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Hmm i want to adopt that philosophy but something in me resists It feels like if im that zen then i dont properly expess my moral outrage over the situation that god put me in. I know that sounds like a meme or whatever but im 100% serious, i dont like how women treat us, i dont like the situation men are in w/r/t relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:37 PM
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This does make me feel somewhat better, so thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:13 PM
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rejecting him head he gave me Lol It still counts as rejection if he doesnt insert guys
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:26 AM
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What happens when she no longer considers you useful. Or maybe thinks the alimony plus child support plus new man would be even more useful than you… Thats the problem You cant be a step ahead forever
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:16 AM
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Lol she also watches the kids, i just pay her extra to also be my mom This way any woman who enters my life can just be a bang, and not a full fledged bang maid Am i attractive yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:33 AM
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Lmao idk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:04 AM
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At least he can use psychology on himself to cope afterward 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:11 PM
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What if you suddenly lost your job, had an emergency, or otherwise lost your ability to pay for hired help? I’d learn then but i aint gonna worry about it in advance Im not even that opposed to cooking or cleaning i just despise the idea that your life HAS to include them or youre a bad person Like if i meet a chick who has adhd or something and prefers to paint and raise plants and shit instead of cook or clean, and likes to get carryout, IM not gonna rage out over her not being a “real adult”.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:49 PM
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Im sorry bud
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:46 PM
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Yeah i loled as well
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:34 PM
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My 5.6” friend had to get shredded, tatted and work on his rizz before he got any attention from woman. And im talking serious rizz, he went into psychology and goes to parties every weekend to improve
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:32 PM
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Short? Just curious. Because imo its the only rational explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:29 PM
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Ah ok, well that wouldnt apply to me, as long as a woman is DTF and respectful then i pay for everything for her and she doesnt need to do chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:14 PM
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As an adult you should be able to cook and clean for yourself. Why? Im an engineer in my 30s too and im capable of cleaning but not that good at cooking. Im able to afford a nanny and hire her on weekends to clean and cook and leave some food in the fridge. I also get food delivered a lot. I make more in an hour of work than i would save by cooking/cleaning myself I sense an intolerance to alternative ways of life in you. Is it really “adult competence” for me to cook, clean just to prove an ego…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:57 PM
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doesnt disrespect me (ie screaming, name calling, insults etc) no cheating/non monogamy reasonable frequency of sex (maybe 1-2 a week). not too overweight. Maybe 20 lbs over is ok The last 2 criteria are a bit flexible. If she has my kid or hormone issues or gets sick then its understandable. I just dont want to be used for stability and not actually desired. And i simply cant feel attraction to a woman if too overweight. I stay pretty fit myself
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:49 PM
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I will do so if i cannot find or attract a woman who matches my criteria. Time will tell
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:26 PM
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Agreed. The buck stops with me ultimately
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:12 PM
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Sometimes she has been talking to him for years but had a morally incorrect stance that is damaging to the relationship, and refuses to budge, so no productive action could be taken. Yes she is burnt out, but that doesnt mean she was in the right. The man is probably burnt out too from fending her off Could also be the man was just being an idiot, that happens too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:01 PM
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i'm just saying that it doesn't make sense to frame it as "peaceful", women are not generally peaceful in relationship with men, they are usually the ones initiating conflict because in her mind man=lazy or man=needs to up his game the "man needs to up his game" assumption applies even after you get into a relationship with her. it's a whole mentality. it's not just an obstacle she throws up to weed out bad men. it's a lifestyle. the concept of "peace" is too generous to apply to women i think. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:54 AM
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It is a trigger topic to me, otherwise i wouldnt bother to bring it up. I just feel like these conversations are usually framed as "men need to increase their game to be good enough for women, otherwise she won't want him".... but the dynamic I see a lot in real life is "she is fine with who he is initially and THEN becomes unhappy and keeps demanding more stuff" so it seems like the "peace" men are supposed to compete with is not static. maybe we aren't competing with a woman's peace at all. ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:45 AM
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Well that goes both ways. If the effort a woman wants out of men does not match the reward he gets (ie the peace she allows him to have, or lack thereof) then men have no incentive to raise their effort or participate at all. For me, this is my actual concern with dating. I don't care if a woman has high standards, and dont think I meet those standards. That's actually a good thing, because it prevents the nightmare scenario - which is that she asks for commitment and then the standards get grad…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:36 AM
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Thats still lower than the ambient divorce rate in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:29 PM
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Never thought I’d disagree with OP’s post fighting side by side with a bluepiller
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:39 PM
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Wholesome ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:32 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:26 PM
