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| 1 | Is this toxic masculinity? I've been seeing a lot of these videos around so I don't know what to thinkToxic masculinity is misandrist terms. It’s a term feminists use because they don’t want to come up with actual reasoning so they just accuse an anti feminist who happen to be men of having toxic masculinity. They then go on to talk about men’s penises for some reason as well, because for some reason they think it’s valid. It’s always satisfying to see a woman who’s against misandry. It leaves feminists silent every time. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/10/22 09:53 AM |
| 2 | So apparently I’m “policing” women by saying that wearing revealing clothes isn’t always a good idea.That’s not even what the comment was about. It wasn’t condoning what those guys did, it was just saying that the girl did some stupid things that put her into a bad situation. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/10/22 09:33 AM |
| 1 | So apparently I’m “policing” women by saying that wearing revealing clothes isn’t always a good idea.I’m saying they’re more likely to be raped, not “deserve.” | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/10/22 09:28 AM |
| 2 | women want to separate themselves from menWe tried that with race, it’s called segregation. Didn’t go so well. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/09/22 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Straight from the “against mens rights page”… smhWay to admit they’re intimidated by men having basic human rights. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/09/22 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Stop saying "Pseudo-feminism"Have these women ever been to a club before? Men get harassed too. Some rich women think they can get away with that sort of thing. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/09/22 07:38 PM |
| 5 | sure but all men !So much grossness all at once. First off, even if OP did anything wrong, that wouldn’t of gave her the right to make fun of his dick. That’s derogatory to anyone with a small dick, even the ones who did nothing wrong. Secondly, getting mad when she didn’t get the nudes she wanted? That’s just gross. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/09/22 07:36 PM |
| 2 | So apparently I’m “policing” women by saying that wearing revealing clothes isn’t always a good idea.I’m just stating an objective fact. I’m not saying I personally don’t want women wearing provocative clothes. Every femboy and drag queen I’ve ever known said they’re more likely to be harassed when in girls clothes. Especially provocative ones. Sounds like enough evidence to me. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/09/22 12:20 AM |
| 2 | So apparently I’m “policing” women by saying that wearing revealing clothes isn’t always a good idea.You see, the thing is I’m not forcing anyone to wear anything. End of story. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/09/22 10:29 PM |
| 1 | So apparently I’m “policing” women by saying that wearing revealing clothes isn’t always a good idea.You bet I called the cops. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/09/22 10:20 PM |
| 3 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.What’s better than a 10/10 hottie is a girl who selflessly doesn’t give into stupid gender roles that make men have to do all the work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | men are Hornier than womenI consider libido and the desire for sex to be two different things. A porn addict may wear down their libido to a minimum, but the libido is gone because they want sex so bad and masturbate to an unhealthy extent. I think this post is more so saying that men have lower standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 08:25 PM |
| 1 | So apparently I’m “policing” women by saying that wearing revealing clothes isn’t always a good idea.From personal experience, especially in places where alcohol is involved, the ones wearing revealing stuff were assaulted more. Yeah those statistics make sense when it comes to certain settings especially if the lady is alone in a dark alleyway but I’m going to take it with a grain of salt. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/09/22 08:18 PM |
| 1 | What are some reasons someone would be attracted to you, that you would be offended by?Agreed. I’m short and not even I would like it if I was tall and a short girl was like “you’re so taaaaallll 😍” to me. It’s weird, feels kind of fetishy, and overall I wouldn’t be able to tell if the girl actually likes me or is just settling for the one tall guy they can find. I wouldn’t even want to think about all the short guys she rejected before getting to me for no better reason than their height. It feels silly and to be honest kind of disturbs me. I don’t usually talk about this because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 08:10 PM |
| 3 | What are some reasons someone would be attracted to you, that you would be offended by?Not offended necessarily but there are some things that if a girl were to be attracted to me for, I wouldn’t be interested. I don’t like it when girls like being shorter than me. It feels like a fetish at that I’m not into at that point and to be honest it kind of disturbs me. It’s not that I dislike people who like them tall, in fact I like them tall myself and it’s not like I or these other people can control it. However, I just don’t like it, I don’t even like my own height preference never m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | What age does it start to become 'weird' to still be a virgin? When does it go from "that's cute" to a red flag to a dealbreaker?It’s stupid how there even is a age where it’s considered weird. I have many bizarre fetishes which make me not attracted to and not sexually compatible with most people. I’m still young, but if I were to find the man/women of my dreams and they thought my virginity was weird, then what am I supposed to do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL straight men and women who are single. Why are you not dating your attractive single friend of the opposite sex?In this hypothetical scenario I’m either rejected or I just don’t want to take the risk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 07:50 PM |
