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My dad is the strongest role model in my life because he’s vulnerable and open with the people he cares about, and guess what? He had two parents. He chose to be more empathetic to the people around him when he became a father, and I grew up always knowing I could depend on him emotionally for whatever I needed, and as I got older, I learned to help him through what he dealt with as well. My father is emotional, but he’s the strongest man I know because he can connect with people on a far better…
/r/MensRights08/08/25 07:45 PM
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It’s sad you feel the need to keep up that guard. My dad is my best friend, my biggest role model and the strongest man I know, and I’m so close to him because he knows it’s alright to be vulnerable and let himself drop that stoic bullshit for the people he loves and cares about. His ex wife, my mom, was a piece of shit, and did take advantage of him, because that was ONE woman out of countless others and he left her and found someone he could be vulnerable around who didn’t take advantage of hi…
/r/MensRights08/08/25 12:07 AM
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Reddit can be as well. If you’re not into the red pill misogynist mindset (you said you didn’t want to be called a misogynist, and I get the vibe you’re genuinely curious) I’d be careful even with this subreddit. I agree there are societal double standards and have witnessed them firsthand, but make sure you’re following the right kinds of advice with places like this
/r/MensRights07/08/25 09:19 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with being affected by words, what matters is how you handle what’s said to you. This guy is talking out of his ass saying you need to be stoic otherwise you’re weak and emotional. Being emotional isn’t a bad thing, and it’s far more productive and far better for you and relationships with friends and family if you are emotionally intelligent and are able to express what words do to you. It’s not a problem that you feel emotion when people say things, it’s a natural thing. …
/r/MensRights07/08/25 09:17 PM
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Believe me, the internet speaks louder than real life here. You said this was your first tweet on this subreddit, which makes me think you’re on twitter a lot. Honestly twitter is just full of people who like to fight, and isn’t worth putting thought into especially for social justice
/r/MensRights07/08/25 09:11 PM
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The fact that she got off on one year for cold blooded murder is disgusting.
/r/MensRights28/07/23 12:16 AM
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I went to a seminar for kidnapping prevention, and a lot of the stuff being taught was that it wasn't safe to seek help from a man, but it was safe to seek help from any woman. That's not safe to teach children at all. There are women predators, there are women who might help other men kidnap children- A lot of the time, even in my case, mothers are willing to kidnap children for some reason or another. It's not uncommon for a woman to take/harm a child and it's ridiculous that men are the only …
/r/MensRights01/07/23 04:41 AM
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I had a stalker who was a woman (I am a woman as well) and even in my case her obsession was written off as just her being friendly. If it were a man stalking me then people would be all over it. It's a ridiculous double standard.
/r/MensRights15/06/23 03:36 PM
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I grew up more as a tomboy and my dad from a young age taught me how to deal with my own problems face to face and I've never found myself really falling into the mindset of letting myself be a victim to whatever societal shit people are talking about. Also, maybe it's because of the way my family was, but I was treated worse and oppressed by my mom, who expected me to do all the chores and childcare (of course while degrading me) while my dad was my best friend who always took care of and taugh…
/r/MensRights09/06/23 06:04 AM
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I didn't even know that June was Men's mental health month- I guess I'll just start celebrating it alongside Pride then.
/r/MensRights05/06/23 09:01 AM
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The main problem I see with this is the fact that they see roles that are mutually agreed upon as oppressive. Like bruh. Why can't people live their lives the way they want to? If someone wants a traditional household where the wife cooks and cleans then why is that a problem? It's entirely different if she's expected or forced to fit that role.
/r/MensRights05/06/23 06:27 AM
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This is so fucked up. How could someone be this twisted and demented that they genuinely believe that murdering children is going to help in any way shape or form?
