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Its a good point OP, I also have zero empathy when women are like “women are told…” “girls are trained to…” I am too autistic to be capable of noticing, let alone absorbing any social messaging and just emerged as a robotic cold adult with pure logic and no idea or giving a shit what soCieTy ToLd me. If you or anyone else didnt thats a skill issue and you deserve the same fate as all neurotypicals
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:03 PM
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The REAL natural selection is gradually replacing inefficient, instinct driven beastial humans with the omniscient, unbiased machine god
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:00 PM
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Hmm i want to adopt that philosophy but something in me resists It feels like if im that zen then i dont properly expess my moral outrage over the situation that god put me in. I know that sounds like a meme or whatever but im 100% serious, i dont like how women treat us, i dont like the situation men are in w/r/t relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:37 PM
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This does make me feel somewhat better, so thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:13 PM
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can i get rejected too?? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 08:36 AM
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rejecting him head he gave me Lol It still counts as rejection if he doesnt insert guys
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:26 AM
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Hard agree =/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:19 AM
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Funniness is shorthand for social competence plus confidence, yes. Knowing which jokes will land with what audience = social competence Being willing to risk the joke being awk or offensive = confidence Confidence is shorthand for attractiveness. Why? Because like you said, halo effect. Attractive people become increasingly confident over time because their social gambits are more well received than others. And why does that happen? Because they're attractive. Maybe not just physically attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:13 AM
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What happens when she no longer considers you useful. Or maybe thinks the alimony plus child support plus new man would be even more useful than you… Thats the problem You cant be a step ahead forever
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:16 AM
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Stop trolling and go find a good woman and be a family man. No more gay reddit posts for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:09 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:08 AM
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U dont walk into the dojo and start goofing off. Be serious or you get the bamboo rod
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:56 AM
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Fuck and here i got excited for a second
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:45 AM
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Guys who are competent enough to achieve a goal have in fact achieved that goal? Thats seriously your “debate” post?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:39 AM
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Lol she also watches the kids, i just pay her extra to also be my mom This way any woman who enters my life can just be a bang, and not a full fledged bang maid Am i attractive yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:33 AM
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Lmao idk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:04 AM
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At least he can use psychology on himself to cope afterward 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:11 PM
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What if you suddenly lost your job, had an emergency, or otherwise lost your ability to pay for hired help? I’d learn then but i aint gonna worry about it in advance Im not even that opposed to cooking or cleaning i just despise the idea that your life HAS to include them or youre a bad person Like if i meet a chick who has adhd or something and prefers to paint and raise plants and shit instead of cook or clean, and likes to get carryout, IM not gonna rage out over her not being a “real adult”.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:49 PM
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Im sorry bud
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:46 PM
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Yeah i loled as well
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:34 PM
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My 5.6” friend had to get shredded, tatted and work on his rizz before he got any attention from woman. And im talking serious rizz, he went into psychology and goes to parties every weekend to improve
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:32 PM
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Short? Just curious. Because imo its the only rational explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:29 PM
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Thanks big sis
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:20 PM
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Those examples are fine. Bad examples are can you make 200k a year instead 100k, all our friends husbands do can you have more hobbies and be more interesting. My (male) internet pen pals are really interesting and have lots of hobbies. (This while we have 3 kids, 2 side buisness and 70k credit card debt im working OT to pay down) -can you not interfere when im trying to run my side businesses on our familys personal accounts/CCs, i dont want to get a business loan -can you ask me for sex less, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:51 PM
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Every strategy to get a girlfriend involves risk
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:25 PM
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Hmmm subjective theory of value, ok agree to disagree. Your stance is valid but i have an axiomatic opposition to it, i think significance is to some extent objective, but i cant really “prove you wrong”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:15 PM
