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1

You must be really ugly if you don't think being hit on is possible. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:01 PM
2

When compared to a 40 year old, a 20 year old is a baby. The issue is predatory male behavior and their inability to be attracted to women their own age because of their emotional and sexual immaturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:49 AM
1

No one needs you to play Devil's advocate. It's not the same and you know it. Race and racism is an entirely separate issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:47 AM
2

Believe what you want. I learned a long time ago to not waste energy arguing with the delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:23 AM
4

You've got all of that backwards. Women typically go for men their own age to a decade older because they're being targeted by gross, old men who aren't mature enough to date women their own age and short girls date tall guys because short men throw a hissy fit when we wear heels. Speaking from real life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:44 AM
1

It could be as simple as I'm pretty and men are pigs. This has been a problem since I was 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:24 AM
1

Thing is I'm being honest. You're a shitty person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:11 AM
9

What on Earth is that supposed to mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 01:45 AM
4

I find men other than my husband absolutely repulsive but outside of that, sometimes it's the way they speak to me or look me up and down or grope me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:44 AM
0

I wish I knew why it happens. It's been happening since I was little and I've gone through phases where I purposely got fat to try and make myself less appealing. Nothing changed other than people saying I should be grateful for the attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:43 AM
2

It is wild but eventually my coworkers stopped leaving me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:41 AM
14

I'm one of the women who has seen no change in this area and I really wish I could say otherwise. I work outside in a major city and I can have up to 20 of these disgusting encounters a day. I'm working, comuting and married. I don't want that attention. Just leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:04 AM
1

I live in heels because I was raised wearing them all the time. I was a child and teenage model and it's just what I'm used to walking in. It is funny that these guys get so butthurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:18 PM
3

Aren't you a charming individual?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:34 PM
20

Women do not mature more quickly naturally. That's an excuse men use for why it's okay that they're 40 and going after 18 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:36 PM
0

Lol. We're the same height.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 12:58 PM
0

Men can buy and sacrifice their own heels if height "equality" is so important to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 12:57 PM
0

Exactly. I was so confused. Why does it matter so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:52 AM
-2

It's not the shortness that's unappealing. It's the insecurity and the controlling behavior that comes with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:51 AM
1

Dude, I'm not letting some hairy man stretch out my heels.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:50 AM
18

I didn't used to have a height requirement until I dated 3 short guys and every one of them threw a hissy fit when I wore heels. Never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:14 PM
2

I feel revulsion, except with my husband. Even seeing men in porn grosses me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:18 AM
1

Ha! Men get offended when I pay. Weirdest thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:27 PM
3

Not this dad. He knows that I gave you his number because you creeped me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:01 AM
3

I give out my father's number. Works great.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:38 AM
1

I do 50/50 and I submit when I fucking want to. My husband and I both appreciate a respectful power struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:24 PM
2

Dude, get help. Totally reported you. You're repulsive.
/r/MensRights05/06/22 05:51 PM
3

Yep. I'd still trade.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 03:25 PM
2

Absolutely. If my husband dies, I'm not dating men again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 03:25 PM
5

Yes. There's only one man I want attention from. The rest should just leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:03 AM
2

Men like hurting women who won't fuck them. This isn't news to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:10 PM
5

I had to swim through a sea full of garbage men to find him, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:53 AM
2

Yep. He's the bad boy/good man type. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:46 AM
3

Really. I was immediately drawn to him because he has zero problem saying exactly what he thinks is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:39 AM
11

Speak for yourself. I love it when my husband stands up for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:25 PM
1

Be direct. Nothing he has to say will change my decision but he'll know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:33 PM
3

Exactly the same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:28 PM
2

Nope. I don't even find muscles that attractive and I don't like aggressive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:27 AM
39

Look man, there are some things that no amount of hotness can compensate for. I don't care how attractive a guy is, he can still find ways to make me too grossed out to even look at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:32 PM
4

Men could do a little maintenance to make sure that their partners WANT to be intimate. There is no excuse for infidelity. None. Just be good enough in bed that fucking you doesn't feel like a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 01:33 PM
29

As a woman, I can agree with this. I'm super into pleasing my partner. If I stop, there are 3 possible reasons: His hygiene sucks. He's not returning the favor often enough or well enough. He's consistently getting on my nerves to the point where I do not want to be touched. Those are all serious problems that I'm not willing to push past if there's not an immediate and consistent turn-around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 03:34 PM
2

Lol. Okay buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 04:57 AM
12

I LOVE the fact that my husband is so open and vulnerable with me emotionally. He has no problem telling me when he's having a hard time, is hurting or just needs to cry and be held. That being said, I have dated guys who were so repressed and closed emotionally except for anger. That wasn't fun. There are also the guys who only seem to cry when they aren't getting their way and take it over the top. You end up apologizing, giving him what he wants and consoling him, even when he was the one who…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 04:52 AM
1

