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I think pair bonding is a myth because how many women you see that is pair bonded with any man? In general?? I actually believe it's men that ties their successes and worth towards sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:16 AM
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I know a woman that stop taking bc (to try for a baby with her husband) only to have near zero attraction afterwards....how can such medication exists 😤 treating women bodies like toys honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:11 AM
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If he didn't have money he would be screwed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 10:04 PM
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Yes she's leagues above him, look at him. Truly never understood successful men not even putting 1% or even .1% of their wealth towards their looks. Then getting shocked x wanted your money or x disrespected you or x is using you....like duh? What else does he have?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:39 PM
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In almost every photo of him he's is like the least attractive guy in the group. Most asians, esp men dont really take care of their appearance though. This is from a hetero girl too, she's easy on the eyes until she opens her mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:13 PM
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Its because hes indian, and believe only brown women will actually find him attractive....he also only wants to date indian women who never dated white men before....clearly his insecurities blinded him
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 12:05 AM
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Honestly I don't even know her, but if your gonna marry leagues above your own looks, you gotta be blind to overlook her disgust Even his friends call him out when the husband said "she is a virgin, and looking at her it's hard to believe", and his friend literally says "and you believe her?"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 12:03 AM
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How was she describing hypergamy? Attractive men tend to have more options and tend to sleep around. I thought hypergamy was women not being satisfied with her partner and wanting up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:57 PM
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Its honestly worse than sex work, I see men blaming feminism for destroying and shaming stay at home mothers and being a housewife. But genuinely, at least sex work you get paid and get to leave 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:48 AM
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What's a man cave? Did women also have one? Where she can literally hide and have her husband pick up the work and do the hosting? Or how about doctors/teachers have a 80% chance of calling the child's mom than their dad? Or when people praise a dad walking his kids as he's "baby-sitting the kids". She is right, top 5 divorce reasons and leads to resentment is unfair division of labor. Maybe the CIA also funded weaponized incompetence too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:42 AM
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Male fantasy, its amazing that married men see themselves desirable. I'm in my 20s and STILL don't find men in their 30s smoking. At all. If your wife isn't fcking you raw, chances are most women arnt going either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:32 AM
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Its extremely typical, the women who shoot down men will never miss that type of man. The desperation is an instant turn off, the most successful PUA is a man who let's women come to him. Don't approach, be approachable. Btw small talk is an absolute chore when women cannot just simply exist and be lost in a book, I can guarantee she enjoys a random man talking her up the same way you find a slug on your shoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:20 AM
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I dont think its high standards, just difference in attraction. Like I like tall men =/= I like men that are 7ft tall. Is the same as I like big breasts =/= I like big FF breasts BUT must be natural AND she cannot be over 120lbs. Men like saying it's high standards for shorter/avg height women to lust over tall men, as if flat chested men dont lust over breasts lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:11 PM
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Yeah, dude men dgaf about women's height, it's more like: is she pretty ✅️ does she want me ✅️ and that's pretty much it. Very few men are picky about height, esp if it's just for a lay and she wants it. If anything men show off how short their gf is to other women so they think about their size difference "down there". I forgot who, but theirs a hockey player and his gf, and all the comments were basically saying how lucky she is and how does he fit True. Most men want to be the taller ones, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:08 PM
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Yeah sure lol tall men truly just want to get laid, and short women whole kink is the size difference 🤷🏻‍♀️ you cant tell me these men are victims lol once they have a 5'6 son they blame the son
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 08:57 PM
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The thing is tall men don't care, if their wife is 4'11 or 5'11, so these standards are being reinforced as well. Some tall men actually prefer shorter women, so it's a mutual fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:39 PM
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Chris Hemsworth does nothing to me, its strange that avg men don't feel happier knowing women arnt into juiced up men. Like, doesn't that make it easier for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:36 PM
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Money doesn't make a man attractive, but a target. You must be over 40 if you believe that. Do you really believe women get wet and masterbate with thoughts of his money?? How bizarre lol And what allure? Look at the college girls getting into F1 (yes even earth loving vegan art ho3s) because there's a few hotties driving. Compare those groupie to a irl girls dgaf about cars, the fastest most expensive car is hot...until a middle age man comes out. Tbh Im amazed at the "women" men are able to sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 06:58 AM
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Lol yeah no way, every single open/poly couple I had ever seen is a mid woman with 4 or 5 men. The ones that are married that let their husbands cheat isn't poly/open, but sugaring, and 9/10 she married for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 06:22 AM
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Women like men with makeup lol in fact it's men that is uncomfortable with how much women like that type. What is wrong with eyeliner? Or lip gloss? Beauty is beauty. That's like saying a woman is no longer attractive if she switches to short hair or a suit instead of her dress. Tbh I think the whole idea of marriage is outdated. Many and I many women marry men they don't even desire. It's just that these poor women want children and/or can't afford to live alone. I HATE cheating, that betrayal …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:01 AM
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Average is most common. Not mid. Or at least that's how I see it, mid is not only ordinary, its invisible. Zero baseline of lust or attraction. Men can beautify themselves and peacock to the female gaze. Just like how the average woman shaves, diet, shops, uses makeup/skincare etc. Ex. Humans love cleavage, then what's the male equivalent. Same thing with thick hair, clear skin, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:17 AM
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Mid should not be goal, your not born mid
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:12 AM
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No mid men are rarely successful in anything, including with mid women tbh. When I said more success, I meant for those that take care of their appearance prior to arriving
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:47 AM
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Mid women get married they dont really go clubbing/partying. Hooter mentality is truly normalized men to buy their way in. Women dont do this. Men should wear makeup too. Most married men aren't hot, married men ATTEMPT to cheat more, also their wives dont initiate/deadbedroom. Most men that are hot...is just hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:29 AM
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I'm attacking the selfishness of it all. I don't get the analogy that women should just put up with it. Men like hot women even if they're unattainable like a sports car? Can we seriously stop pretending women just should be happy with absolutely nothing? Your just spreading the misery, imagine getting dolled up and when you enter the party you see it's majority men and they clearly did not spend a minute trying to impress. Its tacky and rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 01:12 AM