| 1 | So apparently I’m “policing” women by saying that wearing revealing clothes isn’t always a good idea.Yeah, it’s responsible to take precautionary measures, which is why if women were living in fear of rapists 24/7, less of them would wear revealing clothes. So no. I don’t believe women are living in fear. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/09/22 07:21 PM |
| 2 | So apparently I’m “policing” women by saying that wearing revealing clothes isn’t always a good idea.Eh, I’m just speaking from my experience. Maybe not all feminists want us to believe that they’re living in constant fear but the ones I know do. I will admit I’m speaking from very specific experiences. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/09/22 03:19 PM |
| 3 | So apparently I’m “policing” women by saying that wearing revealing clothes isn’t always a good idea.Thanks for being civil about it. I’m not sure about it either, but you’re right, it seems logical. I’m not to say wether or not women should wear more revealing clothes, they can do whatever they want. But I do think if women really were living in fear like feminists want us to believe less women would do it. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/09/22 02:57 PM |
| 1 | A feminist on the topic of "How patriarchy also hurts men" Remember that this is what they mean when they say it.Ah yes, because every man in a patriarchal society is responsible for it. /s | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/09/22 08:17 AM |
| 4 | Never had I thought I’d see one of these feminist extremists say something like “We wave our red flags proudly.” Like what the HECK?And in a case where a woman is bringing a book about their fetish onto a plane in order to “keep away the creeps” it’s not even paranoia, they’re just straight up lying for attention. | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/09/22 07:48 AM |
| 3 | Women when a women expresses a preference: she can have whatever standards she wants. Women when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure ect...Yes I’ve noticed this double standard. Tons of commenters under my posts in the past show this exact thing! I have posts where I express 0 insecurity filled with angry women and even some men calling me insecure. They use far too many assumptions which leads me to believe they’re projecting. 1 of them was when I said tall women take their height for granted. I explained how I’ve met a lot of tall women saying they can’t get dates but then there’s me, a short man, who can get dates just fine when… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Having trouble understanding the authority and responsibility dynamic in heterosexual couples todayHousewives also make up for it in other ways. They do chores and raise children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 10:47 AM |
| 3 | Having trouble understanding the authority and responsibility dynamic in heterosexual couples todayYet this woman you replied to does. 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 12:18 AM |
| 4 | Having trouble understanding the authority and responsibility dynamic in heterosexual couples todayAnd what about if a man wants to just relax and be themselves and a woman wants to take control? It’s not gender specific. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 11:38 PM |
| -6 | I feel this Community needs to be more aware of the women who are an exception to red pill’s beliefs.I’m talking about women who wouldn’t leave you if the situation was right even though you did nothing wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/22 07:02 PM |
| -10 | I feel this Community needs to be more aware of the women who are an exception to red pill’s beliefs.The is post is for the ones who don’t understand it. I’ve seen it a lot on this sub. In fact I feel the main consensus on this sub is that love doesn’t exist and I don’t think that’s true. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/22 06:59 PM |
| 3 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.I feel like if so many social orbiters are in this situation then it probably has to do with the person they’re orbiting more than them. Some people have a way of keeping others hoping for a romantic relationship with them. They prey on people by acting like there’s a spark one moment and going cold as stone the next. This leaves the orbiters wanting more of their good side, because it makes them feel good. But what these orbiters don’t understand is that the good side isn’t real, and this perso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 01:02 AM |
| 1 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.I’m just going by what the video said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.Geez some people are cruel. Also thanks for letting me know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.I agree, if someone feels their relationship isn’t good for them, they have to speak out about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 03:17 PM |
| 2 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.You’re good, I understand what you’re saying. It’s better not to overthink this sort of stuff because it can make you a nervous wreck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 03:14 PM |
| 1 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.I think what you’re saying is mostly accurate only I don’t know if the idea that men are always horny is an objective fact or societal expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 01:39 PM |
| 3 | Do men want career focused women?I think I’d like a woman who balances work and life well, unless she has some disability where she can’t work or something. I don’t want to be a wallet for my wife, nor do I want her to never have time to do anything fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 01:27 PM |
| 1 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.Anyone you know of who isn’t rich and has this problem? I hadn’t though about wether or not wealth could play a role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 01:20 PM |
| 2 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.This is definitely the most unique response so far. And it’s definitely possible. What made you think of it though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 01:18 PM |
| 2 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.Maybe we just like science | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 01:17 PM |