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Ah ok, well that wouldnt apply to me, as long as a woman is DTF and respectful then i pay for everything for her and she doesnt need to do chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:14 PM
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You basically go in there voluntarily if you want a woman sexually, she says no but you wanna orbit just in case the winds shift later. Its a weak mans game in my opinion but the world is chock full of simps, so… Cant be in the friendzone if you are philosophically opposed to friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:12 PM
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Right, but the overall significance of an event is not always within individual human control
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:06 PM
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As an adult you should be able to cook and clean for yourself. Why? Im an engineer in my 30s too and im capable of cleaning but not that good at cooking. Im able to afford a nanny and hire her on weekends to clean and cook and leave some food in the fridge. I also get food delivered a lot. I make more in an hour of work than i would save by cooking/cleaning myself I sense an intolerance to alternative ways of life in you. Is it really “adult competence” for me to cook, clean just to prove an ego…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:57 PM
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Nah all that stuff does not follow what I said, all i am saying is that you can say to yourself “this sex is casual and does not matter” and that does not magically mean it doesnt matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:53 PM
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doesnt disrespect me (ie screaming, name calling, insults etc) no cheating/non monogamy reasonable frequency of sex (maybe 1-2 a week). not too overweight. Maybe 20 lbs over is ok The last 2 criteria are a bit flexible. If she has my kid or hormone issues or gets sick then its understandable. I just dont want to be used for stability and not actually desired. And i simply cant feel attraction to a woman if too overweight. I stay pretty fit myself
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:49 PM
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I will do so if i cannot find or attract a woman who matches my criteria. Time will tell
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:26 PM
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Agreed. The buck stops with me ultimately
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:12 PM
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Right. And i can agree with all that, seriously. Please just dont frame is as “competing with her peace.” Its competing with her ambition of what her best possible life could look like and what she believes (sometimes correctly, sometimes not) is a “fair” level of contribution by the man to her project of having the best possible everything. It has nothing to do with peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:03 PM
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Sometimes she has been talking to him for years but had a morally incorrect stance that is damaging to the relationship, and refuses to budge, so no productive action could be taken. Yes she is burnt out, but that doesnt mean she was in the right. The man is probably burnt out too from fending her off Could also be the man was just being an idiot, that happens too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:01 PM
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Going for maximal attractiveness woild make me feel shallow and bad about myself I think we’ve reached the limits of your ability to diagnose me bro
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:56 PM
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Sex has two people involved though, no? So the significance of sex is not entirely decided by you. Hell, sometimes the significance of sex is outside of our hands altogether and decided by nature herself, as in when it results in a pregnancy Biologically speaking sex was always important due to risk of pregnancy, i dont think it makes sense to be like “i just invented birth control therefore all sex only has meaning you want it to going forward” rather than acknowledging that its meaning has dee…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:50 PM
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I agree with what youre saying. Its important but not the only important thing I just dont get people who insist sex is meaningless other than a fun/enjoyable act. Imo it has an unavoidable emotional and moral significance. It cant be cleanly separated out like some people want it to be. Example- People will play with fire do ENM, thinking that it can be done in a way that doesnt damage their primary relationship and then turns out that doesnt work. The kinda… hyper sex positive attitude, to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:38 PM
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I dont feel like thats what im doing, what i genuinely want is just a woman who doesnt commit emotional terrorism against me and is passable attractive.. doesnt feel like settling to me. Not like my spirit is burning to have an insanely better woman that what i described. Not sure i believe it exists anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:32 PM
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i'm just saying that it doesn't make sense to frame it as "peaceful", women are not generally peaceful in relationship with men, they are usually the ones initiating conflict because in her mind man=lazy or man=needs to up his game the "man needs to up his game" assumption applies even after you get into a relationship with her. it's a whole mentality. it's not just an obstacle she throws up to weed out bad men. it's a lifestyle. the concept of "peace" is too generous to apply to women i think. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:54 AM
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It is a trigger topic to me, otherwise i wouldnt bother to bring it up. I just feel like these conversations are usually framed as "men need to increase their game to be good enough for women, otherwise she won't want him".... but the dynamic I see a lot in real life is "she is fine with who he is initially and THEN becomes unhappy and keeps demanding more stuff" so it seems like the "peace" men are supposed to compete with is not static. maybe we aren't competing with a woman's peace at all. ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:45 AM