/r/MensRights03/06/23 02:46 AM
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In my opinion, in a case like this, your feelings and your wellbeing are more important, but if you've come to terms with this and aren't upset with it, then I guess that's that.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 08:47 PM
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That's rape. That wasn't consensual because you were unconscious at the time that she did that. It's one thing if you give consent beforehand to that kind of thing, but that doesn't seem to be the case here. Unfortunately cases like these aren't taken as seriously in a lot of places (idk about Sweden but at least in the US it's not), but I'd say it's still worth a shot talking to law enforcement. Good luck, OP. Also- if possible, don't talk to her any more than you have to because if she's willi…
/r/MensRights27/05/23 11:36 PM
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As long as both parties are consenting I don't see an issue, but the problem arises when safewords are ignored and things are taken too far. There was a post on this sub not too long ago of a man who was assaulted when his one night stand began to ignore the safeword and straight up abused him. If that's what you're into, that's your preference but consent is a two way street and there are gross people on both sides who will ignore it.
/r/MensRights20/05/23 07:21 PM
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I really hope you can get that sorted out so you can regularly see your son. Your ex sounds horrible, and that statement that your son didn't deserve a turtle from your wife just breaks my heart. Best of luck to you, OP.
/r/MensRights20/05/23 02:24 AM
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The argument that "You didn't pay this month" when it comes to a custody case is not only petty but just- bruh- you're pretty much extorting money at that point. The legal system really doesn't care about dads wanting to see their kids and to me it sounds like your ex wife is the kind of person to tell the kid you didn't want to see him even though you seem to care a lot about him
/r/MensRights19/05/23 10:42 PM
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I'm glad that he's out now, but the fact that it took 20 years for the truth to finally be heard is just sickening.
/r/MensRights18/05/23 05:05 AM
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I'm so sorry you had to go through that. What she did to you is absolutely disgusting and you didn't deserve to get hurt the way she hurt you. I hope you can bring her to justice, and if not I hope you can find whatever support you need to cope with such a horrible ordeal. You've got support here, OP. Good luck with everything.
/r/MensRights18/05/23 02:25 AM
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It's comments like these that help me point out the bad incels. Generalization on both sides is bad, and neither side notices that.
/r/MensRights27/03/23 06:41 PM
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I agree with some of the things you're saying- but you lost me about halfway through
/r/MensRights27/03/23 06:40 PM
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People just love to hide under good causes and social justice to justify their degenerate behavior
/r/MensRights26/03/23 07:44 AM
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I really hope you can emotionally recover from something like that. I had to deal with someone like that too, and I know how draining it can be even after spending a lot of time away. Good luck, OP
/r/MensRights26/03/23 01:09 AM
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This woman is absolutely fuckin' insane- Good god- From what I saw in other comments you've been no contact a while, but I'm worried to know what else you've dealt with with her.
/r/MensRights25/03/23 03:48 AM
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It makes me happy seeing fellow women feminists who actually agree that men should be treated better in legal cases like this. Honestly, it's so refreshing after such a long time of these things being ignored in the name of social justice
/r/MensRights23/03/23 06:47 PM
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Plus what she did is also illegal (in the US at least) because he's underage
/r/MensRights23/03/23 02:39 AM
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The thing that pisses me off about scenarios like this is that you know full well that if the roles were reversed the book would be thrown at the teacher. But no. Women apparently aren't capable of rape and all children who just happened to be born with a penis don't have the same ability to be damaged by that as women do. It's bullshit. Men should be able to get support for this, and women need to be held accountable for the things they do wrong.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 02:38 AM
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Get a goddamn lawyer. Also why the fuck do people like OP's ex wife get to get away with allegations like this with just a goddamn slap on the wrist? They're sour about a breakup (for financial, emotional or whatever the fuck else reasons), and so they decide to RUIN someone's life over it it's childish and dangerous.
/r/MensRights16/03/23 03:49 AM
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The fact that a romeo and juliet law even exists is just- so gross- I know 16-17 isn't young but it's still high school age
/r/MensRights13/03/23 11:51 PM
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They never like to say men can be raped. What she is guilty of is literally classified as rape. Sexual relations with a minor, is statutory rape regardless of if it was consensual or not.
