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AtIeeK_5i9/r/seduction13/07/18 09:50 AM
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AtIeeK_5i9/r/seduction16/08/15 09:30 AM
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Zertisko you write you have autism, so I assume you have a hard time with such things, but not everything need to be spelled out for neurotypicals. The term friend zone implies entitlement. If you merely were frustrated, you could say: "I failed to hook up with 30 women". If you feel entitlement is too strong a word, say expectation. If he did not expect to get laid from merely treating women as human, he would not see this as friend zoned, but getting to know a person.
/r/seduction25/09/23 08:26 AM
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Don't change that. Just don't get taken advantage of.
/r/seduction07/02/19 08:37 PM
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That is not what I was saying. Your intentions are clear to me. But this is afaik not how language works. Other aspects of the vehicle will be brought close to the tenor as well. I am not blaming you or accusing you of this. But this are the mental images that are involuntary invoced
/r/seduction17/10/18 07:55 AM
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I am sorry I mistook it for another article that I can't seem to find anymore. I shouldn't just have scanned it before link it. I wanted to refer to those very philosophers you are talking about. I think that other parts of the vehicle are ascribed to the tenor unintionally. For this reason one should question ones choice of vehicle more regiously. I found this article on wired convincing https://www.wired.com/story/tech-metaphors-are-holding-back-brain-research/ Climate change is real. I remove…
/r/seduction17/10/18 07:45 AM
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I do https://www.wired.com/story/tech-metaphors-are-holding-back-brain-research/ Maybe this example changes your mind Edit: credible source
/r/seduction17/10/18 07:13 AM
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What is tenor and what are the attributes of the vehicle you want to transfer? You want to say women can't not give good advice about seduction. But what you are also, probably unintendly, saying with this statement is what I am getting at. You can assume that fish don't want to be cought. With this metaphor you imply that women don't want to get seduced. Imho a dangerous limiting believe. The other dangerous implication is that women are not equal to man, not even similar. The only use of fish …
/r/seduction17/10/18 06:59 AM
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Do you plan to kill and eat all women you seduce? This metaphor is highly problematic. Might be a cultural thing but my female friends opinions were very valuable. I think marketing/ customer research is the more useful annalogy here. People were asking for faster horses not the car. Still there was something in the feedback you just shouldn't take it at face value. A lot of people, penis or not, are not very aware of their needs and desires.
/r/seduction17/10/18 06:29 AM
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As you can see a widely spread believe is that women can't give advice on seduction. What other common pickup theories and ideas do you disagree with?
/r/seduction17/10/18 06:21 AM
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Homsexuality is often explained as an automatic orphanage. Also appearently gay people are amazing for group dynamics which profits everyone. Additional sexual orientation is more a gradient than a on/off switch
/r/seduction06/10/18 08:11 AM
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For every case like this there are 10 Harvey Weinstein's. I understand why HR choose to believe the women. How the tested it afterwards is a completely different matter ( I suspect they were move rather than promoted)
/r/seduction26/07/18 10:25 AM
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Why take a risk if you can just play safe? Even if it's no a lawsuit or HR complaint, women plotting/gossiping is bad enough
/r/seduction26/07/18 10:20 AM
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Don't you think the mental thing is more important than the physics of it?
/r/seduction25/07/18 01:19 PM
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Okay got ya.
/r/seduction25/07/18 01:18 PM
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You surely feel strongly about this. Again, assuming your are the author I'd love to read what feminism is in your opinion and what it makes a bad thing. Probably you already have a post about this, so please link to it.
/r/seduction25/07/18 01:15 PM
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The threat is real unfortunately. lots of crab buckets out.here
/r/seduction25/07/18 10:12 AM
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Why is team sports not an option? You might be not good yet . Stuff takes practice
/r/seduction25/07/18 10:08 AM
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Assuming you are the author, do you a post on what is so horrible about feminism?
/r/seduction25/07/18 10:04 AM
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Well this sub is based in the idea that this is a learnable skill and not a godgiven gift. This is why I feel this does not really fit the sub
/r/seduction10/07/18 09:34 AM
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So what was the gift?
/r/seduction09/07/18 06:40 AM
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Female friends are also good. If you really have to learn stuff before read models by Mark Manson. You can find free copies online if you cannot afford it
/r/seduction18/06/18 04:36 PM
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Feels like your out of practice. Give yourself time
/r/seduction18/06/18 04:28 PM
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You dont leave right after you get the number.
