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I think you know exactly what you did wrong, so I don't need to mention it. You can't salvage this. Attraction isn't a choice but it appears you killed it. Don't bother replying. Delete her. Move on. If she makes an effort to come back, however, proceed with caution.
/r/seduction27/11/17 07:35 PM
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And save the texts or whatever proof you have in case it bites you in the ass. I'm with this guy.
/r/seduction16/11/17 08:26 PM
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OP, pleaseee listen to that guy. This girl is clearly not worth it if she's sending mixed signals this early on. Plus, you're in high school and she's wondering what the point is of you too are about to graduate (my opinion). What's there to lose, right? Get out of this relationship. You don't need a girl like this in your life. Jail time is NOT worth one gal.
/r/seduction16/11/17 08:23 PM
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Ahhh, I see. I think you need to sit down and really figure out what you want. The last thing you want is to look at this in terms of some deficiency that you have, and "work" to fix yourself. Rather, you want to improve what you've got. Not having any one night stands is not a bad thing, so don't let anyone here tell you otherwise. It's simply a preference. If you decide that you don't have time for long term commitments but want some fun, learn pickup. If you're more of a long term guy, work t…
/r/seduction13/11/17 05:27 AM
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I think that sticking to this sub and learning more about working with your strengths to build confidence will do you well in the long run. As far as the cute cashier girl goes... I got an idea. Go bold. The key to a good bold move (according to Mark Manson's "Models," I think) is acknowledging that what you're doing is out of the ordinary. So you could walk into her workplace, not order anything and say "I know it's not exactly common for guys to come in here without ordering and asking you out…
/r/seduction12/11/17 10:15 PM
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Agreed. In my opinion, I'd wait until 8 - 9 PM when they're winding down or getting done with work. Less room for them to make an excuse about being at work/being busy. That's why if you notice, too many dating apps send you a notification around 9 letting you know it's "rush hour."
/r/seduction12/11/17 10:01 PM
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I'm glad to hear things went well! Take note of what went well and what didn't. Seriously. Just by examining these things, your mind has a way of making you repeat the good and leave out the bad without too much conscious energy. Like ibsaod before, if you plan on going there regularly, become friends with the staff. Best way to get a bartender to remember you? Fold their tip into origami. I swear. Last weekend I got a kiss on both cheeks from a cute bartender simply because she loved an origami…
/r/seduction12/11/17 09:57 PM
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And to answer your original questions, I go out twice a week on average, I go out to have fun and approaching women is a consequence of that, game is a life long thing and it took me a year to get where I'm at, and I listen to 90s music (and sing along) to get that social energy kick started when I go out solo.
/r/seduction12/11/17 08:03 AM
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I think this is the ultimate question. Authenticity comes to mind. Many of my scores were girls who were just as broken as me. Like attracts like. So being true to yourself is ultimately the goal, here. Pickup is definitely something that can be learned but not reigned. Not for long anyways, not as long as you're seeking something meaningful (which it sounds to me, you are). I too, suffer from depression as well as anxiety. Get it treated. I take medicine and see a therapist at least once every …
/r/seduction12/11/17 08:00 AM
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If I made a book suggestion that encompasses everything you mentioned, would you actually read it? I ask because I make the suggestion and no one ever does.
/r/seduction12/11/17 07:48 AM
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I think you needed to vent, more than to problem-solve. Do you feel like you're not being genuine when you game? That's the only thing I can think of that could explain why you keep losing the chick. I could elaborate. But first, tell me about this hobby of yours... Lol
/r/seduction12/11/17 07:20 AM
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Oooo fuck. If you're gonna drink, limit it. Pick a Spanish beer. Corona WITH A SLICE OF LIME. You'll fit right in. Most of the music will have the same exact beat. It's called reggeatton. Know how to grind? Good. If a girl is dancing with a group of girls, you can usually slide in if you're confident in your moves. The key is eye contact. You'll know if she wouldn't mind dancing with you if she smiles. Eye contact but no smile? No go.
/r/seduction12/11/17 07:09 AM
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First of all, respect 👌 analyze what went well and what didn't. Secondly, don't let this turn into one-itis. You did your part, now cherish the memories and now on to the next. Use this as a boost. Feel confident in knowing you're capable of scoring older, hotter girls!
/r/seduction12/11/17 12:17 AM
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I have a book that's not too bad either. Rules of the Game by Neil Strauss. I know, his first book (The Game) was garbage. But I learned more game in this one than the last one. It presents you with a 30 day challenge, each one progressively tougher than the next. If you're a pretty determined guy, it may be worth it. It also offers openers, field reports, and more. Definitely an improvement from The Game.
/r/seduction12/11/17 12:06 AM
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Try coming up with your own social anxiety ladder. Google it. It'll transform your life.
/r/seduction11/11/17 11:04 PM
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Good for you, man. Keep on trucking 👌
/r/seduction11/11/17 10:45 PM
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In my opinion, no. The book is 40% stories of the author (Corey Wayne) scoring, 10% him complaining about his wife, and the remaining 50% him saying "Google 'Corey Wayne (INSERT BLOG ARTICLE TITLE HERE). "
/r/seduction11/11/17 10:44 PM
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Models for sure. I own the game, the pickup artist and the mystery method (both by Mystery), the art of seduction, no more Mr. Nice guy, how to be a 3% man by Corey Wayne, and what women want in a man. Models is the best. The audio version of "what women want in a man" by Bruce bryans is good too as a primer. I like these two books because they encompass everything that the other books teach but they acknowledge that being alpha isn't the route for everyone (and can kind of be counter-intuitive)…
/r/seduction11/11/17 08:13 AM
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Nice! I'm trying to improve my cold game too. You can't be afraid to go out alone. Tip: Get to know the staff. The place I like to go to by myself is a martini bar with Latin nights on Thursdays so I (usually) know the DJ, the bouncer and a few bartenders. Coming off as a regular increases social proof and overral just gives you more confidence.
/r/seduction11/11/17 08:08 AM
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Yes and no. Be amiable but don't be needy (double texts, phone tag, sending gifts, etc.) Keep playing the game. Treat the one-itis first and have her see within you what she's missing. Girls can pick up on little things like that (if they are genuine).
/r/seduction09/11/17 07:05 AM
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Neither. You appear to have one-itis. She appears to be playing the field. You did your part, now let her come to you before you start to come off as needy.
/r/seduction08/11/17 07:54 AM
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Say a variation of it. But definitely not like this.
/r/seduction07/11/17 04:42 AM
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I think this is the slap in the face I needed. Please accept my thanks.
/r/seduction01/11/17 04:44 AM
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