/r/MensRights13/03/23 06:09 AM
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Your mother and sister should face prison time for that. That's disgusting, and I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. I hope you've been able to get whatever help you need to get through the trauma I'm sure that event has caused you.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 11:37 PM
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These people are so desperate to be victims they entirely ignore the fact that there are people out there who have been harmed and victimized who deserve just as much support as they do.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 11:34 PM
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This is the kind of mentality I like. Don't tell your daughter to be afraid of men. Teach your daughter how to defend herself and fight.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 11:32 PM
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I can hardly manage going outside during the day. Make it dark and it's instantly bad
/r/MensRights10/03/23 10:24 AM
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Of course I was, because that's the best insult those people can cook up lol I'm starting to think these people are just clones considering how similarly they talk
/r/MensRights10/03/23 10:22 AM
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Well, my take on that is regardless of who's mentioning what I'm wearing, people should mind their own damn business unless there's a good reason to point it out. I don't agree with the whole stance that men are dangerous because all men sexualize women because that's just simply not true and it's an unfair generalization, but I do think that if someone's being creepy (regardless of gender) and causing an issue, they should be called out for it. If it's just a few odd stares or a comment or two …
/r/MensRights10/03/23 09:05 AM
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It's funny how ignorant these so called social justice warriors can be. I agree that some good change has been made as a result of activism in recent years, but this new wave of feminism is just sexism with tits. Oh, and the sensitivity from these people as well makes me laugh every time- You say a mean word or tell them to grow up and they can't take it.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 08:59 AM
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At least I've got something worth bragging about, and unlike you I don't have the personality of a dumpster fire.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 08:56 AM
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Right right, of course of course
/r/MensRights10/03/23 08:53 AM
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Honestly, people really neglect that men need support too and that's just so sad.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 05:51 AM
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Women are 100% capable of a lot of things men are capable of! Lifting weights, running long distances, working a more difficult job, sexual assault, and domestic violence, manipulation the list goes on- But you see, modern feminists like to only point out the positive things and not the negative things that women can and have done in the past with no punishment
/r/MensRights10/03/23 05:49 AM
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The existence of international women's day is stupid, just saying.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 05:47 AM
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I'm a woman, and I get that being sexualized, followed and harassed is just really annoying and can be scary or even traumatic- Oh that and period fucking suck.But men can be sexualized, harassed, attacked, abused and hurt too. Sure, they don't have periods- but why is it their fault the female reproductive system is stupid once a month?? Anyway- I'm getting sidetracked. Men are treated like shit in normal scenarios. Mental health? Little to no support groups compared to women. Education? Same s…
/r/MensRights10/03/23 05:45 AM
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That's totally normal to expect of her. As a woman myself, I'd say this is reasonable for anyone really, regardless. It's just overall safe in general to have a boundary like that set
/r/MensRights10/03/23 05:37 AM
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Oh, right. Apparently being able to flee the country is worse than being held back and forbidden to leave. Right.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 05:01 AM
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And people just love to say that the system isn't biased towards women. Unbelievable that she didn't even get a slap on the wrist for raping a 13 year old boy.
/r/MensRights07/03/23 07:00 AM
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They've got a shield for the sole reason that they're women
/r/MensRights03/03/23 10:05 PM
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The thing that's always bothered me about stuff like this is that these people will always point out things that they deep as "toxic masculinity" and say that it's only a thing men are capable of- Then ignore that they do the exact same things but it's not given any kind of name or term
/r/MensRights03/03/23 08:54 AM
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These people just love to ignore the fact that their activism isn't pushing for equality or a better overall society. All it's doing is causing harm. Reading stuff like this makes me wanna give my dad a hug and let him know I appreciate him, because I feel like two days out of the year just isn't enough.
