Astrotheurgy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	When it comes to approach, can something simple yet genuine be very effective without all the other stuff?	Fundamentals	Astrotheurgy	/r/seduction	26/04/21 05:00 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Approaching Women —Why are men hesitant and why are women weary? Yeah it really does give a lot of power and it becomes more terrifying the more you experience heartbreak. And yes I'd be more interested if a woman initiated since then I'd know I was already an interest and not someone to win over. For me though, I've always been dedicated to hobbies and aspirations over chasing women and trying to accumulate some soulless notch count. If someone comes along on my journey and aligns with my soul and vision, then I'll take the leap but it's a rare occurrence. S…	/r/seduction	16/01/25 12:46 AM
1	Approaching Women —Why are men hesitant and why are women weary? Giving your heart and soul to someone only for them to abort mission and never truly commit to having a real relationship after many years when hardships arise, or when some seemingly better "prospect" comes around in the shadows when times are vulnerable to undermine the entire construct.	/r/seduction	15/01/25 05:42 PM
1	Approaching Women —Why are men hesitant and why are women weary? Fear of wasting my time and getting scammed in the end.	/r/seduction	15/01/25 01:18 PM
-6	Feeling the need to rack up a high n count as a man to compete with women on dating apps That's why I'm out of the game. Just be happy you've had that many. The quality isn't there anymore and if you find it, you can easily be replaced by a single download of an app. Best of luck in your endeavors.	/r/ExRedPill	03/08/24 07:57 PM
-14	I don't believe that "every woman sleeps with chads" You don't sleep with such men because, like you mentioned, you 1.) Have a fiance, and 2.) Those men aren't interested in you.	/r/ExRedPill	28/07/24 11:26 PM
–	Women's spaces have a hard time trying view men as human. Okay this pretty much sums up the best response to this post and the entire issue at hand. Print it out and spread it around. Neext.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 02:18 AM
20	Morally conflicted when it comes to seducing innocent/shy girls That's why a lot of this stuff has a shadow and can only be walked morally on a tightrope.	/r/seduction	04/03/24 05:25 PM
1	It's rare for a man to be with a woman who likes him for who he is as a human being instead of what he can provide. Lol I have to at least be attracted to them. They don't have to be 10's, I'm fine with 6's or 7's though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/24 02:09 PM
4	It's rare for a man to be with a woman who likes him for who he is as a human being instead of what he can provide. All I came here for was to say Puscifer is an awesome band. One of my favs. Okay, have a great day :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/24 12:14 AM
1	It's rare for a man to be with a woman who likes him for who he is as a human being instead of what he can provide. Yeah that's why I quit the game. The ROI is too low and for being an authentic man who battles with certain issues, it's sad that it's never about the soul but what you can offer or how you appear to be. I quit, but it's a bitter end.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/24 12:12 AM
8	How to ask/find a guy to be fwb? I'm pretty sure if you ask any male to be a fwb he'd be the happiest man alive.	/r/seduction	29/02/24 04:47 PM
–	How RedPill YouTubers Brainwash You Hey thanks for the lengthy elaboration. Anything helps lol. I guess I'm just under the impression that a woman wanting my or our kind is a very niche category, and I've just seen a lot of the contrary and experienced a lot of the contrary, but I'm not crazily experienced with women like many are either so it's not like I have a large personal pool of data to pull from. Studying TRP for a long time I think messed me up further since a lot of what they say can be easily seen or heard but might not…	/r/ExRedPill	21/02/24 11:20 PM
2	How RedPill YouTubers Brainwash You Honestly man it's refreshing to hear that because I feel like a mixture between a male and female, having very sensitive and emotional aspects while the whole world tells you you're weak and no woman wants you because of it. I've been trying to reprogram my mind to believe women, or a good percentage, would choose to deal with, let alone choose, a more feminine man over a manly man. Feminine to me means sensitive, emotional, loving, empathetic, etc etc. I have my fair share of masculine traits a…	/r/ExRedPill	21/02/24 09:48 PM
3	What's the worst redpill logic you used to buy into? Awesome, well thank you so much for your time and effort out into your replies. I'll revisit them if needed as I need to find a better way. Best of luck to you as well :)	/r/ExRedPill	06/02/24 09:29 PM
2	What's the worst redpill logic you used to buy into? First, thanks so much for your lengthy and in depth reply. I genuinely want to get better and see beyond this. I'm taking in everything you said and always trying to let in the opposing views. I've just been hurt so badly and seen so many trends it's really hard to let any other idea in because my survival instincts kick in and tell me never to trust females again. I don't want to be this way and it causes me a lot of distress. I do know females deal with a shit ton of horrible men as well. I kn…	/r/ExRedPill	06/02/24 06:43 PM
