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5

Good point, this is just plain old fashioned misogyny. Not incel.
/r/seduction17/06/22 05:38 AM
2

No, you’re not. Also, what’s your option, giving up and being celibate forever? And those women who don’t have jobs, etc....they’re hot. There’s a lot of women out here who aren’t super hot, I think you’re ignoring us. Men and women are judged on different things. Women on attractiveness, men on productiveness. Now that women’s whole lives aren’t dependent on finding a good provider yes you are also now more judged on your looks too than in the past. And now women are judged for more than our co…
/r/seduction16/06/22 06:33 AM
7

I love a man who can dance. Actually, it’s more important that a man can lead well. There’s nothing like feeling beautiful on the dance floor, because someone is leading you in a way that shows off how well you move. But also, be truly interestED in someone else. (As opposed to interestING) We all want to feel good around other people and if you are interestED and showing approval that will make others feel good around you. Also it should get your attention off of yourself and your insecurities.…
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:11 AM
1

I saw a guy at a bar and we were friends for months before we got together.
/r/seduction11/06/22 10:40 PM
3

Alpha is a bs concept based on research of CAGED wolves. In real wolf packs the Alpha is just... the dad. And the whole pack is much less hierarchical. Try and think that everyone is a story waiting to be discovered. And the idea is to have as good of a time that you can with everyone you meet.
/r/seduction06/06/22 03:59 AM
1

Are you holding random women who may or may not be interested in dating you to the same standards as your male friends of years?
/r/seduction04/06/22 12:07 AM
2

I’m not sure how what I wrote was an attack. I’m writing from a female perspective. If I want an unsatisfying one night stand, or if I want unsolicited dick pics and disgusting come on lines, yes those apps will work great for me. But if I want a respectful pleasurable relationship, they are equally unhelpful to me.
/r/seduction31/05/22 02:10 PM
1

So you don’t think you can keep a confident woman? You don’t think you know how to offer enough value to her life to get her to stay if she’s confident?
/r/seduction31/05/22 01:57 PM
3

Also his depression leads him to not exhibit threatening behaviors because he doesn’t care.
/r/seduction23/05/22 06:04 AM
1

Are you saying you don’t want to boost the ego of people you are dating? Do you want to deflate the egos of the people you date? Do you want to have no effect on them?
/r/seduction22/05/22 09:34 PM
21

Because you are only noticing the hot women you want to date. And you’re confusing “men who want to fuck us” with dating. That “high quality guy” is married/has a girlfriend, or he secretly hates women but still loves to fuck us, or he just thinks he’s kinda better than all women and thinks we should defer to him and serve him. There are millions of us over here who want real relationships but are not former models. We’re chubby, or skinny, we’re older, we have some weird birthmark, we’re dealin…
/r/seduction22/05/22 07:37 PM
8

Take that ball and run with it. Add to the conversation. He added no value, no content. Even if she was interested, he gave her nothing to work with, nothing to respond to. Not even a “wanna relax together?”
/r/seduction08/05/22 08:14 PM
0

Maybe it’s just your personality that’s holding you back?
/r/seduction24/04/22 11:07 PM
1

Don’t call me a Karen. What value system? Why is not sleeping with people some higher moral value? You want to cloak this in language that makes it sound like an arbitrary difference that effects no one. But if you’re disrespecting real women based on actions that don’t affect you, that is unreasonable. So .... reason it out.
/r/seduction02/04/22 11:52 PM
2

Stop thinking of it as a Power play that you can lose and just think of it as Play where there are no losers. They want a reaction, give them one, what’s it to you, you too good to give up your stone face 🗿? give them a playful fake heart attack or faint, you’re not impressed “oh honey you’re gonna have to do better than that!” “Ok you’ve won me over. When are we getting married!”
/r/seduction02/04/22 09:53 PM
0

But your opinion DOES devalue women despite your intent or more precisely your intention of seeming like a reasonable person. Just as I intended to devalue your opinion because it is unreasonable. You need to work on changing your mind and keeping it changed, instead of throwing your hands in the air. We all have unreasonable thoughts sometimes but we examine them and purge them.
/r/seduction02/04/22 06:36 PM
1

