AspadaXL Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Do you often use a direct opener or an indirect opener?	Outer Game	AspadaXL	/r/seduction	29/05/22 07:59 AM
0	Dated a university girl who I cold approached on the street	Field Report	AspadaXL	/r/seduction	10/06/22 04:51 PM

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1	Daygame ratio I remembered a girl I met from cold approach said to me that she felt bad to reject me at that time, after 3 months of follow-up. She went out a date with me after 3 months, but never let me holding her hand. so yeah, there are people out there who actually wastes your time…	/r/seduction	20/06/22 03:09 PM
1	Daygame ratio There was an article published by a Chinese seduction community back in around 2018? i didn’t remember. Anyways, they found out that no guys they interviewed have more than 10 percent of success rate. I also remember that there is a research paper stated that in a speed dating event, 4 percent of the participants developed into long term relationships. I think the statistics here is telling something.	/r/seduction	20/06/22 03:04 PM
1	Cold countries day game When I was in Canada, I usually cold approached women in groceries or schools during winter...	/r/seduction	19/06/22 03:49 AM
7	Daygame ratio I like this question, because I am also interested. Mark Manson's success was about 5%, out of 2000 women he talked to. If I combine with the early approaches when I was a virgin, my success rate (the number of women I slept with divided by the number of women I approached) is 1.8%, out of 800+ women I talked to by far. However, consider the fact that my early games sucks a lot more than my current, this ratio is only a overview. If Mark Manson can get 5 percent, meaning that in every 20 women a…	/r/seduction	19/06/22 03:38 AM
1	(1) If you have to wonder if she’s into you, the answer is NO. (2) If she really is throwing out mixed signals that are hard to read, just be blunt and find out for sure. It’ll save you so much time and trouble wondering. That is a good point. Another girl I had dated just didn't let me hold her hand near her campus. I think a woman's orientation on her public image is a crucial factor. Nonetheless, it is always safe to just avoid escalating near her living areas or at the very beginning of a date. Well, if she had become your long-term girlfriend, that's a whole different story...	/r/seduction	19/06/22 03:32 AM
1	(1) If you have to wonder if she’s into you, the answer is NO. (2) If she really is throwing out mixed signals that are hard to read, just be blunt and find out for sure. It’ll save you so much time and trouble wondering. So yeah, for beginners, definitely go ahead, get out of your brain and find things out. However, for intermediates and beyond, definitely tune into women's signals and calibrate accordingly.	/r/seduction	14/06/22 12:54 PM
4	(1) If you have to wonder if she’s into you, the answer is NO. (2) If she really is throwing out mixed signals that are hard to read, just be blunt and find out for sure. It’ll save you so much time and trouble wondering. A girl makes thing easy for you when they are sure that they are interested. However, if a guy does not know how to talk to women, it won't work even if a woman is very interested. One of my ex-girlfriends was a part-time model. When we went on the first date, she was about to flake... Only after I talked to her on the phone, she made up her mind to go out with me. On that day, we had sex, and we had only met for a week. Afterwards, we lived together for a year. Was she hard? It was. But did I g…	/r/seduction	14/06/22 12:50 PM
3	I got a girl by ignoring her Damn, this girl had perfectly demonstrated you how to pick up someone who's neutral.	/r/seduction	14/06/22 12:22 PM
2	Short men 5'7 and below, how well do you do and what's your story? How did you get good with women? https://www.reddit.com/r/1PercentDating/comments/sagseq/what\_it\_took\_for\_me\_to\_finally\_start\_doing\_cold/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=ios\_app&utm\_name=iossmf I am Asian and I cold approach too, but I am living in China. Any chance to talk to each other online?	/r/seduction	12/06/22 03:24 AM
1	Dated a university girl who I cold approached on the street I thought this too during the date. It might be necessary in the next to know where to stop. Good point.	/r/seduction	11/06/22 01:52 PM
1	Do you often use a direct opener or an indirect opener? Any examples of your openers?	/r/seduction	30/05/22 02:25 PM
1	Do you often use a direct opener or an indirect opener? Yeah, I agree with you, because, from my experiences, I usually feel awkward to approach women without a clear purpose. I am not sure if I am used to direct openers.	/r/seduction	30/05/22 02:25 PM
2	Do you often use a direct opener or an indirect opener? Any example?	/r/seduction	30/05/22 02:22 PM
1	Does wearing glasses affect your chances with women or making friends? My suggestion is that you can log the time you wear a glass and the time that you don't, then you compare two instances to see it really has correlations with your results, let's say cold approaches.	/r/seduction	29/05/22 08:07 AM
38	All you need is a social circle of average looking men. True, I f-ed two women when I was in a small local hobbyist club. Although I got results from cold approaches, it is way easier to know women from a social circle than on the street, at least you don't need to put up with your approach anxiety. However, the real challenging question is how. How to start a social circle with constant flow of new women that you meet, and your buddies to deliver values for you. Anyone has a clue?	/r/seduction	29/05/22 08:05 AM
5	How do I not be boring? I'm 25 yrs old now, and when I was 22, gosh, your story just reminded me about my early-20s. When I was 22, I compose piano music, play airsoft with my buddies, spoke three languages (English, Chinese and Japanese) and make videos etc. I got lots of hobbies in my life back then. However, I was just like you, that I could not get girls! Later, what I found to be useful is to figure out what is really important to me and cut off those less-important stuff. For example, I am a 3D modeler, what is i…	/r/seduction	29/05/22 07:41 AM
1	Direct opener or indirect? Give some funny examples of both please I think the so-called "opener" varies from person to person. It depends on your verbal habits and personality. Since I am a straightforward and simple person, I always open them directly by saying something like, "I just happened to see you from afar, and I found you attractive to me. Could we exchange numbers?" However, I found this varies by culture background. It was much easier to strike a conversation with a pure stranger in Canada than in China. Also, when I was in Canada, I tend to just s…	/r/seduction	04/10/21 08:56 AM