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Your story is another vote for why I wouldn't support 50-50 custody. Which for the record, I would never support because of how fucked it is. According to what you've said, your ex was violent, and really upset the kids. Even if you had your protective order upheld, your ex would have gotten 50-50 by default here in Australia. And that can be terrible not only for the person trying to get away who is forced into contact with their abuser, but now the person who uses violence is alone with the ch…
/r/AntiFeminists09/04/22 03:14 AM
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From what I read they said they shouldn't be equal split because of situations like yours. She wasn't saying they shouldn't be equal in favor of women, but that they shouldn't be equal because the courts fail. At least be honest. She was basically agreeing with you.
/r/AntiFeminists09/04/22 01:33 AM
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Idk man thats kind of psycho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:20 PM
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No it really doesn't. It doesn't work on crazy women. I can tell you this from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 03:07 PM
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I understand. Appreciate the info.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/08/21 05:46 PM
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What does this mean?
/r/PussyPassDenied08/08/21 04:53 PM
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What? 1 in 3 men are incels? What a crock of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:19 PM
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Don't know about alcoholism, but a quick Google search returned this. It was just a survey by one dating site so take it with a grain of salt. Even assuming it's true, it's literally women 4 to men's 3 so nothing major like what OP is implying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:18 PM
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Funny enough I was never asked that either until recently. I ended up (by order of my job) in the ER and they asked me if I felt safe at home or was abused. I'll be honest my first reaction was the laugh. It was so far out of left field and it's never happened to me before until now.
/r/MensRights25/06/21 01:09 AM
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There are plenty of women fine with a working class blue collar man. I work a blue collar job. I make enough that I can support my wife and kids and have a bit of fun on the side. I'm also fairly overweight. Last I checked she still loves me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:47 AM
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I disagree with the last bit. Not to say that men don't do that, but I would say it's equally women. There's a reason that there are countless articles from radfems basically saying they don't like the "male ally" stereotype and are attracted to conservative, more traditonally masculine dudes. The average woman, despite probably being attracted to some men who don't fit this type, still tend to want a strong (in all ways, not just physically), masculine, male. The truth is that if women didn't w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 01:14 AM
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You should check out r/marriedredpill
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 01:16 PM
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The cruise ships are a red herring. They have no bearing on the discussion at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 04:48 AM
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Hahaha I had no idea who you were. Funny that my previous content probably came straight from the mrp subreddit lmao.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/20 07:23 PM
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Haha I had no idea. I'm even seeing the r/marriedredpill mod flair.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/20 07:23 PM
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Honestly, if your wife isn't fucking you it's one of three things. Either she's got some kind of issues going on like postpartum depression, she's cheating on you, or your behavior is to turn off. Find out if the first one's happening, if it is get her to see a doctor and get on some medicine. For the last one, take a good look at yourself and what you're doing. Are you acting the same way you did before you were married and before you had kids? Or are you acting like a little bitch now. It's ea…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/20 06:19 PM
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I mean, I'm a lead tech and my wife is a SAHM and I still do the cooking. I like to eat. I like to cook. She's not bad at it. She doesn't refuse to do it. Im just better at it and I enjoy making a meal that's delicious and enjoyed by many.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/20 04:03 AM
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Lmao my wife was literally a cashier at Walmart. Now she takes care of our children and is working towards being a tattoo artist. Ladies, your job literally doesn't matter to most men. Are you interesting to be around? Are you attractive? Are you a nice person? You're good to go. I could give a fuck what kind of job you have if you're going to make it 90% of your identity.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/20 09:48 PM
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LMAO when I was in OLD nearly every woman I spoke to had a height requirement. For most of them it was just taller than them. Most women don't have a requirement like "must be 6 foot 2". But height does still matter. It's not all women but it sure is a lot of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 12:15 PM
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Lmao guess I'm a myth. I'll let my wife know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 11:37 PM
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Maybe because there's more to life than finding a low n count woman to marry? Why do you even assume its OPs "must have" in a woman? It's entirely possible, even likely considering the arguments he's making in his post, that its more of a big plus than a must have in a woman. You're comments read like you're trying to maneuver OP into some kind of a gotcha moment and the reason you aren't getting him there is because your comments assume specific things about him that are unlikely to be true. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 11:36 PM
