Date Men Who Are Outliers That Can Provide Her Life ValueIf you're considered attractive then people are more willing to put up with your shit? this applies to both white men and white women lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 02:26 AM |
| 3 | Women Chase and Casually Date Men Who Are Outliers That Can Provide Her Life ValueWe both know being tall helps with dating regardless of race. We both know white people in general are the standard of beauty internationally. Why wouldn't it make it easier??? It's not a guarantee but it definitely helps your chances? https://www.npr.org/sections/codeswitch/2013/11/30/247530095/are-you-interested-dating-odds-favor-white-men-asian-women#:~:text=iStockphoto-,A%20recent%20study%20on%20data%20from%20a%20dating%20app%20found,notable%20exception)%20prefer%20Asian%20women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 02:19 AM |
| 3 | Women Chase and Casually Date Men Who Are Outliers That Can Provide Her Life ValueI'm sorry but in what world are women sleeping with average dudes who don't have fucking running water???? I personally never implied any of that. I did imply that being tall and white definitely helped women overlook some of the flaws like not having fucking utilities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 01:58 AM |
| 6 | Women Chase and Casually Date Men Who Are Outliers That Can Provide Her Life ValueFirst mistake was assuming I have OP's mindset and am arguing out of jealousy or insecurity. I don't really have a hard time dating despite being a minority. You keep saying you're 6'5 and have a dad bod and bum leg or whatever but like... what do you look like? You could be tall and good looking to women and not realize it? Most people either under/overestimate their own appearance. Being white definitely helps too. You've mentioned how many women you've slept with? cursory google search reveal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 01:55 AM |
| 4 | Women Chase and Casually Date Men Who Are Outliers That Can Provide Her Life ValueBar really is that low for tall white dudes eh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 01:45 AM |
| 2 | If men don’t have a right to sex, then women don’t have a right to abortion.Posts like this are this subreddit alienates me so much sometimes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 01:42 AM |
| 5 | Women Chase and Casually Date Men Who Are Outliers That Can Provide Her Life ValueYeah but how else is he supposed to justify his just world fallacy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 01:33 AM |
| 7 | Women Chase and Casually Date Men Who Are Outliers That Can Provide Her Life ValueI'm an average looking dude but I'm also 6'5 which is significantly taller than the average american male and have a body count of 35. I love the purple pill because it's the only place where I can read something like that and laugh because the person posted it with complete sincerity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 01:27 AM |
| 3 | Men ignore conventionally unattractive women (they aren't even on their radar), so they assume that all women are privileged in datingTrue, also he could pay for it. Wasn't there a post a few days ago about how most women wouldn't date someone who paid for sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 08:30 AM |
| 2 | If Spongebob didn't teach you marine biology, you shouldnt be using fiction to talk about women’s attraction.The most sexualized character in Pokémon is Misty, not Ash, despite Ash being the main character. wait till you discover Pokemon like Gardevoir or Lopunny lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They CouldI think his perception is that women have more options on OLD and thus can enjoy the experience and since most men are getting maybe a quarter of that it's harder to enjoy dating and get satisfaction out of it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They CouldCompatibility? You’re saying only female mouths and hands work on dicks? Gay and bi men would disagree. And I'm saying that as someone who's attracted to men that it doesn't work that way like at all. Of course I’ve never slept with a man I didn’t find attractive. Why would I sleep with a man I didn’t find attractive? You seem like the type who enjoys sex for the sake of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They Couldyeah? but like we all knew that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 06:55 PM |
| 0 | Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They CouldSexual attraction and compatibility aren't the same though. And you're telling me you've only slept with men you've found attractive?? not a single man was beneath your standards? Like it's wild when women use that argument. Something about it feels vaguely homophobic or whatever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They CouldHe's saying it's common sense that women would have an easier time finding hookups on a dating app | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 06:46 PM |
| 4 | Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They CouldIt's still different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 06:41 PM |
| 0 | Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They CouldThat's the neat part! It's all anecdotal with these people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 06:29 PM |
| -1 | Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They CouldYou don't have to be attractive to find hookups I hear stuff like this and I just don't believe it. I've been in scenarios where I've met someone and the next destination was the bedroom so I treated those an exception not the rule. I'm a relationship guy over hookups. I'm always looking for another perspective. I'm saying that men treat attractive women way better, even if they're only there for something casual. What I'm trying to say is that they may have treated you worse but aren't they sti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 06:24 PM |