2	What's the worst redpill logic you used to buy into? First, thanks so much for your lengthy and in depth reply. I genuinely want to get better and see beyond this. I'm taking in everything you said and always trying to let in the opposing views. I've just been hurt so badly and seen so many trends it's really hard to let any other idea in because my survival instincts kick in and tell me never to trust females again. I don't want to be this way and it causes me a lot of distress. I do know females deal with a shit ton of horrible men as well. I kn…	/r/ExRedPill	06/02/24 06:43 PM
-3	What's the worst redpill logic you used to buy into? You must be the rare diamond in the rough because all I've ever seen and experienced was the opposite. Also these stereotypes come from truths that are obvious throughout time immemorial. Women typically want the money and lifestyle, men typically want sex and beauty. It's as old as time. I just want to desperately believe that there are a few women out there, who are genuinely very attractive, where in a world where they have a billion options at any time, they'd still choose to stay with a man…	/r/ExRedPill	06/02/24 03:38 PM
3	How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women? I've succumbed to finding a girl in my imagination. There's a lot more options there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/24 03:02 PM
–	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? ROI. Simple black and white of it. But people probably look down on them because they're "simps" or are getting "cucked." Just another aspect of humanity swirling the toilet. Things are slowly losing their glamour regardless of logic or reason and things are breaking apart at the seams.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/23 05:07 AM
1	I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned: You know what man, I really feel you to the depths on this one. I was raised a nice, loving, compassionate man who feels deeply by nature but in this society, or in nature in general, this doesn't seem to be the winning feature ironically. We live in an upside down kingdom. It would be nice if it was socially acceptable for women to approach as well. Regardless, I'm in my early 30's, have been working on myself my my entire life, I work out hard, eat pretty clean, read and study deep and profoun…	/r/seduction	07/09/23 05:12 PM
-4	How did the red pill effect your life negatively? How has it gotten better since you’ve left? It's interesting because even a divorce lawyer came on Rational Males channel and has been a fan and agrees with a lot of what he says. Me, I'm just trying to figure this all out. Honestly, I only listen to Rollo here and there and come here to balance the scales. I'm a seeker and I see the Red Pill dynamics happening all over on top of the fact that the tenets are a kind of modern garb wrapped over past stereotypes that were based in actuality. Yes, not everyone fits into those categories, but …	/r/ExRedPill	30/08/23 03:27 PM
-7	How did the red pill effect your life negatively? How has it gotten better since you’ve left? Those id say are extracurricular ideas and not all RP advocates say these things. I don't believe all women want the 1% but I think there is a general trend where of course they'd prefer it. I think the "Money, Muscles, Game, Frame" slogan is definitely obvious and real but of course not all women would fit into the category, but polarity is highly important in a relationship. Can't throw the baby out with the bathwater.	/r/ExRedPill	30/08/23 01:44 PM
-13	How did the red pill effect your life negatively? How has it gotten better since you’ve left? Red Pill has good information but it depends on who you get it from. I know everyone will downvote me here, but evolutionary psychology isnt all bs and neither is TRP. The trends speak for themselves and so do the statistics.	/r/ExRedPill	29/08/23 10:16 PM
0	My boyfriend is a red piller, help! Pretty soon it will be poor women :.(	/r/ExRedPill	29/08/23 10:12 PM
-2	My boyfriend is a red piller, help! Will the woman not be working whatsoever at all? Can one not create a prenup with guidelines in the event a divorce happens so the man doesn't lose half his stuff? Do you even know the extent to what marriage entails, the state laws, and what happens to a man much more than a woman? There are reasons men want prenups and it has nothing to do with love. It has to do with security. And if he were to leave, he wouldn't love her anymore would he? What now? At the end of the day, people want fantasy …	/r/ExRedPill	29/08/23 06:13 PM
-5	My boyfriend is a red piller, help! Try to put yourself in his shoes. Prenups have nothing to do with love.	/r/ExRedPill	29/08/23 03:32 AM
-3	what is red pill to you? Relative truths mixed with personas and certain forms of toxicity.	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/23 12:00 AM
