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I'll await my downvotes. There's nothing wrong with, and I fully support the posts showing, a woman being put in her place for trying to abuse her womanhood. The literal point of the sub. Or when another make up things to get a man in trouble. Invokes white knights to rescue them, etc. It's the demeaning and hateful comments that follow that are the issue. Every post I click on has a few, often with enough upvotes to be visable still. Hours or even the next day. The sidebar says they are unwelco…
/r/PussyPassDenied11/07/20 06:22 PM
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The freeway was closed and blocked off by vehicles. There should have been no way a vehicle gets onto the road to hit those people. The political alignment and race of those involved are irrelevant.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/07/20 06:40 PM
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You misunderstand. Hypothetical, if you punch me I'm going to punch you back. The point is NOBODY SHOULD BE HAPPY WHEN THAT HAPPENS. It has nothing to do with pacifism. It's whether or not a person is garbage. Edit: There is a difference between a justice boner and glorifying violance. If a woman hits any of you, do what you need to do. I will never judge someone for striking another person regardless of identity so long as it was provoked. Its when people who are not involved celebrate and beli…
/r/PussyPassDenied08/06/20 03:41 PM
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I agree, striking someone should never be cause for celebration, regardless of how deserving it may be. She clearly deserved it, but I'm not happy the situation escalated to that point. I wish more commenters shared this view.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/06/20 01:33 PM
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Disgusting, as if any amount of words or non-violent actions could justify just randomly assaulting someone like that. Even used a ton of restraint and didn't just punch her back on the first swing. Grade A human filth she is.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/03/20 08:57 PM
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I usually think these types of posts go too far but she kept it going. She earned it wholeheartedly.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/08/19 12:06 AM
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Rude or not, dude committed assault no matter how you look at it. Violence is not a reasonable reaction to someone being rude, an idiot, or both.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/12/18 03:20 AM
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Jokes about violence aren't funny regardless of who it's directed at. If you do something repeatedly you get used to it. Women pluck their brows regularly and men don't. So if a man were to regularly do that, he wouldn't be bothered by it. I have 3 lone black hairs in between my eye brows and you better believe that shit hurt the first few times I pulled them. Now it doesn't even register.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/08/18 04:43 PM
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Amazed she even had a job with that attitude and intellect.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/02/17 04:23 PM
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Women are not going to waste money on a dating site like OKC or POF, because they think they don't need it. They get bombarded with messages day in and day out validating their being on there. Ones without photos, the single mom with 4 kids, the 30 year old that lives at her parents while condemning men who also do so, the serial dater who thinks all men are pigs, and even the truly hideous ones. At the end of the day, men make sites like those work, because enough of them are desperate and lone…
/r/MensRights07/01/17 04:03 AM
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It absolutely isn't a case of being forced, which is deceptive. No one literally threatened his life if he did not delete it. Steve Martin made a tweet and ran off because he's an old man too tired to deal with social justice garbage. Can you blame him? The more we post these non-stories the less people will take us seriously in the long run. It's not like he was a business owner, charity, or school bending over backwards to accommodate SJW's and then having detrimental effects on men and/or boy…
/r/MensRights30/12/16 04:13 PM
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Makes sense logically but good luck in the feels department.
/r/MensRights24/12/16 05:55 PM
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I wish you worded your responses better, but I agree with the sentiment wholeheartedly.
/r/MensRights19/12/16 03:26 PM
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I hate Trump, I hate that he is the President. I hate Hillary, I'm glad she's not the President. I am allowed to feel both things. I have never once thought about Hillary having a vagina when I formed my opinion of her as a candidate for President. She's the "most qualified" candidate as they kept saying but all that is really saying is that she plays ball with the big money people as good as anyone else. Which is partly why so many people disliked her to begin with.
/r/MensRights10/11/16 02:28 PM
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Mansplaining, as it's used most often today, is anything a man says to a woman that she disagrees with. Any attempt to use logic or facts only makes their response worse.
/r/MensRights10/11/16 01:13 AM
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His remark was a little bit tongue in cheek but you'd think any healthy adult let alone a politician could take such a remark with little to no effect. Crying isn't the issue, it's why you started crying. Then it's about your response after, where she simply tosses blame around. The general population needs leaders, not children mascaraing as adults in business suits.
/r/MensRights29/10/16 03:01 PM
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Even though I think of Trump in entirely negative terms, if you're ok with his statue being up then you have to be ok with a Hillary one. He doesn't deserve additional ridicule just because of ones opinion of him.
/r/MensRights19/10/16 06:05 PM
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This post always makes me cringe. It's not just the entitlement, it's the dehumanization of the guy. He's just a walking penis to use when she wants in her mind. That is scary.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/10/16 12:02 AM
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The word you are looking for is harassing.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/10/16 01:54 PM
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They are losing money by rejecting paying customers. It will sort itself out in time.
/r/MensRights26/09/16 09:57 PM
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Hugh Mungus what?!
/r/MensRights15/09/16 11:04 PM
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Don't really see the relevance to your second part. Although for the sake of understanding, I'd argue it's because less attractive women are treated more closely to that of the average man. Invisible at best and light bullying at it's worst. Name calling, frequently being dismissed, ignored in the dating pool, etc. Because they are treated less favorably compared to how attractive women are, they argue they are being oppressed.
/r/MensRights11/09/16 02:53 PM
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Since you clearly missed it, I do not support Hillary. And she alone was not responsible for Benghazi, numerous other politicians that no one seems to care about made decisions that led to that incident yet people just point at her along for it. Many more Americans die during other things people are completely silent about. Veteran homelessness, veterans waiting for care who die, homelessness in general. Poor not having food and healthcare. Those account for 10's of thousands of deaths but you c…
/r/MensRights09/09/16 04:50 PM
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You had me right until Benghazi, Republicans have been beating that dead horse for years already. There are plenty of worthwhile things to complain about with Hillary. How she stayed silent on the DNC undermining democratic process to favor her, the email scandal, her blatant attempts to use her womanhood as a reason to vote for her, her hypocrisy on issues regarding rape and/or sexual harassment, how she wants to make the justice system even more gender biased, etc.
/r/MensRights09/09/16 02:02 PM
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Those are both accurate. It punishes women who sleep around when their partners obviously want to be monogamous, seeing how they are mislead into thinking they are the bio-dads. Which is fine, they deserve the reality check.
/r/MensRights02/09/16 07:52 PM
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Very telling of current social standards. Violence doesn't matter, only that there's some perceived negativity involving women.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/16 07:11 PM
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Is this freaking real life?! Someone please pinch me and make me wake up. I can't believe someone is that petty about literally nothing. "You have this doll that does nothing but I will actually try to get you fired" like how pathetic do you have to be.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/08/16 10:13 PM
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Men and women get along fine, it's the ideologies that don't. It's no different than mixing incompatible religious or political beliefs together.
/r/MensRights27/08/16 01:11 PM
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The way it should be. I also treat others with respect by default but they most certainly can lose it with their actions. In my experiences, people who say respect is earned often are not worthy of that respect because they go in with the mindset that they are somehow above the other person from the start. If you can't give the other person the same respect you demand from the start, then how can they do so for you?
/r/MensRights24/08/16 04:09 PM
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Telling boys to respect women only implies they don't have to respect other men. Men as a whole are already hard enough on one another without the added implication it's not needed.
/r/MensRights24/08/16 04:04 PM
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I wish both genders would see all these shit shows and cut it out. Sex with your students is nothing but trouble and both morally/legally wrong. People need to really grow up.
/r/MensRights23/08/16 03:50 PM
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Men cannot give/revoke consent because they automatically want sex 24/7 no matter what the situation is. How can you revoke something you want by default. /s
/r/MensRights15/08/16 06:47 PM
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Yeah, I loved the Super Mario Bros. movie when I was a child. Saw it many more times than is appropriate to admit to.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/08/16 08:56 PM
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It's mostly women on there, men typically don't discuss relationships in general. I tried posting there recently and of the 10 comments total. Two were mine and the rest were variations of "well, time to dump your GF" or "what did you expect? dump your GF" when asking about how to approach a situation I have already tried to resolve on my own. I wanted to find out how to help my GF not leave her shit in my room, which apparently is dump worthy. I wouldn't sweat it, that place is an echo chamber …
/r/MensRights03/08/16 09:39 PM
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Well she couldn’t play the sexism card so she tried the next best thing in her mind.
/r/MensRights29/07/16 03:38 PM
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In the Information age, ignorance is a choice. Bleh, but education and access to said information isn't always available depending where you. It's a choice in most of the Western world anyhow.
/r/MensRights28/07/16 09:15 PM
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If a woman can be wet, experience pleasure, and not have wanted it. Then why can't a man experience the same thing, only replacing wet with hard. Happened to me, could happen to anyone. There's not many guys out there who would physically assault a woman to stop a sexual encounter because of the fear of going to jail or getting the absolute shit kicked out of them for "hitting a girl" afterall.
/r/MensRights28/07/16 09:14 PM
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You can't make catcalling a hate crime for this one simple reason. Some women enjoy it. So are you for female rights or against them? Do you suggest that you speak for every single woman on the planet? On the other hand, who cares what some idiot posts on some blog. That dude needs help more than any woman he knows.
/r/MensRights28/07/16 08:58 PM
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You are a predator if you think someone in High School is ok to be romantic with when you're in your mid-20s. You are a predator if you KNOW as a teacher that being with students is wrong both morally and legally. It was decided long ago, both by schools and the law. School faculty cannot be involved with students, period. Opinions and desires don't matter. She is a predator and is upset she got caught. She acted on base impulses even though the setting doesn't allow for you to immediately do so…
/r/MensRights28/07/16 06:59 PM
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Interesting note about if women had no place to go, not that we'd ever get to test it. Some places are even actively hostile to men who do come forward about it though. Australia's male domestic violence hotline comes to mind. Not sure if it's changed but last I saw all it would do is try to help men by teaching them not to be abusive to their female partners. Nothing if the man was the victim. Another was the woman who started these shelters made one for men and literally got ran out of the cou…
/r/MensRights28/07/16 06:48 PM
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Feminists do it so that's what we should do? That's the big solution, to just stoop to the others level and spread misinformation. You don't solve a problem by making additional problems. If you hate it when Feminists do it, then you must also hate when MRAs do it. Being hypocrites about something is the easiest way t olose those who are on the fence. It's the number 1 reason I couldn't be a Feminist. I'm Egalitarian but since I see men continuously being clearly mistreated more so than women in…
/r/MensRights27/07/16 08:00 PM
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OJ is one person and OP is making a claim about 20,000 people. All I'm saying is a lack of evidence to convict does not equal a false claim. If anything there was sufficient evidence to convict OJ and he got off. Which only further leads me to think that just because someone wasn't convicted doesn't mean they are innocent. Every case is situational, there is no one size fits all. Not all rapists are punished and not all falsely accused people are free after their trials. Framing it as one extrem…
/r/MensRights27/07/16 07:52 PM
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You can't say no conviction = false claim though because a lot of times there simply isn’t enough evidence to convict someone. That doesn't mean they are automatically innocent of the alleged crime but simply they couldn't say that person did it for certain. It's a grey area. I want a person male or female who is accused of rape to have their anonymity until proven guilty but not because of misleading information being spread.
/r/MensRights27/07/16 07:27 PM
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Well that's frightening. If a person cannot even attempt to defend themselves without being actively attacked by the person who is supposed to be an impartial party then why even bother having the theatrics. Just toss em in prison :/
/r/MensRights26/07/16 09:02 PM
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I think the concept of "personal identity" is lost on too many people so they make ignorant statements. More than it should be is hostile though. I didn't always know who I was or what I wanted to be in life but I know I have always seen myself as male. When I see members of the opposite sex vs my own I overwhelmingly know that I desire the opposite sex in a romantic way and not my own. I don't understand what a trans person is thinking and feeling because I have never felt that way. However the…
/r/MensRights24/07/16 07:17 PM
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It's probably true though. She must frequently get burned by 12yo that are much smarter than her.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/07/16 04:23 PM
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Never had the desire to but you may have just sold me on trying it.
/r/MensRights22/07/16 08:33 PM
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You should try to contact the admins, she clearly did it for other reasons than violating that subs rules. That's an abuse of power.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/07/16 05:56 PM
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I find it funny, because Feminism is the main thing that's telling women how bad they have it. While Western society continuously bends over backwards to try and accommodate. By funny, I mean seriously depressing. If women think being female is so hard, try having a dick and having problems. Everyone just tells you to get over it or tell you how great you have it. I used to feel guilty for having the issues I have because of these people. Like how dare I experience hardships because I'm a man. I…
/r/MensRights21/07/16 08:47 PM
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She's black and in a current "mainstream" movie, nothing at all will happen short of her filming herself killing someone and saying it was for discriminatory reasons. Even then, there will be those that defend her to the end because #reasons.
/r/MensRights21/07/16 08:33 PM
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Even assuming the results are perfect (right context, etc) they will still say it's because of the patriarchy making women do that to themselves. Even when the statistics are irrefutable or overwhelmingly show more negativity towards men it is still shown as somehow being worse for the women. Workplace deaths is one that comes to mind. The graph in the article clearly showed more men died in the workplace but the article was framed as there was an increase of x% in female work deaths and that ri…
/r/MensRights08/07/16 08:43 PM
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If men want to do this sort of thing for women, then so be it. As long as the women are upfront and direct like this one was then there is no blame to cast on either party. Two consenting adults can do whatever they like when no one is being harmed as a result.
/r/MensRights07/07/16 09:00 PM
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I saw this yesterday. The first comment that questioned it got mocked because he was a "cis straight white man" and then several people got upset at that persons passive aggressiveness but then more SJW's came to the rescue. I wanted to say something but I finally just went about my business. Given my "status" it would have been pointless.
/r/MensRights29/06/16 12:03 PM
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Yeah an adult from a place you are told from the time you are a child that you can trust should never be treated like this officer had done so. Abuse of power is abuse of power, the other details are irrelevant and least of all feelings shouldn't come into the matter. Thank you though, yes I have made peace with that unfortunate event.
/r/MensRights23/06/16 03:56 PM
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More than likely. I didn't consider what had happened to me to be sexual assault (it was 100% in hindsight) but when it came to future dating possibilities I noticed over time I had become much more hostile and defensive. It took over a year to get over it once I realized there was even an issue. I'm was an adult though so I don't know how much harder it may be for a teenager.
/r/MensRights18/06/16 09:07 PM
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There is a reason a bunch of single women are seeking dating advice from a 3rd party. Since they can't seem to hold onto men of their own you would think there is some uniting underlying cause since men tend to be far less picky when choosing a partner. If they think men should by default pay for dates then I'm sure they have several other opinions that make them undesirable dating material.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/06/16 12:33 PM
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That sub is nothing but nosy and apparently infallible people thinking they know what's best for everyones relationships. My GF tells me fucked up story after fucked up story all the time and is always super interested in updated posts and reading about bad relationships ending. That or she can't believe how stupid some of the people posting there are. It's always the same in the comments. Any voice of reason is usually met with emotional kneejerky BS that seldom makes sense. In my experiences i…
/r/MensRights14/06/16 01:55 PM
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If only we could have this comparison side by side on their site. Then maybe they could attempt to see how terrible it is. Just maybe, but extremely unlikely.
/r/MensRights12/06/16 06:49 PM
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Should be called "21 stereotypes I push onto all men that I hate"
/r/MensRights10/06/16 02:53 PM
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You can't bar person A for doing something and then be ok with it for person B in the same profession. What a sexist idiot.
/r/MensRights10/06/16 01:19 PM
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I just saw this post on the front page. I am conflicted because I really want this piece of human filth to be punished more. However he got the slap on a wrist in which I am accustomed to seeing the female equivalent get in these types of crimes. I just want sexual assault and rape to be punished equally, without a gendered lens. Person A commits wrongful sexual act against person B. Just punish them the same. Nothing else matters at all. Feelings, parenthood, their background, their potential, …
/r/MensRights04/06/16 01:21 PM
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I think people just "wake up" to reality sometimes. It's rare and often doesn't have a main launching off point. One day she realized what she was doing wasn't productive to her true goals in life. Often times you hear people want to be "happy" in life and being in a state of perpetual victimhood and things like microaggressions make that pretty much impossible to obtain. Everyday is a battle when you think in that way.
/r/MensRights03/06/16 05:56 PM
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We give them more and more as time passes though. It's the long con.
/r/MensRights25/05/16 07:47 PM
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It's called "projecting" much like the hardcore anti-gay politician turning out to just love being gay in their private lives.
/r/MensRights24/05/16 09:22 PM
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I legitimately had to watch it several times to even see what the fuss was over. I hope we get to a point soon where these sorts of things are so overblown that society just starts railing back. The outrage that erupted over this is completely absurd and everyone of those people should be extremely ashamed of themselves.
/r/MensRights20/05/16 10:24 PM
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I agree, I hope he sees how fragile his being their "ally" really is. The moment he stops serving their interests they will turn on him so fast their necks would probably break.
/r/MensRights19/05/16 12:13 PM
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That girl has no shame, what a disgraceful piece of trash.
/r/MensRights08/05/16 05:56 PM
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Had a lovely exchange the other day where I was told women were feeble enough to be in need of protecting while also being stronger than I know. I stopped responding at that point.
/r/MensRights08/05/16 03:41 PM
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I was strictly speaking of making the statement on it's own. The issue is the other side is rarely, if at all, presented. Legally speaking I feel men are vastly disadvantaged and socially women have it rougher in some states/countries more so than men. Since the men's side is rarely presented it creates an illusion that women have it much worse overall. While neither side has it as good as the other believes, I'd take the social struggles over the legal consequences I potentially face as a male …
/r/MensRights29/04/16 10:21 PM
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Never would think to see progress in this situation in my lifetime. Glad to see it!
/r/MensRights29/04/16 08:36 PM
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There's nothing inherently wrong with saying women are oppressed in some areas, just as men are. It's the follow up belief held by most liberal news/blogs that men are the main cause and that men do not experience forms of discrimination that is frequently presented in those outlets. Edit: I would argue men and women oppress their own genders much more than the male to female or vice versa.
/r/MensRights29/04/16 08:15 PM
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In a system that already overwhelmingly favors women... I can't believe this is the world we live in. I'm so tired of the broken record of "women have it so bad" from just about everywhere. I really hate to use such strong language but fuck that cunt. If there ever was a more qualified person to be called one I never heard/read about them.
/r/MensRights28/04/16 04:03 PM
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"I didn't do anything wrong, besides the wrong part."
/r/MensRights27/04/16 02:32 PM
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Terrible to say but I'm glad I didn't see mine get that far despite how it ended. He's at least at peace now. I can't imagine seeing someone I cared for so far gone and unhappy like you are.
/r/MensRights27/04/16 03:46 AM
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Apparently she wasn't always like that and neither was he. He actually was somewhat abusive to his first wife (my grandmother) so perhaps he was compensating as he aged. Hard to say now though.
/r/MensRights27/04/16 03:44 AM
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I totally replied to the wrong comment just now.
/r/MensRights27/04/16 03:42 AM
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It's sad when a poster about abuse makes you happy. My grandpa was one of those 'worthless' men. He'd still be alive if he had the strength to leave his abusive second wife.
/r/MensRights26/04/16 03:49 PM
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Can't say for Hooters but The Tilted Kilt has some really good food. I didn't feel bad about being there because no one is forcing them to be there and dress like that. There are so many similar jobs and other unrelated jobs that just about any other human being could do but they chose that one.
/r/MensRights25/04/16 01:22 PM
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That is the only reason to make a false accusation, to hurt the person who is the accused. Someone wouldn't do it otherwise. Edit: Well, sometimes it's to cover up a lie... but the end result is the same for the accused.
/r/MensRights23/04/16 02:02 PM
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If so then I am mistaken from the start. Thanks for the clarity.
/r/MensRights17/04/16 06:08 PM
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I don't know the context because no one has provided it and I have openly stated I am not looking for it in a post with thousands of comments. Think what you like but I won't jump to a conclusion with an incomplete version of events and won't lower my standards just because it's someone who is of the SJW variety making the comment. I don't hate things or people just because I disagree with one specific thing about them. Trump often says things from a podium and if not there are videos of him and…
/r/MensRights14/04/16 06:43 PM
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I don't, that's probably why I asked to see what they said that prompted that response. I don't have an opinion because I don't have all the information.
/r/MensRights14/04/16 05:56 PM
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No, I clearly said I don't know why that was said to them and wanted to know what prompted the response.
/r/MensRights14/04/16 05:55 PM
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I don't rather care to read the whole AMA. I have read other survivors AMAs and they tend to be similar. I cared specifically what this one poster was replying to though. I don't blindly assume someone is or is not something based on so little information. I disagree that context is not needed. It is always needed and should be included without exceptions. Things get skewed when you only see/hear one side of things.
/r/MensRights14/04/16 05:40 PM
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To show only the reply with no context does not allow one to accurately judge a situation. I don't only care about what this person said by itself, I care about what the original poster said too. For all I know OP could be one of the most racist, bigoted, hateful people to have ever lived. Surviving an event, no matter how terrible, is no indicator of ones character. Shitty people survive all the time just as good people can die young.
/r/MensRights14/04/16 05:11 PM
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I know it's not but I want to ask if this is satire? Different countries are different? Who could have possibly saw that coming? The bubbles these people create for themselves is absurd. I loved the one in Tokyo that was upset that former Westerners were not interested in dating Western women. Did it even occur to her that they could have moved there to get away from western women? I wouldn't go to another country and then complain no one from my region of origin wasn't there to date.
/r/MensRights14/04/16 01:03 PM
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Actually they are, hence the irrational fear of nearly all men* that don't conform.
/r/MensRights25/02/16 03:44 PM
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I think the biggest reason false accusers do as they do is because there are zero consequences for their actions in many places. A stern "don't do it again" has never deterred anyone and we continue to see that with false accusations.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/02/16 01:06 PM
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That was a good read. Thanks for sharing!
/r/MensRights03/02/16 12:43 AM
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I find "Gender Studies" so insulting because it does not study both genders in any meaningful way. It should combine elements of history, anatomy, and achievements made by both genders throughout said history. It should be a program to inspire those who do not know what they want to do with their lives yet to help them narrow down what they actually want to do. So many teens enter college just because they think they should go in as soon as possible and end up switching majors so much they quit …
/r/MensRights02/02/16 07:15 PM
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"Just agree with us or we'll call misogyny" which is basically what happens anyway now.
/r/MensRights09/01/16 03:56 PM
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You should probably unfriend that person after so many years of them having the same opinion.
/r/MensRights09/01/16 02:59 PM
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I've seen a few posts recently about these cry-bully types not getting an apology and hope it continues. You don't apologize to the perpetually offended because then they will find a new thing to complain about in a never ending cycle.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/01/16 03:14 PM
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Laughable, as if women would be held to the same standards. Just like with rape they will only say that when it applies to men and pretend women can't be guilty of such things.
/r/MensRights06/01/16 05:29 PM
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There is no clear "this person is the one at fault" in that video. She took it too far at the end but he is equally as responsible for that escalating by trying to intimidate her initially and then following her prior to her freak out.
/r/MensRights29/12/15 04:03 AM
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Those sites are toxic for ugly folks or those with low self esteem. It's full of awkward people who aren't good at interacting, people with severely too high of standards, and pretty girls who say "lol just ask" in their profiles because they don't know how to write anything remotely interesting. Granted, they have never had to try to until that point for obvious reasons. Those who are interesting and/or not completely insane usually have 2+ kids and are some combination of desperate, mopey, and…
/r/MensRights28/12/15 07:34 PM
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The video does not provide enough context as to what happened. You could paint either of them as being wrong IMO.
/r/MensRights28/12/15 02:09 PM
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The stupidity is astounding. Men get yelled at all the time for 'mansplaining' because they don't know what it's like to be a woman but these same women can turn around and tell people how or what a man's experience is like. It works both ways or it works neither way. That's what being equal means.
/r/MensRights27/12/15 04:47 PM
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I feel so sorry for men who have allowed themselves to be shamed to the extent that they feel bad for the actions of people who are either long dead or other men in general. You are responsible for YOU and that's it. The things you do, say, and feel are 100% on you and no one else. I didn't commit genocide, participate in slavery, never instigated a physical fight, or raped someone. So I'll be damned if someone comes along and says I need to apologize or be ashamed or feel guilty for those kinds…
/r/MensRights27/12/15 03:27 PM
24