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Ehh, any time I go too far down the rabbit hole of “guys all women suck and are shallow” one of the PPD aunties is like “bro stfu you’re just traumatized by your cheating ex. Not All Women” And they’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:20 PM
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I get you, but it is possible to just find a mentor or life coach if youre just looking to improve yourself. I think therapy is specifically for psychological issues holding you back from pursuing those more basic, obvious goals. Just my take. Nothing wrong with having a life coach to help you with targeted specific problems and if your therapist performs that function more power to you. I just dont psychoanalytic theory etc is needed or helpful in many cases
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:03 PM
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I’m not trying to judge anyone for using escorts, or being one, but I definitely think it goes against my ideal of what physical intimacy is supposed to be. For me it should be an expression of something larger or wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:47 PM
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I think the problem is that part of what the guy is paying for is a temporary illusion of being authentically wanted by a woman, therefore it’s hard for him to simultaneously be coldly realistic about the transaction that is happening. See, shit like this is why I don’t want to even do it lol. I have a spergy hyperfocus on logical consistency which probably interferes with the experience that most people want to have from being with an escort in the first In any case, I hope you dont need to do …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:46 PM
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Thanks, I think this is a really wise take
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:42 PM
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Haters will say Chad doesnt actually talk like this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:39 PM
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Broken window theory of economics lol But a clever point nonetheless
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:36 PM
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Enlightenment about female nature does not free us from the Great Thirst, unfortunately. Desire for pussy never abates. You run into your doom even knowing this time will be no different than all the other times. The gods won’t let you stop running the biological rat race, that would be boring for them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:29 PM
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Therapy is probably useful if the root cause of problems in your life is confusion over what an actually healthy mindset and relationships look like, lack of perspective/wisdom, or inability to control your emotions/impulses It is not a magic bullet. If your problem is just like … “im under socialized, unattractive and poor” then your time is better spent fixing those problems then fully exploring all the bad feelings those problems give you And sometimes your problem is just having a divergent …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:22 PM
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Damn, can i hire your vouching services
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:50 PM
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Where DID you meet your wholesome qtpie bro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:49 PM
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So like… hows it going?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:48 PM
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Lmao the way you frame it is so distressingly accurate. Basically all my friends have been extroverts who just kept inviting me to shit, or people I met through the extrovert It seems as though extraverts control my destiny like the 3 sisters of fate in greek lore and i just move where they desire me to go without realizing it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:41 PM
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What would these men be able to do to lessen your suffering? Other than just not use escorts? I guess theres nothing they can do because the situation is intrinsically fucked up? I dont plan on using an escort but if i ever did I would not want her to feel all these things youre describing. But i guess its unavoidable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:58 PM
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But OP you’re not thinking about the massive psychic horror of going to places where lots of young single women are and STILL being unable to get any interest or convert to dates/sex I think the dudes drawn to those places- bars, clubs, raves, festivals- tend to be extroverts to begin with. Its not necessarily that the place makes them better but they were born with souls full of interestingness. If i, boring male, go to such a place i will pollute it with my overly stable, niche interest loving…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:55 PM
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Damn, brutal lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:50 PM
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I personally would prefer never to discuss sexual history or even past relationships much, but my read of the situation is that women have an insistence on doing so
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:27 PM
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Makes sense, thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:19 PM
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Dang im sorry you had to endure all that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:10 PM
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Thanks for the kind words. I am curious about your experience - as an escort, you probably manage to separate sex from emotion mostly or entirely. Is that an automatic process or is it based on sheer willpower/decision making. When you have sex with a partner you care about, do you still feel emotion? If so, is it just because you "decide you're allowed to" in that moment? Or do you not have to decide and your body/spirit just kind of know which kind of sex is which?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:18 AM
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I think the strongest point in your OP is about preselection, which definitely seems to factor more into women's mating choice and specifically in a highly socially stratified environment like high school. For reference, I knew of a guy in high school who slept with 10+ chicks one after another. I was friends with one of the girls involved and she kept iterating how flattering and exciting it was to be pursued by a guy who has options, but chose her. Conclusion: Over time, just the fact that he …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:05 AM
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Appreciate the thoughtful analysis. I've considered whether it would be in line with my morality to pay a woman for dates but sans sex, with the understanding that she's a kind of tutor or practice partner, because I do think there is something to the idea that a man needs to be able to lead interactions, create romantic context, take a woman new places and do exciting things, but still comfortable/safe... etc. However just the thought of explaining all that to some future female partner of mine…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:54 AM
