AtomcKitty Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	2 Years of Credit Card Transactions?		AtomcKitty	/r/Divorce_Men	24/01/22 05:37 PM

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16	Kenny G getting Fleeced on Alimony He says..."Lyndie has refused to become fully self-supporting for almost 10 years." I know what she means... it's hard to get by on $40k a month!	/r/Divorce_Men	18/03/23 03:49 PM
1	SO I'm a babysitter now? You mentioned screaming several times. I had a tough time too losing my cool, then instantly regretting it. I still think about it from time to time - 20 years later... Toodlerhood is a tough time. Take it as a personal challenge to get better. Listen to some parenting toddler podcasts, maybe local parenting class from health and human services? Might be helpful to have someone come in and observe. Your kids might have issues (ADHD, on the spectrum, etc.) Things that require new knowledge and ne…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/03/23 08:37 PM
8	Getting divorced, kid turns 18 this January, What do i need to know? Not sure about KS, but in WA, once the kids are 18, they are no longer minors and no child support.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/22 09:14 PM
1	Economic reality Consider temporary order that spells out the finances...https://www.mckinleyirvin.com/family-law-blog/2018/june/what-are-temporary-orders-in-a-divorce-case-/	/r/Divorce_Men	18/12/22 09:38 PM
1	Divorce and finances.. How do you handle things like assets, etc Are you in the US? Do you happen to be in WA state? I'm no attorney, but assets acquired when together are community property. Assets that were clearly pre-marriage and/or clearly in different accounts (not co-mingled) can be separate property. options, stock, etc....It's well documented in WA State by this ruling. https://law.justia.com/cases/washington/supreme-court/1995/61176-9-1.html Basically, lays out a formula for dividing.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/11/22 01:48 AM
2	When you are ready.. what steps do you take... Don't move out yet! You might lose some needed leverage. Talk to an attorney first (free consultation) Read more on the web. Watch Bill Burr!	/r/Divorce_Men	29/10/22 03:05 AM
6	Better man coaching/learning That's awesome and taking accountability! Awareness precedes change. Like u/TipHeftyMan, I found the milder content of Red Pill more in my lane. My takeaways: start lifting NOW, eat better, become aware of the chatter your monkey-mind creates, and live below your means. Check out r/marriedredpill (even though you're not anymore). The reading list in the community section was spot on. I cannot understate how much No More Mr Nice Guy helped me on my journey.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/10/22 02:52 PM
1	2 Years of Credit Card Transactions? I think I threw out the word "subpoena" too loosely. I'm just thinking what they would do if I said no. I don't want to be unreasonable, so just wondering if 2 years is common. Separated for 11 months. I've been footing the bill on 2 households. Ex hasn't worked for past 2 years and isn't isn't working now. Long term marriage 20+ years. Adult children. Community property state.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/01/22 07:10 PM