Who the hell goes on stage and opens with insulting the last person up there? "I haven't even started" well no shit you spent over a minute yelling at someone who you should not have even had a reason to glance at. Do your material or get off the stage so someone else can.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/12/15 12:53 PM
6

You should try to report this to an admin. This is a clear example of a mod abusing their powers which is one of the main things the new CEO wanted to stop from happening. In theory you will be unbanned if that remains true. Edit: May only be for shadowbans actually now that I've thought about it.
/r/MensRights26/12/15 03:13 PM
4

It's the equivalent of shaking your finger at someone and saying in a firm voice not to do it again. Literally a none punishment.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/12/15 03:41 PM
3

Children don't understand the issues we face as a country and the world in general. That woman knows no shame using the ignorant opinions of children to try and gain political power.
/r/MensRights02/12/15 12:57 PM
3

I came across a Bill Maher clip from the early 90's with her and another with Warren Farrell and I forget the show he was on but yeah in both instances 20-25 years ago they are talking about the same things. I admire their dedication but at the same time it's sad that after so long they are still fighting for the basics it feels like.
/r/MensRights30/11/15 02:43 PM
11

That woman is a pathetic excuse of a human being. Agendas are not more important than an individuals livelihood and well being. If you expect people to take accusations seriously and protect the rights of the alleged victim, then you have to equally as hard fight for the rights and protections of those who are the alleged perpetrator. Otherwise, it's just another double standard and most sane or reasonable people will always doubt and question it. 'Just listen and believe' hurts actual victims b…
/r/MensRights29/11/15 02:48 PM
1

That's exactly what it's like. If you disagree, no matter how slight, with them you're the enemy and therefore a misogynist.
/r/MensRights29/11/15 02:29 PM
1

If he didn't report it then I don't feel sorry for him, at all, not even remotely. I feel the same way when a woman is being abused and she doesn't report it. At some point being a victim becomes your own fault when you allow the abuse to continue with no attempt to deter it. He decided to not do that and continued to block her. I don't care if she just went off on him and beat him senseless for hours on end. If he doesn't report it at any point then he did it to himself.
/r/MensRights22/11/15 02:37 PM
2

I would find it hard to believe someone receiving a knee to the face would continue trying to prevent you from leaving too so it sounds like he decided that it wasn't enough, in her version.
/r/MensRights22/11/15 05:08 AM
2

I really feel for him if that's how it actually went down. He said/she said is always a messy situation.
/r/MensRights21/11/15 10:10 PM
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If it went down the way she describes it, she did nothing wrong. He was trying to prevent her from leaving and forcing himself between her and the exit. You can't do that to another human being, when someone wants to leave you let them leave. This isn't a prison, this is someones residence. She couldn't physically move him if he does not want to be moved. They were both trained fighters and it's easy to make yourself hard to move even if you are tiny. Ronda is strong but I'd imagine she'd have a…
/r/MensRights21/11/15 06:26 PM
7

Cool, so when is International Women's Day being cancelled?
/r/MensRights21/11/15 03:29 PM
14

What's funny is that her and the others he was tweeting at, were far harsher and did actual harm to him unlike what his did to them. By funny, I mean insane.
/r/MensRights21/11/15 01:24 PM
8

Unfortunately women are the ones most likely to get our issues heard by the masses. They are harder to dismiss and more people are willing to hear them out. I have no problems with women talking about our issues when they do so outside of a Feminist perspective. As long as they are being honest.
/r/MensRights20/11/15 06:53 PM
4

No clue but I for one am glad to see that instead of her face.
/r/MensRights20/11/15 04:09 PM
1

You do so at your own peril. Hope you don't plan on going to college in NY or California anytime soon. Edit: As I scrolled I saw you are not from the US, but yeah it's getting crazier and crazier.
/r/MensRights20/11/15 02:53 PM
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She got 10 points on her license. That will clearly show the error of her ways.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/11/15 12:58 PM
4

But but... women have always been oppressed!! What do you mean women leaders before Feminism?!?! I'm just kidding, I wish they would teach that. Along with all the female scientists and other high achievers that happened before Feminism.
/r/MensRights19/11/15 06:00 PM
6

Well we would except any gathering of men to do so is protested or broken up by childish antics.
/r/MensRights19/11/15 04:56 PM
6

A woman writing about how Men shouldn't do/celebrate things. Imagine that.
/r/MensRights19/11/15 02:40 PM
3

Yeah but she got both of her stretch goals. Only needed 97k and ended up raising over 211k when it was over. So after her AMA and several video posts/interviews she got a lot of support from people who just didn't know about it. It really surprised me. I didn't think she could do it, but am glad she did.
/r/MensRights12/11/15 02:53 PM
1

"Don't push her!" they keep yelling, as they are pushing him. What disgraceful excuses for human beings. I feel sorry for anyone whose "rights" they are fighting for.
/r/MensRights11/11/15 12:33 AM
0

Yeah but dat sexism though.
/r/MensRights10/11/15 11:03 PM
2

Spare yourself from the cancer you'll get by doing so.
/r/MensRights10/11/15 10:42 PM
8

It's a matter of perspective and I think many people, not just women, fail to realize that when it comes to others. I see a man choosing to spend more time with his SO so he says no to the guys a lot more than he did before. She looks at it as being a jab at her as a woman and him somehow making it seem like she is worth less. She's complaining for the sake of complaining. Not every little thing is about you or is an attack on your person. FFS.
/r/MensRights10/11/15 03:56 AM
2

They are adult in age only, but their mental capacity is absurdly lower than their actual age.
/r/MensRights09/11/15 11:30 PM
3

That whole thought process just seems immature to me. "Yeah well... I KNOW this important person so don't try any funny business" as if it was even semi-relevant to whatever they were discussing. It's essentially her saying that she thinks the guy is dangerous but wants to keep spending time together. It will be a late lesson but she will learn that no man of quality will ever stay with her long term because of this mindset. You can't assume people are guilty based on nothing but your feels.
/r/MensRights04/11/15 01:46 PM
2

White knights, jumping at the chance to defend their righteous maidens. Others I say are cowards who don't want the scorn of being accused of being sexist, because they see how harshly others will react to such claims.
/r/MensRights03/11/15 11:07 PM
2

I know the literal definition of "Pedophilia or paedophilia" because I too looked at the wiki for spelling and it's definition before I posted that. I'm sorry that I think teachers who are sexually attracted to their students should be considered pedos, yes all of them. Maybe the stigma would prevent a few of these from happening. Yes, technically, I am wrong though.
/r/MensRights31/10/15 01:25 PM
2

It amazes me that adults that are in schools continue to associate with students at all. They know we have rules and laws in place forbidding this kind of conduct between students and teachers. This isn't something out of no where. Male or female the punishment for abusing your position like this should be more severe. It's not something you can do on accident, there are stories all the time about them, and schools make it clear not to do such a thing. I don't care that this is about a woman doi…
/r/MensRights30/10/15 01:39 PM
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Not sure why you're getting downvoted. It's a legitimate question. Had she not been involved at the students school, this would not have gone to court. The problem is as faculty you're an adult with non-adults. You have "superiority" in several ways. The school says they do first and foremost. Students maturity levels are not universal so it falls into that category of "we must protect all of the students and not assume" in regards to policies in place. As trusted adult caretakers, a teacher sho…
/r/MensRights30/10/15 01:31 PM
12

She's everything you'd think a strong woman would be. She seems more and more agitated by the "oh the poor women" type of questions and it makes me giggle everytime. It's funny because if Feminism didn't spend so much time coddling women and telling them how low/fragile they are that more of them could be like Rhonda. Instead they get mad if you ever suggest a woman be accountable to her actions or if you suggest things like self defence or avoiding bad situations. All things Rhonda excels at. S…
/r/MensRights29/10/15 11:44 AM
4

As a Special Administrative Region of the People's Republic of China, the Hong Kong legal system is significantly different from that of the People's Republic of China (PRC). However, a small number of PRC laws, such as those involving national emblems and symbols, apply in Hong Kong by virtue of stipulations in Article 18 and Annex III of the Basic Law. Taken from here, it seems it would not in this case. They would have their own definition for rape and such.
/r/MensRights28/10/15 06:35 PM
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Until society gets as mad at a woman doing it as they would a man there will never be equality. I mean the anger that would be expressed by reading this instead. "The man locked his wife in the house for 29 hours and forced her to have sex with him."
/r/MensRights27/10/15 04:46 PM
9

Then there were those who were a little too eager to make it know that they would never, ever assault a woman. “Their first response is ‘I’m not one of those guys, I would never do that,’” she said. “I mean, what, should I be carrying gold stars now?” Then a little down... “Honestly, even if they're supportive, even if they say all the right things, and really want to discuss my job, it makes me feel weird about hooking up with them,” says Sofie Karasek, a recent UC Berkeley graduate and co-foun…
/r/MensRights27/10/15 02:14 PM
2

I'm hopeful that he will be questioned of his GamerGate beliefs and he really looks into the matter from both sides for himself. He says he's a feminist but it seems more like he agrees with it at face value and less so as a serious part of his identity. Only time will tell.
/r/MensRights23/10/15 08:05 PM
5

I've watched numerous talks by her and she never seems to get flustered or taken by surprise. She either has the patience of a stone or is just used to dealing with those people so often it's normal to her.
/r/MensRights21/10/15 07:35 PM
0

Knowing this situation can and does happen fills me with rage. The trivialization of such a despicable act.
/r/MensRights17/10/15 01:18 PM
2

It's probably a mix of both really. College has become increasingly hostile to men so some probably seek alternatives as well.
/r/MensRights16/10/15 06:45 PM
3

Guys an ass, but you're not wrong.
/r/MensRights16/10/15 01:15 PM
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You jest but I'd support that. Women have been attacking male spaces for years. Women don't feel safe with men around and men are tired of being treated as guilty on sight. It's a win/win. Let those who don't care continue on as they normally would.
/r/MensRights16/10/15 12:26 PM
1

I was leaning towards that but was just unsure. Thank you for replying. So much of the world and life is more than black or white. There's far more gray than anything.
/r/MensRights15/10/15 09:21 PM
1

I'm a little confused by your comment. Are you making an observation about this sub or was my comment somehow taken wrongly? There are certainly shitty people here, but that's everywhere. In every forum, in every sub. I agree there's too much Red Pill talk in this sub because they generalize just like radfems do, which we claim to hate so much. You also took the time to read the article and point out that teh title presents a false reality. I mean the title is so click baity it belongs on Buzzfe…
/r/MensRights15/10/15 08:49 PM
1

