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Dating for women is a different ballgame and honestly you’re kind of comparing apples and oranges… is it harder for a man to find a date/ hookup at the drop of a hat?… yes but as a man you also 1) Gain more options as you age 2) It’s nowhere near as dangerous to date 3) Don’t need to worry about getting slut shamed at least as much 4) Can’t get pregnant 5) Easier to please sexually especially on the first few hookups 6) Don’t need to spend an age getting ready (makeup, clothes etc) 7) Less risk …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:04 PM
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Compare male friendship groups with female friendship groups… close male friend groups tend to rip into each other as an act of banter/camaraderie… female friend groups tend to be more intimate. As a result of this, men wouldn’t be as comfortable opening up to their close friends in comparison to women and thus typically have a stronger yearning for a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:23 PM
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It’s not a “red flag”… a red flag implies that there’s danger and to proceed with caution being a virgin just indicates that they were not very confident, didn’t go out much or never had the opportunity for a number of reasons. The only thing that’d be off putting is the insecurity that sometimes comes off from virgins… I can assure you nobody really gives a shit if you’re a virgin or not but here we are
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:38 PM
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In the club and hook up culture yeah… most women would have their eye on the top 20% of men. The problem is amplified as most of the top 20% of men have no problem hooking up casually with average/ below average women leaving average/ below average men with little opportunity for casual/ONS hook ups. However relationships and even casual dates are completely different especially the older you get. Most average/ below average people date other average/ below average people
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:52 PM
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You’re missing the point of a relationship… the goal is to eventually get to a point where it’s not your money or their money but our money equally not my job or your job but our job… you need to have a team mentality if you can’t see that you shouldn’t be in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:09 PM
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You’re confusing love and romance with infatuation. In reality, more people would develop proper romantic love after 25 rather than before. Infatuation happens much more in teens and early 20s simply because people are naive. However infatuation is completely different from romantic love and often ends quite quickly. Younger couples tend to have more idealistic views on what a relationship should be too when in reality a relationship is a serious amount of commitment and a huge amount of give an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:11 PM
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If you get offended by being called a virgin that’s a you problem tbf. Virgin is not an insult it’s just insecurity that’d make you take it as an insult same as being called gay or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:41 PM
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I think a man’s absolute number increases a bit too. For example a 25 year old man may normally date women from 21-26 but 35 year old men may normally date women from 27-37. As you can see the pool of potential dates gets a bit bigger, this in addition to women normally dating older men means that older men will have an even wider range of women who are interested in him in contrast to the younger man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:44 PM
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That’s mainly nerves or trying to act macho. Sex in and of itself is a very natural activity and comes instinctively to most people. From there it’s about communication with your partner with what you like and what you don’t like. That’s really all there is to it. That’s not to say a guy can’t be insecure about his or your sexual experience which negatively effects your relationship but that’s a whole different thing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:53 PM
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It depends on the experience. A guy who has 20 drunken one night stands won’t know what he’s doing any more than a virgin. He’d be a lot less timid at the start for sure but wouldn’t say he’d know what he’s doing. Also each woman is different and likes different things, relationship/fwb sex is the best type of experience to have but even that is a different woman likes different things etc. At the end of the day it doesn’t really matter, the virgin guy in most cases would learn what he’s doing p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:20 PM
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You’re looking at it far too much as a what can I gain from this. Marriage is not typically seen as a business proposition and is typically done to express love and commitment from people who want to be together for the rest of their lives and build a future together. That’s what the whole for better or for worse thing is about…. It’s not for everyone and some people prefer to not get married or remain single throughout their lives. That’s not to say you can’t build a future with your partner wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:07 AM
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I think it gets easier with age. Young men tend to overthink about their interactions with women, probably live with parents/roommates, create so much drama about who gets with who in their social circle, have a bit more of a “lad culture” about women and just give far too many shits in general. As men get progressively older they care less and do their own thing which makes them way more attractive to women. Older women too care less, the contrast of women at 18 vs 30 is night and day and they’…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:16 AM
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Tbf male female friendships are often disingenuous on both sides. No matter how you spin it a “friend” of the opposite sex is almost always going to be different to a friend of the same sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:58 PM
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I think we need to realise that men and women are different but we should be more accepting as a society in general. If a man wants to cry that’s no problem with me, if a woman wants to sleep around that’s her business. I feel privacy should be respected more, everyone wants to know your business and bitch about you nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:52 PM
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Not really… women have easy access to casual sex and simps. Both of which are pretty disappointing experiences for women. In terms of finding a genuine man who’s normal it’s quite challenging
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:19 PM
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Well it depends what the woman is looking for really. If she’s looking for a bit of short term fun then yes because it’s more likely the guy with experience will know what he’s doing in bed and she’ll probably get better sex faster but if it’s a longer term sort of thing then it wouldn’t really matter as the inexperienced guy would get better in the bedroom. Hard to see how it’s a red flag being inexperienced though. It’s probably more just a lack of confidence and opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:12 PM
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Well respected by their teenage/ young 20s male peer group maybe… respected by society as a whole not really… respected by the STD clinic definitely not
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 08:11 AM
