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I mean ok but you are not describing the "chase". To chase means that you are going out of your way for someone that is toying with you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:07 PM
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No sorry I rather be with someone that actually wants me and is past teen brain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:07 AM
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I do not consider it a bad thing in the sense that I would not shame someone because most people have relatable reasons to feel like that. I on the other hand think that the whole "Men are desperate" chorus of the social media world ignores that most actually are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 10:34 PM
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That is why I did not say hook up but relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:52 PM
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Because dating sites are made of people that are basically either shopping for partners or acting as if others need to present them as "worthy" for their time, irl this thing is different and personality matters more. People will complain that looks matter so much yet are obsessed with profiles with perfect pictures and that do nothing but show only if you are attractive. It also completely removes the network of interactions that makes people meet, so often it ends up being 2 completely differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 08:51 PM
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Congrats, like most attractive people could
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:03 PM
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I am however inferring that YOU are the weird, creepy, desperate guy in the room I swear autism is the least of your issues I guess. Also you are lying, you use sarcasm but do not understand it? It used to be believable when people faked to be autistics, wtf is this mockery lol. Also you did exactly what I said, I guess you should also sharpen your reading, cya.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:44 PM
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Yeah I observed the exact same things
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:38 PM
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You assumed I was a bad person because I don't share the same view of the world as you. I won't responde anymore, you clearly stated your opinion about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:51 PM
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Thanks for the assumtpion made on reddit, luckily it just stops there and I have a lot of interactions with women as friend irl. You surely are not in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:29 PM
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Then we surround ourself with very different kinds of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:47 PM
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Man I said ok, I don't agree with you, at all. You ignored every simgle point I made and answered everything with basically "Nu uh" so I will ignore you now, you are wasting my time, bb. Just stay miserable, that is clearly ur wish and I won't stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:46 PM
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Online, I said here because I referred to this sub in some comments and in the post. But overall I eould say that sex is glorified when those that are getting it are not acting as if they won the lottery as most people make it out to be. That's while a lot of people say that it's a bit overrated, because people build up insane expectations of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:45 PM
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Meh you tranformed people I am not related to in money, OF in a bank and transaction for porn of a minority of men into an absolute
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:42 PM
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Ok mate
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:41 PM
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Yeah my point is more the fact that most women say most men just want to fuck them, nothing mor, and that here sex is a bit too glorified.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:40 PM
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It's also true that most men try less than most women to look decent. I see dudes going to dates with pokemon shirts and gym pants. Let's not act as if most men are even trying pls.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:39 PM
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Yeah lol, that's my whole fking point but this guy is way too dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:37 PM
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I did not say all things are fake, you said that to just have smth to stand on, your problem is that written conversations stay there unless you delete them, so you have nothing lol. Just read.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:36 PM
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I don't use dating sites, they are harbors for negative interactions, Idk why people still don't understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:35 PM
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No it did not, you saying that will noy remove the like 3-4 variables that YOU changed just to have a point of argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:34 PM
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So you are saying that any woman can do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:32 PM
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I agree, most people irl would be considered weirdos if they actually talked like most people on this sub, both men and women. Sometimes I believe this sub is a memes one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:53 AM
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I mean, this still does not address my point. Ok people with anonymity will say harsher things, but we are acting as if people online don't exaggerate. I see what you mean, but I think people blow things very out of proportions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:51 AM
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Are those people dating the women they are subscribed to? It's just porn dude, most people watch porn, does not mean you are DESPERATE. Also I got no clue but how much is a OF subscription? Is it THAT much to say they are desperate? Also it's funny how your comparison makes no sense at all. And all of this when OF jas around 300 millions male accounts with a lot of people having multiples, which dumbs down to not even 10 per cent of people, if you ignore again the fact some people have multiple.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:48 AM