0	Avoiding redpill Thank you for this mature explanation. It is hard once you've been wrapped up in the ideology for so long how to believe there are genuine women out there that will love a man beyond the "frame" and emotional distance. It can't be all real, and it has to be the immature feminine who belongs to these kinds of tactics. It can't be the only way..	/r/ExRedPill	24/07/23 08:24 PM
1	Sincere question: what initially drew you to this movement? It really is. It's one of the worst things I've ever experienced. It leaves the Soul eternally altered.	/r/ExRedPill	18/06/23 01:11 AM
3	Sincere question: what initially drew you to this movement? Pain, extreme heartbreak, anger, seeking answers, and by absolute chance.	/r/ExRedPill	14/06/23 02:03 AM
3	Why I’m done with red pill Hmm... I never said I figured out human relationships for sure, just pointing out actual trends that nobody has replied to. Instead I received negative emotion with no constructive conversation. I also find it funny how everything you just told me can be directly related to yourself. Toodles ;)	/r/ExRedPill	18/05/23 12:11 AM
-5	Why I’m done with red pill So there's no higher or lower quality when it comes to women in your world? And biological trends don't point to the initial point I made? And when it comes to being authentic, sure, you may get lucky and find someone who stays with you, but as an adult, realistically, you need more than just being "authentic." You guys can downvote me all day, I'm not a redpiller, but there are definitely truths within it that are seen cross-culturally. Of course there are exceptions, but you just can't be a bu…	/r/ExRedPill	17/05/23 02:06 PM
-18	Why I’m done with red pill You sure about the fact that quality women aren't hypergamous and don't care about money, status, etc?	/r/ExRedPill	17/05/23 01:21 AM
2	Andrew tate’s delusions is destroying our men If you're a virgin that's truly honorable in my opinion and that's coming from a male. If these guys truly see things this way, then that's their own perception but the way I see things, it's best not to flaunt yourself around unnecessarily. In my view it devalues you when giving yourself in meaningless encounters and it's a shame that our culture has been infiltrated with this hook-up nonsense that is destroying the value of deep, meaningful relationships as well as adding the psychological rep…	/r/ExRedPill	21/10/22 02:09 PM
2	Do all men wish their current girlfriend was a virgin before him? All? No. Many? Probably I mean, it's not the greatest thought.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 08:05 PM
15	What the fuck is masculinity I love how you wrote this. I feel the same way all the time. One ends up feeling ashamed in a subtle manner for how one may sit, or how to cross their legs, or how muscular, ambitious, how kind, lifestyle, emotions, etc., etc. the list goes on and on. It is very confusing at times as well as stressful. I suppose it's the consequence of the reality of uncertainty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 02:47 AM
1	How popular is anal really? 😅 It's the best. 10/10	/r/RedPillWomen	05/06/22 01:08 PM
0	The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red Pill I'm with you. I'm on here because I'm trying to figure this all out. I really do think there's a lot of truths in TRP. I just think that a lot of people like to believe that we live in some fairytale land where there are rainbows in the sky all day and all night. I'm just specifically talking about the hardware. I do believe that deep spiritual work can override biological urges or at least reframe them in a manner that appears illogical for long-term mating with regards to wanting a relationshi…	/r/ExRedPill	26/05/22 12:49 AM
1	The Fresh & Fit fan base has to be the worst RP fan base I’ve ever seen. That's fine. I'm still curious why. None of what I said in my previous post was answered. It still seems to me like there is good stuff to glean from him and just to leave the rest behind. Until any exredpill can actually debate this properly, then it seems that there is value.	/r/ExRedPill	20/05/22 01:03 PM
-2	The Fresh & Fit fan base has to be the worst RP fan base I’ve ever seen. So nothing he says is of value? When it comes to intersexual dynamics and all the examples that are out there of the trends happening, social media findings, statistics, and everything in his books is all falsity? I'm genuinely curious. Also, I'm just intending to have a conversation but if you guys feel the need to downvote that's okay too. My minds open and I'm trying to figure this whole thing out. I just started listening to him maybe like 5 months ago off and on so I'm very new to all this.…	/r/ExRedPill	20/05/22 01:39 AM
-2	The Fresh & Fit fan base has to be the worst RP fan base I’ve ever seen. I've only been listening to rolo for maybe about a half a year now so I really don't know anything about his past, but I do know that some of it I really like and that other times I'm listening to toxicity. I just wish I fully liked it and how he is. Then it wouldn't be a divide at times to listen to his stuff. I think you're right based off of the few podcasts I've seen of fresh and fit in the dynamics that they both feed each other. If only he would ease up on the redundant degradation of the …	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/22 05:55 PM
