AstronautGuy2468 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	How to handle last minute promises when you've had the talk to leave?		AstronautGuy2468	/r/Divorce_Men	25/12/23 11:47 PM
3	How do I handle splitting equity in the house?		AstronautGuy2468	/r/Divorce_Men	25/10/23 04:53 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	It gets so much better Thank you. 🙏🏼	/r/Divorce_Men	20/01/24 01:09 PM
6	Too many of the online resources for men's emotional support seem to be red pilled garbage Haha. All good. It's Reddit. Thought my comment was reasonable. 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/24 06:03 PM
13	Too many of the online resources for men's emotional support seem to be red pilled garbage I've noticed this too! I now steer clear of any type of man or woman bashing content. Keep it simple. Discover your boundaries and learn to set them. Understand what makes you truly happy in a relationship. * Understand that you need to show up to a partner as well. * Enjoy your life, and if you find someone that fits the above criteria, then be open to sharing your life with them.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/24 03:54 PM
11	Severe doubts So you just equated being 5'6 as a loser? Bro come on! I'm 5'7 and know some women will just skip over me. I literally had a lady as I was walking up the stairs to her, say I was so handsome. When I reached her she commented I was short. I thanked her and walked away. There is so much more to you than height. You have money, education, intelligence, charm, humor, ability to make women feel loved and safe, ability to have great sex, ability to interact with kids, the way you smell/talk/laugh, you…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/24 03:50 AM
1	Sexual Incompability She values a lot of emotional connection, but just is not a person that values the physical stuff all that much. She also is working through how to authentically be herself. Took me a while to realize there's nothing wrong with that, but it just may not be for me.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/24 11:29 PM
1	Sexual Incompability She just thinks we are meant for each other, she still loves me, and said this was the eye opening she needed to see how badly she treated me. I think she can change some stuff but I doubt the compatibility things will change. She is who she is, and I am who I am. Plus, I no longer want her to change those things because that would be changing herself.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/24 11:26 PM
3	All these "Here's to another wonderful year together" posts. Yup. My separation is recent and extended family doesn't know. Only very close friends. So we got lots of well wishes. The worst was my mom saying how we make her so proud because we're so good together. (They don't see all the fighting!!!) 🤦🏻‍♂️	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/24 08:10 AM
3	How bad did your retirement accounts get a shellacking during your divorce? I've seen several questions like these. Does this mean that you guys don't automatically plan to split things 50/50?	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/24 06:18 AM
12	Sexual Incompability Similar story, only I'm married 20+ yrs and recently asked for separation. Our kids are teenagers now. For a long time I was made to believe that if I only do better, then sex will be a natural outcome. And even then I was specifically told it's not guaranteed. I made mistakes as a husband sure, but there were many times where I was fucking above average and there still was no real effort re sex. So I finally said that I had enough. That I need somebody to accept me fully. For the way I want to …	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/24 04:48 AM
1	How to handle last minute promises when you've had the talk to leave? Will attending counseling affect your separation status?	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/23 06:26 AM
2	How did your divorce progress? The divorce process took 14 months? On top of however long you were separated?	/r/Divorce_Men	29/12/23 04:14 PM
1	How to handle last minute promises when you've had the talk to leave? Really?. Ugh. It gets dropped so much for so long.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/12/23 05:25 PM
4	How to handle last minute promises when you've had the talk to leave? Well put. Thank you. We actually said that any new relationship (if we go that route) will still mean the old one is ending because we really can't keep repeating these bad patterns.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/12/23 12:25 AM
7	How to handle last minute promises when you've had the talk to leave? She's NEVER this apologetic and humble. It threw me. Part of me no longer wants her to do anything that's against her personality. (she's on the more argumentive and aggressive side of things) That seems like it will just delay divorce. But then again she's never agreed to anything like this before. Fuck.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/12/23 12:19 AM
3	Happy Holidays - Several Years Divorced Thanks for this post.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/12/23 11:55 PM
1	what do women gain from being in a relationship with men if they’re seen as valueless after 25? Agreed. BTW... This will be random, but I once put the phrase "red pill" on a social media profile simply because I liked the movie The Matrix. This was years ago. I didn't even realize this was a f****** movement. LOL	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/23 07:47 PM
1	How do I handle splitting equity in the house? Yup. Definitely seeing that after running the numbers. $3k rent easily where I am for a 3 bedroom. I pay that now for a big ass house. LOL good times	/r/Divorce_Men	07/11/23 06:35 PM
1	Good luck gentlemen Thoughts on my potential alimony if I make 210k and she makes 140k?	/r/Divorce_Men	25/10/23 05:42 AM
1	How do I handle splitting equity in the house? Ok but how does that affect custody? She buys me out and stays in the house with the kids ..... how/where would my parenting take place? Me coming over to the house a set number of days a month?	/r/Divorce_Men	25/10/23 05:10 AM
2	What You Said vs How She Reacted Mine has asked for space several times and I said knowing us that would end the marriage so we didn't do that. Lots of mutual divorce talk. She said if we did divorce, she expected we'd be friends after and she'd even help me find someone else. Like we'd be pals. I LOL'd and said there's no way she'll be that much in my life after this many years of verbal and emotional abuse. And she'd get the bare minimum interaction from me for the kids sake. She was upset and actually paused on some of the d…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/10/23 05:02 AM