Aspider72 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s risky Agreed, a woman who never offers to pay is an equally dangerous red flag for the man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 07:25 PM
3	Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s risky If we imagine two men, one who meticulously enforces a 50/50 division of expenses and one who offers to cover to over half of the expenses. I do believe the former is more likely to engage in the behavior op has described. From a woman's perspective, it is much safer to have children with the latter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 06:57 PM
2	Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s risky Every philosophy taken to the extreme is bad. The existence of a bad extreme version of a philosophy does not disregard the implementation of a more moderate version.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 06:49 PM
6	Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s risky Equality has to consider the individual circumstances. It does not mean forcing everyone into the same box. Pregnancy prevents you from working and creates additional expenses. Obviously there should be a new discussion about the division of expenses.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 12:06 PM
2	Where would you lrefer to get to know people? Singles and dating events suck	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/26 07:45 AM
–	“Those women should have picked better” A couple of things to say to that. But let me get this out of the way first. You're not going to convince me that you're correct. You are speaking to a child of immigrants. My family came to the us with very little to their name and made a life here. If I asked every single person in my community if they felt like a slave, not a single one would say yes. It is an especially tough sell to try to equate our situation to a siberian farmer who prays to god that their harvest doesn't go bad and leave…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/26 07:21 AM
1	“Those women should have picked better” How many people have you met from rural china? Odds are that 50% of the Chinese people you have met are from hong kong which has a seperate set of laws. And precisely the reason that china was against the creation of hong kong was it would create a area of china that the government could not control. The other 50% are likely descendants of Chinese immigrants prior to the Mao revolution. In particular wwi immigrants. And the exact reason that Mao and his successors implemented these policies was …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/26 11:31 PM
1	“Those women should have picked better” You don't? Really? Let's put it this way. Despite your claim that immigrants are a slave class, how many choose to come to the US? Quite a few right? So, first of all, by definition, this is not slavery. Because they chose to work and they can choose to leave. If you can quit, its not slavery, its just a shitty job. But, if immigrants continue to choose to come to the US, then the work must not be that shitty. At least compared to the other work they have available. Of course, I am talking about…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/26 10:30 PM
1	“Those women should have picked better” Define making it work. Arab countries are extremely reliant on oil and have a slave underclass. China also has a slave underclass and a police state. And living in Russia just sucks and they also have a slave underclass (notice a trend).	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 11:29 PM
3	“Those women should have picked better” This is probably the single biggest issue with the conservative movement. You realize all the values you parade around have change drastically over the past centuries? Even if we limit ourselves to only looking at western civilization, there have been wild changes even before the past 100 years.. This is the same issue with any of the "let's return to a better time" politcial movements. You'll notice that none of these movements actually name the time period that they're trying to emulate. Take …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/26 09:32 AM
8	CMV: The “grass is greener” effect is much stronger for women in dating than men Beyonce got cheated on. Even the most beautiful woman can get cheated on. And often with women who are significantly less attractive than them. Your claim about men being content is not based in reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/26 11:19 PM
–	Blue-pillers: Can you see that blue-pill & feminism has hurt women? Anything taken to the extreme is harmful. That doesn't mean the underlying ideaology or behavior is wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/26 11:06 PM
35	Getting/ finding "better/ new hobbies" is advice for rich men, deadbeats or older men with stable careers. Do you even have the time or money to date? Part of the reason that women like meeting men through hobbies is that it gives them a better idea how that guy naturally acts. Because a lot of men put up a front when they are interested in someone. In paticular, how much time and energy they are willing to commit to activities outside of work or school. No one wants to date someone who is married to their job or to school. And if you're struggling with money you're going to have a rough time for any…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 12:18 AM
1	Where do women want to be hit on? For me, it's less of an issue of I can't and more of an issue of I don't want to. I don't need any more friends. I'm happy with my current friends. So, if I approach a women, it is with romantic intentions. Especially since most of my current friend group is already mostly women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 11:03 PM
