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I agree that it’s not meaningless, but they’re unlikely to ever admit that. I say just own the preference and let them think what they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 09:31 PM
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I don’t get why some men feel as though they have to explain themselves or post studies to justify their N count preference. Who cares what other people think? Let them think you’re insecure or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 02:50 PM
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<image> 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 05:26 PM
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“Caring about N count is stupid because a person could just lie!” Using this same logic, it would be stupid to have a dealbreaker about any past behavior that can’t be 100% verified. Why care if a partner cheated or not in the past? They could just lie about it. Why care if a partner had an STD in the past? They could just lie about it. Why care if someone used hard drugs in the past? They could just lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 04:27 PM
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It’s sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 04:17 PM
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<image> I like how she mistreats this poor Betabuxxer over stuff that her ex did, smh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 03:47 PM
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Watch what they do, not what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:23 PM
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For an SO sure, not some woman I just met
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 04:03 PM
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I don’t think he’s doing all that just to be a “rebound lay”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 03:58 PM
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Even if he did, still an L imo. He did all that while she’s still stuck on some dude who didn’t have to do any of that. She’d probably run back to him if he texted her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 03:45 PM
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<image> SIMPing never works
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/26 03:35 PM
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<image> Saw this comment on a post about Chris Watts being married in prison. How is it men’s fault that a woman wanted to marry a murderer? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 07:53 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 05:48 PM
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I’m saying that there are users who will defend women who refuse to date bi men, but then turn around and shame men who care about partner count. My point is that there is no reason to criticize one while condoning the other. Either both are acceptable or they aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 05:43 PM
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I didn’t say that I was out to accomplish anything. But just as people can criticize people’s preferences if they decide to voice them, I’m free to call out hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 04:13 PM
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You’re right. Announcing your preferences online makes you subject to being criticized, I get it. The point I’m making is to hold people to a consistent standard. You can’t mock one of these preferences and justify the other without being a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:57 PM
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I’ve seen women write nasty things about bisexual men online before, but that’s neither here nor there. The things you’re bringing up aren’t relevant. It’s not about what men say online, it’s about the standard itself. People will call men insecure, misogynistic, etc. for caring about partner count but will defend women who won’t date bi men or men who’ve had sex with men in the past. A man can simply admit to having the preference without shaming anyone and will still be insulted for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:46 PM
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That’s fair. I can respect people who feel the same way about both. I actually respect both preferences as well. But you have people who will defend one and mock the other. That’s inconsistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:29 PM
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Funny how the same people who will criticize men for having standards about partner count will turn around and justify women not wanting to date bi men. There’s no argument for one being more valid than the other that doesn’t rely on special pleading
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/26 03:16 PM
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Lol I’m sure they won’t address this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 05:33 PM
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If criticizing a woman who refuses to date bi men is attempting to “shame” women into dating bi men, is criticizing men for having a body count preference attempting to shame them into dating promiscuous women? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 05:14 PM
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Umm no? I’m a straight man and my first gf was bisexual. I didn’t care because I’m still attracted to women, whether they’re straight or not. I never even thought to ask her for a threesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/26 05:05 PM
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<image> I think Dua Lipa is a 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 08:58 PM
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>There are never women rushing to defend men?? Not on this sub. There are certain “male” users here who literally refuse to criticize women about anything. I’ve never seen the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 05:01 AM
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You may be onto something 😂 my favorite are the ones who seem to know all about RP podcasters and influencers despite claiming that they’re nobodies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 04:48 AM
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OP is spot on. There are certain male posters here (I can think of at least 2) who will troll, argue, and challenge male posters all day but never engage with anything that a female poster says in a negative way. And I’ve seen posts where female users will make negative generalizations or say other outlandish things about men and those same posters are nowhere to be found. But let a male user say anything even remotely critical of women and they’re right there, ready to argue. Let’s be real, if …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 03:00 AM
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My favorite is “I may be a virgin who’s never even held hands with a woman before but at least I’m not an incel” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/26 02:12 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/9xes5vt9flih1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=64ce9474151494953cdd7870d926a9a8ffb56e01
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 06:45 PM
