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| 1 | How long till we(society) solve the Obesity problem?Body positivity/HAES supporters want their cause to be considered part of feminism so that disagreeing with them is automatically sexist. I prefer denying them the satisfaction. There's nothing feminist about encouraging women to abuse their bodies and their health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/17 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Short guys are the futureNope. As I said in my original comments. Short guys aren't better in bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/16 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Short guys are the futureUh, no it doesn't. I wasn't sleeping with them because their height indicated to me that they'd be good in bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/16 07:42 AM |
| 2 | Short guys are the futureI've slept with quite a few short guys. I imagine more than you have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/16 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Short guys are the futureI absolutely do, and you're completely wrong either way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/16 07:16 AM |
| 2 | Short guys are the future...oh man this is hilarious. I've slept with plenty of short guys. Everything you said is complete overcompensating wankery. Short guys aren't better in bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/16 04:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If RP/traditional views aee true. Why do almost all girls fetishize/look at/rate guy's butts?That's not why dude. They're just fun to look at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?I can't get laid there. Suggests you're lacking in looks or skills. Can you please post a random pic of what you consider average then? Here. I deleted my tinder a few days ago or I'd send actual screenshots of guys I hooked up with. Not really, it's the same as ltr then. Only one person, "Exclusive" by choice or not. Exclusive is not casual. Yeah it is. If you're not romantically involved with them, it's casual sex. Especially if you haven't agreed to be exclusive with them. If by skillset you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: Why do men enjoy or not dislike being sexually objectified?And how much do you actually interact with young women, in a meaningful way? Because that's my demographic and the demographic of most of my social group, and they're not doing it for male attention, they're doing it because that's what's fashionable right now, and we in live in a hot state so less clothing is much more comfortable. Why are so you weirdly bitter about women dressing a way you perceive as "slutty"? Are you pissed that they're not as sexually available to you as their mode of dres… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/16 03:27 AM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: Why do men enjoy or not dislike being sexually objectified?It's not even like that, and it's easy to say when you're not getting it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/16 12:06 AM |
| 4 | When you were growing up, did people tell you attractive couples were "slutty, stupid, broken, damaged or mentally ill"?What? Just about everyone loves the story of two beautiful people in love. I've never heard anything like what he described. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 11:56 PM |
| 21 | Q4ALL: Why do men enjoy or not dislike being sexually objectified?I recently submitted the question "What's something you've always secretly hoped for a compliment on?" on /r/AskMen. And there were a few comments where men expressed that they're bored of compliments about their skills or work, and really want to hear something good about their appearance. Women, on the other hand, are mostly complimented on their appearance, and so tend to value compliments about their work or skills a lot more. So I think it's a lack of exposure. If they were objectified as m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?It would be limited by all those things if I only used my experience as a source. But I also see others experiences IRL and not only. So am I. But our secondhand experiences are limited by the types of people we associate with. They're not a random sampling at all. However, it's not common for guys to get casual sex via tinder anyway. Yes, it is. Thousands of guys get laid via tinder every day. For some reason, you're insisting that "common" must mean that an average guy must have majority odds … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/16 07:09 PM |
| 2 | A mutual lie between TRP & TBP: LooksBP people, especially women, often claim that looks don't matter, or only matter to a small degree, which is absurdly false. I've seriously never seen anyone say that, either on here, or when I used to browse TBP. No one is debating whether or not looks matter, the question is how much they matter. If you don't mind, could you tell me what makes you ugly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/16 09:43 PM |
| 4 | MBTI and RedpillNo, that's absolutely not the case. I often see people attempting to construct a "BP belief system" so they can try to debate that system, but TBP is a satire sub. Anyone who disagrees with TRP can fall under the blue pill umbrella. equalism even down to biology ("No difference between men and women beyond genitalia") I've never seen anyone deny, for example, that men are generally physically stronger. "there's someone for everyone" idealism Never seen this mentioned in TBP. TBP isn't at all foc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/16 06:37 PM |
| 2 | MBTI and RedpillStrong INTJ, blue pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/16 06:34 PM |
| 1 | It's not so much the 'misogyny' that BPers are concerned about. It's the inconvenience of having female sexual strategy exposed.Nah, we're really not. Half the shit TRP says is completely baffling to me. But yeah, I'm sure a group of bitter men are much better informed about women's thought processes than actual women are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/16 06:31 PM |
| 9 | Do women actually want men to suffer?If women can't TRULY love a man in the same way that a man loves a woman, and if women use their looks to deceive and manipulate men into loving them only to break their heart and wallet while showing no remorse or guilt Those are some bit 'if's. Why don’t they be honest and just say they hate us? Women don't hate you. They're just not interested in you. And through some kind of ridiculous mental gymnastics, you've convinced yourself that by not being attracted to you, they're despising you, spi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/16 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?You don't age into wanting a stable relationship. You think there's zero merit to the idea that someone might want to have fun and explore without being tied down when they're young, then age into wanting a deeper connection? Men are advised to fuck casually until they meet a girl who's worth it. But if women do that, they're sluts riding the "cock carousel." I'm getting really tired of having to explain these basic TRP concepts to people who criticize it before they understand them. You seem to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/16 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?Yeah, it's common for people of both genders to enjoy sleeping around when they're younger, then seek more committed relationships as they age. I disagree strongly with the idea that two types of men are represented there (do men who sleep around never age into wanting a stable relationship?) and that women are only settling down to use their partner for money and stability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/16 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?Yeah, we have different primary sex hormones. But exactly what that means for our behaviors and roles is basically constructed to support ideas TRP already had. And what about all the evolutionary circlejerking about AFBB or whatever? There's a reason evo-psych is a joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/16 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?I don't browse TBP. I agree with some basic RP stuff. Working out, improving yourself, practicing approaches and not getting overinvested, not putting women, especially specific women, on a pedestal, acting confident and avoiding neediness or clingry behavior. It's just all the BS sexual strategy/evopsych theories about men and women that I hate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/16 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?You're still letting men who exert pretend edge and pretend to be what they aren't distort your view of my flair color. Some of us practice what we preach and we don't hate you. Those people get upvoted and agreed with. I don't see any contingent of TRP who disagrees with that kind of thing. And honestly, it's almost worse when they say they don't hate women, they just acknowledge their selfishness, narcissism, overwhelming biological drives, childlike minds, etc. I'd rather be hated than casual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/16 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Question: If it's just casual sex, would a woman care if I don't work full-time or have my life together?Nah, I don't give a shit about a man's career career prospects or whatever if I'm just fucking him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/16 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?My word isn't garbage, It is if you cheat. my love is conditional, same as yours I'm not saying it shouldn't be. I'm saying, break up then fuck other people. And TRP doesn't say you aren't capable of love I've seen a few people saying that women are straight-up incapable of love, or, more commonly, that a woman's love is selfish and we can't experience the same self-sacrificing loyalty a man can. I think you lean blue because you let some disillusioned men warp your perception of my philosophy. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/16 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?And women were subject to numerous, dangerous pregnancies, had little freedom or agency, and, especially in more rural environments, hefted their share of the burdens. The past wasn't that great for anyone. That's why the human race has progressed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/16 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Who do Feminists actually Date?Thank you for the interesting conversation. If you ever wanna discuss any of those topics again, just let me know. It's pretty interesting given our radically different perspectives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/16 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Key DifferencesEqual has a number of dictionary definitions. One is "a person or thing considered to be the same as another in status or quality." I think equality means allowing each person to dictate your perception and opinion of them through their actions, not their demographics, and every person being allowed the same opportunity for self-determination. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/16 03:00 AM |
| 6 | Who do Feminists actually Date?Whenever I describe the type of guys I date on here I get told I'm dating/fucking betas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/16 02:56 AM |
| 0 | Question for BP Women: Who in here actually has blue hair?I, uh, have a pixie cut? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/16 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?Merely implying that I am still worth what she's not giving me is not wrong. “Dread” is putting the fear or ‘dread’ in your wife that you have other opportunities and other options rather than being chained to her whims. Which is exactly what I said. Maybe introspect on your behavior of wrongly demonizing me while your at it. This is interesting behavior from someone who claims feminists love to play the victim. Thank you for adding nothing substantive. Why does it matter to you? Why does it mat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/16 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?A reply is typically just that. It's not unreasonable to assume, without some disclaimer, that what someone replies to your comment with is related. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/16 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?the argument that women’s privileges do not count because they are the result of sexism is a technique used by many feminists to undermine the assertion that women have any privileges at all. Which I was referencing as the reason many people are hesitant to frame these advantages as "privilege." I know what both sides are arguing. The fact that there was this division of labour does not entail that women were seen as inferior. Women were barred from most professions. They were the charge of a ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/16 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What age range of men do you find to be "prime" and most attractive?Nah, I've only experience in a specific region of California. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/16 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?If you thought I agreed with you, why type out that whole paragraph? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/16 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?"SHOW your wife that you are capable of talking to pretty girls in public. Start with waitresses. If you are with your wife and it has been 20-30 days since she gave you the 'favor' of her body, and you strike up a conversation with a pretty young thing right in front of her" And the point of dread game is to make her insecure in your loyalty. We both know what talking to young attractive women in front of her is supposed to imply, and that it's probably not just a monotone conversation about th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/16 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?Well, why bring up the unproven and subjective view that the advantages that women have are caused by sexism? Clearly, it's to undermine the argument that women have many privileges that men don't have. No, not clearly at all. I very explicitly agreed with the idea of female privilege and the list provided. Notice that I said "I think the reason many people are reluctant to label those advantages as "female privilege" is..." As I said before, the source is disputed and irrelevant. Do you really … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/16 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?Maybe there isn’t an error that needs correction I never asserted that there was. That's why I specified "People who understand the wage gap and want to correct it." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/16 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Do You Think This Is A Fair Test of Husband/Wife?Its like you seek out betas! That's what's attractive to me, and I'm not alone in that. Oh lol, I wouldn't give up all hope. The most dominant guys are not necessarily douches. I don't actually want someone who's more dominant than me. I tend to automatically take charge in groups of any sex, and while I'm also fine being a follower if the leader is competent, I wouldn't want to exclusively inhabit that role. Yeah, betas. Maybe you look for higher betas. Typical husband material. What makes a be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 11:53 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about the large number of idealistic men in society that are genuinely surprised by female dating patterns?yes, and both parties agree to this. With the idea that women who want to lead are broken and just want to be dominated by an alpha male. There is no respect there for women who want to lead and men who want to follow. sounds spot on. Replace class with gender or race or anything else. Yeah, replace the central concept and they sound similar, they must be the same. again, there is literally no instance in which men and women are even close to equal, not legally, not financially, not in terms of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?Lazy, and completely pointless in a debate sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What age range of men do you find to be "prime" and most attractive?Portland is infamous. I have friends in Portland (girls, even) and they invariably tell me the scene is terrible. Super low chances of getting laid, and if you do manage to match/go on a date with someone, there are 80% odds they're a complete nutjob. One of my friends progressively lowered her standards, desperately searching for a guy who wasn't a complete weirdo. Finally, she finds an okay-looking overweight guy who seems pretty normal. She goes on a date with him, only to find he dresses up … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?It says to have conversations with attractive women in front of the woman you signed your life to because this woman hasn't fucked you in at least 20 days. If you can't handle your husband having a conversation then fuck your husband. It says to flirt with other women in front of your wife to make her feel threatened. I don't subscribe to the view that retributionary bad behavior makes a relationship any better. Thanks for the English lesson. This is a whole other debate and I could give countle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?Ugh, I'll explain again - the sources and stats are irrelevant. You have a lot of of excuses. And your preferred method of evidence is personal experience, which is limited by the circles you run in, as well as your age, location, etc. Our lived experiences contradict. Do you agree with this? It's common not to have casual sex? Because it's the same as not common to have it which is the opposite of what you're saying. They can't be both common. They actually can be. "Common" doesn't mean "the ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Do you seriously believe that using the same persona and sexual strategy works on all women?Yeah. Exhausting, something you have to deal with, kind of offputting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?I'm willing to accept that some differences are biological, but I do find the evidence for play styles more convincing than that for career choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?Hjernevask, part 1. I'm not watching a forty minute video for this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?Those people are complaining that women are being paid less for the same work, because they believe that's true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Do you seriously believe that using the same persona and sexual strategy works on all women?Everyone I know, male or female, would be weirded out by that. That person doesn't have their own life, and that kind of neediness is exhausting to deal with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?Which is irrelevant It's actually pretty relevant that you won't provide sources. If you refuse to believe studies, you're left with anecdotal evidence, and ours conflicts, which is why I provided my sources. So how many girls like you are out there, how do you think? I meet all your requirements, so I'm supposed to be swiped by girls like that, but no, that doesn't happen. And not to most people I know (not to all, but to most). How should I know? I live with five other girls, and our "types" a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 07:17 PM |