Been there, I'd be happily single before trying to make one of those situations work again. Sex is something I enjoy, not something I need. I'm sure those same women would be upset at my stopping an encounter as well. Life's too short to be miserable with someone who doesn't value you as much as they do themselves.
/r/MensRights15/10/15 04:19 PM
1

Consent for such things should be obvious and when they aren't people need to communicate more. I've been with my SO for awhile now and I still ask her if things are okay fairly often. Sometimes she winces, others she gets shy and will close up. I always ask if shes ok to continue. Not because I'm afraid she's going to think I raped her, but because I respect her as a person and care what her feelings are at that moment. There have also been times I have stopped her when she's tried to initiate …
/r/MensRights15/10/15 01:28 PM
1

I had not even considered out of country adoption in my comment. Yes I can imagine that would be much more costly. It is definitely much cheaper for older kids. The longer they stay in the system the more costly it is to care for them because they simply become stuck there until they are 18. Demand is really high for younger so that's when you encounter waiting lists. Some people will end up waiting years to get an infant because that's what they want. So you have this ever increasing list of co…
/r/MensRights14/10/15 03:26 PM
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It follows a national trend with one recent study estimating that there are now 2.7 million households in which women are paid more than men – something which is thought to have increased fivefold in the space of a generation. So women out-earning men in the home has increased significantly in the span of a few decades, what did you think was going to happen? Yes, the same laws that were fought for to protect women who don't earn as much as their husbands, is protecting men in the literal same s…
/r/MensRights14/10/15 02:05 PM
1

Interesting, I never considered that when I thought about alimony. That is indeed significant.
/r/MensRights13/10/15 05:43 PM
4

A few more of these and colleges will get the hint. That or continue losing large sums of money.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/10/15 05:31 PM
1

The UN is such a joke anymore. That or maybe I'm just now seeing how absurd they are. Between putting Saudi Arabia as the head of human rights and saying something like trolling is as serious as actual violence they are just begging to not be taken seriously.
/r/MensRights13/10/15 05:19 PM
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Some men are going to have to give up their hard won roles She is basically saying that women are not able to compete with men in these areas if she genuinely thinks this. How anyone can take that in any other way is beyond me. She is admitting women cannot compete and should be handed these positions.
/r/MensRights13/10/15 04:16 PM
2

Adoption is easily cheaper if you compare it to raising a child from birth to 18. It's only tiresome if you want an infant or very young child. That's because most people don't want to take in a 10+ yo old who has been in and out of foster care or at the orphanage their whole lives. Teens even less so.
/r/MensRights13/10/15 03:09 PM
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Society in a nutshell. They think 11 year old boys have more agency than 16 year old girls. I'm told often of how women mature earlier than boys so... which is it? The comments are nice though, both men and women saying this is wrong.
/r/MensRights05/10/15 04:56 PM
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I'd like to know what woman would be ok with a few men entering their private locker rooms while they are dressing/undressing after a game.
/r/MensRights05/10/15 04:41 PM
6

Why would a woman lie? Just believe her. The patriarchy is responsible for bad things that happen to men too. Just some of the things you will hear instead of any sort of counter point to what you actually tried to discuss. Feels > logic
/r/MensRights05/10/15 11:34 AM
2

After reading this I'm surprised I had not seen posts like this more often. I like how if a woman has a differing opinion to Feminism she must hate herself and/or women in general. Unsurprising it's still about attacking the individual and not their argument.
/r/MensRights04/10/15 06:25 PM
12

It took me a long time into my 20's to get the most basic of social skills down. I used to cry a lot more as well. I cry every few weeks now and I consider myself relatively to be in a good place. Sometimes a good cry can be very therapeutic as well. In my darker days though I'd cry 3-4 times a day and for 20+ minutes when I did. I did that for over 6 months. At work, at school, at home. Didn't matter, I couldn't stop it from happening. I spent my entire teen years holding it in and never showin…
/r/MensRights03/10/15 08:27 PM
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That's a very mild rant. I know that feel though... I wish I could say it gets better but that's misleading to far too many. I will encourage you though to try to do things you enjoy around others who share that interest as well. Conventions, trivia night, etc. Just something somewhere with like minded people. I go and do my own thing without any intentions of making new connections now. Before I think I put too much emphasis on the social part of these things, now I just enjoy the activities mu…
/r/MensRights03/10/15 06:48 PM
2

I look forward to when this finally becomes available. My GF wants me to get a vasectomy and I am 100% not willing to do that. Not for many years if I ever do. I'd see no reason to with this though.
/r/MensRights02/10/15 06:55 PM
2

You'd think that, but they'd turn on him instantly the moment his message changed. You are with them 100% or you are not. There is no middle ground in pro-feminist forums. Openly they'll pay lip service but their actions never match it.
/r/MensRights02/10/15 05:14 PM
4

The ones with the seemingly nice guy killing themselves or going on shooting sprees make me the saddest. Because I think I was at one time on the fence and could've became one of those people who went berserk because of how I was treated most of my life. All we want are some friends and to be cared about, the same as anyone else. The 'beta male' is often picked on even if they make no effort to be apart of the group. Try fitting in, open rejection, that's fine. Not trying to fit in or be accepte…
/r/MensRights02/10/15 12:45 PM
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I was getting grilled the other day as being overly sensitive and an idiot when I replied to another matter. I mentioned I was sexually assaulted and they posted this and pretty much ignored that claim and kept being hostile. Nobody cares They don't care if you aren't apart of the "officially" oppressed club. I shouldn't have said nobody, cause I know there are people who do and especially within this sub.
/r/MensRights25/09/15 01:28 PM
14

Women don't have power over men, so it cannot be rape. /s
/r/MensRights23/09/15 04:31 PM
5

She clearly didn't think that one through.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/09/15 05:26 PM
6

I was happy to see this on the front page today. Not about the abuse but that this is a literal example of how some women will try to abuse the laws and peoples perceptions for DV to suit them. We need more abused men to step forward like this or it will never get better.
/r/MensRights22/09/15 05:14 PM
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Do this OP! CAFE will have a much better understanding of Canada's laws and they are well aware of how stacked it is against men. At the very least reach out to them. They can either help or point you in the right direction for the additional steps you can take.
/r/MensRights22/09/15 12:10 PM
3

I looked through that users post history. Either it's a troll account or she has very deep seeded issues. I wanted to laugh but I just feel bad for her now.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/09/15 05:27 PM
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Their favorite go to. That one and my favorite "Oh so you hate women?" as if you can remotely deduce that from a statement as simple as "I'm not a feminist."
/r/MensRights18/09/15 10:09 PM
1

My favorite scene was Stan talking to his dad after he did those things to Kyle. Randy hungover barely getting the words out trying to explain privilege and how he had to check Kyles. Then I felt kinda sad because it was funny because it's so absurd... yet in real life there are many people who cling to those words as being true.
/r/MensRights18/09/15 09:50 PM
7

This whole nonsense is so disempowering towards women and probably creates more misogyny than it cures from the world. To be honest, I thought that was the goal. As I feel no sane person could look at their actions and words and think it was having a positive impact. All they do is spread hate and misinformation and wonder why so many don't like them.
/r/MensRights18/09/15 08:37 PM
2

If you say yes, then it means yes. If you did not mean yes, then don't say it. If this is too hard of a concept, you may be a child trapped inside of an adults body.
/r/MensRights17/09/15 11:56 PM
1

I think women have far more of a right to object to sexist behaviors than men. Why? Because we have suffered for them infinitely longer than our male counterparts. The only part that matters, this woman is a hypocritical idiot. It's wrong for everyone, or no one. Pick one.
/r/MensRights17/09/15 11:02 PM
1

It's not like there won't be many who won't participate in such things if they prefer actual human company. There are billions of men and women on this planet who won't be able to afford, or care to own a sex robot. I can kind of follow the logic of what you say but it just makes me think these people that are against it are self centered and petty. To which, I find fairly unattractive in a potential SO. So perhaps they should be worried now that I've thought about it slightly more haha.
/r/MensRights16/09/15 11:59 PM
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Don't see the big fuss. Women complain that creepy guys bother them. Would this not be the perfect thing to deter these men from giving them this unwelcome attention?
/r/MensRights16/09/15 10:36 PM
2

Yeah seriously, do not let those genes continue on.
/r/MensRights15/09/15 07:58 PM
5

Well, then you have a group of women who don't care at all and actually love that sort of attention and exploiting it. Those women's feelings and opinions don't matter though. Since they are "bad" women because they aren't stern feminists. Edit: a word
/r/MensRights07/09/15 02:29 PM
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Wow that's pretty absurd of them to blame society for pressuring them to have children. If you can't make your own decisions based on what you want and instead cave to peer pressure in such situations, maybe you should develop some self respect and do what you want to do like healthy people are able to. I'm still kinda flabbergasted that kind of thinking is even remotely used by human beings. If I do something that I don't want to do, I don't blame others, I blame myself for making poor choices.…
/r/MensRights30/08/15 11:37 AM
14

I look at it like this, they draw people in by talking about women but drop the truth bomb midway and again at the end that it effects men more, overwhelmingly more so. A pro woman mind set person will read that and get "men die at 13x the rate of women in the workplace" shoved in their face. They can feel however they want, but they can't claim ignorance after that. Now if they said all that and omitted what I had quoted, I'm all about getting the pitchforks and torches. Honestly do you think m…
/r/MensRights28/08/15 06:38 PM
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I was prepared to be upset when I clicked on the article after seeing the graphs, but the following is in there so I felt much better. Overall, more men are murdered on the job than women. But that's because more men are killed on the job overall. Women do more than 40 percent of the work hours in this country, but represent 7 percent of workplace deaths, according to the census of workplace deaths. So more dangerous types of work result in 13 men dying on the job for every woman who dies. Along…
/r/MensRights28/08/15 05:09 PM
7

It was weird seeing Clarence Boddicker in that 70's show. My young naive self was worried he would kill Eric at some point.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/08/15 03:53 PM
2

It's a reference to an AMA where a mom "assisted" her son with two broken arms. He was an early teen IIRC. I'm hesitant to say more but I feel I'm being too vague since others may not be aware as well. She helped him masturbate due to the circumstances.
/r/MensRights28/08/15 03:47 PM
1

I don't know, I only told two people. One of which told me I wasn't assaulted. I feel the average man wouldn't empathize and a lot of women just can't understand it coming from a man. The erection problem is usually the culprit.
/r/MensRights28/08/15 03:09 PM
6

Shame on you... I still laughed though.
/r/MensRights28/08/15 01:42 PM
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Other people were trying to go the way she did. It's either not marked or the man was in the wrong in the first place by going the wrong way. Absolutely nothing about this gif involves a woman trying to get away with something of any kind. We have zero context. I feel like 1,000 of you just like seeing bad things happen to women and don't care about anything else. This sub is supposed to be about justice, regarding a specific gender, and there is none in this gif.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/08/15 11:57 AM
6

Oh my god the amount of times I heard the line that I'd make some girl really happy one day. If I had a dollar for each time I heard it or read it I could buy a house and my dream car and go retire. Before I knew anything about gender politics I identified as a nice guy on a dating site. Some girl lit me up saying I was sexist and that I felt I was entitled to sex and I was so confused. Didn't know until a year or so later why she felt that way. I am a nice person but I keep my mouth shut about …
/r/MensRights16/08/15 06:40 PM
1

And here I thought they couldn't trivialize rape anymore than they have in recent years. They are begging to not be taken seriously with how hard they are trying to force so many things to fall under the "rape" definition. Rape is when one of the parties involved in a sexual encounter does not want to participate in a sexual act or acts and does so anyway. You cannot retroactively change your mind once the act is finished. If you were into it until the next day or if you feel like the person end…
/r/MensRights12/08/15 12:06 AM
1

All I know is if a woman came up to me and did that I'd be extremely upset. You can't fault them for being angry but the actions in addition to the anger is absurd. We really need a way to end doxxing happening to common people.
/r/MensRights11/08/15 01:11 AM
1

My dad was physically abusive to my mom but never to me. My mom was extremely emotionally and mentally abusive towards me and I had a similar problem early in my life thinking he was always the bad guy. I still don't think she ever meant harm in it but she most certainly was my main abuser growing up. I was lucky enough to realize it earlier in life than most.
/r/MensRights09/08/15 10:46 PM
1

On Larry King Live in the 90's, he candidly spoke about how he spiked women's drinks with substances. I liked Bill as much as anyone but the man said it himself. While laughing and smiling.
/r/MensRights09/08/15 10:22 PM
1

I will have to do that. I wasn't aware he did any other types of videos.
/r/MensRights06/08/15 02:50 PM
1

There's a difference between making your statement for the audience to decide and just saying that you are in the right. I don't like anyone who just asserts their view is the correct view even if I agree with it. Unbiased presentation is the only thing I can stomach viewing/listening to. If your argument's any good then the evidence will speak for itself. You can't be the one to convince someone of something, they must see it on their own based on the evidence. Being the bigger person is a choi…
/r/MensRights05/08/15 06:13 PM
1

His tone just seems to me that he feels he's obviously right when he's commenting on things. The format bothers me because if it were an in person thing he's just being rude interrupting every single sentence and sometimes even mid-sentence. Like a claim will be made and mid-sentence he will cut to himself and go "Wrong" sometimes in a very harsh tone and other times give a several paragraph rebuttal to again, a mid-sentence claim of what he's watching. Real debates don't work that way. At least…
/r/MensRights05/08/15 04:43 PM
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He's comes off as a little too arrogant/uppity for my tastes but he does not deserve that treatment for merely speaking words.
/r/MensRights05/08/15 12:44 PM
4

I honestly feel like I'm in the Twilight Zone reading this. The Josh story nearly made me cry.
/r/MensRights04/08/15 06:55 PM
3

Strangely it doesn't provide proof? I seem to see a great many posts that are anti-male that follow that process. Accuse, blame misogyny, assume moral high ground.
/r/MensRights03/08/15 04:08 PM
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For a group that preaches about accepting the differences of others they sure do hate people who are comfortable with how they were born. It honestly comes off as jealousy to me. What other reason could possibly justify such a prejudiced thought process and hatred of people you don't even know? Straight white men aren't the devil. I'm not some boogyman hiding under your bed. I'm just a guy trying to live my life the same as anyone else...
/r/MensRights03/08/15 12:57 PM
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Saving this link just in case.
/r/MensRights29/07/15 09:12 PM
12

Well that's unsettling to see my name and comment. Edit: So do you think this would fall into the anti-brigading or harassment part in this newer post. I mean, if anything started to happen?
/r/MensRights29/07/15 06:35 PM
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Happened to me, in the moment I decided to let it happen because I feared what would happen if I used any physical force. In hindsight, I still don't know if I should have or not.
/r/MensRights25/07/15 12:07 PM
1

Yeah... I'd sooner pay her to never speak to me again than to be around me.
/r/MensRights24/07/15 12:04 PM
1

Ironically, feminists continually demand that men "open up" and talk about our problems. When we do, they attack us. Not really ironic, they get to seem morally superior while also demonizing men who do speak up. Pretty neat trick if you ask me. Otherwise, great post. I think we should make it more about the children. They suffer the most when moms go to great lengths to prevent visitation.
/r/MensRights23/07/15 06:06 PM
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That statement makes me see red. Because even when you provide examples of why they would lie you get shouted down because they don't want to hear it. Very few care about male victims and way too many show blind support to female ones.
/r/MensRights23/07/15 03:51 PM
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He was very non-specific. One could argue all TSA pat downs are sexual assault because of how they touch you. If he can't be more specific then this is no news.
/r/MensRights23/07/15 03:47 PM
1

We are doing our own thing, and it's made for a much happier overall life. I don't want to impress people I don't care for with things I do not want or more importantly things I don't need.
/r/MensRights22/07/15 06:26 PM
1

Nintendo has already confirmed you can use different hands. Guy is just a straight idiot. He needs serious mental help because his world must be incredibly stressful and full of sadness.
/r/MensRights22/07/15 06:05 PM
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Can you even imagine a man doing that to a child and a teacher going 'well he's not around now, let's just go home' because I certainly can't.
/r/MensRights19/07/15 09:02 PM
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The only reason men need this is because women don't convey what they mean/want or change their minds after the fact. I like the reference to the survey where 44% women who "nod in agreement" think that isn't consent. Ofcourse there are misunderstandings because of that BS. Men aren't blind, they see how they are getting screwed over left and right when it comes to sexual encounters in an increasing number of areas in the US. It's a sad day now that we need this.
/r/MensRights17/07/15 10:13 PM
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He's already lost his job and money defending himself. They know they won't get a conviction. The punishment is the process itself. He's tainted forever now.
/r/MensRights17/07/15 07:17 PM
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Germano also "reinforced gender bias and stereotypes" in the minds of her Marines by telling them on several occasions that male Marines would not take orders from them and would see them as inferior if they could not meet men's physical standards, the investigation found. This is the truth, those men would not respect someone that can't do the same as them. I imagine they'd be pretty angry if a woman who couldn't perform the same basic tasks as them started telling them what to do. Edit: remove…
/r/MensRights13/07/15 05:54 PM
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On the false accusation point, I think it's important to distinguish between someone who was raped and just got the wrong person and the the person who is knowingly lying just to hurt someone and it's been proved that they are lying. Otherwise an actual rape victim can face consequences. If it's proven the accusation was false, then yes that person should get the punishment a rapist would get. Because it's intentional vs someone who was drugged or was gang raped and multiple people could be the …
/r/MensRights13/07/15 11:56 AM
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It's a real shame so few men are comfortable enough to do let alone admit it. I wish more would indulge in that feeling when it comes up. It's relieves so much stress, for me at least.
/r/MensRights12/07/15 02:49 PM
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It's only 3 panels but I thought it got the message of "if you want to criticize, then you should expect it back" fairly well. Our culture still cringes at most criticism of women regardless of context or intent but doesn't flinch when even the most hateful things are said to/about us. That has a direct impact of the progress we are making and can make in the future. It's not an amazing post, but it's not a bad one either.
/r/MensRights11/07/15 06:27 PM
3

