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AWALT, AWALT, & AWALT.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 07:49 PM
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I’ve done it. Planned a weekend trip with a friend of a friend after meeting her after a night out. Ended up fucking all weekend.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 07:50 PM
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Never cohabitate unless you plan on marrying this woman. It without fail kills the attraction every time.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 12:05 AM
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Hear hear.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 01:08 AM
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Way ahead of ya on that one
/r/askTRP26/06/20 12:27 AM
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This was my initial reaction as well, thanks. Along with bewilderment since this is the first time this went down so weirdly.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 07:49 PM
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I’m a fireman. I don’t approach women on duty, maybe some light flirting and heavy eye contact but keep it professional. I’m there to do a job. On the other hand, I’ve had women just straight up ask me out or give me their numbers which I would accept graciously.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 06:59 PM
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“The Charisma Myth” is a good read.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 12:10 AM
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Go for it my dude
/r/seduction14/06/20 12:25 AM
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No amount of game will match the pure physical, primal aspect of having an aesthetic body. All the downvoters refuse to take off their rose colored lenses and actually hit the gym.
/r/seduction13/06/20 06:00 PM
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You go out and do your night game, during your night, befriend the guys who seem to be out doing the same and now you’ll have guys who have the same mindset.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 12:33 AM
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Go do a heavy leg day at the gym and see how you feel the next day. My libido is vastly improved with routine, heavy workouts.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 12:29 AM
1

Start by reading “Models” by Mark Manson Refer to the side bar and all time top posts here.
/r/seduction09/06/20 12:04 AM
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For example, you mention your height out of no where in the post which indicates you have or (still may have if you’ve worked on it) some insecurity about it. The post did not read like you were wanting legitimate advice but you actually wanting some validation on what happened to you. Only you can decipher what your true intentions are.
/r/seduction08/06/20 04:09 PM
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Your post and replies reek of validation seeking and some form of insecurity that you should identify and address yourself. My honest answer would be that maybe your true SMV isn’t as high as you may think it is, which thus allows for these low SMV girls to feel like they can hit on you.
/r/seduction08/06/20 07:54 AM
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That’s something you’re going to need to overcome. Money is a means to an end, if you’re suffering from the idea of spending it to better yourself in other ways then you’ll have to work to get past that mental hurdle.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 03:23 AM
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Your post read like a lot of excuses for why you can’t do things to me. Excuses for your glasses, your height, your situation, why you can’t get laid because you don’t have XYZ. Quit whining and just fucking do it, just fucking start.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 02:18 AM
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Gonna cheap out on your mental health?
/r/askTRP06/06/20 02:15 AM
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AWALT Any woman will be a slut for the right guy.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 08:45 PM
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You should lift. I can literally feel the test after heavy leg days.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 09:07 PM
5