| 0 | Q4RP: Do you seriously believe that using the same persona and sexual strategy works on all women?This is not contempt, much less "intense contempt." As I pointed out, most people do not hold "intense contempt" for children. But it is pretty contemptuous to say that an adult woman holding down a job and supporting herself is mentally a child. are not actually "heinous, vitriolic shit;" they're merely stuff blue pillers work themselves up into a lather getting offended by. What about claims that women can't experience loyalty and unselfish love the way men can? That women are irresponsible, o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 06:48 PM |
| 5 | Key Differencesare women and men equal? I think it's perfectly possible to say that men and women aren't the same, but we are equal. There are general trends of differences, but I believe that those differences don't give one group or the other more inherent value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?"Naturally" is a pretty big assumption. Maybe it will turn out that women just intrinsically don't like some fields, but that would only be apparent in a perfectly egalitarian society. Where are the male nurse and male daycare teacher support programs? http://www.malenursingscholarships.com/2011/07/incentive-for-nurses/ Anecdotally, I've heard that male nurses actually do tend to get better pay and are sought after because of their rarity, much like women in computer science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What age range of men do you find to be "prime" and most attractive?Damn, that's a pretty rough dry spell. My sympathies. Are you trying less, or have you just hit a streak of bad luck? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?What is it about 5-12 that's so abhorrent? Flirting or sleeping with other women when in a monogamous relationships is scummy, hurtful, repulsive behavior. "Getting a GF" while still in a relationship is called cheating. What baffles me is that Level 9 isn't step one. Your partner should absolutely be aware, from the beginning even, that a sexless relationship isn't what you signed up for, and that it is absolutely adequate cause to leave. Why is telling your partner that you won't stay with the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Do You Think This Is A Fair Test of Husband/Wife?Ahh, thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?I grew up in a very racially diverse area, then moved to a conservative, white area for high school. I've definitely witnessed a ton of racism towards non-white people, but the closest I've seen to anti-white racism is joking about "white people nonsense" and stuff like that, but only as jokes by people who were okay with racial banter in any direction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?Once again, you're missing the point. "White" privilege is insignificant by itself. There are many facets to privilege. The only single privilege than by itself can more or less guarantee a comfortable, advantaged life is wealth. Yes, no, and yes. I'm very in support of men getting laid. I have sex with them, I help them improve their tinder profiles, I share approaches that have worked on me. I'm in favor of anyone who wants to have sex having sex. I really dislike TRP because of how it advocat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Do you think reforming sluts deserve happiness?Dammit, you're right. Thought for myself too hard again. Might've sprained something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Can a man with a spine accept feminism?Feminism has been a meaningful movement in my life. When I see things wrong with feminism, my urge is to try to clean up the movement rather than abandon it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 04:27 PM |
| 1 | It's not so much the 'misogyny' that BPers are concerned about. It's the inconvenience of having female sexual strategy exposed.Okay, thank you. I personally disagree with their examples, and feel that they wasted a great opportunity to legitimize female-perpetrated rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?Regardless, a privilege or advantage is still that, irrespective of the source. Am I arguing that? All the causes are too complex for humans to fully understand and most of them will stem from biological predilections and their consequences. I think to some degree you can trace it back. Getting paid for on dates is an example of female privilege, and it stems from a time where women were always dependent on men to provide, and had very few employment opportunities. Now, when women can support th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What age range of men do you find to be "prime" and most attractive?To clarify, are you actively having casual sex now, or are you interested in entering the hookup scene and thus getting into TRP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?Yes, I'm aware. People who are ignorant of the true nature of the wage gap argue that women deserve to be paid the same for doing the same work. People who understand the wage gap and want to correct it try to correct discrimination in hiring and promoting, and support programs that encourage women to enter lucrative male-dominated fields. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?That's a reflection of them tending to run the household. As in, they're the ones more likely to buy groceries and kitchen appliances, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?Yeah, I know. I argue against the wage gap whenever it comes up because I've actually done my research. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Do You Think This Is A Fair Test of Husband/Wife?Can't tell if you're being sarcastic or are red pill actually disputing my claimed state of existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?Come to the urban south and tell these white people living on chicken franks and dehydrated ramen that they have significant privilege. Once again, you're conflating privilege with having an awesome life. Privilege just means that if those people were in the exact same situation, but happened to be black, they'd have to deal with being poor and racism. Seriously, have you even read TRP? You think TRP is getting laid? As in, it's the only path to sex, so disliking TRP is being against men having … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Do you seriously believe that using the same persona and sexual strategy works on all women?You're just asserting this without providing evidence. "Women are children." "The fact is, the more a guy gets to know a girl, the less he respects her. Because women aren’t respectable." (Explaining that domestic violence is most likely to come from men a woman knows, because they know she deserves it.) "Machiavellianism, Detachment from morality and subsequent ability to be manipulative" "Immaturity, Acting inappropriately for one's age" "At least one of these traits are observable to some deg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?Being white is one of many of the available privileges there are. By itself it's nothing. Yeah, there are tons of ways to be privileged. Why do you think white privilege is an insignificant form of privilege? Really? That might explain why I said it's not groundbreaking and it's what most of the world does. It still doesn't change the fact that I needed help. My point is that TRP isn't essential to getting laid, so disliking it isn't remotely synonymous with hating men who want sex. Dread is a f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 08:29 AM |
| 2 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?Not talking about physical weakness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 07:50 AM |
| 0 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?I actually have my own struggles, and I don't call you privileged for lacking my particular disadvantages. If your struggles are personal, then privilege doesn't really apply. But I have white privilege—I don't have to deal with racism. I have able-bodied privilege—I don't deal with being disabled or the stigma that comes with it. I would also not ever get laid, and I can attest to people not giving a shit. Millions upon millions of people get laid every day without TRP. Tactics? They're called … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 07:49 AM |
| 3 | What do you think about the large number of idealistic men in society that are genuinely surprised by female dating patterns?both are voluntary positions. Egalitarianism is about choice. Problem solved. Except that the woman is expected to the follower and the man the leader. You don't espouse having a leader and a follower, you espouse men always getting to lead. No, its exactly the same, not a metaphor at all. Feminism is completely based on communism, the language is lifted word for word. Do you think the fight for racial equality is also communism? Communism is "a political theory derived from Karl Marx, advocatin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 07:38 AM |
| 0 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?"all the privilege in the world" That's not what privilege does. Privilege doesn't mean your life is awesome and nothing bad ever happens to you, it means not having to deal with a particular set of struggles. That doesn't disqualify it. Okay, why do you feel your parents' relationship makes you bad with women? Do you feel like it was impossible for you to be good with women given your situation? Do you think most redpillers needed help for the same reasons? It's actually the whole reason I foun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Do you seriously believe that using the same persona and sexual strategy works on all women?One of the defining features of TRP is intense contempt for women. And no, most people do not take children seriously. They humor them and show exaggerated interest in what they're saying. When people interact with kids, they keep things light, focus on having fun, and act more spontaneously than usual. What's wrong with that? There's nothing wrong with those behaviors. But treating a full-grown adult like a child does involve showing them less regard and respect than you would an adult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 06:52 AM |
| 2 | What do you think about the large number of idealistic men in society that are genuinely surprised by female dating patterns?complementary egalitarianism. Both players have a distinct role and must work together. No role is more important than the other, and they are not interchangeable. But one role is the leader, and another is the follower. That doesn't seem very egalitarian to me. Both meanings are used by TRP. So AWALT can be literal sometimes. And sometimes not. That seems pretty wishy-washy, and it gives you an easy avenue of escape. "But I didn't mean it in the literal way this time!" Rapists don't follow norm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 06:50 AM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Do you seriously believe that using the same persona and sexual strategy works on all women?I think it would come across less as not liking you (since he's going out of his way to spend time with you and is trying to sleep with you) and more as a sense of contempt and not taking a word you say seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?If they are to be believed, I can't walk outside without getting hit by large amounts of money and pussy. This is a ridiculous claim. What makes you think anyone believes that? read a damn guide on how to get laid because my father has been under the control of a woman for the last 20 years. That's a nice Freudian explanation. What's the real unhealthy obsession here, my need to fulfill my biological imperative or a woman's need to stop me? You're unnecessarily conflating your desire to get laid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 06:29 AM |
| 3 | What do you think about the large number of idealistic men in society that are genuinely surprised by female dating patterns?Its like a dance, with a leader and follower. What is? How does that relate to what I said? As you probably know, the term AWALT is a RESPONSE to the claim that "not all women are like that" virtue signaling that women use against TRP. If if it's a rebuttal to "I'm not like that, so clearly all women aren't like that" then it seems the claim is literal. are valid. All women should take precautions, but feminism teaches them that personal responsibility is not necessary. Then why are blanket stat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 06:26 AM |
| 2 | What do you think about the large number of idealistic men in society that are genuinely surprised by female dating patterns?you missed the Yin and Yang part. Enlighten me. again, you have clearly misunderstood this concept, but that is okay, TRP is aimed at men with language meant to horrify women. My point was that men hate blanket statements applied to them, and are quick to point out "not all men..." It's ridiculous to literally say "all women are like that" then backtrack when you can't prove that literally every woman is like that. You're not addressing my points or explaining, you're just saying I "don't unders… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?Why do you think BPW have penis envy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Do you seriously believe that using the same persona and sexual strategy works on all women?So much of human communication is non-verbal. Someone won't be able to determine your deeply-held beliefs, but it is pretty likely that people will be able to read your attitudes toward them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 05:47 AM |
| 3 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?I honestly don't think anyone is complaining that they get paid less for working fewer hours. Pay equality is meant to ensure women doing the same jobs as men are paid the same. It's not about secretaries wanting the same wage as oil rig workers. This is anecdotal, but I've always heard it just presented as a given that you can choose to make more and maximize promotion opportunities, or take a more flexible/work from home schedule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 05:42 AM |
| 3 | Can a man with a spine accept feminism?I think you're underestimating the diversity of viewpoints and subgroups within feminism. Feminism doesn't require believing that women are the most oppressed demographic. Being a feminist is half of being an egalitarian, and doesn't preclude the other half. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 05:39 AM |
| 2 | What do you think about the large number of idealistic men in society that are genuinely surprised by female dating patterns?Since you seem to be so quick to be bitchy anyway She doesn't like a belief system that paints women as bitchy, narcissistic children who need to be taught their submissive place and used for sex. She was not being bitchy, but you've just made it pretty clear how you deal with women who disagree with you. The phrase is "all women are like that." Honestly, this reminds me of "not all men." Either we accept that people can say "all women are like that" and "men are x/men need to learn not to rape"… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 05:31 AM |
| 4 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?I can claim that a wage gap exists and that it is the fault of sexism while simultaneously seeking employment without considering income as a priority. I will probably choose my job based on satisfaction, flexibility of hours, and working conditions and then expect to make as much as the males working nights, out in the rain and cold or working overtime. Why don't women have to consider income a priority when choosing a job? And why do you think women expect to earn as much doing one job as men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 05:23 AM |
| 3 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?I'm blue pill, but I do think female privilege exists. /u/allmen provided a great list of examples. I think the reason many people are reluctant to label those advantages as "female privilege" is because a lot of them stem from sexist beliefs, most often that women are weak, helpless, can't support themselves, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 05:22 AM |
| 6 | Do you think female privilege exists? If so, how would you define it, and where do you get the idea from?This is not constructive or reasonable at all. You're trying to dismiss his argument on the basis that he's neurotypical and you're not, essentially attempting to shut down discourse using a privilege hierarchy. How are you being "guilted"? Many men say that "male privilege" is an attempt to guilt them for being born male, and you seem to be pulling the exact same thing. So to any neurotypical male telling me about my "female privilege" you can fuck yourself 100 times over. This is a debate sub.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 05:19 AM |
| 1 | It's not so much the 'misogyny' that BPers are concerned about. It's the inconvenience of having female sexual strategy exposed.Because if how rape is defined, maybe? Do you have actual information about what those classes teach? Also the fact that these classes exist alone proves my point that society treat all male as potential rapist that have to be taught about 'consent'. How? All students are made to attend. And teaching people about consent doesn't assume that they're rapists, it assumes that there's a lot of debate about consent, grey areas, etc, and that some people who would never want to rape someone end up doi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 04:53 AM |
| 2 | It's not so much the 'misogyny' that BPers are concerned about. It's the inconvenience of having female sexual strategy exposed."Where colleges have agreed to take part, the workshops will be marked as compulsory on freshers' introductory material, although no one can be forced to attend" Seriously, did you read the article? You blatantly lied when you claimed only men have to attend. From the TCD article: "Rice said the classes will be “promoted as mandatory” but that students will be able to leave once they begin." From the CA one: "Also, parents would be free to remove their child from part or all of the sex education… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Do you think reforming sluts deserve happiness?You're not marriage material to the type of guys that you want to marry. If you were, you would be married to one now. You have no idea what type of guy I want to marry. A woman, by the way. I'd prefer to marry a woman. I'm nineteen dude. Of course I'm not married. It's not by choice or design that you're unmarried. You just haven't found your proverbial knight in shining armor yet. He hasn't come prancing into your life and offering himself up. I'm nineteen. I don't want to be married. I'd neve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What turns you off about guys?Sexist Taller than 5'11" Too much body hair. I think one of the reasons I mostly sleep with Asian guys is I love smooth, hairless skin. Such a turn on. Self-absorbed/overconfident *Farmer's tan, though it's not a dealbreaker at all Fat Clingy/needy. If they text me constantly as if afraid I've forgotten they exist, text me goodnight/good morning every day, or make nervous, insecure remarks about me seeing other people. Complaining about "fat chicks" *Facial hair longer than maybe a third of an i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What turns you off about guys?I agree with that too. Tallest I've gone was 5'11" and that was borderline too tall. My preferred range is 5'4"-5'8". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 02:15 AM |