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Ah yes cuz OF is reality, gonna say porn is reality next?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:37 AM
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No just stop acting as if y'all are god and are always right, that is my point. There is no need to overcomplicate somethings that dumbs down to "women cannot read minds" funnily enough you had to make a wall of text to try to prove otherwise ahahah, it's almost as if anyone trying to say women are humans as well bothers you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:37 PM
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Damn, thank you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:52 PM
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Women cannot tell most of the times, stop believing "feminine intuition" is a thing, it has a 99% miss rate it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:50 PM
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I feel like I am a moron if I have to chase someone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:44 PM
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The thing is that it actually is like that. It just got twisted because of like 2 famous individuals, but red pill was always about lookism, it's so funny to see people still think red pill are incels when most successful dudes in dating actively employ red pill strategies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 05:27 PM
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Because you keep presenting this issue to all men of the globe, whether they are bad or not, so after a while the good ones will try to help you, but apparently if what you say is true you just say straight up for vent? So basically never changing anything about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 05:23 PM
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Man you do not want to fall in the double standards hellhole. You will see how both sides are garbage and unfair with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 05:15 PM
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Men need to have higher standards. It's pathetic to see the kind of women some of us would date.The moment you apply any standard yourself you will see why women say "the bar is in hell". The bar is in fact in hell but for everyone. If you choose to keep catering to whiny people here you will end up dating women you don't even like. Lift your standards
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:24 PM
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Which is part of why I end up here, looking for a way to get a horse that generally hates me (and I don't even like sometimes) to drink. Admirable but in my opinion most do not care, you are an extreme exception
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:51 PM
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Again I understand what you mean but to make it short in my view most people tend to, in general, want others to care more about your(not saying you specifically but meaning an individual) problems that about theirs. Like, of course I don't want women to get killed and r*ped, but the average answer to someone venting as a man is "Hueee men are sad because people laugh at them, women are sad because they get killed" which is straight up bullying of those that have nothing to do with it. I cannot …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:10 PM
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No they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:31 PM
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The thing is that sometimes, at least in my opinion, it feels like people want their issues to be valued more than others'. The moment someone mentions men mental health almost every woman I find on reddit has a meltdown, so it gets pretty fucking hard to have empathy for those that do not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:19 PM
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I am talking about this post, I cannot pretend to know why you made this and who you are taking as "subject" of this. You did not talk of monsters in this post. It's not like I gotta reread your post history to deduce points you want to make. The next is a dude that answered to you in that post and I just straight up agree with him: Utter nonsense. The only time Jeremy Meeks is brought up is to counter the bluepill nonsense of blaming men's personality for why they can't get laid. It is the go-t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:09 PM
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How don't men have low standards? Just think about all the dudes paying on OF, or all the dudes that simp. It's so ingrained in our brain that a lot of men cannot even understand they SHOULD reject some women, that is literally low standards. It's a stats game to me, if a gender had FAIR standards the other would need to have them too because it balances out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:42 PM
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>So why would women need to bring up that attraction is mandatory for dating a guy? Never said it >So? Most people complain to people they’re not fucking about their dating life. Is that new to you? Because in my country of America, that’s normal. But then you don't like responses, the issue of the post is "looks matter, duh" but if a dude ever says it he is a redpilled mysoginist. >Not exactly. Are you aware of the definition of shallow? Definition: "Being shallow in dating means prioritizing s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:39 PM
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And an average feminist will get less, your point? Of the hot conservative ones I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:19 PM
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It's fine, you believing me does not matter. I am not red pilled, but if Blue pill claims how people don't say that "it s your personality" then I am not blue pilled either lol. You want all these proofs that you don't even believe anyways, why do I have to waste my time to prove to you that these phrases that are all over reddit, open r/amiugly and see for yourself. You CAN disagree with me, but proving to YOU, clearly you show you would not even believe it in the first place as you state, is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:17 PM