This is fucking gay.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 02:11 AM
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I got started on Adderall XR but I found out that works too long for my taste. Adderall IR 10MG once per day. I usually split the pill into 5MG and take tolerance breaks in order to keep my dosage low.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 06:26 AM
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If you have a legitimate medical condition, that’s what they’re there for. I was diagnosed ADHD in my mid twenties and once I started medication, something clicked. My work and personal life excelled. Coupled with the physical and benefits from lifting has made me into much more of a man than I could ever be alone. Just don’t abuse it.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 03:32 AM
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Firefighter. It’s fucking great.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 03:21 PM
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Preselection. It’s like you buying a brand you know versus a brand you don’t know. When girls see you with another girl, they want you more. It signals to them that that hot girl sees something in you and your SMV to be with you and they want that.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 09:21 PM
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Absolutely but focus on things you can actually change.
/r/seduction01/07/19 02:52 PM
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Comment on one of her IG stories. Make it funny.
/r/seduction01/06/19 11:12 PM
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We all tend to stifle our personalities a little when meeting new people because internally we are unsure of what they’ll think. This is attributed to an issue with caring too much about what other people think. Once you completely and fully do not care what somebody thinks of you then you will feel truly free to act however you want because they can take it or leave it
/r/seduction01/06/19 07:11 PM
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Sometimes you just don’t want to date and that’s okay. You should spend this time focusing on yourself then. I go through phases myself where I am going on 2-3 dates a week and phases where I’m so burnt out; I don’t even want the girl to come over even though she just wants sex. It’s okay. Like lifting, listen to your body and mind and do what’s best.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 06:42 PM
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Yes.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 01:30 PM
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What the fuck. Chill. You’re fine. Maybe read some up on your sex ed
/r/askTRP29/04/19 02:35 AM
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Don’t let race get in your way. Source: am Asian
/r/seduction31/03/19 12:46 AM
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You’re fine. You stood up for yourself and didn’t back down. Walked away without getting into real trouble. I’d call it a win. Your heart was racing and you were nervous because of your fight or flight system activating.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 11:12 PM
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Yes. Approach.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 01:25 AM
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fuck what people think of you in high school honestly fuck what people think of you in general. do your thing, you’re setting yourself up for a good future when those “fun” dudes will be reminiscing on their good old days in high school. the older you get the more smv you’ll have
/r/askTRP10/11/18 10:05 PM
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cute, fun, friendly.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 04:52 AM
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Dublin, london is far too much like the US. been to both, dublin is too fun. also guinness
/r/askTRP09/11/18 03:57 AM
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me, myself, and i
/r/askTRP09/11/18 03:56 AM
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cool story bro
/r/seduction09/11/18 02:47 AM
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Yeah me too can you give me tips on blowjobs
/r/seduction09/11/18 01:46 AM
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Be Asian.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 01:17 AM
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Kill them.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 01:17 AM
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Just hang out with them when you want and drop them when drama happens. Make sure they don’t think you’re exclusive because that will blow up in your face. Better to be honest. Chicks rather share an alpha than be exclusive with a beta.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 04:06 AM
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AWALT.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 02:20 PM
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It’s the apps way of getting you to pay.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 08:01 AM
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Women be women. A bit of over analyzing on your part I’d say.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 06:52 AM
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Ultra Miami is the only one I really know of out there.
/r/seduction01/08/18 12:52 AM
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Make friends with the people around you, it is way easier at a festival than a club.
/r/seduction31/07/18 08:54 PM
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Yes, definitely. One of my buddie's is the definition of that. He gets the people around us involved in a natural, fun way and we just get the social status that way.
/r/seduction31/07/18 08:54 PM
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Depends on the festival. Just shorts and a tee shirt usually. Accessorize with a watch, bandana, and sunglasses.
/r/seduction31/07/18 08:53 PM
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I just isolate and pull once the event is over. Sometimes it's hard for her to find her friends again and that is perfect excuse for me to invite her over since some trust has been built from the time we've spent together.
/r/seduction31/07/18 08:52 PM
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If we had to classify our dancing it would be called “Swangin.” It’s kind of a Southern California thing that Asian girls love and are also really good at. Here’s a video: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=KlZc8-IlwNQ We got started back in college when we would all go out together. Only one of us was good at dancing back then but we didn’t care, we still had a lot of fun and eventually we just learned from the one guy and then from each other and started getting really good. I’ve gotten a lot of co…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 04:18 AM
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170 lb 12%.
/r/seduction03/03/17 09:49 PM
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That's fine. Add deadlifts and overhead press.
/r/seduction02/03/17 03:07 PM
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It's biological. Being comfortable is something humans crave and once you're in it, you don't want to leave. You have to mentally prep yourself every day to take on the challenges in that day and tackle your goals. You have to learn how to be uncomfortable everyday because that's what is going to get you to do things.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 03:07 AM
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As nerdy as this sounds, I really enjoy board games. I enjoy the strategy behind games and the bonding and fun times you have with a group if you choose to do MeetUp. Beware: Lots of white knights in those groups.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 03:05 AM
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Besides the seduction, I think you should take some time out and work on yourself. Getting (nor keeping) a woman will not make you happy. Being happy by yourself and loving yourself and key to a healthy life. I think your mindset would shift if you took some time and practiced meditation, read some books like "How To Win Friends & Influence People." & "No More Mr Nice Guy", and generally setting some goals for yourself outside the seduction realm.
/r/seduction02/03/17 03:03 AM
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Find your TDEE by using a calculator and eating +500 calories on top of your TDEE. Track your weight gain, you should be gaining about a pound a week. 3x is good for a beginner because you'll be sore very easily.
/r/seduction02/03/17 03:00 AM
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I am currently @ 170 and I'm bulking at 3,000 calories. It is too much for your current weight. You'll gain much more fat than needed. I don't do cardio because I hate cardio but cardio is good for your heart. 15 minutes a day will lead to a healthier life and you'll just have a eat a little bit more. I make friends at the gym by going every day. People start to remember me and I'm a naturally friendly person so I talk to people. The front desk people know me by name, I know at least a few peopl…
/r/seduction01/03/17 03:34 AM
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/r/gainit is great resource for bulking up. It all depends on how much bodyfat you have. You can be 170 at 5'7 and look fat as fuck or big and shredded depending on your body fat. I'm 5'10 and shooting for 185 @ 12 percent body fat. 12-15 percent body fat is pretty attainable and maintainable year long and it leaves you looking pretty cut. You're a beginner. 3x a week on Starting Strength / Strong Lifts for 3 months then I would switch over to the beginner PPL (for the hypertrophy content that g…
/r/seduction28/02/17 07:14 PM
