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for me i found i tolerated this because my parents treated me very similarly. i was in complete denial and put my mom on a pedestal for years. i had to face the music that my parents didnt love me. it hurts like a bitch but once you heal and love yourself, you will be able to run far from these people and not be so drawn to them. we feel we deserve that sort of treatment because its all we know. and try to "save" them because our parents needed saving. thats my case anyway. i came last as a chil…
/r/ExRedPill27/11/20 08:16 PM
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tell him what? i think you are assuming something i didnt say
/r/ExRedPill19/11/20 02:30 AM
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no sorry. i see the confusion. i meant their wounds will make them either date an "alpha" because they are used to jerks from their dad etc, or a good guy because they dont have issues and arent subconsciously trying to heal their inner child thru a toxic person. i ran from nice guys because i didnt feel good enough. i went straight to a jerk because it was all i knew in life from a bad childhood. it felt "safe" but it was a terrible thing. anyone who wants to be treated like dirt is a wounded p…
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 11:33 PM
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look, every single woman who is attracted to a jerk has issues. it stems from her upbringing. open your eyes and realize tons of nice guys have girlfriends. a lot of guys who THINK they are nice are actually just needy and dont have a backbone which gets them no respect. biologically, women are looking for a strong man (even just mentally) so we know we will be protected. we wont date guys that are "nice" if it means they say yes to everything just so they aren't alone. people can smell if they …
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 11:25 PM
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where did i say that? i liked plenty of betas before i dated an alpha too. i think perhaps something i said wasnt clear so help me out so i can specify
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 11:09 PM
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then idk what the issue is. you obviously have a lot of options as a "beta" or an "alpha"
/r/ExRedPill15/11/20 12:38 PM
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a lot of women are into "betas". it depends on their values, their wounds, self respect etc. women who want bad boys still have issues and you dodged a bullet. its like if i get upset that i dont know how to have sex like a porn star and dont have huge boobs. i dont give a ****. i have a lot of interests, and self respect. therefore, i attract a lot of guys who appreciate intellect and i dismiss dirt bags
/r/ExRedPill14/11/20 11:46 PM
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no i mean he was hot but treated me right too. in ways no other guy knew how. he led, he courted, and did masculine things. you are missing the part about the other guy i really liked and WHY. hint hint. nothing about "settling"
/r/ExRedPill14/11/20 11:41 PM
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and i wasnt attracted to anyone for like a whole year before him because my last bf was 6'5'', muscular, total alpha. The most masculine man I had ever known. So it was hard for me to be into anyone after that. Because most people only have looks to offer and not really much of a strong character. So yeah on the surface every guy was so so. and here came this fat old guy with so much juice and genius hahaha and i was like meeeooooww
/r/ExRedPill14/11/20 06:56 PM
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I also fell for a much older man that I swore I would never date. He was also fat. And it was because he was the smartest, most confident guy in the room. He had alpha energy despite his looks. He had sense of purpose, gave 0 ****s how he was perceived, and the most attractive quality was that he never stopped growing as a person. Pretty much everyone wants him yet he thinks he's ugly.
/r/ExRedPill14/11/20 06:52 PM
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yes i have also used the word "cute" when I find someone really attractive. but I also used to take offense when guys called me cute instead of "hot". We wanna be hot! Not "cute"! Cute is for the nerdy girls lol. So I can see where he is coming from but it can really go either way.
/r/ExRedPill14/11/20 06:47 PM
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i lived with my parents til i was 27. i know the struggle. sucks. i think its great u are working a lot and developing skills. and i guess you are right, try to get sex out of the way.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/20 10:29 PM
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Few things: I was a virgin til almost 22 and it hung over my head like some giant thing. Once I did it, it wasn't a big deal after all. And after I wasted years with men that weren't good for me, all I wanna do is now work on myself and be single. I'm 31. Sex and men weren't all that life was about. In fact, I put years of my life on hold for a guy just for it to go no where. There's much more to life and yourself than sex and women. And I don't know what the cause of your suicidal thoughts are,…
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 01:35 AM
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The past doesn't matter if they don't anymore. Thank God. Signs they currently do: They send screenshots of women complaining about women issues and say "How come she doesn't talk about male issues?" He thinks inviting you into his hot tub and trying to take off your bathing suit is a date and if you complain that he was disrespectful he goes "Then maybe don't put yourself in a sexual position and I won't expect sex?" Then when you tell him he was the one to keep begging for the hot tub scenario…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 05:31 PM
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