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Women can def use sex workers too, tinder and hookup culture is just free dck tbh. I think women just feel insulted to pay and well male sex workers arnt pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:10 PM
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18/teen/step daughter/baby sitter/daughters friend/daughter in law etc categories place value that old men can still win if there dck is large enough or their abs are rock hard. But the reality is women dgaf what's underneath if the face isn't pretty. Even more so if shes surrounded by men her type too. Thats also why redpill men call these women "alpha widowed" (dated chad in the past and get move on), or the men poor "beta bucks" (she married you for your money at 30s, but her 20s she gave her…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:08 PM
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Probably because many women settle or actually will sleep with a man just for his money/citizenship etc. Ofc she doesn't find him attractive, but its a kept secret. Even he isn't fully aware that he's unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:39 AM
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Tbh those women are being nice. If they enter the dating field or being honest...yeah hot men after 40 IS RARE
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:29 AM
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More success, more joy for both parties, more positive interactions, more relationships/marriages/birth rates etc etc The whole gender war will stop the second men take care of themselves like how women are expected. Most men just don't know where to start or like you two believe "why should they care"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:26 AM
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40 is just as extreme to someone half his age and lmao the cope if hes a hot multi millionaire than...yeah okay, but if hes mid and just a regular 40yo...then why on earth when I can get with his son, go to parties, go to uni, or quite literally download an app and get access to hotties near me and my age?? And no one's prime is 36 holy cow, you would miss all the firsts of life if you thought that. That's genuinely middle aged. Success =/= lust
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:21 AM
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Most men in the audience are chopped tbh, its just HUGE run ways is only for press or invite only. Going to a small scale runway you actually see more attractive people without all the fuss
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 04:17 AM
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I wish men had eyes. EVERYONE gets a dopamine hit from seeing hot people be fr. Kpop fans are unhinged, and mostly women. Tiktok runs on your dopamine hill. But I'm gonna be honest, no one kills the mood faster than a bunch of mid men entering the event. Like actual bug spray. That's why, and I'm not even joking, there is one hottie men use as bait to lure in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 04:15 AM
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Dude are you 40? Women LOVE booktok, esp women in their 20s, heck booktok/smut saved bookstores/Barnes and Noble nationwide. And wattpad/ao3/fanfics and all kinds of y/n thrist traps was what gen z women grew up with. Definitely not for older women only.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:51 AM
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The women who follow him were part of his cult, which he had brainwashed since the beginning. He used sex and LSD/drugs to make them submit to him, he also had male followers. I wouldn't say he has fangirls, but followers, some believe he is innocent to this day. Not that he is "too hot/cute for jail". Also, most of the women were just as deranged as he, not the avg woman going gaga over this lunatic. I'm talking about the Boston bomber guy (too cute for death row), Jeremy Meeks(hot mugshot mode…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 05:27 AM
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The ones w fangirls/fandom are very few attractive ones...like not even 20 of them. The avg murder is rotting in his cell.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:01 AM
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😭😭 it's true tho, if he doesn't have a tricycle how can he protect me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 11:59 PM
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I see way to many unattractive female teachers also getting a pass for grooming. I think men just dgaf honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 11:58 PM
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This is gonna sound so racist, but if black/poc woman can date a white man to get out of the hood...they would. No one wants a thug. They look pathetic, atp it's survival. So many black/poc women know white men dont find them attractive, its all their media. That's why they're so "loyal" to their own race.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 11:57 PM
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They want to be desired, that's what they mean by her "first choice", as in you sleept w him on the first week of knowing him, =/= 1st choice as in the top 1%. Most people are avg, but we arnt treated the same
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 06:33 PM
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They dont want to marry woman, they want to be her first choice. They value both, otherwise if women truly get horny for engineers/doctors, we would see more men w degrees
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:56 PM
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Its a little flawed. Most men desire having a harem and having different women competing and fighting over him. But in reality men in open/poly relationship are just soft cucks, they can't tell their wife/gf to stop seeing their bfs or dont get that many women (if any). The ones that are actually get to experience it is maybe 5% of men, and they enjoy it because they dont share their women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:24 PM
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r/WomenAreNotIntoMen I also think women dont desire their husbands but their use, once use is gone = divorce. Marriage is almost unnatural I agree tho, the avg man marries to secure sex. I actually believe marriage was by and for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:01 PM
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Maybe I'm similar but most first love stories has that limerence effect. I do agree him dying and never getting to age added to their love story being cut short appeal. But regardless if it's love or limerence, she still thinks of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 04:57 PM
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Not surprising at all your a male that's not into fwb, every single poly/open/casual/dating a bed actress situation the man looks like he's being tortured lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:17 AM
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Fwb just means women acknowledge your sexually desirable, the avg man can go years without compliments, while for women that's not really the case as most women's issue is screening men who only want her body/sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:10 AM
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Funny enough theyre also do better than married couples, its not single mothers vs single fathers, but single fathers vs married men
/r/MensRights14/09/25 08:02 PM
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Even if Jack isn't her true love, he clearly meant a lot to her if she remembers him that clearly even in her death bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:40 PM
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That his words only. Women 10000% don't flinch at visibly attractive men (sadly)
/r/MensRights14/09/25 06:16 AM
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Are the unemployed thugs hot? That's prob the central theme
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 03:57 AM
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When you age, both red and blue pill have the same reality, after 40 if you dont have a family, you tend not to. The red pill alphas that date younger/less baggage is just paying for it. Your not really "free" to persue other partners, when it has nothing to do with status but payment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 03:40 AM
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Real, the red pill calculator (tells you how delulu you are) told me I will have 7 cats because I want a guy under 30 and not obese and taller than 5'7 ??? I didn't even add if hes taken, salary or looks. Insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:48 PM