| 1 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.I don’t know if that’s true or not but I think you’d be happy to know that my dad does most of the housework around the house as well as attending to a full time, high paying job. My mom actually works less than him. And my dad insists on doing the chores because he’s a workaholic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 04:35 AM |
| 1 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.You could elaborate further if you’d like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 04:27 AM |
| 1 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.I know you never said that you hold the view, that’s why I said “if this is the case for you.” I don’t see why you have to be all “you fail to comprehend these simple concepts.” This isn’t a competition to see who’s intellectually superior. This is me taking random shit I found online and trying to see what people think about it as well as me giving my own two cents. And the stuff I learned at peers I already tried out and it worked, so I wouldn’t say it’s a hypothetical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 04:23 AM |
| 2 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.Thank you kind sir. I 100% agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 04:14 AM |
| 1 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.Oh yeah it’s probably fake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 04:13 AM |
| 0 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.Not saying this to be rude, but you seem to have a very cynical view on relationships. It’s oftentimes easier to find relationships if you’re not cynical about love. Hope you don’t mind me asking, are you a girl? If so, I can tell you probably find it hard to find a man who doesn’t see relationships in a transactional way. I may not be able to help too much, but I’m part of this social skills program called PEERS, it’s a social group with lots of different kinds of classes on how to do more soci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 04:10 AM |
| 3 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.69 hahaha the funny number. Also if that’s the case then I’m wrong about my whole hypothesis. And if I’m wrong then that means the sexless relationships are probably due to porn use. Which also makes sense. I’m just going by the videos I put in this source, I don’t know if they are true or not. But if what you’re saying is true and women are more likely to not get enough sex, then it probably would have to do more with guys watching a lot of porn more than what I initially said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 03:50 AM |
| 1 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.Everything I’m saying in this thread is either hypothetical or from an infographic source. I’m not preaching here. I do accept I don’t understand, I’m just telling you that so you don’t think what I am saying is proven fact or anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 03:44 AM |
| -1 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.Not saying this is true, but just going by the videos, men wanting sex more than cuddles wouldn’t really make sense. women are more likely to be deprived of sex than men in LTD, so it wouldn’t make sense if these women are asking men who don’t want to have sex with them to have sex when all the women want is intimacy. I’m not saying this is 100% fact, I’m just going by these videos because I have nothing else to go by. You can send more sources if you want but you don’t have to if you don’t want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 03:41 AM |
| 1 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.I didn’t know that. Where could I find the citations? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 03:27 AM |
| 1 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.Sorry if what I said didn’t make all too much sense lol, I was replying to the part where you said, Sex is also about intimacy. Fact is a lot of these women are trying to get sex because they're not getting ANY intimacy at all. Meaning he's also not cuddling and making out with her, no mutual massaging, etc. So they turn to sex because it's an easy first step to approaching those needs and there is hopefully a benefit to the man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 03:25 AM |
| 1 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.I’m sorry I’m confused. I don’t know much about cited papers or anything. Do you mind elaborating. I’m sorry if it’s a lot of trouble, you don’t have to. Just asking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 03:19 AM |
| 1 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.Most of the time if someone wants to cuddle me and they know me well enough they just ask. I’ve even had a few friends I wasn’t in a relationship with ask for it because they felt they don’t get enough closeness with anyone. I feel it would be a bit more jarring and I personally would feel more pathetic to ask for sex from someone who doesn’t want it than just cuddling. It’s not ideal to ask someone for something they don’t want in the first place, but if someone isn’t getting any intimacy, I do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 03:18 AM |
| 3 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.What a terrible situation for both of them. Have you told them what you think about their relationship? In a kind way of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 03:07 AM |
| 3 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.No, in your case he definitely stopped having sex with you because of porn. But according to this other asap science video women are only 30 percent less likely to regularly view porn but according to the other video women are 2x more likely not to not get enough sex from their partner. I think porn use does play a role in many relationships ending up sexless, but because women are more likely to not have enough sex in their relationships than it is for a guy to view more porn than their girlfri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 03:00 AM |
| 1 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.I believe women can get casual sex easier, but this video was talking about sex in relationships. I don’t know for sure, it just seems to add up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 02:54 AM |