So you’re devaluing real women based on a commercial that was trying to stop the spread of AIDS thirty years ago? That’s super cool. Much sexy.
/r/seduction02/04/22 08:00 AM
1

I’m impressed by your correct use of chutzpah. But not impressed by your personal attacks. It usually means that one has run out of logical arguments. And is now attacking because they’re too emotionally attached to their egotistical opinions.
/r/seduction27/02/22 11:04 AM
1

They’re her friends and they want to protect her from feeling used. You’re basically saying that they should leave her defenseless against someone who means her no good. Someone who will lie to her. They’re going to be the ones trying to make her feel better when he inevitably dumps her for more strange ass. How is it not in their interest to protect her?
/r/seduction27/02/22 08:53 AM
1

Listen the only thing you’re in control of is you. And what you have to offer is your interest, attention, and approval. All you can do is make attractive offers, offers to chat, offers to communicate, offers to have a new fun experience. If all you’re interested in is fucking her female body, that’s going to come through and it’s not the most attractive offer. No wants to feel used, that’s different from being used and feeling good about being used.
/r/seduction27/02/22 07:45 AM
4

Or you can be understanding and happy that someone is looking out for this woman. You could be the bigger guy and say “it’s good of your friend to make sure you’re ok, friend right?.” You’ve been the protector before, why do you think that other guys don’t have the same good intention? You have the same goal for everyone to have a good time and not get pressured to do anything they don’t want, right? RIGHT? Or are you somehow incapable of misreading signals and how dare any stranger cast aspersi…
/r/seduction15/02/22 01:27 AM
22

Yeah, it’s her friend making sure she’s not uncomfortable. You should be glad that someone is protecting her. And what if she actually wasn’t feeling you and was being polite out of fear, his interjection would hasten the end of a fruitless conversation.
/r/seduction15/02/22 01:19 AM
1

Neither are particularly great looking, but when you get to know them they are super fun to be around. And you just Understand that they think the world of each other and you get their attraction to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:33 AM
2

But that’s projecting. That’s treating all women like a woman who would ghost you. Do you like to be compared to awful men and have women say “screw them they’re just like all the other fuckbois”?
/r/seduction09/02/22 07:55 AM
2

Or you’re a worthless coward and a narcissist. But hey, you’re an abundant narcissistic coward!
/r/seduction09/02/22 07:52 AM
-3

Sounds like you’re a womanizer and they know that about you. That you manipulate for sex and then leave to find a new conquest and they are warning her not to catch feelings for you or try to have a relationship because you are a user.
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:44 PM
2

But the woman in the park has a book or a dog (or both) , that gives you something to talk about, not just “what are you drinking” that you have at the bar. The reason you’re nervous is because you have too much attention on yourself and how you’re being perceived. Put your attention on the person you’re engaged with, be more interested in them than you are in your nervousness.
/r/seduction26/01/22 02:02 AM
3

About 7. Nervousness and fear just mean you care and that there is uncertainty about the outcome. That’s what living is all about. That nervousness is just energy, if you think of it as excitement it’s not debilitating, it’s motivating. This is what actors do when they feel nervous.
/r/seduction31/12/21 06:45 AM
3

Being near people is a social event.
/r/seduction31/12/21 06:42 AM
4

One time, a guy I worked near, kept asking me out for drinks with his friends. He paid for my drinks when I showed up. I thought he was interested in me. So I told him I was interested in him. He WAS interested in me, as a friend, and he had recently broken up with a long term partner. He wasn’t ready for another relationship (and I might not be his type if he was, but that was unspoken). I felt real bad that I couldn’t be his friend. I’m a great friend. We were both lonely in different ways. We…
/r/seduction29/12/21 11:50 PM
2

People often laugh at surprise or discomfort. She shared a truth that many would judge her harshly for. She has to know that you might judge her harshly for her previous promiscuity. Hence the uncomfortable giggle.
/r/seduction25/12/21 11:09 PM
-7

“Virtue signaling is a term sociopaths use to make people feel bad about having empathy” - John Cleese.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:36 PM
2