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It's in plenty of teen movies dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 11:54 PM
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That isn't at all why men avoid women with large n-counts. Theres a scientific, biological reason for it. For a man to raise a womans children is a tremendous sacrifice on the mans part. Hes sacrificing his time and resources to do so. A woman with a high n count is more likely to have extramarital affairs. Shes more likely to get pregnant with someone else's child. If a man spends his life and resources raising someone else's child then hes essentially wasted his life to end his genetic line. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 11:53 PM
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So you want some guy to sweep you, your kids, and their 4 baby daddies up and you can't even give him a child of his own? LMAO good luck
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/20 05:27 PM
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Why would a woman ever openly admit that she was always attracted to the "bad boys" and now wants a "good guy". It's not gonna help her. What that really says is "I used to get way wild in the sack with all kinds of dudes that are the polar opposite of YOU and now I don't do that anymore" It just screams high n count and the high likelihood of either cheating a year or two into the relationship or straight up leaving it to return to her party years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/20 05:25 PM
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then we no longer have the power to shatter your heart, break your dreams in front of your face, and make you feel like you want to curl up and die. I'm 100% convinced that every self described RP'er is a beta that never learned how to handle rejection. It's a big facade. Real alphas do that shit naturally and dont need a therapy circle to learn how to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 07:24 PM
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Can you expand on this a bit? I'm from the south, and while I've been all over the US, I haven't lived all over the US and 99% of my adult life has been experienced in the south.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 11:35 AM
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So let's say you have a SO and she wants to film you guys having sex so that you can have some porn for yourself. Is she still dumb for filming it? Are you going to leak it if given an opportunity?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:28 AM
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If he does that while not wanting to become a father, he's been willfully stupid. Agreed. The last one in the OP is the one I take umbrage with. No man should be paying for a kid that isn't fucking his. Other than that, if you choose to have sex at all, you should be responsible for your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:22 AM
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No they really don't. Thinking that men shouldn't be forced into paying child support for a child that isn't theirs does not equal supporting a welfare stare.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:19 AM
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Damn son. Congrats on winning that exchange. Everyone knows if you make a grammatical error your argument is invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:17 AM
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I don't know that I could be called tradcon, though for me best case scenario is a woman who's job is to take care of the home and children. I don't want anything like SA here. That shit is fucked up. I'm fortunate enough to be living it now though and I love it, but its not feasible for the long term. The world has moved on from it and thats that. Eventually my wife will want to go back to work and I'm not going to stop her. Two incomes will be really nice. As nice as it is, as much as I love m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 11:06 AM
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So can rape. And being murdered by their partner. And dying in a car accident. And being in a the midst of a random terrorist attack at an airport. And dying from a virus while at work The difference being that all of those things are seen as horrendous when they happen. Society does not in general accept that rape happens to women and that its ok to do so. Society doesn't think twice when a woman divorce rapes a man. It happens all the time. In fact, our judicial system enables and supports it …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:00 PM
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Nevermind the fact that plenty of us here are married. It's not about rejecting all women. It's about rejecting selfish, horrible women who are destroying their lives while blaming men for their problems.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/20 02:57 AM
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Stories like this make me grateful that I have custody of my kid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/20 10:43 PM
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I'm not going to be fool enough to say you're wrong though I sincerely hope you are. My wife has proved herself numerous times to be radically different from the average woman. You may still be right, though I (admitting I'm biased here) dont think you will be.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/19 01:42 AM
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You're totally right. The thing is she coe to me for advice. And I give her solid, honest, direct advice. Then she gets offended. But just like how in dating her actions aren't matching her words, she doesn't really want my advice. She wants reassurances. She wants me to tell her that most men are pigs and theres nothing shameful about being a whore. She wants me to lie to her so she can have an easier time ignoring her conscience. She knows she's doing wrong, but she doesn't want to stop acting…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/19 07:18 PM
