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I never saw my dad buy a designer anything for my mom, because it’s literally the last thing she is interested in. Instead he sponsors and supports her travel and research for books she is writing, because that’s more her style. I see this as HV. So for me, it’s the generosity, its informal, they don’t do anything for anniversaires or hide gifts for each other. maybe this all violates fds policy, maybe it passes. What do you guys think?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 08:02 PM
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I’m all for autonomy, but let’s be real. Anyone seeing their friend or family member get lip fillers done on that level, like a flat layer of HA nearly busting out of their skin, would be worried about her. A guy who doesn’t know her and is looking for a blowjob while playing video games though would think that the lip fillers are great. A girl who is growing up sees male attention is what makes women valuable would see fake lips as desired. I am so sick of the overdone lip filler trend. Somethi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 07:03 PM
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is it ever worth gambling with eventually looking like Donatella Versace?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:09 AM
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That’s a Margaret Atwood quote from her 1993 novel Robber Bride. It’s a book about relationships based on tales of Brothers Grimm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 05:06 AM
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is there a way this man could level up his legs/feet to HVM? is he supposed to shave ? Honestly he looks pretty muscular, and healthy, and as long as he’s clean and takes care of his feet, I don’t see how his physique is a problem. Maybe it’s cause I’m old now, but I actually stopped and felt excited because I genuinely love muscular legs, and I like body hair. I had a bf who shaved his body and it confused me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 02:12 AM
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oh man, this is how dates work in that post apocalypse movie, Idiocracy. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 01:41 AM
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You have to be careful not to give people secondary trauma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 08:58 PM
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I didn’t understand what happened until years later, and this was also in another country. I was a mental patient. What is your testimony of a hazy event 5 or 10 years ago good for? I emailed the hospital maybe 7 years after the fact and I never had a response. It awakens a lot of dark feelings to revisit this but sometimes I tell people because it’s important to know that it happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:13 PM
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Thanks ! so useful. Seriously you have to train these people like dogs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 05:08 AM
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Does telling yourself the story also count? It took me years before understanding/registering/counting “rape”. It’s your brains defense mechanism, and it’s basically gaslighting yourself. I was raped 4 times 6 times 7 times if we count stealthing, and a person coming in you when you tell them not to.... I didn’t really register the information until years later. Still processing to this day, I guess. - Once by a bf when I was sleeping. (and that’s only when I caught him - Once by a hospital staf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:26 AM
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That’s fucking gross, he had no business touching you like that 🤢. I hope he is out of your mothers life. Did she know he was putting his hands on you ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 07:40 PM
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What do you do when someone touches your waist? Grab their hand ? a boss did this to me once. What do you even do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 07:38 PM
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“besides, she kind of deserves to be trapped. She doesn’t seem to have any hobbies of her own, and after spending time with me, she has no personality, passion or interests. She has really lost her spark, and let herself go. She is subhuman, and her body is mine.” When you end up in an abusive relationship, your personality, interests, laughter, fun side, etc. Disappear, and he will gaslight you into thinking that this is the best you’ll ever be, while putting you down. be careful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:30 AM
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“my husband brags about me on reddit“ 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:20 AM
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it’s all a giant test to see if you get mad, and your worth is proved when you keep showing that you are the magical rare unicorn 🦄 that doesnt get mad. Neigh. Congratulations. Your prize is ........... your husband bragging at how good you are at being quiet. You get nothing. You just give and give, and you love to give. I have been this woman. I was pretty good at not getting emotional or angry when fucked up shit happened, a magical skill I had thanks to my ability to dissociate. My rare supe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:11 AM
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we need mom bod love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 02:42 AM
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It’s true, she is literally like walking dead. I hope she gets all the help and care she needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:53 AM
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Maybe I just don’t understand rosalia’s lyrics, but I always saw her as kind of a step above others. I also haven’t been paying a lot of attention to pop stars because I just think you hit a wall with a lot of Pop music. It caters to teenagers and people whose lives are predicated on idealizing this age group lol. last time I watched a popular music video, it literally was like rap revolved around people sniffing percoset in a parking lot, With lots of twerking and fishnets and I was like. Hmmm …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:51 AM