Yeah. I don't call the police. I just finally dumped him, called his mother and had her watch him. He knew that my last boyfriend had purposely driven himself into a wall after our breakup. He lived but is mentally and physically crippled for life. This guy was definitely playing off the guilt and it was a bit much for 17 year old me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:12 PM
1

No. I have gone on a date just because the guy guilted me into giving him a "real" chance. After the date, he immediately texted me that he was really grateful to finally have such an awesome girlfriend. I realized that I was going to have to breakup with a boyfriend I never actually agreed to have. He immediately threatened suicide. I was young and let him manipulate me for 2 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 09:53 PM
1

Same, though I admit I do my best to freak most people out so I don't have to deal with them. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:14 PM
3

Everyone has someone who's sick of their shit. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:04 PM
3

I think these men are forgetting to account for the fact that their personalities are shit and their resentment immediately gets them crossed off the list. I don't care how hot or well off he is. If I find out he's a redpiller, I wouldn't even bother explaining why he got cut off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:55 PM
1

Or stay away from women until they develop a genuinely good personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 04:27 AM
1

I recognize the signs and I've seen it a lot. My best friend of 14 years is a guy and I absolutely could not get him to leave this one girl that had dated other friends of mine, in a different state. I tried. I even got some of her exes on the phone. He just refused to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 10:14 PM
7

Straight men can be mega hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 06:44 AM
0

Not happening. Men still used women way before hookup culture was a thing. Nothing we agree to will ever be enough to keep them happy or from being assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:02 PM
5

My ex didn't like this solution to his cheating either. I wonder why...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:10 AM
3

I didn't say they do it improperly. I said they do it inconsiderately.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 02:45 PM
11

What do you mean no one ever wants to talk about male suicide? It's one of the things I hear about CONSTANTLY. What you never hear about is that women experience depression and suicide attempts at higher rates than me. The only reason women fail at suicide is that they choose different methods because they want less pain, an intact body and less of a mess for loved ones to clean up. Men aren't more depressed. They're just less considerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 02:32 PM
2

I found out that that was my ex planned on doing but changed his mind after the sex. I left him for his friend when he told me. I do appreciate men who help hurt shitty men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 01:43 PM
0

I didn't post any incel content.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 05:59 PM
6

I'll be nice because you're clearly too lazy or dumb to use Google. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-instincts/201507/when-men-arent-good-looking-they-think%3famp 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 02:49 PM
-2

Men want to think they're hornier than women because they think it will excuse the pathetic rates of porn addiction, rape, unsolicited dick pics and the fact that they have no standards. Edit: Some smartass blocked me, so I'm just going to respond in an edit.I literally said nothing incel-like. At all. I'm saying a lot of men just want to think women aren't as horny as they are because they can't imagine being horny AND exhibiting self-control.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 02:34 PM
15

There are literally sites full of incels bitching about how they're entitled to women and studies that prove that women think they're uglier and fatter than they are, while men overestimate their attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:59 PM
3

Usually. I really enjoy it when you can tell that that's just how they naturally speak to everyone in general.
/r/seduction25/03/22 04:25 PM
-7

Some women can't take birth control pills for medical reasons, moron. Men had a pill. They just didn't like the side effects and can't be bothered to wear condoms.
/r/MensRights25/03/22 03:45 PM
2

I thought we were talking about in person. Lol. I absolutely do not want to be called babe by random, strange men.
/r/seduction25/03/22 02:57 PM
2

I personally find it much sweeter. I definitely do not want a strange man calling me babe.
/r/seduction25/03/22 02:55 PM
15

Dear, maybe. Babe, absolutely not.
/r/seduction25/03/22 01:07 PM
-19

He's a forced-birther. Not a pro-lifer. People who want to rob women of their right to bodily autonomy don't get to have their opinion respected.
/r/MensRights25/03/22 01:02 PM
3

We know that men lie to exploit us for sex. Fair is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:12 PM
5

Expecting men to provide for the consequences of their orgasms is not exploitation. It's accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:10 PM
1

I'd choose him no matter what and he'd do the same for me. We've already both had flings come back and it's not even a temptation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:41 PM
1

I'm very happily married. I fucking adore him. It's been years and years and we still spend every minute we can together, we don't fight, the sex is great. He definitely makes me happier than my exes. That's why they're my exes. I don't need him to be on his A game all of the time. We both have serious health problems and we take turns taking care of each other. That's kind of the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:06 PM
1

I have plenty of issues. N count is not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:52 PM
1

I don't keep count because it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:58 PM
1