| 9 | Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They CouldDon't think you need to be an attractive woman to find hookups on dating apps lmao just need to be dtf or whatever I'm also skeptical of anyone who dubs themself attractive online. Probably just white and moderately attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They CouldSex with the opposite gender? on grindr?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They CouldI heard it assumes you're a bot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 05:39 PM |
| 0 | Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They Couldso just more 80/20 bullshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 05:37 PM |
| 6 | Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They Couldnever understood the psychology of making comparison to gay hookup apps but alright | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Why does it seem many Mainstreams dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, paint themselves as "Progressive" and "Female Friendly" yet make most of their money from a large Male audience?Isn't it because Men want to date more than women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 09:34 PM |
| 3 | Correlation does not equal causation.A 4.0 GPA is stupidity maybe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 03:42 PM |
| 0 | Calling men "pornsick" is a distraction from the fact that social media has over-exposed women to choiceThe best evidence is anecdotal after all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Calling men "pornsick" is a distraction from the fact that social media has over-exposed women to choiceIts not like men are the ones who are getting icks over innocuous things What, like body count? I mean, I don't care necessarily that a woman has a higher body count than me. I've only been with one partner and I was with them for 5 years. I feel like when men watch porn it's just to get off. Feels a bit different than calling a guy and getting intimate when them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 11:31 PM |
| – | "you are not entitled to sex. It is not a necessity" is a bad argumentThis is good advice and ultimately why I got tired of posts like these. You want to have more casual sex? Then you need to be someone who people want to bang. Go to the gym, develop social skills, or be someone people want to be around. I feel like the people who complain just don't want to do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 12:44 AM |
| – | Women like to use restaurant dates as a way to test a man's finances and, to a much lesser extent, their manners.I would say the same thing. As a woman with literally hundreds of options, why would I settle for a guy who wants to take me for coffee? If you have hundreds of options it's more cost effective for the man to go low stakes? Paying a good amount of money for something that likely won't past a second date? How does that make sense for the man? Most men are dating multiple women because they've probably learned from experience to not put all their eggs in one basket. I assume until proven otherwise… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 10:30 AM |
| 7 | Question for women who make rules for some guys and break rules for others“women have an easier time having sex and getting into relationships and that makes me mad” meanwhile men do the exact same thing (typically) less successfully. It's the reason I left the subreddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 02:06 PM |
| 1 | What age is it weird to still live at home?Yeah okay. I'm sure your partner would love to get physical knowing mommy and daddy are next door | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 01:03 PM |
| 3 | What age is it weird to still live at home?I'm not sure why this person is arguing. Having a private space that you can exist independently of your parents is well worth the price of admission | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 04:31 PM |
| 2 | What age is it weird to still live at home?We have people doing that in America? lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 04:18 PM |
| 2 | What age is it weird to still live at home?I think we're already at the marriage part tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 04:10 PM |
| 2 | What age is it weird to still live at home?But all that money goes back to you? Like homeownership is one of the pathways to financial success in America. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 04:08 PM |
| 1 | men only dislike ‘hookup culture’ when they can’t participate in itIt just seems like something fun everyone's doing and I guess it's FOMO... I'm not bitter or anything, I've got my own issues to sort out career/housing wise but I was in a committed relationship for most of my 20's and I just really started dating again this year. I didn't get to have casual sex in college and sometimes I wish I had instead of commiting to one girl for a long time. I'm more jealous that people don't have any anxieties with casual sex with strangers and feel comfortable enough w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 12:19 AM |
| 4 | men only dislike ‘hookup culture’ when they can’t participate in itYou might be onto something with that! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 10:12 PM |