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She's my sister not my wife's. We get along when we need to, but they rarely hang out. My wife knows exactly how bad of an influence my sister is. This isn't anything that my wife and I haven't talked about before. If she wasn't the kind of person that can see how my sister is destroying herself we probably wouldn't have made it beyond a few dates. I'm beyond done with dating feminist women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/19 12:50 PM
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This shit honestly makes my fucking blood boil. My wife is due in a few months and she just quit her job so she can stay home with the kids and I can pick up more responsibilities at work. We both want it this way. My single mom sister? All she does is bitch about how she cant find a good man and she's going to be single forever, but question her about why she's constantly pawning her kids off on her piece of shit ex (and this dude is a grade A shitheel) so she can get fucked up and party and go…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/19 11:47 AM
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theres the fact that guys arent made for monogamy an Yeah that's just not true. We evolved to be monogamous. Is everyone that way? No not at all, but it's not a fact that men in general are not monogamous. Now that the pedantry is out of the way I just disagree with your entire premise. I think general you're right, but I think it has more to do with modern social and sexual norms than it does baser biology. People get married for the wrong reasons. People who are unhappy with themselves seek fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 05:31 PM
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So she whored herself out for 10 years, but now wants to get out since she has a degree. Problem is only she knew she was a prostitute.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/11/19 04:49 AM
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Im saying that what you're arguing for has the same consequences. It doesn't play out like youre presenting it. It's more complicated than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 11:25 AM
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You're telling me there isn't a link there?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 11:01 AM
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What your essentially arguing for is what happened in Chicago after they banned abortion. It vastly increased single mother birthing rates and led to the massive gang violence we saw. I'd recommend doing some further digging into the statistics on single parent households. It's not pretty. It can hardly be considered "more stable" or better for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 10:59 AM
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Fucking Jody got her huh
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/19 11:52 PM
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Wait you're not talking about notorious school shooter Samalay Hyedeka are you? He killed my little sister!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/19 12:50 PM
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Hey. Cool it with the antisemitism. JEWS ROCK!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/19 04:44 AM
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So biologically, and this is 100% factual science here, women are the selectors when it comes to mating. It's why a man earns a woman and a woman gets a guy. They choose based on a number of factors and to distill it it's two things: your ability to provide and your ability to protect. All the others just play into those two traits. Alongside that there is competition. Men compete with each other, and women compete with each other, but...and this is a big but...because women are the selectors, t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/19 03:17 AM
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Yeah I agree with you. It's not helping anyone. That being said, I'm loathe to throw the baby out with the bathwater. I can accept the good things that both feminism and TRP have to offer and reject the bad. Hardly anything in life is black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 11:34 PM
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People aren't drawn to TRP because its right wing. They are drawn to TRP because TRP is about traditionally masculine and feminine roles and that's not something that your average leftie is going to be on board with. It's not a "right wing ideology". It's a conservative ideology and you can be conservative and not be right wing. Prominent RP'ers being right wing and making it political doesn't mean that it is so. I don't believe everything about TRP, but some of it has merit to me, and I base th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 04:40 PM
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Haha ok. Do you enjoy being a walking stereotype? Is it difficult to constantly keep this faux armor of snarky don't give a fuck? No no it's not that YOU are deeply flawed and unlikeable is it. It's just that MEN are so shitty and selfish. They just can't handle a STRONG, INDEPENDENT woman such as yourself right? Keep telling yourself that as you cry yourself to sleep every night utterly and completely alone. You'll get laid every now and again sure, and you'll feel better for a bit (after all y…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:41 PM
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Lmao bitter much? You come across as a girl that got knocked up by an asshole and now you're jaded because asshole is an asshole. Your experience is the exception not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 05:10 PM
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Dude you need to get some help. How the fuck is "clean your room" center right? Unless you're implying that cleanliness is something foreign to the left lmao. People DO get angry if you try to argue in good faith. You'll get told you're arguing in bad faith when you aren't and your words will be ignored. It's not everyone, but still a lot. You claim the dude can't think for himself but I've seen the same shit you're saying here said by a bunch of left wing chapotard type people. I've seen the sa…
/r/MensRights26/07/19 04:00 PM
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A strong and independent woman doesn't need strangers on the internet to upvote her course of action in order to decide what to do. Lmao To add on, this is what 20+ years of hypergamy does to a woman. She's incapable of forming a meaningful emotional bond with this man (or anyone for that matter). There's so much cope in here. "I'm an introvert, he's an extrovert". Trying to insinuate he's being controlling by carrying over dominance (when it doesn't sound like he is at all). You spend half your…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/19 05:48 AM