| 1 | It's not so much the 'misogyny' that BPers are concerned about. It's the inconvenience of having female sexual strategy exposed.Did you read the article? It's labelled as mandatory for all freshman, though no one is actually required to attend. I guess they're teaching all women not to rape too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What age range of men do you find to be "prime" and most attractive?You're flair indicates blue, but this description sounds very red. I think some of the basic tenets of TRP are sensible and effective. Work out, practice approaching women a lot, minimize emotional investment at the early stages, be confident. But I have very intense disagreements with their theories about male and female sexual strategy, "hamstering," "the cock carousel," AFBB, dread game (completely disgusting), and the individual tactics that target women will low self-worth and try to break … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?Thank you, that's actually pretty comforting. I know it sounds shallow, but it's so confusing when even overweight and/or unattractive girls barely match with me, then basically ignore me even if they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Do you seriously believe that using the same persona and sexual strategy works on all women?You think men love it when a woman wants to be with them 24/7, texts constantly, gets sad if they hang out with their friends instead of her, etc? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Lets discuss "women are children"I always knew my interest in demographic breakdowns, combined with my sluttiness, would get me somewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?no, I've seen different statistics. Which you won't share. Which looks pretty bad. There you go, you're not completely oblivious :) There's really no need to be so condescending. How is that relevant to "average" guys? Are you saying an average guy can easily and consistently fuck you? Because most of the guys I'm fucking are not above average. They are not especially hot (neither am I) or socially adept, or sexually experienced. An average guy could fuck me if he were not fat, hygienic, reasona… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Do You Think This Is A Fair Test of Husband/Wife?I've always identified as a fictional construct, so this really makes sense. Which of my qualities really solidified that I don't exist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What age range of men do you find to be "prime" and most attractive?Well, I gained more muscle and started making more moves. In my experience, those are the two key things that can really make a change. Guys can make a huge difference in how attractive they are through their level of fitness, and making moves increases not only the number of opportunities women have to say yes to you, but also your comfort and confidence in approaching. Do you think TRP would make the change for dramatic if I follow the advice? I'm obviously pretty decided, as my flair would in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 01:42 AM |
| 1 | It's not so much the 'misogyny' that BPers are concerned about. It's the inconvenience of having female sexual strategy exposed."No we're not." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Do you think reforming sluts deserve happiness?Men don't just propose marriage out of nowhere. But there've been plenty who were interested in dating me despite already getting sex from me and knowing full well I'm a slut. Bingo. But the kind of guy you want hasn't come along.. hmmm I wonder why??? ...because I'm quite young, haven't been sexually active for very long, and only meet guys who are looking for casual sex. Plus, I recently met a guy I do like as more than a fuckbuddy and who feels the same way. Honestly, life as a slut is pretty… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/16 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Do you think reforming sluts deserve happiness?"she develops feelings and ends it to protect herself" is really just a euphemism for "no longer sexually attracted". What? How does developing feelings make you less attracted to someone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Do you think reforming sluts deserve happiness?No, I didn't. My attraction was shallow and based on their appearance, which didn't change. I didn't want to keep seeing them because I knew the topic would keep coming up, and they'd get pushy, and start asking loaded questions about if I was seeing other guys and shit like that. I was in a situation where I was sleeping with someone I had feelings for. It felt so intensely shitty that I now consider it a moral imperative to break off casual sex with someone who's developed feelings, because I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Sex vs. Rape, seeking the appropriate metaphorYou normally eat food though. I think it works because rape isn't necessarily a case of already being sexually satisfied and not wanting more. In many cases, it's being forced to have sex with someone you wouldn't want even if you were horny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Do you seriously believe that using the same persona and sexual strategy works on all women?I think clingy, desperate behavior is a huge turn-off in women as well, and most of the men I know agree with me. When did I say the guy was "better" than the girl? I just agreed that working out and avoiding needy, desperate behavior does give you better chances with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Do you think reforming sluts deserve happiness?I didn't stop being sexually attracted to them, but I didn't want to deal with a more complicated situation, and I wanted to avoid hurting them. I do find extreme clingy behavior to be a turnoff (calling me babe before we even meet, texting me good night and/or good morning) but just developing feelings doesn't really make someone unsexy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Do you seriously believe that using the same persona and sexual strategy works on all women?TRP tells guys not to act needy, clingy, and desperate, Work out and improve yourself and things like this are the parts of RP I agree with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Sex vs. Rape, seeking the appropriate metaphorWhile you're stuffed, or a food you really hate or are allergic to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Do You Think This Is A Fair Test of Husband/Wife?What do you feel makes a man attractive to you? If I have a "type" it's short East Asian or Indian guys. I don't really care about body type beyond "not fat" so I guess it's mostly just how symmetrical their face is. Non-physical qualities most commonly involve being funny, having stereotypically nerdy interests, and some sense of vulnerability. Confidence can be attractive, but I've never really had a problem being attracted to shy, nervous, or unassertive guys. Typically he must be more domina… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP: What Traits are "Sexually Attractive" in Men?I don't think any one "sexy" trait is enough on its own unless you count "being attractive" as one trait. No one quality, mental or physical, can make someone sexy if they're otherwise mediocre or ugly. That's just an ugly person with one good quality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 04:22 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Unrestrained Female Sexuality is hurtful and oppressive to men.I think in some cases that might be true, but much less so than when you're dating. If you're looking around the room at a party, or swiping through tinder, there's not really a good way to select for intelligence. And for most hookups, intelligence will never come into play. You're not going to drag them into the closet then have them explain their physics homework as foreplay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 04:20 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Unrestrained Female Sexuality is hurtful and oppressive to men.I was surprised and delighted that he so openly admitted that he feels oppressed by hot women's standards. Mostly guys like him dance around the issue and pretend they're talking about all women, because they have the tiny sliver of self-awareness that allows them to realize that if they just complain about not being able to sleep with hot women they'll sound like an idiot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 04:19 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Unrestrained Female Sexuality is hurtful and oppressive to men.Yeah, he's got a really silly checklist of the reasons he think girls want to fuck those men, and he's trying to remove all those factors. "Why do women want sex with Chad, a 6'3" ripped frat guy who's the life of the party and could cut steel with his jawline? Must be that he's in a frat and plays for a sports team." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 04:16 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Unrestrained Female Sexuality is hurtful and oppressive to men.That would actually be a slightly more reasonable position. In another comment, he said: "But the problem is that casual sex is going to such a small amount of men. Just like rich have to pay more taxes, why do the most ripped guys have most of the girls?" So it's not even that he's against casual sex, he's literally just against women having casual sex with men other than him. It's like how communists tend to be people who are losers in a capitalist society. Not many rich communists in business… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 04:15 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Unrestrained Female Sexuality is hurtful and oppressive to men.Yeah, but in many cases that's because unjust laws literally don't consider what they did to be rape. Why the cutesy emoticon? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 04:12 PM |
| 1 | It's not so much the 'misogyny' that BPers are concerned about. It's the inconvenience of having female sexual strategy exposed.Yeah, it requires a lot of trust, communication, and a strong bond. It's not for everyone. Neither is long distance, which I think I'd personally have a much harder time with. It sounds like you don't want to be in an open relationship, which is absolutely your prerogative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 04:11 PM |
| 1 | It's not so much the 'misogyny' that BPers are concerned about. It's the inconvenience of having female sexual strategy exposed.I fucking wish man. I'm sleeping 2-4 hours a night, and they keep me from sleeping deeply so I wake up every hour or two. I joined PPD and /r/FeMRADebates just for something to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 09:24 AM |
| 1 | It's not so much the 'misogyny' that BPers are concerned about. It's the inconvenience of having female sexual strategy exposed.Some people just don't have the right set of characteristics to be able or willing to pursue that kinda thing. I don't get jealous over sex, but I also find that when I'm really into someone, my desire to see other people plummets (I'm currently in a very casual open relationship, but I've more than halved the total number of guys I'm seeing just because I always prefer being with my main guy). Do you think it's selfish or irrational of me to want to be her only man in her life that she desires?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 09:23 AM |
| 2 | Did I cash in my pussy pass today? Did I do something wrong?Once I was trying to buy a movie ticket and the guy waved me through, and I thought maybe I'd actually experienced getting free shit for being a woman, but then he also waved through an elderly couple, a thirty-year-old man, and a teenage boy. I think maybe he was quitting soon and had stopped giving a fuck or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 09:07 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Unrestrained Female Sexuality is hurtful and oppressive to men.Eh, I think they get off lighter, but I don't think they're completely let off the hook that often, except maybe for minor things like speeding tickets where enforcement is pretty arbitrary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 09:04 AM |
| 1 | It's not so much the 'misogyny' that BPers are concerned about. It's the inconvenience of having female sexual strategy exposed.What about women who feel that shit-testnig is normal and a good way to gauge the quality of a partner? They're idiots who need to learn how to read people. And even if they wanted to gauge the quality of a partner, the kinds of shit-tests I've seen described seem like a terrible way to do it. Plus I think that it being a "test" feeds into the entitled idea that sex is a gift women bestow upon men who earn it instead of a mutually pleasurable activity. Thank you by the way for staying up late an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 09:01 AM |
| 1 | It's not so much the 'misogyny' that BPers are concerned about. It's the inconvenience of having female sexual strategy exposed.Can we find a term that's easier to take seriously than "hamstering?" A lot of people enter into open relationships for the wrong reasons. The common wisdom is that you shouldn't open a relationship to fix it, because that will never work. And even more people do open relationships "wrong." They don't establish crystal clear boundaries or don't communicate. In practice, I agree that a lot of open relationships are total shitshows. But I think that for some people, it can absolutely be a healthy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 08:48 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Unrestrained Female Sexuality is hurtful and oppressive to men.I'm sure women are sometimes let off scot free for stupid reasons. And women generally receive lighter sentences. But "the pussy pass" is not some widespread immunity of women to the law. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 08:44 AM |
| 1 | It's not so much the 'misogyny' that BPers are concerned about. It's the inconvenience of having female sexual strategy exposed.Why is it only guys' responsibility to make the change? shouldn't girls be called out more for doing this shit? shouldn't they be told to behave like fucking adults and not immature teenagers? I'm against it. My point is that the type of immature girl who does this probably isn't a big fan of owning her shit and communicating clearly. women should be called out more for doing this. I do not think shit-testing is the universal feminine phenomenon TRP makes it out to be. I think I've pretty clearl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 08:42 AM |
| 1 | It's not so much the 'misogyny' that BPers are concerned about. It's the inconvenience of having female sexual strategy exposed.The vast majority of people in committed relationships are still attracted to people outside that relationship. It's important not to because doing so would hurt your partner. But if your partner doesn't get jealous over you having sex with someone else, and you do so with their knowing permission, you have neither hurt them nor lied to them. What's the issue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 08:22 AM |
| 1 | It's not so much the 'misogyny' that BPers are concerned about. It's the inconvenience of having female sexual strategy exposed.and a lot of guys will be finding themselves not getting laid time and time again when they could have because she was just shit-testing. So you admit that you're playing right into their hands and letting them get away with playing games, because you're too afraid of risking your shot at getting laid? You're right that guys reward this behavior by keep going, but that comes back to my original point: girls should just stop shit-testing. Why should they? The girls we're talking about who do this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 08:20 AM |
| 8 | It's not so much the 'misogyny' that BPers are concerned about. It's the inconvenience of having female sexual strategy exposed.You cannot even state truisms such as "women like money" without getting lambasted and tons of "I'm not like that!!111" comments. How else do you expect women who aren't like that to react? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 08:10 AM |
| 1 | It's not so much the 'misogyny' that BPers are concerned about. It's the inconvenience of having female sexual strategy exposed.So what if Mrs. Strawman complains? No one calls someone controlling for refusing an open relationship, except maybe those edgy "poly is natural" fuckers. of he says no there's a chance she'll just cheat on him anyway. If he says yes she could still cheat on him. Anyone could cheat on anyone. Part of the reason for bringing up the open arrangement to him is for her to get permission to "cheat" without actually cheating and thus not feel guilty about. That's what open relationships are really abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 08:06 AM |
| 2 | It's not so much the 'misogyny' that BPers are concerned about. It's the inconvenience of having female sexual strategy exposed.maybe girls shouldn't be shit-testing guys the way that they do by giving guys mixed signals. I've said before that the best way to get rid of this behavior would be to believe them. Every time. The minute she says no, back off, don't touch her, don't fuck her. If she says "why'd you stop?" you can just say "You said no. If you want me to keep going, say yes next time." Why are you so surprised that they keep pulling this shit if you give them exactly what they want when they do it? And I've had… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 07:54 AM |
| 1 | It's not so much the 'misogyny' that BPers are concerned about. It's the inconvenience of having female sexual strategy exposed.Guys don't have to accept this. If you don't want to be in an open relationship...don't get into an open relationship. Plus, women tend to be bigger fans of monogamy than men. None of my female friends see more than one guy at a time. They all think I'm odd, whereas my male friends tend to congratulate me on managing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 07:45 AM |
| 3 | It's not so much the 'misogyny' that BPers are concerned about. It's the inconvenience of having female sexual strategy exposed.Saying things like "we won't have sex tonight" when she's actually down to fuck, How can you tell the difference between that and a woman who genuinely doesn't want to fuck at first, then changes her mind? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 07:36 AM |
| 1 | It's not so much the 'misogyny' that BPers are concerned about. It's the inconvenience of having female sexual strategy exposed.Not right now, but they're certainly becoming more common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 07:35 AM |
| 1 | It's not so much the 'misogyny' that BPers are concerned about. It's the inconvenience of having female sexual strategy exposed.Men who have failed at getting women and need a guide are failures and should be culled. Who/what are you quoting? I think open relationships are becoming increasingly normal. And some people might think that, but open relationships of course have rules and can still involve cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 07:28 AM |
