| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 49 | I hate myself for being effeminate | Inner Game | Astromythicist | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 08:42 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Escorts are the worst option for undesirable menNow you're just not making any sense... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 08:54 PM |
| – | Women who have traits that would be undersireable in men should not bear sonsNatural doesnt equal good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Escorts are the worst option for undesirable menThis is how guys view paying for a prostitute. Practicing how to fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Is being a virgin hard?So what's the solution? People with limited job experience have entry level jobs and programs. Whst are the virgins options? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 10:29 PM |
| – | Men who don't have sex equate having sex with self-worthTry going all your life without sex or love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Why is there a discrepancy in what men believe how women respond to men crying in relationships compared to what women believe how women respond?Hey they look like fun and nice people :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 04:10 PM |
| 2 | What causes women to not understand that they are being used by top tier men?Everyone tries to justifiy abuse by someone they desire... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Women, and society in general, do not give a flying fuck about your problems.Honestly, if life is about working and getting nothing in return, I'll just go and kill myself. | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 01:38 AM |
| 1 | How to get over lost time?What's so terrible about single moms? | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 11:54 PM |
| 1 | If you're a virgin, how do you juggle between the idea of just wanting "casual" sex (I.e. go from a first or second date right back to your place) with something more gradual?I don't want casual sex. Might as well get a sex worker. Less effort for a lay honestly. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Do bisexual men have a difficult time with women because of their orientation? Would you date a bisexual man? If not, why?Probably because they hate the extra competition. They hate when men can break womens oligopoly on sex 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Do you have any backup plans if your dating life collapses?You don't know that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 12:10 AM |
| 1 | What is the best route for autistic men to take in regards to dating?So act passively? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men?Still, it's really not commonplace, and would be very weird in most situations. From where in Scandinavia are you from btw? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men?Well, when you describe it like THAT, yeah that isn't uncommon. But that's not really uncommon anywhere honestly. Kissing and sitting on each other's laps? As a joke - maybe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men?Almost 23. Swedish btw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men?You're lying. That does absolutely not exist here. Or am I crazy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men?And hookers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 03:59 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill/SMP Singularity: If only you knew how bad things really werePffftt. Just fuck prostitutes and other men. That's my plan. Problem solved. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/21 12:57 AM |
| 1 | I hate myself for being effeminateYou do feel kinda sexy when you feel elegant :3 Though embrace how in your experience? Like sitting with our legs crossed (check) or wearing makeup? | /r/seduction | 21/11/21 01:53 AM |
| 1 | I hate myself for being effeminateI do lift. Got a barbell and weights. But I get what you mean. | /r/seduction | 21/11/21 01:41 AM |
| 1 | I hate myself for being effeminateI actually look old for my age. I'm stocky (working on that), bald and got a beard. It's more my personality. But those are comforting words. My look might give me an advantage in dating older girls (they wouldn't know I was younger), which would be neat. | /r/seduction | 20/11/21 04:30 PM |
| 1 | I hate myself for being effeminateYou're absolutely right. | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 09:10 PM |
| 1 | I hate myself for being effeminateOnce again thank you. Maybe you feel they compliment you in some way? | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 08:58 PM |
| 1 | I hate myself for being effeminateWhy hi there 😏 And thank you! | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 08:40 PM |
| 1 | I hate myself for being effeminateThank you :) | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 07:40 PM |
| 1 | I hate myself for being effeminateI agree. I do wish to balance these traits effortlessly. It's just hard to know how to tap into that uniqueness. | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 05:45 PM |
| 4 | I hate myself for being effeminateThank you! This was very informative :) | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 03:27 PM |
| 4 | I hate myself for being effeminateI've heard so much about the notion of the mission in a mans life. But could you explain what you mean by "mission" in more concrete terms? Like what would be examples of missions? Are they no more than goals for yourself? When does it become too banal to be a proper mission? Edit: typo | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 02:37 PM |
| 2 | I hate myself for being effeminateThank you. It means a lot. | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 11:48 AM |
| 2 | I hate myself for being effeminateThank you :) You are right. I need to figure out who I am and learn to love that person. | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 01:43 AM |
| 2 | I hate myself for being effeminateI've been considering martial arts! Unfortunately there's no center for that in my small town (like barely 6000 people. It sucks balls). There's a gym though, which is good :) Edit: typo | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 01:29 AM |