Men are more concerned with the physical appearance of their partners. Women are more concerned with their partner’s ability to provide. As always 75% rule. (For stereotypical behaviors assume that 25% of a population that typically likes such things, do not) Yes, of course women like physically attractive partners. But behavior is also attractive, how he makes you feel is attractive, approval, humor, fun is attractive. I once found myself attracted to a friend shorter than me (I’m 5’1), chubby,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 08:35 PM
1

No, we have a lot of men who want to fuck us. That’s not the same as dating long term. We are vetting men in these dates. Are you patient, kind, fun, do you have depth, are you a fuckboi? Will you leave when you get sex a few times, do you seem like you are interested in our pleasure? Remember a lot of women have a different relationship with sex. Some of us have to be relaxed to have a good time and that comes with feeling safe, how safe do you feel with people who are more prone to violence an…
/r/seduction24/12/21 02:05 AM
1

You think if I’m sufficiently attracted to a dude that will make up for him not touching my clitoris for more than ten seconds? I’m doing my part. Men need to stop being so selfish. And how do I know they’re going to be selfish until I get them in bed? Do I need to ask for references? I love how you blame women for picking bad men but not men for being selfish in bed. It sounds like you’re selfish in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:03 AM
1

Being told by my doctor does not hurt my feelings. Because my doctor is concerned for my health. Those teenagers don’t care if I live or die. In fact they would love to see me die because it would enliven their boring conformist suburban lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 02:58 AM
1

That’s hard because most well known actors even if not gorgeous are rather striking. And I don’t KNOW them so they can’t impress me with their great easy conversation skills and making me feel comfortable and accepted in their presence. And of course I’m not going to post pics of former crushes from their FB pics. For example Jason Segel is by turns totally average AND really handsome. Steve Correll also has this effect. Adam Driver is by turns ugly AND striking and handsome. Seth Rogan is actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 02:54 AM
2

I have never been abused. But I’m into role playing. Why do we say “we’re being naughty” when in engaging in sexual activity? Even people in straight marriages find sex to be best when they are being “bad”. Our sexual selves are often paired with our shadow selves, some part of being “bad” or “wrong”. We invent power imbalances where they don’t exist in order to play out these “bad” dynamics.
/r/seduction15/12/21 09:21 PM
1

This is a bunch of bullshit. You’re basically saying. It’s not happening. If it’s happening it’s no big deal. If it’s happening it’s your fault. You’re moving the goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 01:18 PM
2

Society trains women to not be confident. Confidence is seen as arrogance. Arrogance is unattractive. I still vividly recall how shocked I was when a woman said “I’ve always really liked my body”. Yeah she had a gorgeous body, but every girl I knew in HS on, only ever talked about her flaws.
/r/seduction13/12/21 01:14 PM
4

Remember your nervousness is you thinking about yourself. That’s not interesting to anyone but your therapist. Keep your interest on her and try to make you both have a good time and good conversation.
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:36 AM
1

There are masks with smiles on them. And once you get their name you can look them up online and see if they’re cute.
/r/seduction02/12/21 02:56 AM
1

Dude, you’re hella cute. Women are just people. Just try to see how much fun conversation you can have with a woman.
/r/seduction28/11/21 05:16 AM
3

Wow, what sexist piece of shit you are. So shallow you can’t perceive the differences between whole humans. Wow. Pathetic.
/r/seduction24/11/21 10:46 PM
2

Maybe y’all should learn how to treat women well in and out of bed. If a woman doesn’t have a good time with you, how is that her fault? She needs to find one of the 1/10 dudes who give a shit about her pleasure?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 07:33 PM
2

I was waiting alone outside a theatre for my ride and a car of teenagers drove by and one shouted “1-800-JENNY CRAIG!” (The 90’s weight loss plan) I didn’t even make sense of what they shouted for a few seconds so they were long gone by the time I could even have yelled “fuck you”. So yeah, I’ve been harassed, mostly just ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 07:22 PM
3

I think Amy Schumer is above average, so is Sarah Silverman. I think my average is ugly to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 07:16 PM
2