/r/MensRights02/03/23 10:09 AM
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That and women have more attempts they survive from. Yet another reason to go give my dad a hug next time I see him
/r/MensRights01/03/23 05:21 AM
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I think their point was comparing it to a mental disorder, not saying it was a mental disorder
/r/MensRights26/02/23 06:51 PM
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It's not fixing any issues or creating equality, it's just trying to get a leg up on the other person and use your status as a crutch
/r/MensRights26/02/23 07:16 AM
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In my opinion, you shouldn't be a dick to a person who's fat- However being fat shouldn't be encouraged
/r/MensRights26/02/23 06:38 AM
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It's always bothered me when there's evidence right in people's face that they're wrong but they still continue to push their point
/r/MensRights25/02/23 08:24 PM
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That's exactly what the Johnny Depp case was like. Even his ex wife admitted there wasn't any abuse in their relationship
/r/MensRights25/02/23 04:42 AM
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There are people I know in my day to day life who genuinely still believe that men can't be victims and trying to argue with them is like trying to argue with a brick wall
/r/MensRights25/02/23 04:41 AM
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It's always bothered me seeing people who still say that women have no privilege when it comes to the legal system. Entire custody battles over children are decided based on the gender of a parent. Court cases- criminal sentencing- Overall women are given much more consideration when it comes to crap like this, but people still argue that women are oppressed by the law.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 10:12 AM
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Turns out he's in my area today to pick my brothers up so imma go longboarding with him instead.
/r/MensRights08/02/23 06:47 PM
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I remember having a conversation with a friend at lunch (we're no longer friends just to clarify now) and our parents came up. Her parents (Mother was aged 56 and her father was 30) have quite an age gap between them. My parents (birthgiver 33 and father 34) don't have as much of an age gap, but apparently the fact that they got married when my dad was 18 and birthgiver was 17 (religious pressure but that's another story) my dad was a predator. It just doesn't make sense to me why this is the wa…
/r/MensRights08/02/23 08:08 AM
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Anything a man is capable of a woman is capable of as well in terms of abuse and manipulation. We need to start normalizing that fact
/r/MensRights08/02/23 08:01 AM
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Buzzwords! If they doctor it up and make it point towards some kind of minority people are more likely to read it Oh, right and of course- apparently men don't matter because society and whatnot- Imma text my dad real quick and let him know how much I appreciate him
/r/MensRights08/02/23 07:56 AM
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You really just can't win in some situations can you- If the roles were reversed the reaction would be much different
/r/MensRights16/01/23 09:49 PM
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Apparently men are meant to be tough and shoulder all the weight put on them. That in my opinion is bullshit. There needs to be more support for male victims of abuse and assault, and the action taken needs to be just as severe as if a man hit a woman.
/r/MensRights09/01/23 02:24 AM
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Hopefully more people will stand up and try to make a difference for the better.
/r/MensRights09/01/23 02:22 AM
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Abuse is abuse no matter who it's coming from, and I hope I'm alive to see the day that fact is taken into account legally
/r/MensRights09/01/23 02:21 AM
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My mom cried to everyone she could when my dad finally cut her off, saying he was abusive and cruel and manipulative- In reality he's the sweetest person I've ever met and even though he's a bodybuilder with tattoos, it takes a shit ton of provoking to get him to snap- and by that I mean actual days of consistent jabbing. I've seen both sides of abuse firsthand, and growing up I learned to find both sides of the story before making a decision. It can be hard to not want to take someone's side be…
/r/MensRights08/01/23 05:19 PM
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If I (a woman) saw this happening I wouldn't be afraid to just bitch slap this chick. People say that women are defenseless against men- but if a man fights back against abuse he's seen as the abusive one, and therefore he's defenseless from a legal standpoint. If a man were to slap a woman in public he'd get beaten up and arrested. If a woman were to slap a man she'd be applauded and encouraged. I've seen this happen countless times with my own parents and it makes me sick.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 05:15 PM
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Give me a source, and another shit to give because I've run out
/r/MensRights08/01/23 05:04 PM
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It bothers me so much that men are treated in such a way that by default they're seen as dangerous. Sure, there are dangerous men out there, but there are dangerous women out there too. What feminists want isn't equality. They want control. My own mother was abusive to myself and my family, and when my father ever made any move to fight back, even if she had a knife in her hand, she'd threaten to call the cops because she knew her side would be taken in the matter. My dad has always been my best…
/r/MensRights08/01/23 05:01 PM
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It makes me happy to see more and more of these things showing up. My dad wasn't taken seriously until the very end of the legal struggles with my family, and even then he was screwed over. There needs to be a lot more done about how men are viewed not only in the media but in the legal system as well.
/r/MensRights12/12/22 07:38 PM
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