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MetaAskada/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 01:33 PM
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Seems like you have much more of a problem around other men than women. Get into some combat sports, this will both do good for you physically and emotionally, you will gain the confidence you need.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/23 07:14 AM
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You basically asking textbook questions about textbook problems. Try to actually read some of the sidebar in TRP sub, because you clearly read none of the important stuff, or you gonna have a rough time mate.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 01:00 PM
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Calling her out on this will surely not make you any good. She obviously has a thing for you. Hanging out with her will not make you any good either, unless you want to fuck her but I fail to see why would you. Older sister, really? Try to cut her off slowly. She is not your sister or mother. She is a dog in the manger. Bitter and malicious on top of that. Cut contacts and get some male friends ffs, not random older hags.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 02:59 PM
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Generally speaking I'm not a fan of rating women on a scale 1-10 and I think it should be avoided as much as possible. I believe it leads to pedestalizing them, especially if you rate the girl 9 or 10 or something like that and it just shows in your behavior and provokes dumb arguments like this one. I always preferred simple 0-1, either I think she is fuckable, or she is not. Simple and healthy.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 03:54 PM
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Groundhog Day. The true TRP movie. He chases this girl for the half of the movie but when he gives up and starts to focus on himself, self improvement and building social status she goes after him instead.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 08:08 PM
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She was on her period. That is most likely, don't get into rocket science here.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 09:52 PM
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it recently stopped Not anymore Seems like I'm forcing it You answered your own question basically. Things were good, but not anymore. Trying to fix things is never worth it. Forcing it works the opposite. Yes, move on. You seem young, find another girl, and another after.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 08:21 PM
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Your problem is you have an expectation of her, that she will initiate meeting. This is wrong. And the tone of your post can suggest that it makes you bitter and angry. I know because I've been the same. You can't change her actions in the long run, but you can manage your expectations. You are doing what you want, she is doing what she wants, you are not obliged to respond to her snaps or whatever. However, you are the one who initiates meetings when YOU want it. You are the one who picks thing…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 12:20 PM
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Also no idea what the fuck is happening in this thread. Some guy wrote low quality post with ridiculous advice, while mod gave him flair for it and banned few people who made fun of it. What the actual fuck, is this trp sub now?
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 09:40 AM
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Finding all those qualities in someone mixed with them being very attracted to me won't be easy What the fuck are you even talking about. Meet with 10 girls than come back and say that again. Classic oneitisus.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 12:13 PM
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I'm glad someone brought this up. This thread is ridiculous, are we seriously advocating such behavior? Mantaining frame and proper mentality is one thing, but I fucking fail to see how flaking on purpose would be legit sexual strategy for any high value man, this is just some PUA bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 09:02 AM
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I think the same. "Emotional immaturity of LMR", that's nicely put. I don't really feel like tolerating LMR - I would be like sure honey, go home. But to be quite honest, I never experience it these days anyway, and vaguely remember it from the past. The post is well written and solid advice overall, but to me it's somewhat abstractional. I cannot fathom the idea of having girl at your place who already doesn't want to fuck you. I mean come on, I'm not 20 anymore. That goes even further, when a …
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 09:15 AM
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I don't quite agree with the last part. Branch swinging isn't always for the better. Different is often more than enough. Don't fool yourself thinking if you are the best guy out there, top 1%, she will never leave you. She will in a fucking heartbeat once she gets bored.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 06:30 AM
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It is, and it's good. Rating women in 1-10 scale, like we usually do, leads to unecessary pedestalization. 0-1 is simple as it should be.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 06:24 AM
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You got shitload of good advice here. You just happen to not understand what is being said.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 08:17 AM
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I don't quite agree with everything OP said. I think the big part of feelings you have depends a lot on your previous experiences. The smaller part comes from your personality and character. If the theory you are reading correlates with your past, that is what makes it a whole. You feel more complete. TRP is nothing without your experiences. You will not feel delusional if you experienced enough bullshit. You will not experience furious denial if your past 3-4-5 relationships got fucked up and y…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 09:50 AM
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If fucking OP's hot sister goes with folding her clothes I'd rather look elsewhere, thanks. Also, there is one undisputed fact: "no frame Chad" clearly didn't earn OP respect. And you being respected by other guys plays quite fucking important role in how you are perceived by women.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 09:06 AM
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OP is most likely just a human, not a robot. And swallowing red pill is never instant. I'm quite positive that a lot of guys around here have had mixed feeling about girl from their, lets call it, in-between phase.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 10:55 AM
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You seem perfectly fine emotionally and cool headed, based on your posts.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 10:48 AM
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Making her want to have something she thinks she cannot have. That something is you.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 10:42 AM
