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Or maybe he never did any of that and instead his ego crumpled upon realizing he was never going to make the NBA.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:31 AM
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You've described the modern womans predicament
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:33 AM
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Thanks for the non reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:43 PM
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They did not propose Secular Buddhism I question the efficacy of a philosphy that's constructed by secularizing a spiritual tradition Many altruistic individuals have meaning within their lives, but altruism does not itself provide meaning Contrived meaning is just that, a contrivance. Nihilistic Altruism is ultimately bereft of Divine Meaning; Divine Meaning was dislodged from modern mans inner world, and no amount of modern meaning can fill that void. "You know always in your heart that you ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:12 PM
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Your entire post hinges on the idea that men lack meaning in their lives; why then have you chosen to exclude God, arguably the greatest source of meaning throughout human history, from possible solutions? Edit: also, what exactly do you think Buddhism even is? You say we should adopt something like it, but don't elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 11:41 AM
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No they don't; if you think everyone online is within your friend group the entire world might as well be in your friend group.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 05:42 AM
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Yes, provided that her and my friend never developed a relationship, I wouldn't jeopardize a friendship like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:41 AM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:58 AM
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Yes, sex is a common expectation within the bounds of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:53 AM
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Sure, but posting them to social media is not sharing them within your friend group, big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:37 AM
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Also, why are women so inclined to screenshot and share text messages when a guy hits on her in the DMs? Because they like attention, and they like other people knowing that they've gotten attention. Most of the time these screenshots aren't even funny, it's just some dude shooting his shot. Like yeah, if you do some clown shit you're gonna get screenshotted, but most guys aren't doing clown shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:15 AM
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I don't think romantic "love" is real love; I think Love is a choice, and it's a choice you make everytime you interact with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:07 AM
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Profile pic, which they technically dont have.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 12:14 AM
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I live in the midwest, I'm pasty white, have blue eyes, and a thick 🍆🍆🍆🍆; be warned 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:33 PM
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I don't like them. I love art, I own numerous(too many really) art books, have many paintings hung, I've spent plenty of money collecting art prints, and I'd say I have a fairly eclectic taste; but I've never understood putting ink in your body because "I just love art". I think most people do it because it's still seen as cool, in twenty years I have a feeling kids will be seeing all the adults walking around with tats thinking "why would I want tattoos, all the old people have them"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:29 PM
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No need to get weird with it bruv
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:22 PM
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Yes, learning an instrument is a very enriching activity. I think everyone should have at least one truly enriching hobby in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:20 PM
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😡💢💢💢💢
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:10 PM
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🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:05 PM
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😜👍
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:04 PM
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Not even close, but clealry I touched a nerve 😜😜😜
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:01 PM
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AHHHHHHHHHHHHH YOU MAD 😜😜😜😜😜😜
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:00 PM
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No, if you need a watered down version of a statement I made I can provide one at your request, but please refrain from putting words in my mouth. "If these women are incapable of clarifying a relationship they probably wouldn't have been a good partner to begin with" Is simply saying "ask questions" people who do not ask questions are not fun to speak with let alone be in a relationship with. How can a relationship meaningfully progress without dialogue? How can one enter into a relationship im…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:32 PM
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Let me guess; recent convert trad cath, has skimmed marcus aurelius, and listens to too many podcasts he doesn't understand. Yeah, you're probably like 19 or so, don't worry lil bro you'll broaden your horizons some day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:15 PM
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Your logic is terrible. Probably because I didn't make a comment derived from a series of logical deductions and rather made an assertion about the inherent nature of man. You are retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:12 PM
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I have no idea who you're arguing against, but I don't think it's me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:06 PM
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Get into rehab for your obvious crippling porn addiction m8.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:04 PM
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This entire sub is centered around the misconception that men are doing all of the heavy lifting in relationships, that men plan everything and that women are gold diggers when they expect and want men to pay for things. Tell me you haven't read this sub any % speedrun champ!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:59 PM
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I got hit with the "contentless rhetoric" when I called an obvious bait post bait. If you're going to let trolls spam the sub at least let us call out their disingenuous behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:54 PM
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What? What kind of weird Gooner fantasy is that lmao. Touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:51 PM
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I must be the exception to the rule I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:48 PM
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She's not worth your time, she's either a teenager, mentally stunted, or a troll; I really don't see any other explanations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:19 PM
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Ok, so don't kids then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:10 PM
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Ok, so women are just unable to make decisions, and men are always manipulative pieces of shit. Good take.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:04 PM
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Feel free to read through my profile and point out where I've made any such complaints. Anyways, I've fairly recently discovered that I'm not a big fan of sex; nor was sex ever much of a concern for me even when I was attempting to date. About the only reason I ever cared about sex was losing my virginity, and even then I wasn't pinning away in anticipation, I just wanted to get it over with really. I've had women withhold sex, it didn't bother me, what bothered me was the lack of clarity about …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:58 AM