3	What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps? What do you mean by incompatible? I just want a nice girl. I'm not picky. I'm willing to try and make thimgs work with most people. I do have a few dealbreakers but those usually aren't apparent from the profile anyway. I'd be happy with most matches as long as she is equally interested.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 10:15 AM
5	What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps? Then let me claify. Your comment blames men for the current state of dating apps. What I'm debating, is that you can't blame men for interacting with the apps in the one way that generates results. Does that clear things up?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 10:05 AM
3	What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps? But you realize that this isn't a choice right? We have use the apps like this because the alternative is to just not match with anyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 10:01 AM
5	What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps? I'm not trying to rebuke your points. I'm asking what you want individual men to do about the problem you talked about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 09:54 AM
4	What's the logic behind telling men to be more selective on dating apps? But what do you me to do about it? I've tried being selective, I don't get matches. Swiping right on everyone is the only way I get matches.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 09:31 AM
12	Where do women want to be hit on? By getting to know women in social settings so that she actually knows you before you ask her out. Introverts: 😔	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 08:28 AM
–	Men are not less shallow just because they claim “I’ll take any woman”. And then your job is to determine if he is genuinely interested in a long term relationship with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 04:40 PM
–	Men are not less shallow just because they claim “I’ll take any woman”. You know you can wait on the sex right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 04:34 PM
–	Men are not less shallow just because they claim “I’ll take any woman”. Not what I said. The goal is a relationship. But the dating stage happens with the understanding that it doesn't always develop that far.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 04:17 PM
–	Men are not less shallow just because they claim “I’ll take any woman”. Why pick? I don't think you understand what we mean when we say anyone will do. It means anyone will do to date. It doesn't mean we're gonna put the ring on any woman. We can always try to build a relationship. It doesn't mean it'll be successful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 11:28 AM
6	I think all women would be happier single Tbh, it just sounds like you picked bad men to be with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/25 10:59 PM
1	Women's brains have been FRIED by social media and OLD And that's exactly what's causing so many issues in dating. Conventionally attractive men have a lot of options because they meet most women's preferences. Since they have so many options they have very little incentive to settle for one woman. Because of that they string woman along who think they have a chance at ending up in a ltr with these men who are just interested in sleeping with them. Meanwhile average men don't get anything. This is why the two most common complaints in dating for the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 07:44 PM
2	Women's brains have been FRIED by social media and OLD I think woman are hottest at 30-35 so I have no idea what those guys are talking about. But yeah a lot of men are shallow too. But again your last couple sentences miss the point. You can do both. You can be genuinely attracted to someone by being less picky. Example, I think Scarlet Johannson is gorgeous. I would love to date her or someone who looks like her. Does that mean, I can't have a happy relationship with someone less attractive? Of course not. Am I going to spend my life waiting for a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 07:32 PM
1	Women's brains have been FRIED by social media and OLD You realize that's incredibly shallow and short sighted right? Everyone gets uglier as they get older. You gotta look past that. And your last question is missing the point. We want woman to be less picky for looks, not more picky.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 07:17 PM
2	Dating Feels So Unfair Sometimes, do you agree ? You indicated a desire to attempt to stop the current trend, no? And I didn't mean attempt as an individual, I meant attempt as a society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 07:07 AM
1	Dating Feels So Unfair Sometimes, do you agree ? The dtm is the demographic transition model. Feel free to google it if you want the details. And it's not nihilism, it's realism. If you are attempting something that has never been done before, you need to acknowledge that so you can try new and inventive solutions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 06:42 AM
3	Dating Feels So Unfair Sometimes, do you agree ? Well good luck. Because thus far no country has found a way to escape the dtm. So if things continue, we will joining Japan as a stage 5 country.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 06:38 AM
1	Dating Feels So Unfair Sometimes, do you agree ? Futurist? The dtm is decades old. And, while it is related to technological advancements, is mostly concerned with the correlation with death and birth rates. else it's absolutely ridiculous to agree what's happening and take it as progress. You can take it as progress or you can call it something else. What you need to understand is that population trends are not a cultural issue, they are a sociological issue. Culture will always adapt to practical concerns. If this was a cultural issue, then …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 06:22 AM
