Astrocytic Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Do you guys actually go on dates with girls?		Astrocytic	/r/seduction	24/04/15 07:32 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Dale Carnegie's Core Principles in "How To Win Friends and Influence People" are incredibly useful for everyday interactions with everyone. Try incorporating one of these each day. Please explain more	/r/seduction	16/02/16 04:42 PM
3	12 Action Oriented Tips That Will Instantly Raise Your Social Skills Serious. You do this non overtly to people randomly at a party in a natural way and you'll just be popular.	/r/seduction	16/01/16 12:02 AM
11	" Being jealous you give her the excuse to say “Well he already thinks I’m going to cheat so I might as well just do it and have fun.” But giving her an identity as a girl who you regard as having integrity, she suddenly has a lot more to lose." TylerRSD But girls will want to have their cake and eat it. They are never hesitating about breaking up.	/r/seduction	24/10/15 07:45 PM
2	Should I tell potential hookups/dates that I have depression? I remember reading that women really just don't want to hear about your problems. It's been true every time. Most of the time they can't handle it, it seems to me. Maybe this is because I'm an upbeat person during bad times and "realistic" during good.	/r/seduction	23/08/15 07:05 PM
2	Should I tell potential hookups/dates that I have depression? The point is it's always a negative thing to do. If he really wants whatever benefits will come from it he can go ahead, but it's better to avoid opening up like that.	/r/seduction	23/08/15 06:30 PM
3	All you kids out there under 18. Stop reading this subreddit and go out and play. OP seems to be arguing one huge strawman? It makes the point that what this whole subreddit is teaching fairness and trickery. If anything wouldn't the tricks and pick up be better for younger girls? I think it's the older amongst us that shouldn't be using the tricks. When I was sixteen I was using pickup lines on random girls and it was cute. I would go up behind girls and grind on them at homecoming and say stupid things as an opener to talk to girls. No way could I get away with that stuff t…	/r/seduction	29/07/15 09:44 PM
3	All you kids out there under 18. Stop reading this subreddit and go out and play. I'm an adult who agrees. The post is needlessly patronizing as well.	/r/seduction	29/07/15 09:37 PM
-2	How do you make clear that you don't want a serious relationship when you meet new girls? Tell them you just broke up with your ex, or some other excuse, and complain about relationships in general.	/r/seduction	19/06/15 04:43 PM
1	Being straightforward on Tinder Infidelity.	/r/seduction	15/06/15 04:11 AM
1	The Lazy Patient Man Guide into Getting Laid Constantly I thought it was a good article. Don't be creepy = act like a normal human being. The author has to start from some base assumption of knowledge, on how to not be creepy can be found elsewhere.	/r/seduction	15/06/15 04:08 AM
8	How to get out of the friend zone for sure I think this is kind of a bad advice. Women that are friends are golden opportunities for meeting more women. She just has to be a woman who has friends and isn't a total "I'm only friends with guys" type of girl.	/r/seduction	24/05/15 10:36 PM
0	5 Key Steps To Approaching Every Woman, Everywhere Doing it in a respectful way. Cold it's always going to be an uphill battle, albeit a less competitive one.	/r/seduction	20/05/15 12:50 AM
5	What are some good ways to Push and Pull? How do you know when you are doing too much of one and not enough of the other? I think the ultimate key to this is looking at the face and eyes constantly. You have to be interpreting reactions. For me this was something I didn't do because I, like many redditors spend lots of time not interacting with humans. I've found my own biggest disparity between intention vs outcome to be simply because I don't look at faces often enough. Looking for a reaction to what I've said had changed so much, but I'd always forget to do it.	/r/seduction	09/05/15 02:56 PM
0	Something that may help some of you guys - an epiphany of sorts. This doesn't help me very much if I've chosen to reject the idea of a god...	/r/seduction	02/05/15 10:05 PM
4	Approaching at the Gym? I disagree. I would just be respectful.	/r/seduction	25/04/15 02:01 PM
1	When you first meet on a date Touche, didn't mean to sound like a douche. But this is something I think doesn't matter as long as the connection is good. Personally I've gotten rejected from a kiss off the bat and it didn't even matter because I knew it was because the girl already thought I was being cocky.	/r/seduction	24/04/15 11:06 AM
2	When you first meet on a date Whatever you want man.	/r/seduction	24/04/15 07:33 AM
1	After how many dates do you bring up going Dutch or paying for yourself? Honestly splitting the bill has always been my default option. Although, this is because I truly espouse egalitarian values, and have no problem joking about a woman paying for ME so she can be empowered, etc. So maybe will work for you, I don't know.	/r/seduction	24/04/15 07:30 AM
2	Dealing with rejection...seriously this is getting old guys. I've been working on my reading comprehension a lot and everyone knows that writing and reading go hand and hand. It's really means a lot to know that my writing was worth something to another. :)	/r/seduction	17/04/15 08:58 PM
-2	How to approach girls in potentially unapproachable situations? I can guarantee I've lifted longer than you. I also have a degree in Exercise Science. Not so clever.	/r/seduction	17/04/15 04:31 PM
-2	How to approach girls in potentially unapproachable situations? That hardcore lifting mentality is kind of a fad tbh.	/r/seduction	17/04/15 03:51 PM