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What's there to rebutt? What points did you even make? Your entire post is just "one guy said this, and another commented this, etc..." what am I meant to meaningfully engage with here? Sprinkling some hyperbolic statements in with your entirely random anecdotes doesn't mean you've made any points, it's just you claiming random shit without any reasoning behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:37 AM
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This is just bait, all the women do here is bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:22 AM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:18 AM
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I've also been called retarded on this subreddit, so I figured its fair game.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:18 AM
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Gonna be real, I think you're just straight up retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:43 AM
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They’re more likely to actually want commitment. I think you guys are ignoring that part on purpose. This isn't even true Even if it was true that doesn't negate the existence of young men who do want relationships If no young men wanted relationships then women would just be waiting anyways, and not only would they be waiting they would be waiting for AVERAGE men, because not every man can be "high value".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:42 AM
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So people should just wait until they're 30 then start dating? Is that what you're advocating for? The real question is “Has she progressed more than him?” So basically you're just saying men always need to be on the same level or better than their female counterpart. Also, like I said, men are fair less committal. Why women think theyre in a real relationship, guys are less likely to think so. A survey showed this. Getting strung along by some himbo is not the tragedy you think it is lol. If th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:29 AM
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I like how women just assume that they're default more mature, more capable, or better versed in the intricacies of a relationship. When I was dating, the women I dated were also works in progress, they were not perfect beings who had their shit all together, they were also young adults and people in their early to mid 20's learning to navigate life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:14 AM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 09:22 AM
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This sounds like the solution a child who has never experienced acute emotion would offer up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:34 AM
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Emotions are not stupid, they're an integral part of the human condition. If you can ignore your emotions you are an aberration. You offering up one off instances of an emotion is not at all representative of what the emotional life of a human being is like. Am I supposed to ignore my depression? Am I supposed to ignore a panic attack? Am I supposed to ignore suicidal ideation? I've attempted to rationalize my way out of all of these, it doesn't work, it will never work. Emotions aren't rational…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:01 AM
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The psyche is not rational; just because you intellectually understand something to be true does not mean you can emotionally process it. If you can turn off your emotions you are an aberration. Most people cannot do that, and most people includes men. Choosing not to discuss, or to straight up ignore, your emotions does not mean they cease to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:45 AM
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I'm a man who's found therapy benifitial; there are certain things that I will Never(!) discuss with family or friends, but that I feel I still need to have input on or just plain need to talk about with another person. The most acute(and long lasting) period of mental health crisis I've experienced began when I was at my peak physical fitness(running 2-3 miles 4-5 days a week). I was not lacking in physical activity, in fact I was likely more active than the solid majority of Americans, but tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:24 AM
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"Why do the women who say they dont want sex outside of a relationship not capitulate to my desires?" You're just straight up dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:39 AM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 08:04 PM
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Online gaming is a hostile environment for everyone involved, if it bothers them they should play other games.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 08:00 PM
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Not on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:58 PM
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You clearly don't know what the word "rhetoric" means. You're arguing over a fundamental worldview, you're never going to agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:16 PM
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I don't disdain friends, I just like alone time, and I value deeper connections which I don't feel I could maintain with more people. I likely have a narrower definition of a friend than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:10 PM
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Just gonna roll my eyes at this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:40 PM
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I think it's just that there was community, not that guys did more than they do now in the same situations. It's just that social situations are few and far between if you don't maintain a large social circle, in the past you sort of default had a wide social circle, even into adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:31 PM
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Stereotypes are bound to exist I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:28 PM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:27 PM
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Define interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:25 PM
9

Right, but that's not everyone who plays games.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:20 PM
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Why do women hate gaming so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:15 PM
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Who said I don't like people?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:03 PM
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Not so much now, but I have been known to do so in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:56 PM
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I do not want to be socially successful, I couldn't handle having more than 5 actual friends; not everyone is, or needs to be, a social butterfly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:10 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 11:43 PM
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I have had the smex before 😎 and yes my pokemon cards are pretty rad!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:16 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:26 PM
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Yeah, I'm learning this myself. Beyond basic social decency your comfort is not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:23 PM
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Ok? Why do I care? I'm still gonna make jokes. People make jokes about murder, I'm sure people who've had family members murdered don't appreciate such jokes. People make jokes about overdosing on drugs, I'm sure people who have overdosed, or have loved ones who have, don't neccesarily appreciate such jokes. Dark humor exists, get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:12 PM
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Lol, u mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:04 PM
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The scientific term is "Forced Copulation", it is a behaviour observed throughout a wide variety of animal species.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 04:34 PM
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What the hell are you even talking about bruh? Bro never made an analogy????