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Link the post or post a picture of some of the responses. Sorry but I want because it's a post with my face. You don't have to believe me, it's my experience and you can of course think otherwise. So what made them think women wouldnt have a baseline? Men don't think women don't have a baseline, but that they often complain about men to men that would not be an option in the first place. So what happened is that these guys didnt know the definition of shallow? Again, There’s a difference between…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:56 PM
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A lot of people says that, you telling me they don't does not remove my life experiences. Let's say IN MY EXPERIENCE, it's like that. You of course can have your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:51 PM
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Yeah it's just a rebranding of "men used to go to war". I'm not really surprised, it always goes back to the strict model for men. I honestly believe women don't want men to be freed from their role expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:50 PM
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It works for both men and women, I forgot to include that, what I am saying is that if I ask 10 guys and 10 women about what to improve on my looks(I had made a post on reddit) people will very often NOT do that, as if it's not helping if you say that. The problem is usually average looking guys wanting to be treated like theyre Chads. People want to be attractive, shocker Do men not find attraction to be a bare minimum importance to dating a woman? I believe men should have higher standards hon…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:37 PM
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I think they say that phrase because often women say that conservative and sexist men are not valuable dating options, yet the men that succeed the most in dating tend to be attractive conservatives. At least it's my opinion, also the whole idea of the phrase is that often people say stuff like "looks don't matter", "It's your personality" which clearly isn't when often attractive people can do whatever the fuck they want and still be considered at the top. It's just the usual "People say one th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:29 PM
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I agree, it's actually men that have pathetic low standards, I have no idea how people can ever believe the opposite. You will never see and average/under average men call themselves a 10. Never seen that in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:21 PM
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I agree with you but at the same time I don't think I have ever heard a woman tell a guy a practical advice that goes to "improve how you look" or "lower your standards because you are ugly", it's always either stuff about personality and being good. I honestly cannot blame people not seeing it your way, because there is the dishonesty at the base that for 99% of people just being a good person is not enough and looks are very much expected. Anytime a man makes a post on how looks are everything…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:19 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:37 AM
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And how are men supposed to solve your issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:07 AM
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Doing everything you state in the second paragraph, going to university on top of that, nothing happened still. And this is why a lot of dudes write here, no idea wtf we are doing wrong, given the fact most are doing all the right things
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:17 AM
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It means your son is not a loser, which me and a lot of other on here, are. Speaking your experience does not negate others's
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:12 AM
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It's insane mods will let you post Ai comments like this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:50 AM
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A little empathy goes a long way, not everything is an evil scheme against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:10 PM
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Wow this is rude and sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:09 PM
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Fron what I read on here some women do not like that tho. Why risk to annoy someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:50 PM
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Nah it's literally AI slop, hell nah
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 02:55 PM
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No, I rather know who I want to date. Throwing dices and bets on how a woman is and then being surprised when you don't know them is not really smart Imo. Also this stinks of AI but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:23 AM
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Man I think you really underestimate how much some men can put up a fake personality just to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:22 PM
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The thing is that OP is saying that women are not taking accountability in doing these choices, but he is wrong. A lot of women know they fked up. Some of these dudes are straight up predatory on women that are insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:20 PM
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I am just responding to what you said. You were talking as if you were surprised of how some men show how they can't handle criticism and associated it to something else. Do you think that men who explode over perceived criticism in one circumstance suddenly become different ppl in another? Either this happens or again you proved what I said before Excellent example of dodging criticism/excusing others dodging criticism, btw Ah you are ragebaiting ok, for a sec I thought you were serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 02:08 PM
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You do know you liar lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:44 PM
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I am not in my opinion, dismissing my whole comment as "this does not address my OP" is rude, but you do you do I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:28 PM