| 4 | Do you want to be "challenged" in a relationship?Yeah, I can see how that would sound. I don't really start fights, but if someone comes at me and they're already emotional and kind of hostile, rather than trying to solve the issue together, I tend to hit back twice as hard in an effort to end the argument as quickly as possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Do you think reforming sluts deserve happiness?Thanks man. I was embarrassed of being a virgin at eighteen and I'd never gotten much romantic attention before. I was completely swept away that someone seemed to be interested in me. And I wanted to wait for another two weeks, but we were drunk and he kept pushing the the issue over and over again until I agreed to have sex just so he'd stop asking. Do you think if your first time went differently - if he had truly loved you, you wouldn't be into casual sex as much as you are now. Not at all. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 07:23 AM |
| 3 | It's not so much the 'misogyny' that BPers are concerned about. It's the inconvenience of having female sexual strategy exposed.TRP is one of the few places men can go to to express themselves without being called a bunch of names. So yeah, I don't think it's totally unreasonable that the mods tolerate the "hateful" rhetoric. Reddit is a pretty male space, individual subs often more so. TRP isn't some last bastion of male expression. And I do think it's still unreasonable to tolerate and even encourage that. Open relationships If you're only happy with an open relationship that involves you and your wife getting the exac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 07:15 AM |
| 5 | Do you want to be "challenged" in a relationship?I'm exaggerating, egotistical men are hardly a limited resource. a woman who provides good things is no doormat, but merely acting in the submissive role my superiority to her logically mandates This is something special though. I rolled my eyes so hard I think I sprained something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 07:08 AM |
| 2 | Do you think reforming sluts deserve happiness?More like, do I wanna spend three hours straight being pounded, do I want great oral and some kinky shit, am I sore from last night so I want something gentler, etc. The fun part about having a good selection of fuckbuddies is the variety. Like how did you lose it? You just decided one day you wanted to and swiped right on some hot guy? I technically lost my virginity to casual sex, but I didn't know it at the time. The douchebag down the hall pretended to really like me for three weeks so he co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 07:07 AM |
| 2 | Do you think reforming sluts deserve happiness?Oh. I'm white, but I developed a taste for it because I live with a bunch of Asian girls who go for boba a lot, and now it's my default tinder date. So are you just curious about the behavior of sluts in the wild? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 06:57 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Unrestrained Female Sexuality is hurtful and oppressive to men.Women are also bound by the confines of the legal system. And you're only bound by hot girls' standards if you're trying to sleep with hot girls, which is a losing game unless you're hot yourself. Have you considered trying with girls in your league? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 06:53 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Unrestrained Female Sexuality is hurtful and oppressive to men.Most girls in college are involved heavily in the party scene. Maybe not so much at more nerdy schools, like MIT, but at places like USC, oh hell yea. And most guys aren't? If that were true, wouldn't parties have a big gender imbalance and be mostly female? And if that were true, why do frats have to block men out so fiercely to maintain a relatively even ratio at their parties? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Do you think reforming sluts deserve happiness?Uh, no. Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 06:45 AM |
| 5 | Do you want to be "challenged" in a relationship?I don't pretend to understand this view, of course. Personally, I am already a "better" person - namely, better than those around me, and in possession of an internal drive to self-improve which already challenges me plenty. Everything good that happens to me, I deserve, and a woman who provides good things is no doormat, but merely acting in the submissive role my superiority to her logically mandates. The only "challenge" a woman should provide is the challenge in breaking her in, imo. Jesus C… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 06:44 AM |
| 5 | Do you want to be "challenged" in a relationship?Not really. I'm not very socially adept and I tend to escalate too much when in arguments. I'm pretty chill and low-maintenance, and I look for the same thing in a partner. I don't want to even have to think about shit like texting frequency, "monthiversaries," or whatever else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 06:42 AM |
| 3 | Do you think reforming sluts deserve happiness?Well, I honestly don't go to frat parties much, because I'm kinda awkward and hate dancing. Plus then I'd only get laid on weekends, which would suck. I'm dealing with some health issues at the moment, but before that I was having sex 4-6 nights a week, mostly from fuckbuddies with the occasional new tinder guy thrown in. I have a pretty high sex drive, so it's less a matter of when I'm in the mood and more of when I have the time. If I have a bigger chunk of free time and feel like being social… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 06:39 AM |
| 15 | CMV: Unrestrained Female Sexuality is hurtful and oppressive to men.If the woman dressed appropiately, their wouldn't be any problem. Don't victim blame. You're not a victim of other people's clothing choices dude. The library is hardly a formal or workplace environment. People can wear whatever they want so long as it doesn't violate public nudity laws. Well if i was presented with such an opportunity that would give me a different perspective. The whole purpose of this post is addressing the fact women would never give an intelligent man such an opportunity. C… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 06:06 AM |
| 3 | Do you think reforming sluts deserve happiness?I'm too young for marriage, and a little too young an inexperienced for a committed relationship, in my opinion. You said good men wouldn't be interested. You did not specify interested in marriage, but they certainly are interested in dating me. I imagine I'll start looking for a life partner when I start wanting one. At the moment, I prioritize academics, work, and my social circle. I don't want to carve out room in my life for a serious relationship, and at the moment, not having one doesn't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 06:02 AM |
| 16 | CMV: Unrestrained Female Sexuality is hurtful and oppressive to men.But you're not talking about reproduction. You're talking about casual sex, which rarely leads to babies, thanks to the prevalence of birth control, condom use, and abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 05:59 AM |
| 11 | CMV: Unrestrained Female Sexuality is hurtful and oppressive to men.Do you think people are going to stop wanting sex with socially adept, hot men because they're not part of a social club? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 05:09 AM |
| 13 | CMV: Unrestrained Female Sexuality is hurtful and oppressive to men.In the middle of a library or class? It's totally off topic and inappropriate. It's totally disrespectful to the men trying to focus on school work. If it's some where like the beach or a party thats fine. If you can't focus on schoolwork because women are wearing short shorts, maybe you've got some problems with focus. I would not be with any woman who has a total disregard for anything intellectual and whom only source of fun in life is recreational drugs. Cop out. Those aren't the only two op… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 04:59 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Unrestrained Female Sexuality is hurtful and oppressive to men.Natural selection only applies if women are reproducing with those men. It doesn't matter how many genetically disadvantaged people a woman hooks up with. If she's not passing on their genes, the sex doesn't matter from an evolutionary perspective. Plus, have you heard of sexual selection? Peacocks don't have those giant tails because they aid survival, but because they help them attract a mate. Sexually desirable characteristics are often just as important as survival characteristics, because i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 04:56 AM |
| 16 | CMV: Unrestrained Female Sexuality is hurtful and oppressive to men.Why is sex supposed to be about rewarding virtue? When you seek out sexual partners, is that what you're trying to do? Or are you trying to get your rocks off with a pretty person like the rest of us? What's a drain on society? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 04:52 AM |
| 11 | CMV: Unrestrained Female Sexuality is hurtful and oppressive to men.Do pre-professional frats have houses at any colleges? Im referring to social frats with a legit house and parties of their own. Yeah, some of them do. They're also partiers. I guess the better answer to this question is I have a general dis-like of the college dating world because its primarily based on things that have no real world substance or meaning. People who are losing a game are generally the ones who want to change the rules. Why do you think the casual sex scene is supposed to provid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Do you think reforming sluts deserve happiness?What? Yeah, I cut them off for catching feelings, because they started acting clingy, and casual sex with someone you're into never ends well. And I didn't "think I could do better," I just wasn't into them like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 04:35 AM |
| 3 | Bluepill: Is your disagreement with the Red pill that there is something inherently immoral about researching and applying methods that would guarantee any man the ability to have sex with any woman?There's nothing immoral about wanting to get laid. I'm only against people using methods that cause harm to others. guarantee any man the ability to have sex with any woman Haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 02:38 AM |
| 1 | In your honest opinion, are the current child support laws unconstitutional?The problem with that approach is that a woman can decide to screw over a man by not telling him that he fathered a child and then regret this choice of hers 10 years later or so. I think that's shitty and measures should be taken in general to prevent that. But women don't have a financial incentive to do that. If she told him right away, he'd be paying the whole time. I personally always supported mandatory child support because it makes more sense for the child to be the man's burden than the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 01:59 AM |
| 1 | It's not so much the 'misogyny' that BPers are concerned about. It's the inconvenience of having female sexual strategy exposed.but I'm only repsondin to your example. My point is that a significant percentage of the sub expresses hateful views, and most damningly, even the more moderate members don't argue with them. To be considered lucky to get sloppy seconds, thirds, fourths, 500ths...to consider themselves lucky that their wife "come home to them" with her pussy filled with a strangers cum. In an open marriage, which must be mutually agreed upon, the guy is also enjoying the opportunity to sleep with other women. An… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 01:56 AM |
| 1 | It's not so much the 'misogyny' that BPers are concerned about. It's the inconvenience of having female sexual strategy exposed.yeah, plenty of guys on TRP are angry and spout a bunch of sexist whitenoise, but once again I implore Blue Pillers to look beyond the anger posts by frustrated teens, to look beyond the AWALT labels and women are children posts This is the same argument as "Islam is a religion of peace." The written code for the belief system seems pretty alright, but if a signficant portion of its followers are hateful, use the belief system to justify their hatred, and consider their hatred part of that belie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 01:15 AM |
| 11 | CMV: Unrestrained Female Sexuality is hurtful and oppressive to men.It's not really unattractive to women either. Saying "I study math/physics/compsci" isn't going to drop any panties, but neither is being a business/econ/psych major or whatever. Are there sexy majors? EDIT: Languages, maybe? If it were a sexy language? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?I don't think it really does. If they were impolite ("I don't care what you have to say") that would be one thing, but they were just showing less of a certain kind of enthusiasm. So the study does indicate that showing that kind of excitement and investment make you less attractive to women, but it doesn't show that being rude, derogatory, or unkind to women is attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Do You Think This Is A Fair Test of Husband/Wife?If he's worthy of fucking you. You don't just let every man that wants to have sex with you do so. That's true. I do generally have sex with any man who wants to have sex with me who I find attractive and reasonably pleasant. What tests generally determine if someone is worthy of sleeping with me? Clearly I missed a few pages of the female handbook. Literally anything. Do this for you, get this for you. You never ask him to do anything for you? Usually makes you pick? Sounds like he doesn't like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 12:43 AM |
| 4 | Do you think reforming sluts deserve happiness?I ain't in the market for marriage. But yeah, I've had to cut guys off for catching feelings, and I'm seeing someone right now. All of them were fully aware of my sexual habits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 12:12 AM |
| 8 | Do you think reforming sluts deserve happiness?I still think it's immoral for sluts to trick good men by lying about their past. Am slut. Don't need to lie. Good men still interested. ¯_(ツ)_/¯ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Do you think reforming sluts deserve happiness?I'm only seeing one really ruffled comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 11:42 PM |
| 56 | CMV: Unrestrained Female Sexuality is hurtful and oppressive to men.pick the most attractive, ripped, bad ass men on campus Yeah, women are more attracted to attractive men. If you had your pick of women to sleep with, you wouldn't spare a single thought for plain but kind and hardworking girls. Being sexually attractive is sexy, and that's normal. They go after frat boys, athletes, party boys, the majority of which are not intellectually gifted and have no real goals for after college. Pre-professional frats are pretty common man. You think all the guys in the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 11:32 PM |
| 2 | In your honest opinion, are the current child support laws unconstitutional?pay back the state for any money that this man's "baby mama" acquires in the form of welfare during the 18 years of their child's childhood. That seems a little steep. Would it be more reasonable to require income-based child support (though at a lower rate than for child support for parental rights) if the child's primary caretaker is on welfare? (though I do think that one should be able to voluntarily acquire parental rights at any point in time during a child's childhood) I think they should… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Do You Think This Is A Fair Test of Husband/Wife?You'd have to be a unicorn(and not very wise) to never test your man, especially not test him before you slept with him. I met him because he was looking for someone to take his virginity. I don't "test" people before I hook up with them. What am I supposed to be testing him for here? You must have demanded things from him, and you will in the future too. You will use feelings to try and get what you want, argue emotionally, turn on the water works, try to get him to give in to your demand. When… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Do you think reforming sluts deserve happiness?Haha, I love how completely unruffled everyone is over this topic. I don't think anyone deserves happiness. We all try to find it as best we know how. If she's an honorable, committed, loyal, and honest woman, she'll probably do fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What age range of men do you find to be "prime" and most attractive?I think it depends on the woman's age. I'd probably say 20-35/38. I'm not sure there'll really be a definition where you're not in your prime. 24 is pretty damn young. I feel like I wasted my teens and early 20's being a "beta" How have you changed that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 10:29 PM |