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 04:12 PM
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This is what's frustrating about this sub though, everyone default assumes you have astronomical standards because of a few comments other users made. I've had multiple people tell me I could do better in terms of looks when I showed them a picture of a woman I took on a date. The majority of the women I've dated have been some degree of overweight. I've tried dating single moms. If my standards dropped much lower I'd be dating hard drug addicts, prostitutes, super morbidly obese women, and unfo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 04:07 PM
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Women do be complaining when a man takes sexual selection into his own hands. They start threatening unnatural things like police and prison!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:45 PM
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You're unironically outraged at a piece of outrage content, you are not as bright as you might assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:31 PM
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This post is irrelevant, immature, naive, and lacks any type of nuance. Ironically I find those who insist on yapping about "media literacy" are the ones who have the least insightful things to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:28 PM
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Your tortured logic is not proof that your post is relevant(which it's not lol).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:17 PM
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This is such a horrible idea on so many levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 09:55 AM
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Implicitly being rejected and explicitly being rejected are technically the same thing, but explicit rejection is widely considered more negative(by a large margin). You can argue against that if you want, but you'll not convince me this isnt how its viewed socially. With implicit rejection no one is making themselves vulnerable, no one is taking a risk; implicit rejection is assumed until the subject is broached, you will implicitly reject 99.9999999999999999999999999999% of the people you meet…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:05 AM
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You're correct, you have control over who you approach, but you'll never have foresight into whether they'll reject you or not, so it ends up feeling like you have no control at all. It just feels like the balls never in your court, you can only be the subject of rejection, not the rejector. Obviously I'm silently rejecting all the women I don't pursue romantically, yet no one really views that as rejection because the proposition was never put forth by either party. When you're the one expected…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:48 AM
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The only person I know of who's ever vacationed in Spain is Ernest Hemingway, and he certainly didn't go there for dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:20 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:56 PM
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Now you're just inventing tropes lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:53 PM
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I don't live in the southwestern U.S., but where I'm at they're still quite common; yet I've never heard a woman state she preferred them, not even online(obviously until just now lol) If you're into Latinos then good for you, but I have no real reason to believe it's a common preference given how forthright women in my life have been about what they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:44 PM
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You should really avoid pop history books, they're rarely if ever actually insightful or in any way edifying. I've never heard a woman state that she preffered dating Latinos(men on the other hand I have heard make such comments).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:48 AM
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-Autistic - which lead to failing various shit tests I had no idea were even taking place. -Socially anxious and depressed - women find these traits repulsive in men even if they struggle with them themselves. -Not particularly masculine - I'm not an effeminate man, but I'm also far from a masculine man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 03:29 AM
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Maybe you live in a soulless city where the only culture is corporate status culture, but where I live there is still a culture predominated by family. Yes, modern american culture has a very capitalistic element, but in middle america there is still a primary emphasis on family with a diminished, but still present, sense of real community. If you want to be a pessimist and claim that the majority of americans are predominantly wrapped up in corporate status culture, then go ahead; but that's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 06:15 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:43 PM
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No, you're talking about casual sexual encounters like they aren't sometimes(if not the majority of times) simple means to satisfy a desire. I can eat food to satisfy my hunger, I can also eat food for pure pleasure, or I can do both simultaneously. Likewise you can engage in sex to satisfy your sexual urges, you can do so for an emotional connection, or you can do both simultaneously. Of course its difficult to eat without some level of pleasure, or have sex without some level of emotional conn…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:41 PM
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I'm kind of questioning whether you have a sex drive at all tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:40 PM
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I feel like the quality of op's has been very poor lately. Most of them use some variation of the phrase "I see comments here saying X", but "X" is almost never an opinion or idea that I see floated on the regular. Usually "X" is an uncharitable and hyperbolic portrayal of a one off comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:35 PM
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The amount of female pedophilia cases coming out of the woodworks lately is startling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:31 PM
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Freud, and most other notable psychoanalysts such as Jung or Adler, largely based their theories on cases they directly worked with or had detailed descriptions of. Whether you agree with their conclusions or not they didn't whole cloth make things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:30 PM