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Because what you say they act like and how it's in reality apparently is much different. You are always like this "how can he hold a job", "how can he be in a relationship" blah bla blah, maybe feminine intuition is not as good as you boast about lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:26 PM
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I just asked if you could be more specific, no need to be rude
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:24 PM
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Can you be mory specific? I think that most of the times dating advices are garbage because the person giving them is almost never honest. If people were truly honest, most critics would be much more physical. If you are ugly people should straight up tell yoi not to bother with attractive people, but WHO says that? Nobody, but we all know it's true. It's the usual fat friend fallacy where almost nobody prefers people fat but will call them beautiful/handsome when the reality oes not reflect tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 11:45 AM
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And the homophobia of the lady mod starts, not surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:41 AM
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Yeah you made a whole post about men to then write 1 line of how "not just men" but mainly saying that you see it mostly with men. Pathetic. Be an adult and grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:31 AM
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Yeah, she is acting as if she nailed men as a whole with this one, pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:00 AM
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Boring
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:41 AM
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Or let’s say a man is in a committed relationship. He cheats. He tells her. She is dismayed, disappointed, and feels disrespected. He tells her “you can’t handle the truth!” She is having a valid reaction to him revealing he’s disloyal and betrayed her trust. He’s the one that can’t handle that reality. That “truth.” This is such a forced statement and nobody takes someone cheating, goes to the cheated partner and says "you can't handle the truth" Also your first example is garbage, where are yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:35 AM
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This is sooooooo true lol. Even more if you are under 25, there is only like 1 type considered conventionally attractive. Like if you have a bad jaw and can't grow a good beard, it's literally byebye to being actually attractive like ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:00 PM
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I mean, I hoped it was not like that, honestly makes the idea of quitting dating the most viable thing for average dudes like me. It feels like a continuous compensation. Does it also mean women need men more than wanting them? It would explain why a lot of girls described being attracted to men as why "attraction is not a choice". Anyways thanks for commenting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:07 AM
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It's not very encouraging but thank you for your honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:04 AM
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So for the men that are considered by a majority cute, to reach that point for someone that starts out average is unattainable unless lucky?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 01:43 AM
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Yeah I can understand that, just is it like this also in the same age bracket? Like, maybe my standards are low, but I'd date almost 5 women out of 10, considering looks. From what I see is nowhere as close for women. Is there something a guy can do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 01:26 AM
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Yeah, I meant it in a way that to me(specifically me) it feels a bit like the same. Probably I am wrong. I agree on the fact that mid has a negatuve connotation to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 01:14 AM
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I interpret this as a yes, but it's fine. Thx for commenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 01:08 AM
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You can, nobody stops you from doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 01:05 AM
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I wonder if men's biology makes women (even the average one) super compelling to them, and they feel like not having that in return = they're ugly. And I could get why that would be confusing. Yeah it's exactly like this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 01:03 AM
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Nothing to do with what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 08:14 PM
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Genetics can completely annihilate your chances of being attractive if you are a man because 99% of men beauty is bone and hair Maybe 99% is too much but I am dead set on at least 80%
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 08:05 PM
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they’d appreciate it in men. 😂 😂 😂 They appreciate it in men they already liked, those that were unattractive to them do not get attractive all of a sudden, unless they are like obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 08:03 PM
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I have no clue mate, I was surprised as well and started questioning if I was not seeing things lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:57 PM
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OP showed 0 accountability, she has such a deep case of victim syndrome it's almost impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:37 AM
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OP has not admitted being at fault for anything in the post, I was not expecting much but holy XD.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:35 AM
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Yeah they should, but op is whining she has been forced to date them, and she hasn't, apart from the fact she is guillible and chose to listen to strangers and apparently she is saying her family is telling her to date ugly guys, that's why I think the post is fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:31 AM
