Asphyxa Archive

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1	Any successful guys here still play video games? What’s your relationship with them? Asian devs are generally not like this though. Played a bit of Crimson Desert recently from Pearl Abyss and its not woke at all. Every single character in the group you belong to in the game is white for instance.	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/26 06:19 PM
1	how do you warm up a cold interaction? As people said. It's the indifference that makes the deal. You should attempt to reach a point of complete indifference in your dating life. If she want's you, great! If she isn't interested, that's great too. You'll meet someone better anyway. :)	/r/seduction	13/04/21 08:41 AM
1	I slid in the dm's and got rejected Ah yeah! You meant on IG. I was considering cold approaches and tinder matches actually leading to a date. I stopped chasing girls on IG since I find I get much better quality from real life or tinder.	/r/seduction	24/03/21 03:09 PM
1	No one is going to feel sorry for you Well, then go out there and start working on improving yourself instead of sitting in front of the computer all day. I believe in you. :)	/r/seduction	24/03/21 03:07 PM
2	What to do after successful first date from cold approach, but no dates in near future? First, why are you having a wing? Is that any real concept? Some critique: Never suggest a new date in person, it's comes off as needy. If thats the case it has to be her idea. I wouldn't text her overly much. I'd just ask her when is a good time for her and if she can't seem to give me a clear response I'd just ask her to get back to me when she knows and at the same time move along(soft next until you eventually hear back).	/r/seduction	24/03/21 03:06 PM
1	No one is going to feel sorry for you There's a lot of advice to read completely for free that will change your life and mindset a lot. I'd challenge you to start reading "How to be a 3% man" and apply the principles in there. Give it a few months of earnest dedication and then report back here. I think most people on this sub has been in a similar situation where we felt we were undesirable by girls. But the great thing is you can turn the situation around. We're 3 months into this year and I scored 13 new lays and several of them …	/r/seduction	24/03/21 03:02 PM
1	I slid in the dm's and got rejected Damn 66% success rate. That's pretty damn incredible. Mine's something in the line of 10% success and I find that solid haha.	/r/seduction	24/03/21 02:49 PM
8	how do you warm up a cold interaction? If I'm met with instant disregard I tell her it was nice seeing her and move along with my day. I was in the gym once and did this, continued with my workout and a few minutes later she actually came up to me and apologized for her behavior, I got her number and dates her for a while after.	/r/seduction	24/03/21 02:33 PM
16	Is there a time on call or messaging considered too much? If you need to ask this question you're probably spending too much time calling and texting. Baseline is that the phone should be used for setting dates and some minor communication. Think of yourself as a busy successful entrepreneur with a busy social life, how much time would you be able to set aside to actually respond to a girl during your day? You might have 1 or 2 windows a day where you can relax and do that. Then get to working on your life to actually get that busy so you actually do…	/r/seduction	24/03/21 02:31 PM
3	A girl I went on a few dates with and slept with a few times who told me from the first date she wants a relationship never initiates contact. A great friend of mine once told me. "No closure is also closure". You don't need to put a definite end to things. Just don't reach out and go meet somebody else. If she reaches out that's great and if she doesn't that's great too. You're fooling yourself into thinking you're being decent, it's just a need of yours to get affirmation. Let go of that. She doesn't care whether you send a closure text or not.	/r/seduction	24/03/21 12:47 PM
1	Getting Instagram handles instead of numbers? I find number is waaay better, unless if you're potentially some kind of influencer. Just using the phone as it's meant to be used builds way more mystery I find. If you make impression of having an interesting life during the dates she will fill in the blanks in her own mind when you're apart.	/r/seduction	24/03/21 12:46 PM
1	A girl I went on a few dates with and slept with a few times who told me from the first date she wants a relationship never initiates contact. Why do you need to send a closure text?	/r/seduction	24/03/21 11:44 AM
3	Stop looking for signals Very correct. I honestly find that these "signs" are too fucking subtle anyway in many cases. Very few girls will go out of their way to make you know they find you interesting. Just get over there and make an approach if you find her interesting instead of looking for signs.	/r/seduction	24/03/21 11:41 AM
1	Why results come when you stop caring Women are from Venus and men from Mars. ;)	/r/seduction	24/03/21 11:39 AM
1	Why results come when you stop caring Yeah, you need to get out there and make approaches and get dates. The point is not caring about any individual date/girl but viewing it more as a long term journey. Your end destination might be to get into a LTR or just having multiple girlfriends and that is what you work for every day. For me my endgame is an LTR as well as developing a comprehensive understanding of women, I don't care who I accomplish that goal with, just that it's eventually accomplished.	/r/seduction	24/03/21 11:38 AM
1	Why results come when you stop caring You didn't think you came off as desperate asking her out 5 times in 2 weeks? Man... have some self respect. I ask out a girl once and if she doesn't give me a straight up answer I just tell her to let me know when it's a good time for her and then I don't contact her ever again. If I run into her I keep it friendly but short.	/r/seduction	24/03/21 11:35 AM