| 2 | In your honest opinion, are the current child support laws unconstitutional?There is no compelling state interest in forcing unwilling parents to pay child support in cases where taxpayer money isn't on the line. So to clarify, if a woman got pregnant and refused to get an abortion, the father should only be forced to provide child support if she cannot afford to support the child herself? Because that's actually a really interesting idea. I'm currently reevaluating my personal position on child support/financial abortions, and this really caught my interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP: What Traits are "Sexually Attractive" in Men?You're making up the rules as you go along. So a trait is only sexy if that trait alone, in the absence of all other appealing traits, would make someone sexually attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Do You Think This Is A Fair Test of Husband/Wife?Ambition and a mission go hand in hand. "Mission" just seems like an odd word. Most people wouldn't think of themselves as on a mission. These are not things that can always be picked up on through body language and behavior, especially if the man is more stoic. That sounds like such an awful calculating way to go through life. The guy I'm seeing compliments me pretty frequently, and I know he'd have a hard time replacing me, but we've never dealt with "dread' or "comfort tests" or "shit tests."… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Do You Think This Is A Fair Test of Husband/Wife?If they're leaving you snacks and stuff, sounds like an orbiter to me. But you may have been referring to your boyfriend. Oh no, that's female friends. My housemates and I leave each other little gifts if we know they're having a hard day. If my male friends know I"m having a hard day they let me vent then offer whiskey. If the man is getting fucked regularly, he has little to worry about most of the time. No games needed aside from being masculine and focused on his mission. Ahaha, his "mission… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Do You Think This Is A Fair Test of Husband/Wife?If he'd passed the test everyone would unequivocally point to her as the bad guy. She'd be the crazy insecure bitch. But in this case, I guess she had a reason to worry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Do You Think This Is A Fair Test of Husband/Wife?Ha, someone has orbiters. Haha, no I don't. They mostly have girlfriends or are friends with me but romantically interested in one of my friends. Women are great at reading people typically. It's men that have to learn more so. So shouldn't it be men who are playing all the games, since they don't have other ways of figuring out how people feel about them? Testing is more for romantic partners, unless you're really working your orbiters. He is a romantic partner. Do you find your birth control k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Lets discuss "women are children"What led you to biotech? I was lucky enough to have two teachers who were former researchers, and they really stimulated an interest in the subject. Nanotechnology is also incredibly interesting, and I can't wait to see more practical experimentation with it. Femininity is real, Feminism says it's not or is bad. Femininity is a collection of traits and behaviors we collectively assign to and expect from women. Feminism says that women aren't all a certain way just because we're women, and that i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Lets discuss "women are children"What are you imagining a career in? Biotech. Hoping to work in private industry rather than anything academic. No? Feminism destroys the concept of a woman more so than not(femininity isn't real or is bad) and has you emulate being a man. Which does 'work' for some women, like 10%. I'm confused, if femininity isn't real then why is women defying traditional gender norms bad? I'm not emulating being a man, I'm pursuing my own interests. My mother is very successful, if anything I'm emulating her.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Do You Think This Is A Fair Test of Husband/Wife?What sort of friends? Women are not very difficult to read if you can pick up on their body language. Uh, the normal kind? I'm friends with men and women, if that's what you're asking. And men aren't any harder to read than women. Okay, does that mean you never test him? You never give him shit or prod for validation/comfort? Especially around the time of ovulation or getting your period? We tease each other constantly. Same with my friends. And wait, how is asking for comfort "playing games"? I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Lets discuss "women are children"You were saying that I wouldn't be able to count on family support if I were male, which is totally untrue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Lets discuss "women are children"What does your ambition involve? I want a career that pays well and has a lot of room for advancement. I put a lot of focus on academics, and seeking out opportunities for internships, networking, resume builders, whatever will make me a more attractive candidate for research opportunities or grad school. Do you look forward to working until you're 65? I don't want kids. I expect my career to be a big focus in my life, and as someone who's happiest with a good deal of structure and goals/deadlin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Lets discuss "women are children"Men, as a whole, have fewer safety nets. This is not an indication that most men don't get support from their families. Familial support is hardly exclusive to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Lets discuss "women are children"Which I've acknowledged, unprompted, at several other points in this thread. Doesn't mean my brothers don't have the exact same safety net I do, and it's certainly not an indication that men never get support from their families. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Lets discuss "women are children"Leaving you to take on their burden of their hopes for at least one successful child? Nah, my brothers still do pretty well, but they're not as disciplined and ambitious as our parents would like. Ambition is a masculine attribute. Are you Asian? Whatever you say man. I know a lot of high-powered career women, and am friends with ambitious people of both sexes. Nope, I'm white. Thankfully no. Then why is the idea of women working and going to school, or prioritizing academics, or wanting a good … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Lets discuss "women are children"Why? I've had sex with guys who lived with their parents, worked dead-end retail jobs, dropped out of high school, lost their jobs, whatever. If you're just in it for sex, their personal employment struggles don't matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Do You Think This Is A Fair Test of Husband/Wife?Does it ever strike you as faintly ridiculous that you lecture women about how women really think? You can totally know how someone feels about you directly. My friends ask about me if they can tell I'm having a bad day. They leave snacks for me on the days of hard exams. They look happy to see me and frequently ask about my life. That's how I know they care about me. The guy I'm seeing texts me pretty often despite not usually being a big texter. He makes time for me, shows me physical affectio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 06:11 PM |
| 4 | Lets discuss "women are children"Holy shit would sex not be my concern in that situation. Food/shelter/financial security ranks so much higher on my list of concerns. Fuckbuddies/FWBs don't give a shit what's going on in your life. That's the point. They'd only know if you told them, and even then, if nothing changes in your arrangement, why would they care? Losing your job is so fucking far from an automatic divorce. Most couples experience at least one job loss. My parents have been married for decades, and my dad has lost hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Lets discuss "women are children"Men and women without family to rely on are kinda fucked. Single, have a number of fuckbuddies. They're just there for sex, I would never ask for or expect to receive any other kind of support, even emotional. I imagine they'd have no problem continuing to fuck me, assuming I even told them what was going on, which I wouldn't. If I'd lost my job and was facing homelessness, sex would be so far down on my list of concerns it would disappear into the fucking distance a la Team Rocket. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Lets discuss "women are children"Two brothers. Parents tried to be as strict on them as they were on me, but they're kinda lazy so eventually expectations dropped. It's like your parents raised you like a man and expect you to work like one. They expect me to work like a functional, ambitious adult. My parents were stricter than most about academics, but my experience is hardly unusual. All of my friends' parents push them to do well academically, learn to support themselves, and pick lucrative careers. Are all the women you kn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 06:00 PM |
| 4 | Lets discuss "women are children"That's completely fucking ridiculous. My brothers have the exact same safety net I do. It's pretty common these days for people, men and women, to move back in with their parents because they got fired or can't find a job. I don't know anyone whose family completely cut off any support the moment they turned eighteen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Lets discuss "women are children"No, and neither would my brothers if they ran into trouble. I know guys who dropped out of highschool and work as baristas, who live with their parents as adults, all kinds of shit like that. People are still friends with them. Men have much higher rates of homelessness. People judge men based on their careers more. Those are absolutely true, and things we as a society should work to change. Men suffering more doesn't mean women suffer none. Body image issues are more common in women, but you'd … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Do You Think This Is A Fair Test of Husband/Wife?I think playing games is stupid at best and shitty and worst, if they hurt people's feelings. I feel pretty strongly about this, yet still manage to befriend and occasionally date women without issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Lets discuss "women are children"No, my family is a safety net. 2000-5000 people actually starve to death in America each year. Out of about 320 million. If you live in America, starving to death isn't a thing that will happen to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Do You Think This Is A Fair Test of Husband/Wife?Yeah, that was such a weird reaction given that this is a setup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Lets discuss "women are children"However, as pointed out above, women do tend to get by without as much negative repercussions for bad behavior than men do. Even the law seems to grant women lesser sentences for the same crime committed by a man. I agree that women definitely get off easier legally, and in many cases socially. I do really think the "women are children" thing is ridiculous. Being a woman doesn't protect you from bullying, insecurity, shame, divorce, death, illness, heartbreak, or any of the other painful growing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Lets discuss "women are children"But it doesn't have to work for a living unless it wants to or wants extra money. Nobody expects anything of it, holds it to any kind of standard, or imposes any rules, responsibilities, or boundaries on it, other than very, very general societal constraints. What alternate universe are you living in? Women have to work for a living too. I have strict parents who expected a lot personally and academically, and you can bet your ass there were rules. I have responsibilities. I'm a student, I work,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 04:45 PM |
| 2 | CMV: casual sex isn't difficult for the average man to get.I disagree. I think for average-looking men, regular casual sex is obtainable if they develop the right skillset and put themselves in circles where casual sex happens. I do not think it is easy or natural for them, for the most part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Do You Think This Is A Fair Test of Husband/Wife?I don't think what she did was acceptable at all. Playing games and "testing" people is shitty behavior. She played stupid games and won stupid prizes. Yeah. He uh, probably shoulda been more loyal. Given that he said vows and shit. That was awful to watch though. That poor woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 04:31 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women are not entitled to respect because they are women.Yeah, this whole thing is asinine. No one is entitled to deference and admiration, it's generally a good thing to extend everyone common courtesy when you first meet them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 04:22 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women are not entitled to respect because they are women.Respect has multiple definitions. Using it to mean common courtesy is a fairly normal usage. Lots of words have multiple definitions, thus the little numbered entries in dictionaries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 04:03 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women are not entitled to respect because they are women.deference to a right, privilege, privileged position, or someone or something considered to have certain rights or privileges; proper acceptance or courtesy; acknowledgment: respect for a suspect's right to counsel; to show respect for the flag; respect for the elderly. "proper acceptance or courtesy" The word respect has multiple definitions. No one definition is "the real respect." We all just need to accept that the same word can mean different things, and start clarifying which one we mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?That study measured response to "responsiveness," one trait they attempted to generally use as a proxy for "niceness." In addition, none of the conditions involved the men being unkind or rude to the women. They were more or less responsive, but not being very responsive is hardly the same as being "a jerk." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 03:57 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women are not entitled to respect because they are women."deference to a right, privilege, privileged position, or someone or something considered to have certain rights or privileges; proper acceptance or courtesy; acknowledgment:" It's so common to use the word respect that way. It has multiple meanings "with respect to" "pay your respects" "showing someone due courtesy" "deep regard for their opinions, etc". No one is entitled to sincere respect and admiration. Most people agree that you should show others basic respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?I tried giving you statistics, but you blithely disregard statistics that don't fit with your beliefs. And anecdotal evidence that disagrees with your beliefs. Or create an account on dating apps and try to get laid pretending you're an average guy. Average guys have a really shitty time on dating apps. It's something I've talked about with a lot of men, and they really impressed upon me how grindingly depressing tinder is for them. I'm bisexual, and my experience with girls on tinder has made m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 03:41 PM |
| 2 | If a man can easily get sex but can't keep sex what would you assume?In this hypothetical, they actually did lose interest, as stated in the OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 09:56 AM |
| 1 | What would it take for people to realize TRP isn't a hate sub?A big reason for this is because women reward the shitty men with sex and lie to the genuine guys to be nice to them. I really disagree with the whole "nice guys finish last" thing. In my mind it's similar to the stereotype about how the cool kids are bitchy cheerleaders and douchey jocks. But in my actual experience, popular people are usually popular because they're likable, and people are drawn to genuinely nice, charming individuals. Of all the guys I know and have met through hooking up, pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 09:49 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Women are not entitled to respect because they are women.Being polite to someone is generally a show of respect, that you believe they deserve to be treated politely. Of course you can fake that. It's very common to use the word "respect" to mean things other than "a deep sense of admiration and esteem of someone." When you're told to act respectfully, it doesn't mean to treat everyone as if you hold them in high esteem and place deep value on their opinions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Is gender distribution the reason why getting casual sex is hard?My experience is obviously not a good random sampling, but most guys who are looking for casual sex, in my experience, are looking for ongoing partners. Why wouldn't you try to have sex with someone again if you really enjoyed it the first time? Eh, maybe they will care if they have to reenter the crushing grind of tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 07:42 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Women are not entitled to respect because they are women.You can, but treating someone politely is certainly a form of respect. Showing up on time is respecting their time, hearing them out is respecting their opinion, basic shit like that. I think there's respect as in "treating someone respectfully" or being polite to them, and then there's especial respect. As in, "MLK is someone I really respect" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 07:38 AM |
| 5 | How do I go about publicizing my own Pill theories & strategies?...men have to pay because women menstruate? No one's gonna want the pink pill. Men don't like being told they owe women just for existing and should have to pay for them and earn sex from them. Most modern women aren't interested in martyring themselves over basic biology, and an increasing number of us prefer or even insist on paying for ourselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 07:31 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Women are not entitled to respect because they are women.You may be fair, or treat them with decency Is that not respect? Treating strangers politely and courteously unless they give you a reason not to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 07:22 AM |
| 14 | CMV: Women are not entitled to respect because they are women.I think it's pretty common to believe everyone deserves a basic level of respect, but I've never met a woman who said she deserve to be respected because she was female. I've met women who expected special treatment for being women, but that's not expecting respect. They expect men to reach something on the top shelf if they are too short, or carry their bag for them if it's too heavy. I'm a girl who is taller than most of her (female) friends. I am constantly being asked to reach high things, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 07:02 AM |
| 4 | Casual sex isn't that easy for men to get, and this is a good thingShe's a "compensatory feminist." She genuinely believes this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: weed and sexPros: At first, you're super sensitive. Touch feels great. Cons: After a while you get tired. So fucking tired. And, perhaps just because of overall dehydration, you get dry mouth on both ends, and then the lack of lubrication makes sex start to feel a good deal less pleasant. Recently I had an arrangement with a guy where I'd go over, we'd both get stoned out of our minds, then we'd fuck for the next 6-8 hours. It was fun at first because I'm not a regular smoker, but eventually I realized I li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever had blue balls/vulva? If so, how many times? How distressing was it?I got interrupted right before finishing and had to go out with friends. It was this awful swollen ache, and every time my legs brushed against it while walking it twinged. Took forever to go away. Now I just keep going if I'm interrupted. Gotta play it safe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Is gender distribution the reason why getting casual sex is hard?Eh, I don't really ask if people are looking for something ongoing, but yeah, party hookups tend to be ONS deals. Though oddly enough I've had better luck there in terms of reciprocity. I wager the answer is largely going to be no. Yeah, I imagine they're not worried because that hasn't happened. Maybe the next girl will get some benefit from my choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Is gender distribution the reason why getting casual sex is hard?Damn, that's harsh. I don't "care" for the guys, but I try to make sure they have a good time because I think it's good sex partner etiquette. Well fuck, if that's the attitude behind it I guess a few more guys are gonna be waking up tomorrow without a sex life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Is gender distribution the reason why getting casual sex is hard?That seems like kind of a shitty attitude. Can't you just want your partner to have a good time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Is gender distribution the reason why getting casual sex is hard?Some guys manage to power through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 03:49 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Why should I care about women getting equal pay when women don't care about men getting an equal amount of sex?I'm not going to deny that some people do that. But what're you gonna do, refuse to protect an entire class of people against discrimination because some of them might abuse it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 03:48 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Why should I care about women getting equal pay when women don't care about men getting an equal amount of sex?The whole point is that bigotry interferes with treating someone according to their merit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Is gender distribution the reason why getting casual sex is hard?I've never had a good hookup where they didn't want to meet again. I mean, the more I think about it the weirder it is. Even guys who aren't seeing anyone else, who have a lot of trouble meeting up with girls through tinder, are still lazy as fuck about it. I wonder what they'd say if I straight up asked, "Aren't you worried I'll lose interest because you never get me off?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 03:16 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Women Compartmentalize Men Based on the Context in Which They Meet ThemIt depends on the area and context a lot. For a young woman on tinder, a man who seems to take a deep interest in her hobbies and doesn't talk about sex might be novel and entrancing. For an older woman in a more conservative area, a man who is straightforward about wanting to take her to bed might be unexpected and exciting. I'm not sure there's anything women find universally novel or surprising. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 03:12 AM |
