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Cool, keep at it champ. We all got the juice to get what we want
/r/seduction17/03/20 07:24 PM
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I never once implied I'm perfect, nor do I think so. You're right, I don't know you, but your reaction and ranting here shows the way you look at yourself, and I wouldn't be surprised if the way you look at yourself and the ranting going on here showed itself in other parts of your behavior, especially around women. I'm not saying it definitely does, but this kind of defeatist attitude is rarely compartmentalized like this. I want you to keep your chin up and keep going at it without thinking th…
/r/seduction17/03/20 07:08 PM
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All due respect, your attitude blows and I wouldn't be surprised if it's reflected in your behavior elsewhere
/r/seduction17/03/20 01:48 PM
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You actually don't have to at all
/r/seduction16/03/20 04:45 PM
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I don't suck at texting lol. I just don't text too much because it's weak game for zoomers. I meet up with the girls I'm interested in and get their full attention and build up mystery while we're away from each other. Texting is objectively inferior to meeting in person.
/r/seduction11/03/20 07:21 PM
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I don't know what this is supposed to mean lol. This sub is filled to the rim with shitty opinions from people who can't get a girl to save their lives. Good luck texting your way into bed guys
/r/seduction11/03/20 03:10 PM
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There's really no reason to be texting her all that much. No woman worth her salt is on her phone texting that much
/r/seduction11/03/20 01:27 PM
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That's the wrong camp lol. You're not supposed to have phone game. Have in-person game and use the phone as a tool. When you meet someone in person and get their number, you're not supposed to dip right after that. That's when you "get to know each other"
/r/seduction11/03/20 01:26 PM
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There certainly are women like that, in fact a lot of women are like that. But that "fetish" is something you need real trust and understanding, and often a safe word, to practice. That's a big hell no with a stranger.
/r/seduction08/06/19 06:38 PM
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You in Lebanon by any chance?
/r/seduction06/02/19 03:19 PM
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Different positions, different locations, different mannerisms/dynamics, different dates (the date is what makes the sex good, not the other way around) etc. I'm sure you can think of some kinky things to do; try some of the tamer stuff without asking. For the more adventurous ones, talk about it then try it. Girls are fucking kinky too. Bang in different spots around the house. Bang in a total different home. Talk dirty. There's a whole lot to do that will imprint you in her mind. When she tell…
/r/seduction06/01/19 10:45 AM
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Just say something, ask something. Conversations go with statements. You see a friend and you usually tell them something. You ask about interesting things. You're allowed (frankly encouraged) to just tell her something about your day. Tell her about whatever you felt was noteworthy enough to tell your friends. If you applied to x or are waiting on something just say it. If she's even a little fun the conversation will flow.
/r/seduction11/07/18 10:32 PM
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The courtship never ends. Don't get complacent. Good job so far, keep it up
/r/seduction05/07/18 09:05 PM
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Then start screening for women you're interested in beyond sex. There's tons of great women out there who are a ton of fun as well.
/r/seduction31/05/18 02:04 PM
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Cool, I'm glad we're on the same page. You're always putting out great stuff and helping out, thank you
/r/seduction31/05/18 02:33 AM
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I don't think it has to go that far. It's simply a matter of not letting her know exactly how you feel when you first begin courtship. It's much more effective to show interest genuinely, then back off a little bit and see if she chases. Women want to chase. It's never a matter of lying, lying is wrong. And it's not a matter of stonewalling either, it's just a matter of making her want to find out more about you, and feeding it to her slowly. Avoiding texting for the first couple weeks and leavi…
/r/seduction31/05/18 12:14 AM
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Sorta, but the book on it's own is more than enough. You can google the stuff, it'll lead to his videos, but if you can look past it, he has some good stuff going on
/r/seduction30/05/18 10:55 PM
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When she's talking to strangers, she would do this same thing, dude. It's just a habit she has. It could just be a habit. Playing with hair is NOT a good enough sign of interest lol.