/r/seduction14/03/18 11:51 PM
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Because you care about looks. Get rid of the HB scale. Flirt with people Not bodies.
/r/seduction14/11/17 11:41 AM
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I you really only cared about sex, you should go to a prostitute. But you also want it for free and look cool. I also want to fly but gravity just doesn't give a fuck.
/r/seduction20/03/17 11:49 AM
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Anything with refugees and/or children
/r/seduction20/03/17 11:40 AM
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You don't get a free pass because you are sick. Pickup is more about picking yourself up than anything else
/r/seduction20/03/17 11:40 AM
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Yes, people care about match percentage. Polarise to the max. Be honest and own it.
/r/seduction18/03/17 04:32 PM
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A: they are people, not enemy tanks That beeing said, the worst rjection was a disgusted look
/r/seduction18/03/17 04:29 PM
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just as you would with a coldapproach. Get to know them, see if you are interested, get contact info, meet again. I really don't know how to answer this better without writing a book on it.
/r/seduction30/12/16 01:37 PM
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Getting to know and meeting people through people you already know.
/r/seduction29/12/16 09:17 AM
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I mostly agree with daygamecoach. When you have mutual friends you have already a few points in the book without doing jack (social proof) as sociology says Homophily When you see the person more often you can make use of the mere exposure effect https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mere-exposure_effect If you are a social butterfly you will have multiple circles of friends and will be able to profit from weak ties (eg [1]) If you do a few cold approaches and reach some level of competence there, war…
/r/seduction29/12/16 09:15 AM
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And cold approach is easier to you?
/r/seduction29/12/16 08:29 AM
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Girls really See you differently than you see yourself. What you think is important isn't that much. By approaching you already are in the top 10%. Women are just as insecure about dating as you are. As soon as I understood what enormous pressure women are under from society., I was much more forgiving and women really could open up to me better. Social circle game is so easy it feels like cheating. Seduction is a joint effort there are no fronts.
/r/seduction28/12/16 11:30 PM
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He is stilll selling PUA Material as "Style". he's full of shit.
/r/seduction15/10/15 05:01 PM
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just wanted to state that she isn't the first. she isn't even the first one to coach. just check out the german pua forums if you care to know more.
/r/seduction14/10/15 05:36 PM
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most refugees go back: http://www.lastexitflucht.org/againstallodds/factualweb/de/3.4/articles/3_4_1_Rueckkehr.html http://www.focus.de/regional/stuttgart/migration-mehr-fluechtlinge-kehren-freiwillig-in-die-heimat-zurueck_id_4942410.html Well everyone is complaining about fachkräftemangel. if you have sources that proof your claim. go ahead. here are sources backing up my claim: unemployed mainly are not professionals but unenducated: https://statistik.arbeitsagentur.de/Statischer-Content/Arbei…
/r/seduction07/10/15 08:42 AM
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I did not say you are, I said a lot of people will expect you to be. you will to some degree need to work with/agianst those expectations
/r/seduction05/10/15 07:24 PM
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some heads up: most Germans think of the US as the country of obese uneducated milatry-loving gunnuts. so if you say silly shit you might trigger those steriotypes. don't talk about guns unless you are for strict gun laws. don't tell anyone how great america is, you will sound like an idiot. and for christs sake don't even mention the world wars.
/r/seduction05/10/15 04:38 PM
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/r/sex
/r/seduction05/10/15 04:13 PM
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most women love sex. they really really* like it a lot. they're not doing you a favour by fucking you, you are. You don't need to do a lot of persuation at all. you need to do is not to screw it up. the only thing that keeps women from screwing around like gay men is, the fear of pregnancy and slutshaming/social programming . if you get those fears out of the way, you're in for a good time. *and that's the ones you want to be with imho
/r/seduction27/09/15 09:02 PM
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read teh effin sidebar man, it's there for a reason all your questions are answered there so: read the sidebar get a life (hobbies, social circle)
/r/seduction25/09/15 09:09 AM
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read the faq and sidebar
/r/seduction24/09/15 04:22 PM
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Yes sure. Succes is a desirable trait for most women. If he throws a lot of parties there will be lots of women he interacts with. also money makes logistics much easier. you cna just check in the next hotel, get a cab ect. how is this even a question that belongs here?
/r/seduction24/09/15 10:26 AM
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at least tell me where you think I'm factually wrong.