9	Dating Feels So Unfair Sometimes, do you agree ? Man you need to lay off the conspirary theories. This is just the natural trend described by the demographic transition model. We are a stage 4 county. One that has modernized and faces declining birth rates. This has happened to every country. So your theories are quaint but they ignore how this is a global phenomenon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 06:13 AM
3	Why single men feel "touch deprived" but are hardly touch with their own bodies? What is difficult to understand about self and platonic touch being different from romantic touch?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/24 06:11 PM
–	The 80:20 rule some men push is flipped. Hello, I'm a bi man so I'll give my two cents. is that validating to you? Yes. Or it's at least better than nothing. At the very least, I know that I am sexually desirable. If I know that, then I know that there's always a possibility of that sexual attraction turning into romantic attraction. My experience with woman just makes me feel worthless and unwanted. I'm not interested in hookups so I never took the men on their offers, but it was definitely more validating than the alternative. do you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 08:13 AM
1	Q4W: For those who have experienced this - why do males approach less nowadays? That's the point I'm trying to get at. You can't expect to just go to the gym and have men approach you, as the woman in the above video attempted. We need signals that our advances are welcome. If women want men to approach more, then they simply need to provide more signals of their interest in being approached.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 10:55 AM
–	Thought Experiment: What’s the difference between a post-op M2F transexual and a sex robot? The implication of your post isn't for you to decide, it's for the reader to decide. The author decides the intent of the work, the reader is one who interprets the work. I explained to you the reasons that I and others interpreted your post as disregarding the humanity of trans people. You have not explained why the evidence I provided was a misreading or misunderstanding on my part. Therefore, my interpretation remains valid. This may not have been your intention, but it was one interpretation…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 03:35 AM
–	Thought Experiment: What’s the difference between a post-op M2F transexual and a sex robot? I made no such claim anywhere in my post. You did not explicitly make that claim, but it was the implication of your post. You listed your perceived similarities of the two and your confusion as to what differentiates the two. Therefore, your post implies that the humanity of a trans person is not relevant to this discussion. But that doesn't mean your implication was intentional or malicious. Perhaps you simply failed to consider that some people value the emotional connection that comes with m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 02:12 AM
9	Q4W: For those who have experienced this - why do males approach less nowadays? Thanks! But that's okay. After some suggestions from my family I've begun saving up for some plastic surgery procedures. I've decided to step away from dating until I get those procedures done.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/23 08:44 AM
14	Q4W: For those who have experienced this - why do males approach less nowadays? And in my experience, women usually want me to go away. Therefore, I do not approach, either romantically or for small talk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/23 08:37 AM
24	Q4W: For those who have experienced this - why do males approach less nowadays? Is that distinction relevant? I've been told that making small talk with women at the gym also makes them uncomfortable, not just hitting on them. And I get it. I hate small talk to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/23 08:23 AM
26	Q4W: For those who have experienced this - why do males approach less nowadays? Yeah, but the issue is that we have no idea which type of woman we're approaching. Do you want to be approached, do you want to be left alone, I dunno. So we take the safe route and just don't approach anyone. And besides, even if I assume that this is a woman who wants to be approached, there is no guarantee that she wants to be approached by me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/23 08:20 AM
1	Having 0 suitors and 100 suitors is the same thing if you don’t like any of them Inglorious bastards. Should speak for itself, female lead burns down a theater of nazis. Other female lead is a spy who only gets screwed by bsd luck and the recklessness of some of the male characters. Violent Night. A parody film, but it features a rich and powerful female ceo. She starts off as pretty evil, but gets a redemption by the end. Same with her daughter who starts off as a ditz. The only character who is not a powerful villian or doesn't get a redemption is the daughter's stupid tro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 06:08 PM
6	Women's struggles in dating are in no way equal to that of men Then why do guys keep whining when they choose to keep the shitty options? Do they? Maybe we browse different communities, but I've never seen much of this. Sure, there's the occasional "my girlfriend is too fat" or something like that, but even in the rare cases when I've seen those posts, the poster is getting flamed in the comments by men and women alike. If we're talking about complaints the only common one I've seen is "my wife hasn't slept with me for 2 years, what do I do?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 10:20 PM