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| 1 | older men, do you have a want for a younger lady?I don't even know why she posted this on this sub. This platform is for support to and from divorced men, or those going through a divorce.....It is NOT for sugar babies soliciting tips on how to seduce older, divorced men and complaining about wives who give her disgusting looks for being a trophy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/22 12:22 PM |
| 3 | older men, do you have a want for a younger lady?They do....For fucking. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/22 12:04 PM |
| 4 | Is there really a 50% chance of this happening?You are too young to get married, for ANY reason. You already know deep down that she's not the one, so why the self harm? You should be focused on building your own financial security right now instead of being a provider for another full grown adult The mood swings and erratic behaviour is all for attention so you keep all your energy on her. = She's nuts Don't ever get married. This will eliminate all of the above. Don't get married. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/04/22 05:03 AM |
| 19 | Advice to a 28 y.o male? Family and friend pressure to marry is beginningHonestly, the cons outweigh the pros. There is literally nothing you can do as a married man that you can't do as a single man. Want kids? Do-able without an entitled wife who immediately changes her "I'm an empowered career woman who'll never be dependent on a man" tune to "I've always wanted to be a sahm". While this is ok practically speaking, they always change the rules once they are fully immersed in it. They suddenly join all these toxic mommy blogs where they feed into each other's entit… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/22 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Found out my wife is fucking a coworkerIf she's cheated before then this is on you for staying with a cheater. No amount of telling on her is going to change who she is. Leave her and save yourself the trouble | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/02/22 06:52 AM |
| 6 | Recently separated SAHM is trying to buy a house?Oh so she's one of those who "discovered their authentic self and realized monogamy wasn't for them" ?? Now she wants you to fund their lifestyle. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/22 06:51 AM |
| 2 | Divorced.Thank you my man. That was very eloquent indeed. This is why I'm also getting cold feet on the whole marriage thing | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/22 03:05 PM |
| 3 | Divorced.I'm not divorced but I find most of these life stories interesting. Can anyone explain how exactly the union goes from - love, respect and same goals for the future to I'm not able to be in control of our finances, the money that I bring into the home, I need to plead my case for going out or doing something, she refuses to work, she refuses to do household chores, we haven't had sex in 2 yrs. I have seen in real life my own friends and family go through this and by the end it's so insidious I a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/22 07:02 AM |
| 3 | I think my wife resents me having a high paying job that enables me to get what I want despite the fact she chose herself to be a stay at home mom.This is why I will NEVER allow this SAHM situation. I'd rather get out and co parent. The intention behind it is noble and for the kids but I've seen too many brothers where it quickly escalated from being about the kids to simply revealing a lazy, un-ambitious, greedy, had-a-plan-all-along woman. They all started off claiming to be "independent, strong, don't need a man to support me" queens whose only highlight of the day was watching Real housewives and visiting nail salons. All those guys we… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/22 06:00 AM |
| 13 | I’m (29M) considering divorcing my wife (28F) due to her failure to contribute anything to our marriage financially. Yes, I can support her and I make a pretty good living. My problem is that I should not need to support her at the level that I am, due to the context of our marriage currently.Mate, she has to go asap. The longer you wait, the more penalties you'll be forced to pay or even worse....she'll deliberately get pregnant. I will NEVER EVER stay with someone who refuses to work, contribute and be self sufficient because that makes her MY responsibility and I just can't. A full grown, able bodied adult should be out there earning a living, unless otherwise agreed upon. Mental issues are not a pass for redundancy. We all suffer from something that we can use to justify not work… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/22 01:34 PM |
| 54 | Finance question on mariageYou are in a uniquely fortunate position right now because you've been forewarned. By her !!! How many men would have loved to be in your shoes. She's already planning to saddle you with her responsibilities, after which she'll probably claim I've always wanted to be a sahm, have a couple of kids, reduce the sex, ask for a divorce and clean you out. Good luck | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/22 03:52 PM |
| 2 | I feel dead insideNo single moms Use paragraphs | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/21 09:58 PM |
| 8 | Well I broke the news to her last nightYou shouldn't be here on this sub. This is for MEN to offer support to each other in time of need. Perhaps r/FemaleDatingStrategy would be more appropriate for you, hmm?? | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/12/21 10:04 PM |
| 15 | Divorce AdviceYou give her an opportunity to conceive another baby to trap you with. I'm sorry but after a woman has cheated, I just can't imagine myself touching her...yikes | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/11/21 05:58 PM |
| 6 | My gf alluded to killing me, called me a dumbass and is currently laying on my chest now. I don’t want to marry her anymore.What is this? | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/11/21 09:26 AM |
| 6 | Do your ex wives try to come home from time to time to have sex with you ?Divorced, having casual sex YET she's already checking your devices. This isn't a divorce, it's just a new way of life. Next she'll be texting your current women and telling them to stay away from "her husband". Geez dude...? Wtf are you doing? | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/11/21 05:38 AM |
| 4 | Man tries to pick up his son for visitation, wife plays games and her new bf comes out with a rifle and kills him. Be careful out there guys.What's gonna happen to the mother? She's partly responsible for this. She didnt even scream to display some outrage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/11/21 10:03 AM |
| 13 | Marital AssetThese are things we all need to research and know firmly BEFORE we take the plunge. Love is good and all but when you factor in marriage it straight up becomes a contract. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/11/21 12:40 PM |
| 10 | Ex wife 32f left me 39m 2 years ago, now she wants me back. We have a 9yrs old kid together. I still ice her but I am confused. What should I do?Her new life as a single, independent, strong "queen" didn't work out and she got tired of having to be self sufficient and living as an adult so she comes back for the security you provided. She's trying to conceive another baby with you to bind you more with her. You have no self respect. You are actually willingly sleeping with a woman who abandoned your child to go have an adventure abroad. She's a literal deadbeat and you risk having another one with her. If she hustles you again, you'll de… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/11/21 03:58 AM |
| 3 | When is a good time to divorce?If one of you dies, the other still has full control even if you wouldn't want them to. You have kids? What if you meet someone you get serious about? | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/21 03:04 PM |
| 6 | Ex tried to creep in back to my life and she got shut down!She can also get "accidentally" pregnant which brings her right back into your life again. Yikes | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/21 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Can I ask you married men a question? SERIOUS QUESTION 😳You sound enraged for no reason at all. What is this? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/21 01:06 PM |
| 0 | How would you advice a guy in his early twenties to date?If she's always mentioning "I've always wanted to be a SAHM", start worrying. The cost of living is too high and having a contributing partner definitely helps. You don't lose most of your life's work in the divorce as well | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/21 10:04 PM |
| 5 | Wife suddenly walked out 2 weeks ago.I'd bet you anything that if you check her history online you'll find footprints from the wife/women blogs. Those platforms are full of man-hating advice. Plans are made on how to "find your own happiness" and just walk out. That's why a lot of them make this drastic decision and then a few weeks or days later they realize where their bread is buttered and come crawling back asking for counseling. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/21 08:38 AM |
| 4 | How to talk my son out of getting marriedYou've got to be joking, right? He's 30. It's none of your business how she survives as long as he's OK with it. What is the relevance of religion here? Her mother is too involved huh? What do you call this post YOU just made? | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/21 11:14 AM |
| 2 | An uphill battle that seems endlessGeez grow a pair already, dude? You want to raise a child that might not be yours with a disgusting, cheating pig of a woman? She's done it twice that you know of. How many others has she screwed? Unbelievable | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/08/21 05:10 AM |
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