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I find young men hot too, but the difference is those women are usually "mutual" desire. When a guy says he find young women hot, he is unaware that he is the creepy uncle. I dont think its double standards, but male blind privilege. Not saying men raaping or SA or leering at young men dont exist. Also male sexuality is annoying as its more mainstream, I see American women begging men to wash their axx, my gosh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:28 AM
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Men lack of being vulnerable to each other can be seen as hate. Also the threat is "even"/same class, a man can go against another man, even until his 60s. While women have their guard up for their whole life, even a 23yo woman can be killed by a 13yo boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:25 AM
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You need to pay more to getter better looks, but also more higher in looks = more options = more narcissistic. Honestly it's better to switch and be the sugar baby yourself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:21 AM
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Men want their partner to be "semi - cute"...but are shocked women want the same? You are the one saying she is your equivalent, but lust doesn't work that way. Many women think being ultra skinny is what men want, yet many actually desire balance/curves. Men do the same, they think showering and having a job is good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:17 AM
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*esp if your mom wanted to marry that rich man more than yourself, it was an arranged marriage on top of the fact he was both verbally and physically abusive. I'm surprised men didn't see how romantic the movie is as her true love was a homeless jobless guy from a no name family.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:05 AM
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Having children and being married might just not be as much as of need as companion
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:21 PM
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Most women consume social media, not create. Men dont handle aging any better when they never really had that prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:20 PM
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I used to work at a jewelry store, biological clock really makes women wise up and drop their bf for some IT/engineering guy. Ofc many woken do marry the man they dated for some years too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:18 PM
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Woman Oh no all of us are hypocritical in some ways, the women that complain men play around sm and arnt loyal, isn't 80% of men, but attractive men tend to play multiple women. Same when men complain how transactional women are, they dont really hate paying for her, but being used or finding out another man got her for free. Heck the more attractive she is, the more he is willing to pay for that lifestyle = the more attractive a guy is, the more likely a girl be more submissive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:53 PM
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Men are shallow, you can admit that. Its human. I used to truly believe men and women can be total friends until I realized the guys dont befriend women simply for friendship sake. Also men not caring about her age/maturity/education/finances etc kinda makes women appear less shallow as women only care about how hot he is for hooking/fwb purposes. For most loyalty/"family man"/ambitious while being cute is the ult catch. And I mean women in the past were less shallow, have you seen the Beatles? …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:21 AM
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Yeah your right the other girl just doesn't understand "modern men", they dont want modest church girls, thats why they always complain about "modern women" being delulu and picky. I see the brokest men complaining about gold diggers and worried that a woman is only gonna use him for free dinner/rides. Never understood it as a kid, took me until college to realize men WANT to be used by these type of women. Thats their ideal type.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:48 AM
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People when talking about badboys always forget looks is what adds to the fantasy. The way women view the mafia vs men view the mafia, same thing with "daddy" thing. Hot guys do hot things, actual criminals don't have fangirls, the few attractive ones do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:38 AM
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That's a bum. Bad boy is just a rebranded fckboy but he doesn't need to hide who he is. He's just hot and unavailable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:35 AM
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I see way more cute/hot girls w "questionable" guys, looks matter, but clearly not all relationships are based physically on looks. Even if she find him okay or kinda cute or medium ugly, she doesn't really have access to hot men. So even if women are just as shallow, irl they can't be
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:34 AM
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I think thats everyone at this point, and how much is that social media based/dating apps based??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:27 AM
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Yes because most women marry for stability, not really because hes likeable. But women are noted to get bored of their marriage quickly, I guess that's what you mean by vibes. I wasn't trying to pretend women are angels, I'm just saying the whole fantasy of women being so happy after marriage is kinda fairytale like. Every relationship has its up and downs, marriage is much more serious than any life decision you'll make. Esp because your not really free to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:17 AM
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No, I mean I don't need a study to tell me the sky is blue, women that are happily married....marry to good husbands, not because being married makes them happy. So many people live by these bogus studies. "Red wine is great for your heart" - says the wine company "women love bald men" - says the shaver company. Im not even making that up, many people don't understand how to find peer reviewed and primary studies. Theres a common theme among the female audience, the unhappy married woman escapes…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 10:56 PM
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Women dont tell the truth to men for safety, saying hes needs to be kind vs his genes screwed him over. Or him being a simp benefits her someway. No on really blames women as all women agree "the bar is in hell", and women say "perfect as you are" because either the beauty industry is toxic and they really mean that or lowers competition as there's not enough cuties at the bar for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:18 AM
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I dont even need that study, married women look and act miserable. Men are kinda blind to it and she's hanging on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:12 AM
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Because men desire women more, also a lot of men are kinda dumb, it eases the pressure ig
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:08 AM
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Most married men are in dead bedrooms and the wives (supposedly) dated or hooked up w hotter men. Yet at the same time young women flock w men 2x their age (remember as mens prime is his financial peak) w dad bods....if jayz is married, women would obvi ignore wolfgang novogratz as "no women wanted him = no ring. Right right
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:32 AM
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Theyre not attracted to criminals but hot criminals...like men are. Most criminals don't have 1% interest or fangirls like meeks or the others
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 01:09 AM
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Its was his looks AND fantasy. Women need both, not that visuals alone arnt enough, maybe a glance but that's it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 01:08 AM
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Genuinely why the marriage rates are dropping in countries where women have careers and access to education. Marriage for women is invisible labor for stability, but if you have your own stability....then marriage because sought less
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 01:06 AM
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Its not that. It's literally if your hot enough to date and then marry, your hot enough to get glances from other women. I am genuinely amazed how men peace this together. Hot is hot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 01:04 AM