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Imma be real with you dawg, I doubt many people engaging in casual sex on the regular are doing it because it's an intimate moment in the emotional context of the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:24 PM
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Not a woman, but the answer is probably no for most women. Theres definitely a subsection of women who do care a significant amount about your bank account, but you shouldn't go after those women if you value your emotional health.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:18 PM
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Ok, make a new term for it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:12 PM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:08 PM
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I'm talking specifically about pits and bush here, I should've been more clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:07 PM
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Perhaps I read it incorrectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:06 PM
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Rare to find a quality comment in this sub, most everyone here seems to have a major agenda and a serious lack of empathy; thanks for providing some much needed sanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:04 PM
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I think it's up to society now to remove the expectation that "if you don't have a relationship/marriage, you are a loser" because that's an outdated expectation. I've come to the same conclusion. For me, frustration with dating never stemmed from a lack of sex; of course I wanted to have sex, but what I really wanted was a relationship. I was never jealous of the "Chad's" for their ability to get casual sex, I was jealous because they had the capacity to enter into long term relationships whene…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:00 PM
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I think most men would agree that body hair is not attractive on a woman, especially armpit hair. It's considered a fetish for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:42 PM
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Men lust after the top 20% of women, but they also lust after the top 70-80% of women in general. Only the bottom percentile of women are lacking for attention. Men typically don't price themselves out of the dating market like some(emphasis) women do. I feel bad for whatever poor soul marries you because clealry you don't view men as human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:41 PM
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"The demand for one specific archetype is so predominat that it out competes every other archetype, but the market is full of a diverse selection!" I agree with your general point, but that was a horrible example lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:30 PM
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they are here to dunk on incels or tell everyone how much they think the “moids” suck. Their lives must be fairly empty. It's one thing to stumble upon a post dunking on incels, but to seek them out??? Who does that? Why does anyone care?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 06:49 AM
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You come to a subreddit that is full of social rejects to attention whore, you probably have severe image issues and are likely immature for your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:51 AM
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True true, a former female friend once told me "get on tinder , get you some attention", all I told her was "that's not how tinder works for most men". Mind you this is a woman who was morbidly obese, covered in genuinely shitty tattoos(very visible ones I might add), and a face that is just not very attractive. She showed me her tinder, had 50+ matches and 99+ potential matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:48 AM
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Thanks for making it clear exactly what type of person you are, and helping me avoid engaging with you in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 11:40 AM
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Maybe you're correct, I'm just not convinced it would make that much of a difference. To each his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 11:37 AM
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I assume you meant cleanliness? Most people meet a baseline level of hygiene that any further improvements to would be inconsequential. Most men in their 20's and even 30's are not balding. Unless you have particularly grotesque nails or teeth no one really cares. Wardrobe is definitely something that can have an effect on how others perceive you, but most people don't care how stylish you look as long as you're not slovenly or dressed very anachronisticly. Already said healthy weight. Getting r…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 10:32 AM
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Most men are not misogynistic. Most women are not misandrist. Most people are not walking fountains of hate that project their rage at other people, much less people they're trying to court.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 07:43 AM
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I'm sure statistically there are more men than women who are actively looking for casual sex, but on the whole I think most people (men and women) are just looking for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 07:20 AM
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And if you've tried for years and found no one you're compatible with would it not seem like it's harder for you than for most other people? It could just be that for a certain subsection of men, even if they're relatively normal, it's difficult to find someone they're compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 05:38 AM
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It's mostly men who complain about feeling lonely? I'm not saying women can't be lonely, or that there aren't women who are incredibly lonely, but I would be willing to bet that the majority of people who are genuinely very lonely are men. It's like the difference between being depressed and being severely depressed. I've been both, and I can tell you being severely depressed is qualitatively much different from being mildly depressed. Also, I don't feel like it needs to be said, but I'll say it…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 04:27 AM
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Just curious, what are men supposed to be doing to achieve a relationship? Most people are not putting a ton of effort into dating, both men and women. That doesn't mean they don't struggle, but it's also not something the average person is investing a ton of time into even if they are single. So what exactly are ppd men missing that other men seem to grasp without issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 04:14 AM