0	The Fresh & Fit fan base has to be the worst RP fan base I’ve ever seen. I know, I see how he is on there sometimes, and he definitely comes at all this from a dark aspect at times. I truly wonder what his intent is. I'm all for attempting to understand intersexual dynamics as I feel it's extremely important regardless of the uncomfortable aspects that might ring true. I'm sure he really loves the drama aspect of all this as well as the attention as you can see it feeds his ego, but I really do feel like The works he puts out are extremely important. It all just depe…	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/22 04:59 PM
-15	The Fresh & Fit fan base has to be the worst RP fan base I’ve ever seen. The only person I listen to in the RP community is Rolo Tomassi. I was never deep in any manosphere stuff but I like Rolo's knowledge he brings in as to evolutionary psychology, trends going on with typical modern women, and the humor he brings in at times but I'm also aware that some info and presentations are very toxic and without much empathy. I also don't like the whole "men shouldn't be emotional or vulnerable" bs that may be true with superficial women, but I just have to believe that mor…	/r/ExRedPill	19/05/22 04:48 PM
3	I have trouble accepting a womans sexual past Idk the idea was such a trauma to my soul that it still lingers even when I'm not with her anymore. It's strange and terrifying. Idk how it got created, I have ideas, but I've never heard of a case worse than mine when it was at it's peak when searching the internet. I just pray to whatever is out there it finds resolve and that I can have a deep successful relationship in the future.	/r/ExRedPill	18/05/22 07:13 PM
1	I have trouble accepting a womans sexual past I actually have it but it never really fully helped	/r/ExRedPill	18/05/22 01:43 PM
3	I have trouble accepting a womans sexual past Me too. RJOCD literally almost killed me mtiple times in my life. Idk the cure but it bars you from all healthy relationships. It's horrible.	/r/ExRedPill	17/05/22 07:15 PM
11	Fiancée cheated weeks before the wedding. Please help. Leave. Don't fucking rationalize this. Just leave. Have respect for yourself. You'll never be happy with this man in the long run. You'll never be able to trust him ever again. The rest of your life will be lived in paranoia and in pain knowing that you stooped to his level and sold your soul for his comfort. He betrayed you in the worst way possible. It not only happened one time but many times. This is a moment in eternity. Speak your truth, live your Truth, find yourself, and find love for yo…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/05/22 10:52 PM
3	So how come there are so many depressed good-looking people ? Because gods go through hell too.	/r/ExRedPill	08/04/22 02:52 AM
2	Starting to become an incel. It's all good. You're still so young. Just focus on building yourself, exercise, diet, hobbies, save well, find more of yourself, then in time, you'll find someone with much higher quality than if you're trying to find someone now.	/r/ExRedPill	01/04/22 12:47 AM
7	How to see my husband’s light side? Don't try to fool yourself if his dark side remains untamed thus taking up most of his consciousness. Don't sugarcoat things. See things as they are, not how you fantasize them to be. If you don't, you'll cause yourself much more damage and time than if your trying to find the subtle light.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/03/22 07:52 PM
1	If a man asks you to dinner, is it wrong to accept if you have no intention of having a relationship with said man but instead to get free food? Um...yeah?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 03:16 PM
15	The desire for marriage and the reality of it happening You're still young and have time. Make sure before you have kids to know yourself well if you already don't. Know exactly why you want what you want and make sure it's with the right person. Don't settle. There is a lot of danger in rushing something as serious and as intimate as this as you know. Just try to let go of the idea, work on yourself, use discernment, and when the time is right, then things will flow along.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/03/22 01:22 AM
5	How many people here have had their heart broken? I've had not only my heart, but my soul broken. Nothing has ever come close to that pain. You end up living in it's shadow for years and things still seem dimmer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/22 02:40 AM
2	How many men have you dated that actually wanted to pay and not split? 50/50 is fair unless one is out of commission for awhile. Compensation is key as well.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/01/22 04:56 PM
1	[deleted by user] Possibly? If he's cool with that. I feel like it'd be better if you just approached him though when there's the availability to do so. It might come off less needy or indirect if he picks up on all that but I barely know all the variables so youre probably the better judge.	/r/seduction	13/08/21 08:15 PM