That literally has nothing to do with body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:01 AM
0

Neither my husband or I ever felt the need to ask because it doesn't fucking matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:34 PM
3

They're creative. I've been accused of being a racist several times for not wanting to go out with a guy. I'm like, it's because I'm fucking married!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:56 PM
2

They'll rip my headphones out, clap their hands in front of my face while reading, take my phone from my hands to call their phone. I've snapped, "You're selling dick and I'm not interested! Just go away!" Then they're all, "God! I'm Just trying to be friendly!"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:37 PM
1

Thank you. He's the best!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:10 PM
1

Of course! I feel this way about my husband, one of my brothers and my dead best friend. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 03:28 PM
14

It's very frequent. I try to be nice and patient with the first few of a day but when I'm working and commuting in the city, there's a lot more men to run into and encounters go up. By the end of the day, I'm doing everything I can to make myself look disinterested and unapproachable, I'm pretending I can't hear them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 12:47 AM
0

It was all 3 of the short guys I dated. I even told one of them I'd be willing to switch to flats if he got rid of the facial hair but he refused and continued to bring up the issue. I finally snapped and told him that the sulking was a major turn-off and told him to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:32 PM
2

Of course I did and I tried to reassure him but I'm not changing how I dress just because some guy gets sulky.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 02:18 PM
-4

I've dated both tall and short men. The physical difference doesn't bother me. It's the way short men behave. So unbelievably insecure. If you make me choose between you and wearing high heels, I'm choosing the heels.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:14 PM
21

It's always been very easy for me. It was actually kind of funny when I started dating guys and they were absolutely floored when I felt comfortable making the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:19 PM
-2

Bull. Fucking. Shit. I've had men appear to apologize with genuine remorse and turn around to do the exact same shit + worse, hoping they'd learned how to get away with it.
/r/seduction17/03/22 07:20 PM
0

Eh. I've been dealing with male perverts and assholes my whole life. I've figured out how to make it entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:36 PM
0

For having the arrogance to assume that one dinner is all it takes to get access to my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:33 PM
1

We have options. Just not many good ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:14 PM
0

Depends on the guy. If I can tell that he definitely believes that a date entitles him to sex, I'll do it to crush him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 01:05 PM
1

This doesn't seem appropriate for the sub.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/03/22 01:52 PM
2

If your friend did the dumping or acted like a jerk,it's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:59 PM
2

Trust me, they make sure we know they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 05:45 PM
5

I definitely know how to flirt and put in effort and I do that for my husband. I just get unbelievably sick of being approached by men. I've done everything to make it clear that I absolutely am not interested in being spoken to. They'll come wave their hands in your face if you try to read and ignore them, yank your headphones out, talk through the whole bus ride when all you wanted was Silence, take your phone from your hands and call themselves. Fuck them all. Just leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:32 PM
0

Nope. 100% against conscription for both genders. No need to spread the misery. You shouldn't want people to suffer just because you do.
/r/MensRights10/03/22 01:52 PM
2

I literally wear makeup all of the time and no one is stopping men from using it too. Instead of whining about women having an unfair advantage, step up and teach yourself to use the same advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:30 AM
3

Ha! I love it. My first boyfriend broke up with me because he was in love with my best friend. He didn't know that she and I had secretly been fuck buddies for 4 years whenever we were both single. By the time he biked the 2 miles to ask her out, I'd already walked down the street to her House and asked her to be my girlfriend and come out with me. His fucking face...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:31 PM
3

It's pointless. It's fun to laugh when they realize they chose wrong and come crawling back, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:28 PM
2

Seriously, some guy's ex came at me fucking screaming, "Aren't you going to fight for him?!" I'm like, "Bitch, I already have him. He's welcome to leave me for you. He's only punishing himself."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:27 PM
2

Some of us don't want a family. Reproduction is selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:06 PM
6

Why not both? My husband and I did everyone we wanted and are perfectly happy. Idiots have decided that it's an either/or situation and they're only hurting themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:44 PM
1

No one should be competing for anyone. Either I win hands down or I have no interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:56 AM
7

They can do both.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:15 PM
12

Men have always been allowed to wear makeup if they want. We women, will not be stopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:11 PM
-2

This seems more anti-woman, than anti-feminist.
/r/AntiFeminists05/03/22 03:07 PM
0

I know gaining muscle takes a ton of time, effort and discipline but you guys do lose weight WAY easier. Glad I don't like really muscular men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:58 AM
-2

I see men say the same shit about their girlfriends and wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:34 AM
1

I take your point and agree but feminists make up WAY more than 1% of the work force.
/r/MensRights02/03/22 09:23 PM
5