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<image> At least she’s honest 🤷🏽‍♂️ This is why hookup material>>>husband material. Any man can get into a relationship, most men can’t get casual sex https://np.reddit.com/r/Tinder/s/OrV6nri1ah
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 05:00 PM
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Bluepillers would think that this is good advice lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 02:17 PM
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I don’t get why some women have such an aversion to dating bi men. One of my first gfs was bi and it didn’t bother me at all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:35 PM
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There is no way. When I was in middle school, a girl accused me of touching her inappropriately because she and some bullies in my class wanted to see me get in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:12 AM
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Nope. What’s the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 12:23 AM
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Tbh I think nothing is better than betabuxxing but that’s just me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 02:26 PM
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Blue-pilled Redditors
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 02:26 PM
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<image> 🤦🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 01:41 PM
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I agree with you, but I see this double standard all the time on social media. A woman can be unattractive, obese, be a single mother, etc. and consider herself a prize and it’s praised and even encouraged, but a man calling himself one is “sassy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 07:05 PM
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<image> Why do some women get so triggered when a man feels as though he’s a prize?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 06:42 PM
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Being alone with an ugly man isn’t an inherently dangerous situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:38 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/GeminiAI/s/RKYYNEG9ME Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 02:12 PM
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Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 01:53 PM
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“You’re insecure for caring about N count!” Okay? So what? Let’s concede that I’m insecure for caring. Okay, cool, I’m insecure. Everyone is insecure about something. I’m still entitled to my preference. I don’t think that calling someone insecure is some crazy gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/26 04:29 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 10:50 PM
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For some reason, these posters that you speak of all seem to get away with violating rule 3 constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 09:30 PM
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How so? A sex toy is a sex toy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 07:37 PM
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Meh. I’ve never had a woman ask me to use a dildo on her during sex, never mind one bigger than me. That’s very emasculating. I’m pretty sure most women wouldn’t be okay with their partner asking them to use a fleshlight on them during sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 05:28 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/s/iHjLNNqIXI Ngl I don’t think my pride and ego would be able to handle this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 04:59 PM
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You think he was busy screwing other women while he was relentlessly pursuing this woman despite being shot down multiple times? I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 04:12 PM
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It’s a sad, pathetic consolation prize when you’re a betabuxx/last resort.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 04:11 PM
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You’re probably right, but he decided to publicly share his story so I’m giving my 2 cents 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 04:10 PM
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I would never be with a woman who maintains any contact with any man that she’s slept with in the past. No exceptions. Some guys are okay with it but I don’t understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 02:59 PM
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Fair enough, but he was still an orbiter for 5 years while she was busy screwing around with other dudes. I don’t consider this a win or a sweet story at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 02:30 PM
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Would you be happy for a woman who was rejected by a man over the course of 5 years until one day he randomly needed her for something, and then he finally gave her a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 02:29 PM
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No honor in betabuxxing either
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 02:25 PM
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There’s more honor in being single than being a betabuxx, IMO 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 02:20 PM
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He was a backup plan after years of being rejected until she needed him for something. Being an orbiter isn’t masculine. And you call it “persistent”, but I thought women considered it harassment if a man continues to pursue a woman after being rejected the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 02:13 PM
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<image> Betabuxx deluxe!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/26 02:08 PM
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Because that’s a lie. There are certain insecurities that people will definitely notice, and that can have a real, measurable effect on your quality of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 11:08 PM
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Does anyone else notice how dismissive people are of men’s insecurities online? A man seemingly can’t vent about any insecurity that they may have without being told that it’s all in their head, or that it doesn’t matter, or to just be confident anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 10:58 PM
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She’s describing a real phenomenon but this just has to be ragebait lol https://np.reddit.com/r/Goldpilltalk/s/pS9K76w76m
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 08:44 PM
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Q4A: If you had to lose as much weight as possible in one month, how would you go about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 07:45 PM
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Uhh okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 07:37 PM
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I’ve never heard of someone saying that they prefer a virgin for casual sex, that’s wild
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 07:30 PM
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The person in the screenshot is clearly implying that men specifically believing that they are a prize is an issue. I’m 99% sure she’s okay with women believing that they are a prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 07:29 PM