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“This man was, however, also well known to police, and children’s social care did have knowledge of elements of his background. Before being sentenced to life imprisonment, the perpetrator had numerous previous convictions, which included theft, battery, criminal damage, domestic violence and possession of cannabis.” The blood is on the the hiring teams hands. This is what happens. Wtf was their incentive on hiring him knowing he was potentially a psychopath? The story should be about their negl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:34 AM
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Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeek
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:03 AM
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Obsession w famous ppl 🤮 bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:35 AM
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I had a friend once who started dating this clearly abusive guy like this. Of course, I had to meet him and we had drinks and I could barely keep It together. He said he liked earnest Hemingway, thus his ~aesthetic~. He was being such a passive aggressive douche the entire time, and was so disrespectful to my friend. When I said bye to him he said “good luck with (something)” and I replied “good luck with your beard.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:33 AM
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There should be a new word for guys who likes daddy Peterson. “Jordan Peterson head“.... I have heard them referred to as “Jordan Peterson lost boys”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:29 AM
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How do you leave a skid mark on a toilet seat ? Was he wiping his ass on the toilet seat? He must have been a huge Jordan Peterson lost boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:13 AM
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Had he never considered this ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:11 AM
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I’ve been in her situation. He was a psychopath, with a predatory pattern of pressuring girls to move in prematurely and help him with rent and bills, while he lived a double life where he didn’t have a girlfriend. Still trying to understand my (illogical, unwise) thought process, as if an entirely different person was making decisions back then. this was me pre fds. Bad decision. I have dated all kinds of dysfunctional people, but I do not use the term “psychopath“ liberally. this boyfriend was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 07:32 AM
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This has happened to me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 02:11 AM
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They know exactly what they are doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 02:43 AM
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Predators are actually more drawn to healthy, intelligent, strong women. It gives them greater satisfaction to possess them, and to break them. It makes them feel big and strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 01:20 AM
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”some of the most abusive men were ugly nerds who seem harmless at first glance” See: Keith Raniere, founder of NXIVM cult. I heard interviews with ex members. They described being very taken by how intelligent, and “deep” this introvert, soft spoken, intellectual.. He was constantly using his past as a “child prodigy”/genius as his identity 🤢 This is the personality profile of a guy who just got 120 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 01:13 AM
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How proud are fathers knowing their kid was a product of them raping their wife ? A dash of cognitive dissonance and we‘re all set. Also, we should set up a poll here for how many of us have been stealthed. It happened to me once last year, but I only realized what had actually happened months later. This is gaslighting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 06:40 AM
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This was so sweet to read, and I’m happy to read someone so happy. Do you have any tips for people stuck in the “sea of fog” phase? (books, movies, habits, activities?)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 06:21 AM
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Glad to hear you are opened up to new potential, and you can take your time to make room to be ready a mate who actually matches you. For me, it’s the rejection of your home cooked meal; an authentic thing you brought him, like... your inherited generational way of giving comfort and love, that you continue to keep alive and pass on. That is so sacred, and he doesnt understand the fortune of experiencing that.. Your partner should love the crap out of you For this. and his family basically shame…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 06:18 AM
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*shudder* the “photographer”. I dated photographers and a guy who worked in film. dont get me wrong, I love the art, but With “photographers”, some are just predators who own nice cameras, and their real hobby is collecting sexually suggestive picture / footage of as many Women/girls/children/paraphilia possible. basically making artsy diy porn. Maybe this goes without saying. After dating a LVM photographer, I look at men with this hobby as suspicious and potential Woody Allen, Polanski and cas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 05:44 AM
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Like now more than usual ? I mean I know that they’ve wanted in for quite some time now, but LGBTQ is like fuuuuuuck no. Did something change recently?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 05:29 AM