/r/seduction30/05/18 04:18 PM
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My sister would play with her hair while talking to anyone and looking them in the eyes. I really don't think you should dig too deep into playing with hair
/r/seduction30/05/18 03:56 PM
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Always been that way. Most people aren't your match
/r/seduction30/05/18 03:49 PM
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Absolutely do not reach out for a few days. Build anticipation. Make her wonder why you haven't reached out. If she wants to talk so badly, she can reach out herself. Be mysterious, make her think about you. Reach out in 5 days to a week and set up a date. Don't talk in the mean time. Building anticipation is the biggest key here. The courtship doesn't stop even after you've hooked up. Her feeling like a slut means she's not comfortable with who she is. She's going to be pretty high maintenance …
/r/seduction30/05/18 02:56 PM
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Screen for people who suck at holding down a conversation. Generally avoid texting early on, it's not mysterious at all. Screen for people who flake and don't commit to a specific time/date. Don't confirm by text beforehand. All you need to do is screen for bad quality people. Most people out there don't mesh with you properly, so ideally you should be uninterested in most people on a romantic level once you know enough about them
/r/seduction30/05/18 02:54 PM
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Oh absolutely. The most important thing you learn from him is backing off. I always tell my friends to back off nowadays and be patient and try to not think about her, and it works like a charm. He also teaches you how to open yourself up without giving too much away or sobbing or whatever. It's a really good book, I think in combination with Models, it makes for a really good approach to women
/r/seduction30/05/18 02:49 PM
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No. Some girls just play with their hair and do that kind of stuff. My sister used to get the fucking house covered in hair because she liked playing with her hair. I'd look for something way more concrete than that
/r/seduction30/05/18 02:35 PM
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It's a good book, but he doesn't put enough emphasis on creating anticipation and being mysterious. "How to be a 3% man" is models with a little extra to it where it matters. It teaches you to be yourself and screen for women like Models does, but it also teaches you that you can't just show all your cards because that's boring. I would recommend reading both, and then not reading anything anymore and just going out and trying your luck. Too much reading is an excuse to not try
/r/seduction30/05/18 02:34 PM
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Models is not about relationships like committed relationships for couples. It's about relationships with people. Interactions between people. Models is a great book, and better than it still is "How to be a 3% man" or something like that. 3% man is a little better than Models because it's a little more practical and it's a lot more dense in the areas that matter.
/r/seduction30/05/18 02:20 PM
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I don't need to tell you about every woman I'm with lmfao. Gtfo of here you loser haha
/r/seduction29/05/18 09:35 PM
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Why so?
/r/seduction29/05/18 07:52 PM
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Not even close to the same thing haha.
/r/seduction29/05/18 07:50 PM
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That's a lot of money to meet women.... Read a single (and only one) solid pick up book and then just go out out out. You don't need to spend all that
/r/seduction29/05/18 07:42 PM
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Im not seeing it on a daily basis. I spend my time with awesome women on a daily basis. Women who have done and are still doing great things. But you wouldn't know of such women with a garbage attitude like that. They wouldn't even look at you.
/r/seduction29/05/18 06:18 PM
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It's so funny. It's like one dad representing all guys out there. Shucks. Looks like we're all taken boys, shut the sub down
/r/seduction29/05/18 06:01 PM
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Frankly, the attitude and mindest you're in right now will almost certainly project through your interactions with women. You've been through a lot, so you're being needy. Women don't like needy. You need to cut it out for a little bit, go to the gym, get some wins in your life and start feeling good and being confident again. Once you can stop being needy, you can have success with women again. Just focus on yourself right now and catching some wins; imrproving yourself and being successful.
/r/seduction29/05/18 05:59 PM
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Haha guarantee failure? How would you do that? I'm seeing success on a daily basis, I'm loving life. There ARE badass women. You're blatantly wrong there. Your claim is entirely baseless, and to make a sweeping generalization about the population like that you have to prove it. You can have whatever shitty attitude you want, enjoy yourself, dude.
/r/seduction29/05/18 05:55 PM
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Haha, this is what I'm talking about. There are awesome men and women out there. Your job is to screen for them. With your shit attitude, I guarantee awesome women are screening for you and making sure you don't even get a snowball's chance in hell with them. I'm having a great time with women despite what you may think. It's simply because I don't have any anger or insecurities regarding women, so I find women who don't have any anger or insecurities regarding men, and it's a great time. Give i…
/r/seduction29/05/18 05:09 PM
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They'll start to think so, but it depends on your actions from there on out. If you look needy, they'll know you are. If you don't harp on it and move along, they'll just take the compliment for what it is.
/r/seduction29/05/18 04:37 PM
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If that's what you think of women, those are the kinds of women you're going to find and wind up with. There are some mind-blowingly awesome people out there, and women are a solid chunk of them. Your outlook sucks so you're naturally going to have a shitty time. You can't even make male friends with that attitude, none the less females. You can talk to women for hours both about yourself and about her. They want to find out about you too, you just can't be a selfish, opportunistic cunt about it
/r/seduction29/05/18 04:36 PM
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Personally I hit it off better with older women. I'm 21 and the 25-30 demographics are crazy about me, while girls my age often don't give me the light of day. There are a few go-to lines for when an older woman tells you "oh you're a baby" (I hear those words often) or "oh my God you're so young". My favorites are: "Wouldn't be my first time" "Every time I hear that there's a happy ending" "Is that a challenge?" Keep it a quick line, smile when you say it and look her dead in the eyes. Then mov…
/r/seduction29/05/18 04:26 PM
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She's your ex for a reason, but she was also your gf for a reason. Hit it and move along. She can stay in your corner but you do not commit to her again.