| 1 | I hate myself for being effeminateWhat would be a good strategy to accomplish this in your mind? | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 01:17 AM |
| 2 | I hate myself for being effeminateThe fuck is that? | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 01:07 AM |
| 1 | I hate myself for being effeminateThank you! You too!! 😚 | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 12:02 AM |
| 2 | I hate myself for being effeminateI know exactly what you mean. It's very hard for me to feels like I can be myself and at ease. Especially around people :/ I know women specifically don't like that. | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 11:57 PM |
| 1 | I hate myself for being effeminateI do work out though. Several times a week. I lift and recently started long distance running as well as daily stretching exercises. | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 11:43 PM |
| 4 | I hate myself for being effeminateThank you. I'll save this comment. I don't really wanna eliminate my femininity, but rather compliment it with a cultivated masculinity. But these concepts easily becomes so hard to grasp and articulate. So to realize this goal feels difficult. | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 11:41 PM |
| 2 | I hate myself for being effeminateYes I've been lifting since I was a teenager. Still, here I am. (I'm actually looking to get more lean rather than buff right now. It's what I find attractive in a man) | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 11:36 PM |
| 1 | I hate myself for being effeminateNot yet. It's been on my mind a lot though. | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 10:53 PM |
| 2 | I hate myself for being effeminateYeah. I do wish connect with my masculinity more. But I also feel like I'm naturally kinda effeminate, a kinda androgynous personality. So just feeling comfortable in my own skin would obviously ease my mind. | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 10:51 PM |
| 1 | I hate myself for being effeminateThank you :) Great advice | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 10:15 PM |
| 6 | I hate myself for being effeminateNo, she was pretty permissive when I was a kid, so passivity has become kind of a habit. At the same time my grit and courage is underdeveloped. I've never been sporty, so I wasn't pushed into playing sports. When I wanted to stop going, we did. But she also used to berate me for being introverted and liking cartoons and just not being a social butterfly. So I became kinda bullied for being autistic in my own home. The results? A pretty piss poor self-image. I've been thinking of therapy. Thank … | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 10:03 PM |
| 2 | I hate myself for being effeminateI probably give off gay vibes as well. Though I am bisexual, so it's understandable (and not awful, I guess). | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 09:48 PM |
| 1 | I hate myself for being effeminateThe crux is to find them :/... | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 09:29 PM |
| 4 | I hate myself for being effeminateThank you. As I've said, the post was probably as much venting as a cry for help. I really appreciate what you say. It's very comforting. Unlike the people you mentioned, I only have like one proper female friend. I seem to connect better with other guys. I get anxious around women very easily. So getting the anxiety under control should probably be my no. 1 priority (shocker. It pretty chronic and general as well - not fun). I'm also an aspie, yay 😋🔫. How was those effeminate guys? Were they st… | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem like to get the girl you want you have to ignore herI don't buy that's the case at all. | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t straight women like bisexual men?Double standard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 10:35 PM |
| 1 | If You Want Prostitution Illegal, What's Your Reason Behind ItWhat's the orange pill? I'm intrigued... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Cound there be a movement of sorts that contains the practical and common sense parts of the manosphere without the poisonous gender bashing (of women and men in different ways) and reductionism?From what I've seen, you always take the MGTOW's in defense. It was reasonable to assume. Sorry if I misrepresented you. Though my comment was more focused on the language you used. And I was talking about the MGTOW community, who always talks about women. Nothing wrong with that, but it gives off the same impression as a guy who keeps talking about his ex: You're clearly not over it. Once again, nothing wrong with that, but let's call a spade a spade. Edit: To answer his second question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Cound there be a movement of sorts that contains the practical and common sense parts of the manosphere without the poisonous gender bashing (of women and men in different ways) and reductionism?Hurrah! Some reason and sanity! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Cound there be a movement of sorts that contains the practical and common sense parts of the manosphere without the poisonous gender bashing (of women and men in different ways) and reductionism?No no no no no NO. Fuck off, I'll not let this slide. "Wanting" and "desiring" are synonymous words. You're twisting the logic of language to justify your own lifestyle and world view. You're not going your own way. You're depriving yourself of what you really want. That's why you people can't stop talking about women. You truly want to go your own way? Go full on mind over matter: Stop wanting women, stop desiring women. Anything else sounds like torture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Small penis and baldnessYou're never going to be an "alpha". Most people aren't and will never be "alphas". Don't try to be something you aren't. You aren't elite and will never be. Neither am I, nor will I ever be. Get off TRP. They're charlatans who essentially sell false pretences to ordinary guy of becoming part of the elite of attractive men. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 02:32 PM |
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