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It's kinda sad some of you people don't even uderstand what have you just read, if it's not some bulletpoint PUA bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 12:57 PM
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I’d still like to get that one last hate fuck in. Fucking don't. Also you just wrote wall of text over your ex. That's about it.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 12:09 PM
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You are kinda joking but I have to say as long as I respect all the advice given here, it's not the first time I'm reading similar thing and shaking my head unwittingly. As a man living in middle Europe I'm FUCKING TERRIFIED how you portray things to be in the US if you actually need to implement and use strategies like that. I'm not saying shit like that never happens here, or women are different here (they are not, AWALT), but rather society and courts don't buy bullshit. That would just sound…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 02:17 PM
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This is the case in general.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 01:42 PM
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I don't masturbate too often couple times a week Couple times a week is fucking often. Thats literally like every other day to every day. And I call bullshit on 50 day break. There is no fucking way you went from jerking off every day to 50 day abstinence out of the fucking blue, without exploding. Stop bullshitting us. Just stop watching fucking porn and murdering your dick every day. That's your answer right here.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 12:32 PM
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There is no better response than no response at all.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 07:54 AM
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30+ single mothers only. Because everything works on them. Other than that, are you seriously thinking fucking crayons and tom&jerry is legit idea?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 08:05 AM
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bitter experience TRP was built on bitter experiences.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 06:14 PM
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As a long time TRP lurker I have never ever seen an advice that one should seek a woman who earns a lot. It's quite the opposite actually, getting financial independence is one of more common advices you will find there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 10:11 AM
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Yeah, boxing or kickboxing is THE shit. In questionable bar/street situations nothing will solve things better and faster than a single, solid punch in the face.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 11:04 AM
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If you are confused then go to ASKREDPILL Well, to be quite honest that sub is, sadly, very low quality. I would say If you are confused just keep reading more of the good shit we collected here.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 08:19 AM
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Why cant WE be more affectionate? Well, you can. You will just be unhappy with the outcome. It's similar to asking, why can't you punch some random bloke in the face and expect him to apologize you for it. MAYBE I DONT WANT TO BE THE ONE THAT LOVES LESS You can't eat a cookie and have a cookie at the same time, simple as that. What is the point of LTR's if you cant show the love you want to/have to limit it? If you want to feel loved, go hug your mother. You go into relationships to have sex and…
/r/askTRP08/11/16 11:17 AM
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First of all preaching to people who are not ready (and most of men are not ready) is pointless or stupid and will make no good to you. Secondly, hollow sentences like "not allowing this to happen" and "shit not being tolerable" are some prime relationships sub advices and make me laugh. You can't communicate with something like that. That ship has already sailed. His marriage is not salvageable. Her attraction is not negotiable. The only reasonable advice for this man is to stand up right now a…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 12:21 PM
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Once you swallow the pill you start seeing RP truths literally fucking everywhere. In music, literature, movies, everyone's behavior and everyday life.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 07:39 AM
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How can I ever trust another woman Women are not trustworthy, just accept it like the sunset. how can I ever find the person that will be my partner You can get a dog if you miss true companionship but you will deal with it eventually. the one that always has my back? Your best friends and maybe the family are the ones who should got your back. My other half? After you will deal with anger phase and start self-improving you will become a complete man, no additional "halfs" will be needed. I hope…
/r/askTRP24/10/16 07:32 AM
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I don't think so. It's outcome that matters in this particular scenario. Good luck keeping frame when she's going nuts and pulls out rape card out of the fucking blue.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 07:10 AM
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It's a sticky worthy comment. Good job.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 07:04 AM
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Since when women tell men what they want? Since when women are supportive? Since when women take responsibility for anything? Are you high or just a bad day? Of course she's responding to his SMV. She wants fun, feels and fucking tingles. She's not being another "bar slut", she's just being another fucking woman. Noone is arguing that marriage is a good idea, but come on, dude is already married. Divorcing out of the fucking blue, now that's a bad idea, right here.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 02:22 PM
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Yeah, what a retarded advice in this context. I was about to comment how OP's wife sound like a genuine good wife who hadn't dumped his pathetic ass and looked for cock elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 01:03 PM
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I wouldn't call it companionship if the animal can't even understand what you're saying Well, while I agree with you on the mantainance cost in time and money, I don't really agree on this one. It's not a fucking rabbit or turtle we are talking about here. Dogs will read the shit out of you and will love you more than any woman ever will. They are called best companion for a good reason.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 04:33 PM
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She's openly said that if we were to break up that I would most likely be the one breaking up with her. She's just dreading herself. That's good. Just pass her shit tests like pointless arguing or withholding sex (thats not acceptable).