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You cannot use the argument that men did not make me do that forcefully when society shames women and demonizes us saying we should give ugly/nice guys a chance Yes I can and the reason you don't want me to is because you don't want to admit you have been guillible to what others told you to do. Not everybody is as strong as I am. Then the average attractive woman I know is superman. Being a cat lady is infinitely better than being in a relationship with a guy you are not attracted to. I agree, …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:29 AM
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I dated men I wasn't attracted to because I had been brainwashed into thinking I was "shallow" otherwise. Do you care that much? Just date attractive people, you don't have to make a wall of text for that. If you are a normal, empathetic person, you feel an immense amount of guilt and shame when you have to force yourself to be intimate with someone Still you did that, men did not make you do that forcefully. I still deal with PTSD and flashbacks from the times I tried to force myself to kiss hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 12:25 AM
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Would you use this as an argument against your male friend if he ever complains about dating? If not, you made a point that does not change my premise. If yes, your male friend should find someone that cares about his problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 11:57 PM
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You have to use the >+ what you want to quote
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 08:24 PM
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Yeah, I also think that unless you have a member of the opposite sex close enought to you, not romantically, you will not get a clear view of the woes each sex has to go through when dating. Basically you are right, we cannot "fix" his view with words probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 08:23 PM
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99% of the times if you sympathize with both men and women in general you are catering to people that are either being unrealistic or hiddenly vapid. I agree on one thing, that most people that act like this, not only women, are excluding silently the majority of either men or women because of looks. Most people are not garbage and having that mentality in 2026 is corny, what is also corny tho is not admitting that dating is extremely shallow on a general level and that most people having this k…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 08:20 PM
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A lot of men are still trapped in the old script where sex and relationships are the main proof of masculine success. Ah yes we are such a**holes to want relationships. Only men that want to show it to others want relationships. How out of touch you have to be not to see that the vast majority of people, men and women included, do not want to be single? friendships, purpose, health, money, emotional competence As you stated above you would still dismiss these men because they want only a relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:46 PM
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That's the kind of negative association women have with objectification. I understand what you are trying to say but it's very much different in my opinion. It's not "oooh he thinks I'm sexy, score!" It's "he thinks I'm subhuman." Yeah but smth happens, like anything, even the smallest sliver of anything. I understand your point, that's why I said it's not good to say, that does not change the premise, that guys unless they are above average, do not get ANYTHING of this kind. Literally complete …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:44 PM
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I mean yeah ofc, it's good to be desired that way, surely better than not being desired by anyone at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:06 PM
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I don't have a partner, if I was desired by a partner I would be completely fine, but if you are single it gets rough when you are conventionally not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:05 PM
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Most people that try to phisically improve do it because of that, at least in my opinion. I don't know a single person that did not get benefits from being more attractive. I know people that are literally socially stunted but they got attractive and now they are "misterious".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 02:52 PM
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Men are constantly told they should improve by both men and women. Stop inventing narratives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 02:47 PM
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Ahahahahah ok, it's fine I know I am a better human that you, and this post shows. Be humble.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 02:46 PM
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I wanted to retract the conversation because seeing your other responses you are just an unreasonable person and not very smart at that. You responded, I responded, now either respond or don't, be humble.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 02:38 PM
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Men in general are not desired in any way, so I can understand pretty easily why they would want that. Sometimes y'all completely miss what completely invisible means it seems. The only men that I see as always desired are FAAAAR above average, all the others are just there like side characters in movies. Again not saying it's right, but something bad very often is better than absolute void. It gets tiring to keep hearing how most men are fugly and assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 02:35 PM
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Why his comment does not have meaning? Because he disagrees with you? Humble yourself, lol. The fucking nerve of you people. Also this whole post basically confirms the usuql view that women like only the top 10% of men but you needed to write 30 lines to say that. It's always holsrious to see you people try to spew sense in why you don't even see most men as humans, so funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 02:31 PM
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Yeah it's sad how much dudes nerf themselves by thinking always about women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:25 PM
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How tho? How can you be confident if women describe how to them most men are ugly and that men are trash? Unless you are attractive I don't see how somebody can "choose" to be confident? I don't count faking it as being confident, Idk if you mean that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:54 PM