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If you are a healthy weight as a man there's not much you can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:32 AM
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Let's be honest, no blue pillers or women here are changing the black/redpill mindset. If they're here out of pure altruism(which most of them are not, let's be honest) they're wasting their time. When you're stuck in a negative mindset, and especially if you're somewhat intelligent, you can endlessly dig yourself deeper into said mindset. Any counter someone offers you about how your situation isn't hopeless can be flipped and used as an example of why, in fact, your situation is worse than you…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:05 AM
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More gaslighting, smh. Username still checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:53 AM
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This is not the place to be. This is the bottom end of the dating scene. If you're here out of concern for your children you must not think much or their prospects. I'm only here because I'm autistic and socially inept. Not in a gross sort of way(I shower and am polite) but I fail shit tests because I can't read subtexts super well, and even if I don't fail them I get rejected for my aberrant behaviour. All of my hobbies are incredibly nerdy, I have few friends, and the few I do have are not swi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:47 AM
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"I branded myself intentinally, but you should not pay any mind to it" Username checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:35 AM
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Yes 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:33 AM
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Yes, I've never understood why they bother. Why do you want to interact with people who are struggling if all you're gonna do is shit on them. Just seems like they take some sick joy out of lowering peoples self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:27 AM
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I'm just gonna sidestep the whole "throw everything you've got at it" because, at least for me, even if I did throw 100% of myself at it(which is not a healthy thing to do) I would convince myself that i really hadn't thrown 100% of myself at it. Anyways, even when you get to the point that you capitulate people still gaslight you with "theres that special someone out there for you". The idea that you might end up alone is such a terrifying prospect for 99% of the population that hearing someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:23 AM
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I agree, but even if you come to the realization that a relationship isn't something you'd actually want it's still difficult to stick to that conclusion when 1. You've never gotten a real shot at a relationship to learn for yourself. 2. People around you frequently ask about your relationship status, reminding you of your failure. 3. Our culture holds it up as one of the only paths to happiness, and perhaps the only path to a fulfilling life accessible to a common man. It's just not as easy to …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:56 AM
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Living in anger is not healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 05:37 AM
2

So instead instead of accepting your situation what do you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:47 AM
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You're not alone in this, though I've never encountered hostility, just disinterest in interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:43 AM
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The red pill is a world view, it's an effort to rationalize human action. If anything it probably makes 90% of the men who encounter it feel less empowered than ever when it comes to dating, which I doubt translates to happiness. For a lot of men the redpill world view would prescribe changing everything about themselves. Changing things about yourself is not easy, it's even harder when the motivator for doing so is external rather than internal. If I otherwise wouldn't care about getting jacked…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:43 AM
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Hmm, perhaps you weren't consistently gaslit by adults as a child about said topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 06:08 AM
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Not explicitly, but the message was looks were a secondary consideration. Though it should be noted that I am autistic and take things more literally, especially so when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:47 AM
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I was consistently told growing up that men were shallow and only cared about looks, while women cared more about personality and character.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:44 AM
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Yet countless women I know can identify bad behaviour from their spouse, complain about said behaviours to other people, and do nothing about it themselves. I stopped having sympathy for most women in bad relationships after the fifth or sixth time this occurred.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:33 AM
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Being a victim of abuse does not absolve you of criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 05:07 AM
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Lol, same could be said for you miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:30 AM
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Because heterosexuals are generally on the same page in terms of the basics. Unless you're some freaky guy/girl who wants to pursue fetishistic sex you have no real reason to discuss likes/dislikes until it seems like a real possiblity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:48 AM
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And yet its only common for one gender to verbalize their disdain for the other irl without any repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:17 AM
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I've been to three different therapists, that's what all of them do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 04:51 AM
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Have you been to therapy? It's literally just talking about your problems. I think it's useful, but idk what you're getting out of it other than someone to soundboard your issues with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 04:15 AM
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Would black men want to date women who view them as more dangerous? This is the logic I read here constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 07:45 AM