The new boss actually is the old boss. The post said it was a mutual agreement for her to leave. For what it's worth.
/r/MensRights11/07/15 11:09 AM
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That's rather sickening.
/r/MensRights07/07/15 11:08 PM
5

Ok, this is satire... It's not though.
/r/MensRights01/07/15 03:15 PM
2

Clearly an assumed estimate as well. Facts are rarely on the side of these people.
/r/MensRights01/07/15 02:30 PM
3

That line got me a good laugh. I don't mind if someone chooses to live an unhealthy lifestyle and balloon but how dare someone even suggest that there's nothing wrong with it. You're killing yourself, being a burden on your body and those around you. The truth hurts, change or accept the choices you made. I think that's reasonable.
/r/MensRights01/07/15 02:11 PM
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The thing I can't wrap my head around in regards to "drunk sex = rape" part is this. You are saying a man is responsible for his actions and decisions when he is drunk. Then, you are then saying a women is not responsible for her actions and decisions when drunk. You are saying a woman is inferior to a man, no matter how you look at it. You are saying a man's cognitive ability is sound and there but a woman's is not. You are treating her like an infant who can't do something for herself. I don't…
/r/MensRights01/07/15 12:37 PM
2

Sad to see a place throwing money away on a lie.
/r/MensRights30/06/15 01:52 PM
1

Yes, thank you!
/r/MensRights30/06/15 01:11 PM
2

I've been commenting on the Other 98% and such FB pages recently. Those pages have definitely been taken over by the SJW crowd. The things they post, words they use to talk about a situation, etc are no longer gender neutral and often implying bad things about men in general when it's still a gray area issue. An example, there was a video of Lauren Southern* attending a event saying rape culture does not exist in the West. We were all pretty happy with her it seemed. Same video posted on a FB pa…
/r/MensRights30/06/15 12:26 PM
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I don't think enough people appreciate the restraint this man shows. He is trying to slowly push/force the crowd apart to not hurt anyone in trying to get to his daughter. His clothes are being ripped and the gang of girls starts hitting him without a care in the world. If that was my child I don't think I'd have the same restraint, I am angry just thinking about it. I don't even have children.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/06/15 04:19 PM
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Since some comments fail at math and I don't feel like arguing with a wall... The first interruption lasted well over 3 minutes and then finally cuts, then shows them coming in after leaving initially to start more trouble. This time it goes on for at least a minute on camera and cuts to when the police arrive citing they continued for several more minutes. So at the very least, assuming they were silent during the cuts, they were disruptive a minimum of 4 minutes and 30 seconds and at most 10-1…
/r/MensRights28/06/15 02:07 PM
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Men are becoming shut ins and/or avoiding places where there are a lot of women because of how stressful it's becoming to be around these perpetual victims all the time. One wrong word, one wrong move and cries of sexism will rain down on you with no one to stand up for you even if you're completely right/innocent. I completely quit on trying to befriend women after a few years ago because logic and reason seems rarer and rarer. While still being attacked for things I've never done, other than t…
/r/MensRights26/06/15 12:54 AM
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except men*
/r/MensRights25/06/15 12:27 AM
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Quoting a Guardian article linked at the end... "the bigger issue behind the development of a contraceptive pill for men is that women risk losing control of conception" and if that's one of your arguments against it, you have no argument. Guess "my body, my choice" doesn't apply to men, unsurprising but still frustrating. Excuse me, but how/why should women be in total control of something that requires two parties in the first place? Women have had the option for many years, so men should have…
/r/MensRights23/06/15 10:19 PM
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Had the pleasure of working with a few women in their 40's who still behaved like they were in high school and were attention whores to no end. So it's entirely possible and likely in her case. Those people tend to never grow up.
/r/MensRights21/06/15 01:34 PM
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I cry when I'm really happy or sad, it relieves a good amount of stress and I always feel better after. Crying is awesome and in no way makes me feel like less of a manly man.
/r/MensRights19/06/15 05:51 PM
2

Well as a guy I don't like buying things that say "for women" on it. I buy normal things that are neutral. They market things specifically towards men in hoping that they get the widest range in terms of sales. It's not men's fault advertising is now targeting them. Same way it's not women's fault that magazines target certain audiences with unrealistically attractive people on the covers.
/r/MensRights19/06/15 03:52 PM
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Not in most (US) states, you can't make a paternity test happen without the guardians consent, if she has custody then it's not happening if that's the case.
/r/MensRights18/06/15 04:54 PM
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Not just a pass, it's a non-issue altogether to those outside of the situation. The man is obligated to pay child support after regardless of how it happened though.
/r/MensRights18/06/15 02:29 PM
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Can we stop saying Domestic Violence and call it by what most people treat it as? Just call it 'woman beating' so there's no more confusion. Because apparently it's impossible to be a male victim to a female perpetrator.
/r/MensRights17/06/15 05:17 PM
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Wow
/r/MensRights17/06/15 03:13 PM
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To anyone thinking paternity leave is a non-issue. You think a mother wouldn't want/need some extra help considering what she just went through? Seems a little mean to the mother that she is responsible alone for the care of the child the majority of the time a few weeks at the least. He's going to have many a sleepless night as well as her but then he has to go to work on top of it. Most men would quit their jobs in a second to be with their children more but it's impossible to do so in modern …
/r/MensRights17/06/15 01:12 PM
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See, it's not even half! Patriarchy in action!!
/r/MensRights16/06/15 04:18 PM
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It was not my intention to imply Patriarchy doesn't exist at all, but that it can't be the end all argument, for the reasons you already stated. There are mega rich people who happen to be male, and money speaks volumes and people are easily bought. They just don't care about the average male any more than anyone else does. If men have it bad too then I think Feminists take that as saying women don't have it as bad and somehow hurts women. The "men have their own problems" argument always ring h…
/r/MensRights16/06/15 02:16 PM
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we make the mistake of assuming you can change these people's minds with reason and facts. I have since learned that is simply not possible, so you have to play their game. This to me is the saddest thing. It makes you feel insane because it makes so much sense when you objectively look at the things we have issue with but like you said earlier in the comment, it's like they're brainwashed and Patriarchy is the literal catch all for anything they can't explain or BS through. Feminists don't have…
/r/MensRights16/06/15 01:23 PM
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Not all, probably not even that much. Few care if a man is the victim. Very few are even willing to say men can be victims to such a thing. It takes people like us and male victims speaking up and trying to get a discussion going. It's an uphill battle still.
/r/MensRights12/06/15 01:09 AM
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I will say... I do like the change. Makes more sense, seems less whiney. It's basically the warning we've gotten for years with TV and movies.
/r/MensRights11/06/15 12:08 AM
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By their own explanation, as long as the things we post aren't about witch hunts and literally attacking people in the real world, we shouldn't worry even a little. Don't know if it's just lip service or not at this point. As long as the process isn't up to mods and is something the admins have to agree on in some sense I am not worried about it.
/r/MensRights10/06/15 11:37 PM
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Her name is stated as "Ms." so I'm hardly surprised by her poor behaviour. She will have that title likely until she is cold in the ground with her winning personality.
/r/MensRights07/06/15 02:05 PM
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Nailed it!
/r/MensRights06/06/15 05:52 PM
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I was bullied nearly everyday of my childhood into my teens. I was shunned and mocked by girls because I didn't develop social skills until I was an adult because no one would treat me like a person until then. Then these angry Feminists have the gall to tell me that I'm privileged and my problems are taken seriously because I am male. You know what I've seen during that time? I've seen female only grants for schools, favouritism in said schools, favouritism in the jobs I have worked, in their p…
/r/MensRights06/06/15 05:50 PM
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As much as I dislike Mrs. Palin, or anyone for that matter, when someone makes a good point I can't help but commend them. I'm still a little shocked she said it though.
/r/MensRights05/06/15 06:24 PM
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I wasn't even hyper as a child but just sitting still for an hour+ at a time and then moving for a few minutes only to do so again was agonizing. I'd rip paper out of a notebook just to walk to the garbage can here and there. In my office job it's the same way, I hate sitting still for so long. I walk around usually once every hour because I get so fidgety. The only time I can sit still for any length of time is actually when I'm playing a good game. I still get up and walk around but less often…
/r/MensRights05/06/15 02:43 PM
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If you don't want to do something... then don't do it. Really tired of being a scapegoat for the poor choices of others.
/r/MensRights05/06/15 01:28 PM
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This is a perfect example of how society sees the issue. A false accusation is just a failed conviction in most peoples eyes. Also, to even suggest that friends are disposable shows how little empathy they have for others. We see it all the time. When similar crimes are committed, the woman is coddled for making a "mistake" while the man is punished because they should "know better" so is it really surprising?
/r/MensRights02/06/15 12:58 PM
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The danger of also being engaged by Russia and North Korea make it highly unlikely. Because then other countries will jump in. Europe stands to lose a lot if America were to fall, and they would rightfully so fear for their own safety afterwards. Russia will grow even bolder without the threat of America interfering if they wanted to take aim at Europe next. Then Japan, openly states it would defend us, would also stand to lose a lot and also be unsafe. It would literally be WW3, which nobody wa…
/r/MensRights26/05/15 06:50 PM
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It's my hope that the boy does grow to resent the father. The father pushing it this far is so sad and it makes me furious. The boy is a human being at the end of the day and should have consent over his body for non necessary procedures to begin with. The mother is a hero to me and it's truly disheartening that it turned out this way after all that time fighting it.
/r/MensRights26/05/15 06:27 PM
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That's as likely to happen as women universally accepting they are responsible for their own actions. They will always be "oppressed" in some fashion because being a victim is surprisingly profitable and to some I'd argue some kind of fetish.
/r/MensRights26/05/15 02:08 PM
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There will be no outrage, because this is revenge porn and people will eat it up. He clearly wanted it or he would not have done it right? His having sex with them automatically makes him a pile of human garbage because he's cheating on his wife. You see the brutal female on male violence stories mention it almost without fail that the man was cheating on the woman. Feels > everything.
/r/MensRights22/05/15 04:27 PM
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Oh my god I'm crying!
/r/MensRights20/05/15 06:20 PM
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Yep, we are too quick to accommodate in an attempt to satisfy them but it always is followed by more demands. It never ends.
/r/MensRights13/05/15 06:04 PM
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Yeah but those are under attack even. There are little to no male only spaces anymore because everything must include women in some way now. It kills me how women demand that these spaces be made more welcoming while in the same breath they ban men from many places so they can have a "safe space" for themselves.
/r/MensRights13/05/15 05:59 PM
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Don't fault others for what they find or don't find attractive. If you don't like it, why would you want to be with that person anyway? A pretty face cannot hide an ugly soul.
/r/MensRights13/05/15 02:38 PM
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"stop that, they've been oppressing us for centuries, it's our turn now" Think that really sums up the anger and rage from self proclaimed Feminists. They want to punish men for the mistakes of the past, against those who had nothing to do with it. For oppression that no longer exists in the western world. You don't have to apologize for things you are not responsible for, although the thought is appreciated.
/r/MensRights13/05/15 01:04 PM
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I wish I could upvote this a thousand times, but just the one will do I suppose.
/r/MensRights13/05/15 12:36 PM
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Cosigned
/r/MensRights07/05/15 07:09 PM
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Those articles always say it's such a surprise to find women performing better. Or unexpected or "it's about time" snarky like remarks. This has been going on for years. Can we stop being surprised that a woman can, and has been able to for almost 50 years now, do anything that they try to do. It requires effort, and the women who put the time in get the results they seek instead of whining about it constantly and demanding to be handed something.
/r/MensRights30/04/15 02:34 PM
1

Rand says sensible things here and there, a little less so than his father. I don't think either would be good for the collective US but you could say the same thing about any politician. Rand is too inconsistent for me to take seriously.
/r/MensRights29/04/15 05:04 PM
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I think this type of behavior bothers me the most when it comes to women and/or children. Being a man does not make you any less qualified to care for a child nor does it make you incapable of speaking to children. She made 0 effort to use her brain and just went 100% "Men are shit at parenting, therefore he can't possibly know anything" and nothing else. Men have this stigma with children because of the hysteria caused by a wrongly held belief that all men are pedos and woman beaters. An exampl…
/r/PussyPassDenied19/04/15 03:12 PM
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Very definition of a psychopath! "I'll beat the shit out of a man even if he's defending his life because women"
/r/PussyPassDenied19/04/15 02:50 PM
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An article on r/feminism critical of Men's Rights? A shame there isn't a sub that can be equally as critical of Feminism...
/r/MensRights18/04/15 06:13 PM
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Very true. I remember a video by I think Thunderfoot who compared Joss's work against tropes Anita said were in games. He pretty much nailed every one and would be considered sexist by her standards. A self proclaimed fan of Anita and he does all the things she says are sexist. The worst part is SJW's and Joss included don't see these actions as sexist because they feel they are right from a moral standpoint in the first place so it's not coming from a place of hate... or so I'd imagine is the l…
/r/MensRights17/04/15 04:05 PM
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Silicon Valley is one area and not a reflection of the entire business world. Your opinion does not matter to the people that are responsible for hiring. You play by their rules or they will hire someone who will. You also must consider that many people are trying for the same position as you. Sometimes even dozens. I guarantee someone with your skills or better will show up in a suit, even if it's just one of them. So if it's down to you and that person, better luck next time, but luck had noth…
/r/MensRights17/04/15 02:50 PM
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Didn't catch this when it happened. That was quite a bit absurd of Mr. Affleck to behave like that.
/r/MensRights17/04/15 01:58 PM
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There's a reason certain comments get buried and others to the top. Something about upvotes and downvotes... you know, Reddit? There are vile comments in the vast majority of posts. The top comments reflect that many more disagree with her than the flipside.
/r/MensRights15/04/15 12:11 AM
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I just wanted to say how much I appreciate that there is a flair specifically for this insane woman. Apparently she didn't read the original article because "Jackie" was using terms and words that have no flexibility. She dug herself into a huge whole that is impossible to pull out of without contradicting yourself over and over.
/r/MensRights08/04/15 10:54 PM
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I feel like that is part of the trick in keeping bad relationships together. Someone can be so completely horrible to someone but tug on that insecurity a lot of people have and they will rationalize staying. Being alone can suck sometimes but there worse things than being alone. I don't envy a number of acquaintances or friends relationships because one or both of them are emotionally abusive like that. Having friends outside of your SO is extremely important for some people. Having alone time …
/r/MensRights07/04/15 09:28 PM
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I've seen a similar effect a few times. In a way it's kinda sexist in the sense that, when a man does something it's not a big deal because it's somewhat expected of him. When a woman accomplishes the same thing we offer so much praise and admiration. There were no expectations and meeting a standard at all gets a lot of praise a lot of the time. Doesn't that mean in these scenarios we view the women as less capable initially? Never heard a feminist complain about that one.
/r/MensRights31/03/15 03:18 PM
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Yep, I'm gonna be single well into my 30's and 40's if I don't start to get significantly ahead career wise for which I have very little motivation to do. I have a full time job with benefits, but I barely get by just taking care of myself let alone a partner and child(ren) if I were to meet a reasonably understanding woman. My only real relationship ended basically because I didn't make enough money. She had to think about herself and her child's future and that didn't include my mediocrity. Me…
/r/MensRights25/02/15 10:12 PM
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This comment hits a little too close to home in some areas.
/r/MensRights25/02/15 09:13 PM
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Unfortunately I am all too familiar with NOW and their stances on various issues. The alimony one is especially narrow minded in their approach. They act as if we did anything to the current system that all women would suffer immeasurably. It's good in a handful of instances but more often it seems abused more than anything else.
/r/MensRights25/02/15 07:50 PM
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I took it the wrong way, my apologies.
/r/MensRights23/02/15 08:22 PM
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You can also advocate for women's rights and issues without wanting men to have none. Some people suck, others don't. You shouldn't blanket label an entire group. That's what men are struggling with right now with being all pedos and rapists and women haters.
/r/MensRights23/02/15 07:52 PM
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I agree with this. How are you supposed to know who does and does not deserve respect if you've never met them before. I hate when people say you have to earn it. I think everyone deserves the benefit of the doubt and be treated humanely. It is the responsibility of that person to act in a way that shows they deserve to continue receiving said treatment though. I'm nice right up until the point the other person is not, then I won't care at all and treat them accordingly.
/r/MensRights18/02/15 12:28 AM
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So... women are just children and are incapable of making decisions? Why is only the man required to make the decisions and take actions?
/r/MensRights17/02/15 01:37 PM
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Looks like they are running out of things to change in Sweden. I feel like no matter how much we concede to and give in to women they will always demand more. Banning peeing standing up, are you kidding me? If men ever suggested something like that to a woman there would be a highly hostile response.
/r/MensRights12/02/15 07:51 PM
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I'm not an expert by any means, but a friend whose SO had a similar thing happen to him told me it is common for boys who are raped young to become overly hyperactive in regards to sex. If you haven't I highly suggest seeking therapy because it could be effecting other areas of your life more than you realize. Try to keep your head up and talk to someone you trust first if you prefer. Baby steps, no two roads to recovery are the same.
/r/MensRights12/02/15 06:51 PM
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As others have said, making the claim it happened is fine, but we must take care when names are brought up. It's terrible we have to do that but there are some really devious people out there who carelessly throw that around strictly as a means to harm others and care nothing for justice or fairness.
/r/MensRights12/02/15 06:42 PM
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The CDC says the deaths per years are nearly identical and popular perception of it is only as a man's disease. It's to raise awareness and it also has in big bold letters stating it's not just effecting us. So it's not taking anything away from men in that regard. I mean, I'm kinda surprised there isn't already some Rad Fems getting really upset that the men part is bigger and on top of the women part. Like some kind of poster rape.
/r/MensRights12/02/15 05:36 PM
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Originally I had a problem with this but hadn't checked it out yet. The CDC states (as of 2009) that women and men both have a 1 out of every 4 deaths is because of Heart Disease. Women (and myself before) think of it as being only a serious issue for men. People just aren't aware of this. I mean it says in big bold letters that it's not just a man's disease, so it's not taking anything away from us.
/r/MensRights12/02/15 05:30 PM
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Any criticism of Feminism is heavy, because you aren't supposed to do it because reasons.
/r/MensRights11/02/15 05:23 PM
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The idiots and extremists are always the loudest. Various groups don't do enough to self-police this behavior though. The vast majority of people let these overgrown children throw their tantrums and just go "but we aren't like that" and this cycle continues. It's in everything, not just Feminism. That being said, I feel the average woman tends to be much louder than the average man with their grievances. A lot of men would rather suffer than appear weak in any way, even at their own peril. Wome…
/r/MensRights11/02/15 02:06 PM
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Liberals are just playing for the woman vote in 2016, it's not like politicians haven't tried to win votes by pandering to certain groups before.
/r/MensRights10/02/15 06:00 PM
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I get trying to keep up appearances but she goes out of her way several times to initiate them getting together for fun and such. Apparently though, it's really common for victims to talk to and even have sex with their abusers after an assault. According to Feminists anyhow.
/r/MensRights09/02/15 07:28 PM
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Your parents are the part that's troubling me. You should talk with them again and ask them why it's ok to assume you were at fault and why it's ok for you to be attacked for any reason whatsoever let alone a non-violent reason because it happened to be a female. You should probably appeal to your dads logic (or lack thereof) and ask him if he'd deserve for you to pop him in the jaw out of nowhere and go from there. Don't actually do it, before someone misreads it. You must present others with a…
/r/MensRights08/02/15 02:24 PM
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Thank you for sharing, it's nice to see a good post in this sub. Sometimes there are just so many negative ones and it can be a little depressing.
/r/MensRights06/02/15 02:26 AM
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Not much of a denied given she only got probation for attacking someone for no other reason than she felt like it. Not to mention that she quickly turned into the "helpless female victim" the moment cops got involved. If he didn't have that video he would've had the book thrown at him and be forgotten about. It's a sick world we live in because we are often told to just believe and be supportive no matter what a woman claims. "Why would she lie?" is echoed far too often. This is exactly why, bec…
/r/PussyPassDenied05/02/15 04:05 PM
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Sadly sometimes a person is so dedicated to their belief/cause that anyone who disagrees with them, no matter how little, must be completely wrong. She was fairly nice about it at least. Also, welcome to Reddit!
/r/MensRights05/02/15 03:38 AM
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I still can't believe one of them insisted it is normal for women who have been assaulted to still have sex with the person who did it. Not even that it happens, but that it's "REALLY common" to do so. Seriously, how dumb do you have to be to do that? How far can you push not being held accountable for your own actions? It's so absurd I almost can't even.
/r/MensRights05/02/15 01:03 AM
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He's referring to the Rolling Stone gang rape article that was since retracted. I think this story predates it though or is very close to the same time.
/r/MensRights03/02/15 09:08 PM
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"I'm offended" is one of the worst arguments of all time. All it says is you don't have an argument and just want to complain for the sake of complaining.
/r/MensRights03/02/15 08:43 PM
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I just wanted to thank you for explaining it the way you did. I could never quite grasp it's meaning before.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/15 05:24 PM
7