Hello, I’m somewhere in the middle. Not ugly, but overweight. No, harassed a few times. Legitimately asked out, never. On dating apps, I get matches. Not a lot, but you only need one if it’s the right one, right...... right? But not for relationships. They just want sex, even if they say they’re not into one night stands. They’ll pressure for sex, on the first date, I don’t put out, and then they ghost. ..... yay. LMAO 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 HELL NO!!!! I have been turned down by super average dudes. And had …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 07:04 PM
2

Everything is political. At one point saying “Black people shouldn’t be held as chattel slaves” was political. So was “women should have the right to vote”. “Black Lives Matter” shouldn’t be a political statement, and yet .... somehow ... it is.
/r/seduction18/11/21 10:37 PM
1

Yeah that’s not what I’m reading. I’m reading about women in relationships working, doing housework, managing the house, and doing all the activity planning. Basically putting in a lot of extra emotional and mental effort to make sure the relationship keeps being fun for both partners. All this while not getting as many orgasms. And men.... being entitled to being catered to. The rest of what you wrote is sexist bullshit and hypocritical callous double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:12 AM
1

I said you made assumptions but I didn’t make any assumptions about you. The rest of what you said was not coherent. So I can’t respond to it. That bit about “men will fuck anything” I’m not sure I completely agree. But that doesn’t negate my point, a man who wants to fuck you does not a LTR make.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:02 AM
1

I’m glad that you admit that it’s unreasonable and irrational. I’m glad that you’re working on it with a therapist. But I’m not glad that you are likely to hurt a real flesh and blood woman over an irrational reverence for a nonsensical complex. ie the purity bullshit. What is purity anyway? What if she was a virgin but also a murderer or had committed vehicular homicide while DWI? Or had stolen someone’s life savings leading to their suicide? Or bullied some kids mercilessly in high school unti…
/r/seduction14/11/21 05:53 AM
1

Yeah, but she would have to be a mind reader and supremely confident to come to that conclusion. If I went up to someone, tried to flirt, said “hey you’re cute” and they said “you’re not”. My first-1000000th thought would not be “they totally wanted me, they were just nervous.”
/r/seduction14/11/21 03:22 AM
2

Men are also choosing who they sleep with. And sure some ugly women can have sex with men regularly but it’s probably a lot of bad sex. You’re trying to use sexist logic and you’re coming up with conclusions that fit an awful narrative. Ugly and overweight women get turned down. Some men really just want monogamous relationships. No group is a monolith. You can’t make blanket statements about any large group like that and have it hold logical sense. Pick up artists are not having as much sex as …
/r/seduction14/11/21 02:53 AM
8

You made some pretty egregious assumptions. Like that women have more to gain in a relationship that they put in less mental effort, which is definitely NOT what I’m seeing. That women have men lined up waiting to be in LTR’s with them. It isn’t true for most women. Also Never mind the quality of those men, their suitability or anything else. A lot of women know men who want to fuck them a few times, that’s not a LTR. You seem like one of those men who only notices women who you find incredibly …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:11 PM
7

A lot of POS’s on here are trying to deflower as many chicks as they can. They want to “ruin” as many women for other men as they can. They think that their penises are so powerful that they can change the inherent value of a woman. They are cowards, pussies who can’t trust their own evaluations of a woman. They are looking for trophies not partners. They need other men to admire the women they want to fuck regularly. Intimacy and bonding is something they have with other men. Not women, they ju…
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:19 PM
1

Calling her ugly is offensive. He insulted her. There’s no world in which that made her feel good. He wasn’t awkward, he was an asshole.
/r/seduction31/10/21 10:14 PM
1

You’re reaching. There is no rhyme or reason. There is no accounting for taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 06:41 AM
1

So if you have a high body count it’s because you have mommy issues, no self respect, and are a himbo/fuckboi who can’t be alone? And you don’t fuck who and when you want because you’re more concerned about and controlled by the opinions of strangers? And their opinions are more important than your own pleasure? Hmmm that sounds like a YOU problem.
/r/seduction30/10/21 03:47 AM
1

Ugly men want to just fuck. Average guys want to just fuck. Hot guys want to just fuck. And some men of every attraction level want to couple up and be monogamous. This idea that there is an objective standard of attractiveness is absurd. I’ve been turned down for casual sex by average to below average looking dudes and had one of the most gorgeous men I’ve ever seen tell me he loves me. There is NO objective standard here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:41 AM
1