| 2 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.That actually makes sense. What you said could be the case for some sexless relationships, but I doubt it’s the case for all of them. According to another asap science video women are only 30% less likely to masturbate on a weekly basis than men. Which is significant, but not nearly as men masturbating twice as much as women. Also, I just want to make things clear, I am not a redpill man. Redpill men don’t believe in love. I do. I just believe there are problems when it comes to the dating world… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 02:50 AM |
| 1 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.Oh I see, yeah that’s kind of sad not going to lie. Not long term dating just the fact that the reason long term relationships are sexless may have to do with the women getting fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 02:20 AM |
| 1 | I wonder if having higher standards leads to having a partner which is less likely to be sexually satisfied than you.What’s LTR? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Picking up women is probably the hardest skills ever to learn as a man.Women will probably never appreciate the challenges which go into impressing them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Men *and* Women - what makes you a throwback and why should someone not give you a chance?I don’t go out much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Agree or Disagree: It’s not that women don’t care about “looks.” They do. It’s more that they’re “turned off” by socially inept behavior and turned on by sexy socially adept interaction.Ayy, I’m in one of those programs! Someone literally asked me out in one of the classes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Agree or Disagree: It’s not that women don’t care about “looks.” They do. It’s more that they’re “turned off” by socially inept behavior and turned on by sexy socially adept interaction.I’m dating anyway. I’m going to date the nicest lady alive. I technically have Asperger’s but it’s considered autism now. Is it different for people with Asperger’s? Not that it matters because I’m getting myself a girlfriend anyway just asking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Agree or Disagree: It’s not that women don’t care about “looks.” They do. It’s more that they’re “turned off” by socially inept behavior and turned on by sexy socially adept interaction.I too have autism. I’m not giving up until I die though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Chasing women is idiotic and unnecessary.There’s a whole story I have to share about this that I might post one day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: Would you rather marry your average looking best friend; or a really hot person you have nothing in common withI’d take the average friend but I think that’s more of an autistic thing because of my hyper fixations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 10:22 PM |
| 4 | Lowering ones standards is impossibleDepends the person. Some people have standards that are caused by “I’m not comfortable around someone who has/looks like __” or “I don’t want to be seen with someone who has/looks like _” while others are “I can’t be attracted to anyone with/without ___.” If someone only has the third type of standards I mentioned, they can’t go any lower. If it’s the first two ones, they 100% can lower their standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 10:20 PM |
| 2 | The argument of "just lower your standards" to undesirable men is misguided since they have no option that is being filtered out by their standardsThis comment’s funny because OP wasn’t complaining about being single. OP was just saying that lowering your standards is bad advice. I feel like too many people go on this subreddit ready to go “haha incel!” And they don’t actually read any of these posts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 09:56 PM |
| 1 | are you flattered if someone ugly asks you out ?I’m never afraid of how the person would react if I reject them, so a bad reaction is more of a surprise to me. But yeah I never get flattered when I’m asked out either. I also hate it when you reject someone and then you notice the person you reject touches you a lot more than usual. It’s super annoying because they think they are some gigs chad or queen that can just get what they want. Usually, I brush it off as the person doesn’t know any better, because I’ve been rejected before and I’ve do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.I was talking about my own fetish, not a foot fetish, which I explicitly stated. While I don’t traumatize children, my fetish is still unhealthy even though it’s in not as bad ways. I’m just superficial wether I can control it or not and I’m incompatible with most people. I guess you could say I was filling in the blanks about you. But my point stands. I don’t hate myself, I have valid reasons to not like having a giantess fetish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 04:41 PM |
| 0 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.You seemed like you were filling in the blanks when you said I’m projecting my self hate issues. So why is it bad when I do it? Sometimes there’s just certain assumptions that you make that are more likely than others. I don’t have self hate issues for the record. I just don’t like that I have an unhealthy fetish. If you go by the logic that people who don’t like their unhealthy fetish hate themselves and need to like their fetish more, you’re defending pedophilia. Just saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Actually, according to my therapist, my fetish is caused by trauma. But fetishes can also be caused by associating something with sex that isn’t typically sexual. Yes, my fetish is non negotiable but that’s not the point, the point is there’s a way to prevent unhealthy fetishes, but modern day parents just leave their kids on their iPads while they go do something else where kids find creepy Elsa gate videos having to do with pregnancy and vore and shit. Also, wanting to be kidnapped and enslave… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Same, I would never want my kinks to be a 24/7 thing, it would just destroy my mental health. I wish there were more dominant ladies who aren’t into degradation though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Honestly, I’d probably still hate my kinks even if there were more dominant women out there. I just hate the fact that I want to be treated as an equal but my sexual urges say otherwise. Besides, some dominant women are more degrading than sexy, wether they intend it or not. And it feels depressing when they are so invested in their kink to where they don’t see you as their equal. I just wish my kinks were non existent. Which may be impossible, but one can dream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.True, but that doesn’t stop the fact that I don’t want other people to have to go through this situation either. So, I’m going to discourage fetishes anyway and tell society to change. Thanks for helping me find a solution to this problem. I didn’t know that medication existed for people like me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.My bad, I guess I misread you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 07:43 PM |