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Not wrong at all. From my personal experience, the amount of attention I have gotten from girls has directly correlated with the amount of muscle I have. The more muscle I get, the more attention I get. Just went home for the weekend and went out and got more attention and compliments on my body than ever before.
/r/seduction28/02/17 05:36 AM
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Black dudes have low body fat and DGAF. They aren't bitches and have been told to go for what they want since they were kids. Men who don't care what anyone thinks and take what they want are attractive to women.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 04:24 AM
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This is asking if water is wet. Men and women are biologically wired to like certain thing. Muscles is what women like. Go bulk up.
/r/seduction22/02/17 04:22 AM
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The hook point requires a lot of emotional ups and downs on part of the girls. She needs to feel these emotions (good and bad) to "hook" on to you. You need to be arousing enough in an atmosphere where they have constant stimulation and you need to keep that up until the "hook point." Push/Pull. Teasing. Positive/Negative Emotions. Those will move you forward from just casual conversation.
/r/seduction22/02/17 04:20 AM
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Go out, talk to dudes, find someone who is into pickup as much as you. Wingman up.
/r/seduction22/02/17 04:18 AM
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Sounds like you were the alpha fucks, and now you're just a beta buck. You're a sport fisherman. You catch this fish and like any other sportsman, you show it to your friends. You take a picture, you look at it, and you throw it back in the water. Any girlfriend, wife, or a significant other is a fish that jumped back onto your boat. This fish will flap around on your boat and run all the other fish away. You tell this fish what your job is but she says, when she flops back on the boat, "Is that…
/r/seduction22/02/17 04:17 AM
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You need to work on your "inner game." Basically you need to cultivate a sense of confidence, a sense of self worth, and in your case, sounds like a sense of humor. You can follow a lot of guides on here and the internet in general but if you don't start fixing yourself and making yourself who you want to be a priority, then you will never keep a girl after your facade falls away.
/r/seduction22/02/17 04:12 AM
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The three second rule is only there because it makes you not think about approaching, it just makes you approach before your mind tells you to not do it. You should use the 3 second rule if you find yourself having approach anxiety by overthinking. You can definitely still approach after the rule is null, but it will probably be harder because your mind will be telling you not too. That's why there is a 3 second rule to begin with.
/r/seduction22/02/17 04:08 AM
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I like this response.
/r/seduction21/02/17 04:36 PM
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You just keep doing it. It's like going to the gym, the longer you stop, the harder it is to pick up where you left off.
/r/seduction21/02/17 04:35 PM
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You need to truly cultivate an Abundance Mentality. Read the sidebar article and internalize it.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 05:09 AM
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Realize that you're nothing but a speck in the universe. When you die, eventually nobody will remember who you are. Nobody cares. When you realize this, embarassing yourself a little bit in front of people isn't the end of the world.
/r/seduction21/02/17 04:57 AM
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It's the social conditioning in the US. European women (especially in Eastern Europe) have less social conditioning via the media. You accept that if you live in the US and are a minority and you move on. Choose to focus on things you can change, like yourself.
/r/seduction21/02/17 04:56 AM
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Fuck, dude. Stop overthinking. Why would you apologize for liking someone. You sound like you haven't internalized a lot of things. Use text for logistics, for a meetup.
/r/seduction21/02/17 04:53 AM
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Just a more severe form of approach anxiety. You just need more real world experiences to realize that approaching should never cause you this much anxiety.
/r/seduction21/02/17 04:04 AM
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I don't let anybody vent to me unless it is my best GUY friend. We vent to each other and I will call him on his bullshit if I sniff any. Now if these are women or "girl friends" that are venting to you then you are nothing more than an emotions sponge beta buck. If you try to call them out on something wrong, they will get offended because they "just want you to be a good friend and listen." Know the difference. If it's your best bro, you should be more than willing to call him out on any bulls…
/r/seduction21/02/17 03:55 AM
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Never know unless you get it checked by a doc.
/r/seduction21/02/17 03:49 AM
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Needs more context. Are you whacking in 3 times a day? Then yeah you won't have a sex drive. You don't get hard when you see your first set of titties in real life? Get your T checked.
/r/seduction21/02/17 03:42 AM
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Go LTR if you want, you're your own man. /u/failingtheturingtest gave you some advice and instead of choosing to respond creatively you chose to respond with a very insecure message. Do what you want, you seem to have formed an opinion already.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 03:38 AM
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Nah. I'm busy.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 03:34 AM
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If it was a playful slap during teasing, I don't see why not. Others would just view that as flirting. Now if the slap was serious, then no, personally I would never let anybody disrespect me like that.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 03:32 AM
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Ah. Thanks for the heads up. Let him wallow in his pity pit.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 03:30 AM
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Yeah man. You can definitely hit 170 pounds in a year if you ate right and worked out hard. I dicked around for a while. I'm on a bulk for 185 right now before I start cutting down. I would suggest starting with pushups, pullups, dips. Some things to start building some strength before you hit the gym. /r/bodyweightfitness I heard is good. I would not rely on just body weight fitness though. You need to be disciplined and get on a proper training program and proper diet and nutrition.
/r/seduction21/02/17 03:29 AM
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Yes.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 03:19 AM
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/r/gainit is a great starting point. When I was 18, I was 5'10, 135 pounds. I am now 23, 5'10, 170 pounds. Chicks look at you differently man. It's a whole new world.
/r/seduction21/02/17 03:18 AM
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LA. Extra overly inflated egos along with abundance of drugs, alcohol, and low quality men hungry for some loose puss.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 03:17 AM
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3-4. Any more and it's just too time consuming juggling that many.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 03:15 AM
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Except for chicken unless you want to die. I want to add onto this. Get on a legitimate lifting routine and get your diet in check. Make sure your personal hygiene is always on par. (Showering, brushing your teeth, deodorant, grooming)
/r/seduction21/02/17 03:15 AM
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5'9 130 lbs. You need to lift and gain weight. You're grossly underweight and skinny. That's why chicks don't see you as anything other than a "cute puppy." This translates to them not wanting to fuck you.
/r/seduction21/02/17 03:10 AM
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You need to get over your fear of rejection. Being rejected by two girls and being heartbroken over it is not conducive to your "game." You need to be able to take being rejected by over dozens of girls in ONE night.
/r/seduction21/02/17 03:09 AM
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Congratulations man. Now keep doing it again and again and again until the rush goes away and then you'll be comfortable approaching anyone, anytime.
/r/seduction21/02/17 03:05 AM
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Google MGTOW.
/r/seduction21/02/17 03:03 AM
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Don't compliment them.
/r/seduction21/02/17 03:03 AM
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Google. DiCarlo Escalation Ladder
/r/seduction21/02/17 03:02 AM
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Women are fickle. Could be any reason in the world. Move on, stop overanalyzing.
/r/seduction21/02/17 03:01 AM
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/r/askseddit tldr: There's never a perfect time, texting sucks, go for the hangout. Intentionally friendzone yourself if you want to just be her friend. Your post is so convulated I'm afraid you don't even know what you want.
/r/seduction21/02/17 03:00 AM
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You look good shirtless? Abs and shit? Go for half topless masculine. You rocking that dad bod or skinny as fuck? Go for peacocking funny. Play to your strengths.