| 21 | If a man can easily get sex but can't keep sex what would you assume?Bad in bed. Really bad in bed. So bad in bed I might actually sleep with him to see if he makes the Hall of Infamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 01:21 AM |
| 1 | What would it take for people to realize TRP isn't a hate sub?You don't think men can understand women? I honestly think the greatest barrier to that kind of understanding is thinking there's one way to "understand women." Women just aren't alike enough for someone to be able to say they understand "women." Everyone gets fucked over by shitty people. Men get fucked over. Women get fucked over. Men fuck people over, women fuck people over. No gender or race or religion or sexuality has the market for shitty behavior cornered. TRPers are exactly the same as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Is gender distribution the reason why getting casual sex is hard?Yeah, that's really true. In retrospect, it's kind of surprising that so few guys give a shit. If hooking up is so competitive for guys, why not put more effort into making the girl want to come back? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 12:02 AM |
| 4 | Is gender distribution the reason why getting casual sex is hard?That's definitely true, but I also stopped seeing a bunch of other guys. I'd previously been happy with them, but after experiencing sex where I orgasmed regularly, the amount of effort and skill they provided was no longer satisfactory. I'm about to start trying to replace them, which will probably take longer given my new standards. EDIT: Also, I used to think I had some kind of orgasm dysfunction, but it actually turns out that most guys care little to none about whether you come. Maybe that'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 11:54 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Nothing in TBP subreddit should be held to logical standards or used as examples in debate.How is that male bashing? It's making fun of a group of men who think of themselves as perpetual victims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 11:49 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Nothing in TBP subreddit should be held to logical standards or used as examples in debate.That's a pretty generous interpretation of "male-bashing." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 11:20 PM |
| 1 | What would it take for people to realize TRP isn't a hate sub?the majority of women didn't behave the way they do then there would be no need for TRP. Then why is TRP such a small group? I've been and known women my entire life. They might be "interesting theories" to you, but they're about you, it's not really an intellectual exercise. Women who aren't spoiled, narcissistic children aren't exceptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 11:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Why should I care about women getting equal pay when women don't care about men getting an equal amount of sex?If that's one group, sure. If the entire movement for disabled people is, then if you support rights for disabled people, you still support them but engage in criticism of the movement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?I can't bother to post them though. Alright. They aren't repulsive. But they don't get laid with no commitment regularly. Most of them don't. What does their major have to do with it then? And 2/3 of the guys I'm currently seeing are compsci. I think it's because the low number of women in their classes drives them to tinder in greater numbers. Most men I know are average or above. They never get to sleep around consistently in college. It just does not happen. The men you know don't. I fuck ave… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 10:26 PM |
| 1 | What are ways we can make we can make the cock carousel more fair and equitable?Are those girls fat? No, there really aren't many fat people in my area. Seriously, the girls aren't hideous and the dudes aren't rich. Normal people like having casual sex, often with each other. But you have fucked alphas right? I think so? Could you give me the most specific definition of an alpha you have? I can figure out the exact percentage after that. Yeah, I'm pretty jealous. Have tons of casual sex with super hot guys, lock down a boyfriend later on. It's actually not that easy to have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 10:22 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Why should I care about women getting equal pay when women don't care about men getting an equal amount of sex?So say no and be called sexist. Plus, how the hell is asking for scholarships like demanding a kidney? You're just listing unrelated grievances. And you would think they have their business autonomy ...no, we're talking about bodily autonomy. Businesses don't have that. That's what happens in classrooms, summer camps, child care centers, work places and their teambuilding - they are examples of how how they push people to becoming friends. Don't see how basic income is relevant to this conversat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 10:15 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Why should I care about women getting equal pay when women don't care about men getting an equal amount of sex?Even if social justice causes were self-serving, that doesn't require morally opposing them. A group that advocates for disabled people might well not give a shit about abled people's problems, but that doesn't make it more moral for me not to support the group's advocacy. If you feel that a group is doing necessary work, even if it's for self-serving reasons, it's still moral to support them. I feel that many men's rights advocates are doing it for purely selfish reasons, and most of them vocal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 09:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Why should I care about women getting equal pay when women don't care about men getting an equal amount of sex?Thank you, that's a much more honest position. Yes, I agree that a lot of feminist figures, especially politicians, are avoiding the incident in order to support other agendas common to liberals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 09:51 PM |
| 0 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?I found several studies and have anecdotal evidence (which you value more because it's all you have). The study was only counting hookups. Any sexual activity in a romantic relationship was not counted. Why the hell are you stereotyping STEM majors? You know how many compsci majors I've fucked? I'm a STEM major, and the guys in my classes aren't any less attractive than average. Are you drawing on some nerd stereotype from the fifties? I googled actual fucking evidence about how common hooking u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 09:48 PM |
| 1 | What are ways we can make we can make the cock carousel more fair and equitable?You see guys having sex at parties? Do you go to orgies parties? I see two people all over each other going into bedrooms or leaving the party together. I wish I got invites to the orgy parties. Guess I'm not cool enough. Also I fuck mostly non-"alpha" guys. Given how much I get around, it's a pretty significant source of data. How rich are those guys? Mostly from blue collar families. Most of my social circle receives significant financial aid. Yeah, women have it pretty eaasy. Yup, if you want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 09:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women Compartmentalize Men Based on the Context in Which They Meet ThemThank you. What concerns do you have about their criteria? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 09:33 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Why should I care about women getting equal pay when women don't care about men getting an equal amount of sex?Why? In most cases, it is. Why doesn't it apply to everything else? If you asks someone to donate a kidney to you, and they say no, everyone is going to support their right to refuse. This applies to a lot of things. but a man's well-being and happiness etc depends on his sex life a lot. So how come autonomy is less important that survival, but more important than health? One's happiness is also very dependent on social bonds and being able to live comfortably. Do you think other people should b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 09:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Why should I care about women getting equal pay when women don't care about men getting an equal amount of sex?So, are you going to keep ignoring the words I actually say in an attempt to get me to agree with you about an unrelated topic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 09:19 PM |
| 5 | Is gender distribution the reason why getting casual sex is hard?women are probably less likely to orgasm with a casual partner I've recently begun feeling the effects of this. I recently started having a "primary fuckbuddy" who I see a lot more than the other guys I'm fucking. The more I see him, the more consistently I get off with him, and the more we generally learn how to please each other. So now if I'm horny, I could hop on tinder and have some stranger pound away at me, with maybe 5% odds of orgasming, or I could go to an established partner who I kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 08:18 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Nothing in TBP subreddit should be held to logical standards or used as examples in debate.Is it? It's hard to go on TBP and make fun of TRP if you don't like ironic misandry? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 07:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Why should I care about women getting equal pay when women don't care about men getting an equal amount of sex?So when you choose not to have and it contradicts another person's desire on the matter, then what? Both parties must be in agreement, sure, but if they aren't. Why do they always choose woman's side? They always choose the side of the person who says "no." You're the one assuming it's always the woman saying no and the man saying yes. Oh, "Legally". So some dudes decided so and made it a law and now that's your measure of how it should be? I say, fuck his autonomy, for example. In the story of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?And several still are sleeping around. And the ones who have girlfriends now spent years successfully sleeping around until they decided to stop. I'm not counting their girlfriends as part of their "sexual success" stats. They were sleeping around without commitment for a while, then settled down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 07:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Nothing in TBP subreddit should be held to logical standards or used as examples in debate.People in TBP often have certain beliefs in common. My point is that those beliefs aren't inherent to being blue pill. One can be just as blue pill without those common beliefs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 07:34 PM |
| 1 | What would it take for people to realize TRP isn't a hate sub?The second she notices you, and knows that you have noticed her, a timer starts in her head. And if you hesitate, that tells her you're not as confident as she wants you to be. Not the case. Now, if the guy is standing in a corner staring at you and fidgeting for ten minutes before coming over to talk, that does make him seem pretty nervous. But many women would be flattered by the nervousness. I personally wouldn't care. Women aren't running timers on every guy who looks at them. What is "Plaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 07:33 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Nothing in TBP subreddit should be held to logical standards or used as examples in debate.Protestor is a better analogy than rival party, but it's still an analogy. The only BP "ideology" you could universally apply is "the red pill is stupid and wrong." That is the only belief required to be blue pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 07:21 PM |
| 1 | What would it take for people to realize TRP isn't a hate sub?Yup, I'm a woman. I honestly felt like all of it was really good advice. Instead of saying things like: "Wow, you sure are beautiful..." or "God must be missing an angel up in heaven...", find ways of communicating your appreciation with your body language. One of the best ways you can make a woman feel cherished and appreciated is simply to use more eye contact. Just look from eye to eye, and occasionally let your eyes stray down to her lips - or to her hair. This shows that you're taking her i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 07:19 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Why should I care about women getting equal pay when women don't care about men getting an equal amount of sex?You certainly gained a convenient excuse. Do you seriously think if you asked the majority of feminists if they cared about sex trafficking of little girls, they wouldn't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 07:08 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Why should I care about women getting equal pay when women don't care about men getting an equal amount of sex?A politician said something. Feminism encompasses millions of people of all kinds of different ideologies. It's not unified enough for you to say "feminists don't care." I'm a feminist who cares. Seriously, you should find a way to ask a large number of feminists if they care about the issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 07:00 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Why should I care about women getting equal pay when women don't care about men getting an equal amount of sex?I think you missed my point by a mile. There are two reasons to care about something: It affects you directly, or because you care about other people's wellbeing. If OP were concerned with other people's wellbeing, his support of equal pay wouldn't be affected by whether or not his issue is receiving support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 06:52 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Why should I care about women getting equal pay when women don't care about men getting an equal amount of sex?Why do you think feminists don't care about that? I'm a feminist, I definitely care. Feminists are pretty fucking against sex trafficking. Make a post on /r/feminism and ask if they care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 06:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women Compartmentalize Men Based on the Context in Which They Meet ThemSo because one activity you saw at a sex party doesn't fit your definition of submission, most women submissives aren't "real"? I bet a lot of submissives enjoy receiving oral too. That doesn't seem submissive, so does that disqualify them? Not every act they enjoy has to be submissive for them to "count." The point is you compartmentalize your sadomasochism as an act you enjoy rather than a relational exchange with a specific male. No idea what this means. You're surrounded by guys getting laid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 06:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Why should I care about women getting equal pay when women don't care about men getting an equal amount of sex?If a woman is hypergamous, then she can choose a lower-paying job. Given the whole women's rights movement, unfairness obviously makes women pretty unhappy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 06:30 PM |
| 1 | What would it take for people to realize TRP isn't a hate sub?accepting reality and making peace with it ...the reality that all women are childlike Machiavellian whores? How does calling women vile names and stereotyping them all as manipulative, loveless, subhuman holes help you to become a better man? How could you be told that's true, spend hours affirming that belief in yourself and others, and come out of it respecting women? I was completely blindsided when I first visited TRP. I'm a woman, but I've never used men or cheated on them or made them pla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 06:22 PM |
| 1 | BP: Why *shouldn't* RP guys strive to be dark triad/Machiavellian/Chad alphas?I became more attracted to him after that. I'm into guys who are into tabletop, LOL, programming, comics, weird languages, shit like that. I'm not saying the dice were the only reason I slept with him, I'm saying that the dice made it a sure thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 06:09 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Why should I care about women getting equal pay when women don't care about men getting an equal amount of sex?Pay them the same amount per hour. If working a certain amount is required for the job, require that amount. People are saying women should be paid the same for doing the same work, and you're just saying "but why should they be paid the same in this situation where they're not doing the same work????" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 06:07 PM |
