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AskYourWingman/r/seduction20/02/19 08:14 PM
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First of all: calm down. She's a woman. How is a woman going to hurt you? I wouldn't use a script. You can't script the other side of a conversation that you don't have any foreknowledge on. So far you've grabbed her attention. You've convinced her that you are a person who is worth her time. Congratulations! My advice to you would be to act natural and calm. Where is the date taking place? Utilize open ended questions so that she is talking about herself. Go along with the conversation so that …
/r/seduction20/02/19 11:55 PM
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I keep my social media footprint low. I use twitter to keep up with news and to announce my blog and I have a personal Facebook to look at cute cat photos my sister posts. I avoid Instagram as I find it complete narcissism. But other men have found it useful to "advertise" their lifestyles to women. Other than that, if she wants to communicate, texting is good. Though when you call that shows boldness.
/r/seduction20/02/19 10:11 PM
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Sounds like a validation babe. If you haven't had frequent contact with her as well as constant communication, not to mention been physically located in the same room as her, ditch her.
/r/seduction20/02/19 09:41 PM
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"Let's exchange numbers. Here's my phone. Put it in!" It works in business as well as in seduction.
/r/seduction20/02/19 09:34 PM
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Yeah. Little hooks. Light, charming, and playful, but not insulting, jabs. Josh with her. Joke with her. The best example of how to do this is to watch episodes of Curb Your Enthusiasm and watch how Larry David's character talks to women he is attracted to (I'm serious about this). It's confident. Light. Playful. And good humored. There is probably some correlation between our faces flushing when we hear a joke and when we are aroused. Humor lowers our guard and inhibitions, making us vulnerable…
/r/seduction20/02/19 09:30 PM
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I don't think you did. Next time you meet her, work on barbs. Compliment her hair and say that it must have taken a whole lot of time to get done. Try to be the natural extrovert.
/r/seduction20/02/19 09:12 PM
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I find that this is useful. But I too have found that it only goes so far. Theories are gray. Real life is green. I prefer to show women what my life is like in the flesh.
/r/seduction20/02/19 09:02 PM
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For some women, yes. But for others its just filter selfies and validation circus.
/r/seduction20/02/19 08:51 PM
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Scandinavians typically have a more open sexual culture in general thanks to Protestantism and Secularism. However, if she's not going to meet with you, she's just playing in the validation garden.
/r/seduction20/02/19 08:41 PM
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Drop her like 5th period French. As u/c4toyourdoornobeef said, you are in her orbit. Get out of it.This is one reason why I am wary of OLD and Snapchat. It is full of women just looking for validation. You are a cool and interesting person. And your time is precious. If she doesn't want to hang with you or delight in the pleasure of your company, move on.
/r/seduction20/02/19 08:27 PM
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I too have been divorced and separated. The best way to forget about a woman is to replace her. The best revenge against a woman is to show her that she is replaceable. Although I am not terribly keen on OLD, definitely meet some of these women that you talk to. In the very least it is good practice.
/r/seduction20/02/19 08:17 PM
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