/r/seduction19/02/17 11:09 PM
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I've had a lot of success with women of all races. I have always had success with women of all races and I believe that is a huge factor in why I am confident in closing with all types of women. In my opinion, location does play a factor somewhat. I would say that women are a lot more open minded outside of the US. They're not as exposed to the bombardment of stereotyping that is prevalent in US media. Now, I believe any man can overcome these stereotypes through a rock solid foundation, positiv…
/r/seduction19/02/17 10:38 PM
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Definitely psychological. I had this after an LTR breakup. I definitely didn't really go the all too healthy route. I got Viagra. I cut the pill into quarters and would pop one the first time before I knew I was taking her home. I didn't feel that much of a difference with the pill but I think it helped my psyche immensely. I didn't need to use it a second time with the same girl until eventually I didn't need to use any of it at any time with any new girl.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 03:18 PM
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I sharted once while squatting.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 03:16 PM
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Why don't you just say thank you. humblebrag
/r/askTRP16/02/17 03:15 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 03:42 PM
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Personally, I will have diet coke once in a while if I'm feeling a sweet tooth. I track my calories and I try to avoid unnecessary sugar and diet coke is 0 sugar. I know there have been some studies with aspertane messing with your body's regulatory functions with sugar but as with anything else; a little bit every once and a while shouldn't hurt.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 03:42 PM
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If you want to be successful at pickup, you will always be known as the weird dude to some girls. You will also be known as the smooth talker, charmer, confident guy to others. So you can either take your chances with some and get some down with others. Or you can not take any chance at all. I would advise toning it down in high school though. Social circle game is much more effective due to the gossip culture.
/r/seduction15/02/17 03:37 PM
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This.
/r/seduction15/02/17 03:35 PM
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Yeah you're a bitch if you can't stand up for yourself and have to go online for this simple of advice. This is bare basic sidebar. Step up. Respect yourself.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 09:18 PM
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It's going to teach you how to stop reacting like a bitch. I can already assume you're a bitch because some random talks to you like this and you don't have the balls to say anything back.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 07:09 PM
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Questions and answers. "What's the craziest thing you've ever done?" to "Where's the craziest place you've had sex?" to "What's your wildest sexual fantasy?" "DiCarlo Escalation Ladder." Google it.
/r/seduction14/02/17 07:00 PM
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Tits, ass, and a not a dick underneath. Breathing preferred but not required.
/r/seduction14/02/17 06:59 PM
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This shouldn't affect you if you're self assured and confident in yourself. If she asks about it just say it's herpes and you aren't fucking tonight (hint: yeah you will).
/r/seduction14/02/17 06:58 PM
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Sure. Go and find out for yourself.
/r/seduction14/02/17 06:57 PM
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This is the real world now, he needs to learn to be responsible for himself and his life. Read his post and count how many excuses he has in a paragraph.
/r/seduction14/02/17 06:50 PM
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Anyway physically, I am an Indian male, very much on the slim side and I wear glasses so many people think I give off an intelligent, science type vibe. Ding, ding, ding. You are Indian. You have that going against you already (nothing wrong with being Indian, you are just fighting an uphill battle with stereotype in Western society. You're slim. --> You look like a weak, little bitch. Go to the gym and bulk up. Girls have already categorized you as a beta. They don't want to fuck you, looking a…
/r/seduction14/02/17 04:52 PM
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She wants to be able to have fun without me and them like we used to when there was nothing between us. She is saying she wants to go out and party like a single girl and make out with Chads are the clubs because "girls just want to have fun." She can't do that when you're out with her. You said it yourself. Demote to plate. Move on.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 06:22 PM
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Imagine yourself as a train. As this train, you are going from point A to point Z. Point A being your birth and point Z being your death. Every single point in between should be a goal you want to reach during your life. A woman should never be a point in your life. She should be a passenger that can hop on and off your train at any time while you try to achieve your goals. She will never affect your journey but she should only help you along and she is more than free to jump anytime as you are …
/r/seduction12/02/17 06:17 PM
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Not enough detail. Has she been receptive to you this past weekend? Has she been on one of your frat bros dick all weekend? You already fucked up. You had plenty of opportunities throughout the weekend. Go back to the sidebar and the books and improve yourself. You didn't escalate throughout the weekend and now any last ditch effort is a high risk, high fail. Go for the kiss as a last ditch effort. You'll know for sure if she likes you. Try harder next time.
/r/seduction12/02/17 06:12 PM
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I have found that I do the same in the beginning of parties or night's out, but the women that are interested in me generally have come back for a second round or hint that they want to talk more by (eye contact, laughing, vicinity). At that point, I will focus my attention on that girl, group, person. I would advise moving on from the initial "talk to everyone, and be social." and start focusing on closing the ones that come back for a 2nd round.
/r/seduction12/02/17 06:10 PM
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Jack, your writing is what inspired me to format the thread this way. I appreciate the response!
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 04:20 PM
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Fantastic input. I'll edit and add some more thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 05:48 AM
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Simply AWALT. Long post but it does hit up some points that don't get brought up often. I do endorse having Asian friends if you are Asian. I grew up in a primarily white neighborhood and had only white friends until college. I found that I really connected more with Asian male friends because we all grew up having similar cultures and that really influenced me in a very positive way. We all grew up having similar struggles and the ability to grow together was top notch.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 07:21 AM
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Enjoy being mediocre.
/r/seduction04/11/14 07:25 AM
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Drop her right then and there, walk away, & cut your losses.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 12:44 AM
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Please refer to this sexual market value chart. tldr: No, you are actually entering your "prime" as a man right now.
/r/seduction13/09/14 10:28 PM
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I just went where I wanted to go, UK, Paris, Amsterdam, & Berlin. Partied my ass off and did all the touristy stuff as well.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 04:38 PM
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Thanks bro, we're all gonna make it.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 06:58 AM
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I don't blame Asian women for going after white males. They're simply looking for the highest value men and they've been socially conditioned to believe white cock is high value. Just puts a flame under my ass to keep raising my value. Don't get sucked into the Wall hitting late 20's Asian girl who wants to "finally wants to settle down with herown kind because she realizes what she really wants" = "I'm hitting the wall now I want a beta male of my own race to make my family happy and support me…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 06:56 AM
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Don't worry bro, we're all gonna make it.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 06:54 AM
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Take all that mainstream social conditioning and throw it away. I used a lot of real life experience and mentality. I went outside the US where that mainstream social conditioning American girls eat up aren't prevalent. Eastern European girls especially aren't conditioned like that and their open mindedness is amazing. French girls are great. I just grabbed as much reference experience as I can. It didn't hurt either that every girl I've fucked/dated has been white.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 03:21 AM
35