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Well that goes both ways. If the effort a woman wants out of men does not match the reward he gets (ie the peace she allows him to have, or lack thereof) then men have no incentive to raise their effort or participate at all. For me, this is my actual concern with dating. I don't care if a woman has high standards, and dont think I meet those standards. That's actually a good thing, because it prevents the nightmare scenario - which is that she asks for commitment and then the standards get grad…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:36 AM
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is that what most of them are doing? you sure? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:34 AM
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I don't think it will be a problem, because i develop the equivalent of girlfriend/wife goggles very quickly assuming the woman treats me well. If it does become a problem I'll come back to reddit and get advice I guess, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:37 AM
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Real talk, my plan is just self improve to an extent i think is reasonable (which i'm like 80% of the way on), then just date women who meet my bare minimum attractiveness threshold and try to find the one with the most integrity and genuine appreciation for who i am. There is a voice inside me that says this isn't going to work and i'm just going to be cheated on, used again or get filed into "boring" category with every single woman i encounter because there's just something inherently off wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:41 AM
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What do you want me to do? Play the game straight up with no hacks??? In THIS sexual economy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:45 AM
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Passport it is then i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:14 AM
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Just not overweight, doesnt cheat and doesnt want to psychologically torture me to squeeze out more money/life fulfillment is fine with me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:12 AM
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But they aren't trapped, you still retain citizenship even if you get divorced
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:58 PM
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Thats still lower than the ambient divorce rate in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:29 PM
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Suppose it might help me in my quest to find a woman who is ok with just having sex, me give her majority of my high six figure income, and in exchange she lets me be boring and do shit like code and make games
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:18 PM
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When even the feminist disagrees with your misandry you have like a p-value < 0.05 chance of being wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:45 PM
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Never thought I’d disagree with OP’s post fighting side by side with a bluepiller
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:39 PM
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Wholesome ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:32 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:26 PM
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Ehh, any time I go too far down the rabbit hole of “guys all women suck and are shallow” one of the PPD aunties is like “bro stfu you’re just traumatized by your cheating ex. Not All Women” And they’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:20 PM
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If you define romance as distinct from sex sure Pretty big, gynocentric assumption though. Wanting to have sex with a woman you love is not bad, and not evidence your love is somehow worse than .. for instance, a woman whose love language is bitching about her day and having you listen or wants you to buy her gifts or do acts of service or go “life fulfillment maxx” together As usual the masculine behavior gets pathologized and women are wonderful
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:07 PM
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You’re right big sis
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:59 PM
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I get you, but it is possible to just find a mentor or life coach if youre just looking to improve yourself. I think therapy is specifically for psychological issues holding you back from pursuing those more basic, obvious goals. Just my take. Nothing wrong with having a life coach to help you with targeted specific problems and if your therapist performs that function more power to you. I just dont psychoanalytic theory etc is needed or helpful in many cases
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:03 PM
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Happy that you guys are able to joke around and have silly half serious debates, i miss that part of marriage a lot. Blessings to your marriage~
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:01 PM
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I’m not trying to judge anyone for using escorts, or being one, but I definitely think it goes against my ideal of what physical intimacy is supposed to be. For me it should be an expression of something larger or wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:47 PM
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I think the problem is that part of what the guy is paying for is a temporary illusion of being authentically wanted by a woman, therefore it’s hard for him to simultaneously be coldly realistic about the transaction that is happening. See, shit like this is why I don’t want to even do it lol. I have a spergy hyperfocus on logical consistency which probably interferes with the experience that most people want to have from being with an escort in the first In any case, I hope you dont need to do …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:46 PM
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Thanks, I think this is a really wise take
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:42 PM