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Nobody is worth more than anybody else, there’s simply advantages and disadvantages. Men don’t have to go though childbirth and to a large extent aren’t expected by society to care for their children at least to the same extent that women are. On top of that men tend to be given more opportunities for important high paying decision making roles than women would get. Which gender has it easier is subjective and you’d get different answers from everyone depending on what they want out of life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:25 PM
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It’s not even sex drive for a lot of men though. It’s an ego thing. They want to be seen as a chad who can pick up women and get laid by others not necessarily just for the sexual experience
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:40 AM
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Okay women may be able to get dates more easily but finding a quality date is hard. Keep in mind women have a lot more to worry about when they go on a date than men do. What if this guys a creep? What if this guy can’t take no for an answer? What if this guy is dangerous? Etc. Men don’t have these worries to the same extent. On top of that women really don’t want to be labeled as “easy” so they’re more careful on choosing who they go out with. It’s always been hard for both genders to find an i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:46 PM
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The problem to a large degree is how society perceives men and women who are promiscuous. If a woman is sleeping around despite social progress there’s still subconscious judgement from a lot of people and likewise a man is subconsciously judged by a lot of people for not being able to get women. These judgements encourage men to be hungry for casual sex and women to be a lot more picky. This trend is seen everywhere but is particularly evident on the apps or in bars
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:44 PM
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Decent in bed I guess but you don’t really know that before hooking up with someone but yeah looks are a big factor
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:42 PM
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This is a very outdated view of looking at the world. The reality is that women rely on men for emotional support, sex, help in the house and raising children too. Men also rely on women in the workplace too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:12 PM
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Dating and relationships may be easier for a woman but that’s only one aspect of life. It’s still tough for women once you realise that it’s quality over quantity but maybe not as hard as it is for men. There’s many aspects of life that men have the advantage in so wouldn’t say life is any better as a woman if that’s what you’re getting at
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:34 PM
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It’s definitely something case by case like is one person absolutely destroyed and the other person is only slightly tipsy? Is the more drunk person doing the initiating or is the less drunk person doing the initiating/ pressuring them into it? It very much depends on the situation and each case is unique
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:37 AM
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Ah enjoy your life and don’t worry about things too much. Most people out there are decent of course some people aren’t so don’t ignore red flags when they appear but if you’re always on guard you won’t enjoy your life that much
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:59 AM
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In my experience anyway it’s not that common. Certainly a lot more common for guys to mock friendly overweight girls. People should just be nicer to one another regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:11 PM
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Tbf they’re not normally laughing at any guy that’s respectful. They’re normally laughing at the creepy, extremely forward or outright ridiculous men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:48 PM
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No arrogance is putting others down to bring yourself up. You can be successful and arrogant. Confident is being self assured and backing yourself. Quite different
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:45 PM
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It’s mainly confidence that women are attracted to. Being tall can help build your confidence though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:30 PM
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It probably depends on the restaurant, vibe and time of the day. Evening time in a restaurant with alcohol and music is much different to lunch time with no alcohol or music
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:45 PM
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Do you come here often?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:38 PM
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Public parks?? Like just out for a walk or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:38 PM
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Yeah I think men are too goal oriented. Female friendships often revolve around enjoying each other’s company. Male friendships often revolve around trying to achieve some common goal like hooking up with women for example
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:19 PM
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Men like women more than other men but do women not like men more than other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:10 PM
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What’s wrong with passive shy men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:18 PM
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Guy pays for the first date, girl should offer but the guy should try to pay if possible unless the girl really insists on paying her share. Second date on it should be split 50/50 with the guy offering but the girl insisting to split everytime or a situation of he buys dinner this date she buys dinner next date.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:24 AM
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I agree with a lot of your points but you can’t deny it’s easier said than done in achieving that long list of criteria you outlined for the guys. Majority of women could be attractive enough for most men too as long as they are in shape and put in some effort to their appearance. Genetics have less to do with looks than you think
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:51 PM
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Arrogance should be put down and people should check themselves and be nice to others. But the whole thing of who’s a 10 and who’s a 2 is very subjective in nature
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:30 PM
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If you took a poll yes you might find that there’s a correlation but in reality people have different tastes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:26 PM
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That’s only related to symmetry and makes numerous different assumptions. It’s a mathematical theory and it’s not necessarily applicable in a practical way
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:22 PM
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Confidence should be encouraged for everyone. Arrogance should be humbled because it puts others down. If a 2 (in my eyes) thinks they’re a 10 I’d actually support them but if they think that they’re a 10 and that they’re above others I’d tell them they need to check themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:18 PM
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Two are fair you shouldn’t height shame or sex shame. Creep shaming can sometimes be deserved though or even necessary to stop thirsty men who can’t take a no
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:09 PM
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:05 PM
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