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I didn’t believe it at first, but after trying a bunch of other shit, cold approach has given me the best results by far
/r/seduction19/07/25 02:41 AM
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They may be wondering how you’re in that situation. Perhaps you live a life that puts you in situations to get approached. I’ve been approached quite a bit before but I think I intimate most women because i carry myself seriously when I’m busy. It’s easy when you have a social job or hobbies with women in it
/r/seduction05/06/25 08:25 PM
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Idk why this got downvoted, I guess guys don’t know how to read anymore
/r/seduction05/06/25 07:57 PM
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Honestly as crazy as it sounds, I use it with the girls I date. If they attach after sex and continue to deepen the relationship and interactions, then she’s there for a good reason. If not, she just wanted sex or something casual
/r/seduction29/05/25 04:21 PM
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This! I just started having success but man I fucked up ALOT to get here. I’d also add taking full ownership and accountability for your results helps a lot too. Instead of blaming women or the world, keep working on yourself and trying new things.
/r/seduction19/05/25 05:36 PM
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You’re trying too hard man. Do things for yourself not for women. Women don’t care nearly as much about looks as we do. It’s all about how you make them feel. Learn to take risks and be daring when you talk to them. It’s a numbers game, every girl that ghosts you is brining you a step closer to getting what you want. They’re honestly doing you a favor too, better they do that then waste your time, money, and energy. Also talk to them more face to face avoid online conversations as much as possib…
/r/seduction10/05/25 04:55 PM
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The emojis are hit or miss, it lightens the mood when I tease or first so it doesn’t seem too serious or mean.
/r/seduction12/04/25 12:58 AM
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Haha I talked to one of my friends and he says talking to them in a lustful way works for him. It seems like for every dude and or girl it works differently and results may vary. I’m not sure how having a structure would help. The plan and is quick, interesting, and to the point
/r/seduction11/04/25 11:06 PM
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Which you’re right, but the other issue is when I’m on person I can get attention and make conversation, but most of these girls aren’t attractive or interesting. My next venture is trying in the gym, since I’m in shape and can hold easy, simple conversations. Go on dates, everything seems fine, but then they disappear. Honestly when I go to any other city it’s not nearly this complicated but something about my hometown (Phx) these girls are annoying.
/r/seduction11/04/25 08:49 PM
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Here’s a few: Convo 1 Yes here’s another Me: You look Turkish Her: But I am Albanian Me: Even better, do Albanians drink?!🍷 Two days later Me: Where can I learn how to valle Her: What do you know about valle 😭😭 Convo 2 (She said something first) Her: Yo Me: How you doin Her: Tired hru Also tired hru 😂 why you tired lil mama (SHE DOESNT reply for two days) Me: Girl fell asleep 😂😴 Her: Yeasss Me: That’s too bad, I could’ve told you a story too 😂 why you so mean 🥺 Her: Hey Convo 3 You definitely ha…
/r/seduction11/04/25 08:45 PM
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Bro it’s like everything was starting to click, now I feel like a moron 😂
/r/seduction11/04/25 07:45 PM
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Look it isn’t that complicated, be yourself and don’t chase. The women that actively try and be in your life will be there because they like the real you and you didn’t have to do all this mumbo jumbo to get them. Quality over quantity, what’s the point of sleeping and being with a bunch of low quality women if it doesn’t help you grow and it has an expiration date? Plus it’s inefficient
/r/seduction20/03/25 05:57 AM
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Thank you, this stupid shit gets annoying when it’s all about changing yourself for a woman. That’s feminine as hell
/r/seduction20/03/25 05:55 AM
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Good points, thanks
/r/seduction08/03/25 11:03 PM
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This is fun
/r/seduction12/02/25 09:10 PM
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Learning from my mistakes. My next goal is to approach more women while out and about but most of the areas I are places I have a good rep. Not sure if I want to be known as the sleazy type there (Gym, pickleball group, BJJ, work).
/r/seduction06/02/25 08:32 AM
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I get dates, sometimes hookups. No relationship yet tho
/r/seduction06/02/25 08:15 AM
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I’m using the apps, warm approaching from Pickleball, and rare cold approaches when I shop. Before you scream at me about the apps I get plenty of matches, replies, and number from beautiful women I just feel like there are small details im missing to seal the deal
/r/seduction05/02/25 03:29 PM
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Basically I’m at a bit of an impasse where when I do something it works for some girls but doesn’t for others. I get confused on which factors lead to my failure and if I need to change my strategy or just accept what happened and move on.
/r/seduction05/02/25 03:27 PM
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I had a hard time understanding what you’re saying but from what I can tell it’s that I fucked up lol
/r/seduction05/02/25 03:23 PM
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Ya honestly I think I just send to boring of a first text. I’m able to get matches, replies, and then the numbers. Problem is I get a bunch of numbers and they go dry because I send an introductory text instead of an interesting one lol
/r/seduction05/02/25 04:00 AM
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Have fun with it, you only Live once
/r/seduction28/01/25 05:02 PM
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Start simple, don’t try to start at the finish line. Stop jacking off, get off your phone, go outside, make friends, etc. you can’t build confidence in anything if you’re never willing to be without it
/r/seduction28/01/25 04:29 PM
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I can tell by what you said that you don’t have enough self love for any of this. All these guys only got to where they were because they loved themselves and fucked up over and over and over. You can do anything if you’re willing to keep going no matter how many times you fail. No matter how much it hurts
/r/seduction28/01/25 04:22 PM
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As a man of faith, I still find it really hard because as a virgin I had this false sense of pride and I knew nothing about women. I choose not to, I got my life together first, but even in the church you have a bunch of reformed/current hoes and then church girls that think they’re perfect which makes them super judgmental. So ya the girls I want think I’m some kind of player piece of shit while the others just have sex with me. What’s a man to do in this weird ass world?