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This is so true. I spoke to another woman who was in an abusive relationship, and we were talking about how our bodies would get inexplicably sick (Not stds, just UTIs, BV, or yeast infections) with certain partners and then not with others. With my abusive ex, my immune system became weak, and I was always getting savage infections despite being ocd about vaginal health, hydration, showering after sex etc .. I’d get tested, and was always clean, so it was a vicious cycle of non std infections, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 02:40 AM
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And I thought I’d add that this sacred power of women‘s choice and selection is not a given, and has not been for a long time, and still isn’t in many parts of the world. Our power to decide and choose is something that people have to fight for and represent every fucking day, because our autonomy is something that people debate whether or not should even exist. This is why im a feminist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 06:12 AM
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Soundtrack by Phil Collins or some shit 🎶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:56 AM
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I once told a friend that my boyfriend didnt look at me when I gave him head (she is super super pretty), and she stopped and said “omg what???” Like something really tragic happened to me, as if I said like... my boyfriend doesnt kiss me. is eye contactless blowjob a fleshlight situation? In porn, constant eye contact in blowjob has been normalized, but I don’t think that’s natural. I don’t know. I feel weird looking at a dudes double chin + goon face, even on the cutest guy it wigs me out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:45 AM
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A man wrote this. #muhPenis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:16 AM
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You dont deserve sex until you have completed the pyramid. How do you find the clit without problem solving ability ? also sex equated with breathing. 🤣 “if I stop having sex the oxygen to my brain gets cut off and I will die. It’s science.“ Sounds like something you say to an impressionable student. well morality is the “last thing we need” literally the top of the pyramid, so there you go. Maslow basically is a self admitted piece of shit. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:16 AM
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I get kind of freaked out when I think about men with women who clearly have an eating disorder but enable it or encourage it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:14 AM
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Just a side note. I thought it was common knowledge that military and police have highest rate of dv. I’ve read it mentioned casually just in my life so many times, and this is literally the first time I’ve seen someone ask for source.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:06 AM
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And then the quality of his great work gets mediocre because his wife was also literally doing the math or writing his book. also noteworthy is Charles Dickens who tried (and failed) to have his ‘frumpy’ wife Catherine Dickens committed to a mental institution when she was still sane. This was after 8 kids. she was also an author. FDS should have a history flair post about her..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 04:39 AM
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so I see fds having a way better future in illustration, compared to other ideological internet cultures. This is not saying much because a lot of these cultures art is copy paste images, anime, furryish and ms paint drawings.. but something to consider. Beautiful work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 05:31 AM
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Is there a way we can get more fds comics or artists active here ? Art is such a good force. We have a lot of writing, but we need more visuals to go along with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 03:01 AM
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<3 you make a really good point about ableism. If you ask the average person if people disability deserve fulfilled functional lives, they would say ”yes” without skipping a beat. Put a person in a situation where they are around disability? Many fail the test, without even putting in effort. its normalized to be uncomfortable around disability or chronic illness. I am also disabled. In dating, it’s a challenge. Mine is not visible. I cant tell the person on the first date, really, because it’s …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 02:45 AM
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Thanks, it means a lot seeing this post. I felt extremely isolated in what I did. Since reaching out to women is ill-advised, I never shared what I did with anybody around me. The isolating experience of warning another woman is like an extension of the isolation and shame you experienced in the relationship, and on top of this you have to be prepared to be bullied and silenced when you are acting out of the will of your heart. It shouldn't be that way. Its like being a witch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 02:28 AM
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Thank you for believing her ❤️ I was on the receiving end of this, and was skeptical of the woman contacting me about his abuse, and also gullible enough to believe things the guy told me about her. He took her old love letters and showed them to me, telling me she was leaving them in his mailbox. I just thought she was very unstable and trying to take him back, but never forgot her warning. when the time came for me to reach out after enduring domestic abuse, other people, my family, my therapi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 03:24 AM
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”it makes me feel, well, *womanly*. Which I like.” this is a larper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 02:12 AM