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I agree, but the person in the screenshot is implying that men specifically believing that they are a prize is a problem. My question is why is it okay for women to believe this but not men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 07:19 PM
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<image> What’s wrong with men believing that they are a prize?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 07:10 PM
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Whatever you say dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 07:03 PM
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TIL: Women follow a script of women-approved words when posting online
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 06:59 PM
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Yeah, women never write ridiculous things online. Surely a man did it. Men bad, amirite? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 06:52 PM
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She should stay single instead of getting with a guy who she isn’t attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 06:40 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/blackgirls/s/8fk7p2tKTH Thread full of harsh dickpills
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/26 05:39 PM
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Sounds like something that someone who’s whining would say
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:42 PM
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You stop whining about me whining
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:41 PM
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<image> “Just become betabuxx, bro!”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/26 06:07 PM
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“A man who wants to go dutch on date bills isn’t truly attracted to you. A man will go out of his way to pay for a woman whom he actually wants and is truly attracted to.“ “A woman who is truly attracted to you won’t make you wait and jump through hoops for sex. If she slept with Chad on the first night but makes you wait a few months, she’s more attracted to him than you.” If one of these statements bothers you and the other one doesn’t, please explain why 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/26 02:44 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:56 PM
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<image> Even using the same prompt but changing it to a woman gets a softer response 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:40 PM
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<image> Women good, men bad! 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:00 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 03:16 AM
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<image> Funny meme from the Bumble subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 05:34 PM
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Is it possible for an average man to arrange an MFF threesome without paying for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 08:41 PM
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Q4M: Your wife/SO gives birth to your child and you get a paternity test done in secret. The test reveals that you aren’t the father. What’s your next move?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 05:59 PM
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<image> “The past doesn’t matter, bro” 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 03:41 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:58 PM
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What kind of man dates a radical feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 08:28 PM
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“And when you get me, you better be happy with the infrequent sex that I never initiate, and a lesser form of desire than those bad boys I used to go for”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 06:05 PM
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Lol. Lmao, even. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 05:46 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/Bumble/s/Z75DSi9npz Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 05:26 PM
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<image> Just evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 07:54 PM
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You didn’t answer the question though. Is it robbery if you give money to someone who is constantly asking you for money, despite you originally saying no? If scammers constantly call me asking for my SSN and I eventually give it to them to stop the calls, was I victimized?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:23 PM
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I’m not saying that it’s okay to pester people. I’m just saying that the other party still has the ability to say no despite the pestering.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:22 PM
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It may be coercive but I still believe it’s on the woman to say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:18 PM
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It’s still on me to say no though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 06:17 PM
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If someone asks me for money 9 times and I say no, then on the 10th time I give in and give them the money, can I claim that I was robbed?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:55 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/relationship\_advice/s/8pl1R9LMfi
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 01:15 AM
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<image> Brutal. AF/BB is law
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:21 PM
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Women good men bad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:02 PM
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I want women to be attracted to my dick without requiring an emotional connection towards me. I want women to prefer sex with me for both casual sex/hookups and relationships. I want to be someone women want to fuck even if they’d never want to date or marry me. I want to be someone women objectify. I want to be able to just be a piece of meat women love to use for sex even if they don’t care about me as a person. I don’t want to be the guy women settle down with but wouldn’t fuck casually.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:17 PM
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If she wouldn't have given you the time of the day while she was in her 'fucking around' phase then she isn’t attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 04:02 PM
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<image> What a great compliment!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:51 PM
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<image> The dickpill is brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:22 AM
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There is nothing wrong with a man preferring to date low N women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:55 PM
