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| 1 | Madonna Whore complexes?That's a preference, not biological or natural whatsoever. Personally, I couldnt care less if my partner had slept with 25 women before he and I met. We just happened to be each others first. I think quite a few gals would prefer a guy who has experience getting women off over not being able to come at all for a good year before they have figured out the hardware. Its also a mistake to assume that all people are interested in the same romantic notions. It depends on culture, religion and media. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Madonna Whore complexes?I think you're misunderstanding what the complex is. Because of course, healthy, unaffected people want a partner who can do both. It's exactly the argument Freud was trying to make: the inability to maintain arousal within a committed relationship because of this polarisation. He said "where such men love they have no desire and where they desire they cannot love". People who have the complex cannot see women as simple mortal humans, instead categorising them either as saints who detest sex tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Madonna Whore complexes?Nothing wrong with being attracted to stable, consistent people. That's a personal preference. But treating people "less than" for having fucked other people than virgins is just the Madonna-whore complex with extra steps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Madonna Whore complexes?It doesn't have to be, the fact is that what you want she was giving to other people prior much easier than she was giving it to you, and your the one who's putting in more work than them. I think that we're both reacting to the same thing but seeing different scenarios. From what I gather you perceive the refusal of the act as "she's not putting in as much effort as I, she did so for other people therefore she must not like me as much as the last guy and that means we are not really compatible … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Madonna Whore complexes?"when it's your turn". Sex isn't a medal for good behaviour, you dingo. There could be a whole list that I can think of a whole list for women to turn down their new partners that have nothing to do with "compromising". Also wth is compromising in sex. You only preform acts because you're up for it or want to. Not because "you did it with your last partner so you now are are obliged to do it with your new one". If someone was manipulated by their ex into doing it doesn't give you a free pass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 10:34 AM |
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