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Ashe225/r/ExRedPill13/06/17 03:15 PM
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My ex husband is one of these red pilled man. Took me a long time to get in terms with it. I’m still recovering from the mental and emotional abuse I went through. Red pilled men are trash.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/23 06:50 AM
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Awesome! I love this! Thanks for sharing :) I wish mine would do sweet nothing like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 10:53 PM
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I have a first hand knowledge on the receiving end of someone who’s been ‘red pilled’. And it sucks. The narcissism, manipulation, the whole masculine vs feminine bullshit, CRAP. And now our relationship is breaking apart. Least masculine crap I’ve seen, and yet they kept preaching about being the alpha male.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/21 02:10 AM
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The ‘alpha’ term was first used to define the leader of a wolf pack. Later the author walked back on that statement and saying essentially there is no alpha. Love the video. I’d follow an empathetic leader and gravitate towards those who care about other people. I guess you can call those people ‘alpha’ then.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/21 03:35 AM
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I see. That makes sense! Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 02:17 PM
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Lol the red pill. Nope, no thank you. That’s part of the reason why our relationship has gone to crap. All the dread, the fog, the wall, and the whole ‘women don’t know what they want, but we do’ ideology, using sex to mask everything, etc. yeah... I’m pretty familiar with those.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 02:14 PM
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Mind if I ask, why a male counselor? I don’t mind but I’m curious why so specific?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 02:03 PM
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Exactly. Being stuck inside right now increases our stress level and then it just exploded. I reckon there is some anger management issue going on as well. And I agree, you can turn the odds in your favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 12:55 PM
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You can say that. And sometimes, I also don’t get what he wants when he ask me for something
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 12:52 PM
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Our communication style is soooooo different and I think that’s our problem. And things just gets spiraling out of control when he’s asking something from me but I don’t understand and vice versa. And with this COVID-19 quarantine, we’re getting cabin fever and it just exploded one day where he started tossing things around the house and punching the door/ walls. So yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 04:33 AM
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Because you’re supposed to give in 100% and not use it as a tit for tat. Like ‘oh I’m doing this nice thing for you so you should do this thing for me, if not, I’m gonna be mad at you’
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 01:22 AM
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They’re definitely putting on a show. My husband and I are going through a very rough patch right now, but I’m not about to go around* and tell people or show people that my marriage is falling apart, I didn’t even tell my parents, because I respect my husband’s and my own privacy. Marriage is between two people, not the whole world. And how can you know if you are able to love someone long term? You don’t, nobody can predict the future. Just try your best is my philosophy. Even though my husban…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 09:18 PM
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Marriage does require lots of mutual sacrifice. That is something a lot of people aren’t doing. My husband and I’ve been married for 4 years now and we still haven’t really grasp that. Communication is also a big issue, I think if not, the number 1 cause of divorce. I think people ARE capable of loving 1 person till the end of lives, but I believe that take years to develop. Marriage is GREAT if you are able to attend to each other needs and able to sacrifice your own pettiness and needs without…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 09:14 PM
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It's funny how for all the redpillers out there claiming how they know the "truth" and yet kept complaining about not getting any girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 03:45 PM
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1: I’m fine with it. I want my husband to be vulnerable with me and open up to me. I don’t want him to be vulnerable to EVERYONE tho. It’s a very intimate gesture, in my opinion. I believe that being vulnerable with your spouse strengthens your relationship. I believe that it is one of the biggest display of trust. 2: I’m fine with it. We are humans and bound by our emotions. It would actually be a little scary (at least for me) if they don’t cry once in awhile. I’m not gonna limit my partner fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 03:09 AM
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High partner count, previously married/ divorced, a raging jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 01:34 AM