/r/askTRP12/10/16 08:33 AM
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Inspiring. You lived a life I would like to live, and I'm going to live. It's empowering to hear someone succeeded with that. From my experience it takes a lot of effort to manage more than 2 women at a time, and free time certainly can be an issue, let alone solid frame. That's definitely something I will gladly read again sometime.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 12:57 PM
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Good follow-up. I didn't like that sentence as example, because it implied much more.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 11:11 AM
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you fuckers who come here and learn game, and leave, missed the entire point I like it, this rings a bell. People come here and confuse TRP with some pua bullshit, while it's all about understanding your life choices and possible expectations. It can have a lot to do with a women for some of us, but there is often so much more than that.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 09:42 AM
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Yes, but the sole purpose of trp ideology is to act in the best interests of men. Not society, not relationships. Just men. In this particular scenario there is nothing to gain from telling his girlfriend or breaking up. Therefore, carry the burden and keep the frame. Nothing happened.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 01:05 AM
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I like your post. Shit is funny because now she's unhappy as fuck but KNOWS he is best she can get. OP is in superior position, I would say.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 04:49 PM
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To be exact, her debts is shared debt, but your debt stays yours. The double standards at play, just from one of top posts today: [OP:Female] since we’re together, it’s our money and that I was wasting it. [Top comment] Oh no. That money is yours. Put him in his place. If he wants more money he can earn it, not use yours.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 01:08 PM
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That relationshits sub is bottleneck of pure retardation, I don't think I've ever seen legit and logical response there. Their daily posts could alone supply us with lifetime-long front page of blue pill examples.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 12:36 PM
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Well guess what, it's just acting, only mommy is able to give a child real love. Fucking this. If you want love and affection call your mom or get yourself a dog. Women can give you only sex and laugh, not fucking affection, wake the fuck up.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 11:47 AM
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I'm teasing the shit out of every chick in my office, also sexually, but I'm not gonna escalate because I won't shit where I eat. But I like to joke that they are not "good enough". I may be the clown but that's quite enjoyable tbh. Also good practice.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 06:45 PM
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Question; so say no to them asking to hangout with random dudes? I recently said yes and it didn't go well.. But I thought saying yes to these things was standard protocol here, am I wrong ? Asking about something like that is already a sign of disrespect. Girl that is into you will never ask shit like that because she would never risk losing you.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 05:49 PM
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You are overthinking it, also scaling like that is retarded. New girl is into him because she's getting tingles and he's dominant and witty.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 05:46 PM
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fucking spot on, i'm gonna paint in on my wall
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 05:42 PM
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they don't add value you can't get elsewhere. Exactly this. This is very important to understand.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 04:52 PM
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No grown up ever has an excuse to act like that Yeah but women are not grown ups. That's why you treat them accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 06:44 AM
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I'm happy with myself for a long time now. Once I swallowed the pill it filled every fucking possible gap in my psyche I needed. With all the misconceptions about society, relationships, women, love, life expectations and my problems with outcome independence I had before, being introverted person was nightmare at times. Being good looking was the only thing that got me interactions with girls at all, but that was given, not earned. Now when I'm actually working on myself and my attitude towards…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 07:03 PM
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There's no way I could be with a woman who told me that I needed to watch how a real man fucks. I can't even comprehend how any man could listen to that like he is seriously considering the option. Like, what the fuck.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 09:40 AM
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What surprises me even more that he still seems to be in denial that she's fucking her ex.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 09:33 AM
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I am KIND OF up for it if it will make her happy Then you are stupid. The question is will it make YOU happy? If the answer is yes, then rethink it. It's not good idea. However, she wants it be someone we know who we can trust. She mentioned an ex boyfriend of hers who is a mutual friend of ours as a possibility Holy shit I knew this was coming before I have read it. And now, I'm pretty sure she already fucks him on a weekly basis and wants to bring him to your bed without having to hide it anym…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 09:29 AM