If you feel like you’re surrounded by disingenuous people, it’s probably because YOU yourself are being disingenuous. Start telling the truth about who you are and what you want. (I mean be respectful) You attract the type of people that are similar to yourself. If you don’t want fakers stop faking.
/r/seduction24/10/21 08:14 PM
5

There are hundreds, if not thousands, of kinds of cancer. One cause of cervical cancer is HPV. And there is a vaccine for HPV.
/r/seduction20/10/21 09:44 PM
7

Yes, we do. I have a friend I’ve had a crush on for years. I initiate conversations, ask to meet up. I text him, He didn’t respond, but was super happy to see me when we ran into each other. He’s gone through at least 3 relationships in the time I’ve known him. He’s super confident. If he wanted me, he is completely capable of asking me. But he likes women who are more slender so I know the answer.
/r/seduction20/10/21 06:52 PM
-1

“Well at least now I don’t have to come up with witty conversation.”
/r/seduction18/10/21 05:25 AM
5

It comes from the misogynistic idea that a woman is devalued by sexual activity with multiple partners. Are YOU less valuable because you’ve had more partners? Your body count does not necessarily mean that you’re actually a better lover, nor a worse one. So why is a source of pride for you but a detriment for her? Do you think that you learned to be a better lover from your multiple partners but she did not? Do you base your valuation of a woman’s worth based on how other men value her? Or do y…
/r/seduction16/10/21 05:45 AM
1

You don’t know much about my attractiveness or the attractiveness of the men I’ve had sex with. Some of my worst lays were with some of the less attractive men. I’ll spare myself some back and forth. A fucking former friend said I was a 5. Some people seem to think I’m better looking than just average. No one thinks I’m gonna get cast as the romantic lead. So I legitimately don’t know where I am on this attractiveness scale. I once did a gig where I was supposed to be the “sexy spy” and one of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 07:15 AM
1

Yes, but the sex is shit. These guys want to get their numbers up, but do they give a shit about our pleasure while they are with us. Hell no. Because they don’t want to get with us again so why try to please us. No, for a lot of these guys the real intimacy is with other MEN, bonding over the game that is played on the bodies and minds of women. And we don’t even get an orgasm out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 07:12 AM
0

That has to do with perceived greater vulnerability of the homeless woman and possible aggressiveness of the homeless man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 07:06 AM
0

Oh also the “moving the goalposts” fallacy. You just aren’t logical and way too emotional and you have a male victimization agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:19 AM
2

You’ve made the assumption that warm and kind people are not also self serving. A warm and kind person who does not also serve themselves is a victim of some sort. It’s called having boundaries. By holding women to this standard you’ve set up a binary where they are either serving you or they are ruthless. I mean you either need to hold men to this same standard of serving their partner without reservations or being ruthless. Why are you trying to define all women anyway? Or all men? Or all peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 09:53 AM
1

So you start with an ad hominen Attack and then create a straw man argument, then continue with ad hominem attacks. You lack logic and reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 01:05 AM
1

Your argument is based on a flawed assumption. Men don’t attempt suicide at higher rates than women, they succeed at committing suicide at higher rates because of the more violent methods they use. I gave a flippant answer to your post. But men in general DO NOT have harder lives than women. They make more money. They are accorded more respect. Their material goods cost less and are higher in quality. Medicines are made their biology in mind. Their diseases and conditions are studied and discuss…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 10:33 PM
7

Wait, you think women are the ones who don’t analyze their emotions? I thought the trope was that women couldn’t stop analyzing conversations for hidden meaning? The idea that men are more logical is a fallacy. Men be out there committing suicide when they lose their job, killing their whole families when their wives leave them, or when they get a new mistress and want to start over. Y’all ain’t logical. Women be putting up with cheating because she knows she can’t afford to raise kids with what…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 08:19 PM
12

Ask the friend to give her your number and she can call if she’s interested
/r/seduction29/08/21 10:18 PM
6