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If i came to the conclusion that no woman would ever love me then yeah i'd just go full escort pill and call it a day. I wouldn't lie to a future woman about it, but I already decided for other reasons I never want to discuss sexual pasts with a woman again because it can't lead anywhere healthy for me psychologically. It's basically inviting satan in (jealousy, comparison etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:49 AM
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Have you actually tried it OP? I am tempted to, considering my income level and my 'tism or weird personality curse that makes me seem boring to women. Seems like a safe way to try out various kinks or get practice at the like... overall logistical act of getting a woman to a hotel, buying nice drinks and food, chatting, leading interactions, seguing into sex. The same way a drill can help in sports or martial arts, just going through the motions has some value. However, there's something about …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:39 AM
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For what it's worth, I don't think I'm wrong about the pace of change, but I hope that I am. It would be cool to witness a generation of men that feels truly liberated from women, would be very interesting to see what they achieve
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:32 AM
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The more mid level people of either gender are the ones who are more "vocally selective" High tier = can just BE selective, no need to broadcast it Low tier = can't actually afford to be that selective Mid tier = needs to convince themselves, and others, that they are totez not desperate and definitely in a commanding position within the market to demand that their laundry list of requirements gets fulfilled Reminds me of an old saying, small dogs bark the loudest.. A lot of the people projectin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:28 AM
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I can agree with that - it COULD be different in the future and we COULD be seeing the beginnings of that with stuff like hikikomoris and volcels and the 4b movement and sexbots.. even physiological stuff like SSRIs and birth control for women reducing the libido, plummeting testosterone levels... But I don't think we're anywhere close to overcoming the male need for female validation yet, and I don't think mere socialization or psychological self-improvement will help. I think it's instinctual …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:37 AM
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I will allow that there is more to being human than this reductive framework, but this reductive framework explains a lot. The sexual impulse is very strong in human beings. We're as horny now as we were during any point in our history. We haven't significantly escaped our biology in this area of life. It stands to reason that we haven't escaped the concomitant psychological effects either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:25 AM
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It's not the sole certificate of my existence, but I believe it's a requisite for happiness. There's no question that the most important thing, evolutionarily and biologically speaking, for a male, is whether he manages to pass on his genes. For a female, it goes without saying. Eggs are valuable and even if she passively does nothing, some male dna will find its way in there. But for a male, if you do nothing, you get locked out of breeding. Your mind is therefore hardwired to be motivated to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:45 AM
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Its ok to be you brother. Devote yourself to art, literature, games. Form camaraderie with other non-NT men. Form a conclave and do fun shit together. Take shrooms. Escort maxx. There will still be constant psychic suffering cuz no woman loves you. But it’s tankable if your life is great in other areas. Sugar baby might be sufficient to take your mind off things enough to make life moderately pleasant, even. I already have high income but im grinding like crazy so I can afford to just pay a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:39 AM
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I fully agree, you need to be maxxed out in your stats before you pursue a relationship with women including being assertive and able to manage difficult, demanding people and bring them back down to earth where healthy reciprocity is possible, but also not over-react. Need many sources of spiritual strength to withstand the storms of a womans moods and tests. Add kids to the equation and this applies even more.. You said it well, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:34 AM
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Imagine being in a relationship with a woman where she actually treats you well - cares about you, asks about your day, shows interest in your hobbies, supports and motivates you, cooks for you, buys little gifts to show she remembers things about you or your interests, gives you shoulder rubs and back scratches - AND has sex with you regularly on top of that. I know, I know, that's a far cry. But bear with me and just sit a minute and imagine how sweet life would be with a woman like that. I'd …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:55 AM
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I pray it happens for you bro, I believe my whole generation will try our best to make it happen. It's a moral imperative to free men from the crushing burden of performance, the hoop jumping we've had to undergo to acquire female sexual validation for our entire existence. Idk if it will make us better or worse as a species to not have this burden anymore but I don't really care either. Liberty is more important than staying alive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:49 AM
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it's happening regardless, almost every spare hour i get is spent on the project of liberating men from women (and i guess vice versa, though that's irrelevant to me) by performing a kind of "erotic alchemy", perfecting formulas where genAI can be integrated with porn and videogames to create the ultimate alternative to sexual relationships with human beings i don't know about sex bots, i don't think the vulgar mechanical thrusting motions of sex are actually needed to create a peak experience, …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:44 AM
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This sounds good on paper, but it just doesn't feel correct to me spiritually or psychologically. It sounds like everything the self help, psychoanalytic industry would like us to believe - that we can make our lives healthy, vibrant etc through just working on it steadily, making social moves, gradually altering mindset, introspecting, learning, etc. It's a lovely tale and doesn't match up with my personal reality. It's been about 2 years since I lost my 14 year marriage. In those 2 years - I m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:37 AM
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