1	[deleted by user] Welp, I guess I really can't say for sure, but it appears in the post he's kind of in his own world, at least at the time, and isn't paying much attention to what's around him. I only saw the one post and don't know what's happened in the past regarding him, but if that's the case, it might be best to just be up front with him one day and ask him out. Then you'll know for sure without all the subtle hints and mind games, although I know how hard it must be for a girl to approach a guy let alone …	/r/seduction	13/08/21 06:43 PM
1	[deleted by user] Hopefully she thinks I'm hot haha. But yeah I'm going to have to take the chance when the opportunity opens itself up. Also, I saw what you meant when you posted something similar. Seems coffee shops are the domain of attraction lol. Anyways, best of luck to you with the guy you have your eye on. We are typically oblivious to womens intentions because of how subtle they can be, so maybe make it more obvious to him or just ask him out in general. Regardless, hope it all ends in your favor :)	/r/seduction	13/08/21 06:18 PM
1	[deleted by user] It's not the biggest gap no, but I just don't know how big it is. It's hard to tell and I'm afraid she's younger than that. But overall, I'll never know if I don't try. Her body language is hard to gauge. She seems nice, laid back, and gives me a certain look/smile most of the time but that could just be her work persona, plus tips are involved of course. I overthink everything so this springs a billion things to get lost in especially the environment and the fact I've never done it before lol. …	/r/seduction	13/08/21 05:34 PM
1	[deleted by user] Yeah I feel like with this one I'll definitely regret it. It's just it's a small place so any word I say others would hear too and she's seen me come in there numerous times so idk how she'll react. But yeah, something has to happen at some point.	/r/seduction	13/08/21 03:34 PM
10	Does anyone else feel like the effort isn't worth it? No man I'm the exact same way. I don't chase anyone, and with the quality and standards of a lot of women today, I find that I'd rather work on my hobbies and purpose as I always have and allow the universe to send me the right one along on my path when needed to teach me what I needed to learn, which has always been the case. I hardly have the time to spread across the hobbies I can even get to now with work and life responsibilities. I do accredit those who can do the whole approach thing all …	/r/seduction	14/07/21 01:59 AM
3	Twelve Ways To Improve Your Attractiveness To Women Really well written and very elaborate and concise. Thank you for this.	/r/seduction	02/07/21 08:09 PM
1	How to Start Hitting on Girls in Public Have you found that it was enough to just say hi, say something simple, then ask for their number? Or do they typically prefer the whole conversation, elaboration deal? I'd rather just go up, say "hey I thought you looked cute and I liked your energy, so I'm wondering if I can have your number?" or something simple like that haha.	/r/seduction	14/06/21 01:38 PM
3	Leaving my incompetent beta That's good he's being comforting and reassuring. I'm sure he really does care about you, but he does need to change some things for everything to work out. And of course! Take care, and best of luck in the meantime. Ttyl ✌️	/r/RedPillWomen	11/06/21 03:56 PM
3	Leaving my incompetent beta Ah yeah I can see why you'd have insecurities just as I have my own based on what a "man" is supposed to be. But in the end, it's all bs and subjective and beauty changes with the culture. A long time ago, thing women was the icon of beauty yet not being voluptuous is in. It's all preference. There are a lot of downfalls to being a woman who is voluptuous and a lot of downfalls in dating that kind of woman as well. The best thing about not fitting the ridiculous mold of society is those insecuri…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/06/21 03:42 PM
3	Leaving my incompetent beta Yeah I understand. What's really sad is that pornography is highly addictive and many men/women fall into it's clutches and don't know how to let go. It plays on so many parts of the brain. But it's no excuse for it to be in a relationship if mentioned beforehand that it's not preferred. He may being honest when he says these things it's just maybe he doesn't have the willpower at the moment to overcome the addiction. Maybe your expression of concern and how it hurts you will change that, will m…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/06/21 03:16 PM
3	Leaving my incompetent beta Of course! You're very welcome and if you have any further questions don't hesitate to ask. I have a lot of experience with a lot of relationship stuff, wisdom, life, etc., and have been through a lot myself so I get it and I get where you're coming from. The pornography thing imo is not good at all and is something he would have to stop if it's an issue which in any of my relationships porn is a not something I want to be affiliated with or in general. I also understand your frustrations with h…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/06/21 02:56 PM
