AshleyOriginal Archive

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3	Women would have less trouble finding partners if more women had personalities I'm a girl that loves Roman history, let me tell you how feminist the Spartan people were and how much they were made fun of for it by the Athenians. And let me tell you how slowly the empire really fell apart... Did it ever really fall apart? Fully fall apart? I think about that with how we view lions and the roman birdies on so many flags... How so many people in medieval times wanted so badly to be roman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 12:38 AM
1	Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared. I asked out both of ex's before, they weren't attractive or made much money at the time but they had personality traits and abilities I needed at the time. They had nice things I liked about them. I'm fine with guys approaching me but I'm a bit shy so I have little to say. I kinda hate small talk though and can be awkward so hey, I don't mind if the guy struggles but I tend to struggle way more socially then they do just saying XD I'm not some beauty queen though and that's who guys approach and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 06:36 PM
1	Would you like to have a husband who is still a virgin? I would prefer a Christian waiting for marriage, but if he started on the path of Christianity I would be fine with whatever background he had if his future lined up with me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 08:02 PM
0	I dont understand why people get upset about other people's unrealistic standards Pretty much every guy I dated wasn't all that attractive physically but they were attractive mentally. I don't mind short, fat, even balding if you are really smart or can at least come across that way. Not every single person in the whole world is the same. People do want to have someone with something to offer, emotional support, intelligence, assets of some kind, heck even just being healthy is a major plus because I have a lot of health issues, if you can help take care of me I'm happy with …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 02:15 PM
-2	Why is it so rare for "HVM" to be childfree? What do you want to leave for future generations? If not family? I guess for the poor they always hope the next generation can do better, for the rich they don't need to leave anything, they got what they wanted. I can understand people not wanting to have kids they can't afford or because of environmental reasons, but if you are in a sound mind and mentally healthy it feels a shame to waste it. A lot of people will work their whole lives hoping to be in such a position. Especially in the past. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 06:58 AM
2	If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature? 3 I find this such a bizarre take btw, as a Christian woman I've only ever dated two guys so my view is limited but I see Crime and Punishment as such a good example for love. The main girl gave everything she had for her family becoming a prostitute because her father couldn't work and she needed to support the family somehow. I suppose you could say she fully submitted to her drunk father proving for the family since he refused but what a small view of love saying women can only understand it …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 06:42 AM
1	Actually, getting into a relationship DOES fix many problems for you It's good in many ways for both people in the relationship if it's healthy. But being healthy vs codependent sure can be a problem for a lot of people. I tend to lose myself in my relationships until I can't recognize myself anymore but that's me being a people pleaser and I guess kinda desperate because I like their company. I'd say relationships bring new problems and fix some old ones or at least temporarily help with problems unless you marry or something. I think overall relationships are a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/24 03:50 PM
7	How would you feel if your girlfriend traveled alone because you can’t afford vacations? On the flip side, I knew a guy (ex bf) who said one day we could go on these trips to Europe. I knew him for 5 years and he went to Europe like every year, I could never afford so I never went. You'd think though if they really wanted me to go he could just save up one year... Now I'm older, make more money and was able to pay for a trip to Europe myself to visit my new bf, not only that I later helped afford my bf to move to a better country for him to save money, later on he wanted to see me s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 03:21 PM
1	Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this. So you are saying there is always someone worse off than you willing to date more average women? Not even you sound like you want these women why are you competing with them? Do your own thing, stand out, go after what you want for all is fair in love and war and better to have loved once then never loved at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 08:39 PM
–	Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love. Idk, as a women I asked my last ex out and later on current boyfriend. My current boyfriend was kinda like you wondering what the catch was, but ya know sometimes people just want to be loved and be loveable. My mom was like a man can never love you if he doesn't chase you, you shouldn't be asking the guy out! You have to follow the rules blah blah. But all is fair in love and war.♥️ I pay what I can and don't expect gifts and stuff, quality time to me is far more valuable but I gotta say my cur…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/24 07:14 AM