I don't let race get in my way, I reframe in my mind and use it as an advantage. I'm motherfucking exotic.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 01:53 AM
6

Yeah, I'd be more worried if it was a Euro trip. It was a trip out to some lake with her parents.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 01:17 AM
21

All of them are hers. She's a white girl.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 12:49 AM
4

Have fun with it. Look over and make eye contact with her, smile and then make a raspberry face. :P If she laughs or makes a face back, make the "call me" sign. Roll down your window and get her number. Ride off into the sunset. Source: I've done it.
/r/seduction25/06/14 10:34 PM
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Added.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 03:56 AM
11

Rollo, I actually have a copy of your book in my Kindle library right now. I found the formatting of the book to be strange and somewhat difficult to read. I also figured that most will be able to head to your website and find the individual articles that are presented in the book itself.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 03:56 PM
2

"48 Laws" is really focused on manipulation and power control. Not an easy read for most who have certain morals or religious ideals. I placed it in that section because I want the beginners to have a good introduction and base into TRP through core concepts whilst more intermediate TRP-ers who have already swallowed the pill will find the book helpful in instilling this set of behaviors (if they wish; "dark triad traits"). It's there at least for most to be able to identify people's hidden agen…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 02:54 PM
66

You talk to her and find out.
/r/seduction10/12/13 04:14 AM
17

No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover
/r/seduction02/12/13 09:56 PM
1

More gold bond.
/r/seduction30/11/13 01:54 AM
2

I really hope you are trolling.
/r/seduction27/11/13 01:42 PM
1

Okay go for it; you don't need our validation.
/r/seduction15/11/13 05:40 AM
4

It's better to be interested than interesting. Let them do the hard work of talking and all you need to do is listen and bounce off their points and ask and inquire further. People will think you are interesting when you are interested in them. It's like the Ben Franklin effect. (When you ask someone for a favor, they like you more, it's a psychological thing) When you are genuinely interested in what the other person has to say; they will think you're the most interesting conversationalist in t…
/r/seduction09/11/13 12:12 AM
1