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<image> ““Dance monkey, dance!” I don’t think women understand how obnoxious this is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:54 PM
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[r/Truepslrateme/s/G3DFQhDdc2](r/Truepslrateme/s/G3DFQhDdc2) Brutal. What would you rate this guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:35 AM
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>Q4Men who care about body count + her past sexual behavior in general: What is a formerly slutty women who has a high n count and wants to "repent for her sins" actually supposed to do? Either date other formerly promiscuous men or men who don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:11 PM
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<image> At least she’s honest I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:52 PM
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Approaching women is a waste of time unless you’re attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:48 PM
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Correct. But if a man wants a traditional woman, or believes in traditional gender roles, he’s a misogynist. Make it make sense lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:28 PM
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<image> So wanting a woman who makes more money than you is considered wanting “princess treatment”? I thought traditional gender roles were toxic and bad 😮🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:10 PM
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<image> Can someone translate this into English?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:33 AM
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<image> Women have AF/BB too? 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 10:16 PM
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<image> PPD white knights be like:
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 07:47 PM
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If no one cared about it then there wouldn’t be an entire weekly thread dedicated to discussing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:39 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/s/ERrrKTXYC6 Damn..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:42 PM
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“Caring about N count is stupid” So is caring about if a man is 6” or not 🤷🏽‍♂️ if women are free to have that, I see no problem with N count preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:12 PM
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Anyone who would tell their husband that is an insensitive monster
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:18 AM
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5 bodies in one month is crazy, nope
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:18 PM
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Under 5
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:45 PM
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Because a bunch of other guys got the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:55 PM
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I just explained.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:02 PM
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I care because I don’t want my SO to have slept with a bunch of guys before me. It would make the sex feel less special if she gives it out freely to a bunch of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:30 PM
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That’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:19 PM
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I’ll never understand how a man could NOT care about body count tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:03 PM
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<image> Brutal dickpill https://np.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/s/LOSFP1wkKZ
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:27 PM
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This is false. I like kids and I helped raise my younger siblings too, still wouldn’t date a woman with kids. I want my own family, not a ready-made one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:25 PM
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I noticed that there are some dudes here who stick up for women at all costs and only argue with other men. Basically male “pick me” behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:34 PM
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You just have to accept the fact that she’s probably had bigger if she’s not a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:21 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/lovememes/s/E0ZvJ6JHNq Dude is deep in the friend zone. The guy she’s actually attracted to doesn’t have to do any of this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:51 PM
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<image> Hookup material>Husband material
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:25 PM
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<image> Bluepillers be like: “He got the girl, he won in the end”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:50 PM
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<image> I hope this is just ragebait because this is painfully brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:47 PM
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That’s a charitable way to see this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:41 PM
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<image> This is the end result of betabuxxing. Poor guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:19 PM
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I want women to be attracted to my dick without requiring an emotional connection towards me. I want women to prefer sex with me for both casual sex/hookups and relationships. I want to be someone women want to fuck even if they’d never want to date or marry me. I want to be someone women objectify. I want to be able to just be a piece of meat women love to use for sex even if they don’t care about me as a person. I don’t want to be the guy women settle down with but wouldn’t fuck casually.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:14 PM
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<image> I feel bad for her future partner 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:02 PM
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I’ll answer when you explain how my position on this is relevant in a conversation about why straight, cis people generally don’t date trans people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:20 PM
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That’s not what I said. I said that most cis, straight people in general aren’t going to want to date someone who’s not biologically the sex that they desire. And the statistics reflect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:43 PM
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Because it’s not relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:39 PM
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Again, I never defined what straight attraction is or isn’t. My point is that most cis, straight people aren’t going to want to date people who weren’t born as the sex that they’re attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:30 PM