The most sexually and romantically successful man I ever met was my best friend. He was just under 5'6", a high school drop-out, frequently, unemployed, often broke, had a drinking problem, had a criminal record and was a goofy looking dude. Owen Wilson/Sylvester Stallone nose, crooked teeth and half of his eyelashes were white. I immediately fell for him and so did every other girl he came across. He didn't have looks, height or money. He was completely confident, very original in his flirting,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:45 PM
2

I used to tolerate it until I dated a porn addict. I do not tolerate any participation in the sex industry whatsoever. My husband used to watch really boring porn every 6 months or so and had no problem when I asked him to give it up entirely. I asked if he'd ever been to a strip club or paid for sex and his response was, "Ew. Fuck no. I don't want to fuck someone who has to do it for the money. That's pathetic." I married him so fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:22 PM
1

Looks based is just the nice way of saying shallow as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:17 PM
1

My husband and I are both introverts. We clicked the second we saw each other and putting ourselves out there became easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:05 PM
2

I won't be having any. I already almost died in labor, having a child I didn't want. I refuse to sacrifice my body and freedom to bring children into this shit existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:42 AM
10

Women's sexuality doesn't get any worse with age. Men just need to accept that women physically age just like they do and realize their asses sag after 30 too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:36 AM
20

I've had men react incredibly violently to honest rejection. Sorry but I think we'll stick with the white lies for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:31 AM
3

I grew up homeless. I'll still take attractive. I learned how to be happy with the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:27 AM
6

I've literally dumped men for whining about how much sex I need. We masturbate an insane amount. We just realize that a lot of the time, sex means putting in effort to get a man off and leaving disappointed, so we get more selective with who we make that effort for.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:35 AM
14

It's not just crazy. It's repulsive and criminally insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:46 PM
19

Dude, I've had men fucking me since I was three. Your arousal is not inherently a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:39 PM
-11

Um. No. Your job as a parent, is to guide and care for your child. Not make them clean up after your messes. My child does her own dishes and I do the same.
/r/AntiFeminists28/02/22 03:07 PM
1

You won't die without it. It isn't a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:56 PM
1

We're equal. Men just need to mature enough to stick to women their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:49 PM
0

It's not a need. It's a want. Boys need to be told that it's fine to want sex or a relationship but no one is obligated to want them and it's their responsibility to find ways to cope with rejection that don't involve rape, mass shootings or spreading misogynistic hate online. Learn to masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:44 PM
5

Society won't collapse because women don't want to fuck certain men. Society will collapse if those men can't learn how to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:00 PM
1

I'm no saint but I've never cheated and never will. You can't love someone and do something you know for a fact will hurt them, just because you want something in that moment. I honestly don't even understand the desire to cheat. I met my husband and that was it for me. I just don't have the ability to even be attracted to anyone else. It used to weird me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:44 PM
11

Women being promiscuous is only an issue for the men we don't want. They get angry and violent and that's supposed to be our problem, for some stupid reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:40 PM
2

Lol. He was one of the least concerning ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:41 PM
13

"I love how thin but hippy you are. It's womanly. Of course, it means you probably have a screaming uterus."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:32 AM
1

Okay. In every picture I can find, she's either pregnant or pretty overweight but I wouldn't say obese. Definitely way more than curvy, though.
/r/seduction25/02/22 12:22 PM
4

Hell no. Men have caused me endless problems. I wouldn't want to become one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:05 AM
109

As long as curvy isn't code for overweight, fuck yeah.
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:30 AM
1

The amount is not the point. I do not want a man who feels fine commodifying women's bodies. Period. Especially since most men will disqualify those women as potential mates because of their high body count. It's hypocritical as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:12 AM
-2

I will never blame anyone for doing what it takes to survive but I think fucking someone who's only consenting because they need money to live is repulsive. I will not date a man who partakes in the sex industry in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:07 AM
-2

Most feminists are actually anti-conscription for both genders. I think we'd all be better off fighting against conscription for men, than trying to drag women into it too.
/r/MensRights24/02/22 10:21 AM
2

This is totally a thing. I've dated multiple men way shorter than me. I didn't have a problem with it until they started bitching whenever I wore heels. I absolutely do not like super-muscular or extremely career-oriented men. I've dealt with a lot of violence and I'm perfectly aware that most men are completely capable of physically slaughtering me, even without putting in any effort to be physically fit. I don't need a constant visual reminder in my face, every time I look at a man I'm trying …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:31 PM
1

Any even-minded person would know that your opinion is wrong and worthy of insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:57 PM
1

You could always address what I said before trying to shift the argument.
/r/MensRights22/02/22 07:34 PM
-1

The girl in question was 18. It's quite possible that the barista thought she might still be underage.
/r/MensRights22/02/22 06:32 PM
-22