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Kpop before and after is insane. Look it up, idols ofc deny it but plastic surgery in the US vs Asia is extremely different, its more harmonius
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 12:57 AM
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Matt Rife, granted he went over did it now. But his following and tiktok fame was pretty much how uncommon it was for men to be funny and attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 12:55 AM
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Effort also includes diet and exercise, not just his fashion choices. And in extreme cases, even going under the knife. The truth is, men get away w minimal effort, their pessimistic attitude and indifference is just a symptom of constantly being the victim, its tiring. Your examples prove my point, both of these men are avg if they gain 25lbs, you dont see their effort. But behind closed doors theyre very discipline, esp when their career = face, thats why it only seems effortless
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 09:44 AM
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The bar is so low its invisible to the avg man, it's the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:18 PM
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Effort is hot. If your that unattractive and choose to dress like a slop, just don't show
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 10:54 AM
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I think its not "women want men that other women want" but more of "attractive men have huge following of women". Ashley Madison was like 90% men vs 10% bots. Vs your male actor/idol/celeb has dedicated groupies
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:30 AM
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You said western women value independence and hypergamy. When in reality, thats every adult ever. And yes trust me, it's desperation. They don't settle for any man, because they want out, and leave the country, and most importantly for their future children. The American dream is very alive in foreigner eyes, you haven't been starved, or jailed for "free" speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:13 AM
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There is no element of racism, you fcking cow. Go to the red district and see it for yourselves, then go see what the literacy queens go, your mad that women dont want you, so you go elsewhere to pay for it. I'm saying your argument isn't an argument, your just wrong. Since when did asians were seen as stupid and illiterate? Or is that what you tell yourself that Karen's are stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 08:35 AM
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Those women in poor countries still choose hvm and hypergamy. You see it as feminine, when it's desperation. Actual, freaking, cope. Every woman w ovaries is able to clock this shit at age 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 08:30 AM
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The whole women are racist towards Asian women, thats why they look down on ppb. Boy be absolutely real. I'm amazed by guts American men have, go to these SEA countries yourselves and see its literacy levels women are in the red districts. No one wants chopped men, this whole white savior Oxford study crap doesn't make women blind. Pay for play or mail order bride is the right word, not "literacy rates" bro
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:20 AM
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That's not it, these men are flying in every where they're bald, obese, over 45 and want to "marry". They go to countries where women are desperate for food? Its not racism, the women over there call them losers back home for a reason. Honestly the p3do/human trafficking, I wonder how many are American men. Theres videos all over socials media that show these extremely unattractive men w young women, its amazing hoe sex work is more positive in the west vs east its actual survival and immoral. E…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:41 AM
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Your just describing rage bait. In many first world countries women no longer marry, marry at a later age and have 1-3 children or even none. If population is declining as well as marriage, it's not because of biased upbringing on the female part at all. Marriage itself was never about female sexuality or her marrying for attraction, but stability. Its why in the technological world, theres a standstill. Do women really want to marry a man they have lukewarm attraction to work full time but come…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 09:51 AM
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I didn't reply disingenuously, its was very ingenious lol You cannot change what you are attracted too, man or woman. When people tell women to hurry up and settle its the same feeling of dreed. How is starfish, eyes closed, thinking of England or even faking a headache or flat out running away not at all similar to men that can't get it up? It's the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 09:33 AM
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Dude? What? You said its not comparable because female sexuality is unrealistic?? Ok bye
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 09:23 AM
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Its the same thing, most women shave, most women wear light makeup, most women take care of their hair, at bare minimum she takes care of her hygiene and skin. The male equivalent has only very recently entered the equation, causing this steep shift where the majority of women want him or none. Its not unrealistic, there's a reason why mainstream porn caters to male gaze and not female gaze. Women arnt designed to be horny for medicosy, imo male body positivity nor lingerie can even be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 09:13 AM
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I admit I don't really buy magazines, but the coveres are always filled w older men. Like old guy walking a dog, old guy playing golf, old guy in business attire, old man in swim trucks etc this is at my childhood doctor office like years ago, but no one really reads them then or now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 03:49 AM
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What? I see old men on magazines all the time, they're usually politicians or sm but its a dying media for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:42 PM
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Ohhhh I thought "better to die alone" meant that that marrying a man your not interested in is better than dying alone Nvm, I totally agree, and tbh its admirable, esp in a historical sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:03 PM
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I mean when you settle the poor husband didn't know, your taking his happiness away too. So in my opinion those that aren't happy with their options, will actually be happier alone
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:39 PM
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Most women arnt into being pump and dumped single mothers. Unless insanely rich/attractive or shes under the influence most women prefer having children w long term man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 07:32 AM
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Hurry up and settle, you're being too picky, the bioclock is ticking, he's nice and funny, hurry or else you'll only have the worst
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 07:20 AM
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How do you think women feel? No one can lower their standards for attraction, its not humane
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:36 AM
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Always the victim🍼 men have no problem marrying because in theyll always be a much poorer girl dying from starvation. And once you can do labor you can at least feed yourself. For women the reality is much worse, marry your raapist or stay w your abuser just to be able to eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:32 AM
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A study before social media and dating apps that women orgasm strongly because she felt loved? Okay how about the study where they're asked how much importance is looks is for your son in law? The daughter, mom and her dad said, none. They just hope he's kind, responsible, and has a good personality Yet when given a list of men they all had an strong yet predictable biased. They all wanted attractive men. Its crazy to me that society/men say they're attracted to women in their 20s as that's thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:54 PM