You don't. You do what you normally do as yourself and maybe, just maybe you can show them the different person you are or have become. You can't force someone to change and no matter how much you talk to them about it they can't change unless they truly realize what's going on and truly wants the change for themselves. You can be honest with them and point out what's going for them, that would probably be a good step. Depending on their reaction; You can somewhat gauge if they are willing to ch…
/r/seduction22/10/13 05:05 PM
2

No.
/r/seduction11/10/13 01:22 AM
1

Or you know, you could just realize texting is a terrible median for seduction and just use it as a way to meet up instead of trying to play these "text games".
/r/seduction09/09/13 07:52 PM
11

Why not just buy it and support Mark Manson and compile the points yourself? It'll help you learn and get into the material more while at the same time supporting a great author.
/r/seduction20/08/13 07:07 PM
3

The first step is fixing you and your life circumstances first. You will actively emit a negative aura when you have so many negative things going on in your life. Yes you may be talking to girls and making them laugh but they can sense of stress in your body language because you're stressed about your home life. As with everything; focus on yourself first. Fix what's going on at home and get yourself to a place where you don't need to stress so much. Focus on yourself first and foremost and the…
/r/seduction17/08/13 12:46 PM
2

Never heard of the Book of Pook but I will definitely give it a read!
/r/seduction04/08/13 04:09 PM
44

Models by Mark Manson No More Mr. Nice Guy The Game by Neil Strauss How To Win Friends & Influence People
/r/seduction04/08/13 08:58 AM
21

The good men are everywhere. He could be walking into the Starbucks as you brush past him. He could be walking down the street as you walk your dog. He could be lifting weights as you run on that treadmill. You'll never know unless you find out, right? Put yourself out there to men whom you feel attracted to and feel you want to get to know better. Send those signs and signals and maybe even approach him first if your desire to meet him is so extraordinary. You know what you want and what you do…
/r/seduction31/07/13 07:33 AM
1

Yep. You are confident and comfortable in yourself to be able to do things such as this and not have a care in the world what the outcome is, be it good or bad.
/r/seduction30/07/13 03:28 AM
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People's pupils dialiate when they see something they like or want. It's one of those cues that a girl likes you if her eyes dialate when she sees you or is talking to you. Good job catching on to that. A lot of guys don't know.
/r/seduction29/07/13 07:04 PM
20

Don't know why so many people are bagging on you. I really appreciate the perspective from the other side. Life is all about perspective and learning and calibrating things through experiences and this is just another insight into an experience I otherwise would not have. Thank you.
/r/seduction23/07/13 12:23 AM
23

Fantastic view of the opposite end and great information. Thank you for posting!
/r/seduction21/07/13 09:44 PM
26

I read through this whole post thinking Molly was actually a girl friend of yours, silly me.
/r/seduction18/07/13 12:35 AM
1

My ex-girlfriend's dad was one of the nice guys who never seemed to fully figure out this paradigm. He lives vicariously through his wife and children and his wife is so mean. He is the nicest guy in the entire world and places all them in front of him and it just sucks because I can psychoanalyze him and Nice Guy Syndrome would be the diagnosis but sadly it's been so ingrained that I don't think that he could ever get out of that mindset without a lot of therapy and time.
/r/seduction18/07/13 12:33 AM
1

I'm glad. It's a terrific read that changed my whole mindset around.
/r/seduction17/07/13 01:23 AM
53

No More Mr. Nice Guy This book has single-handedly and coupled with Models by Mark Manson changed my life in the shortest most dramatic ways possible that I couldn't have never imagined.
/r/seduction16/07/13 01:49 PM
7

Starbucks. Bookstores. Hookah Bars. Casinos. Malls. Anywhere you go and see a cute girl.
/r/seduction15/07/13 02:40 AM
2

As long as you make your intent clear and don't pussyfoot around. She'll friend zone you if you aren't upfront about it.
/r/seduction15/07/13 02:39 AM
8

Lesson? Move on. Emotions were probably high that one night and she is probably having buyer's remorse or felt like using you to have a feel good time.
/r/seduction14/07/13 04:13 AM
3

You can physically push/pull as well. You can tease a girl and say "Get out of here!" and push her away and then pull her back in and say "Where the fuck are you going?" All with a smile on your face. Push/Pull is like an emotional rollercoaster.
/r/seduction13/07/13 11:27 PM
3

For example: "You look like a down to earth girl; I bet you go to xxxx college." "Noooo, I go to yyyy college." "You're lying to me! There's no way you go to yyy college. (insert something about yyy college, insert someone you know at yyy college, insert question about why you chose yyy college)" Then move on. Go with the natural flow of the conversation. Don't be too worried about the outcome.
/r/seduction12/07/13 01:49 AM
2