Pretty spot on, I'm 50/50 on heavy girls being attractive but my current crush is straight up fat. It doesn't bother me, I think she's awesome and I'm glad I got to know her. Being 5'7" I am not even considered by a lot of women but unlike weight, I can't make myself taller. I said screw dating sites after seeing all that BS over and over. Then again, if I were a woman I'd be able to be significantly more picky. It's pretty normal for a woman to get 15+ messages a day even when fairly hideous on…
/r/MensRights30/01/15 03:57 PM
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UPDATE: Stabbing Suspect Accuses Husband of Cheating UPDATE 2: This doesn't matter when you try to murder someone
/r/MensRights29/01/15 12:39 PM
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Things being fair and equality are similar in meaning. Being fair means it's fair... for everyone. Equality is the equal treatment and rights, or being fair, for everyone. How can one be for and against it at the same time?
/r/MensRights28/01/15 05:54 PM
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Yeah, a man in the same conditions would receive 0 sympathy. When men crack under extreme circumstances they are still held accountable with no excuses being allowed. Yet we continue to coddle women and treat them as if they are children who don't know any better. It makes me sick when I see that on one hand and then see women complaining about how bad they have it still in the Western world. At least people put serious effort into trying to help them. Men are not impervious to harm or bad circu…
/r/MensRights28/01/15 05:35 PM
7

Exhibit A: Manspreading
/r/MensRights27/01/15 06:51 PM
6

Not all men are bad... but I had to abort my boy because he will be a monster just like other men. Wat?
/r/MensRights27/01/15 05:52 PM
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We'll have to agree to disagree. I feel we are being too defensive with this one. It's not suggesting that only/all men are rapists and is pointing out specific behaviors that the general population need to know are not ok. I don't see women doing these sorts of things, they do different things when it comes to sexual assault. I do however, see men do this still. Women need a whole set for themselves, in that sense, I can empathize with you. Their exclusion is not always with a malicious intent …
/r/MensRights22/01/15 10:54 PM
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First rationale comment I've seen. It's literally saying "Tell him" as if to encourage bystanders to speak up if they see this behavior. There are men out there who do all those things and it doesn't even remotely suggest that all men are like that or that men need to be taught anything. The comments in this thread make me sick. Normally I'm fairly defensive of this sub but this post I just can't.
/r/MensRights22/01/15 09:04 PM
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I didn't read the article, I just looked at the "sexist" signs. I thought there was nothing whatsoever wrong with those three signs shown. Guys passed around nudes that weren't given to them when I was in high school as well as those who still think that if they buy you drinks and give you a ride home you in fact owe them sexual acts. That is an important message to spread and make well known that those thoughts and actions are not acceptable. Look up the Steubenville Rape case that happened in …
/r/MensRights22/01/15 08:56 PM
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She's not wrong... it is anti-feminist in our wanting the woman who screwed up be held responsible for her child opposed to a completely uninvolved 3rd party doing so instead. How dare we suggest a woman can take care of herself for her decisions.
/r/MensRights17/01/15 07:53 PM
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You can't make this stuff up. All this crazy pouring into the media will result in one of two things. They will either start getting much better or horribly worse. Hopefully society recognizes the lunacy that's seemingly never ending.
/r/MensRights13/01/15 12:47 AM
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I suppose ignorant people of both genders see that and assume that's a realistic expectation and continue the cycle of body shaming and impossible standards. This is a good post, if only to continue informing said people. Because I already knew Beiber is a lanky man-child and I love how he ever reinforces that he is an incredible douche. There was a post on the front page about how the unaltered photo is going to hurt his brand with possible (and pointless) legal action being brought to the orig…
/r/MensRights11/01/15 02:25 PM
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This has been going on for years, it's extremely common with modeling male or female. I'm more surprised that anyone here would be surprised.
/r/MensRights10/01/15 09:41 PM
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I think it's her being afraid we'll start treating women like she currently treats men. You know, not special.
/r/MensRights07/01/15 07:21 PM
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Is that not what they were doing by falsely accusing him in the first place? I really feel like I may be missing something obvious because my mind may have finally been broken otherwise.
/r/MensRights07/01/15 06:52 PM
0

I find my chin is often in an up position.
/r/MensRights07/01/15 01:36 AM
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Those are great, the first few make me sad though. I have a job and great hair, but I don't exist because I'm only 5'7".
/r/MensRights06/01/15 05:32 PM
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They say it's not as bad as FGM so... we shouldn't talk about it at all. It's in the darker side of gray imo.
/r/MensRights06/01/15 03:26 PM
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I am very left and liberal in rights and freedoms of everyone. Feminism often attacks male spaces while saying how great it is to have female only ones. I can't respect a movement that wishes to advance someone at the expense of another. Gender, race, and status is irrelevant to me. I deal with human beings, who are all of the same race.
/r/MensRights06/01/15 03:17 PM
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I need Men's Rights because when I experience a literal exact same injustice a woman does, I am told to shut up because I am a man. So, you could start there.
/r/MensRights04/01/15 07:14 PM
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Just believe her, don't let facts get in the way. These are all just exceptions obviously.
/r/MensRights04/01/15 01:34 PM
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They've lost interest in pursuing sex with entltlement-minded bitches I should've just said that from your earlier comment, it made more sense in my head when I typed my comment originally.
/r/MensRights30/12/14 09:44 PM
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I pretty much lost all interest in sex about a year and a half ago. It's not because I don't like sex, quite the opposite. It's because so many women in modern day America have this expectation to be treated much better while showing no appreciation or kindness in return. They are often rude and pay more attention to their phones than to their company. They claim to be perpetually under attack so that makes men (at least me) want to be nicer to them to show that not all men are like that and the…
/r/MensRights30/12/14 09:02 PM
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I see it starting to change, which is good, but it's a slow process. It's taken a bit of a jump this year so I hope that snowball keeps rolling downhill.
/r/MensRights27/12/14 12:54 PM
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Boycotts are now undemocratic are they? Boycotts aren't undemocratic, they are quite a bit so as a person is actively deciding to not support something. Trying to get things banned entirely (anything, not just this example) just because it hurts someones imaginary sense of morality actually is undemocratic because you remove the choice entirely. You don't have to agree with anyone or any view but you can't decide for them. A common example of offended people trying to impose their wills is like …
/r/MensRights25/12/14 01:19 PM
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The 2nd photo shows a woman doing the exact same thing... in an article damning men for doing so.
/r/MensRights21/12/14 01:37 AM
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I'm sure the thought of making the world a better place will be comforting to the future families of those who won't make it as a result of this new policy.
/r/MensRights15/12/14 04:01 PM
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I honestly don't see why someone would be upset by this. If you would be ashamed of your hypothetical daughter dating a man like you, then you should change because you obviously don't like certain aspects of yourself. It's about self-improvement, even if worded a little hostile. It's not overly so though.
/r/MensRights14/12/14 02:52 PM
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An accidental omission, but good to be included. The states (in the US) sure don't care about innocents being sent to prison. Once sentencing is done it's lock em up and forget about it. Over the next few decades I imagine we will be hearing a lot about it when people from the 60's and 70's start to get back into the World after a lifetime in prison. I hope so anyway, because we will never talk about it until it's put directly in front of us. I think in Sweden or Norway they have a high 90's % r…
/r/MensRights14/12/14 01:03 PM
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I wasn't going to click on that, fearing it was real. The comments made me give it a chance though. I know it's a parody but... that's pretty close to how it is.
/r/MensRights14/12/14 12:43 PM
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I used to think it was just fine, criminals getting their dues. How many are in there for non-violent/victimless crimes though? It's easy to ignore something if you don't look at it too closely.
/r/MensRights14/12/14 12:19 PM
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I don't want to die from alcohol poisoning.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/12/14 03:39 AM
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Yes because letting someone rot in jail for a crime they didn't commit doesn't violate human rights at all.
/r/MensRights02/12/14 05:50 PM
2

That's incredibly low for a 5 year period...
/r/MensRights01/12/14 07:39 PM
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I like it, if only to show that women aren't universally let off the hook for everything like it sometimes feels. They get away with a lot but there is some justice in there. I don't like every post though.
/r/MensRights01/12/14 07:00 PM
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Something so despicable yet she can go on national TV and confess to this act and receive 0 punishment whatsoever. How dare we ask questions and demand evidence in other instances though.
/r/MensRights01/12/14 01:50 PM
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Well that's depressing.
/r/MensRights20/11/14 02:06 PM
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Haha I didn't think about that. It's been awhile but I do recall a few women hitting on me and getting upset that I did not return the sentiment. Truly can't win sometimes, but just sometimes.
/r/MensRights19/11/14 06:57 PM
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Also that the "100+" instances of harassment was probably BS since they only showed around 20 (half of which were questionable That's what gets me, if you have this huge problem with harassment, how are you justified in the slightest when the only ones you show are iffy in half of them? If it's as big a deal as they claim, then I want to see the really derogatory and despicable people who do so. The fact they didn't/won't show them suggests they just didn't happen. 10 hours and that's all you ca…
/r/MensRights19/11/14 06:16 PM
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I'm doing pretty well! Works been a little more busy and this cold sucks but I'm looking forward to starting the new Dragon Age after work.
/r/MensRights19/11/14 06:00 PM
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I think this is more along the lines of raising awareness but excellent post!
/r/MensRights17/11/14 07:09 PM
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Kinda surprised at the reaction in here. I have no problem with his shirt by itself and yet it really rubbed me the wrong way the moment I saw it. It's the context. It was a press conference for landing on a comet, not some anime or gaming convention. Additionally, if a professional woman was wearing a shirt with men portrayed the exact same way you all would be losing your minds instead of defending her like you are with him. Do I think he meant anything by the shirt? I don't, but that doesn't …
/r/MensRights14/11/14 09:30 PM
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I think this is a good thing. It is absolutely absurd and if they do it to enough users it will open a lot of eyes and potentially spark actual dialogue. You know, on places that aren't Twitter at least.
/r/MensRights13/11/14 02:59 AM
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I want to plaster this comment all over the interwebs and our cities. I think it's that perfect in describing the general populace and their opinions and lack of understanding one another.
/r/MensRights08/11/14 12:59 PM
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That's the one! Now I need to watch that special again.
/r/MensRights07/11/14 03:11 PM
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Strange how something like this gets little to no traction yet I had the female version shoved down my throat over and over. People just think men are monsters and this is not the same just because it was a man.
/r/MensRights07/11/14 01:09 PM
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Reminds me of a Dave Chappelle bit. He talks about a few double standards and says something along the lines of "chivalry is dead ladies, because you killed it!"
/r/MensRights07/11/14 12:46 PM
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They are called human rights for a reason. Innocent people shouldn't suffer just because it happens to their group less. How do you expect people to care about your cause when you openly display a lack of caring for others experiencing the same crime? I'm not talking about Feminism or LBGT rights, men, and not even about children. When you deny or don't care about identical crimes just because they happened to a minority. You tell me that you lack empathy and want special treatment only for you.…
/r/MensRights05/11/14 04:34 PM
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The British Pregnancy Advisory Service (bpas) and Birthrights say finding in favour of the council would seriously undermine women's autonomy while pregnant and their freedom to make decisions for themselves. Like, making your unborn child suffer life ruining deformities and mental handicaps? When you do something that results in suffering, there needs to be consequences. Especially when it's something as easily avoidable as this. No one is force feeding pregnant women alcohol, it's a conscience…
/r/MensRights05/11/14 04:27 PM
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Rule 1: Be attractive Rule 2: Don't be unattractive On a serious note though, most people are like that. I at least respect someone who admits it instead of feigning that they aren't trying to not hurt feelings. I want to know upfront if a woman is that shallow, she has nothing to contribute to my life is so and therefore saves my time. No one likes their time being wasted.
/r/MensRights02/11/14 12:07 AM
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Getting a pat on the back for doing basically nothing? Sounds like the perfect cause for the masses to throw support behind. That's why this stuff continues to happen, people just refusing to hear the other side. Whether it's Gamergate, DV, sexual assault, etc doesn't matter. Any narrative where women aren't perpetual victims and men are anything but uncontrollable creatures instead of human beings is lost on the average person. Hell man, I made a comment a week ago about how a thread would most…
/r/MensRights01/11/14 09:37 PM
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"Starting to" that's a good one.
/r/MensRights01/11/14 09:00 PM
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They found community in the internet inside of letting it isolate them. This, I spend a lot of time at a computer via work and my own free time. Before I had actual friends in life. Sure I have friends outside of gaming now but I also just have an easier time talking with people online because of my own social awkwardness. In text, my pauses and hesitations don't show and if I get flustered I can sort it out without someone rushing me before I get it all out. The internet gave us a place to come…
/r/MensRights27/10/14 06:41 PM
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I'm not taking a side but suicide by cop is a thing. If he acted as if he had a weapon and was being irrational it's very easy to come to that conclusion. The absence of details makes it iffy though.
/r/MensRights27/10/14 12:34 PM
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A lot of guys are like that, thinking they can't share their feelings. Especially when it's something like assault and rape. I was sexually assaulted once. It took me a few tries to finally open up about mine but still haven't with my male friends. First person I ever told, replied that she didn't believe a man could experience that, unless it was a child. It was devastating to be told that my experiences weren't valid. I shared on here one day and it was a huge weight off my chest and then I tr…
/r/MensRights26/10/14 11:45 AM
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I actually didn't see those comments until that link. It's pretty hard to take in.
/r/MensRights25/10/14 05:32 PM
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Well an organization called "Man Up" and another as "Women of Worth" does seem pretty bad to me when you are trying to fight sexism. So it wasn't completely a WTF reaction.
/r/MensRights25/10/14 04:38 PM
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You touched on it somewhat already, but covering more of the double standards between men and women in other areas. The differences in punishments and treatment of both sexes for identical crimes. That one may be a bit harder because laws vary state to state. I'd also be interested in your thoughts about false accusers, the ones that are proven beyond a doubt to be false. Maybe with custody cases as well. I only really see the child perspective there so I'm not sure how strongly those actively d…
/r/MensRights25/10/14 03:51 PM
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I think you really hit the nail on the head. Direct and not exaggerating on any talking points. Very fair and objective, thanks for the video.
/r/MensRights25/10/14 03:20 PM
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Guess it would seem less obvious to people who aren't familiar with gaming and less popular online forums. Online threats, even those not obviously faked, are an odd thing to say the least. If every threat that has ever been said online were to be taken seriously, there would not be online communities. These people don't just sit on 4chan all day, they have Reddit and Facebook and so forth as well. A lot of kids and immature people just say things to get a reaction. No further motivation is need…
/r/MensRights24/10/14 06:10 PM
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I think the point is that it's much closer to being split rather than the picture that is painted in the media or common belief. Along the lines of men being victims of DV or sexual assault. It's just closer than a lot of people think, which is part of the problem.
/r/MensRights15/10/14 12:59 PM
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This author isn't associating masculinity with those negative traits. He's saying people who do are looking at it wrong in the first place. I used to think that about sex, for example.
/r/MensRights12/10/14 02:57 PM
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TIL... that's messed up!
/r/MensRights06/10/14 09:42 PM
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I love the end when he says "There is no caring people at all anymore"
/r/MensRights06/10/14 07:48 PM
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That actually does a little haha. I just posted a reply too, I'll leave it up.
/r/MensRights03/10/14 06:54 PM
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especially when they're true Excuse me? I've been pushed around my whole life so I'm sorry if I refuse to allow people who say they are part of my group dictate what we can and can not be or say and cannot say. That's like saying all men are rapists or all women are dainty pathetic weaklings, all Muslims are terrorists, all Christians are like those in the Westboro Babtist Church etc. I could keep going if you like. Every group has their good and bad apples. The bad ones (extremists, trolls, rad…
/r/MensRights03/10/14 06:52 PM
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Which turned into petty name calling and the collective of said sites saying gamers are all lonely white virgins who hate women. Along with that gaming culture is not a thing because... reasons. Naturally, we took offense.
/r/MensRights03/10/14 06:00 PM
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Ofcourse there is a bunch of sympathy for the woman, it says relatively early that the man chose to leave her for another woman. He's a monster, regardless of how she acted, in the eyes of all but a few. She was justified most will claim and ignore her obvious crime when forming an opinion of her as a human being.
/r/MensRights03/10/14 05:01 PM
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See a man talking with children... let's report him instead of walking up to him and trying to converse like normal human beings. Because we all know you can positively identify a predator by just looking from a distance. People need to grow up because I'm so sick of this stigma. It's a total lack of maturity coupled with an abundance of ignorance. My neighbor has a young daughter and she really enjoys talking to me when I come home or am leaving but I can't stand around and talk to her because …
/r/MensRights02/10/14 01:03 PM
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As the Secretary of State for Education... her being "wholly committed" to just one gender is literally sexist. Last time I checked school is made up of boys and girls.
/r/MensRights01/10/14 04:02 PM
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Might? I'm waiting for heads to explode. Granted, this is better than a lot of things they have complained about.
/r/MensRights01/10/14 02:30 PM
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I used to say "no homo" when I was having a touchy/feely moment with some male friends, much more of an anxious thing. That whole men aren't supposed to show emotion thing. At least that's how I've always thought of it. I'm also much less ashamed of my feelings now so I no longer say it. Still get a little anxious when having a moment sometimes but I try to let it roll on by.
/r/MensRights01/10/14 01:27 PM
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I really avoid all gaming sites nowadays. If it's not on Steam or in my now one E-mail a month from Nintendo, I pretty much don't care anymore. I used to go to Gamespy (no longer active) and Gamespot for news and reviews but I don't even do that anymore. Specifically for PC though, you can't beat Steam. Although it's changed a bit recently and references Kotaku and other game sites that hate gamers suddenly. Still more user friendly regardless. Peer reviews have a lot more weight there but they …
/r/MensRights30/09/14 02:17 PM
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Someone who truly does not want to live will not fail to kill themselves. They do not want help, they are beyond that point. It's not even that they don't want the help, it's that no amount of help matters when you get to that point. So when I hear the argument of they attempt to more, all I see are people who don't truly want to die and are just attention whores. When you look at your life deeply and determine that nothing matters. Not your job, not your family, not anyone reactions to your bei…
/r/MensRights30/09/14 01:30 PM
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I would've told her specifically she was getting a cookie last because that's ridiculous. It makes absolutely no sense to walk back and forth repeatedly, being in everyone's way longer, when you can get everyone in one quick pass. Edit Addition: When someone displays childlike behavior, I treat them like children, no exceptions.
/r/MensRights28/09/14 01:46 AM
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There are too many occurrences of this sort of thing to not come to that conclusion. Male teachers are the devil and female teachers just make poor decisions.
/r/MensRights27/09/14 11:42 PM
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Exceptional at taking advantage of 5 young men.
/r/MensRights27/09/14 11:38 PM
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I asked you why you cared what I do and then said I only care if you're an asshole. You have more than proved the point I made, so I don't care what you think now. You're the only one attacking anyone.
/r/MensRights21/09/14 03:06 PM
1