I'm confused. What does this have to do with men's rights?
/r/MensRights22/02/22 11:37 AM
1

Dude, she was literally apologizing and you went straight to the fuck off place. This time, it's on you.
/r/AntiFeminists22/02/22 08:14 AM
15

You're only owed commitment when someone tells you they've made a commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:37 AM
1

Someone not letting you use their body is not abuse. Period. Sex is not a right. Sick fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:42 AM
3

I'm exactly the same way. I play with him here and there and it's true he does spend a crazy amount of time playing but I say go for it. My husband is wonderful and he doesn't neglect any other aspect of his life or our relationship. He definitely gives me enough love, attention and support. He also really doesn't enjoy games that are all about the violence and he really enjoys playing as characters that are very different from him I also don't watch porn. I saw it for the first time at 17 and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:10 PM

Right? I'm so happy I found my husband but if he dies, I'm sticking with other women because I absolutely will fucking not have these same tedious and infuriating arguments with yet another man. I won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:27 PM
2

Oh yeah. I laid waste to his kingdom and then got happily married.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:39 AM
3

I tried asking but apparently asking questions like that just keeps you in the psych ward longer.
/r/MensRights17/02/22 11:35 AM
1

I think it's essential to know what different groups are saying in their conversations. If you watch, you'll figure out the arguments and questions that always stump them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:14 AM
9

You aren't alone in this feeling. Nothing is easy for anyone anymore. You're dealing with depression and need to get help. I also think it's essential that you realize that other people aren't behaving the way they are, for the reasons you think. It's not that absolutely everyone is incapable of caring or sees relationships as entirely transactional. The truth is that those people are depressed too. Just like you. With the current state of things, major depression is on the rise in every fucking…
/r/MensRights17/02/22 09:27 AM
2

I agree. There are so many instincts and urges that we rightfully expect people to control. Even violence is instinctual. If you've ever been around children, you know that they automatically hit or bite when upset and have to be taught that this is unacceptable and to find different ways to deal with anger and conflict. When adults display violent behavior, we recognize that they were angry and tempted but we also realize that they are still responsible for their behavior and must be held accou…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:24 AM
2

Plenty of people are still quick to blame women and in the past, I believed them and blamed myself. Next relationship, I did absolutely everything I was supposed to do, even if it felt wrong or seemed unfair. It was all for nothing. Cheaters are cheaters and it's NEVER anyone's fault but theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:57 AM

Is it possible that women have simply become disinterested in sex and relationships with men because they've gotten sick of behaviors that men refuse to change, like excessive gaming and porn use?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:25 AM
3

Or their partner is the stupid, selfish one for not learning how to make sex an enjoyable experience for their partner. Not getting what you want is not equivalent to abuse. Moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:40 PM
1

Aww! Your stupidity and selfishness is aggravating but I'm happy to see someone who has clearly never faced real abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:20 PM
2

Dude, you can say whatever you want to try and justify your stance but the bottom line is that you make a vow when you get married. For better or worse. You should be expected to keep your commitment and punished for not doing so. Sex should always be something that both partners want and not a chore or obligation. If you absolutely can't stand having to masturbate and think it justifies betraying your spouse, you never loved them in the first place and you are an awful person. If you're going t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:18 PM
5

We met 14 years ago and are still happily married. We have rough times because of his Bipolar and my Schizoaffective but otherwise, everything is wonderful. We agree on all the big stuff, we still fuck multiple times a week, we text all day when we're working, we spend all our free time together, we're both very affectionate and nurturing, we both despise cheaters and porn, we both have complete access to each other's devices and bank accounts and don't do anything until we've come to a complete…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:44 AM
9

I've never cheated and never would. There is literally no justifiable reason for betraying someone you love. Orgasms are a want. Not a need. Even, if they were an absolute necessity, there's a thing called masturbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:36 AM
6

Nobody said anything about abuse. Are you saying that not having sex with someone is abuse? If so, just wow...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:34 AM
1

Men have multiple reasons for feeling this way. Jealousy, fear that their children might not be theirs, fear of STDs, they enjoy feeling like they own a woman's body and they also don't like women being experienced enough to realize that they suck in bed. With paternity tests, modern medicine and condoms, the only reasons for men to still get bitchy about this shit are jealousy, misogyny, sexual incompetence and insecurity. These are issues for men to work on and we should not curb or restrain o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:45 AM
3

It's not about her wanting a relationship or marriage and being willing to pursue it. It's about how they're so desperate for male attention and validation that they change themselves to please men with unreasonable expectations, accept shitty behavior from men and worst of all, they pass this mindset onto their daughters. It makes it much harder for us to enforce necessary changes in the behavior of awful men because the truth is that men only respond to the threat of being unable to date or ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:59 AM
1