/r/seduction21/05/18 05:00 PM
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Sure, if you spend time in places where people like yourself would be found, theoretically you should find a woman like that. Statistically, there's definitely plenty of women like that
/r/seduction15/05/18 05:46 AM
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K.I.S.S came well before Michael Scott lol
/r/seduction14/05/18 11:49 PM
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Do not talk to her anymore. She ghosted you. Disappear and in 2-4 weeks she may or may not reach out. You've exhausted your reasonable attempts at reaching out
/r/seduction14/05/18 10:44 PM
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Which is fine, learning experience
/r/seduction14/05/18 10:26 PM
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You messed up when you didn't ask her out face to face. Never do over the phone what you can do face to face. You generally want to avoid texting as much as possible. If she's been ghosting you it's done, don't text her anymore at all. There's a slim chance she reaches out in 2-4 weeks, but don't bank on it. Move on
/r/seduction14/05/18 10:10 PM
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Alright dude. You do you. If that's how you see it, by all means go for it. You and I are operating on different planes and do different things to meet our different goals. Good luck to you
/r/seduction14/05/18 02:16 PM
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Nope, build anticipation. You shouldn't even talk to her at all leading up to the date. If you're going to pick her up, don't even confirm text. Just show up at the right time. Make her reach out in anticipation
/r/seduction14/05/18 01:03 AM
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Exactly, so don't talk to them at all. They're not worth your time in any fashion, no need to be good or bad with them, just don't waste your time
/r/seduction14/05/18 12:44 AM
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That's not what game is about haha. We're talking over each other completely, this conversation is pointless. If you're just trying to fuck women within 2-3 hours, more power to you. Meeting women can be astronomically more enjoyable than just that, building relationships with women you meet is a lot of fun, often more fun than banging. You and I are operating on entirely different levels. Game to me is so you can open women up and have a good time with them in a myriad of ways. If you just want…
/r/seduction13/05/18 06:47 PM
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He's right, I didn't imply that at all. You have to be what you want to attract. You can fake it in the short term, but long term, you have to be what you want. You want a woman who works hard, takes care of her body and goes to parties? You have to work hard, take care of your body and go to parties. You can't reasonably expect to meet a woman like that and hit it off with her if you're not doing those things for real.
/r/seduction13/05/18 03:39 PM
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It doesn't directly refute it, haha. It's based in anecdotal evidence. Having friends that do x isn't the be-all-end-all of a conversation. You can fake having your shit together, money can compensate for that to a degree, there are a lot of different factors in play, sure. However the overarching theme is that you cannot he someone who plays video games and smokes weed all day and expect to meet and flirt with attractive women successfully. When you yourself are an attractive man who has his sh…
/r/seduction13/05/18 03:20 PM
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Not necessarily. You can totally date up in terms of attractiveness, but you just have to actually BE up in other ways.
/r/seduction13/05/18 06:25 AM
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Places/activities that pertain to your interests, with a few exceptions. I've met some of my favorite women on the basketball court of all places lol. I've met some at political clubs/groups, music events etc. Book clubs for people who are in those. Whatever activities you partake in you'll usually find women you have many things in common with
/r/seduction13/05/18 06:22 AM
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Approaching at the gym will yield one of the lower success rates. It's not a very social environment, a lot of people go there to focus on themselves rather than meet people. Good shot but don't expect too much from there
/r/seduction12/05/18 11:24 PM
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Unpopular opinion, but wait for 10 days or so to have passed before reaching out. Make her wonder what happened to that dude she was getting handsy with, then hit her up and surprise her. She's expecting to hear from you soon, break that expectation
/r/seduction12/05/18 11:11 PM
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I don't think people are expecting success to replace it at all. It's just that it's very difficult to attract women if you're not an attractive person. You have to be who you want to attract. If you want a hot woman who has her shit together, you have to be that. You can fake it, but only for so long. Most people that hop on here are NOT who they want to attract, and so will have a hard time doing exactly that no matter what lines they use. It's very hard to make a community that can cater to a…
/r/seduction12/05/18 06:37 PM
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Just let it come to you. Call her a name when something comes to mind, or just don't even say anything about her calling you a name. Sometimes her saying the same thing over and over isn't worth a response. It's not bad it's just the joke turned into more of a pet name. Just go with the flow
/r/seduction12/05/18 06:25 AM
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Most of my girls will call me a dork or a motherfucker or something. Every once in a while it's funny if you "get mad" and tell her to watch it or you'll whoop her ass. Play fight or whatever. She might call you Daddy which is fun. It's not a shit test she's just playing with you, play back
/r/seduction12/05/18 06:12 AM
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You're probably not even cutting her loose. She'll be back talking to you, just be a little mysterious
/r/seduction26/04/18 01:26 AM
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Dude, I promise you I've thought exactly what you're thinking now, and it's never ever turned out well. If you disappear, she will chase. Don't get in your own head about her. Women WANT to chase, if you persist, she'll lose interest. Women are like cats, men are like dogs
/r/seduction26/04/18 01:18 AM
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You're right, that's totally paranoid and desperate. The best bargaining move you can have is to be truly willing to walk away from something. Leave, don't talk to her, she will reach out in due time, I promise. Immediately set a date when she does reach out, and don't catch up, leave that for the date.