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Who is the artist?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 11:18 PM
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It’s not hot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 11:17 PM
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um, we need to find this artist. This is hatespeech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 11:16 PM
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This. Get pepper spray. Make sure you are protected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 08:12 AM
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Surprised nobody has mentioned yet how fantastic she is with no hair... like wow 🤩 total goddess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 05:47 AM
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This is journalism worthy..... so wierd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 03:28 AM
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I’m trying to find the original account on twitter... is it gone ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 03:12 AM
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if “charming” is the only quality I hear used to describe a man, it means able to get away with evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 04:27 AM
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Love this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 04:21 AM
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eeeeeeek - Literally every msg from him, the subject of the sentence is ”I” (my opinion, my reaction, my empathic powers) - All of your replies are positive reinforcement/agreement (Heart, I agree, laughter, I find that interesting) Sometimes it’s tempting to just bait them “Wow you sound really smart” and make them say worse and worse stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 02:49 AM
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hair. strands of keratin. If they are a certain length, I respect you. If they are another length, your humanity is gone. Haha i feel bad they have a son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 12:30 AM
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Men notoriously refuse prostate exams to save their own life, because it’s violating. Women take medieval torture devices up there at least once yearly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 12:17 AM
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pre FDS Story time... I once showed a younger guy (25) how to get to a clinic and get tested because he seemed unfamiliar with the process 🚩 🏃‍♀️ run. I rationalized that this lost boy was dyslexic, and the beaucracy in this circumstance was in a different language than his mother tongue, maybe baby didn’t grow up with enough love 💔 etc etc, Mentally I made excuses for his grown ass when there are /none/ for a sexually active grownup not knowing how to test for stds. I set up the appointment for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 08:21 PM
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oh Robert crumb. I think his entire career was about his own Male depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 11:57 PM
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Isn’t that sort of like “simp” ? “incel” came from a place and blew up to be appropriated by another culture. I guess it’s happening here too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:07 PM
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I somehow was watching old clips of the kardashians. Kylie was totally cute and pretty the way she was. If this much work is normal, looking like Donatella Versace is also going to be normal. this generation coming of age played with bratz dolls. I’m willing to bet the lip filler thing was from this. Before that, it was barbie, which was a different physique.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:52 PM
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I have started really not liking the dad bod thing when I realized that there is no such Thing as Men gushing over “mom bod”. Instead as women are trained to loathe our bodies that have any hint that we have even carried or birthed children. Men aestheticise their body post children and get sexual validation for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:45 PM
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Where did you find this? I wonder who the artist is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:38 PM
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Dwight schrute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 02:39 AM
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OMG this guy = perfect FDS viewing.I don’t know if anyone got this vibe watching this particular episode, but I felt part of his crisis of growing up and out of the club scene as a DJ was not being able to seduce younger girls because he’s obviously not their age range with the lights on and there is a total alienation from dating women his age. He had a pantry in his bedroom. When I was young, I dated some guys who fit the description. They are phobic of looking their own age. It’s a “i need to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 11:43 PM
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Anyone here see this ironic as Chomsky is touted as one of the best intellectual minds of our era, and yet the “Rational minded” “intellectual” “Atheist” reddit Lost boys borg (minus Nofap) is militantly 180 degrees opposite of his view on porn? it’s refreshing to see this, and maybe if you hold Chomsky’s views up to a man who needs to hear it from an “intellectual”/scholarly man, he’s our guy. So many boys and men don’t hear shit until a man says it. Because many have been indoctrinated to beli…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 11:18 PM
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Wtf did I just read?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 04:14 PM
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Thanks for the kind words and yes, Totally painful experience, done and blocked. I will add to gaslighting partners.. I have mental health conditions which I disclosed to this boyfriend early on. At first I thought he was being attentive and sweet, but he had a field day with Pathologizing/weaponizing it and telling me who I was. It was like this guy gaslighting with Emotional IQ, and suddenly you are the new subject of Dr. Scrote With a PhD in behavioural science 🧪 🧬. If he self appoints as a D…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 11:18 PM