Cool story bro.
/r/MensRights21/09/14 02:57 PM
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You're the exact kind of person several of the comments are talking about. First and foremost, why do you even care what we do or how much we do it? Is my playing games all day hurting you in some way? Am I trying to prevent you from having fun when you load up a game you enjoy for that hour or so however frequently that is? Your opinion of what is fun is different from mine, cool. I disagree, and I don't have to be an asshole about it. I like what I like and you like what you like. Enjoy your l…
/r/MensRights21/09/14 02:38 PM
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I think the mother's basement trope was born out of the overall rejection of those types of people. Because of the parents and other boys in addition to women. I also share your pet peeve though. The only thing that can keep someone out of gaming is their own doing. Blaming us for not bending over backwards to accommodate them is not the reason nor our problem. If they don't like that world, move on or stop complaining. I don't go into other cultures and then start berating them for not being ex…
/r/MensRights21/09/14 11:53 AM
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I think that's what people don't get. We want companionship as much as the next person. We want someone to share our lives with who cares for us as much as we do them. Sex is awesome, but it's nothing compared to a beautiful soul. I was also very much like you in thinking that being nice would make people be nice to me. You describe the situation perfectly in regards to our attitude towards those who suddenly think games are cool while also bringing their drama to it with them.
/r/MensRights21/09/14 03:59 AM
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I do as well, it's just frustrating in the mean time.
/r/MensRights21/09/14 03:14 AM
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Absolutely, I love that saying because it's so true.
/r/MensRights20/09/14 02:28 PM
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Thank you for doing this, I wish all women could see this comment you made because I honestly believe a lot of it boils down to women assuming or just being biased, knowingly or not.
/r/MensRights20/09/14 01:23 PM
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Women are very impulsive and anything that goes wrong is not a result of their choices, but due your failure no matter how insignificant. Common example I think most can relate to or have witnessed. Did she say you were supposed to be at -insert place- by 6? Well her taking until 6:45 to get ready is not a problem, she was just behind or got distracted by a phone call or w/e. If you take until 6:05 during the same situation she will not only be passive aggressive (or just aggressive) about it, b…
/r/MensRights20/09/14 01:05 PM
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I know it's very upsetting to read the last half of the article and the comments... but at least she lost her job. Anyone who thinks that guy is lucky, not everyone thinks the way you do. Some men, hell a lot of men, who are perfectly healthy and have moderate to high sex drives can and do turn down women throwing themselves at you. Grow up if you think otherwise, because you're wrong. This article and the comments are literally blaming the victim for what happened.
/r/MensRights19/09/14 06:57 PM
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Yeah I'm in disbelief this is even a conversation let alone he is now going to jail. Women are put above the very people that are responsible for our safety. He literally gave his body and well being for us and the system just continues to shit on him. I hope some Military Lawyers catch wind of this and start throwing (figurative) haymakers at these disgraceful people who allowed this to happen. Absolutely no excuse is good enough.
/r/MensRights19/09/14 05:54 PM
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So depressing... it took 11 times for them to finally go "Maybe she's full of shit?"
/r/MensRights19/09/14 01:18 PM
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I agree false accusers need to be punished, and it needs to be actual jail time or they will never stop casually doing it. Only if it's proven to be false like in this case, can't make the average person scared to report a crime for fear of punishment.
/r/MensRights19/09/14 12:07 PM
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Just a side note to where she works... I don't think the people who work at McDonalds or Wal-mart push or even like their employers stances, regardless of what they are. A person is not the company they work for. I will admit I know nothing of AEI other than others claim that it is more right than it is left. She writes articles for things all over the place, if the left/liberal leaning places she writes for had a problem with her, they would not publish her work. It's just a pathetic attack on …
/r/MensRights18/09/14 02:18 PM
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Please, victim status is reserved for women and children. Men are just animals who can't control themselves. /s
/r/MensRights18/09/14 01:32 PM
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There are several comments about it's not surprising the media is behaving in this manner but many people are just that ignorant still. Journalistic integrity is that important to the gamer crowd, hence the continuing outcry. We care about honesty much more than the average person does, this is very common in my experiences. When you give a game a really high or perfect score and it's a piece of garbage, you are falsely advertising that product. There's a large section of gamers who are teens wh…
/r/MensRights18/09/14 12:17 PM
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There's no context in the post itself so who knows how accurate it is. The fact that men are even counted in this is HUGE though. We are on the right track at least, just have to keep on going!
/r/MensRights17/09/14 06:02 PM
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Yeah, because men won't deal with a minimal amount of pain to avoid having accidental children. I'm not a serial hook up guy but even I think this is a wonderful idea. I actually like children too. However, I don't want to have one accidentally anymore than someone who absolutely hates children. That's a serious investment of both time and money along with the need to suspend some of my own goals to properly care for said child.
/r/MensRights17/09/14 05:57 PM
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Mostly serious answer: It's the only thing that gets them off... I imagine. Only reasoning I can think of as to why you would purposely go with a group that hates your guts for even existing.
/r/MensRights15/09/14 10:11 PM
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Got me there. I don't actually, but I also have not met everyone of them to make the statement that all are bad.
/r/MensRights12/09/14 11:56 PM
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SJW only care about how much other people like them. They are rarely good people, at least in my experiences.
/r/MensRights12/09/14 11:21 PM
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Who wouldn't demand a paternity test in that situation? The manufacturer would also be at risk if their product isn't working so they would have to test on that basis alone just to confirm if the product is faulty.
/r/MensRights12/09/14 09:23 PM
2

I find the simplest way to avoid real confrontation and sometimes an even effective reply is "Then you clearly have never looked into it" in a calm manner and just mind your own business after. You can't talk to people like that. Usually if other people are around they will start to question the person making the claim for you. It's a win/win, because you aren't being attacked and flat out dismissed. They are also less likely to blow up in a rage at their friend or a neutral person making an inq…
/r/MensRights09/09/14 05:43 PM
12

Women can only be victims, somehow this cannot be her fault. Don't you understand how this works yet? /s
/r/MensRights09/09/14 05:33 PM
7

She is pretty amazing.
/r/MensRights09/09/14 04:49 PM
8

People seem to be on the fence about this. To me it's clear as day, if women have women only places, this woman needs to shut her hypocritic mouth. As long as there are woman only places this shouldn't even be discussed, the woman is wrong and just being unreasonable.
/r/MensRights07/09/14 02:30 PM
1

No matter the reason, the fact that you posted this literal piece about it will cause nothing but trouble now. You aren't just a random redditor, you belong to this sub. The specific kind of Feminists we all despise will liken this as a direct attack and will only continue to add fuel to the fire. The general population does not empathize with the idea that men can be victims, especially to a woman aggressor. Somehow it is always our own fault or we had it coming for one reason or another. As lo…
/r/MensRights07/09/14 12:36 PM
24

The celebrities are victims of their own technological ineptitude. Mr. Weiner is a victim of his own stupidity. No one made him send dick photos to those women.
/r/MensRights06/09/14 06:25 PM
6

You and me both man. Shame it is not a popular opinion on either side.
/r/MensRights06/09/14 06:02 PM
4

Sorry, they can't hear you from their horses.
/r/MensRights02/09/14 12:20 AM
1

At the very least, if this does happen we have a play by play post showing it would be premeditated. Maybe it would even prevent the supposed false attack from even happening if they know people already know about it.
/r/MensRights01/09/14 01:00 AM
2

I think a common thing among men (formerly thought this way myself) is a "I don't need anyone's help" kind of attitude. Needing help is viewed as weakness and being perceived as weak, as a man, is terrible. It's one of the few things that is repeatedly drilled into your head growing up. Don't be weak, don't cry, don't show emotion. I think that contributes a lot to the lack of empathy we have for one another.
/r/MensRights27/08/14 05:40 PM
3

This is so disheartening. I saw the nail polish post days ago and thought it was neat. What a great way to give women peace of mind when they are having a good time. They don't have to worry if the next drink is going to be the one that leads to them being raped. Then yesterday I saw who was responsible for making it, four college guys. I knew these angry feminist replies were going to start pouring out and today... that's what I keep finding. You have to be truly dense to think this is bad in a…
/r/MensRights27/08/14 04:26 PM
3

I wanted to put some witty or sarcastic remark about setting off my triggers... but I can't even.
/r/MensRights27/08/14 12:03 PM
0

The men that rape are going to do so regardless of what anyone thinks or tells them. It has nothing to do with ignorance or education. It's no different from the murder comparison and that irritates me even more since it's so easy to see the flaw in that line but not the other for some reason. The broken record keeps playing on though.
/r/MensRights26/08/14 05:55 PM
10

I literally do not understand this line of thinking. All of a sudden looking after yourself like any responsible adult should is suddenly an attack on to them.
/r/MensRights26/08/14 02:24 PM
4

Nothing says "equality" like "You can't do this to me, but I can do this to you. Until that hypocrisy is gone from anyone who even remotely identifies as Feminist, Feminism will never succeed with the majority of men. We don't tolerate it amongst ourselves so we damn sure are not going to tolerate it from someone crying oppression as they wrongfully attack anyone who happens to be male. You doing something wrong because some men did it in the past is still you doing something wrong. No one is op…
/r/MensRights26/08/14 02:04 PM
2

On the bright side, he can now make an informed decision now that he knows things he did not before. Hopefully he makes the right one. No one should settle for a cheater.
/r/MensRights26/08/14 12:23 PM
1

Can only speak for me, luckily nothing involving courts or laws but a woman has violated me and it was extremely damaging emotionally. Still lingers a year and a half later because if I'm chatting up a woman and she starts getting aggressive I get very upset and defensive. I personally like this sub because it makes me feel like I'm not alone and when we are on the same page, issues get discussed properly amongst us at least. I dislike the number of bashing posts we sometimes have but generally …
/r/MensRights23/08/14 12:38 AM
2

The most important thing is to believe a woman when she makes any sort of claim at all. Just believe her guys. You aren't supposed to question or bring logic into the equation at all.
/r/MensRights19/08/14 11:56 PM
18

This is the only right answer. Changing your mind after the act is not ok to call it rape because that means you were ok with it during the entire literal encounter but if at any point during someone asks you to stop you absolutely should. As someone who has experience both versions of that, the one during that did not stop was 100x worse.
/r/MensRights18/08/14 12:40 PM
1

It wasn't in my home, but it was with my grandfather and his second wife.
/r/MensRights16/08/14 05:06 PM
1

All that sub does is make me truly believe there is no god or justice on this planet.
/r/MensRights16/08/14 01:52 PM
8

I can't watch this, after 30 seconds I had to stop. I saw this first hand as a child and the woman was and never will be punished for it. This woman also will never be punished for it no matter how much video he gets. Only women are allowed to be victims in DV. Men who are either "deserve it" or "are pathetic"
/r/MensRights16/08/14 11:39 AM
1

Sadly that is true. Even a young girls who consent's opinions do not matter. It's pitchforks and torches towards the adult. That being said, you'd think the adults would catch on by now.
/r/MensRights15/08/14 06:50 PM
9

I can't believe this was removed. I saw it when it went live this morning. I didn't read all of it but his answers were pretty consistent in him not bad mouthing anyone, just stating what happened from his perspective as plainly as one could. No finger pointing or blaming. No encouraging of violence by OP, the commentators are another story but OP did not call for it and many people jumped to say "No violence" in some way when it was brought up. If someone is offended by something he said or the…
/r/MensRights15/08/14 05:02 PM
0

Response from her and the school? Absolutely not. The response she is now receiving, yes, because it's not ok and hopefully she learns that lesson. Harassment is bad but don't cry wolf over stupid crap you actively participate in yourself. Edit: Spelling
/r/MensRights15/08/14 02:37 PM
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I didn't know until a week ago NASA used a female scientist (to which, I still can't name without looking it up) to check their math even after the start of using computers. I think women don't get involved in Science as often because they don't know about the great female scientists of the past. I know all kinds of male scientists in history and still can't recall several women who did significant things to propel us forward. This is a good thing and they aren't diminishing anyone in the proces…
/r/MensRights15/08/14 02:06 PM
3