/r/seduction25/04/18 11:09 PM
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Just don't remind her, and don't talk to her until the date to build anticipation. She doesn't need a reminder, you're right. She just wants to see if you will. I'm willing to bet if you remind her, she'll come up with a reason not to go. Don't remind her, and watch her reach out to ask why you didn't lol
/r/seduction25/04/18 11:06 PM
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This reference is soaring above my head lol
/r/seduction20/04/18 07:09 PM
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Fewer*
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:47 PM
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Don't text if you have a date set. It builds anticipation which is exactly what you want. Make her call you to confirm or whatever. That's all a good thing. They want to chase and wonder what you think. Girls are more attracted to guys whose feelings are more ambiguous. In the first couple months, you want to build as much anticipation as possible by not talking on the phone too much (calls/texts/snaps etc)
/r/seduction19/04/18 06:41 PM
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It's all good. There's no universal method, different people do things differently, it's nice to exchange ideas
/r/seduction17/04/18 06:33 PM
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Again, if she doesn't care to ask for your name, you can assume you should bounce. It's a very simple easy way to screen. Just don't offer your name, make her ask for it
/r/seduction17/04/18 05:45 PM
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Fuck that show lol Go out on a date, do your normal thing and have a good time, connect emotionally, and then go to her place afterward when she invites you again
/r/seduction17/04/18 05:38 PM
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Not giving your name is a good way to gauge interest and not leave all your cards on the table. If she doesn't ask for your name, you can safely assume you should bail. If she does, you can slowly work your way to gauging her attraction.
/r/seduction17/04/18 05:34 PM
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I have been seduced
/r/seduction05/04/18 03:56 AM
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Possibly. Or maybe you said something weird, or maybe she hasn't checked, or maybe she isn't interested the same way you are or maybe this or maybe that. Best thing is to put it out of your mind and don't over analyze, don't double text/email. If you can make a few approaches and talk to a couple other women you'd be doing yourself a huge solid
/r/seduction13/08/17 03:22 PM
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I mean I'm in a big city myself here in Texas. I know big city life. My other Arab friend really clicks with Asians unlike me and white girls like I do, but falls hilariously short when it comes to black women, which I personally see a lot of success with. Frankly I see it more as an issue of difference in our environments; I spend more time in government offices and working there, while he spends more times in the programming sphere. When you look at it like that, it makes a little more sense. …
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 07:51 AM
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I can sort of agree, but for the most part, I feel like you're blanketing a lot. Especially at this point, interracial is not a big deal at all for most people. I'm an Arab guy and the only demographic I really have any issue getting along with is Asians. They just don't like me for some reason and it's fine by me, I don't particularly care. White women love me. Not even kidding. I always assumed it was because I'm "exotic" for being Arab but I have consistent success with white women, in Texas.…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 07:31 AM
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"nigga" I don't care about the college part. I walk to school and take the bus to work. I'm taking about going out and taking women out in college without a car because I bought my car at 17 and don't know what it's like to take women out without it.
/r/seduction18/04/17 02:53 PM
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"Thank you" with a glowing smile because I appreciate the compliment haha. Taking a compliment gracefully is key, good question
/r/seduction11/09/16 06:44 AM
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Enno eh khayye, men hek badnan dabber wehde tkoun hadra wa2ta ousal haha.
/r/seduction28/03/16 02:17 PM
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I'm noticing the same things you have man, I'm just hoping for some veterans to tell me I'm doing the right thing. I appreciate it, hang in there yourself, I hope it works out the way you want it to!