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Haters will say Chad doesnt actually talk like this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:39 PM
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Broken window theory of economics lol But a clever point nonetheless
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:36 PM
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Based, honestly. Probably feels very liberating to not have the crushing burden of trying to get a woman to love you, and you alone, in perpetuity since it’s not allowed in the first place Men are looked at as failures in our society because we can’t persuade a seven year itch having woman to respect us and stay faithful to us and not get bored of us. It’s an unreasonable expectation to begin with I think. Maybe women were never designed to do that. Maybe there’s nothing wrong with me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:32 PM
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Take it to the natural conclusion, men are idiots if we get into long term relationships at all, unless perhaps if the chick outearns us Good thing men are idiots or all reproduction would have ceased long ago
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:31 PM
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Enlightenment about female nature does not free us from the Great Thirst, unfortunately. Desire for pussy never abates. You run into your doom even knowing this time will be no different than all the other times. The gods won’t let you stop running the biological rat race, that would be boring for them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:29 PM
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Therapy is probably useful if the root cause of problems in your life is confusion over what an actually healthy mindset and relationships look like, lack of perspective/wisdom, or inability to control your emotions/impulses It is not a magic bullet. If your problem is just like … “im under socialized, unattractive and poor” then your time is better spent fixing those problems then fully exploring all the bad feelings those problems give you And sometimes your problem is just having a divergent …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:22 PM
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Lol appreciate the honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:51 PM
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Damn, can i hire your vouching services
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:50 PM
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Where DID you meet your wholesome qtpie bro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:49 PM
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So like… hows it going?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:48 PM
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How do you actually meet average down to earth women? I imagine they dont stay on dating apps long
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:44 PM
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Lmao the way you frame it is so distressingly accurate. Basically all my friends have been extroverts who just kept inviting me to shit, or people I met through the extrovert It seems as though extraverts control my destiny like the 3 sisters of fate in greek lore and i just move where they desire me to go without realizing it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:41 PM
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What would these men be able to do to lessen your suffering? Other than just not use escorts? I guess theres nothing they can do because the situation is intrinsically fucked up? I dont plan on using an escort but if i ever did I would not want her to feel all these things youre describing. But i guess its unavoidable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:58 PM
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But OP you’re not thinking about the massive psychic horror of going to places where lots of young single women are and STILL being unable to get any interest or convert to dates/sex I think the dudes drawn to those places- bars, clubs, raves, festivals- tend to be extroverts to begin with. Its not necessarily that the place makes them better but they were born with souls full of interestingness. If i, boring male, go to such a place i will pollute it with my overly stable, niche interest loving…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:55 PM
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There seems to be a hard limit on how moral you can be and still breed. Thats what the success of these men implies to me Its easy to say “dont be like them, theyre bad”. What if not being like them results in no sex and not propagating your genes or attitude to the next generation? If so then there is effectively no “cure” to the clavs and tates of the world because women are the ones who control what the next generation looks like There’s a certain futility in trying to be a good man rather th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:31 PM
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Damn, brutal lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:50 PM
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I personally would prefer never to discuss sexual history or even past relationships much, but my read of the situation is that women have an insistence on doing so
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:27 PM
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Makes sense, thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:19 PM
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Dang im sorry you had to endure all that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:10 PM
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Thanks for the kind words. I am curious about your experience - as an escort, you probably manage to separate sex from emotion mostly or entirely. Is that an automatic process or is it based on sheer willpower/decision making. When you have sex with a partner you care about, do you still feel emotion? If so, is it just because you "decide you're allowed to" in that moment? Or do you not have to decide and your body/spirit just kind of know which kind of sex is which?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:18 AM
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I think the strongest point in your OP is about preselection, which definitely seems to factor more into women's mating choice and specifically in a highly socially stratified environment like high school. For reference, I knew of a guy in high school who slept with 10+ chicks one after another. I was friends with one of the girls involved and she kept iterating how flattering and exciting it was to be pursued by a guy who has options, but chose her. Conclusion: Over time, just the fact that he …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:05 AM