/r/seduction22/09/15 09:07 AM
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never heard about heard. will read up on it
/r/seduction21/09/15 09:45 AM
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don't forget about the strict gender quotas and the feminist party that nearly made it into parliament last election
/r/seduction21/09/15 09:13 AM
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I agree with you that there is a cultural difference. But I don't think that difference you're referring to would be called that. did you mean prosex feminism vs antisex feminism? that's a distinction I've heard bevore. the main difference is, that prosex feminsim doens't condem porn,sexwork or an avid sexlife. While radical antisex feminsm thinks that all "penis in vagina" is rape I wish I was kidding
/r/seduction21/09/15 09:11 AM
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I ment by reproduction. unfortunately 80% of refugees leave as soon as their homecountry stabilizes again. Germany really could use some young professionals. mind you the middle class of syria makes it to europe everyone else is stuck in libanon. fleeing to europe is costly.
/r/seduction21/09/15 09:01 AM
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yes, so there is no blitz invasion of europe any time soon
/r/seduction20/09/15 09:50 PM
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I mena look at the swedish women, the feminism is so strong there and the look so.... beautiful no it's not feminism that cousing that. it might be the corporate elite shoving fastfood down their troughts thats making some americans ugly
/r/seduction20/09/15 09:30 PM
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you also now that the birthrate of the muslims is the same as the "germans" after the second or third generation?
/r/seduction20/09/15 09:27 PM
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well not nessecarely anxiety, a healthy nervousness. it mostly goes away by stating it. remember the other person is also interacting with a stranger. i found it was more of a bound than a problem.
/r/seduction25/08/15 02:39 PM
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building social momentum. acknowledging the fear and doing it anyway. e.g. saying in set that I'm really nervous.
/r/seduction25/08/15 07:00 AM
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just to protect the ego? I'd rather fail and learn something in the process. if, however, he only wants to have sex with her and finds her boring otherwise, I agree
/r/seduction17/08/15 08:49 AM
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I don't know what you mean, those are ment to be a joke
/r/seduction16/08/15 07:48 PM
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you are welcome. now: Do the work. Be the prize. http://imgur.com/gallery/uKYFBSe
/r/seduction16/08/15 09:58 AM
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I live in Europe, from want you sound like you are US based. Okcupid seems to be good from what I've heard. one online game tip: get decent photos with a proper camera, it's the single most important thing.
/r/seduction16/08/15 09:48 AM
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online game - fake your location if you feel the need to. socialising in general, you can be charming to people you don't want to sleep with. it's a similar skill set so it will help you not to "loose your magic" as you mentioned: general self improvement,sports, learning skills ect.
/r/seduction16/08/15 09:38 AM
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make your own https://imgflip.com/memetemplate/37311065/PUA-Problems
/r/seduction16/08/15 09:31 AM
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reframe what the game is. my game is to be the best person i can be. Being addicted to that sounds ok to me. being social is actually better the a movie. Game pushes you to quit your dead-end job? good for you!
/r/seduction15/08/15 06:06 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sO-KR-14uXM
/r/seduction15/08/15 12:06 AM
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you know very well that I mean equals as in "all men are created equal" as in "worth the same" and not identical. why this kind of realtionship should be limited to people that sleep with their on sex remains a mystery to me. I have neither the means nor the intent to prove to you my age, experience-level or my ability to critically reflect my upbringing. I did my fare share of BDSM and this is exactly why I advocate for communication about sex. when you're about to ball-gag someone you want to …
/r/seduction15/08/15 12:01 AM
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maybe all the cursing lead me astray. but sure. I rarely have had explicit concent so far. so, yes sex happens this way all the time. but to advise against communication about sex in general? I vehemently disagree with this popular notion that adults should talk rationally about sex before each sex act, and establish affirmative verbal consent. afaik this notion is not popular. it is a relatively new idea. mind you, there legally was no rape in marriage not too long ago because having sex was on…
/r/seduction14/08/15 11:43 PM
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from my experience: no. This works. You're not even lying while doing this. OP really needs some space. this is sound advice imho
/r/seduction14/08/15 07:59 AM
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yeah... what you describe sounds like rape to me. Talking about it, is what adults should be able to do. i mena of course if you see women as infirior play- dolls then what you are saying makes sense. if you, however, want a relationship of equals then your advice is just mad.