/r/seduction28/03/16 02:10 AM
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As I thought, yeah. I intend to take the friends part seriously and just enjoy the benefits. I'm not looking to pull some playa shit, I want to be straightforward with all of them and treat them as well as I reasonably can, yknow? Just a little bit of romance everywhere I go. Thanks man.
/r/seduction28/03/16 01:43 AM
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I can't even explain myself thoroughly to explain what I want haha. It's not really a pimping kind of thing, I intend to be in touch with women I care about on a personal level, and we just both find each other attractive so we mess around now and then. I have male and female friends in all these spots because of the time I've lived in each, and I was just wondering how I can improve my experience of travelling by having some relationships that aren't tied down, for both of us. I feel I have the…
/r/seduction28/03/16 01:18 AM
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Huge thanks my man. I needed to have someone tell this to me in this way. I appreciate my friends and what they have to tell me, but bro-advice is hilariously bad and we all know it haha. Funniest part is that we all precede our advice with "I don't really know man but..." haha. Thanks again.
/r/seduction28/03/16 01:13 AM
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Haha I remember the first time I had sex at my girlfriends house. I had to leave and meet up with the guys to play basektball. I said goodbye and just stood for a second after she closed the door seeing if I felt any different/special. Didn't feel anything, so I just shrugged and went to play ball. It feels great and everything and it's a lot of fun but it's overhyped kinda. Oftentimes I'd rather do something else besides sex. I agree with this post.
/r/seduction05/09/15 02:43 PM
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I'm also reading 'Models' right now, and I read that part today and moved into part two of the book. I'm not sure if I should've made any improvement yet in my life, but I feel I'm starting to get the picture in general of how to go about different things. If this girl is making you contemplate all of this then you're investing in her more than she is in you I'm guessing. So you need to tone it down, invest in yourself. When you're not reading the book, go out and get some things done. I investe…
/r/seduction10/01/15 10:33 PM
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Well her actions matter more by a long shot, because what's happening with you clearly doesn't fit what she's allegedly saying. In your place, I'd be out of there soon, though. If things like this are already happening, I can't imagine what kind of situations you might get into down the line. Maybe I'm just pessimistic but that's what I would do if I were you.
/r/seduction13/12/14 07:45 AM
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The second point kind of sets you up to deal with the failure everyone is bound to achieve. If you can truly get any woman you want, the second point is negligible and totally unnecessary.
/r/seduction26/05/14 03:52 PM
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From the very first words you speak to her you need to let her know your intentions. That way you've established why you're there. Next. If you're interested in something, you inquire/ask questions about it. Same with women. Ask them questions to get to know them. If this is a case of day game you don't want to take too long and you either want to get a date set up or get a number. As for game during the evening, you need to get the conversation going, anything. You could talk about vegetables e…
/r/seduction10/02/14 08:46 PM
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Put yourself in the mindset that they're ALL giving you the look. Just choose the girl youre interested in and approach. Whether or not she's interested in you before youve spoken shouldn't affect whether or not you approach IMO. To answer your question, I've had better results with women who've made prolonged gazes at me or frequent glances. They don't necessarily have a look on their face, there's nothing to look for there.
/r/seduction09/02/14 03:23 PM
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Haha. think of your successes in that case. That's what works for me. You never know, maybe THIS girl is the most open one you'll meet yet. Put yourself in the mindset of your 'not giving a shit' days by going over one of them and you'll lose some of your anxiety hopefully. Good luck out there playa
/r/seduction04/02/14 04:31 PM
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This is what I would do; tell her the place and time for your proposed date. If she can't make it, take another girl and send a broadcasted snapchat (since she likes snapchats apparently) of you enjoying that date. If she talks to you be a little different in the sense that you're 'busy'. Friendly and all but you don't have time for somebody who doesn't have time for you. If she ends up trying to talk to you about it tell her what's going on in your head. Don't scold her, that's no good, just te…
/r/seduction04/02/14 09:40 AM
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It will always fluctuate. It does with me all the time as well. Some days my lines are golden and others days I go home and I'm laughing cuz the failures are kind of funny. Don't worry about the fluctuating game just keep at it. It's kind of like a gamble if you think about it because every personality is different so your luck will even out. It's not like you're consistently bad, you clearly have game so just keep at it and they'll keep coming. That's just my opinion I hope others have somethin…
/r/seduction04/02/14 09:34 AM
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Blackmail? I just dont want her to feel like she's the only woman I'm interested in. I'd like to have a physical relationship with that understanding.
/r/seduction14/09/13 07:13 PM
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In other words I want her to feel 'threatened' that there are people besides her out there I am interested in, including her, but that she's not the only one. Am I being unrealistic?
/r/seduction14/09/13 06:55 PM
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