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I wish you good fortune in the roulette table of life bro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:00 AM
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Appreciate the thoughtful analysis. I've considered whether it would be in line with my morality to pay a woman for dates but sans sex, with the understanding that she's a kind of tutor or practice partner, because I do think there is something to the idea that a man needs to be able to lead interactions, create romantic context, take a woman new places and do exciting things, but still comfortable/safe... etc. However just the thought of explaining all that to some future female partner of mine…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:54 AM
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If i came to the conclusion that no woman would ever love me then yeah i'd just go full escort pill and call it a day. I wouldn't lie to a future woman about it, but I already decided for other reasons I never want to discuss sexual pasts with a woman again because it can't lead anywhere healthy for me psychologically. It's basically inviting satan in (jealousy, comparison etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:49 AM
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Have you actually tried it OP? I am tempted to, considering my income level and my 'tism or weird personality curse that makes me seem boring to women. Seems like a safe way to try out various kinks or get practice at the like... overall logistical act of getting a woman to a hotel, buying nice drinks and food, chatting, leading interactions, seguing into sex. The same way a drill can help in sports or martial arts, just going through the motions has some value. However, there's something about …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:39 AM
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For what it's worth, I don't think I'm wrong about the pace of change, but I hope that I am. It would be cool to witness a generation of men that feels truly liberated from women, would be very interesting to see what they achieve
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:32 AM
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The more mid level people of either gender are the ones who are more "vocally selective" High tier = can just BE selective, no need to broadcast it Low tier = can't actually afford to be that selective Mid tier = needs to convince themselves, and others, that they are totez not desperate and definitely in a commanding position within the market to demand that their laundry list of requirements gets fulfilled Reminds me of an old saying, small dogs bark the loudest.. A lot of the people projectin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 09:28 AM
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It feels depressing to realize as a man that maybe no woman is ever going to "go feral" for you and lower her boundaries for you. Logically I know that an intelligent, moral woman wouldn't lower her boundaries for anyone. And that her wanting to blend lives together with me, build a future, carry my children etc is the ultimate spiritual validation, and matters far more than something like "I wanna ride a random dick tonight, yours will do" And yet, if a woman gets horny and fucks another guy, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:53 AM
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I can agree with that - it COULD be different in the future and we COULD be seeing the beginnings of that with stuff like hikikomoris and volcels and the 4b movement and sexbots.. even physiological stuff like SSRIs and birth control for women reducing the libido, plummeting testosterone levels... But I don't think we're anywhere close to overcoming the male need for female validation yet, and I don't think mere socialization or psychological self-improvement will help. I think it's instinctual …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:37 AM
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I will allow that there is more to being human than this reductive framework, but this reductive framework explains a lot. The sexual impulse is very strong in human beings. We're as horny now as we were during any point in our history. We haven't significantly escaped our biology in this area of life. It stands to reason that we haven't escaped the concomitant psychological effects either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:25 AM
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It's not the sole certificate of my existence, but I believe it's a requisite for happiness. There's no question that the most important thing, evolutionarily and biologically speaking, for a male, is whether he manages to pass on his genes. For a female, it goes without saying. Eggs are valuable and even if she passively does nothing, some male dna will find its way in there. But for a male, if you do nothing, you get locked out of breeding. Your mind is therefore hardwired to be motivated to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:45 AM
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Yes brother you see through the charade, lol. People act as though it's a moral failing to be discontented without a woman, as though every single male of other species doesn't get pissed off and start brawling other males over access to pussy. Males will literally risk life and limb for sexual access. In humans it's a bit sublimated and abstracted into the concept of love/validation (because we're more of a pair bonding species and disguised ovulation) but the core concept is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:11 AM
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Actually fuck all this purple pill “debate” gay shit, can you just give me 2 paragraphs on picture maxxing and profile maxxing and ill admit that youre right and dismiss everyone else in this comments section as wrong… lol Help me out big sensei, i want to live the chad life too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:17 AM
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Share yours first bro, if you can spare the time between wrecking pussies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:07 AM
