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Please read the Wikipedia page on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:55 PM
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I don’t think you’re interpreting him quite right, but he is certainly an excellent read. Probably my favorite couple chapters in my undergrad philosophy class. FYI a lot of what you’re referencing with the higher man thing was actually a far right anti-Semitic family member editing his work at the end of his career because he had dementia and she was his caretaker if I recall correctly. Not all of it but she changed the meaning in some of his work on that topic quite a bit. I was taken aback re…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:46 PM
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Middle school me was a dumb ass what can I say lol. At least I’m improving.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 05:01 PM
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You’re absolutely correct. I started smoking when I was really still a kid, like 13/14, and tried quitting by late teens. Haven’t been successful until now. It’s a bitch to quit nobody should ever start.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:06 PM
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Lol I got suggested that sub from this one. Low key would rather eat glass than be a “submissive wife” or whatever it is they’re ranting about. Seems like an great way to get into an abusive relationship where your partner doesn’t see you as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:57 PM
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I quit smoking and started calorie counting and going to the gym. Not going to die of heart failure at 40 and feeling less shit already. 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:55 PM
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You don’t have to be obsessed to give too much of a fuck about something and it not be particularly beneficial. Stoicism is the way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:40 PM
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I didn’t say it wasn’t important, it’s just not the most important thing and it’s not something you should hang the entirety of your self worth on. Also more or less important to different people. Like having a successful career or going to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:34 PM
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I had this experience, too bad it absolutely destroys my hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:31 PM
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Not all there is in life, you should be content alone and not put all your happiness onto one person anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:29 PM
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Thank you for serving up that freshly tossed word salad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:58 PM
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There’s a ton of other sources for this if you do a Google search. https://amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/may/25/women-happier-without-children-or-a-spouse-happiness-expert https://www.elle.com.au/amp/health-fitness/single-women-happy-study-20582 The inverse has been found to be true of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:50 PM
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Alright
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:51 PM
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I feel like one of the pivotal issues, male or female, on this sub is the inability to understand and value solitude. The fear of being alone with ones thoughts and having no one else to offer attention or validation. But I do believe your assessment of single older women is completely anecdotal. Maybe the older single ladies I know tend to be a bit eccentric or be creatives, but not necessarily miserable. I don’t think you need a partner to make you happy if you’re not comfortable being alone w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:22 PM
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Sad for her. But I legit know some old ladies just vibin’ alone. Old dudes too, we had a family friend who was single his whole life and happy to just be rich and talk to people at a diner where he ate every day. Some people genuinely enjoy solitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:10 PM
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Wow, the level of vapidity and narcissism is off the charts. Who does this and brags on the internet about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 03:08 PM
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Yes, it’s a hospital management system, so it needs to be CRUD functional, have a database with several hundred or thousand entries, and there needs to be some backend work which I’m doing. God I wish grad level projects were that easy. Tbf it’s still pretty simple for the level we should be at.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:45 AM
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A bit off topic but we have two days to finish our group project for my masters class creating a database connected web app (purposefully the easiest one). My group member just emailed me a copy of one of the example projects code in literally a completely different language than what our app is in. He has claimed visual studio is still downloading for a week. Other girl can barely write a paragraph in English. We are absolutely fucked 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:27 AM
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No I mean if I get bangs they grow out fast and then I have to go back to the salon or no longer have bangs. Unless you’re referring to micro bangs then yeah most people can’t pull that off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:27 PM
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They grow out in like two weeks for me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:15 PM
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Idk about other women but generally I’ll offer to split the bill to be polite but with the understanding they’ll probably insist on paying anyways (but also with enough money for whatever I get). That’s what I was taught to do. If a dude brought it up before I offered it wouldn’t be bad but definitely a bit odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:30 PM
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It’s almost entirely deeply rooted issues that typically stem from trauma, brain injury, or extremely low self esteem when adults act like this. NPD, BPD, intellectual disability, sociopathy, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:02 PM
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What’s your degree in?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:07 PM
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God I absolutely hated when my family members and parents would do this to my little brother, even when he was like a toddler. I just said “what if he’s gay” and watched everyone lose their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:03 PM
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No, if anything you get bonus points for having less of a social media presence. I don’t think I could date someone with a large following and who was super into it, bit of a red flag but way of narcissism and being vapid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:00 PM
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The things your gf does still sound awful, like that’s super not as stimulating as software engineering and not even relatively comparable. No shade but I would be so bored and unfulfilled. I’m in a highly paid career and generally those women’s husbands make as much if not more. They could 100% stay home if they wanted. It’s fine that people want to do that and I’m happy you guys made it work, but no generally women don’t secretly desire to be stay at home moms and just lie about wanting their …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:55 AM
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I can’t imagine anything I could do household wise that wouldn’t be extremely dull and boring to me when my potential kids would be in school. Even if my husband was independently wealthy I might quit my day job but I’d still probably develop software because I genuinely enjoy the process of challenge and reward there. Almost all the other women in my department have kids, and so did all my female comp sci professors. Staying at home is not the norm anymore, and I’m not sure aspiring to do so is…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:52 AM