Skim through it once a week. ;)
/r/seduction12/07/13 01:47 AM
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Arrive on time, you want to get to know everyone, right? Talk to everybody. The minute you enter that door, open the first set you see. Doesn't matter who's in it. Get and remember their names. Introduce them to other people. Introduce everyone even though you aren't the host. Smile and laugh. Have a good time and just have the mindset of wanting to get to know everyone and enjoy yourself. It's better to be interested, than interesting. Ask them about themselves but don't do it in an interview-e…
/r/seduction11/07/13 11:12 PM
23

Good work, buddy. What's clamming?
/r/seduction11/07/13 11:05 PM
2

I wish.
/r/seduction11/07/13 10:20 PM
5

She's tired of the same types of guys hitting on her. The same boring type that drill her with interview questions and can barely listen to her answer before one upping her or asking another question. She's rooting for you to be the one that stands out and captivates her. She's rooting for you to be the one that sweeps her off her feet. She's rooting for you to be the attractive interesting man you truly are.
/r/seduction11/07/13 06:29 PM
3

Who cares? Does it really sting your ego that much that you won't approach a woman you are attracted to because of some 120 count message on a website? Let go of your ego, that's usually what's holding guys back.
/r/seduction11/07/13 06:28 PM
4

Have you read "Models" by Mark Manson? It definitely changed my lifestyle and mindset around. I was really skeptical at first but I read it through in one day and I re-read frequently. It doesn't just focus on pickup. It really focuses on achieving confidence, happiness, and comfortability in yourself and your lifestyle.
/r/seduction11/07/13 04:28 AM
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You never see guys doing this because most guys are so caught up in their own ego (placing a higher emphasis on other people's perception of them than their own perception) and so afraid of rejection and failure. Rejection and failures are just another stepping stone and learning tool. Who cares what your co-workers think? You don't need any validation from them. Say "Hey, I had the courage to approach that girl and tell her that she was beautiful." Who cares what your co-workers, bystanders, or…
/r/seduction11/07/13 03:49 AM
20

"Where are you from?" and "What do you do?" are so trivial and is asked to the girls probably hundreds of times before. You should want to connect with a girl. Ask yourself before you approach a girl; "I wonder what she's like?" A conversation is a two way street, not an interview. Connect with her. Make her laugh. Escalate kino. For example: instead of asking "Where did you go to school?" instead you should make a statement; "You look like a super down to earth girl, I bet you go to (insert sup…
/r/seduction11/07/13 03:19 AM
37

Approach them. Open them. "Hi, my name is Caesar2013, I'd be kicking myself and posting on Reddit later about not approaching you if I didn't come say hello." I mean; you probably shouldn't say that but just say something. That's all you need. Listen and conversate. You can ask an open ended question and be indirect, or you can convey your intent and be direct. It just depends how comfortable you are with yourself, ego, and rejection. It's better to be interested than interesting Smile. Joke. Ki…
/r/seduction11/07/13 03:05 AM
1

You can tease them a lot when they miss. High fives when they make a strike. You can try to teach them "proper stance". There are plenty of opportunities.
/r/seduction10/07/13 06:53 PM
9

Coffee dates accompanied afterwards with a walk in the park or the beach. Bowling is great for kino. Playing a few rounds of pool is also great for kino. Ice cream is cheap and fun and so delicious. I'm not 21 therefore those are my suggestions for the 21- crowd.
/r/seduction10/07/13 01:25 AM
1

I'm closing in on my year with this account. Mainly asking questions and posting in the beginning and now I'm perfectly content with helping others. We all start from somewhere.
/r/seduction09/07/13 11:34 PM
-5

Hi my name is AsianAway, I'd love to take you out on a coffee date. Keep it simple. Convey your intent and interest.
/r/seduction09/07/13 10:38 PM
1

Sidebar.
/r/seduction09/07/13 09:23 PM
10

Dude, you got it. All those responses are perfect. Agreeing and amplifying just shows the confidence and comfortability you have in yourself. It shows you're confident of yourself, self-image, and self esteem that you aren't fazed one bit by their remark. It shows you are comfortable with yourself because you can amplify and make it into a joke and show to others that you can things in stride and are perfectly comfortable with whatever may be thrown at you. Being able to take a remark such as th…
/r/seduction09/07/13 03:46 AM
18

Agree and amplify. Always. "Yeah my hands are super small, I swear I can work in those Nike sweatshops making shoelaces!" It shows you are confident in yourself and completely okay with things that are not in your factor. I am Asian. Vietnamese to be specific. I know I have a big nose. Whenever people point it out I just agree and amplify. "Your nose is so big!" "I know right?! I swear if I wasn't Asian, I'd be a Jew!"
/r/seduction09/07/13 03:30 AM
3

No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover This book really opened my eyes. If anything in my entire time learning self help and seduction; This one book coupled with "Models" by Mark Manson has helped me the most in introspection and figuring out how to be completely happy with where I am right now.
/r/seduction09/07/13 01:34 AM
6

|I could tell she was into it because her vagina was wet. Well shit, I've been going through this whole sex thing wrong my entire life.
/r/seduction09/07/13 01:00 AM
11