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What kind of bullshit statement is that? Go get married now and I assure you in 5 years you will loathe the bitch you married and will praise the days you were "alone". "Get married, you don't want to spend your life alone!" is blue pill bullshit we have been fed with since our birth.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 09:18 AM
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I have very bad feeling that in couple of decades, when rate of marriage will drop significantly, mariage will not even be required for mother of your child to get half (or more) of your shit. What a time to be alive.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 09:09 AM
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That's very particular question. Basically her texting is a good sign as long as there is sexual tension between you two. Be careful to not fall into being her emotional tampoon. I can't answer just "long" or "short" as it's too subjective, but here are some general rules I suppose most of us would agree on, when it comes to texting: never reply right away never send more than 1 text at a time don't seem too commited dont pay attention on proper punctuation or capitals (All of the above show tha…
/r/askTRP05/09/16 06:57 PM
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I always had this fantasy that a woman would walk into my life and bolster me up. This is just a fantasy. You can't expect unreal. Accept the reality the way it is and work around it. You will be happier man. No woman will ever love you the way your mother did. Or even your dog. You have to accept it before anything else. I have this mindset that females are pure and perfect princesses that I should serve That's actually really bad mindset. The most troubling sentence in your post. You will neve…
/r/askTRP05/09/16 11:10 AM
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First of all don't worry about it too much, it's just another experience. Next time never text with that passive-aggressive manner, just keep it short and make it seem like it doesn't affect you (it truly shouldn't), just say simple "ok, no prob" and don't initiate again. If she will want to meet, she will initiate. Women who are interested will initiate. Meanwhile just look for more options. Learn to be outcome independent.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 10:52 AM
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I actually laughed out loud on this one. Women love free validation. No woman ever will turn it away. They just don't like unattractive guys hitting on them, everyone else is free game and they fucking love it. faithful lol
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 07:19 AM
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SJW jail Jokes aside, imagine the hellhole that place would be, if real.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 06:52 AM
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If that was really your first, you did okay. You could probably go for the kiss. If the girl is willing to go on a 1 on 1 date with you, she is always up for at least a kiss. Was she ready to fuck you on that first "date"? That's hard to tell. As for texting there is nothing more you could have done in this particular scenario and people suggesting you otherwise are wrong. They are correct about it being disrespectful and unacceptable but there is nothing you could have done about it. That is be…
/r/askTRP04/09/16 02:55 PM
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What you expect is entriely up to you, it's a matter of preference. Just remember to meet your expectation within possible boundaries. Here on TRP we are discussing those boundaries. Eg. you can expect sex, desire or dinner but you can't and shouldn't expect love, responsibilty or honesty. Expectations of impossible things is blue pill mindset.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 10:11 AM
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This is fucking golden. Notice how she takes zero, fucking ZERO responsibilty for anything. In her mind none of this shit is her fault.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 06:25 PM
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Girl: "Hope to see you soon. I miss you" You: "oh, I bet you do" (or smiliar banter shit like that) The next time you want to hang out you say: "I'm doing X thing at Y time, come with me/wanna join me" or "Lets do X thing at Y time". Make it seem more like statements than questions.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 08:39 AM
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He's just whining. This thread is a fuckton of good advice and it's all for nothing.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 08:02 PM
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In summer time, I used to have a lot of success getting intimate with girls outdoors, on the blanket or even on the car roof, in secluded areas on the riverside or on the beach - but that depends where do you live. Also, if you have enough money for that just take the girl out for a weekend.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 07:33 AM
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She didn't send him shit. Her phone is in airplane mode for the whole time. Hope it will make little more sense to you now.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 01:00 PM
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100% chance the dude who was making the photos sent it to him. Reasons? Bragging, bantering, eye opening or just a mix of those. If for some reason he hadn't fucked OP's wife before the photo, he definitely would have that evening. Also, phone in perma airplane mode when her husband is sick/in hospital. Fucking laughable.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 12:47 PM
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She's slutting around and fucking other men. It will not get any more obvious. I tried to hold frame and says that it wasn't acceptable and that she needed to confront them right now adorable
/r/askTRP25/06/16 08:27 PM
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This. These days are different. However it was quite a nice read.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 04:54 PM
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TRP ideology doesn't require you to constantly be taking it. Know it once, it's enough. But know it well. What you have done, like a lot of men making that mistake, is that you barely touched the surface of the TRP and ran out with the cocky attitude and PUA bullshit in your head, thinking that you are now enlightened and changed, while infact you barely knew shit. If you truly "took a pill" you would never fall in oneitis ever again. But you are young, it's understandable, you made a mistake ea…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 07:12 AM