/r/seduction28/01/25 03:58 PM
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Other than the second girl, I did not want the other three girls to be hookups that was their choice. If they wanted they still have my info I don’t like hookups either
/r/seduction28/01/25 03:50 PM
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Well it’s not that I don’t care for them at all, I think it’s that they pass the bar enough for me to find them physically attractive and then knowing I’m in it for the experience I pursue sexual relations. Once I spend time with them or I have sex all the red flags and stuff I don’t like about them comes up. But before hand, whether it’s lust or me trying to complete a goal, I only focus on what I like about them. There’s nothing impressive about it I was a virgin until 23 trust me you’re not m…
/r/seduction28/01/25 03:48 PM
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Again with the cryptic messaging, what are you suggesting is this metaphorical wall I’m running into it’s annoying when people are vague for no reason?
/r/seduction28/01/25 03:45 PM
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Well for the fucking part I’ll admit I didn’t do very well with the first three, it’s hard when I only get one chance to figure out what they like. At least with my ex I had plenty of time to experiment and learn what she like. Helps that I actually liked her too. I can definitely do better on the picking part it’s just tough when all the girls think I’m a player from the jump and won’t give me a chance. Guess that just leaves me with being better in bed, idk how else to do that I stopped watchi…
/r/seduction28/01/25 08:28 AM
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Fuck as a 25 year old who used to want to be married I feel like I’m in the same boat as you
/r/seduction28/01/25 08:09 AM
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Scottsdale? I’ve lived here for a min and I don’t see it
/r/seduction28/01/25 02:41 AM
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Finally someone gets it, girls like to stalk and linger around, when they get your number they seem to disappear and flake more often but with ig they have public profiles most of the time so you can learn much more about you and the same vice versa
/r/seduction24/01/25 06:45 PM
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Tbh I don’t like them either but girls respond better to it for me idk why
/r/seduction22/01/25 06:36 PM
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Girls are mad reckless but I’ve done it a few times already and I always thought it was weird
/r/seduction22/01/25 05:10 PM
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That kind of just warrants another question about how to know when they’re the right ones.
/r/seduction22/01/25 01:12 PM
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Fair enough, I can do that thx
/r/seduction22/01/25 02:08 AM
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Brother you’re not hearing me if they leave they leave idgaf I’m just trying to gauge interest and see what I can get away with. Working on knowing when I’m putting in too much effort vs not enough you feel me?
/r/seduction22/01/25 02:02 AM
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Facts aight thx
/r/seduction22/01/25 01:59 AM
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By your logic I should just ignore them, but I like one of them. Not everybody just wants to hookup with everyone I want a rotation and potentially a LTR
/r/seduction22/01/25 01:43 AM
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I’ll try this
/r/seduction22/01/25 01:41 AM
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Aight but do I ghost them or just take long asf to text them? I text pretty quick so it works against me in these type of scenarios. Most of the time when they’re attracted it doesn’t make a difference how long I take
/r/seduction22/01/25 01:41 AM
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Doesn’t really answer my question but ok
/r/seduction22/01/25 01:40 AM
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You can be the best looking and richest dude in the world, but we all had to fail before succeeding. You put yourself first and don’t take women seriously, they are fickle. Learn how they talk, think, and react to you. Don’t be afraid of failure and rejection, it means you’re progressing closer to what you want.
/r/seduction31/12/24 09:37 PM
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Ya I ignored women until I got my life in a great spot. Now I’m in a great spot at 25, with little experience and many advances/opportunities missed because I had goals for success. Dating now just seems tiresome. I have my own place, 6 pack, 6 figures, 6 ft, great face, good communication. But still no bitches (that I like) 😂
/r/seduction20/11/24 12:02 AM
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This is so ingenious that it almost makes me mad I didnt know this when I was younger. Just makes too much sense
/r/seduction19/11/24 11:49 PM
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This is probably the only consistent thing about women that I’ve noticed
/r/seduction19/11/24 11:45 PM
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I see, are these things you learned from experience or just advice you’ve researched/received? Reason I ask is because I see conflicting advice on this sub quite a bit where have to make the girl know you want her, but also can’t be too passive at the same time
/r/seduction19/11/24 11:29 PM
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How do you have a tense and flirtatious vibe? It’s sounds contradictory
/r/seduction19/11/24 11:22 PM
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I have my own place and a very promising career. Got out of a breakup, took a lot of breaks. Had decent success on the apps and realized a majority of the girls on there are damaged and the area I’m in isn’t the best. But I’m happy being single and not focusing on dating. Depends what your goals are I guess
/r/seduction09/11/24 11:03 PM
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Same, except I wasn’t ever “young and dumb”. Just inexperienced, I put all of my focus into school and work and figured the dating thing would figure itself out
/r/seduction09/11/24 10:42 PM
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