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....dude what kind of cope is this? Look up masktok/biketok rn and get back to me. Their face is covered but their body isnt?? They cover their face because their eye and jaw area ruins the appeal. No one wants to be a Dream 2.0 and corpse husband doxxed and lose followers You think vinnie hacker and the rest make their following hiding their face? Right right But yeah women are blind lol Yes because it's 2009, women didnt hookup or slept w those men. But married a stable guy that was easy. Comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:44 PM
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All fantasy, all roms, all kdrama/soaps, all kpop/models etc are attractive. Women are visual, in fact I would argue even more so, fantasy makes you MORE visual. Masktok/biketok men make their $ by admitting they get views when their face is gone and the viewer can freely imagine anyone. Those studies show avg men. How about those studies that show women virtue signal the most and/or those studies where women have more satisfying/more frequent/and more powerful orgasms with hotter men? Those stu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:35 AM
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Women just marry men for his resources but they don't lust for him, just because they gave up. When a man marries does he give up porn? No. And so do women, tbh the trade off is much worse. No one has a sorry we are closed button. Those rock stars are hot af, women dont want his resources, but just a night w him she will remember him for a lifetime. Heck Blackpink Jennie is named by her mom kpop crush (the same actor in squid games) she's way more rich than he is, yet still her fangirl nature co…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:45 AM
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Tbh the women that are okay w that arrangement if theyre menopause/poly/hes insanely attractive or rich. If hes cheating AND she doesn't find him attractive.....she'll just leave. Personally I think deadbedroom is worse than cheating but I know that's unpopular esp for women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:15 AM
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Probably because he's always blind to his looks honestly I look at most married couples and even think "Poor woman, what does she said in that?" Which I know is rude, but I feel like women never get to experience lust and sex like how men do. I know men are shamed for their virginity or maybe performance or size. But for women its almost like pretending you have facial blindness (which is prob why the diet/anti age industry is more appealing to women than men)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:19 AM
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But why are older women (40s and up) and child free women still picky? I think honestly it's so cliche, but there's not enough attractive fit men that want commitment for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:51 AM
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And all those women married just for food and shelter, many didn't even choose her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:40 AM
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Bingo!! I look at woman like Mrs Midwest and Valeria Lipovetsky like victims, honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:37 AM
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No, these women are miserable. No one wins when they settle. The male version is the same as female version = I don't want him, but hes doesn't cheat/hit me, and I can trust him to take care of the bills. Lust is optional, until its not. Birth control helps
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:35 AM
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Because see men (husband or even bfs) supporting their wife/gf is THAT rare, esp on social media. That's why those weird tiktok chefs are so gross w their food
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:31 AM
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I hate the human trafficking aspect, the whole "asian women are submissive, they dont go for looks/height, but only trad/money!!". Please shut up. Call her submissive to her face and see what she does, if you over 45, don't come please, its embarrassing. At this point call it what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:27 AM
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Do you see the asian women calling the men LBH? Asian culture isn't as direct, they won't call you out, but your never "them", and will always been seen as a foreigner. No matter if your a citizen, have children there, or spend literally decades there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:24 AM
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Women also get turned on what they see....except it's a fantasy man and not her actual man. That's why she needs to build longer and take a while to get ready, esp if there's resentment in play that not only physically but shes also mentally exhausted by him
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:16 AM
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Yeah dude that's absolutely not true. I said "soft harem" aka these men don't give up opportunities w women their league and up, they just use these women to get their dck wet. Thats all. Honestly there's men that humor these women because they pay their bills/rent. It's insane. But yeah, when it comes to hooking up and pure sex, they have absolutely no problem hitting up avg women because "they work harder"/more desperate. Honestly "situationships" only became a thing because of social media/da…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:10 AM
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Dude they have a soft harem of avg women literally throwing themselves at their feet. You think they're disgusted by them? That they picky and say "Get off me creeps, only models for me" fangirl/groupie behavior is intoxicating to these men. They're literally get off by being worshipped. The fact these women are avg doesn't even register in their brain as theyre high in praise. For women this is their worst nightmare. The avg/attractive women feel more disgusted being touched by men than vice ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 03:22 AM
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Men are just more varied. I mean just look at the difference between women corn vs mens. Women dont have fetishes nor categories. You see one rom, wattpad, hallmark, kdrama/kpop etc and there's clear trends. But men? There sex drive is spontaneous. They won't sleep w crazy unattractive women, but they can easily get it up for an avg woman/mid women vs women arnt going gaga over avg men. Heck, even as a hetero woman I can name fat women that are hot, like not just face but their body....vs zero m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 03:08 AM
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They dont. Like that's where the "fear" comes from. She has her fun, gives her lust to others, and actually enjoys sex passionately and when she is done (or rather when they are done with her) she picks some random dude that never held a girls hand to marry. Aka the Charlie Kirk effect. I'm a woman btw but I understand why men lust over the sorority girl while never being close as a frat boy. This is why avg/mid men belittle whoxres but never fck boys/chads directly....because its an obvious cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:51 AM
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Attractive men def sleep w avg women....in fact many affairs is the guy way above her league
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:29 AM
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They're competing for the same finance 6'5 blue eye trust fund babe. The gender ratio doesn't favor men, when the majority of men aren't in their "radar"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:27 AM
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?? I dont get it. Do you mean that men don't care about feeling secure in their relationship? I don't think that's true otherwise men wouldn't be so obsessed about her past/"body count". Or that guy having female friends is fine because it's one sided attraction vs girls having guy friends??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:55 PM
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Istg I type all my comments under 30seconds, my fault. I meant her bf is so hot and tall that his face is like a billboard (her words). Tall wasn't the issue, it just made it worse. She even told me waitresses wouldn't even look at her and would actually be awe struck. Many women (even taken) would be rude towards her for no reason. Its crazy because I saw her being dragged and her self esteem shoot yet they dated for a whole year until he called it quits, he's now a broke model for his friends …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:38 AM
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😭😭 dude absolutely not what I meant, I guess the male ver is "I rather date a nun vs a women that wears lingerie in public throwing her EE cups to everyone". I dont believe that nonsense that tall guys are attractive, all those NBA stars had women problems until they got their money (and those same women leave once money is gone). Also making a woman esp your woman feel safe =/= she settled. At all. In fact that's the first and most lasting step in intimacy is her feeling safe with you. Kinda li…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 11:28 PM