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Honestly I believe that the only people that are allowed to do that are just attractive people. Never seen an average guy getying anything out of cold approaching. I'd say most of the times you'd get labelled as creepy. It's funny how you can't even try to date friends because then women say you just wanted to be friends with them for their bodies. Honestly knowing someone you got to know through friends seems like the only acceptable way for a guy. Honestly it feels like either you are a model …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:01 AM
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Because they want one? Why complicate it? Why people even want more money? Why do they want good food? At this point why want anything lol. Is it also that unethical to want to have sex? It always seems like y'all live in a different world because in this one people do shit they want to do and if they can't do something they want it rubs in a bad way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 09:58 AM
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How are you supposed not to be though? It's not a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 09:53 AM
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I see it as friendship premium. I am single and honestly most relationships look unbearable from outside.I'd say apart from that stability is the single most important thing. I grew up with my mother throwing tantrums at my father constantly and I rather be alone than that for sure, also vulnerability, if your partner has the need to look tough in front of you it means he does not trust you. The hobbies thing is very much real, unless you work 20 hrs a week or have insanely lucky schedules you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 09:49 AM
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I don't want to sound rude but honestly most men overrate how much they need a woman. We straight up don't need them like they don't need us, everyone should just focus on themselves and find someone they want to be with rather than need.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 09:37 AM
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The thing at this point is then, what is purple pill? Because if I follow this sub posts I am all 3 BP, RP and Purple pill based on the definition someone gives to blue pill which seems to have like 10 apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:23 AM
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But a lot of these things you state also about BP are criticized when a red pill person says them, minus the "suck your d*ck part" which is an extreme point of red pill. Most people in my life are just redpilled and can be considered easily feminist by a lot of women as well. Does that mean that in general the whole RP and BP stuff is social media bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:16 AM
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Which is an extremely red pilled belief, like the core of it. So? I am not saying you gotta be red pill now but honestly you seem like it? Then you gonna say money matter? Because then you are like 80% RP lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:12 AM
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"all you have to do to be successful in dating is be a good person and only personality" I am sorry but this phrase only tells me how disingenuous you are. Idk if it's on purpose but this sub is flooded with people saying this benevolent bs constantly, if you say you never see it I'll believe you are just lying. At this point tho I am wondering, what even is BP? Like it's always used as counterpart to red pill but most of the comment I am reading here make me believe most blue pill people are ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:11 AM
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I am not blue pill but refuse to call myself red pill because honestly even if it does not directly correlate with incels I feel like those that openly call themselves red pill are more prone to do this kind of stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 10:26 PM
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Yeah lol OP needs to find another word for men doing this because "venting" would make it valid lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 11:48 PM
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I would say that his social interactions are fundamental. How he treats any kind of people, if he acts as if he is superior. I believe that humbleness is much more telling than kindness. I don't want to sound incelly but from what I see often women have this attraction with the idea of a cool guy/bad boy, but often that type of person is completely self centered and the bad boy thing is just for him to put himself above others. Also it's really important that the person has as main goal their li…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 11:41 PM
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It's fine as you are not able to catch nuances anyways and think you are better than others, but instead of acting cool with ur I won't respond anymore I'll just block you, byebye
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 10:56 PM
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You sound like a bot honestly, all the gif spamming indicates that. Easiest report of my life lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:38 PM
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Yeah ignore her she is not in good faith, people that troll like that usually have 0 arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 04:37 PM
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No? Someone that is republican is not straight up misogynistic, this is such a reddit take honestly. Highly successful? What does highly successful even mean? If you get 1 relationship you are highly successful? I am sorry but it looks like you did not understand much of the whole conversation. Also it disproved nothing just because you are so closeted to the reddit bubble that you ignore real life people to be on a spectrum of ideology. If you think anyone republican= misogynist monster you are…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 10:12 AM
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I don't understand what you mean but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 10:09 AM
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Yeah lol someone commented "What about Charlie Kirk and republicans?" as if it's not a reddit opinion, given the fact that irl these people are doing fine lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 10:08 AM