/r/seduction14/08/15 07:57 AM
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the concept is known as social momentum http://www.simplepickup.com/forum/questions-advice/5892-building-social-momentum-other-useful-things.html first introduced by "60 years of challenge"
/r/seduction14/08/15 07:42 AM
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was going to say the same models, by mark manson
/r/seduction14/08/15 07:39 AM
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baiscally what everyone else said. just effing date her. she genuinly has stuff going on in her life and she gave an alternative. expacially if she is giving you a heads up several days in advance . what does that mean? she was thinking about your date when the new thing came up she was thinking about your date several days before the date dude, that chick is down and has manners. don't be the one to start playing stupid games. you are free at 5pm on sunday so date the shit out of her.
/r/seduction14/08/15 07:37 AM
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what inked25 said. I can recommend Models by Mark Manson, also actually doing the thing is most important. Go out and interact with people. don't become a keyboard-casanova.
/r/seduction14/08/15 07:30 AM
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there is no way to know 100% until you escalate. Get the No, get the truth of the situation. Escalate slowly, see if she resists. if so take two steps back and start escalating again. Assume attraction. Mixed signals can be due to everything and nothing don't worry about it, she probably couldn't even tell you why she is giving you mixed signals. do the attractive thing and do it.
/r/seduction14/08/15 07:26 AM
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I'm from europe, not the UK. My expericence in cardiff was: UK club scene is super easy. girls acctually approach you and are much more approachable. maybe take this as a general refferencepoint for your framing approaching girls in the club This is really what I use. It's that simple. have fun, be in a giving not a taking mindest. you are having fun and you invite others to join the fun try to make eyecontact take one of her hands twirl her dance with her/ talk with her escalate if she's not le…
/r/seduction13/08/15 10:51 PM
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good story, sound advice.
/r/seduction13/08/15 10:35 PM
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from what you write really need a wing man, you will need a mayor life overhaul. And you probably will not implement shit without anyone kicking your but. But first you need to be ready. Ready to give up what you are for what you may become. That sounds cheesy, but it's the way it is. If being sorry for yourself and single is part of your self-image, your subconscious will defend that. I assume you know what I'm talking about, because there is no way you implemented what models suggests and stil…
/r/seduction02/08/15 01:00 PM
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Hi Nate, that doesn't sound too bad. From what you write, it seems you all the literature you read is pretty dated. It's still decent material but new nuances have been discovered. I can recommend Models by Mark Manson. This flake-rate seems perfectly normal to me, considering how fast you seem to pull. Women often decided on gut feeling, and that's a good thing considering that women actually risk something by going on a date with a stranger, so if something doesn't feel right they'll bale. And…
/r/seduction02/08/15 12:33 PM
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it's the intensety the vertigo that comes with it. Might be that the are attracted to the fact that you are where you are despite your bad background. if you can change it you don't need to worry about it, just change it- if you can not change it you can stop worrying because it will not change you cannot change the background your from, so why break a swart about it? you can change who you are now
/r/seduction25/07/15 03:09 PM
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Bad Vibe - Give more then you take, start to give. Hold the door open for people, buy a homeless person a kebab. the little things. E.g. I try to give, by putting more thought into this answer than everyone else that replied so far. more ideas Tonality - acknowledge the fact that you sound like you don't care For example: "I know I sound like I don't care, but I really do. I'm still working on my tonality. If you have any tipps I'm very open to suggestions" . This will ease the situation, also i…
/r/seduction25/07/15 02:58 PM
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please read everything in the "NEW HERE?" seaction on the right sidebar of this subreddit. come back with more specific questions
/r/seduction21/07/15 11:43 AM
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this is really useless without context. each of these sentences might mean something to you but for everyone else it's just buzzword bingo galore
/r/seduction21/07/15 11:40 AM
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put away that book. start having a social live. e.g. not reading in pubs. drunk people do all kind of things, don't overthink it. start by approaching if you can. if you have problems with that, desribe your problems in detial here ad people will try to help
/r/seduction19/07/15 10:50 PM
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seriously? do you know how to use a search engine? well here is the table of contents and 2 test chapters: http://markmanson.net/books/models
/r/seduction19/07/15 08:12 PM
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so how do I move my post? sorry I'm a newbie
/r/seduction19/07/15 08:02 PM
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1 I don't chase them because if I double or triple text them then it basically sends the message that I am available and will always be around to fuck, so girls will make me their back up option while they go fuck some guy on my college's football team. I don't want to be an option, in fact I refuse to be an option. And Girls are the same. At least the ones I want to spend time with. Do you really want to fuck girls that will let you fuck around while they wait for you? For me that mindset comes…
/r/seduction19/07/15 07:59 PM
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