I’m trying to figure out what OP IS offering these women. His frugality? He is not going to spend money for a nice date. He’s probably going to openly disapprove of her spending habits. He’s going to brag about the wealth he has in the bank that he won’t share with her. How is she supposed to know that she wants to stick around until OP is willing to raise his standard of living? OP is assuming he’s a worthy catch because of the money he has in the bank. Doesn’t that materialism make him just as…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:42 PM
2

THIS
/r/seduction19/08/21 10:20 PM
1

Also it sounds like a good event to bring a date to.
/r/seduction12/08/21 12:26 AM
2

Not when your own body is the target and field of play. But the game/intimacy/relating is between men.
/r/seduction31/07/21 05:30 PM
13

This doesn’t sound like a woman to me.
/r/seduction22/07/21 06:47 PM
1

If only sex weren’t so taboo you could study and train to improve your sex life. Oh wait, you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:24 AM
2

When she asked you, did you say “Yes”? It’s kind of funny, because you did it to us in writing too. You could try verbalizing that you’re having a great time and that you think she’s gorgeous and special.
/r/seduction18/07/21 05:36 AM
26

Ewwww A poor conversationalist. Not fun. An emotional cypher. Looks down on me. Manipulative. Just not that interested in me. Yeah.... sounds like a great time.
/r/seduction02/07/21 06:13 AM
2

I find it strange that no one’s mentioned part of the reason that the divorce rate is 50% is because of people who marry and divorce multiple times. Many of my parents friends are on their second Marriage. If we take 10 people who have divorced, we need to find another 10 married people whose first marriages are still intact to make 50 percent. But there are a lot of people who are on their second marriage. So those people have 2 marriages and 1 divorce ie, a 50% divorce rate in one person. Add …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:44 AM
1

Hmmm, watching Buzzfeed and other videos, the ones who didn’t fit the societal standard or were less “attractive” (bigger) actually had higher sexual partner counts. More 1-3 night stands then relationships.
/r/seduction26/06/21 02:11 AM
3

I do this with the security monitor at work. But I try to figure out their supposed “crimes”.
/r/seduction22/06/21 03:06 AM
0

This is a toxic viewpoint. And the reason why is because you’ve basically said “All men want what you want” and that seems to be get notches on your bedpost and boast about it to other men. Making sex a competition between you and other men with the playing field being women’s bodies and psyches. And that women are all the same waiting around like princesses trying to chose amongst our bevy of suitors. Men and women aren’t monoliths. You seem to revile women and that would make you repulsive to …
/r/seduction15/06/21 01:23 AM
3

Um, I like a cute or handsome face. I’ve dated a variety of body sizes but they all had pretty cute faces.
/r/seduction12/06/21 04:16 AM
4

Men lie about what they want all the time. They say they want relationships and then pressure the women they date into one-two night stands. They lie about cheating. They lie about being single when they’re not. They lie about wanting to perform cunnilingus. Etc
/r/seduction12/06/21 04:12 AM
8

Yes, don’t trust men’s words only trust their actions.
/r/seduction12/06/21 04:07 AM
7

We have DIFFERENT standards. And looks are one of those standards. But safety and personality can be even more important standards. Also muscles and dick size doesn’t equal being good in bed. And let me tell you, you go out with a guy, hook up, he doesn’t make you come leaves you sexually frustrated, you think “next time I’ll make sure I come first”, only to be blown off, because duh he’s a Fuqboi makes you feel like a loser who got played. No one likes that feeling. And all of you “doesn’t matt…
/r/seduction12/06/21 04:04 AM
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The problem with a man putting you on a pedestal is not that I would look down on HIM. It’s that you’re trying to have a relationship with someone who sees the real you. A man who puts you on a pedestal doesn’t see the real you. And doesn’t relate to the real you. He relates to his idealized version of you. So when you try to have a conversation, there will be a disconnect. Enough disconnects in conversation will lead to feeling a lack of connection in the relationship. She won’t experience it a…
/r/seduction11/06/21 10:25 PM
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I would say value in this context is being interested and interesting (though interesting is NOT as important as interested). Having both people walk away from the conversation feeling good about themselves and the other person.
/r/seduction06/06/21 02:21 AM
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