| 0 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Interesting. While that could be true that the internet isn’t the main cause, there are some fetishes that are probably caused by the internet. But if you are right though, there might still be a way I could at least make my fetish not as much of a need. I think u/Cult_of_Chad in this thread put it best. By their logic, reducing online use for children and monitoring their could reduce the potency of a fetish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 07:36 PM |
| 0 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Probably by having kids be monitored online until they are at an age where they are responsible enough to know the consequences of having an unconventional fetish which can make them incompatible with lots of people. It won’t eliminate fetishes, but it will reduce them. You were right about me not having a definitive answer to this issue, but that doesn’t mean I won’t try to look for one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.I find it especially irritating when they want me to find an internet source when I’m just speaking from experience. Like I know they aren’t going to listen to me, source or not. And yeah, that’s a good reason to not make your own post about it. This post is proof of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Thanks, I appreciate this. But yeah you’re right, it does make it harder to find a partner. And it makes me feel kinda superficial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Thanks, I’ll try altering my kinks. Even if it doesn’t work, it’s worth a shot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Just to make things clear, I don’t want adults to oppress their fetishes. But yeah I agree children need less internet access. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.I guess so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 04:53 AM |
| 0 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.🤦🏽♂️ I don’t hate myself just because I don’t want people to go through what I went through. Maybe YOU stop being a bigot against me? Maybe listen to me like an actual person rather than an opportunity to get your political opinions out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 04:52 AM |
| 0 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Yes, it’s still bullshit. Everyone on the multiple size play discord servers I used to use would call it bullshit. They aren’t similar. You’re comparing rhetorics used against sexuality to rhetorics about something vastly more specific. Not to mention the rhetorics aren’t even similar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 04:40 AM |
| 0 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.That’s not how you framed it at first, so I’m calling bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Also, if I recall correctly, you didn’t say it to me, you were replying to a different comment. I only joined the convo because you were pulling the same bs on someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 04:30 AM |
| 0 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.They only seem perfectly content cuz they never talk about it, and btw, even though I prefer girls, I am bi actually, if you don’t believe me you can search through my comment history. I only prefer girls because giant girls are sexier than giant guys. The compatibility side of things are way easier when it comes to being gay than being a macrophile, you just go on grindr, say looking for now, you got yourself a hookup. But I still feel I need a giant girl to fully satisfy me, which causes compa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 04:27 AM |
| 0 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Ask multiple people who have strange fetishes their opinions, I think you’ll find they agree with me, we’ve been over this. I have my experience, and I’ve had conversations about other people’s experiences, I’ve seen people go through some tough shit, and for me, that’s all the evidence I need. And no, you are being an sjw, I say you in the comments earlier going “oh you just hate yourself” to someone else in the comments. Comparing gay pride to fetish normalization. People used to be killed for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 04:16 AM |
| -2 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.It is fact, and I’ve explained my reasoning, you just don’t want to hear it. But you know what is also fact? That all the people with fetishes in this thread are in my side. Because we actually know what we have to go through. The insane reaching sjw’s like you are the ones telling US what we think instead of listening to what we want. Fetishes can suck, but we aren’t some oppressed group that you need to defend. Most people in the real world don’t even care when I tell them I have a giantess fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 04:09 AM |
| 2 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.My bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Shoe? Foot fetishes? Some guys just have mannerisms that make it obvious they have a foot fetish. They give this school girl look down at your flip flops. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 02:00 AM |
| 0 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.I mean by lessening it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Huh, haven’t thought of it that way. I know I said I’m not changing my mind but I’ll consider this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Thanks, I’ll keep this in mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Thanks, I’ll keep this in mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Agreed. Just thought I’d give my two cents. Hope you like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 01:49 AM |