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No, it’s not relevant because the topic of discussion is straight, cis men and trans women. My point stands. Most cis, straight people want to date people who are biologically the sex that they’re attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:25 PM
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Yes they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:09 PM
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Whether it’s considered straight or not is irrelevant. Most straight men and women want to date people who are biologically the sex that they’re attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:09 PM
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Does anyone else have low empathy? I can understand why someone may be sad for example, but seeing a sad or crying person doesn’t really make me feel any type of way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:59 PM
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I never commented on if those men are straight or not. It’s not my place to tell someone how to identify. But the point is, most straight men aren’t going to be interested in someone who is biologically male. And it’s not even a straight man thing. Most straight women aren’t dating trans men either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:43 PM
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I reject the idea that most men don’t date trans women because they’re afraid of limiting their dating pool with cis women. I think the reason why most cis men won’t date trans women is because most of us are straight and don’t want to date a biological male.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:36 PM
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Maybe I’m old school but I like women who weren’t born with dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:31 PM
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<image> Never be the “safe option”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:41 PM
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I don’t see a problem with it either. No one asks for the inherent disadvantages that come from being ugly, and we know that being attractive comes with many benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:52 PM
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You do realize that both of those statements can be true at the same time, right? Attractive men can be rejected for casual, and some women can deem some men to not be attractive enough for casual. I don’t understand the point that you’re trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:50 PM
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No it doesn’t. It has nothing to do with my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:43 PM
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The position is outlined in my reply. If a woman has done hookups and ONS in the past, but tells you that she wouldn’t have hooked up with you, odds are that she doesn’t find you attractive enough to have commitment-free sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:38 PM
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Attractive men getting turned down for casual sex doesn’t disprove my point. If a woman has had hookups and ONS in the past, yet tells a guy “you’re not someone I’d hook up with”, a lot of guys are going to take that as being told that they aren’t hot enough for commitment-free sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:35 PM
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That’s a total straw man of the position.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:23 PM
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It’s an insult due to the implication that the man isn’t attractive enough for commitment-free sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:22 PM
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It sounds like you don’t want to understand how men feel about this. Most men want to feel genuine desire in their relationships. They want to feel wanted sexually. If a woman has done hookups in the past, but tells a guy that he’s “husband material” instead of “hookup material”, it reads as “You’re not hot enough to have commitment-free sex with, but you’re stable and you’ll make sure the mortgage is paid so good enough”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:35 PM
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I don’t think “husband material” in of itself is an insult. It becomes an insult when it’s prefaced with something like “you’re not someone I’d hookup with”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:17 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:40 PM
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<image> “Dating is equally hard for men and women”-🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:10 PM
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<image> I couldn’t even imagine being this Bluepilled
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:50 AM
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<image> Poor Betabuxxer is suffering for the wrongdoings of the guys she’s been with in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:52 PM
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<image> “Just make peace with being a betabuxx, bro!”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:22 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/ledsa9v1dw0h1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0264bc81053d9137003d0acdc3c3f658fca4a6cd “Make peace with being a betabuxx, bro!”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:18 PM
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Men aren’t a monolith. I wouldn’t advise a woman to be with a guy who sees her as a safe option either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:02 PM
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Most women have the ability to do what the commenter is describing, most men don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:59 PM
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<image> Brutal dickpill
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:56 PM
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<image> Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:52 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/sex/s/8jK3nTbaAl Hookup material>>Husband material
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:20 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 01:06 PM
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<image> Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 01:01 PM
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I think women who are “alpha widowed” or place their partner on a lower tier of sexual desire as compared to past men should be open about it. At least give the guy a choice as to whether he wants to remain in a relationship after knowing that information.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:20 PM
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<image> 😖
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:48 PM
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<image> Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:20 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/blackgirls/s/UzQjOdKpcW Brutal dickpill
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:55 PM
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<image> Average betabuxx relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:17 PM
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