There have been times when I wasn't a total saint with my exes. I was severely traumatized, mentally ill and had been on opioids since I was 3 years old. I never stole or hit or lied or cheated. That doesn't mean I was perfect. I'd get paranoid, I'd snap, I'd refuse to be open about my memories or feelings. I wasn't always easy and I definitely dumped a string of men I had chosen poorly because I never had an example of what a decent person behaved like but ultimately, I can say with confidence …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:31 AM
3

My husband and I both agreed to marriage with a pre-nup. We both like the idea of being able to make sure that there would absolutely be legal and financial consequences for anyone who cheats.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:09 AM
1

I'm literally not turning away anyone. There is absolutely no logical reason to care about body count unless you're just irrationally moralistic. The kind of people who would be turned away by that fact, are exactly the kind of people I have no interest in speaking to. They've already proven themselves to be judgemental, puritanical, controlling and insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:52 PM
1

My husband and I are very compatible and very happy. Have been since we got together. We both know that we're both plenty experienced with both genders and how experienced is something neither of us is insecure enough to dig into.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:45 PM
1

It's really not. If they have less, you can teach them. If they have more, they can teach you. It's a non-issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:35 PM
1

Body count. It's a stupid thing to judge another person by.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:55 PM
1

That means it's still a matter of irrational insecurity and it's not our responsibility to compensate for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:02 PM
1

I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:50 PM
1

No because we agreed to a committed relationship. The past is the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:50 PM
1

Body count says nothing about faithfulness.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:49 PM
1

And I know that it doesn't matter, so any man who asks is an automatic no.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:47 PM
1

The number of partners you have literally doesn't change you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:45 PM
1

Of course insecurities are normal. It's still your responsibility to be aware of them and work on them. That's why everyone should have a don't ask/don't tell policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:43 PM
2

Because the only reason you'd care about body count, is if you're A. insecure or B. think that having sex inherently decreases a woman's worth. My husband and I will never ask for or share our body counts because as long as everyone is clean and consenting, it literally doesn't matter at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:16 AM
2

My husband and I have never felt the need to discuss our body counts because it literally does not matter, as long as everyone is clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:46 AM
3

Depends on the husband but even the mature ones suddenly turn into toddlers the second they get a mild cold. It's really confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:03 PM
2

As long as he's clean and everyone consented, why would I care?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:23 AM
-12

Men can use condoms, get a vasectomy or remain abstinant if they don't want to risk being a father.
/r/MensRights14/12/21 05:12 AM
1

So, people get creative with names. Little girls have been playing with make-up for forever and I don't see the men here throwing a hissy-fit about it. It's almost like you're not actually upset about the sexualization of minors but are instead, pissed about little boys acting in a feminine way. Interesting.
/r/AntiFeminists02/12/21 07:19 PM
-17

Dildos are inherently sexual. Make-up is not. The two things do not equate. Try harder.
/r/AntiFeminists01/12/21 10:55 PM
-3

Letting kids play with make-up is not grooming. Chill.
/r/AntiFeminists01/12/21 10:49 PM
-21

Playing with makeup is also playing.
/r/AntiFeminists01/12/21 10:46 PM
-29

Good? Violence should be discouraged and self-expression should be encouraged.
/r/AntiFeminists01/12/21 09:01 PM
4

You're right. Attila was competent.
/r/AntiFeminists23/11/21 01:02 AM
2

They are indeed both stupid but everything I said, is still true.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/11/21 04:27 PM
43

This is not the original video. He asked her to hit him and she did. He went way over the top in his response. He was looking for an excuse to hit her. That's obvious.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/11/21 04:22 PM
-10

Absolutely agree but at least circumcision still lets you orgasm.
/r/MensRights11/11/21 06:50 AM
3

You're right and I'm sorry you've been downvoted.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/11/21 06:44 AM
-19

I absolutely disapprove of circumcision but yes, FGM is far worse.
/r/MensRights11/11/21 06:40 AM
1

If you wouldn't get an abortion yourself but support another woman's right to choose, you're still pro-choice.
/r/AntiFeminists11/11/21 12:59 AM
2

The second verse is even better.
/r/AntiFeminists09/11/21 06:41 PM
-2

Forget men vs. women. This is adults vs. children and as an adult, you are responsible for making sure you're not fucking a child. You know damn well if someone looks a bit too young for you. Stick to people who look around your own age and get to know them before sticking your dick in them.
/r/MensRights02/11/21 09:22 PM
3

We've overpopulated the planet and most people don't make good parents anyways. This is an improvement. Not something we need to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 07:33 PM
2

