AtomicMonkeyTheFirst Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	A quick video I thought you'd like		AtomicMonkeyTheFirst	/r/seduction	11/11/14 04:09 PM
9	Looking for a wingman in Bangkok		AtomicMonkeyTheFirst	/r/seduction	10/12/14 04:01 PM

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2	Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoes Hoes for hook ups, good girls for marriage & relationships. Women have different standards for hookup and serious relationships and so do men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/26 07:26 PM
–	Governments should give single people a partner 1/10. Very low effort.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/26 11:25 AM
–	Most women are NOT happy being single People lie, and people lie to rhemselves. Not everyone who is single is unhappy but a lot of people are and it shows.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/26 04:11 PM
1	Dating older men (like 10 plus years older) is simply a bad deal for most women People dont enter relationships because they're a good or bad deal. If thats how you see relationships between people you're never going to have a successful relationship anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/26 10:45 AM
1	The Blue Pill is in denial about women's flawed humanity, while the Red Pill just shames women for it Take the purple pill and just accept things as they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/26 09:03 PM
5	Do women really sleep with the “hot guys” first and marry the average ones later? Pretty much. I don't see the point in getting upset about it but I think we need to accept that it exists. Its not like men aren't going to the same thing. The girls that men hook up with are not the same as the girls men want a relationship with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/26 11:22 AM
5	Do women really sleep with the “hot guys” first and marry the average ones later? Its a subconscious thing. Why is the good looking guy good good looking? Because he has good genes that will produce healthy children. Why is the partner being rich important? Because it means he can provide for his children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/26 10:43 AM
67	Do women really sleep with the “hot guys” first and marry the average ones later? Thats what redpillers call the dual mating strategy	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/26 03:24 PM
2	Women should chase men Some women do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 07:56 PM
–	Genuine question , what do men get out of this sub or subs similar to this. Its interesting to see the opinions & veiwpoints.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/26 10:43 PM
–	Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thing It came up in the conversation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/26 08:50 AM
1	The overwhelming majority of women don't initiate or make the first moves because they are cowards. Attractive women don't need to approach men because men approach them. Unattractive women don't approach men because they'd be rejected and it would confirm to them that they're unnattractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/26 12:12 AM
–	The reason birthrates are falling is the raise of divorce rates No I didn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 11:04 PM
–	The reason birthrates are falling is the raise of divorce rates I'm serious. There are people in Africa living on a few $ a day having children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 07:53 PM
–	The reason birthrates are falling is the raise of divorce rates If they can raise them then they can afford them. Plenty of people in the world poorer than you are still having children because they have to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 07:34 PM
–	The reason birthrates are falling is the raise of divorce rates 100% sure. The poorest people in the world are having the most children. The poorest people in the richest countries are having the most children. The idea that the richest societies in the world, and in the whole of human history cannot afford to have children is arrogantly absurd.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 05:46 PM
–	The reason birthrates are falling is the raise of divorce rates I dont know about the US but birth control is pretty uch free in the UK and if a welfare system existed that could actually make people have more children the global fertility crisis wouldnt exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 05:01 PM
–	The reason birthrates are falling is the raise of divorce rates Yeah exactly. Children used to be a necessity and now they're a lifestyle accessory. People can afford to have more children but they'd prefer to spend their money on other things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 04:43 PM
–	The reason birthrates are falling is the raise of divorce rates So what about the 2nd part?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 04:41 PM
–	The reason birthrates are falling is the raise of divorce rates The poor in the richest countries have better healthcare than 90% of the population of the world. Are you saying single mothers in poverty in the US, or the UK or Germany or S.Korea are having five children because they're expecting three of them to die? Even in developing countries infant mortality has crashed in the last few decades.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 04:31 PM
–	The reason birthrates are falling is the raise of divorce rates why do the poorest people in the richest countries have the highest birthrates? Read it again....	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 04:27 PM
–	The reason birthrates are falling is the raise of divorce rates What? In the countries with the best healthcare in the world?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 03:21 PM
–	The reason birthrates are falling is the raise of divorce rates If thats true why do the poorest countries in the world have the highest birthrates and why do the poorest people in the richest countries have the highest birthrates?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 03:17 PM
–	The reason birthrates are falling is the raise of divorce rates Throughout history the primary purpose of having children was economic; if you didnt have a family to and got old or got sick you starved, it was the simple. Now in modern wealthy countries we don't have that pressure so children have become an expensive lifestyle accessory that a lot of people don't want. They'd prefer to have a nice house or car or expensive holidays to children. Birth rates are falling because this is the first time im history when the majority of people can afford not to hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 03:09 PM
–	The reason birthrates are falling is the raise of divorce rates You're right about the first part. You couldnt be more wrong about the 2nd part.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 03:04 PM
2	Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thing I once told a group of women I wasnt attracted to Asian women. None of them were asian. They still got offended.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/25 09:49 PM
1	At what age range do you wish women would stay physically and mentally forever? No, but you're attractiveness will down. But thats true of everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 08:13 PM
1	At what age range do you wish women would stay physically and mentally forever? Not necesarily. Love & loyalty still exist. Everyone has the same risk in relationships. One day your partner might stop finding you attractive and leave you for a better deal. Everyone has to deal with that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 07:29 PM
1	At what age range do you wish women would stay physically and mentally forever? They dont have to become atttactive, but no onr has to be attracted to them either. What I mean is ou have to be realistic about the kind of person you can attract. There's bo point getting ge be 35 and complaining that men are going out with women ten years younger than you. That was always going to happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 07:16 PM