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some newfag maybe, I'm amused by this series of posts and even more that they are getting upvoted so much
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 10:30 AM
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This is what a lot of men fail to understand and resort to pointless arguing about fucking skills and techniques instead. Woman cums with her mind.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 12:23 PM
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Because girls like witty and funny guys. They won't be attracted to you if you blindly follow them like a dog, they like feels. When she playfully calls you an asshole that's the sweet spot.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 10:08 AM
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Also it doesn't expect anything from you in return. Take whatever you want from it or leave it.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 09:55 AM
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Ask her out for a drink. If a girl wants to fuck you she will be up for a drink. Just find a bar near that dominos. Dominos is meh. Other than that you approach seems fine. I would avoid snapchat tho, just text her or call her.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 07:20 AM
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Noone in this thread used this word yet. However, it's the perfect example of a hamster, that is typical to not plenty, but all of the women.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 06:06 AM
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I'm gonna be direct. This shit sounds like you are whining. Seriously, just look at it, it's just whining. "He said, she said blah blah amanda hurr google maps 150 metres" Is it really what it takes to put you off your stride? Some bitch's blatant rumors? You are above this. Just approach that slut and tell her right in the eyes she doesn't have to spill bullshit about you left and right because you don't give a flying fuck that she is cuckolding her bf. Just do it when she's not alone, that's a…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 06:29 PM
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Majority of us once were. That's why we truly understand and respect what is being discussed on this sub. We see everything through our past experiences, making it 10 times more valuable.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 07:34 AM
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Don’t girls want to be loved? Well… not exactly. (...) What women really want is a guy THEY CAN LOVE. (...) They want a guy who is attentive, cares about them, isn’t needy, isn’t selfish, and isn’t an asshole. It's basically tl;dr version. And it fucking hits the nail on the head. That is some high quality posting. I applaud.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 07:26 AM
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That's why you never mention TRP outside TRP.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:53 AM
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And that are the answers men are looking for. TRP is fucking awesome.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:50 AM
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I agree overall, except this: Also, dudes need to stop kicking themselves when their girlfriend leaves them for "something better" or cheats on him with "chad".. Okay, so your girlfriend fucked a better looking more successful dude than you... It's not the best way of thinking. Women don't necessarily cheat with better. Different is often enough. The most handsome and successful guy on the world still can be cheated on, and WILL be cheated on, given enough time. Of course it doesn't mean you sho…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 06:38 AM
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Once you truly realise that women will never love you the way you want them to, you won't love them back the way you once did. No woman will ever love you the way your mother did, or even your dog. Women only desire you for a brief moment, then either move on or create an illusion of love, what actually is a mix of commitment, attachment, time invested and mutual memories. And how stable that illusion is is only a matter of her self-control ability. But don't take it for granted. I love women bu…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 11:10 AM
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Actually, this guy is very likely to not be cheated on Maybe in the first 2 months.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 10:51 AM
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Once you swallow the pill you start seeing RP truths literally fucking everywhere around you. In movies, literature, music, in everyone's behavior and everyday life.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 10:17 AM
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That's excellent definition of an alpha widow.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 08:25 AM
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I would say something along the lines: "you haven't deserved it, yet" with that special smile.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 12:29 PM
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Funnily enough I found this sub when one of the reddit users was linking it as a bad example of something. Or maybe I was subconsciously looking for something like that as I was bitter about a woman at that time. The time played a big role without a doubt.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 09:13 AM
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I have dated one single mom. Fuck me, she was a good person, not even remotely malicious and wasn't even interested in commitment. Lack of time was probably the only issue.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 08:25 AM
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That shit was truly inspiring. Thank you OP.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 11:29 AM
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