Absolutely not. I'll say whatever I have to to get a guy to shut up and let me walk away. It's really annoying that I'm married and still have to deal with random men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 07:17 PM
3

This doesn't surprise me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 09:25 PM

I have an absolutely wonderful husband. I truly love him with all my heart. That being said, my experience with most men has been truly awful. He's the excellent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 01:09 AM
-10

Yeah. It seems to me that if you're mad about men being murdered, you should be mad at the men doing the killing. Not women who also don't want to be murdered.
/r/AntiFeminists06/10/21 02:16 PM
-10

Right? Men can't be responsible for the majority of domestic violence, rape and murder and then get mad when women are scared of them. I of course feel bad for male victims but when men are the perpetrators, bitching about women is not a solution.
/r/AntiFeminists06/10/21 02:09 PM
2

Good. Leave us alone.
/r/AntiFeminists19/09/21 07:07 PM
2

Nope. I went through EVERYTHING.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 03:03 PM
2

I may notice that a guy is attractive but I never do more than quickly glance. For me, it's all about the eyes, smile and build.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 06:17 PM
12

I'm a bisexual woman who's had multiple relationships with both men and women. I know I've never cheated. I'm monogamous and devoted to the point where it's actually hazardous. Out of all the men I've dated, there was only one who never cheated as far as I knew. With the women, I had suspicions about one of them but that's it. So, from my experience, both genders cheat but men definitely cheat way more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 06:11 PM
4

Not really. I constantly have options but I did make an active choice to not date for a whole year after 15 years of truly horrifying relationships. You should've seen the faces of the men asking me out. "I don't date." "It's okay if you're busy. Later in the week good?" "I don't date." "Wait. You mean you don't date at all?!"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 08:47 PM
2

At least every woman gets a heads-up so they can avoid him.
/r/AntiFeminists12/09/21 05:08 AM
1

I'd have no problem with my husband using toys of any kind. I'd have a problem if he jerked off to fake women on the internet. That actually involves other people. I didn't used to have a problem with porn until I dated a porn addict. I absolutely do not tolerate anything but 100% monogamy anymore and that includes using other people to get off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 05:58 PM
2

-10.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:49 PM
1

Once again, it varied.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:41 PM
3

I've seen it many times. Some have lasted. Most relationships just don't, no matter what the people are like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 05:21 AM
3

Depended on the situation but most of them had girls I would consider out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 05:11 AM
3

I've known ugly men with worse personalities than mine who managed to get a girlfriend, so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:39 AM
3

It's not that relationships inherently make us unhappy. It's just relationships with most men because they don't carry their fair share with chores, child care, sex or emotional labor. That doesn't stop us from seeking out a relationship with a partner who acts like an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 09:46 PM
1

It is not the default state for me and I love my husband more than it's possible to love someone and I'm simply not attracted to anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 10:04 PM
2

Why do you need women to be submissive? That's fucking disgusting and dehumanizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:21 AM
2

My husband didn't believe me when I told him what a huge problem it is until we went to Seattle and I told him to watch what happens when I just stand on a street by myself. He was horrified by how many times I was approached, cat-called or had men trying to touch me.
/r/seduction14/07/21 12:46 AM
2

Mostly middle-aged, broke-looking white guys. Some of them seemed a bit off.
/r/seduction14/07/21 12:09 AM
0

I really don't think that's it. The problem is that assholes pretend to be decent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 07:30 PM
1

I get that it works sometimes. I'm not debating that at all. I'm just saying that I'm sick of putting up with it. It's non-stop and that's annoying. And creepy.
/r/seduction13/07/21 07:20 PM
1

Or you could just not harass random women?
/r/seduction13/07/21 07:00 PM
3

Really. I had to wait 45 minutes for a bus the other day and got asked for my number by 4 different guys in those 45 minutes. A guy sitting on a nearby bench busted up laughing and said, "Jesus Christ! It's fucking relentless!"
/r/seduction13/07/21 06:44 PM
3

Ugh. No. I hate being constantly approached by strange men. I can't make it through a single day without being harassed by some horny asshole.
/r/seduction13/07/21 04:43 PM

There's a huge correlation between porn and early erectile dysfunction. It's also been proven that porn users are more likely to cheat, develop an eating disorder or display violent tendencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:11 PM
-1

It's funny that I don't have the same issue with my female partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:23 PM
0

As a bisexual woman, your post is absolutely absurd. I put everything into my relationships and so did my girlfriends. My husband is wonderful but all of my ex-boyfriends were human sewage. There was a pedophile. There was a Meth/Heroin/gambling/porn addict. There was the stalker who broke into my apartment and stole all of my underwear. There was the guy who killed a prostitute and left her in our bed on Thanksgiving. I've never had a relationship with a woman that was half as bad as any relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:36 AM
2