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If his social entourage is orbiting women he has casually had sex with ? Big No. I mean, cool he is Transparent, but still No. That’s called a harem. I have dated a few guys now who I slowly discovered had this net of floaty artsy edgy bdsm looking female friends I never properly met, but were like his closest people. I never wanted to be the uncool gf who is like “hey um how do you know each other?” times every one of these friends. NVM will clap back that you are insecure and jealous, and it w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 10:59 PM
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It’s really hard to communicate to women who like a man, that he is actually abusive or dangerous if he has a “nice” exterior. It’s a mask. They think you must have done something to activate his abusive side, because he is so nice. When he’s mad, it must be for a reason, and you deserve the abuse. People generally don’t like believing someone who they admire is a monster, and would rather see you as the problem... Has anyone noticed that some “nice”/sensitive/artistic/intellectual guys That are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 10:27 PM
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Well let’s level it out and call out we have some Energy diggers. Sex diggers. Chores diggers. Therapy diggers. BJ diggers. Child rearing diggers. help with my bills and rent diggers. To say nothing of the guys out there actively looking to date mothers so they can get close her kids. cause that’s a thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 02:31 AM
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love bomb vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 02:29 AM
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Big flag. I have already had 2 poc men tell me they dont date black/latina women because they will “cut your balls off” / “beat your ass”. Translation : I want to get away with treating you like shit, and I do this serially with women who look like you, like tissue paper. I am the poster boy of internalized racism. I don’t respect women who look or act like my sister or my mother. Also just so much more wrong with this. I hate when someone I thought was OK drops that one. When someone shows you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 02:07 AM
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The only way a guy would feel OK doing this is if he didn’t own anything nice. if it’s full of h&m clothes, it’s probably good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:25 PM
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7/10 in my last relationship, which was with a man who had a record. in my head I hear thoughts like you’re overreacting, you’re trying to see something that isn’t there. domestic abuse is mental programming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:46 AM
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Is famous people using FDS isms a thing ? I’ve never seen a celeb say pick me. I really want this to catch on cause this is literally how I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 03:18 AM
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I think part of what’s going on with these “Outsider” girls is that they had a bad experience growing up getting bullied by mean girls. This makes them think they hate their own kind because they were shunned for not living up to the mean girls level of feminine performance as a perfect or hot girl/woman. it’s really sad to see women hating on each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 03:16 AM
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Okay so Molyneux is kind of a big deal... many platforms banned him for hatespeech, He’s made lots of major media appearances, has a manosphere cult, and he has been banned literally everywhere on the internet for hatespeech. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stefan_Molyneux he is described as being fixated on race and IQ.. hero to white supremacists. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:39 AM
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Thanks for sharing ❤️ 🙏 whenever I see an old girl friend is married and buying a house, Part of me I feels scared for her, and I feel I can tell right away knowing the guy whether or not she will be ok, but obviously I can’t say anything. I dont know if that’s normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:19 AM
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In Quebec there is https://soquij.qc.ca/fr/services-aux-citoyens you can read summaries of court cases in French and in English. I was going through it to see what’s around clicking random cases and landed on an insane DV case where a Quebec guy was acquitted for killing his First Nations wife, and then I stopped. You see a play by play of how the courts work and it’s sickening, but It’s so cool that Quebec has this public and free, and if you type in that mans name, you get that story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 10:58 PM
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i honestly want to know who her husband is. If he gets famous people should know it was his wife’s work that made his career possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 03:57 PM
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One important point about her, which I believe is worth mentioning now that we see her as conspiratorial towards men— is that she was a woman born to a noble and educated family, and her anachronistic career was sponsored, surveiled and encouraged by her eccentric father, painter Orazio Gentileschi. Her role in a 17th c Italy was arguably a product of patriarchy and she was kept buoyant by men who supported her, and accompanied and protected her on her travels.. Calling attention to the fathers …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:58 AM
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