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1	My friend cussed out my ex for cheating and not working to save our marriage. As a result she defriended everyone she was friends with on FB that knew me. She says she didn't cheat. But sounds like an admission of guilt to me. She is running away from her old life for a guy she has known under a yr. I'm sorry to hear that and I'm also feeling like congratulations are in order. It's very easy to fall victim to bad habits or see something as how you want it versus the reality. There was this anxiety that started building in me after a few seemingly innocent incidents popped up early. A very serious incident happened in my personal life with my X and I called my then girlfriend up to tell her. I was direct, this is going to make problems for us. Know I care about you and that when it gets roug…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/22 02:46 AM
3	48 hours before 23rd anniversary ….bomb You're not alone, this feels shameful, but the fact of the matter is that it's not and you can only control your own actions. You don't have to feel okay, you will be in the long run though. One of the things you're doing right is seeking out some support. Sometimes just getting it out there into the universe and out of your head is enough to help you sleep through the night. The other big thing I can't state enough, the kids, that's all that matters. If their mother is anything like I can imagi…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/22 04:48 AM
3	Wife's attorney presented their case for custody to mine in a settlement meeting.. just wow In my mind it sounds like her lawyers are trying to fight for some sort of leverage in this case. We're going to cut back on this claim to make sure you get 50-50. As if this claim is an actual threat in order to get something. That something is probably money. It's been my experience that the parent that does not care about money is often the one that does the difficult parenting tasks. So naturally they have no problem using the kid to get more money because they don't see anything wrong with …	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/22 04:30 AM
1	My friend cussed out my ex for cheating and not working to save our marriage. As a result she defriended everyone she was friends with on FB that knew me. She says she didn't cheat. But sounds like an admission of guilt to me. She is running away from her old life for a guy she has known under a yr. Damn! The kind of energy and that level of deception. Good for you to be rid of this person. I'm just sorry you had a friend get involved and make things hard on you. What I've learned is that it's great to have people love to and be in your corner. But they have to behave. It's really as simple as, is this action the best for the person I love and care about? If it's not clear or is something that takes some mental gymnastics, they need to keep their mouths shut. It's also not a good idea to ra…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/22 04:18 AM
1	My friend cussed out my ex for cheating and not working to save our marriage. As a result she defriended everyone she was friends with on FB that knew me. She says she didn't cheat. But sounds like an admission of guilt to me. She is running away from her old life for a guy she has known under a yr. Sorry to hear that. I was going to be in the same boat but I found out before she could execute a plan to make this a seamless transition. What I've learned is that many of the people that do what our X's have done or tried to do is rooted in personality traits that make up the dark triad. Interesting stuff, in my case the X has narcissistic personality traits, at a minimum. They seek out people that will fill these roles in their lives that will feed them the energy they need to feed that dark …	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/22 04:14 AM

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