100% agreed. Have an upvote.
/r/MGTOW230/06/21 12:23 PM
0

I don't think making it easier for men to cheat is a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:58 PM
2

No. It's just happened a bunch of times and it's not worth the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:35 PM
1

None of it bothers me. As long as everyone was consenting and clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:12 PM
1

I'm more attractive than average or so I've been told and I get hit on non-stop, both online and in person. I was waiting 45 minutes for a bus last week and a guy sitting on a bench near me actually started laughing because he watched 3 different guys come up and ask me out. It's actually really annoying. I'm married and I have zero interest in even speaking to men outside of my relationship because even if a man says he's cool with just being friends, he never actually means it. It's also worse…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:07 PM
1

Duh. Women constantly adjust their physical appearance to match trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 02:48 PM
3

Not at all but I also won't date anyone I find unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 06:08 PM
1

It's not different. Everyone has their preferences. I was a bit chubby in middle school and there was a guy who bullied me constantly. I moved away, lost a lot of weight and moved back 3 years later. I ran into this guy and he asked me out in front of his friends. He didn't even recognize me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 03:14 PM
-9

r/MGTOW2 and r/Whereareallthegoodmen are just as hateful, if not worse. It's not a one-way street.
/r/MensRights15/04/21 05:03 AM
40

Because you shouldn't lie to your partner. That's pretty obvious to any decent person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 10:16 PM
6

I don't like romance novels but I know plenty of happily married and/or attractive women who do enjoy them, including my ex girlfriend and my grandmother. I don't personally see the appeal but I still think it's way better than porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 12:06 AM
6

I'm bisexual and I don't give a shit how many partners or relationships anyone has had, male or female. That being said, a lack of platonic, female friends that he's never dated, slept with or is related to, is a major red flag. If you can't be just friends with a woman, without potentially getting laid, then you don't respect women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 04:22 PM
-1

There's a lot of reasons for that. It could be that the chemistry was more intense with a particular person. Maybe one man made a greater emotional connection with her than she felt with other guys. It might also be that in past relationships, it was easier to be vulnerable in the beginning because we're naturally more trusting when we're younger but learn to be more cautious after a few bad experiences. Maybe she's grown up and her priorities have changed. People are allowed to develop and chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 09:27 PM
1

There's something wrong with fat people. I get that there really are cases where people are genetically predisposed towards obesity but in 95% of cases it's just poor diet and no exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 02:05 PM
1

I don't think so. I think that humans in general are considered disposable by people at the top. Sure, there are plenty of examples of women and children being prioritized over men but many parts of the world are having problems because there are so few females because sons are prized over daughters and female children face genocide. There are examples of privilege for every group. I also think that workers and employees are seen as a disposable commodity and certain jobs with high levels of ris…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:08 PM
3

Yeah, some men can't get laid. Neither can some women. We all have our problems. Sometimes our problems are personal. Not the result of some great failure on society's part. Sure, sex is great and important in certain ways. So is walking. Doesn't mean you can't survive and be happy without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 05:06 PM
4

Thank you! I just don't think that blaming people for what happens to them if they don't act like a paranoid freak 24/7 is a good solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 04:37 PM
5

The world should be made safe and transparent for everyone but it obviously never will be. That means we should punish the shitty people. Not call it the victim's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 04:38 AM
2

Some people don't enjoy sex without an emotional attachment. Waiting to make sure there's a bond makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 04:14 AM
2

Sorry but no. It's all the liar's responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 04:09 AM
2

If a woman says that she's not looking for something casual and a guy pretends to be more serious than he is, just to get laid, that's not her fault. That's 100% his problem. As long as she's straight-forward about her expectations, there's literally no excuse for that kind of behavior but it happens a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 10:29 PM
1

I think most of us are still good with them. It's just not a topic anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 07:51 PM
0

I absolutely disagree with the fact that body positivity excludes men. The one chick with some double-standards, does not represent the majority. We all remember when the "Dad Bod," trend was huge and that's because women don't generally care about physical perfection in a man. However, I completely agree that fetishizing overweight women is a huge part of the movement and should stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 04:15 PM
2

The friend zone isn't real. Sometimes people just like you and find you interesting or worth knowing as a person but don't find you romantically or sexually attractive. It's perfectly fair to let someone know that you'd still like to know them without fucking them. No one is forcing anyone to hang around if they can't handle being friends. To be honest, if you don't find someone good enough to just be friends with, you probably shouldn't be pursuing them romantically in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 07:27 PM
1

Men wouldn't have to worry about being in a violent confrontation, if men weren't so violent in general. You're the most likely victims of your own group's shitty behavior. Doesn't mean you don't have privilege.
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