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Absolutely no one says "you deserve cancer because x" or "your mom died because you did x" please you ever is in your circle, you need to leave them. These arnt normies take at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 11:07 PM
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I heard once it's called "cheating face", basically too hyper masculine you see a decline in interest. So even if the guy is technically a 9-10/10, he remains a fantasy, irl most women are more comfortable with themselves being more attractive (unless casual/hooking up) vs he is the one getting head turns from multiple woman and constant DMs. My friend even told me dating tall sucks because every woman from 8-88yo looks at him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 11:02 PM
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"We let arrogant women like yourself age out, and then date a decade younger" = aka men that arnt marriage material. Plentiful men wasnt a flex, I didn't mean to be arrogant, I meant in your prime you get more quantity. So much that its difficult to see quality. If your looking for cheap thrills, its an oasis. If your looking for a deeper connection, good luck. Love bombing is on an all time high, because gen z men know how to manipulate women because they vent all over socials. Waiting is truly…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:10 AM
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Go to a gay bar then. Like do you think it's possible to rewire women thinking the avg dude that was socialized to pay zero attention in his outer appearance....hot? You're lucky american women are so nice that they believe they're demisexual tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 04:40 AM
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My gosh thank you for the laugh lmao your talking about his WIFE. Do you wanna know the no. 1 advice women get? Esp in their 20s? Men are cheap and plentiful, I don't care how much you want him, if hes yours he will wait. That's it. The losers and womanizer arnt marriage material, he cant be a husband or the father for your children. You can still lust after him, but you won't feel peace because he only married you for your beauty
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 04:38 AM
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Women dont get caught (as often) because men you fck on the side are cool with just sex/casual. If you call him up and say we can only have fun Monday, Tuesday, and Friday. Hes 100% happy being scheduled in lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 04:32 AM
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Exactly why red pill women dont exist, its unnatural to pretend a man's resources/status/money, can make you blind to the pool boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 04:24 AM
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Its usually an ex who she just meets up emotionally or cheats further down the timeline...I mean keep in mind shes not physically attracted to her husband nor does the husband understand hers language/culture/humor etc. If shes asian but you met during uni, she prob doesnt have anyone back home unless she needs a visa. That's why background checks are really big for the passport bros when going overseas for a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:19 AM
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Those asian women dont worship them, many even have bfs back home, when people say that they mean Oxford study aka women like white tall men lol not sure why a study was needed 😅 passport bros don't come back home because theyre know their wife is literally gonna jump ship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:03 PM
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💀 the whole looksmaxxing community is men improving their looks to compete in dating apps. Neroangelo, wheatwaffles, TAILS, etc I mean what do you think black pill is? It's just truthfully MOST men cant compete. Like the avg 40yo man vs a college frat fckboy, but there is a market. If height, dck, hair surgery was more available we will see an instant change. I would argue as a 20s woman myself, there was never this much attractive men online in history, that there is right now. The fact I'm see…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:10 AM
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That's what I dont get. These arnt standards, but just attraction. And the double standards are on men, not women. Yall have mainstream hollywood. The fact pedro pascal is being pushed as the hottest man since Brad Pitt is insane. I wish we didn't have to make female sexuality so taboo, it hurts both of us. It may seem taboo/superficial, but its because male sexuality is seen as the norm, being thin and young is ALWAYS the standard. But for women, we are ashamed for what? Not wanting to bend our…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 01:42 AM
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Those are two diff extremes, they dont want the gaze but attractive men. I would compare it to a man that goes to the gym only to get attention from single moms. When women complain about male gaze they're complaining about being sxxulized by older disgusting creeps. Not the hottie from work lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 01:23 AM
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Its not double standards. It's plain attraction. Men dont date old women or bald women, right? Why do women need to pretend to be blind? Too be even more "nice"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 10:48 PM
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Most bang for their buck, literally. American women would settle with you, a foreign women would respect you for saving her and her family. This is why they don't like bringing them back to the US, the couples are extremely mismatched. Think old, obese, bald 40s man with asian woman. My moms country is turned to a marriage prostitution destination
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 10:42 PM
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It delulu for men. Aka I maybe old, fat, bald but Im ONLY attracted to young women lmao, where that website for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 10:35 PM
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The women is settling/looking for marriage, the guy isnt a decade older. Idky we are calling 5yrs or less age gaps, they could be school mates or coworkers once
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 10:31 PM
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Pre selection then goes both ways. Its group think and how we survive. But also it's rude but MANY times we are surprised if a close friend is dating a man below in looks and judge harshly on his income, dck size, height heck even his car. I mean if the guy is a good match ofc he will be accepted more, but married men give a sense of comfort as well as being the most grimiest dude alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:13 PM
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Tbh if attractive men were 1) more common 2) more accessible 3) were put in a position where he needs money or citizenship for survival....then by all means women would do the same. I mean honestly dating apps show we do when it comes to hookup/casual. And even then it's because the fckboy has more options hes not gonna give commitment. This is why passport girlies go to South korea, Italy, Puerto Rico tbh attractive men are definitely used for travel industry. Heck the government and president …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 12:19 PM
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I dont want his utility, my ult goal is have a loyal, safe, and satisfying marriage. I can pay a man to do my yard work and takeout the trash. Marriage and the husbands role is a downgrade honestly, we are expected to marry at our peak of our beauty (and options), to a glorified roommate at best. Make men pretty again 🙏🏻 men are making it hard on themselves but its really that simple, "provide" and "protect" has been outsourced....and honestly I don't even think out grandma's were happy w that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 12:11 PM
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Do you know about Ashley Madison site? Its 90% married men and the rest is literally bots. Pre selection is a myth, ofc an attractive men will have more options. Women have eyes, if all of us are matching w the top 20% of men how would we see other women matching w him?? When we are swiping in privacy and just for dtf? And settling is reality, it's why women arnt rushing (unless to have children), JayZ and Wolfgang Novogratz are both married aka pre selected, which has a deadbedroom and paying f…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 12:02 PM