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The thing for me is unless my husband has 50-100k (depending on location) times every year I’m alive to give me it feels like a bad bet. If he’s every abusive or has health issues I’d be in a very bad situation, no? Double that concern if we have kids. Edit: This is even if I wouldn’t want to shoot myself sitting at home all day not challenging myself in any way, which I definitely would.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:14 AM
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Also not true for all of us
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:42 PM
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We don’t all have casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:50 PM
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I can’t speak for others, but definitely if I like someone’s personality they become attractive even if they’re kind of not. Like I can’t explain why I find Jack Black more attractive than Chris Hemsworth but he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:46 PM
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Coolness factor and humor and underestimated traits on here. Probably because social skills are arguably harder to gain than losing weight or blaming your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:40 PM
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No?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:36 PM
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I’ve never seen this personally
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:35 PM
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Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:59 PM
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I’m a software engineer in grad school and he works part time at a gas station. At first I said fine if you can’t contribute to finances just do housework but I ended up doing most of the meal planning, cooking and cleaning anyways. I’ve genuinely tried helping because I do like him as a person but I am at a loss at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:58 PM
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No, he’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:48 PM
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I’m thinking about breaking up with my bf of a year. He just has zero motivation and it is beginning to irritate me and make me not attracted to him anymore. Maybe I’m being too picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:45 PM
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The thing is I’m in like upper 13% of the population educationally and I make over double the average income in my town. There’s nothing wrong with dating up but understand that cuts the amount of acceptable men to a very small number for some women. Something this sub seems to be generally against.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:47 PM
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I don’t care, but 6’5” is a little insane to use as an argument. I dated a dude who was 6’4” and the only person he ever met who was taller had a brain tumor that caused it lol. It’s like 99.99th percentile.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:15 PM
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It is a laxative lol...when people say coffee/tea helps you lose weight that’s what they’re referring too. It’s the caffeine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:25 PM
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Why are you so attached to some men not being interested? That’s life, not everyone will be attracted to you. You just have to accept it and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:30 PM
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be hot ):
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:54 PM
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I just like the nature. Plus people don’t bother you and I don’t have to worry about my car/house getting broken into.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:51 PM
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Honestly I’m at the point in my life where idrc if I have another relationship if me and my boyfriend break up or if I have kids. I’m not unhappy being alone at all, it’s quiet, I make good money in a career I like and I have hobbies and friends. I’d still be out of the house doing stuff most of the time. If it happens it happens, if not I’m not really attached to the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:15 PM
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Humans aren’t made to function like that my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:04 PM
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I’m also a developer and in grad school and I think this is both a terrible idea and an unrealistic one. Talking to a computer is just not the same as understanding complex social situations in real life, I’m sorry. I can chat all day online with strangers and still fight social anxiety sometimes irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:35 AM
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18, I graduated from high school and my dad never let me move back in, mother had given up custody years prior.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 05:27 PM
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Okay but women still don’t work after decades of civil rights progress is just untrue. Given your post history I make way more money than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:15 PM
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Most women work?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:05 PM
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Can’t disagree there, but I wouldn’t hold my breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:15 PM
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Perhaps because people have certain places and times where they find things appropriate and inappropriate. Telling someone not to comment on a coworkers legs = likely positive response Telling a sex worker they’re a whore = likely negative response
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:48 PM
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Do you think maybe people just don’t respond as well to negative/critical comments in any situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:40 PM
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If you’re on Reddit and you have a place to stay on top of having an engineering degree then you are immensely privileged compared to the vast majority of the world. I don’t think it’s funny to be honest with you I myself lived in a hotel with no car for like an entire year during college. That shit sucked. But I pulled myself out of it. But there’s a difference between genuinely bad uncontrollable life circumstances and feeling too victimized to take any well intended career advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:37 PM
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Ok. Sorry you feel this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:02 PM
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Dude just passing is not enough, there is obviously a reason you’re not being hired with an engineering degree. If you’re not with it enough to figure that out then perhaps it’s not the field for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:52 PM
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Companies don’t want to take on the liability of a C student that they’re going to have to invest a bunch of money into training with and they don’t want to bet that you’re competency is going to improve through their training alone to get to the point where you’re rubber stamping bridges either. You should have learned something in school and with an internship before you sent in the application. Grinding should have started when you entered the engineering program, you had an immense privilege…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:45 PM
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Honestly man this is going to sound really cold but in engineering no, they don’t. I have access to critical information on our clients and the entirety of our software production, if I fuck up it’s going to cost them an unfathomable amount of money in addition to possible litigation. I also work 8+ hours in addition to getting my masters degree full time, it’s almost constant. I’d imagine the stakes are higher for other engineering fields, no company in their right mind is going to hire a civil…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:16 PM