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I am seeing a lot of women interact with men irl, again reddit is not a good representation of reality. What I think tho is that most people are shallow, when I say most I mean more than 90%, this is my opinion but it would explain a lot of stuff. When I say shallow I also mean in their "league", shallowness has degrees and hot people are not victims of shallow filtering, and that is very much obvious, I have no idea why it needs to be said when Basically everyone reports how it's like this in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 10:06 AM
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Hot people succeed the most, regardless of their "personality" Yeah I swear this goes with the honesty about standards. Looks are at an absolute level of importance to most and yeah even if you say "my bf/go is not attractive but I find them hot" it still is related to the fact you like how they look, and often let's be honest people that say this are not dating under average anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 10:03 AM
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? You cited a famous rich person, also I don't want to break your bubble but outside of reddit and the internet republicans are doing fine and most women don't even care if they are republican. You seem to forget Basically half of the adults are republican, maybe less for women specifically, but using this as an argument does not prove what you think it proves. Reddit is a bubble, it's astounding how different real life is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:54 AM
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I understand some views of blue pill, but I believe how much it ignores material factors is absurd when they clearly affect dating and life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:51 AM
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“misogynist” gets thrown around so loosely now that a man does not even have to hate women to get called one. I agree a lot on this, I feel like it has become one of those insults that completely lost the meaning and the word has 0 value nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:50 AM
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I do not agree but you are allowed to have your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:49 AM
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Probably because some women mistake that for confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:34 PM
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Then a lot of people are bad at wording because on this sub I find often people saying how "women like assholes"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:27 PM
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That has more to do with the woman that with him tho, this is what guys are not considering, they really don't want to be with someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:15 PM
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Yeah lol, how lucky😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:44 AM
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Men are really not that needy irl. In fact I'd say online space heavily underrate men in how little bs they take. In general online discourse is not real and irl people has some self respect most of the times. Also you need to stop acting as if women are the evil character in a cartoon ffs, everybody is currently struggling but you choose to create these fake ass mental scenarios. Just live life dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:44 AM
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Open relationships are often a meme in general, never seen a long lasting one and heard from my cousin about 1 when he was working abroad. A girl had a boyfriend but fell for her boss, so the open relationship lasted like 2 weeks until the first guy tried to do the same thing as the woman. It's just mental manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:41 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:38 AM
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Women will not date someone "they" find chopped, they will date someone they are attracted to who can be chopped. Every woman in a healthy relstionship are always on how they find their partner attractive and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:32 AM
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Yeah sure, but a lot of people don't accept that as being valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:26 AM
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We cannot read your mind, if you cut out the part that matters in your discourse to judge fairly it gets pretty hard to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:20 AM
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Because so he goes on. If he stays your friend and is unbothered he was not even into you that much in the first place. Being friends with people you'd like to date HURTS like a motherfucker and I'd not blame anyone for leaving after that. It's just masichism to say if you still have feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:18 AM
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That people put themselves in the friendzone, just leave if it's not your intent. Saying this as a guy but also is the same for women. What people really mean whenbthey say friendslzone is that they are being led on to stay between friend and partner so the object of the "unrequited love" cab benefit from premium friend+plus partner benefits. Honestly, 99% of the times I'd suggest the person to leave because it's just masochism at that point, either that or you did not really care that much in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:13 AM
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Fundamentally men and women are the same, but women have been told forever they are morally superior and it shows. When women talk about problems of men they refer mostly to those they deem dateable, which we know is a minority. Saying in dating, not irl, because harassment and catcalling is done by not really normal men so to speak. Rule of thumb, pay attention to what people do, not what they say. Performative liars are very common in dating, reality often reminds you this. There are studies o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:42 AM
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It's because average usually is not good, and honestly it's so bad that effort often does not elevate you on looks because it's just genetics. Just life being unfair as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:47 AM
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