Ashtothelight Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Has pickup artist or dating coach advice worked for you? Fucking true! I've rarely seen meaningful expansion on Models, She Comes First, and The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck.	/r/seduction	17/01/22 07:24 PM
1	Any books you recomend for game or just how to deal with people in general The subtle art of not giving a fuck. Mark Manson makes the best stuff.	/r/seduction	16/01/22 06:26 PM
1	How do you guys personally add character to your apartments or living spaces? What can I add? Yup.	/r/seduction	16/01/22 05:45 PM
1	[deleted by user] My income has made me feel more secure in my life. Since it's comfortable, I find I can focus more on enjoying the time I have with my girl, rather than focusing on financial stress. I'm not exactly rich, but it's helped me in that way. Women never really care very much directly, except in the case where they need to support you or something like that.	/r/seduction	12/01/22 07:42 AM
0	[deleted by user] To add to this, I tend to have the most success with black and Hispanic women. My current girlfriend also has the type of look you're probably thinking of.	/r/seduction	12/01/22 02:23 AM
0	[deleted by user] Hi I'm mixed. Black and Jewish I think on some level you have to embrace the culture of the type of girl you want to attract. I'm a big nerd, but I also collect sneakers and generally dress in a way that corresponds with the women I like. My style is a bit modern, but I would say it will be helpful to Taylor your style to skew towards the women you're interested in. Personally, I like to wear flannels/polos and a nice pair of Jordans or something like that. Clothing conveys a bit of information …	/r/seduction	12/01/22 02:20 AM
2	Men who were once horrible with women but are now good, what changed? For me a lot of anxieties and stuff just kind of fell off. I spent a long time being single, got really into my hobbies and work and discovered I liked who I was. One time I read that there were two types of people in the world when meeting people; those that think about what other people think of them, and those that think about what they think of other people. I discovered I was distinctly the second type of person. I remember one time I was talking to this girl and I was like "she's got to sa…	/r/seduction	07/01/22 06:46 PM
6	As a man, how important is it to you to make sure the woman you're having sex with is left satisfied? Dude I tell people all the time that the real barrier to being good in bed is effort and paying attention. I haven't even taken it to the level that you have and have had multiple women tell me that I'm the first partner to make them orgasm. To add to your last point, being a good lover also pays off to you. If a girl is satisfied and happy with your sex life, 99/100 times they will be eager to pay it back to you. Be good to your partner, she'll be good to you.	/r/seduction	23/12/21 04:25 PM
5	How would you react if someone flirts with your gf in front of you My girlfriend doesn't want anything to do with other men. I normally just watch while she shoots them down. Sometimes I'll nod to the dude and enjoy the show.	/r/seduction	21/12/21 02:17 AM
2	[deleted by user] I don't know if it's very applicable, but in Hitch, when he said "you cannot use what you don't have. If you're shy, be shy. If you're outgoing, be outgoing. I really liked this advice."	/r/seduction	14/12/21 08:18 PM
2	Let’s talk about Racial Preferences - based on statistics Yeah I'm not sure how much of my lack of success with white women comes from my lack of interest in them. Lots of success with black women however, like yourself.	/r/seduction	01/12/21 08:50 PM
1	Let’s talk about Racial Preferences - based on statistics I'm black. White women are not into me in almost any way. That's mostly fine because I'm more interested in nonwhite women. My partner is black. White women often seem flakey and not into me. I did date a British girl for a year or so, but it's only been Black and Latina women for a long time. All in all, it doesn't matter much for me. The White women thing could be a combination of my lack of interest in them and their lack of interest in me.	/r/seduction	01/12/21 08:43 PM
1	[deleted by user] I'm half black. My dating pool tends to be black women and non black poc. I don't mind too much I guess. I have gotten a bit of fetishizing from white women, but I tend to just avoid it.	/r/seduction	07/10/21 05:15 PM
10	How hard is seduction if I don’t drink or go to parties in college? Honestly, if you don't party or drink, you'll likely wind up meeting women in other places, who also don't really party or drink. That sounds like a good deal to me, as you'll be meeting women who are more similar to you and your lifestyle. I met my girl talking about movies and politics. I don't drink at all, and she is an extremely light drinker. Neither of us party.	/r/seduction	10/08/21 04:18 PM
2	Trying to win a woman over is a ultimately waste of time. If she has a high level of initial attraction, things will progress naturally and easily Good reference here.	/r/seduction	05/07/21 06:34 AM
6	Trying to win a woman over is a ultimately waste of time. If she has a high level of initial attraction, things will progress naturally and easily Truth	/r/seduction	04/07/21 04:40 PM
44	Trying to win a woman over is a ultimately waste of time. If she has a high level of initial attraction, things will progress naturally and easily This is absolutely based. The girls that are into me are into nerds. Often they have nerdy habits that coincide with mine; they read a lot, like video games, film or anime, the whole thing. These girls can't get enough of me, and as they learn more about me and my personality, often will grow more invested. The girls that aren't are often into sports or fishing, or maybe they have different political beliefs. Maybe they're more party girl than I like. These women are difficult, exhausting, aloof…	/r/seduction	04/07/21 04:34 PM