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The words they invent "hypergamy", "pre selection", "social proof"....when the reality is the avg woman isn't attracted to the avg man...and the avg man is also not attracted to the avg man. When we say sex sells, it's very recently that men (few) were used for beauty. But your right, they'll never get it. I dont understand it tbh, didn't the 80s have attractive men?? What happened where men into fashion/skincare is called twink/gay/metrosexual by men??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:57 AM
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Its not pre selection most women just settle. Btw it's men that want women to settle "give him a chance...he's kind, funny, etc" never bring up his friends looks tho. And yes women only care solely on looks for hookups, age and height filters are mostly used by women. But long term it's beyond looks
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:53 AM
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The norm before socials and dating apps is women not marrying for attraction. Heck, women owning their sexuality and lust is a very recent phenomenon and even now there men questioning its existence. Cold approaches don't work because the men are mid at best AND there's a power imbalance. Being attractive physically just means be healthy, positive, and groomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:50 AM
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The avg man is invisible...the avg man also doesn't groom themselves to appeal to the opposite sex...like I truly wonder where is the disconnect? Women don't dress for ugly men, but they do for men they find attractive. Watch the iconic scene from euphoria where Cassie morning routine at 4am just to lock eyes and get 1% approval from Nate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:46 AM
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I don't think anyone looks better bald tbh, the Rock for example looks better bald, but that's because his full head of hair is awkward looking. Same w Shaq. POC/black men tend to pull it off more, not sure why. But 100% agree w Jude Law tho, hair methods were probably not mainstream then ig
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:05 PM
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In blunt he went from a total heartthrob to male fantasy roles. He 100% didnt age well, thats like saying zac efron aged well. We can disagree, but in terms of looks he went from an 8 in his prime to a hard 4. Every photo you see is him without styling, in candid photos he looks rough, you would never knew he has a career in hollywood. Sure he didn't went completely bald, but that's just him coping w his loss, he was also using hats/scarfs at the time, his hairline was very hard to look at, just…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:01 PM
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Sorry I meant roms novels/like wattpad, this isn't how he looks btw. Just type how he looks now. Also your only posting when he has hair...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 03:43 AM
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Also him being on a mag/man of the year show how beauty = power. He was/is a nobody without his hair
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:12 AM
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He lost roles, fanbase, rom leads because of his hairless. This is very recent, he just got a hair transplant after years
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:11 AM
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Attractive men are the TRUE status symbols. Easily. This isnt about female sexuality, this is true pretty privilege. Jude Law lost everything just because of his lack of hair. Men dont age better, they just never peaked. The men that are attractive, become timeless. This is why women arnt redbpilled. Look at Mrs Midwest and Valeria Lipovetsky husbands. One way attraction is the norm for women back then, now its genuinely better for everyone to not marry for stability
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:05 PM
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You think wives are actively lusting only for their husbands? Have you seen their husbands?? Lizard brain isnt a male thing, but lust. Your equating women want men that add to their life, but not when women look for hookup/short term/cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:39 AM
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I think its cope tbh, if the guys tall, more guys will notice if hes only dating shorter girls. If the guy is fit, more guys will notice hes dating a butterface. If the guys is rich, more guys will notice his girl spending habits lol also its normal. Its not thats hes charming or funny, a hot guy is a hot guy, hes just more rare irl than social media/dating apps where MOST men wouldn't know. Sorce: My roomate took me to an Ateez concert (kpop boy group) and her bf broke up w her 2 weeks later, h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 11:14 AM
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I'm talking about quality of men. Also men like looks, while women like looks + fantasy. Yes, women dont pay to play because they can just masterbate. But women esp the ones equivalent to older, obese, bald men theyre absolutely not hooking up w sex gods lol the closest equivalent is women paying thousands to attend a kpop concert or a host club, but beautiful men are still insanely rare, not that desperate women wouldn't pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:20 PM
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Because its a redpill society in a blackpill world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 01:08 AM
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What part sorry? I just mean its not rare at all, unattractive men or redpill men pay for play. Passport bros, OF subs, sugar lifestyle, escorts, etc. We might not see it, but not rare at all. In some cities, or even industry it's the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:45 AM
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This is why I can't get behind redpill women, if they had more attractive husbands, then by all means. Its unnatural, every male species that exists was due to attraction. Yet for women were supposed to look inward 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:39 AM
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For women it 100% just for children or stability. Being with a man with zero attraction is impossible, even the most insecure women cant do it. In fact women settling is the norm in my moms country, when my cousin dated out, all the men called him "too pretty" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:36 AM
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If women could do the same, they would. I mean some do ig but those women keep it very hidden
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:31 AM
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Back when men had a better salary and women where just housewives, midlife crisis (a man in his 40s+) is paying for the girl or the bike. I think yall think it's fake, but now it's done online, via OF/IG/etc. These men don't care what they look like or if they're paying, but many are absolutely delulu.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:28 AM
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I believe it's from a textbook that showed the clit is almost 2x as more sensitive than the penis. And how it's main (and like only) function is pleasure. While the nerves of the vagina are more towards the entrance. And then our gym teacher (ewww) made a joke "See, size doesn't matter". I included the cite below, I believe this must be what she was referencing (could be wrong, but abstract felt similar) Herbenick, D., Fu, T. C. (Jane), Arter, J., Sanders, S. A., & Dodge, B. (2017). Women’s Expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:04 AM
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About 15% of women can orgasm with penetration alone. Its 80% of women you cannot orgasm with only penetration. So the majority do need clit stimulus
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:35 AM
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I think 80% of women dont orgasm from hetero penetrative sex. It was a survey and explains the orgasm gap in hetero couples vs gay/lesbians couples. It wasn't to shame women (from when I was taught, buy 100% can see men/women shaming women for not orgasming), but to normalized that hey your not broken/wrong, if you can't get off from his dck alone (which corn shows all the time 🙄), clit stimulation is more guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:17 AM
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Avg men with avg looks will get far more worth in his usefulness than his looks. But to be honest, I'm wowed that so many don't find out that in high or even middle school
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:20 AM