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Because In TRP, they’re all trying to be the ‘manly man’ but they try too hard so they’re just assholes. And their whole point was that women doesn’t deserve respect and women does the hamster wheel all the time, shit test, etc etc. My husband used to tell me ‘if i let a women tells me what to do, then I’m not a man’ or ‘taking advice from a woman points you towards failure’ Trp is toxic. It was not until after he slowly leaving trp that he verbally confirm of his jealousy and resentment for me …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 11:24 PM
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He is an engineer. And btw, the whole me being more successful than him was spoken by him. He literally told me ‘i resent you for being more successful’ And he leave on his own account because it didn’t work for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 08:32 PM
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TRP is the worst things that can happen to a relationship. It almost broke mine, and I’m sure it broke other’s as well. It might work on some women, though i would say that they’re the minority. Treat each other with respect isn’t s hard thing to do. And most women that stay with their real gung ho TRP significant other are either they’re afraid to leave or they ‘like it’, which good for them. There’s always a stressor that triggers men to go to TRP, for my husband, it’s because we moved cross c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 04:08 PM
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Hello! Yes we are still together and still working towards being happy and what not, but we’re getting better now! We’re currently in marriage therapy and although we still have arguments here and there but we find a common ground. He’s still as stubborn and a dick (sometimes) but he is working hard towards fixing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 03:47 PM
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I think the 'wins' they've reported might be fabricated.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/17 09:54 PM
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This is so true. But then all they think we want are invisible sex god Chads -_-
/r/ExRedPill22/07/17 08:59 PM
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Thanks. But I can't tell him this, it'll just make him go the other way since I'm his wife and a woman, he 'cannot take advice from me'. Total bull crap.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/17 07:17 PM
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Oh honey, you are telling me how I should think, thanks for doing the thinking for me! /s sorry honey, I think someone who actually practices TRP and interacts with people on a daily basis are bunch of losers, sorry again <3
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 06:47 AM
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From the receiving end of red pill, we are disgusted by many red pill tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 06:30 AM
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Have been perusing this sub for quiet awhile now, a lot of the materials or advice stem from opinions.
/r/askMRP28/06/17 03:15 PM
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Hey thanks for pointing it out. It's early and haven't had coffee, plus the iPhone screen is really small. Will keep that in mind! Edit: and I don't necessarily agree with you. But each person is entitled to their own opinion.
/r/askMRP28/06/17 02:48 PM
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I was giving an example -.- because I brought up the sex and commitment comes from both parties, one is not responsible for 1 part only. Seems like you're misunderstanding what I'm trying to say lol. I too have some time to kill before work. You have a blessed day, sir!
/r/askMRP28/06/17 02:17 PM
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Yeah that's what I meant. Sorry if my wording isn't as clear. Made an adjustment! Thanks!
/r/askMRP28/06/17 02:09 PM
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Oh man. I don't use those words lightly. Read my comment though, because I think you misunderstood me :)
/r/askMRP28/06/17 02:06 PM
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Sex without consent = rape. Doesn't matter how you spin it. You said wife wanted sex but you don't want to but you had sex anyway, did she force you? No, because you comply. That is not rape :) please understand that word before you commented :) Selfish view of relationship? How? Because I said sex and commitment comes from both party? Lol Edit: key word: 'FORCING' if you didn't want to but you were like 'ah sure, she wanted to' then it is not. Seem like you're the one that's using it loosely, m…
/r/askMRP28/06/17 02:04 PM
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Listen to Jordan Peterson. And she can have sex with you if she wanted to because she doesn't have to, it's the same with you. If she wants to have sex and you don't want to, but she is FORCING you to have sex when you ABSOLUTELY don't want to: that's rape. And vice versa. So it is not only the women's job as a gatekeeper of sex, because you bear half the responsibility. Same as commitment. She has the responsibility to commit to the relationship, no less than you. It takes both party to make a …
/r/askMRP28/06/17 01:50 PM
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Because it's not. It's a two person's job for sex and for commitment.