-1	How to approach girls in potentially unapproachable situations? Who cares	/r/seduction	17/04/15 11:06 AM
1	My(f20) girlfriend(f20) won't have sex with me anymore. How do I seduce her? I was in the exact same situation, cheated on mine and broke up, with her and told her. I stopped taking to her. I really felt horrible. I hate to say it but the "dread game" worked wonders. We have the craziest sex now. I think what happens is your accommodate to her needs and it becomes a snowball of unattractive behaviors to her. Women are turned on buy a guy who's selfish and knows how to get what he wants, it seems.	/r/seduction	16/04/15 02:16 PM
1	What would Seddit do: spicing up a relationship. Tell her to step up her game.	/r/seduction	15/04/15 07:57 PM
3	Dealing with rejection...seriously this is getting old guys. Thank you, I'm glad you enjoyed it :)	/r/seduction	15/04/15 04:59 PM
1	I'm not good with words, any tips for me? Read difficult things aloud. When you work on articulation of complex words from books, it helps out a lot. You're vocal instruments need to be practiced like any other instrument.	/r/seduction	15/04/15 02:50 PM
30	Dealing with rejection...seriously this is getting old guys. Most people have boring lives, interesting things are how you frames them. I basically only study and read every day, boring right? After a while I started to believe that because my friends were taking expensive vacation, getting great jobs, and after years when people would asked me what I've been up to I'd tell them the exact same as last time, reading, studying, and going to class. But later I realized hey, I also think about diseases and issues concerning life or death daily, and most of li…	/r/seduction	15/04/15 04:55 AM
18	Dealing with rejection...seriously this is getting old guys. With effort you can usually escalate quickly but the girl is always reciprocating in some way so there's always balance. Desperation is a continued effort without receiving any reciprocation. So this can be effort to talk to each other, make advances, etc. The area where this gets confusing is traditional gender roles vs more contemporary. For example, I'm currently talking to a girl who I can tell expects the guy to make all the decisions, efforts to go out, etc. So I'll call the shots, make th…	/r/seduction	15/04/15 04:34 AM
3	Every woman wants to feel attractive, sexy, and desired. Very few want to feel like a piece of meat! Wait why isn't catcalling acceptable? I think it's acceptable if females catcall me.	/r/seduction	14/04/15 03:02 PM
0	How I view looks and seduction No, confidence is intangible to YOU. For women attractiveness is a function of confidence.	/r/seduction	12/04/15 02:54 PM
1	Careless vs. Opinionated? Focus on whichever is more you, above all.	/r/seduction	11/04/15 08:20 PM
8	How I view looks and seduction Yes, but everyone has had a hookup they regret.	/r/seduction	11/04/15 08:18 PM
5	How I view looks and seduction I'm sorry, but these types of anecdotes are simply invalid, especially based off of the certainty with which they're reported. Girls can sense confidence. You may have just become more confident.	/r/seduction	11/04/15 08:15 PM
1	If you’re introverted, stay true to yourself You're taking what I said out of context. A level of anxiety that prevents you from meeting woman will also prevent you from being alone with them. That's why it's an issue.	/r/seduction	10/04/15 02:01 AM
-1	If you’re introverted, stay true to yourself Call the anxiety normal if you want, but every has to make quality first impressions in life and be decent on public speaking to get anywhere. Introversion is no excuse for such holes social skills.	/r/seduction	09/04/15 11:49 PM
1	If you’re introverted, stay true to yourself Negging is basically teasing.	/r/seduction	09/04/15 11:45 PM
6	If you’re introverted, stay true to yourself This is quite a pretentious post that caters to an introverted fear of social interaction. In this post there has been mostly criticisms of traditional methods, feigning superiority and righteousness. The OP had extracted many extreme versions of PUA concepts and attacked them, while offering little better of a tangible alternative. This post will make many feel better largely because it is deeply uncomfortable to admit to ourselves that we are in form way inadequate, and require improvement. I …	/r/seduction	09/04/15 11:36 PM
1	Is there any empirical/scientific evidence to prove PUA tactics work? Or is a lot of it psuedoscience? Some things will never be proven by science. I myself have a science degree and have become a bit more dumb in certain areas because I didn't realize that just because something has no empirical evidence, doesn't make it any less true.	/r/seduction	07/04/15 07:49 PM
4	Is it possible for a short guy to be alpha? Woman are attracted to the manly aura. It's created not by one trait, but a combination of many. From these manifests a aura-like sum of parts, which is much more powerful than the parts individually. Being tall is just a conspicuous mark of manliness, one that often occurs with other desirable traits. Similarly, shortness often accompanies a lack of confidence, and other traits undesirable to a woman. But women aren't analytical. They only know when they feel good or bad. Short men have a tende…	/r/seduction	24/03/15 02:27 PM
3	Cold approaching in bars/clubs? Compliment the outfit (if legitimately good) of an undesirable girl in the group. She'll be delighted and you'll basically be welcome into the group and be more important than any conversation that was going on prior because you're providing something so valuable to her. This allows you to get your foot in the door and just talk about other bullshit you'd normally talk about.	/r/seduction	18/03/15 03:15 PM