Very surprised, in a good way though. I didn't realize how widespread the fear of men with children was until a few years ago. I've worked in a few stores and I'm very friendly and polite in general. Small children often approach me and little girls give me oogly (however you spell it!) eyes and all that stuff. I would get the most evil looks from some women though. It makes you not even want to acknowledge them anymore because suddenly you're a pedophile regardless of circumstance. Maybe if the…
/r/MensRights14/08/14 02:05 PM
2

I'd like to know how the hell I'm responsible for both putting the seat up for me to go and then having to put it down so she can go has anything to do with human rights! I am performing two separate actions and getting bitched at by someone who doesn't want to do just one. Tell me more about how this is oppression. Edit: I live alone and actually keep the seat down on my own, I just absolutely can't stand when a woman complains about it. It requires literally less effort to do it vs finding the…
/r/MensRights14/08/14 12:02 PM
3

Reminds me of the Louis CK joke
/r/MensRights14/08/14 11:57 AM
8

If 200 people apply for a job and there's only 20 spots, they are going to hire the first 20 people they like. Maybe they will interview a few more to be certain but they can't possibly hit every single applicant and time is usually a factor as well. My place of employment has 4 women total and we have a rotating door on Help Desk. There could be a million reasons he wasn't looked at and his gender was not one of them. Salary comes to mind. People with a lot of fancy papers (degrees, certs, lett…
/r/MensRights13/08/14 04:57 PM
7

Given how easy it is to label any pressure as assault when a man needs the same thing, this is extremely offensive. I'm tired of this double standard BS where I am not allowed to say no to sex. If you are female and have ever, in your entire life, said "no" to a man wanting sex or even something small like a hug then I should have the same right and guarantee as a human being. I'm not always in the mood either. Sometimes my feelings are hurt by something they did and we haven't talked about it y…
/r/MensRights13/08/14 12:24 PM
3

Sometimes we need to look at the context of what is said. She went off topic and it was odd to say that but there was no malice behind the words. Very light and casual. When a feminist says something like that they are typically much more aggressive about it. She made a poor joke, not worth your attention.
/r/MensRights11/08/14 12:30 AM
4

When I played World of Warcraft (at least in my circle) no one seemed to care too much. A lot of "there are no girls on the internet" being declared in Trade chat though when anyone ever said they were a female. Then there was a whole other section of (lonely and socially inept) players who are taken advantage of by the rarer kind of female gamers. Just because I know it's coming, the "there are no girls" part is a reference to 4chan for those who don't get it. Being that on the internet, it's s…
/r/MensRights10/08/14 12:50 AM
1

everyone*
/r/MensRights09/08/14 01:40 AM
2

If you want to understand people better this is a must watch! I can't believe this has so few hits. This is significant!
/r/MensRights09/08/14 01:03 AM
3

The world, which she apparently doesn't exist in?
/r/MensRights09/08/14 12:19 AM
3

Everyone suffers from war, it's not a contest.
/r/MensRights08/08/14 10:24 PM
3

Just a thank you, men have feelings and the emotional pain from the abuse is much worse than the physical.
/r/MensRights03/08/14 03:42 AM
2

In order to achieve victory, you must first make yourself invincible. People on the outside looking in will find that view as petty and childish. Any good that comes from it will be shamed and pushed aside since we are acting as most Feminists accuse us of acting, like children. The reason Feminism hasn't achieved everything it says it wants to is because people like you and me and the women of the WomenAgainstFeminism tag see the childish games and petty lies for what they are. If we act the sa…
/r/MensRights02/08/14 03:01 PM
3

That's what it is though. Women do things in order to receive more attention or to stand out amongst other women. They then get mad when it's from someone they don't like. Well, you have two options. Either get over it or do something else that will garner less attention. You cannot have it both ways. Men have to deal with that as well, it's not some absurd notion.
/r/MensRights02/08/14 12:50 PM
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I did not say the idea wasn't good at all. Being clever/smart about obtaining profits obviously is good for the people doing so. However this idea would promote the further hatred of men, how is this a good thing for us? The cons outweigh the pros to me. I want social change on a large scale, I don't want a little bit of money to promote our struggles at the cost of additional pressure against us to just be quiet. It's seems counterproductive to our goals.
/r/MensRights02/08/14 12:31 PM
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It is a clever idea but that does not make it good idea. Profiting off of hate no matter what the proceeds go to is WRONG! It merely encourages more hatred.
/r/MensRights02/08/14 11:58 AM
1

I think it's mostly because if you harshly punish them, the other false accusers would never come forward. The most important thing is getting the innocent individuals out of prison. It's one of those situations where you can't really win either way.
/r/MensRights30/07/14 01:09 AM
1

My apologies, sometimes I am neglectful of the fact that people are from all over the world here on reddit. There are places here called the Elk's Lounge and Lion's Club in my area (suburbia USA). Comes off as being a little more formal than an actual bar but it's not really. Think like a lot of older (40's) married men being the majority and instead of drinking in the dark hitting on women you are just BSing about various male activities. Very relaxed and casual atmosphere. You should look into…
/r/MensRights29/07/14 02:12 PM
2

Men have their own secluded places to go, why not women? I think it's a win/win honestly. The women who endlessly complain about current club/bar settings will have alternatives and the rest of us who hate hearing that constantly won't have to hear that constantly.
/r/MensRights29/07/14 01:55 AM
12

That's semi-disturbing actually when you think about it.
/r/MensRights26/07/14 03:06 AM
1

That is not a reasonable expectation when you are with a large group of people who are mostly strangers or even acquaintances for that matter. Considering how many assaults are done by people you know even if alcohol isn't involved.
/r/MensRights23/07/14 10:55 PM
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Sound thinking but if both parties are drunk and they are different genders the man is nearly always considered guilty. The man being intoxicated does not matter in reality.
/r/MensRights23/07/14 12:08 PM
9

I don't think she is a monster, however she will always think that is ok if you don't speak to her about it. I've had (former) friend do a similar thing. I didn't know how to express it and she was really hurt by my silence on the issue. If it's bothering you and she is in fact your friend then she needs to understand how you feel. Just be an adult about it. "You know about the other day, I really feel violated everytime I try to think about it. It really was not ok and it's had quite a negative…
/r/MensRights23/07/14 12:03 PM
2

No, because they should have the freedom to get as plastered as they want and have the expectation they will be 100% safe regardless of circumstances. God do you even think sometimes? Check your privilege you monster! /s
/r/MensRights23/07/14 11:58 AM
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If "Women are not suited to prison" then maybe they should think about that before committing those terrible crimes. Justice is blind and cares not what your gender, religion, sexuality, etc is! Wrong is wrong. Violence is violence. Neglect is neglect. Everyone deserves to be punished the same. That's what the theory of justice is supposed to be. These posts are the worst.
/r/MensRights22/07/14 05:38 PM
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That's the big thing that really gets me heated. The man is named while the female "victim" is still protected. Even after he was declared innocent she can still not be named. The female victim ceases to be a victim when it's confirmed she is lying. Because screw logic, which I know is a common theme here.
/r/MensRights22/07/14 02:16 PM
0

They comprehend it but they think (or choose to believe) the rules are only sometimes applicable. It's never their fault when they do something wrong but anyone else and it's like a broken record.
/r/MensRights20/07/14 09:48 PM
0

Welcome to advertising! Where the women are objects and the men are idiots. I hate advertising.
/r/MensRights20/07/14 05:38 PM
3

Thank you
/r/MensRights20/07/14 02:05 PM
2

You can't know what the boys situation is though. I was not allowed to talk to my doctor when I was a child it was mothers way period. Yes into my teens so it can very much so happen.
/r/MensRights17/07/14 07:39 PM
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That was my favorite as well. Those poor women, they don't know they are all victims of us evil evil men! How dare we continue to oppress them by allowing them to think and speak for themselves.
/r/MensRights17/07/14 02:25 AM
1

Yeah because that's what I said, believe whatever you like.
/r/MensRights15/07/14 01:15 PM
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Wow... I have no words. I didn't think the wording in the title of your post would be literal.
/r/MensRights15/07/14 01:03 AM
1

Acting like them just because they do it too does not make us better. It makes us equally as wrong.
/r/MensRights14/07/14 09:28 PM
1

Not dogging you because yes that can be quite annoying and I have numerous examples I could start vomiting on the screen. However, he's not implying that there isn't a "Pussy Pass" but he's saying we need to be above it. I see it like this. If that's our go to argument no one will ever take us seriously. Because we sound no better than the Feminists that go "check your privilege" to the average outsider when we act in that way. Which only benefits Feminism because those on the fence will usually…
/r/MensRights14/07/14 08:50 PM
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They should want to on their own is how I took it. Let the pieces fall where they may. If a man wants to become a nurse he can and if a woman wants to be an engineer she can. Just stop trying to force it from either side. Instead of all these programs being money wasters trying to get certain groups involved, we should be removing the stigma associated with a specific gender in fields that are typically one sided.
/r/MensRights11/07/14 06:36 PM
3

The part about it that I don't get is both teens took and sent photos of their bodies with their phones. Seems pretty open and shut whether it is his or not. The other part is the teen girl who willingly took photos of herself is not being charged with producing child pornography even though they literally did the same thing. I don't think either should be punished but if you are going to punish one then you absolutely have to for the other.
/r/MensRights11/07/14 12:13 PM
2

For the record, I can't open the report just yet, but I am answering OP's question. As someone who literally goes out of their way to avoid people for the most part while I'm out, I get an absurd amount of harassment from others. I'm very quiet and mild mannered. I don't swear or yell almost ever. Things range from attacks on my gender, masculinity, my being in areas I "shouldn't" be from people who think they are better than me. I get scoffs and ew's from women I have never spoken or attempted …
/r/MensRights08/07/14 04:58 PM
1

Both sexes are included in this piece, what is the problem?
/r/MensRights05/07/14 01:51 AM
1

I don't consider it sexist because that's something men and women do. We just never apologize for it. Is it fair? That's an entirely different matter and not really relevant in my opinion. It is what it is. We notice/remember things the more attractive we think they are. Generally looks carry more weight than they should in most of our decision making process. People will pick a pretty picture and shitty functionality over something that works amazingly but also looks like a turd. Humans amIrigh…
/r/MensRights03/07/14 02:32 AM
0

I was very glad to see it on the front page with so many upvotes. Makes me think there is hope still.
/r/MensRights29/06/14 06:05 PM
3

If you get your news from a "legitimate" American news station, you're gonna have a bad time.
/r/MensRights29/06/14 03:02 PM
4

I used to be one of those men. It's hard to relate when you don't have the experience first hand. I was also less empathetic when I was younger as well. Which I think is most peoples problems in general with the worlds struggles.
/r/MensRights29/06/14 02:02 PM
1

Right in the feels...
/r/MensRights29/06/14 01:00 PM
1

If you changed it a a format of something like Women have the privilege of: a b c Instead of saying it everytime it would be much less aggressive and more people would be willing to look it over perhaps. Some pretty accurate observations for some of those, it's so confusing to say you can't mention any of that stuff without being called sexist. It's like, either acknowledge that women want to have a separate set of rules or that you do have advantages that men don't. It's called living in realit…
/r/MensRights28/06/14 03:11 PM
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You would think but that goes against the mindset of women always being victims. The very idea of a woman being a perpetrator immediately dismisses whatever it is you are talking about with them. They won't even consider it unless the idea is the woman is the victim.
/r/MensRights27/06/14 01:07 PM
14

Her actions do hurt real victims of rape in addition to the falsely confused person. It hurts everyone involved in Feminism and as MRA's. She's a piece of shit as far as human beings go and nothing good came out of this other than the fact a man's name is cleared.
/r/MensRights27/06/14 12:13 PM
3

On the one hand, this is great news! Finally a potentially peaceful gathering of people who want to talk about the injustices of the current times. On the other... I'd be lying if I said I wasn't a little disappointed that a bunch of psychotic people showing up being unruly and potentially violent to further make them look bad. I don't want there to be that large commotion and violence but I like the world seeing just how crazy a few radicals can be.
/r/MensRights26/06/14 01:28 PM
9

Under this law it is literally ok to coerce a person into sex and then with no warning signs whatsoever after penetration go "I no longer consent, you are now raping me" and it would be rape. That's absolutely insane!
/r/MensRights23/06/14 09:11 PM
0

Well Veterans are more likely to be violent at home because you know, there's this thing called war and these men participate in it. They need help but there's this thing called the VA that is tremendously broken and underfunded which is supposed to help them. Acknowledging that a lot end up like that is not some off the wall idea but the offense is that there is no solution offered after the claim. These are some of the very men we are trying to help so that these things don't continue to happe…
/r/MensRights23/06/14 08:58 PM
8

The very idea that she is acting that childish about it means you really are lucky if she exits your life like so. It's a little cold but honestly do you think she'd be a good mother given her current actions? A child is better off not being born if that is the kind of person who would be responsible for him/her. She will use that flawed logic in most of her decision making and make things harder and worse for everyone involved.
/r/MensRights23/06/14 02:36 AM
7

That is a beautifully stated article. Along with the link at the end. People don't just go nuts!
/r/MensRights19/06/14 05:46 PM
1

Wow, my apologies! Alright now I feel so much worse about it. Like you would think when you have similar crimes in the same state they would you know, look at the details of some of those cases to see where a baseline can be formed. Instead it just seems so random for time served and those other things aren't considered. Very much a different and unfair reaction between the two. :(
/r/MensRights18/06/14 03:11 PM
1

I feel for that man given the circumstances but, the age of consent is 18 in Delaware so I can't defend him. He needed to inform the school when the student started making advances. Edit: Reading is fundamental.
/r/MensRights18/06/14 01:45 PM
2

What this guy said
/r/MensRights18/06/14 04:29 AM
6

I really don't think so, if it was a female student she would still be of age, and the student did initiate. Assuming the student would act the exact same as this one did.
/r/MensRights17/06/14 09:21 PM
2

They still had to buy the book to burn it, so who cares if they are literally burning their own money haha! I call that a win/win. Publisher gets its sales so that let's the author be able to continue writing books.
/r/MensRights17/06/14 02:34 PM
0

Stereotypes exist because that's what a lot of whatever that particular group does act like. They are observations we make but some people do take it too far and generalize entire groups (gay, straight, black, white, etc) and that prejudging is discrimination. No need to be subtle, that's what that is and most people do not realize that or choose to not care. It's definitely a choice they make. Everything is situational and should be treated as such. There is no one size fits all for anyone or a…
/r/MensRights16/06/14 04:41 PM
3

That last point really did it in for me. On top of everything else, when presented with a free meal and spending 60-90 minutes with a person at a sit in place and you think you don't have to be friendly about it? I realize she says extra in front of it but it implies to me that she doesn't have to be grateful she didn't just spend $10-$20 on a single meal. I cook for myself a lot and that is a weeks worth of food sometimes, depending on sales or reductions I find. Being grateful does not mean I …
/r/MensRights16/06/14 02:27 PM
1

Oh? I usually walk through and thank the woman if one does that for me. Sometimes when I'm preoccupied and not paying close attention I'll default to grabbing the door and saying "ladies first" in the moment when I'm not anticipating it. I get all people are different but angry feminists are everywhere. It's usually 50/50 in terms of "Thanks" and "Ew/scoff" when I do so for them. I'm not one of those guys who says inappropriate things when I do so either. I just smile and go about my business.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 02:16 PM
1

It sounds like you are having consistent issues with your sense of self on a daily basis because of the incident. Granted there's not much you can do from a social standpoint aside from being levelheaded and asking questions a lot. Just things like "Why do you believe that?" and getting a dialog going. People will view you as more human and it will become easy for some to dispel the notion you are that accused monster. I highly recommend seeking professional help for your own well being though. …
/r/MensRights15/06/14 04:25 PM
1

While he may not be the warmest of writers, he definitely did not cross any lines. Thanks for the heads up OP, I hope he keeps his job. I did what little I could.
/r/MensRights14/06/14 09:27 PM
9

Been there man, such a shame that America is ruled by opinions and emotion on a large scale. I'm afraid to be alone with a woman if it's a stranger much more than if it were a man because of that crap. Men are expected to respect a woman's boundaries and consent but it's ok to ignore a man's because "he always wants it." Wish it wasn't so bizarre to suggest otherwise.
/r/MensRights14/06/14 07:41 PM
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As a stereotypical white male (can't dance, can't jump, etc) I fully support affirmative action. The company I work for now literally has one black employee while the rest are white men and five women otherwise. We aren't a giant company but it's not like we're working out of a closet either. This is (to me) a textbook example of why we need such a thing unfortunately. The problem is people just suck, there are so many sue happy folks in the USA. So when a legitimate concern is raised for affirm…
/r/MensRights12/06/14 01:06 AM
2

Oh my god dude, yeah that is definitely happening. I see it a fair bit but my best example is there were several women at my previous job that gossiped and would try to start things between people and constantly spread false rumors. This wasn't directed at any one person, just whoever was around. Sometimes things would linger for several days. One was early 30's and her BFF was the most entitled and childish 42yo bitch. I don't like name calling but that's what she was, just a stupidly horrible …
/r/MensRights11/06/14 10:10 PM
3

That was disgusting... everyone just sitting there and laughing. Being a man doesn't mean there's auto consent. People need to get that sick and dismissive attitude out of our society. I don't like women I don't know feeling and grinding on me like I'm not, you know, a human being. Never had it to that degree though.
/r/MensRights11/06/14 03:01 AM
3

Because as a male, he can't say he didn't want it. Didn't you know?
/r/MensRights11/06/14 02:52 AM
6