| 2 | What are ways we can make we can make the cock carousel more fair and equitable?which is why if a woman isn't a landwhale she can expect a guy to be an alpha male before putting out Then why are so many "non-alpha" dudes getting laid? At least on tinder, women tend to be picky and evasive about their intentions, but they're not all holding out out for tall, buff sports stars or whatever. On tinder, at parties, whatever, I see so many average guys having sex. I see the guys my housemates and friends (most of whom are significantly more attractive than me) date and hook up wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 06:04 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Nothing in TBP subreddit should be held to logical standards or used as examples in debate.No, people with plenty of dissenting viewpoints coexist in TBP. At no point has the sub drawn up a list of "blue pill" beliefs and tenets. TBP isn't an opposing political party, it's a group of protesters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 05:52 PM |
| 14 | CMV: Why should I care about women getting equal pay when women don't care about men getting an equal amount of sex?No one's saying women should be paid the same as men in entirely different fields. It's equal pay for equal work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?Yeah, that's why I googled some fucking stats. Because anecdotal evidence is shit when talking about broad trends. None of my male friends are exceptionally attractive. Several used to sleep around but now have steady girlfriends. And people who can't get laid definitely aren't fucking invisible to me, because I'm into D&D and other tabletop games. Those social circles are pretty goddamn full of socially awkward men. There's a lot less hooking up there, but it's actually really common for them t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 07:27 AM |
| 9 | CMV: Why should I care about women getting equal pay when women don't care about men getting an equal amount of sex?If he chooses to have sex with her and she does not agree, that is rape, because he took away her right to choose whether or not to have sex. You can choose to have sex only up to the point where it contradicts their desires on the matter. Both parties must be in agreement to have sex, or one party's ability to choose has been disregarded. Murder is in no way the same as sex. The analogy just doesn't apply. How about another one? A person is starving to death and needs food but another one doesn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?my anecdotal evidence is sufficient and yours is not. Wat. I'm also basing my evidence on male friends and acquaintances. My sample is by no means only female. Your anecdotal sample isn't enough, because it's not random. It's from the place and time you went to college, from the specific social circles you had contact with. You might be able to show that hooking up isn't common for...I dunno, junior year guys at X University in 2011, but that's about it. My social circle is pretty evenly split, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?They sure as hell weren't try to identify which students had sex with all three. You're assuming this study is flawed and inaccurate because it contradicts you anecdotal evidence. Well, it agrees with mine, and it happens to involve numbers rather than a point-blank assertion that you didn't really see hooking up going on so it can't have been happening. You understand that holding a dick in a mouth for 5 seconds and then changing her mind or both falling asleep drunk also counts as a hookup wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 06:49 AM |
| 11 | CMV: Why should I care about women getting equal pay when women don't care about men getting an equal amount of sex?The harm is that her autonomy has been violated. She has been stripped of the right to choose. You could say the same of a scenario where one person wants to murder another, who does not want to be murdered. Why should the potential victim's interests be supported in 100% of those cases? :) Because she has a right to choose. He also has a right to choose, but only until it interferes with her right, at which point it's rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 06:47 AM |
| 9 | CMV: Why should I care about women getting equal pay when women don't care about men getting an equal amount of sex?There's a pretty big difference between legislated equal treatment by corporate and government bodies and mandated violation of bodily autonomy. Our society is pretty okay with legislating how corporations have to treat people: warning labels, legal recourse, etc. Limiting personal autonomy is much more controversial and unpopular. It is generally held to be justified when someone's actions cause direct harm to another person. I can swing my fist all I want, until your face begins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?"By the end of their first semester of college, 60% of our sample had lifetime experience with oral, vaginal, or anal sex hookups," x You said it's not common to sleep around. It seems like it's pretty fucking common to sleep around, and my experience is more typical than yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 06:30 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?"When it comes to real life, most of today's young adults report some casual sexual experience. The most recent data suggest that between 60 percent and 80 percent of North American college students have had some sort of hook-up experience." x So that sounds pretty common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 06:10 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Why should I care about women getting equal pay when women don't care about men getting an equal amount of sex?If that's true of gender it's true of any other protected attribute. What's your point, that people shouldn't hire women, minorities, or disabled people for fear of discrimination lawsuits? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?Where and when did you go to college that people weren't sleeping around? Is there a chance you just didn't run in those circles? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 05:58 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Why should I care about women getting equal pay when women don't care about men getting an equal amount of sex?Which needs a basis. Which there won't be if the person actually performed worse than their coworkers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 05:52 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Women Compartmentalize Men Based on the Context in Which They Meet ThemWho am I trying to liberate here? What hierarchies am I disrupting? EDIT: I'm responding to all three of your comments here so this doesn't get ridiculous. Also on a side note I do think a lot of women who self identify as submissives are not that submissive in my opinion. They are more likely sensesualists, enjoy attention, and also are interested in objectification I'm a sadomasochist who enjoys having physical force used against her to ensure compliance. Also, how would you know? And I do apo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 05:47 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Women Compartmentalize Men Based on the Context in Which They Meet ThemI'm a switch. Only a few of my partners were submissive in bed. Mostly, I'm the submissive one, and I've never found that someone's financial status prevented them from being dominant. EDIT: Also, less powerful? They're usually older and employed, while I'm a younger student. Seriously, the gold digging thing is weird. What's your excuse for how all the other community college students are getting laid? maybe some submissive men go on tindr to grovel at the feet of a woman in the hopes they'll b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 05:17 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Nothing in TBP subreddit should be held to logical standards or used as examples in debate.Then no, we're not saying the same thing. My point was that one can be a member of the TBP and hold any ideology but one—TRP. "The red pill is wrong" is not an ideology, it's a refutation of one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 05:11 AM |
| 7 | Q4TheBluePill: Which famous person or publication do you see are the female equivalent of the Redpill for men?Cosmo is just balls-out retarded sex advice, so it's more analogous to pure PUA stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 04:34 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Why should I care about women getting equal pay when women don't care about men getting an equal amount of sex?It's still perfectly legal to fire someone based on their performance. So what if you have to pay men and women the same amount? Promote/keep the ones that are worth the money, fire the ones that aren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 04:31 AM |
| 19 | CMV: Why should I care about women getting equal pay when women don't care about men getting an equal amount of sex?You have no reason to care. You have no reason to care about orphans being raped in Somalia, or human trafficking in Eastern Europe, or any of the millions of shitty things that happen to people who aren't you. People can only argue that you "should" care about something in terms of self-interest or moral imperative. If you cared about what is moral, you'd probably already have latched on to the unfairness of someone being paid less for their sex, but obviously you just want an appeal to your se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?Thanks, that's the perk. Several more upvotes than I would have gotten otherwise. But honestly, I feel like tinder is making me sexist to some extent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 04:19 AM |
| 1 | What are ways we can make we can make the cock carousel more fair and equitable?Why do you think that? If that were true, wouldn't men serving women be much more common in the world? Why should men suffer equally as much as women? Should white people suffer equally as much as minorities? Able-bodied people as the disabled? If not, why does your equality of suffering only apply to sex? Men's burdens are partial compensation for women's burdens; a way to help close the suffering gap. That's not why men suffer. Men suffer because of pressure to fulfill their traditional, expec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 03:47 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Nothing in TBP subreddit should be held to logical standards or used as examples in debate.its going to be held up/viewed as such. What is going to be viewed as what? TBP as an ideology? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?When I mean men and women define "nice" in different ways, I mean men define it in an unreasonable and overly devoting, over the top way, which women aren't actually looking for, while women define niceness in the reasonable, common way. Ahh, I see. So men think that to count as "nice" they have to be falling over themselves to compliment women and pay for them and do them favors and such? And over here women just mean nice in the basic sense of "polite and pleasant to be around"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 03:32 AM |
| 2 | What are ways we can make we can make the cock carousel more fair and equitable?See? You admit that women are pickier than men, and are harder to get to agree to casual sex. The lesbians of tinder in my area, yeah. Whereas women's colleges are hotbeds of girl-on-girl party hookups. I know lesbians who went to women's colleges just for those opportunities, and they sleep around like crazy. I'd like for men to happily serve women. Why should that make them happy? Would you be happy to serve men? What do you do if they're not happy about it? I think this is the fair, equitable… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 03:31 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Nothing in TBP subreddit should be held to logical standards or used as examples in debate.What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 03:25 AM |
| 3 | What are ways we can make we can make the cock carousel more fair and equitable?That ship has sailed. It's common now for women to pay for themselves, and as long as some women will, the ones who don't are at a disadvantage. I'm bisexual, but women are picky and tend to play games. They have a comparative disadvantage to men, a great number of whom will straightforwardly agree to casual sex. Putting in the effort to sleep with a woman seems ridiculous when even attractive men are so much easier. Perhaps what would be ideal: after developing a same-sex relationship, then you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 03:19 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Nothing in TBP subreddit should be held to logical standards or used as examples in debate.And that's an error in thinking. Every member of TBP might hold a very different view of the "right" way to do things, but they're united in believing that TRP is the "wrong" way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?Nice means being polite, showing basic respect to me as my boundaries, and showing interest and consideration, off the top of my head. Assertiveness and sexual comments are really context dependent. If we're getting coffee and he says, "Just so you know, I expect the night to end with me fucking you," then I stop thinking of him as nice, because he seems rude and unwilling to make the effort to treat me as an individual person. If things are going well and he says, "Hey, come watch a movie at my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?Women understand what the word "nice" means dude. We're not speaking lady-English. I only sleep with guys who are respectful to me (as I am to them) and being nice (kind, engaging, taking a genuine interest in people) only increases my interest. If I'm looking for more than just sex, being nice becomes a solid requirement. Being nice ain't that rare. That's why it's a baseline. It's not hard to find guys who are attractive and nice, and obviously that's gonna be my preference. Additionally, wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 02:29 AM |
| 4 | What are ways we can make we can make the cock carousel more fair and equitable?Can you elaborate on the costs of the "cock carousel" more? And is there a term I can use that isn't as soulfuckingly stupid as "cock carousel"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 01:57 AM |
| 1 | What are ways we can make we can make the cock carousel more fair and equitable?You think if men had their way there wouldn't be a market for casual sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 01:56 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] Avoid online dating if you want to meet the love of your lifeMost people interact for a while with each other before they go on a date and already know if there's chemistry. Online, the decision to date someone is made based on a picture and a profile and you might end up in a date with someone you don't like, as well as reject the invitation on a date with someone you'd be attracted to irl. Yeah, this is something that's always bothered me a little. There've been times where I swiped right on a guy I wouldn't have ordinarily for some arbitrary reason and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 01:54 AM |
| 13 | What would it take for people to realize TRP isn't a hate sub?One post, no matter how popular, does not represent the whole content of the sub, and it's ridiculous to dismiss all the examples of hateful shit that have blossomed on that sub because the most upvoted post isn't hateful. I don't personally thing TRP is a hate subreddit. I don't think its core message has to be hateful. I do think it's an environment that fosters and enables hating, degrading, and stereotyping women. As for the post you linked, it's good advice. I personally disagree with the r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 01:38 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Nothing in TBP subreddit should be held to logical standards or used as examples in debate.Yeah, I think TBP is too often held up as an "opposing ideology" TRP, but TBP isn't for that and doesn't have have codified tenets. There are things which you could say BPers generally believe, but believing those things isn't inherent to being blue pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 01:30 AM |
| 6 | Q4BP: Highest upvoted post on TRP isn't hateful. How can this be?I'm not necessarily disputing your conclusion, but your methods are fucking asinine. Are you seriously going to pick one post, no matter by what method, and claim that one post proves or disproves something about the whole sub? If you want to debate this, make some actual points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 01:28 AM |
| 3 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?That's why being bisexual is fun, because you end up somewhat bitter at everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 01:19 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Women Compartmentalize Men Based on the Context in Which They Meet ThemYour theory is wrong. Tinder is entirely based on "physical presence" and works just fine for a lot of people. I almost never learn someone's career from their profile, and when I do it's usually because facbook automatically inserted their job as a barista or waiter, because we're college students and most people don't have "careers" yet. I'm fucking a number of guys who live at home. Some aren't in college at all. One dropped out of high school. You seem to have really bought into the idea tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?I didn't mean literally everybody is fucking, I meant casual sex is really common in a college environment. Besides that, what's your disagreement? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 01:11 AM |
| 4 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?I think you do see your own gender pull shit, but you don't experience the full magnitude and range of it you might were you trying to date/fuck them. But yeah, I think it's easy to make excuses for behavior in yourself and people like you that you'd hate in the opposite sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 01:10 AM |
| 3 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?I don't think it's really controversial that it's easier to get laid if you're attractive, and muscles are widely considered attractive on men. I think you might be onto something with the indirect correlation. Attractive guys with a lot of social capital are encouraged to be douchey and can get away with it. I think your view of the college hookup scene might be limited by your focus on frat parties. I hook up a lot, but almost never get into frat parties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: Do women use their sexuality or sex as a weapon?Skinny, big tits and ass with wide hips. So I've got a pretty hourglass shape. No muscle anymore, since I've been sick for a few months. I don't see how you're going three months. Masturbation just isn't the same. Why didn't they have much luck getting laid? Short, asian, didn't stand out in terms of hotness, mostly introverts. IDK. I never saw the guys you fucked I can't make any judgement about their lack of alpha looks. Yeah, the only good indicator I have is other women considering my taste … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 05:39 PM |