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Maybe, it's all personal preference at the end of the day isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 07:40 AM
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Literal lie
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:39 AM
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You mad lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 08:39 AM
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Comparing it to something that is quite infrequent as well. Most women rule the roost; for the majority the worst they endure is their husband yelling at them sometimes(which they also do).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:11 AM
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You're a top 1% commentor in this sub, that insult backfires immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:07 AM
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I'm autistic, and even I understand that there are social networks that exist outside of social media and online dating. Attractive people don't need online dating or social media to generate romantic interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:01 AM
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Lol you mad. Even if I grant that you're effectively communicating(which you're not), if this is a recurring/common issue does it not then speak to women's choices in men? They're choosing these men, then getting mad when they don't live up to their expectations. Choose better next time sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:34 AM
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I hear this a lot, doubt it's true; even if it were true if anything it displays an inability to effectively communicate on the womans part.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:20 AM
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Log off, you're incapable of reading tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 02:15 AM
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I concur, had the same dream just last night. Did you also get called a misogynist?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 01:27 AM
3

So the new line is "just self actualize bro".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 08:29 AM
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You are arguing with a wall that is convinced of their world view. Do not continue to engage. She hates men, there's no way to move forward with a real discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 07:22 AM
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If someone is talking about autism on tik tok it's safe to assume their opinion is not worth listening too.
/r/MensRights06/06/25 12:03 PM
1

That's pretty much the message to men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 10:24 AM
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Because it is ridiculous. Do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:51 AM
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Yeah, you regarded
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 11:42 AM
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See our current society, a society in which most relationships are monogamous. Again, log off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 11:36 AM
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Log off bro, you're spouting off weird(and false) eugenicist takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 11:25 AM
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Brother, there's a reason there's no red pill women on this subreddit, and it's not because all women disagree with red pill logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 03:51 AM
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Gonna be real with you, based on your inane posts you aren't hitting that goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 03:49 AM
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Maybe you're going after the wrong type of men then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:19 AM
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I'm gonna be real with you, most men could careless what major a woman studied.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 10:22 PM
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I don't really think that holds true anymore, but we can agree to disagree on that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:03 PM
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A lot of womens choices are not sustainable when it comes to education. Anecdotal, but most of the people I know not using their degrees are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:50 PM
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I think for a lot of men this subreddit is just a form of emotional self harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:28 PM
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I don't think it's a social pressure issue necessarily. I think a lot of women like the idea of a man being vulnerable, but when they're exposed to it for the first time they suddenly realize they're not comfortable with it. A woman is exposed to a man's height everytime she interacts with one, were as she's rarely exposed to a man's vulnerability.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:26 PM
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Brother why are you thirsting after some reddit girl. She's not worth your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:11 PM
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I wish I could tell you it'll get better, but results may vary. I have never had a good experience with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 06:20 AM
2

There's few things more painful than watching a girl lose attraction to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 06:17 AM
2

You're failing to see the point here, but you probably don't want to anyways,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:39 AM
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I have no idea. They're not relevant to the proposed topic of discussion. Some people always need a gotcha though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:50 AM
1

Again, not for specifically gender related reasons; rather for ideological or national interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:48 AM
1

Acquiring food through cooperation was for the survival of the whole community, not for men specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:19 AM
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I like how concern for young men immediately elicits long text posts about how we should be concerned about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 03:12 AM
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How many of the men/what percentage of men on this sub have autism?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 06:44 PM
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