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Idk brother my research says 1200 puts you between top 1-0.1 percent of all male users of the app Go rest easy on mount olympus and dont worry about the struggles of us mere mortals bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:57 AM
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I think women who do not initiate some form of emotional conflict or testing in relationships are too scarce to rely on the strategy of “only choose women who do not shit test me.” Neuroticism, hormonal shifts, perimenopause. Attachment disorders. Materialism and keeping up w the joneses. Midlife crisis. Seven year itch. Just general inexplicable malaise, what women call “permanent low level unhappiness”. Societal perception that women benefit less from relationships than men leading to a perpet…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:50 AM
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But you do recognize that having that type of result on any dating app makes you an extreme outlier right? So what makes you think you share enough commonality with the common man, and his relatively few options, to advise him on this subject?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:43 AM
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Its ok to be you brother. Devote yourself to art, literature, games. Form camaraderie with other non-NT men. Form a conclave and do fun shit together. Take shrooms. Escort maxx. There will still be constant psychic suffering cuz no woman loves you. But it’s tankable if your life is great in other areas. Sugar baby might be sufficient to take your mind off things enough to make life moderately pleasant, even. I already have high income but im grinding like crazy so I can afford to just pay a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:39 AM
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I fully agree, you need to be maxxed out in your stats before you pursue a relationship with women including being assertive and able to manage difficult, demanding people and bring them back down to earth where healthy reciprocity is possible, but also not over-react. Need many sources of spiritual strength to withstand the storms of a womans moods and tests. Add kids to the equation and this applies even more.. You said it well, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:34 AM
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Mm i think it is better for women than our culture generally wants to admit. I think it varied a lot from tribe to tribe though. In some the men were probably just dicks and in others the women had a really sweet deal. I really wish i could have a time machine or magic telescope and see what prehistory was like, i find paleolithic tribes and early humanoids completely fascinating. The kinda.. interim stages between animals and humans would be really revealing if only we could observe them. Would…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:29 AM
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Oh yeah i agree. You shouldnt be afraid to admit to fear. Its the first step in being courageous
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:25 AM
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I think of the dating meta like this Noob level - guy just blindly trusting that he can love and treat a woman well, and be loved and treated well in return. Ie, little to no selectivity. This is a pre-RP guy who is in for a very rough time unless he gets super lucky in dating. Veteran level - guy understands that bad women exist in depressing numbers. He will almost never want to commit, relationship/commitment selectivity is high (but he will still take sex if it's on the table). The redpill a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:18 AM
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fear evolved for a reason, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:13 AM
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i wonder if it was one-way monogamy though. men had a monopoly on violence then, and there was no police or courts or religion. so men would fight other men over pussy but women had no equivalent option on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:12 AM
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Imagine being in a relationship with a woman where she actually treats you well - cares about you, asks about your day, shows interest in your hobbies, supports and motivates you, cooks for you, buys little gifts to show she remembers things about you or your interests, gives you shoulder rubs and back scratches - AND has sex with you regularly on top of that. I know, I know, that's a far cry. But bear with me and just sit a minute and imagine how sweet life would be with a woman like that. I'd …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:55 AM
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I pray it happens for you bro, I believe my whole generation will try our best to make it happen. It's a moral imperative to free men from the crushing burden of performance, the hoop jumping we've had to undergo to acquire female sexual validation for our entire existence. Idk if it will make us better or worse as a species to not have this burden anymore but I don't really care either. Liberty is more important than staying alive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:49 AM
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it's happening regardless, almost every spare hour i get is spent on the project of liberating men from women (and i guess vice versa, though that's irrelevant to me) by performing a kind of "erotic alchemy", perfecting formulas where genAI can be integrated with porn and videogames to create the ultimate alternative to sexual relationships with human beings i don't know about sex bots, i don't think the vulgar mechanical thrusting motions of sex are actually needed to create a peak experience, …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:44 AM
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This sounds good on paper, but it just doesn't feel correct to me spiritually or psychologically. It sounds like everything the self help, psychoanalytic industry would like us to believe - that we can make our lives healthy, vibrant etc through just working on it steadily, making social moves, gradually altering mindset, introspecting, learning, etc. It's a lovely tale and doesn't match up with my personal reality. It's been about 2 years since I lost my 14 year marriage. In those 2 years - I m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:37 AM
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