| 4 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?Most casual sex happens outside of parties, it's just less visible there. Tinder is huge in college towns, but you don't meet up with your tinder dates at frat parties. Muscular guys are seen as more attractive and definitely get laid more. Do you think there's a similar correlation with being unkind to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't unreciprocably use their partners as "emotional tampons"Yeah, women's sexuality does seem more fluid. I always tell straight guys I feel a little sorry for them, because if they were attracted to guys they could be getting laid so much easier. I'm an artist. I read poetry when I'm in line to get inside the bus, and I read romantic letters written by the poets and their loves between breaks of watching Wuthering Heights and listening to Bon Jovi's romantic songs.. I know at least three women who would absolutely swoon over that description. My roommat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: Do women use their sexuality or sex as a weapon?There are a very few women in the states who sleep with men who aren't conventionally attractive while the women themselves are attractive. I'm not very attractive. Men seem to like my body shape, but my face is spectacularly average and I don't really wear makeup. There are even women here who claim to have been 100% lesbians until they met their very average future husbands and now they are happily married to some dude who is way belot their smv. How many "unicorns" can you find before conside… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 05:17 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?Yeah, I know I'm exaggerating. My point was that there's a lot of hooking up going on. Do you think it's exclusive to women? Why do you think women's phase specifically involves muscular guys who don't treat them well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't unreciprocably use their partners as "emotional tampons"Maybe it was a hormonal shift, but I'd never been attracted to a guy until I left for college. After some drunken experimenting, I began to experience general attraction to men. I can't explain that shit. I'm not sure this is related (I think it's just a kink), but a guy tearing up during a movie would actually arouse me. Tears turn me on, but if they're crying about their dead dog or something I'm gonna repress that. Crying during movies, though... He felt short and fat. I think it was admittin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: Do women use their sexuality or sex as a weapon?I've always been attracted to the people I sleep with, but I get teased a lot for having weird or undesirable taste in men. I would not be very interested in sleeping with a 6'4" ripped blond dude. You don't need to be attracted to her to fuck her, you just need to get hard. Your hand, imagination, whatever could do it. Men have sex with women they're not attracted to all the time. My point is, I clearly have a sex drive, I don't accept resources from these men, and my usual type is short asian … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't unreciprocably use their partners as "emotional tampons"At the time I wasn't attracted to men. Now, I'd be uninterested because only one was conventionally attractive, and he was completely insufferable as a person. Like I've said, I mostly don't sleep with alpha types, but emotional vulnerability tends to make guys more attractive. Had a guy tell me about how he supported his brother through a really dark time and how it made them closer, and it made him hotter to me. As in I actually wanted to jump him right then and there. Another fuckbuddy kinda … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 04:49 PM |
| 10 | Q4ALL: Do women use their sexuality or sex as a weapon?I sleep with anyone I feel like sleeping with. And come on, a mouth is a mouth. Getting hard isn't that difficult for guys with normal function. But seriously, how does the red pill explain any of what I do? All I get from the men I sleep with is sex, a great number of them fall into categories generally considered not especially desirable, and all of them are very nice and available to me. Given how easy casual sex is to come buy, any one of them who tried to implement RP tactics would just be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Most women don't unreciprocably use their partners as "emotional tampons"Were those guys who use you as an emotional tampon alphas you wanted to fuck but never made a move? God no. Even now that I identify as bisexual I woudn't want to sleep with any of them. I was willing to do that because they were my friends, and I hated to see them in pain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 04:37 PM |
| 11 | Q4ALL: Do women use their sexuality or sex as a weapon?Uh, alright? Why did you ask how attractive I am? What does your response add to anything? How does TRP explain my sexual behaviors? And it's effortless to get laid if you lower your standards enough. I've put in a lot of effort and luck to score with some guys who were out of my league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 04:19 PM |
| 13 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?Both genders have the capacity to be shitty in all the same ways. Straight men aren't trying to fuck other straight men, so they don't get to see other men pulling all the same shit they hate seeing in women. Terpers and SJWs alike would be pretty horrified by the even distribution of shitty behavior across race, gender, sexuality, whatever. Everyone wants to believe their demographic is the "good" one being preyed on or whatever, but at the end of the day we're all human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 03:55 PM |
| 7 | Q4All: What do you think is the most non-PC, unpalatable truth about the majority of either gender?I think most young people go through at least a phase of being into casual sex. Takes two to tango, and generally speaking, everyone wants to fuck at college. Edit: Is there a separate casual sex phase for men who aren't muscular or treat girls well? Because I'm in college, everybody is fucking everybody, and that includes skinny polite dudes. Edit2: No, I don't literally mean everybody is fucking everybody, I just mean a lot of casual sex goes on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 03:45 PM |
| 14 | Q4ALL: Do women use their sexuality or sex as a weapon?My face is plain. Not ugly, but not pretty. I have short (pixie cut) hair, and an attractive body (thin, large breasts and ass.) On tinder, I match a third or as fourth as much as most women. I'm told the short hair is a big factor there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 03:33 PM |
| 24 | Q4ALL: Do women use their sexuality or sex as a weapon?Women don't have a sex drive. few women in the world with a high sex drive low sex drive naturally So which is it? Besides which, very few of the men I sleep with would be considered alpha males. Most find tinder depressing and rarely rewarding. None are tall, very few are white, and all of them are respectful and pleasant to me. My sex life doesn't fit the RP narrative at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 03:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women Compartmentalize Men Based on the Context in Which They Meet ThemDoes tinder buttfuck you like it does most guys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 03:16 PM |
| 71 | Q4ALL: Do women use their sexuality or sex as a weapon?I've been masturbating almost daily since I was twelve and have lots of casual sex with men who I don't allow to pay for me. I do this because it scratches an itch and satisfies my libido. How does my behavior make sense at all if I don't have a sex drive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 11:46 AM |
| 3 | When should a woman end the night if sex is off the table? Also, is it wrong for women to have male friends?I think the scenario is more specifically about realizing you're not interested halfway through a date. Is it the woman's duty to cut the date short immediately? Is she leading him on by finishing the date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 11:34 AM |
| 3 | When should a woman end the night if sex is off the table? Also, is it wrong for women to have male friends?I think their point is that someone leading you on isn't a justification for raping them. Leading someone on, especially intentionally, is shitty, but I don't think it's okay to ignore someone's boundaries just because they led you on or sent mixed signals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 11:33 AM |
| 3 | When should a woman end the night if sex is off the table? Also, is it wrong for women to have male friends?Yeah, some guys might say they appreciate the straightforwardness, but I can't imagine it would be anything but humiliating to have a date announce they'd never want to have sex with you then walk out in the middle of dinner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 11:30 AM |
| 7 | Most women don't unreciprocably use their partners as "emotional tampons"I had all male friends in highs school. Most of them, I later learned, were into me. "Beta orbiters" if you must. I was the emotional tampon. I ended up spending hours listening to their problems, comforting them, encouraging them to seek help in some cases. I even comforted them over being into me or jealous of the time I spent platonically with other guys (I identified as gay at the time, they never saw me display interest in anyone.) I think the issue is that men often feel exposed or "weak" … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 11:10 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Women Compartmentalize Men Based on the Context in Which They Meet ThemPlain face, short hair, nice body. Not sure how to rate myself, but I know the short hair holds me back, and I get vastly fewer matches than most girls on tinder (I match with maybe 1/5 of the guys I swipe right on.) Is how attractive I am relevant? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 10:58 AM |
| 3 | CMV: The feminist anti-rape hysteria has been an extraordinary successIt's laughable to say women protect themselves here. Western women dress in essentially lingerie, go out partying all night alone, drink copiously with men, have total freedom and do whatever they want, and it's fine and fantastic. Bad stuff barely ever happens to them. It's obviously well worth the tiny chance of getting raped. When I go out with friends, we protect each other. No one goes off alone, no one gets left behind. If anyone gets too drunk, everyone gathers and leaves to take care of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 09:25 PM |
| 5 | BP: Why *shouldn't* RP guys strive to be dark triad/Machiavellian/Chad alphas?Killing everyone over the age of eighty would be very effective at cutting healthcare costs. Beating your kid when they misbehave would work to ensure obedience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 09:14 PM |
| 3 | BP: Why *shouldn't* RP guys strive to be dark triad/Machiavellian/Chad alphas?People are into a wide variety of shit man. A guy once legitimately seduced me by showing me a briefcase full of beautiful sets of tabletop dice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 09:11 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Women Compartmentalize Men Based on the Context in Which They Meet ThemI'm bisexual and I feel that the average man is definitely less attractive than the average woman, especially on dating apps. But seriously, I go on Tinder and 9/10 women I see are at least a 7. Is that realistic? No. Makeup, filters, good photography skills, plus ugly girls probably avoid it. Most of the guys on there are a 5 at first sight. Men tend not to put nearly as much effort into learning how to take good, flattering pictures. I've hooked up with attractive guys who later showed me thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 08:48 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Women Compartmentalize Men Based on the Context in Which They Meet ThemActually, women don't even swipe right unless the guy is their SMV +2. I find that this is absolutely untrue for me. The men I tend to be attracted to are generally considered less conventionally attractive than I am. And I've unmatched people, even attractive people, because they started off with "hi" and didn't drastically improve in the next few messages. I've swiped right on people I normally wouldn't because their bio caught my attention, and that honestly worked out pretty well for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 08:42 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women Compartmentalize Men Based on the Context in Which They Meet ThemIt's especially a problem for less attractive guys who get laid purely on balls, because balls mean nothing on dating apps. I do have to disagree here. I'm fucking an average-looking guy who gets laid constantly through Tinder by being incredibly direct and upfront. I essentially agreed to sleep with him within half an hour because I was so impressed and taken aback by his forthrightness. But overall I think you're absolutely right. Even attractive dating app men still feel pretty interchangeabl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 08:38 PM |
| 1 | If a woman says "no" you should stop even if you think she's shit-testingI completely agree with you. I think this is a very astute, realistic way of viewing the situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 01:18 AM |
| 1 | If a woman says "no" you should stop even if you think she's shit-testingYeah, I always kind of wondered about that. If my partner says "no," then either they meant it, or they're playing games. Either way, I don't want to have sex with them anymore. Honestly, it seems like the easiest way to eliminate this type of shit-test would be for everyone to start taking the "no" seriously. Just walk away, and the offenders will learn. If she starts whining about how she didn't mean it or whatever, just bluntly tell her, "Then say yes next time." If they absolutely knew that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Being "warm", especially in social interactions, is more of a masculine traitI'm not sure what real evidence I can bring to the table here, but in my experience it's very common for women to be "warm" and sociable. There are kind, gregarious people of all genders. In general, I feel that women are "warmer" because society encourages us to value emotiveness and social bonds more. I find that men, especially at first, are somewhat more reserved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 12:51 AM |
| 3 | Girl gets rejected by a guy in relationship, blames it on society. PPD what are your thoughts on this scenario?She slept with a guy who had some kind of tentative thing with her housemate. So off the bat, they both seem kind of shitty. I don't see for a second how he demonstrated male privilege. She's bitter that he likes her housemate more, boo fucking hoo. I'm white. I've hooked up with guys who told me about girls they were interested in dating. Plenty of the time, those girls weren't white. I was the fleeting hookup, they were the love interest. That's not a problem at all, because I just wanted a ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 12:49 AM |
| 1 | TBP members with extreme "grrrl power" views are just as offensive to their more moderate peers as insular TRP membersIf he were talking about how awesome and empowering cougars are, I'd agree with you, but to me this seems more like an angry retort against the idea of differing sexual primes for men and women. I think "grrrl power" shit is condescending, juvenile, and stupid, I just think that with how irritatingly prevalent those attitudes are, this isn't the best example you could've found. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 12:01 AM |
| 1 | TBP members with extreme "grrrl power" views are just as offensive to their more moderate peers as insular TRP membersI interpreted it as pointing out a double standard in portraying age-gapped relationships, then going on to advocate for "normal" AKA similar-age relationships. I don't think they were saying older women are better at being predatory than older men or whatever, just that the latter is considered more normal because of ideas about women's vs. men's sexual prime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 11:30 PM |
| 2 | TBP members with extreme "grrrl power" views are just as offensive to their more moderate peers as insular TRP membersI meant, the image you linked doesn't really seem like an example of "grrrl power." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 11:05 PM |
| 2 | TBP members with extreme "grrrl power" views are just as offensive to their more moderate peers as insular TRP membersWhat you posted doesn't seem like "grrrl power" at all? I think of that as being more "women run the world! men would be helpless without us!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Does socioeconomic status play a role in adopting the "you shouldn't have put yourself in that position" mentality?I've generally noticed the opposite. Wealthy, conservative white people love to blame people's problems on them. "She shouldn't have been wearing that" "he shouldn't have been out after dark" "if you're homeless it's a choice, because you could just get a job." I think it comes from not having many problems of your own, and wanting to believe the world is fair. It sucks to think you live in a world where bad shit can just happen to you, so it's comforting to blame someone's misfortunes on their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP: What aspects of "alpha widow" do you disagree with? (please read)I sleep around a good amount. At the moment, I'm tentatively pursuing something "more" with one of my fuckbuddies. He's a quiet, nerdy dude. I have, and am, sleeping with men who are more conventionally attractive, in better shape, have bigger dicks, etc. But he gets prioritized over them. I have sex with him more, I turn down those other men if he's available, there have been times where those other, more alpha men literally had to wait until he was done spending time with me before I would com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 05:59 PM |
| 5 | Just a thought about the whole, "He's a total asshole" debateI've been on dates like that. Where you're absolutely sure you'll mutually never reestablish contact because it went so badly...but somehow they don't seem to notice and keep pursuing you. Some people are desperate, or delusional, or oblivious, or whatever. I imagine your descriptions of the second date would differ extremely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 05:21 PM |
| 7 | Just a thought about the whole, "He's a total asshole" debateSo I think women do a great disservice to themselves labelling men as jerks simply because the guy ended it. When she complains to the other male coworkers about me the message they get is "chicks like jerks" You are kind of extrapolating from one experience to a widespread behavior. I think the thing to keep in mind here is that from her perspective, your behavior is the same as a guy who used her for sex. You and I both know that you didn't, but she isn't privy to your internal monologue. "Dum… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 04:35 PM |
| 0 | Relationship issue because of my girlfriend's past. Asked r/relationships how to save my relationship and got flamed for slut shaming.For fuck's sake dude, just break up with her. Don't make her miserable. Your views on sex are different, but she's not wrong. She doesn't deserve to have the partner she loved and supported degrade and insult her because of his personal hangups. You're not "right." She's not "right." You're incompatible. No need to be a dick to this girl. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/16 09:12 PM |
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