/r/askMRP28/06/17 01:28 PM
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RP actually caused more arguments and problems in our live than it solved because the things that I normally take care of on my own were suddenly his responsibility. Bingo. Having this problem right now with my husband. He is trying to take care of my shit is if I am this fragile woman that cannot think or do anything. Saying shit like "you've failed to resolve this problem so I have to step in and help" because the apartment complex is fixing other's people's AC before our garbage disposal (SIN…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/17 10:53 PM
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Monogamy. I love it. Being able to devote your entire life to one person is an amazing feeling. And that downvote wasn't cowardly. I downvoted it! Thanks :)
/r/ExRedPill23/06/17 01:46 AM
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You're funny! NAWALT but I guess you'll never know how great a marriage can be, I feel sorry for you :(
/r/ExRedPill23/06/17 01:31 AM
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Hey, thanks for the comment! He saw my post and so we talked about it for a long time last week, he did say there's resentment due to the migration. And arguing with each other doesn't necessarily help either. I agree, it was childish to fight over election. He's the trump supporter, not me. I really don't care that he voted for trump, because I have family that voted for trump. The reason why it made me so angry was because he was so obsess with the president (or candidate back then). He's so o…
/r/ExRedPill22/06/17 01:33 PM
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If you are talking about being more assertive and have self awareness, that isn't TRP. That's life skills you can get anywhere.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/17 02:52 PM
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you are right. Self awareness and fitness is not TRP. TRP is shit. I cant believe people actually follow their girl advice. edit: spelling
/r/ExRedPill19/06/17 02:50 PM
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you've misintepreted my post.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/17 02:43 PM
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i dont understand why are you so infatuated with our sex life?
/r/ExRedPill19/06/17 02:36 PM
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We have plenty of sex so it is not a problem for us.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/17 03:48 PM
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Thank you for your response. I thought it was of an admiration tone but maybe he perceive it differently. I will definitely look into the book you'd suggested.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 03:54 AM
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Can I have a copy of the audiobook?
/r/RedPillBooks14/06/17 01:26 AM
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Thank you, but I wouldn't describe myself as saints. I believe that is what everyone should do in a relationship. However, sometimes I do have anger problem and I need to work on that. I do believe there are some good advice from TRP such as fitness, diet, have more self respect, but when it comes to woman and relationship, it's like they have such fragile ego that they can't stand to see a successful woman and wants to shit test them. I will try but this is exhausting, tbh. To be fair to my hus…
/r/ExRedPill14/06/17 12:52 AM
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And I would like to add, we sat down together to figure out where we want to move and he gave me the cities he'd want to move to and I based on his list when I apply for my professional school. We talked about it and agree with this state.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/17 12:48 AM
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I appreciate your honesty, however, I think monogomy is not as trivial as you put it. There are people out there, myself included, love having a monogomous relationship. Relationship isn't just about sex, it is about compassion, understanding, compromise and get to spend happy and sad days with another person and the burden and load of your life gets lighter. I love my husband and that's why I seek out help. I know that you are frequent MRP and TRP commenter, and so I don't blame you but a lot o…
/r/ExRedPill14/06/17 12:47 AM
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That could explain a lot and yes he is a trump supporter.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/17 12:09 AM
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Trigger what kind of consequences?
/r/ExRedPill14/06/17 12:09 AM
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Somehow the wife knows because he told the wife and that is what a husband should do, hence the "see some good out of it" and a "positive change". That is call respect.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/17 11:30 PM
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Wow I didn't know you can twist a story to that level, good work!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/17 11:25 PM
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I think he is very attractive, thank you very much!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/17 11:20 PM
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I did listen to him. Thank you very much :)
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/17 11:19 PM
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That is something that I've noticed: shit testing. I've been lurking TRP and MRP just to see what's up and that seem to be the recurring theme, they accuse their wife/ gf is shit testing them but they are the ones who are shit testing the hell out of us lol
/r/ExRedPill13/06/17 11:17 PM
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I actually have no idea why he went to the red pill a couple months back, however, I suspected that it could be a plethorah of things. We recently (aug 2016) moved from our hometown to another state so he had to get a new job, get adapted to a new place, and the election. We fought and fought because we are both stressed out. In a sense, I feel like he is blaming me for everything, including the reason for our migration. I had to move because I got accepted into a graduate school 2 states away. …
/r/ExRedPill13/06/17 11:16 PM
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How did you call him out on those behavior? I've tried to explain how it is not helping our relationship, he snapped at me. It might have been my tone, but how did you do it?
/r/ExRedPill13/06/17 11:11 PM
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Thank you for your comment. I do think it is hard for him to communicate his problem with me for whatever reason. I will try to be patient and just focus on myself. I told him that I would listen to him if he wants to talk about it, hopefully we can move forward and be stronger.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/17 11:09 PM
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Oh wow, thank you for your comment! I do need some self-reflection too and be stronger despite not having him. I read the 5 languages of love and the way i perceive love is through words of affirmation, well then I guess I just have to give myself more words of affirmation if I can't get it from him
/r/ExRedPill13/06/17 11:07 PM
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Thank you, I edited my original post
/r/ExRedPill13/06/17 11:00 PM
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How can I do to help? If my husband is similar to you, what do you think is the best way for me to help, aside from being patient?
