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| 153 | LVM lining up for cheap, tacky, overpriced jewellery two days before Christmas. The comments are defending them. “bE gRaTeFuL” for the bare minimum? Nah.Women putting thought, effort, time, and money into buying gifts for their families + spouses and the husbands trying to claim that they were from "Us" or "We" (when they didn't do s***) is one of my pet peaves. Or, when they do get a gift, it is generic and uninspired and they can't even be arsed to wrap it properly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 06:40 PM |
| 18 | F.R.I.E.N.D.S. is one of the worst shows I've seenSomewhat unrelated, but one of my quirks is that I'm obsessed with Full House trivia, even though it aired before I was born and I think the show is so old fashioned, lol. Anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 04:48 PM |
| 42 | If he can’t pick up a box of tampons for you, he aint it!I always buy the cheap, bargain brand pads for myself, and my partner will buy me the name brand stuff when I ask him to get me some, lol. That's how I know he's the one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 07:59 PM |
| 3 | Care to share examples of HV behaviour from the men in your life?My husband washing my car and changing the windshield wipers and fluid for me 🥺 i mean, I could look it up but since he knows how to do it he just does it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 05:58 PM |
| 65 | What's happening in Afghanistan at the moment is absolutely terrifying. We can never take our freedoms for granted.Jesus. Imagine hating half the populace so intensly that you want to all but erase them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 04:18 PM |
| 39 | What's happening in Afghanistan at the moment is absolutely terrifying. We can never take our freedoms for granted.My heart breaks for Afghan women, especially the ones in Kabul who are modernized and have been able to lead a more peaceful, progressive life in the past two decades. Imagine having that ripped away from you in the span of days. Furthermore, if you look up pictures of Afghanistan, it is a beautiful country. One US solider commented on the disparity between the peaceful, beautiful landscape and the violence around him. Truly a shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 04:16 PM |
| 126 | Men admit to being sexually attracted to their 15 year old daughter’s UNDERAGE friends and gets THOUSANDS of upvotes. Honestly I think 99% of men are closet pedophiles and this is what most women with daughters will have to deal with.Ew. Have any of these people considered that maybe women are people? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 09:09 PM |
| 1256 | Men admit to being sexually attracted to their 15 year old daughter’s UNDERAGE friends and gets THOUSANDS of upvotes. Honestly I think 99% of men are closet pedophiles and this is what most women with daughters will have to deal with.On today's episode of "what object am I, a woman, today," I am a Ferrari car not intended for every day use. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 05:57 PM |
| 6 | Single fathers will date women for free child care. Don’t let a man dictate which car you buy because they don’t want their child in it. This woman needs to 🏃♀️Sounds to me like Thomas is jealous. On multiple levels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Women Are Very Familiar With 'Weaponized Incompetence,' And We Are 100% Over ItAnd when they do do the more day to day tasks, they aren't thorough enough. E.g., move the furniture against the wall to sweep, move objects on the counter to wipe the spot down, fold the towels correctly so you can fit more on the shelf and it looks neater, etc. So, you get frustrated, give up, and just do it yourself until you have a meltdown from having no spare time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 03:44 PM |
| 1 | The F*ck boy hotline. See? Men know what they’re doing."Stay toxic, king" 😂💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 03:42 PM |
| 5 | Yet another example of emotional abuse when girls under 20 get groomed and marry older men with significant age gaps. This husband threatens to cheat when he doesn’t get what he wants with his young wife. They have 2 kids…Uhhhh babe hate to break it to you but thats spousal rape. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 11:06 PM |
| 2 | One of the BEST feelings in the world is another human being anticipating your needs. I would even argue that someone else’s desire and ability to anticipate your needs is a hallmark of someone who deeply cares about you. And no, it is not the same as “mindreading”.I'm a little bit late to this, but on weekend mornings my husband wakes up before me and leaves me be. When I wake up, I usually text him something like "hi" or "awake" to let him know I'm up, but haven't gotten out of bed yet--usually I like to just scroll through my phone before getting completely up, to help me wake up. I'd say 90% of the time after I send that text, he does what he calls "cat and coffee," where he brings me coffee in one hand and carrying a cat to cuddle in the other. Becaus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Are the dates he offers for HIM? is he just having you tag along to his fav restaurant or to the movie he's been wanting to see?Fair enough--I totally get you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Are the dates he offers for HIM? is he just having you tag along to his fav restaurant or to the movie he's been wanting to see?I would have just called an Uber and left. The dude is an adult, he can take care of himself. Or, let his friends deal with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 03:21 PM |
| 12 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.She should break up with him and catch the next flight home, if she's able. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 01:33 PM |
| 49 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.Imagine hearing your love's stomach growl and not giving her food. Jesus. OP, please tell me the comments are saying he is the asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 01:37 AM |
| 6 | HVM will respect your time; LVM have no worries making you wait around for them because they have no respect for you.Another example of this is rushing you - rushing you out the door when you're trying to get ready for a function, walking ahead of you because he is frustrated with how long you're taking, etc. Borderline abusive. But then when it's reversed, they think it's perfectly ok if they take their damn time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 07:32 PM |
| 4 | She’s 19 and pregnant by a 28 y/o 🤡 The age gap strikes again! 🤢🤢🤢"Baby will cure any immaturity" You should have a baby because you want and can take care of a new child, not to fix some personal lacking. That's one way to raise a traumatized child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 02:15 PM |