I'm honestly shocked by the woman's (guest) response at the end. Just a blip of hope on the air for the world to see.
/r/MensRights11/06/14 01:04 AM
1

Exactly, it's just some encouragement. I mean I'm a guy and honestly could stand to know some of that stuff for my own well-being. If I have one of those "wrong place, wrong time" situations I'm gonna have a bad time. I just feel like the backlash is reinforcing of the "females are weaker" gender role they say they are trying to escape from. I guess I don't understand where the victim blaming part comes in. It just seems like a positive suggestion to me to help in the mean time while society gro…
/r/MensRights10/06/14 12:44 AM
1

In defense of the women who are actually offended by this. It is absurd they should have to take a self defense class. In a perfect world that is a very reasonable stance. However, since your eyes and ears work and you know it's not those conditions out and about, why not put yourself in the best position you can possibly be in? Learning to defend yourself from bodily harm is a smart decision no matter who you are. Complaining that "We shouldn't have to" is not going to cut it with your would be…
/r/MensRights10/06/14 12:17 AM
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Women who do that and are Feminists, are among the scum of the Earth. They already see the power they have but preach the exact opposite to the rest of society. Everything they do is ok and just because "men have always had the power, so I'll do what I want" which you know... just proved that we don't by your own actions. It's just a game to them.
/r/MensRights09/06/14 02:47 AM
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I don't think everyone of them has suffered some kind of trauma. Some people just believe in something so strongly they will do anything if it furthers their goals. Some people suck.
/r/MensRights09/06/14 02:41 AM
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Absolutely, I had no idea as to what even to attempt to do to try and resolve it or get better. It's overwhelming and then to be shamed on top of it. It's not surprising, to me at least, that the suicide rate of young boys and young adult males has stayed practically the same for decades. Professionals are finally starting to see that as more men are starting to get the help they need. Society in general is still very skeptical of psychologists and mental health though so it's still very much a …
/r/MensRights04/06/14 05:29 PM
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I would be hit and shoved in to lockers (not into) on a daily basis. In addition to name calling and just straight shaming me for basically just existing. Anytime, and everytime, I did anything to even remotely defend myself either verbally or physically I would be punished swiftly and the bullies never, ever were. Not one time in my K-12 experiences did someone who bullied me even get a smack on the wrist or even a "leave him alone." Teachers would tell me when I'd seek help to just ignore them…
/r/MensRights04/06/14 04:30 PM
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I have often asked this question but, as many have already pointed out, we seek out feminism because we reject the system initially and experience some of the same helplessness and powerlessness as women have and see none of our so called "advantages" but are turned away and told we are damaging the cause or that we need to just "man up" or some equivalent. We want discussion but we can't even have that with some of the deep seeded beliefs some Feminists have. I see so many intelligent people de…
/r/MensRights04/06/14 12:39 PM
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A lot of protesting comments have been ok with violence being used, as if the two were one in the same. My sincere apologies, just didn't want to assume you were civil minded and then you end up not being so. I do not want ignorance to be the excuse used if, more likely when, the event turns hostile.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 11:24 AM
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Yes protesting is fine. Committing violence against a peaceful assembly is still a crime though.
/r/MensRights03/06/14 11:21 PM
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This article really hurt to read. Enough so that I sent cracked a piece of my mind. First time in quite a long time I was actually offended.
/r/MensRights03/06/14 04:55 PM
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Because I clearly condone rape since I am a man and all. No normal person condones rape, only idiots and sexist individuals. That's why women and men continue to shame one another over it. That's also why when you see a woman in public get harassed a great deal of people will rush to defend her. Rapists like to attack when they know they won't be caught. It's no safer for someone like me to go down a dark street at night than it is for a woman. In fact in 2010 77% of all murder victims were male…
/r/MensRights02/06/14 06:37 PM
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All I can say is that I'm sorry you feel that way. I am exiting this discussion.
/r/MensRights02/06/14 05:34 PM
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I speak solely of the post itself. The comment section is full of ignorant people. On every forum of every site. Feminist blogs and posts included. Some people just suck. What in that post is demeaning or degrading to the female existence? I literally think you saw the word "Patriarchy" and didn't read that post, at all. Because I did, in fact I upvoted it because it's about the exact thing I am striving for. A world where a man isn't disposable and the crimes they experience are treated the sam…
/r/MensRights02/06/14 05:11 PM
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At no point did I say you couldn't post here or you should not be allowed to express your view. I said you use bad information and skewed statistics and therefore your argument was not good enough to be taken seriously. Not to mention that I also said we all need to work together but all you can say in reply is that this whole sub is being oppressive. We keep the legitimate women hating crowd in check here as best we can because those of us who actually want equality know how toxic those individ…
/r/MensRights02/06/14 03:55 PM
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While I agree with most of your beliefs, you do cherry pick data and data that is flawed or biased. Also, I cannot argue against women having it worse in other countries as that is clearly true. So much so, that it's the reason I have a huge issue with women in the western world proclaiming they have it equally as bad if not worse. No, things are pretty damn good over here for a woman and especially when compared to men over the last 30 years. Male suicide has stayed nearly the same while female…
/r/MensRights02/06/14 02:50 PM
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TIL that I'm the bigoted one for disagreeing with someone who literally hates me for me being a man.
/r/MensRights02/06/14 02:11 PM
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You will walk down this path with, potentially, many people being the kind of person I get the impression of for this post. I'm still pretty young (27) but I finally stopped banging my head against that wall. People like that will never be swayed. Sometimes their views will evolve and they "grow up" but that is usually later in life. They aren't interested in your opinion though, they think you are inferior by the very nature of your existence. When I think a discussion is about to head in that …
/r/MensRights31/05/14 01:29 AM
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To me, an ideal society is one where all human beings across the entirety of the planet Earth, in every country. Where they are able to live their lives how they want to without fear or persecution. If person A is very religious, person B is an atheist, and person C has a fetish for getting smacked in the testicles (just random for humor) would be able to do those things as long as they are not causing harm to other people. The idea that one group has more power than the other in any facet is th…
/r/MensRights30/05/14 08:40 PM
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I was able to locate it. That's the video that actually got me to this sub! Kinda unrelated, I couldn't recall how I got here in another thread but remembering via this made me happy!
/r/MensRights30/05/14 08:08 PM
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It's like the Elliot Rogers story, no one is talking about the 4 men who died. Even if you are hardcore "yeah men suck" do those male victims not have mothers and sisters and grandmothers who were deeply effected by their deaths? Do they, as females, not count in the minds of feminists? If they did then they would not focus so hard on the fact 2 women died. There were 6 deaths and a suicide. The gender shouldn't be the focal point but it always is. Violence is violence! Justice needs to lose it'…
/r/MensRights30/05/14 07:52 PM
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Thank you OP for using your own judgement/experience here to determine your beliefs instead of taking their word for it!
/r/MensRights30/05/14 07:47 PM
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Interesting, I'm glad there is some good coming out of all the hate mongering. I'm very curious as to what happened that day in April when subscriptions spiked.
/r/MensRights30/05/14 07:35 PM
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I hope you don't mind, but I had to share this on FB because it's exactly the kind of attitude we need as a society.
/r/MensRights30/05/14 07:33 PM
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My sentiments exactly!
/r/MensRights30/05/14 07:30 PM
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Do you think that Men have less political power than Women? Why? Despite there being more male politicians, I would argue women have more sway than men on similar talking points. There's less women running compared to men but it's fairly even to me. Do you think that Men have less religious power than Women? Why? No, men clearly have the most power there. The Vatican is all male and here in the US we push logical thinking aside on things such as abortion and even to some extent gay marriage. Tha…
/r/MensRights29/05/14 10:19 PM
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I had heard (read rather) about some of the strictness for that sub but actually reading some of the comments and seeing the severity in which you were written off as no longer credible is a little unsettling. I just want to know how some feminists can be so hateful and dismissive of anything that isn't directly about their benefit. I'm sure this view would be extremely unpopular but when someone oppresses your view, based on gender, how are you not doing exactly what you claim to be fighting? I…
/r/MensRights29/05/14 08:37 PM
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I don't recall the article it was but I saw something that went back to this sub and I started reading a few of the posts and some of the first hand accounts of some of the users. For the first time in a long time I felt like others understood how I felt and it was really uplifting. I think I'd be in a much worse place right now had I never found this.
/r/MensRights28/05/14 01:13 AM
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The petition has to get something like 90-100 thousand signatures. There are so many useless petitions on there. It took them many months to address the "Build a Death Star" one which got well over the required amount needed for a response. This isn't something you should be worried about, at least for now. Check it in a few days though.
/r/MensRights28/05/14 01:07 AM
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Those are the worst kinds of feminists. They are smart enough to know there are ways to exploit the obvious double standards and they try to take advantage of every single one. The shirt is a joke, but not when you do it. They use crocodile tears and make claims that are not true. Then almost always someone who wasn't there will come up and automatically side with the "helpless crying female" to defend her honor. I mean who would ever lie and try to take advantage of another person for their own…
/r/MensRights23/05/14 03:23 PM
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Great summery, more hatred will not bridge the gap between everyone.
/r/MensRights22/05/14 02:49 PM
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I normally don't have issues with messages like this. However I am really offended by this particular ad. "Awaiting Instructions" like seriously, when you dehumanize a group (like a lot of radical feminists tend to do with men) it is much easier to attack them. Every tyrant in the history of our existence and even numerous places today still has/have used this philosophy to destroy basic human rights and any attempts to understand one another. That's not equality, not even in the same ballpark. …
/r/MensRights22/05/14 12:53 PM
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I like the one comment she highlighted in responses to her that "men have had their voices heard too long, it's our turn" to be so damning for my opinion of feminists who believe that. Am I oppressing you? Did I make this system? No, then my voice is not being heard and you are trying to silence me for your own agenda. It's hypocrisy at it's finest and why feminism has such a darkness about it. You can't claim to want equality and then say my voice is not allowed because I am a man. Edit: Wordin…
/r/MensRights16/05/14 02:01 AM
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Should still post it imo. Good to show that this is more common than people would think.
/r/MensRights16/05/14 01:22 AM
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Perfect common sense article. People will like what they like. Stop throwing labels on everything!
/r/MensRights15/05/14 09:26 PM
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Well, it's not because she is a woman I assure you. My father is doing the EXACT same thing and is drastically behind for his other son. He also did it with me but I'm in my 20's now so doesn't really effect me any longer. I have not seen him in two years and nobody knows where he is. It's just a crappy situation :/
/r/MensRights15/05/14 07:52 PM
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I interpret them the same way. I'm not sure how else to state it. This is my last reply regardless because I'm just going to assume you are either trolling me or I'm a retard. Possibly both. Person A: Hey I'd love to get your number. Person B: I'm sorry, I'm not interested. (Should be the end of it, no additional input is required. Let's assume it continues.) Person A: Oh come on don't be like that. Just be straight with me. Why can't I have it? (This is now harassment, the attention is unwanted…
/r/MensRights12/05/14 10:16 PM
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I feel it's a direct contradiction to say when someone tells you "No" or "I'm not interested" that they aren't being straightforward enough.
/r/MensRights12/05/14 08:30 PM
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I'm talking about clear "no" and "I'm not interested" replies. That is, to me at least, the very definition of not respecting someone. If I say no, then the girl needs to seriously back off. I feel the same for the guy who is harassing a woman. You are total strangers, it doesn't get more clear cut then that. That and some people find the discussion of sex or sexual advances very offensive, they do not need to justify the way they feel, again, to a total stranger. A comfort bubble is not just ph…
/r/MensRights11/05/14 06:35 PM
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Doesn't surprise me at all. It's a woman and she's famous/well off financially. Women aren't held to a mans standard when accused of this sort of crime. Funny how they want equality until it comes to punishing them.
/r/MensRights11/05/14 01:14 PM
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In my experiences (and as this article talks about) there are plenty of people who ask why and poke and prod or just continue to harass you. They always tell you to be straightforward but "no" is straightforward and can't be taken another way. If people understood body language a little better there would be far less occurrences of this.
/r/MensRights11/05/14 11:33 AM
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Perspective is a really the big problem. Unfortunately a lot of Feminists have the idea that men are all the same. I wish we could bridge the gap to understanding each other and have a whole new group for true equality with both men and women instead of overgeneralizing one or the other. There are just straight up terrible people on this planet and so many victims want to paint the entirety of their perpetrators as being the same. Everything is situational, you can't be so vague when there's 7 b…
/r/MensRights10/05/14 05:21 PM
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I think this is a great read highlighting a very real concern. A lot of guys don't take no for an answer and will persist. Despite claiming they want her to be straightforward. If they respected her in the first place then no explanation is needed. This is from a woman's POV, and I would praise the man's equally as I have had to tell some women no repeatedly and justify myself to get them to leave me alone.
/r/MensRights10/05/14 04:51 PM
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Feminists tell me all the time that women are never the perpetrators so this can't be true by that logic.
/r/MensRights10/05/14 01:41 PM
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I mean, I see both their points. If what the woman states is genuine then I feel the man is completely wrong if he never had to question it before. He just seems childish, again, if her words are genuine. They both should seek counseling if they aren't getting progress on their own. Which they have made some but she is now unsatisfied with him now. Overreaction on both parties imo.
/r/MensRights30/04/14 02:56 PM
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Yeah because a woman never harmed a child ever. If you're argument is a sweeping generalization of a group then you don't really have an argument imo.
/r/MensRights29/04/14 06:52 PM
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They are completely able to but seldom do. Then they don't allow the men to tell their experiences and then don't take him serious if he is able to get it voiced. When you are violated you go through the same emotions and feelings. Helplessness, blaming yourself, feeling like you aren't a person anymore. Stress triggering additional episodes later after it's happened. There are two sides to every story and you can't find a solution when you only talk about one side. Not allowing men to define th…
/r/MensRights25/04/14 12:12 AM
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Am I the only one who saw this as an exercise to show that a rapist can look like an any everyday person? So that people don't make the mistake of going "Oh but they didn't look like a rapist/bad person." Not all rapists are dirty, ugly, have the same personality, etc and I thought this was a great video expressing that. It also showed how angry the act of rape can make men feel. Which is rarely acknowledged by feminists if it is at all.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 11:05 PM
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This is disturbing, would never be ok from the other perspective. I'm glad the guest (forget her name) actually said something. Even if it was dismissed immediately :/
/r/MensRights23/04/14 10:26 PM
1

Confidence, what's that taste like? Pretty much spot on though haha. Just a little bit, it does wonders truly!
/r/MensRights22/04/14 01:59 AM
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Thank you for the story. Opinion seems to trumps proof in many areas of society. People like to believe what they want to and will ignore anything that contradicts it regardless of it's source. As a logical person, this is like nails on a chalkboard for my brain. T_T
/r/MensRights22/04/14 01:18 AM
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I was stuck in the "I don't know any better" nice guy loop of getting bad advice (be nice, be passive, girls like nice, etc) with good intentions for a long time until I met an aggressive, but kind woman. I'm no ladiesman still now but I'm at least able to talk to girls... sometimes... kinda. More than before at least! I still have my shy struggles at times. It's no ones fault but it can be rough in the dog eat dog world of dating. I didn't learn how cut and dry basic attraction was until this p…
/r/MensRights22/04/14 12:49 AM
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I speak only of the people in this sub that bash women. It's counterproductive to what we strive for.
/r/MensRights18/04/14 11:27 AM
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Yeah, it says right in this article 1 in 161 rapes are false accusations. That seems pretty self explanatory. It's a huge problem in India and South Korea as well.
/r/MensRights18/04/14 11:22 AM
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They are typically downvoted but I suppose I'm venting more so. I just think that attitude holds us back and we need to be united. A solid group if we are to dispel the notion people have that Men's Rights are anti-women.
/r/MensRights17/04/14 06:29 PM
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A lot of hardcore Feminists, the kind that people think of and hate when the term is used, flat out say things like that. This seems like an innocent project people are trying to generate positive attitudes and make people think. It spreads the idea that rape is detestable behavior which is not a universal opinion. No one is attacked, however, most people think men can't be assaulted and I wish it was more gender neutral in that regard.
/r/MensRights17/04/14 05:29 PM
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I don't see where it says that, is it worded a certain way somewhere to make you think that? Because right now I see this as a "If you don't donate a dollar to [insert foundation] I support the death and suffering of [group that benefits from help] kind of remark.
/r/MensRights17/04/14 04:40 PM
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I think it's a poor perspective to have. You can't diminish a crime no matter how little it occurs because those people are still victims. Yes actual rapes are far more but since there are SO MANY to begin with even 1 out of every 161 being false puts quite a few innocents through so much unnecessary stress and invasion of their personal rights. The media is just so bad about portraying the accused as guilty immediately instead of waiting for the charges to be properly investigated. Rape is a hu…
/r/MensRights17/04/14 02:11 PM
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She still uses Twitter, what an idiot even if it was remotely possible.
/r/MensRights16/04/14 02:33 PM
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Terrible story, silver lining is people aren't being attacked until a proper investigation happens.
/r/MensRights15/04/14 06:11 PM
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I guess I'm the weird 1% who thinks men and women are disadvantaged in many DIFFERENT ways to each other... I like this subreddit because I can identify with many of the stories and get mad at the injustice (in general, not because it happened to a man) that so many are facing over stereotypes. Men are allowed to say no and shouldn't be victims to extremist feminists. It's the stories like the MARRIED cab driver who was stabbed after being sexually assaulted (I'd say rape, but definitions and al…
/r/MensRights15/04/14 12:52 PM
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