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Lol k Cause THATS what I said lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 05:27 AM
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You know, I really kept thinking about your comment and no matter which way I look at it you're right. They may not want sex that specific time, but ultimately, the end goal would be sex. Same for women though. Even if the particular date was for food, that's just a mammalian brain telling you to sustain yourself so you can have sex in the future. Everything everybody does is based on sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 11:13 PM
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I would wager Lmao what part of that means it's a factual, demonstrably true statement? Do you know what that phrase means? It's literally a guess. Fucking lol man. Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 03:20 AM
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There is real gender science though. Two fields actually. Psychology amd biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 06:45 PM
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I mean, would you deny that women are more emotional than men? On a biological level, women tend to be more driven by emotions than men are. Women tend to be less logical than men. That doesn't mean they aren't logical, but that on average, they tend to be less so than the average man. That's not to say that all women are like that, or that all men are logical, or that no man is ruled primarily by emotions. There are absolutely people that don't fit the averages, but that doesn't mean the averag…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 03:53 PM
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First off. Thank you for being open about what feminism really is. It's about women. It's not about equality or egalitarianism. It's about women. I disagree with it, but I truly do, unironically appreciate the honesty. The "feminism is for men too!" bit is getting old. Now to my actual comment. If feminism is about helping women, then why does it push sexual promiscuity onto women when there's ample evidence that it's not making them happier. Being ok with your sexuality and not being shamed for…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 11:27 PM
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It violates some rights, doesn't it? Not if you consent to it, which the parties involved do before even setting foot on the studio.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/19 12:56 AM
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Well yeah and that's the point I was trying (badly) to convey. Preferences are there. Most men are going to have the same preferences. But for men, while having your preferences hit is nice, it's not nearly as important as it tends to be to women. That's why men think most women are decent looking (fuckable) and women think most men are below average (not fuckable). Having preferences and requiring preferences aren't the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 04:24 PM
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Yeah I can see why. If its any consolation. There are an extremely low number of people who fit every beauty standard. 99.9% of people in the world won't fit into this. I certainly don't. And men, as I've laid out already, are perfectly fine with being attracted to a wide variety of types of people. Having dark skin is most certainly not the worst thing in the world. A fit black woman will be infinitely more attractive than a fat white woman. When I said that, I was talking about two identical w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 03:37 PM
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That’s not true lol. Lmao go read my comment again. White skin is IDEAL. That doesn't mean that men won't find other skin colors attractive. I myself find plenty of black women attractive, but at the end of the day, most men would say that all else being equal, white skin is more attractive than black skin. Not saying it to be hurtful or anything. It's just the way things are. People would also find my buck teeth to not be attractive vs normal sized teeth. I'm not going to get bent out of shape …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 01:41 PM
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it's a common argument used to try to prove that all women are attracted to a certain subset of men whereas all men like all types of women in all their forms That's not what the argument is for nor what it means. Men WILL find a wide variety of women attractive, but in this case attractive means fuckable, not the ideal standard of beauty. Most women are faily decent looking with a few being top tier in looks. Women will say that most men are ugly with a few being top tier in looks. We all still…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 12:36 PM
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Men have varied tastes = men will fuck just about anything. Women take this to mean that men will go after specific ugly-ass women with odd traits and what LTR's with them. That's not what it means. Men do have an ideal beauty standard (white skin, wide hips, big tits, clear skin, symmetrical face and high cheekbones). That doesn't mean they can't find other women attractive. It doesn't mean they don't have types that are some variation of what I listed. It just means that 99% of men will find t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 12:33 PM
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Unpopular opinion incoming. On the other hand, the Red Pill also tells you to never have children. Hold up, that’s not natural. RP dudes who spread this mantra use it as a shield because they aren't doing TRP right. It's a defense mechanism. TRP isn't about being a huge asshole and taking what you want. It's about being secure and confident in yourself as a man. Repeating the "don't have kids" bullshit is a pre-emptive strike so that betas here can take comfort when no woman stays with them long…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/19 12:21 PM
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I don't get it. What did she do?
/r/PussyPassDenied14/05/19 05:47 PM
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