| 34 | Billie Elish bf is 10 years older than her.NOOOO why did she straighten her hair?? I have a very similar texture and she always inspired me :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Honest discussion; let’s talk about the solitude that comes with being a HVWI had to cut a lot of friends out after reconnecting after the pandemic. Most of them due to being super boy crazy to the point of obsession or just being drama mamas. It's very lonely, but the vibes are immaculate sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 04:14 PM |
| 38 | Treat your natural self wellI got my eyelashes permed the other day (I know we are talking about embracing our natural features here, but bear with me + at least it isn't those 24 mm extensions) Anyway, that location hadn't done a lot of perms, as they were primarily known for extensions. So, the girl performing the service allowed the two other stylists to watch so they would know how to do it. While I was on the table, one of them was like, "Your hair and face is so pretty." cue silence Me: points to myself me? Her: um y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 03:08 PM |
| 5 | How do you dress at home when living with an SO? Do you feel pressured to dress for his “male gaze.” Does he complain or suggest things? Y’alls experience?I have very erm . . . Perky breasts. I had to start wearing a bra at home because my ex would constantly grab that area, pinch the tips, even after I told him to stop because if you do it too much, it's painful. He didn't listen and thought I was just over stating the pain. I'm very cold natured so I usually wear sweatshirts and leggings to chill at home. He would even grab them through the thick sweater material. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 08:23 PM |
| 11 | Underneath the mask is another mask, and under that is an abuser 😩"Dark humor" is a huge red flag. More like make inappropriate jokes and/or outright insult you and then gaslight you when you react badly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 08:44 PM |
| 15 | Summertime = thirst bucket seasonI also had the audacity to go for a walk in biker shorts and t-shirt, with no makeup and sunglasses on (not that it matters). Some guy (unsure of age) sat down on a spot i would HAVE to walk past to cross the street and continue my walk. It was some roadway railing by a bayou, not somewhere people normally sit, so clearly he had an agenda. And he just sits there, waiting for me like a creep. Unbeknownst to him, I have no problem stepping into the road to avoid that crosswalk. Hit by a car > hara… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Something I missed in my post about body positivity and obesity: a lot of disordered eating in women is a manifestation of trauma.Read Health at Every Size by Lindo Bacon and Your Body Is Not an Apology by Sonya Taylor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 04:28 PM |
| 6 | Ooops, it's my biological imperative to be attracted to fit, atheletic, good dick game menI was about to say, I think the whole look within and question thing is an artifact from a time when womens' best financial prospects were to marry a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 03:05 PM |
| 3 | How FDS changed how I view every day interactions with a partner.I was out for a walk the other day and I saw a couple with small children. The man was jogging ahead by about a couple meters and the woman was attempting to jog while pushing her small kids in a stroller. The dude also kept doing things that would be hard to do with a stroller, like jumping off curbs and what not. I eye rolled so hard -- like, help your wife, you jerk! At least take turns or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 07:13 PM |
| 7 | New Post Yesterday In Another Sub "Does watching porn/ looking at the naked photos women post to Reddit affect how you see or feel about your significant other?"Right? After hearing about it, I was like wow, thank you @ my body for getting sick. I would have hated it and probably would have verbally ripped her a new one in the streets when she wanted to go into the strip club, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 04:46 PM |
| 13 | New Post Yesterday In Another Sub "Does watching porn/ looking at the naked photos women post to Reddit affect how you see or feel about your significant other?"Yeah, I dunno. Don't ask me lol Context was it was in a larger group of friends. Girls and guys. Partying in NOLA for SIL's b-day. I was not able to come because I was sick but didn't want husband to miss out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 04:31 PM |
| 3 | No, you shouldn't do whatever you wantI love Billie, but no "choice" (e.g., plastic surgery, so called sex work) is made in a vacuum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 01:27 PM |
| 39 | New Post Yesterday In Another Sub "Does watching porn/ looking at the naked photos women post to Reddit affect how you see or feel about your significant other?"You wanna talk about a pickme? My SIL tried to convince my husband to go into a strip club with her when I wasn't there 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 01:24 PM |
| 8 | When I talk about FDS concepts with other women, I don't even acknowledge that what I am saying is controversial at all. I just act like it's normal.One of my friends has wasted 2 years of her life on a situationship. She was telling me about it and how he won't commit and I just looked her in the face and said "Really? I wouldn't put up with that s***. You should block him on everything." cue shock at the only logical answer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 01:19 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-inYes, it is really upsetting. Among other friends and family, coworkers, etc I am known to be personable but in front of them I just look miserable because who wants to be ignored and forgotten in a corner? Thanks for your advice ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-inHe isn't--we have had the conversation before. And he has never corrected them or said something like "Hey guys, let's speak in xyz language so Associate can join the conversation." :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Women who have experienced trauma, what have been some of your levelling up wins?Hi, im really sorry you experienced that. But I'm so proud of you, stranger, for trying to recover and manage that trauma ❤ sending you all the love and light. I don't really have a lot to offer that others have not -- therapy, yoga/meditation to strengthen your mind/body connection, plenty of self-care, and relentlessly enforcing boundaries. I hope you find more healing and love out there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 03:19 PM |
| 3 | As seen on a law school subreddit: "Accepted at every school I applied but waitlisted at the school in the same city as my husband. It’s an easy decision"Men, even husbands, can wake up one day and decide to leave you for whatever reason. Degrees, career experience that help you build a living, will never do that. I'm married as well and if it were me, I would have chosen to go. I love my husband but I have to love myself, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 01:25 PM |
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