| 0 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Also, until we find out the root of fetishes and see for ourselves if future generations still prefer tall men even without any environmental influence, that’s just a hypothesis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Well until we find out the root of fetishes and see for ourselves if future generations still prefer tall men even without any environmental influence, that’s just a hypothesis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 01:48 AM |
| 0 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Why are you associating fetishes with sexuality? Being gay just means your attracted to the same gender, but having a fetish can cause you to be incompatible with lots of people thus making you lonelier. We don’t hate ourselves, our lives would just be better if it wasn’t for our fetishes. You think I hate myself because I’m too short to reach the top shelf of the kitchen cabinet? No. But I don’t want other people to have to deal with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Why are you associating what this person is saying with religion? It’s so weird. I have a fetish that is detrimental in my life, and she’s explaining it to you. If I didn’t have that fetish, my life would be better. There is no priest shaking his fist at me telling me I can’t like giant women, in fact, a lot of people are okay with my fetish, it just doesn’t stop the fact that I’m not compatible with most people. And if I am, then it just feels superficial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Thanks for understanding, it’s been really hard finding someone who gets it but I think you put it best. It feels really good to know someone gets me. Also, I’ll admit I don’t got a way with words, which may be why so many people in these comments are mad, but I think what you just said is a better way of putting it. Maybe you can even make your own post about it. Maybe you don’t care about this issue as much as me so it’s okay if you don’t want to post about it this but I’d like it if you did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.You might be right, I’m just curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.So why does my identical twin brother, with the same genetic makeup as me, says he would never date a tall girl whereas I prefer them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 01:25 AM |
| -1 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.No. People can put anything online, true or not. I’m not going to base a post around an online article. Besides, years of being sexually incompatible with so many people and seeing other people doing so much to accommodate for other people’s fetishes, that’s enough evidence for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.It’s a SHOE store. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.What if the tall girl is submissive and the petite one is dominant? They’re people too, with their own kinks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.I didn’t need to because I put a discussion flair on the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.I said why I think fetishes are detrimental. I have bad experiences with them, it’s negatively made me fetishize women who aren’t typically interested in me and I’ve noticed many people losing their self esteem trying to accommodate for other people’s fetishes. I’ve said that multiple times. As for the solution, you can discuss something without a solution, have you wondered that maybe I posted on here to find one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Then why’d you say I was flapping my ass on Reddit? I’ve backed up why I think fetishes are detrimental with my own personal experience, and I don’t have a solution. I want a discussion about how fetishes can be lessened in the future, because I already have my beliefs that they are bad. So if you don’t have anything to say along those lines, I’d say you should find another thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 01:05 AM |
| 0 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.No, I’m saying what should be done to stop a problem in society. Not the solution to it. The flair says discussion, because believe it or not, not all of Reddit is out to preach their political opinions, some people just want discussions and finding like minded people. Also, I already backed up why I think fetishes are bad with personal experience. I even said at the end, I’m not changing my mind, so why are so many people even bothering to try? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 12:59 AM |
| 0 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Did I not say in the BEGINNING of my post that it’s okay to have a fetish because you can’t change it? I’m not forcing ANYONE to CHANGE. I’m telling people there needs to be more ways to PREVENT Fetishization. I’m just stating facts, if I weren’t a macrophiliac, I’d be compatible with more people, same with every other fetish IN EXISTENCE. Also, many people have fetishes, and many people are in my situation, so saying I’m trying to make things better for a FEW people. I’d say that’s a bad take. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 12:57 AM |
| 0 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.That’s what I hope scientists will one day find out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 12:52 AM |
| 0 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.So the fact straight women can never prefer women over men in dating but can prefer short men if they have a fetish for it means height preferences aren’t a fetish? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 08:05 PM |
| 0 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.I don’t want an online article. You can find articles that say anything online, doesn’t mean it’s true. I’m 90% Women fetishize height and it’s not as biological as they think. Microphiliac girls exist, there’s even a famous pop star who is one. So the fact that girls can prefer shorter men if they fetishize it makes me think that girls are conditioned to fetishize tall guys because of the media portraying it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 07:46 PM |
| 0 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Proof? Cuz I’m a macrophiliac so I think you already know that I’ve met women who are exceptions to the height thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 07:32 PM |