2	Leaving my incompetent beta You're fine and I appreciate your humility enough to reflect on things. You seem to be a good person who is lost within a few ropes of the psyche, as we all are within our own personal dimensions at times. I just want to suggest above all to write down everything you appreciate about him and everything you find to be a problem, weigh them out on paper, star your priorities of what you want and don't want, what traits he has and what he doesn't have, and have a honest heart to heart conversation …	/r/RedPillWomen	11/06/21 02:44 PM
3	Leaving my incompetent beta Don't get distorted by these hollow and misguided words floating around in our lost culture such as "beta" and "alpha." Often times these are used by egotistical men who's psyche is out of balance and aim to be domineering let alone lead in the proper way which one needs to be in tune with their emotions to do so. If you don't feel a genuine connection with him and it's not fitting you, fine. But be careful not to get entangled with these terms and if you'd rather be with someone more assertive …	/r/RedPillWomen	11/06/21 02:29 PM
-2	Just fucking go out. I love the way you write. Very creative and eloquent.	/r/seduction	09/06/21 01:57 PM
3	Having a difficult time even justifying the effort of romance or dating. It's truly amazing and beautiful once it lasts but once it gets ripped from you, your heart endures terrible pain and may leave a scar. True love can be just as great as it can be devastating. If it's worth it or not is a whole other topic.	/r/seduction	15/03/21 01:31 AM
3	Should i divorce my serial cheating husband who is my first sexual partner and start over? I am so scared of the thoughts of me sleeping with other men. Attachment Trauma, Codependency, childhood wounds, vulnerability to narcissism because of all or some of these things, etc. Look into all those and of course leave as soon as your soul gathers the strength. Love and pain don't go together and love can easily be misconstrued as addiction or attachment. I'm sorry you're in this situation but you need to find a way out. You're not alone in this either. You have the strength within, you just need to reassure yourself, find it, find yourself again, a…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/03/21 03:43 AM
6	How to stop chase women and start making her chase me? That was an awesome and eloquently stated reply. Thank you :)	/r/seduction	15/02/21 05:58 AM
2	A once in a lifetime reminder: Confidence attracts beauty. It's interesting because I'm very emotional yet logically balanced, as it seems. I can read emotions and feel my own all the time; very in touch with them. In the end, I feel maybe I might come off either too cocky at times unintentionally, am just not looking of course, or others might be intimidated by how my mind works, in the most humble way possible. Either way, it's all good, just contemplating ideas here is all.	/r/seduction	15/02/21 01:57 AM
2	A once in a lifetime reminder: Confidence attracts beauty. Haha very true and they might be unique in their own pond, but not all fish belong in the same pond I suppose; at least for the time being.	/r/seduction	15/02/21 01:54 AM
1	A once in a lifetime reminder: Confidence attracts beauty. Very true, and I try not to come off like that when asked what I do, but I'm very expressive and if someone is interested then sure I'd like to express all that I do and what I'm working on, but I can easily see how others might be intimidated or threatened on some subconscious level and I've thought about this impact as well before just not sure how they would take it. It does seem most people that I ask in conversation what their hobbies are they have none other than their job, which is fine.	/r/seduction	15/02/21 01:50 AM
2	A once in a lifetime reminder: Confidence attracts beauty. Yeah that's what I've thought about that how it's a cultural thing for women to be approached and even worse if a woman approaches and then gets rejected on top of it. J understand the psychology of it. I guess the root concept of my consideration is if the majority of women in Western culture would truly rather have a man who is stable in finances without much depth or much else going on compared to someone who isn't necessarily financially stable yet has good character and other passionate thi…	/r/seduction	15/02/21 01:46 AM
1	A once in a lifetime reminder: Confidence attracts beauty. Possibly, which isn't the intent, but it's all worth the introspection.	/r/seduction	15/02/21 01:41 AM
0	A once in a lifetime reminder: Confidence attracts beauty. No I'm definitely all these things, but maybe not the best at picking up signals. Like I said, I have no care to try or chase at this point in my life but how I explained is just how it seems.	/r/seduction	15/02/21 01:24 AM
-4	A once in a lifetime reminder: Confidence attracts beauty. I'll tell ya one thing, I'm attractive, take great care of myself, work on my mind/body/soul daily, exercise, have many hobbies of substance, am eloquent in my speech, am very intelligent yet humble/modest, am open minded yet firm in who I am, and I don't have the best job of all time due to certain circumstances, and I cannot tell you when the last time I had any girl come off as interested, nor have I heard any girls who actually likes me from others. Now not to say it's not happening, nor am …	/r/seduction	15/02/21 12:55 AM