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Hey there, I’m in a (kind of) engineering field. I don’t know what kind of field of engineering you’re in and how much they’re hiring but improving your resume, working on interviewing skills and technical assessments is critical when landing that first job. I hope you had internships, and depending on the field some kind of project too because that can be weighed heavily. I also hope you’re school was reputable and you had a good GPA. If you don’t have those things it can be harder, but not imp…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:38 PM
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This was a nice read given I got a comp sci degree haha. But professors aren’t always paid well either at least in the US, and I’d argue one should probably have a degree for that. They also supply a good amount of critical research for us and that’d be awful hard to do without extensive education.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:39 PM
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Do you think we could/should live without teachers and certain medical and natural science professions that don’t pay so well? Those aren’t exactly woman’s studies degrees. Edit: Tbf there’s already loan forgiveness for a lot of those areas, my moms a professor who’d never pay off her debt if it weren’t for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:26 PM
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Q4A I see this commonly discussed so I’ll ask directly. What’s your gender and what is the most attractive quality in a partner to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:17 PM
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Yes, I wouldn’t want to be with someone who for example fantasizes about kids and they’d be likely to offend IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:10 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:07 PM
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Do you think they should cap student loans at all? They’ve increased quite a bit over the years. Jw I don’t have a really a opinion I was a stem major and easily make my payments, plus I got free tuition through scholarship for a lot of my education.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:03 PM
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Are you referring to computer science engineering? We didn’t have that major at my college but I’d assume it’s more hardware focused as opposed to software. Otherwise I have no idea. As far as Yudkowsky I haven’t really read his work and my AI research was on VAEs and very technical, mostly calc. Probably very dull in comparison to his work. However, the research was for a university hospital system and I turned down a technical at TikTok because it’s essentially Chinese spyware and I like sleep…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:44 PM
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Lmao awfully bold of you to assume there’s any overlap between women who want tech bros who cheat and women who know how useful RSUs are for retirement
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:44 PM
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I’m a female full stack developer and I’d rather fork my eyeballs than date or marry you. Sorry if it was unclear.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:28 PM
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Hey I’m a swe myself. I’d rather stab my eyeballs with forks. Good luck though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:24 PM
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I’m not sure this is the kind of discrimination that makes one an asshole. You’re essentially taking on a liability in a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:40 PM
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If you subscribe to IQ it’d be below 100, whatever that is reference to yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:21 PM
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Not mentally disabled, noticeably below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:20 PM
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They would be on the bottom end of the bell curve. Probably won’t get a well paid job, would be less likely to take care of themselves physically, would be less sharp with financials, wouldn’t understand some higher level references.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:19 PM
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Q4A would you date someone significantly less intelligent than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:13 PM
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It really seems like the man may have some sort of cognitive damage due to fighting, especially when considering his writing. I almost feel bad for him. Not saying that was a correct claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:36 PM
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For me personally it’s a red flag because it means you either haven’t put in the effort to leave the house and make friends or people just don’t want to be around you, and if other people don’t want to be around you it’s usually for a good reason. Plus I’d be afraid that you’d want me to make up for your lack of social circle and it might be too much pressure to be the only person in your life aside from family.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:47 AM
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I was a computer science major and I know a total of zero other women who have graduated college with a STEM major and have gotten married that young. I know women who were married and in my program but only because they got married in their mid 20s and then went back in their 30s. But I’m also not a part of your culture so I can’t speak to that. To each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:42 AM
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Honestly man I’m not sure if you want a woman who’s thinking about kids that young. She’s a lot less likely to have a good career and the younger the parents the more likely a break up is. Meaning you’d be stuck with child support/alimony. Waiting until mid 20s-early 30s is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:36 AM
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No, there are people who have been together for like 60 years with no cheating. This mindset can’t be healthy for relationships though, not trusting your partner and feeling they’re hiding something. That can lead to wanting to control them. I’m sorry about your breakup I hope things get better for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:20 PM
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Okay. I’m sorry that’s been your experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:23 PM
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I’m a woman in my early 20’s. I’ve heard from peers that they think it’s a toxic space though. But I’m sure I’m not the only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:37 PM
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There’s no gender difference, yes cheaters should be dumped in the vast majority of situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:24 PM
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Dude, I’m genuinely trying to give you advice; This might be the reason you’re struggling with dating. Have a good day anyways, I hope things get better for you. Sending you good vibes (:
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:19 PM
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Being 300+ lbs doesn’t make someone conventionally unattractive? You don’t know the people I’m referring to haha. And idk I’ve also seen them turned down dates and break up with people that doesn’t seem super desperate to me. They’re just fun to be around and good conversationalists, that’s it. My advice to you is to be patient and lighten up a bit. Go to a live show, go to a house party, go on a camping trip with a group of friends over a long weekend, go play cards at a friends house. I wouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:10 PM
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I’m talking about male friends too. Edit: not all of them are average either, I’m honestly below average on attractiveness and some of my friends are too. You learn to make up for it with a coolness factor, intelligence, hobbies, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:58 PM
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I met my boyfriend on tinder but we also had mutual friends in our town so that helped. Usually it’s been online with someone who has mutual friends like that or through other friends with no online thing or at school/work. Hitting it off just means attraction and common interests. I haven’t had any issues with people not committing because I’m clear about that from the start, nor do I go on dates with people significantly above average attractiveness. For most of my friends this also applies, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:56 PM
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