| 8 | Research on women's aversion to bisexual menA whole paragraph to justify your bullshit biphobia | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many men obsessed with being the top guy when they know most men will never be the top guy?No, they'd be top guys like you said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many men obsessed with being the top guy when they know most men will never be the top guy?I dated a girl who made it and she said the same thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many men obsessed with being the top guy when they know most men will never be the top guy?And hot guys are usually considered what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many men obsessed with being the top guy when they know most men will never be the top guy?That's not entirely true Lilith, Hobosexuals exist for a reason. It's not about either, it's about being a "top percenter" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 06:32 PM |
| 8 | Why are so many men obsessed with being the top guy when they know most men will never be the top guy?And being the "alpha" doesn't bring hot women wanting to fuck them? what's the common denominator here? And you didn't really answer. Most people probably won't make 6 figures but it doesn't stop them from trying because they know the benefit of achieving that goal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Women are only “loney” if they choose to beHappened to me ¯_(ツ)_/¯ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 05:06 PM |
| 11 | Why are so many men obsessed with being the top guy when they know most men will never be the top guy?Why are so many people obsessed with making 6 figures? despite knowing most people won't make that level of income | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 04:46 PM |
| 5 | Light "creepy behavior" can be flirtatious and playful if she personally finds you attractiveI feel like OP was commenting on the double standard more or less | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 03:43 AM |
| 1 | The double standard: man has alot of sexual partners = good. Woman has alot of sexual partners = bad. Is misunderstood.Getting laid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 12:59 PM |
| 1 | The double standard: man has alot of sexual partners = good. Woman has alot of sexual partners = bad. Is misunderstood.I wish there was like a qualitive survey because I really doubt average men have an easier time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 12:40 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The ultimate reason dating is very hard for guys here is a lack of personal responsibility.I agree with you but it's not the point I was trying to make | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 04:12 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The ultimate reason dating is very hard for guys here is a lack of personal responsibility.What's the point you're trying to make? I'd argue a decent chunk of women (at least on reddit) admit to having a "hoe phase" its dishonest to imply most aren't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 03:55 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The ultimate reason dating is very hard for guys here is a lack of personal responsibility.Doubt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 03:48 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The ultimate reason dating is very hard for guys here is a lack of personal responsibility.Maybe women should stop taking them? There's clearly a percentage of women who take advantage of the gender ratio on dating apps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 03:34 PM |
| – | Porn should be replaced with healthy prostitution to restore the power imbalance among genders in modern dating.One of those is shame free apartmenty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 06:05 PM |
| – | Porn should be replaced with healthy prostitution to restore the power imbalance among genders in modern dating.Can men buy sex without being shamed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 05:46 PM |
| 7 | Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optionalIsn't most dating done online anyway? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Since we live in artificial times why don't we implement artificial solutions? Make a dating app which allows women 50 swipes per day while men are only allowed 1 swipe per day.Hinge does a 10 a day so that's not really a lot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Since we live in artificial times why don't we implement artificial solutions? Make a dating app which allows women 50 swipes per day while men are only allowed 1 swipe per day.All of them limit swipes now. They've done for that awhile | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Since we live in artificial times why don't we implement artificial solutions? Make a dating app which allows women 50 swipes per day while men are only allowed 1 swipe per day.Don't most apps lock unlimited swiping? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Women often complain about lack of male friendships and getting "fuckzoned". But the truth is, women generally just aren't as good of friends as men.The username gives it away | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 09:24 PM |
| 7 | Women often complain about lack of male friendships and getting "fuckzoned". But the truth is, women generally just aren't as good of friends as men.Explain? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 09:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Height matters A LOT to womenYou're telling short men that they might face problems on OLD. That's like me telling a gay duds that homophobia exists. Why are you conforming something they already know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 05:03 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Guys should jerk off more if the can't get laid constantly????????? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Being a short guy is not the dating handicap its made out to be.In terms of it being a handicap? I know career wise it's a barrier but I'm not sure it's a barrier dating wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 08:51 PM |
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