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In my mom culture/asian, love after marriage or marriage being more about duty than lust/love is very common traditionally. If the two are adults and respect each other, then whatever the outcome of marriage is just their destiny. Ngl it's depressing as a westerner and as a person that was once a hopeless romantic since I was young, I still remember my mom telling me "if you want to have a happy marriage, learn to expect less" and I felt gutted hearing that. Maybe having children is the ultimate…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:30 AM
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Yeah I agree, I just see women settling because wanting children and a family is natural. Many hope their husbands will change but its not reasonable (esp if your the one that wanted children, not him)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:53 PM
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I dont hate men, I hate how hypocritical men are. I always hear yall say "hypergamy" "women are devils that's why they're obsessed w 666", "chase Chad in their 20s and cat ladies in their 40s lol". Can I be real? Even men can admit male standards of beauty is nonexistent in the west while women are competing for the ones that take care of their appearance. Most men just cope w their money and are shocked women aren't gold diggers, even passport bros are having trouble (esp w globalization and so…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:57 PM
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Watch this yt shorts "leslie liao straight women struggle" and tell me at a glance avg women is just more appealing even to straight women. While the bald guy wears a cap and the short man wears baggy clothing. How can a man even begin to understand women's pain when yall normalized men to be unattractive as its "masculine". Great job! Now 40% women will be childless and single or gay, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:13 AM
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Night and day difference. Every woman that wants children has to settle. The man is the one that buys the ring and gets on his knee, not for the majority of women. If women cant easily have children in their 40s/50s women wouldnt marry in their 20s/30s, easily. I can't describe the pain I see on older married womens faces, feminism and independence (financial and more) is honestly trauma based than anything. And yes, men will never understand when its them (side effect) and society destroyed wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:10 AM
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Dude its the opposite, the whole reason why the avg man is so content being "avg" and don't pay attention to his looks is because women sexuality is destroyed, she is just gonna settle if she wants children, so instead marrying the man of her dreams she has no choice but to compromise. Why do you think Im at a high horse? Its more victim than anything. Women settle 100%, thats the norm. I can count on one hand how women have an attractive husband. And your saying I'm pompous lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:08 AM
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Boomer humor, tbh it would be more funny and light hearted if the husband was holding the sign lol but yeah nope. I think audience and location matters, in kpop concerts many women say "Yongi marry me", "San if we have eye contact let's marry", "Niki give me your children". Etc its cringe but its very common, also many don't really take their bfs nor do they shame them. The idols also play too and say no or rizz them up. For American sports they just want to me on the screen/photographed so ofc …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:42 AM
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As a young woman I genuinely feel disgust when a man says his preference age wise, like I wish you stayed in your own lane. Idk how to describe the feeling but the internet completely ignore what's women wants. Height is a deal breaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:13 AM
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Exactly this. Like who on earth said women are attracted to older men? I'm in my 20s and I genuinely find maybe 30x attractive women a day vs 0-2 attractive guys, and have you seen how guys look out of uni? Its honestly depressing that women are told guys are visual while women have to settle for money, as if women sexuality is non existent. Heck if it wasn't for tiktok/kpop I wouldn't think I was straight. BOTH women AND men prime is 20s, red pill is cope. Money makes is easier to settle not lu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 02:06 AM
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Attractive men dont marry if they dont want to. They'll drag their feet and marry into their 40s w a 25yo woman. Attractive men have ALL the options and they usually don't care for home/children life. This is very common im celeb culture as well, Attractive men will marry attractive women while attractive women marry rich men or they date a string of attractive men (but its almost alway fwb/short term and casual). Also for common folk, attractive men are less common than women so women even pure…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:50 AM
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Absolutely not 💀💀 women would lit celebrate and would rip apart their husbands for daily sex if that was true lol men fk down but they dont marry down. Its a double edge sword its also why women can fk attractive men easily when single/dating/divorce but rarely married. Check out bryceandchad on yt (husband is more attractive than his wife) vs Mrs Midwest husband (she really worked hard for a solid 3 unfortunately) the comments are insane. The unattractive husband is the accepted norm (hes rich …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:22 PM
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Most men marry "up" for attraction aka their wife is more good looking than themselves and they get sex more often than single. But ofc he marries "down" in terms of education and career/finance. A 30s yo man w a mid to even early 20s women is common only when he has a great salary, home, etc. But its absolutely soul crushing, divorce, cheating, deadbedroom is guaranteed thats why Im saying its not fair leverage to you stability and kill off womens natural libido, lit in no other animal kingdom …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:14 PM
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You measure prime for men for financial stability, women marry down for attraction for "stability". All my friends/coworkers/girls in general we also want to marry a man we are genuinely attracted to. Some women don't care or even prefer duty/obligation sex, ex passport bro because citizenship is more important while sexually desiring your spouse is fantasy talk
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:18 PM
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Guys in their 30s are just as "invisible" as thru were 20s, the whole women prime is when they are young (aka to men most attractive) yet for men their prime is past 30s/when their looks decline. Excuse the whole beta bucks, alpha fucks but the cycle continues the women loses out. Attractive men are rare af and yet society even to this day pressures women to marry to men theyre not sexually attracted too. Its depressing and cruel for both parties, but this whole narrative then men peak later IS …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:26 PM
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He cheated because that's what rich men do, but do you think she was actually attracted to him physically, bald older man with a lazy droopy eye, also below avg body/height? She even says she first fell for him because of his laugh. As for his 2nd wife, yes leo is unattractive but she lot just wants status AND even though he's unattractive he's way more attractive than bezos. There many yt channels that shows red pill is cope for men, wheat waffles 100 blackpill truths in 1 video shows this, wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:38 PM
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Be honest money doesn't all of sudden make men attractive, Jeff Bezos new wife practically jumped into Leo's arms that night lol, women want resources/money for better our children's future, but as humans do we masterbate over cute guys or cash?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:11 AM
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Do you not notice how creepy those type of old men are lmao women who age miss the attention from ATTRACTIVE men not geezers
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:18 AM
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Plz don't feed that narrative, I took one look at deadbedroom subs and I cannot believe women have to marry a man that theyre not attracted to and its normal? So unfair, why can't attraction be mutal? Instead attractive guys just play w as many women as they can while women are forced to settle for "stability" YUCK, how is Alain Delon less valuable than Elon? If anything attractive men make the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:13 AM
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