Approach: 3 Second Rule - From the time you spot a girl you want to talk to; you have exactly three seconds to walk up to her and say "Hello." No thinking. Just do it. No hesitation, make a straight line for her and go. Interaction: Enjoy the interaction. What's the point in trying to think of what the next thing to say is and completely miss out on words? Most guys wait for women to stop talking so they can start talking about the next subject they were thinking about. You'll have time AFTER th…
/r/seduction08/07/13 10:47 PM
1

Doesn't matter. Looks aren't the primary factor of scale of attractiveness for women as it is for men. It seems you have a small bit of a self esteem issue. It really doesn't matter how attractive they (your best friend and brother) look as long as you don't make that an issue. Be comfortable and confident in your own skin. Assume attraction from every woman you talk to until proven otherwise. Attraction is built upon your authenticity, desire, excitement, lifestyle, confidence, comfortability, …
/r/seduction08/07/13 10:36 PM
1

Keep it light. Text is such a terrible median for communication. I personally use it to meet up with the person. If you must text. Seriously. Keep it light. Don't tease/neg because it can easily be misconstrued over text. Have fun and just say whatever you want to say and entertain yourself. Text Game 1 Text Game 2
/r/seduction06/07/13 11:33 PM
17

DJ Fuji. I personally feel like he is one of the absolute best "coaches" in our field and his speeches are great. Not because he is Asian and I am Asian but he has some great material and really talks about creating a whole prosperous lifestyle for yourself. He really connects with his listeners and myself as well and strives to create a great environment for anyone trying to learn self improvement. He has some great talks on the 21 Convention. I've compiled these full length videos for you fell…
/r/seduction06/07/13 11:16 PM
3

Escalation Ladder Handshake at beginning. Touch her when she laughs at your joke. Ask/touch her about her rings/necklaces/bracelets. Etc etc etc.
/r/seduction06/07/13 11:03 PM
3

Yes, yes it does. If you go up to two difference sets, and have the EXACT same conversation, only one where you are darting your eyes around, hunched over, not smiling, talking too fast and quiet, completely insecure with yourself, no confidence, no abundance mentality or outcome independence. It would be completely different than the group you approach where you have and display all those features.
/r/seduction06/07/13 07:00 PM
3

It can be common. It just depends on what type of mindset and person you are. There's no shame in having it, your feelings are heightened because you're doing something new for the first time therefore you're more highly invested and more feelings come out of it. Just don't show too much neediness if you feel your oneitis becoming strong. No shame in having oneitis if things go well, if things go sour, forget about her. You can approach plenty more.
/r/seduction05/07/13 10:49 PM
6

"Hi, My name is AsianAway, you guys look like a lot of fun, I had to come say hello." "Hi, My name is AsianAway, you are gorgeous and I just had to come say hi." "Hi, My name is AsianAway. What's yours?" "Hi, My name is AsianAway." "Hi." It doesn't matter what you say, It's what's being sub-communicated through your body language, confidence, and comfortability that ultimately counts.
/r/seduction05/07/13 09:34 PM
3

If you perceive her as a bitch, you have already ruled her out of your demographic. Why do you want to hook up with someone you think is a "bitch?" To boost your ego and win a bet with your friend? Stick with trying to create sexual attraction with a woman you actually are interested in and want to have in your life besides trying to hook up with her as a trophy.
/r/seduction05/07/13 09:32 PM
2

Go easy on the alcohol. Sure you may think you're super suave and have the ability to do anything but it really diminishes your ability to actually improve your skill set.
/r/seduction05/07/13 08:34 PM
29

Call her when you want to do something. If she doesn't answer, Do what you wanted to do anyways with somebody else. You aren't waiting on her to do something with you, She is merely somebody that can do something with you that you've already planned and if she misses out on that opportunity then that's her loss.
/r/seduction05/07/13 06:24 PM
5

Yes. I don't know how well it works but I tend to use a similar exercise. Everyday I like to think of things I'm grateful for and reframe any negative thoughts to a positive one. I've found out that I'm generally a happier person and a lot more stress free to pursue whatever I choose to in my day.
/r/seduction05/07/13 04:36 PM
16

Honestly. I know I'm not the ugliest nor am I the most handsome man in the middle. When I'm out there, I just completely forget about how attractive I think I am and I just assume all women are attracted to me until proven otherwise. It doesn't matter how attractive you think you are, It only matters that the girl you are seducing is attracted to you, either by her telling you or you assuming it. Always assume attraction.
/r/seduction05/07/13 03:37 AM
6

It happens man. My buddies and I like to play the blowout game at the mall and more often then not, girls react exactly the same way that she did. There are three types of girls. Receptive, Neutral, and Unreceptive. She clearly fell into the unreceptive range therefore no matter what you may say or try; it may have already been impossible to sway her in a positive direction. Good luck and there will be plenty of neutral women and even some receptive ones you'll approach in the future.
/r/seduction05/07/13 12:54 AM
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