/r/ExRedPill13/06/17 10:59 PM
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I really don't think he is cheating on me, I have to be fair to him and give him the benefit of the doubt. I told him if he cheats again, I will give him the paper and I will leave. I think he does cherish our marriage but he is so deep into being influenced, he doesn't realize that. He is (or was) a great guy (aside from the whole red pill crap) and that's why I married him.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/17 10:58 PM
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I did encourage him to go to the gym but he isn't an unhealthy guy. He has a pretty good body proportion. When I said he did nothing, I meant he didnt try to reach out to understand why I feel the way I did, instead keep telling me how I should feel. But I agree, patience is a virtue, but I also agree with u/rainai, don't shit test me then accusing me of shit testing him lol. Respect works both ways.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/17 10:55 PM
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Thank you, I know deep down my husband is an incredible guy, that's why I married him in the first place. I feel like he is just being influenced to do these.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/17 08:38 PM
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Because before marriage, he seem like a very mature guy and is always trying to be a better person. I admired him that's why I married him.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/17 08:26 PM
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Thank you for your respond and I appreciate it. When I posted about the blow job, it was multiple times of rejection that prompted me to do it. He is bitter and hurt about a lot of things and I try my best to help him. I am not perfect and he had called me out on it and I accepted those criticism and try to do my best. I don't understand how he doesn't have a good home life. I cooked for him everyday, pack his lunches, think about date ideas, clean the house and do laundry at the same time going…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/17 08:23 PM
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First of all, not a hillary supporter. I worked on McCain campaign trail and I worked on Rubio Campaign trail. So just because I dont support the president doesn't mean I am a hillary supporter. The world isn't just black and white, it is a gradient of gray.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/17 08:18 PM
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Thank you for your reply. I've followed his lead plenty of times, sometimes it is ok for him to foloow my lead. I compltment and praise him constantly because I know he is the type of guy that likes praises. I tell him I Love you constantly and I try my best to fulfill his wish. I tell him thank you all the time. We have plenty of sex and we both initiate and sometimes we both turn each other down, which is ok. He would always tell me how much he loves it when I pleasure him, and I do it often. …
/r/ExRedPill13/06/17 08:14 PM
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No, I did not.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/17 08:01 PM
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Yes I agree. Thank you. I just don't know how to make it better. I wanted to try marriage counseling, we even had a meeting with our pastors to talk this out, but it never worked. :(
/r/ExRedPill13/06/17 07:59 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/ExRedPill13/06/17 07:54 PM
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I have never had a sleep over with any males even before marrying my husband because I believe in a monogamous relationship and shouldn't do anything to put myself in that situation.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/17 07:54 PM
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You are correct.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/17 07:53 PM
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Like I have replied to the previous thread, I have never cheated on him but he accuse me of cheating, which is a tactic used by TRP to make their wife/ gf go crazy, I read the post on that frm TRP.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/17 07:52 PM
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I've never cheated on him, I always put him first. On the contrary, he cheated on me when we were dating, but I've told him that we can work to be better after that incident. I know what makes him unhappy: my success. He once lashes out how he hates the fact that I always get what I want, because I work hard to achieve my goal. I am very proud of his achievement and I constantly praise him for it. But he is still not satisfied.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/17 07:51 PM
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I never cheated on him, in the contrary when we were dating, he cheated on me with his long term female friend back in college.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/17 07:49 PM
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I have been to the office to get a quote and he knew, yet did nothing.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/17 07:48 PM
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He "accused" me but he know its bullshit, he's saying it to get a reaction out of me. One of the Red Pill post I read literally advice them to accuse their wife/ gf about cheating to make them go crazy.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/17 07:48 PM
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Thanks, I did find out what his problem was. He is jealous at the fact that I'm more successful than him, always getting what I want when I strive for it. I am proud of his accomplishment too and constantly praise him, so I don't really know how to help him see that.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/17 07:46 PM
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