| 0 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.I said that it’s okay to have a fetish, because you can’t undo it. We just need to take measures to make sure future generations don’t get them. Also, I’m tired of Redditors going “you’re just hurt.” Because good change in society happens because too many people are hurt from it. I don’t have dating issues. I have sexual compatibility issues. Two very different things. And yes, if I wasn’t a macrophiliac, I wouldn’t have that problem. So yes, reducing fetishes would improve my problems. Oh and a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 07:14 PM |
| -2 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.If you want the data, you can find it yourself. The only difference between me sending a source and you looking for it is that because you don’t know who I am for all you know I could just be showing you a source to match my opinion. I find my personal experience of not being compatible with anyone because my fetishes aren’t the norm is proof enough for me though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.But identical twin brothers are scientifically proven to have the same exact dna though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Proof? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 07:02 PM |
| 0 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.I don’t think that means short men preferring tall girls is a genetic trait though because my brother is the same height as me, in fact he’s a tiny bit shorter, but I see what you’re saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 06:56 PM |
| 0 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Reducing fetishes in the world will make people more easily able to find people who they are compatible with and it helps people who aren’t typically fetishized have a larger dating pool. That’s been my point in the original post and I’ve never implyed anything else. And besides, I was insecure in my high school years, so what? It just means I can speak from experience and for people who are insecure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.So why does my identical twin brother, with the same genetic makeup as me, says he would never date a tall girl whereas I prefer them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 06:23 PM |
| -1 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.I never said life was fair, nor did I say fetishes are the root of all evil or all preferences for that matter. Yes I’ll be judged by something else if it wasn’t for looks but it’s still better than being judged by looks. Insecurities or not, it’s still something that can affect people’s judgement, and that we’d all be better without. What point are you trying to make? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 06:17 PM |
| -1 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.I agree but too many people are obsessed with their fetishes. The point where I get called kitten during a hookup when I never said I was into that shit lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 06:15 PM |
| 0 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.I said it’s okay if you have a fetish, I just feel there needs to be more measures to reduce fetishes for future generations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 06:14 PM |
| -3 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Not just my feelings, many people feel this way. Besides, there’s no denying that if we lived in a society where looks don’t matter at all, everyone would be better off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Men struggle with dating and sex. So, what women struggle with?What country you from? I want to find more people who agree that making fun of short people is shitty. I know a change in scenery probably Isn’t going to change much realistically but I’m 18 now and people still haven’t matured so I’m getting kinda desperate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 02:38 AM |
| 0 | Men struggle with dating and sex. So, what women struggle with?I know many women don’t care about height, in fact, the only girls who’ve ever liked me happen to be taller than me, I’m just saying it’s more socially acceptable for a girl to reject someone solely on their height than it is for men to do so based on weight. And also, sorry if my last comment sounded a little mean. What I mean by I think you’re projecting is that you stated you have the problems the original commenter said mostly men have and that makes me think that maybe you believe that you’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Since Testosterone governs both strength and sex drive in humans people who think the partner preference is a bullshit double standard but the strength one is just natural are hypocrites.Oh yeah, an example of my point in my last comment, you’re not my type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Since Testosterone governs both strength and sex drive in humans people who think the partner preference is a bullshit double standard but the strength one is just natural are hypocrites.I think you need to take a break from all these online articles. No one’s mad if you have a certain thing for big men who can throw you around, I’m just saying you’re doing a lot of generalizing here. I’m from the US, a country where height standards are more common, and yet the only two girls who have ever liked me back were taller and stronger than me. Also, the reason that people rebuke these preferences in the first place is because not everyone fits the mold. You as a small petite woman fit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Do people confuse anxiety for attraction?From my experience being bi, girls do this even more than guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Men struggle with dating and sex. So, what women struggle with?Even the most attractive guys don’t get girls just approaching them all the time, yeah maybe at prom a girl might initiate a dance or something but other than that not really. Think about every time a girl has said “he’s kinda short” in public, and no one reacts. Then think of every time you see a guy say “she’s kinda fat” in public, people get mad and call them superficial. DESPITE the fact that you can control weight, not height. Your last paragraph is interesting to me, you’re saying that the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 09:14 PM |
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