1	At what age range do you wish women would stay physically and mentally forever? I suggest being realistic about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 07:03 PM
19	Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thing "I only go out with tall, good looking men who earn more than $100,000 a year." "I prefer younger women." Cue hysterical outrage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 04:45 PM
0	At what age range do you wish women would stay physically and mentally forever? Its more atteactiveness than age. Gal Gadot is better lookong at 40 than most womem half her age, but she's not as good looking at she was 20 years ago and most women do not look anything like Gal Gadot. But with these things the real problem is that women dont want to acknowledge that they've lost their looks and men are going for younger women simply because they're more attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 01:23 PM
1	Would a man 30-40 who dresses, lives and (in some ways) looks like 25 be attractive or unattractive, particularly to men/women 20-30? I know people who've managed it just by being incredibly healthy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 09:51 PM
1	Would a man 30-40 who dresses, lives and (in some ways) looks like 25 be attractive or unattractive, particularly to men/women 20-30? I think generally if you take care of yourself you can look about 10 years younger than your age. If you look at people like Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt they're in their early 60s but they could get away with their early 50s. Similarly soneone like Gal Gadot or Scarlet Johansem are un their early 40s but they could get away with early 30s on a good day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 09:39 PM
2	At what age people should become first time parents? 20s & 30s is ideal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/25 09:20 PM
1	Why don’t women like passport bros? How are they exploiting them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 05:15 PM
1	Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date? I don’t believe it would be because she actually loves him You are being negative. I dont understand the mentality of not just being happy for people when they're in a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/25 04:50 AM
3	Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date? Most relationships dont have longevity, that doesnt mean we need to be negative about them. But back to the point, OP was asking why women react badly when men go out with younger women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/25 04:30 AM
0	Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date? Even if its just a phase, whats wrong with that? Whst if they're just attracted to each other? Two people can have a relationship without there being any sinister about it. My grandad was 20 years older than my gran amd they were married for 40 years until his death.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/25 04:19 AM
3	Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date? Yes, but they dont care. The reality is that some women cant handle the idea that men can also have standards, because they know that they might not be able to meet those standards, so they're going to invent an ever evolving list of reasons why men shoule not be allowed to have a free choice of partner without any thought or care about how ridiculous they are. If you you want any evidence for that just look at how many gay relationships there are where one partner os significantly older, or rel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/25 04:04 AM
3	Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date? There it is: schrodingers feminist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/25 04:03 AM
1	Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date? Why dont you believe she could love him?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/25 04:02 AM
-3	Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date? Welcome to the club. I have heard it called Schrodingers feminist: When women are mature and capable enough to control their own lives but also arent able to choose who they want to have relationships with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/25 12:55 AM
2	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. Then what do you think of the proposition that the idea that men go for younger women because they cant get older women is an older woman's revenge fantasy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 06:56 PM
5	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. But that wasnt the original question. The idea that men go for younger women because they cant get older women is an older woman's revenge fantasy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 06:45 PM
1	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. That wasnt the question. Regardless of why he wants a woman half his age do you think he couldnt get one if he wanted?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 06:32 PM
2	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. Do you think Leo DiCaprio goes out with women half his age because he can't get women his own age?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 06:23 PM
4	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. You might be right but you're not addressing the issue. Do you think the 50 y.o men who are into you are into you because they can't get women their own age or because they find you more attractive than women their own age?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 06:09 PM
2	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. they find them more physically attractive and because they're easier to manipulate. I agree with the first part. People lose their looks as they get older. Looks are more important to men than women. So as men get older they will go for younger women because those women are usually the most attractive. And that's it, everything else is cope from women who don't want to acknowledge that they have or will lose their looks, so they try to blame other people for not being attracted to them. Like say…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 06:04 PM
3	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. Why do you think men like that go for younger women? That was my question to you that you are trying to avoid. And I would argue that men here who, by their own admission, struggle to get any dates at all with women their own age, have developed their own revenge fantasy by believing that after years of being rejected, suddenly teenagers and college students are going to be throwing themselves at these men. If that's true, why are other men who clearly can get women their own age also going for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 05:41 PM
0	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. I didn't day he wasn't. The question is why are men like that still going for younger women now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 05:12 PM
2	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. But that wasnt the question. Why do you think men like that go for younger women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 03:43 PM
-3	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. ...what does that mean?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 03:33 PM
12	The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy. Do you think Chris Evans & Leo DiCaprio cant get women their own age? The obvious answer is no, of course they can, so why do you think they choose women significantly younger than them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 03:28 PM
–	Men think they are more attractive than they really are https://www.researchgate.net/publication/329327914_Almost_every_woman_thinks_she's_hotter_than_the_average_Differences_in_self-assessments_of_physical_attractiveness_between_women_and_men Yep.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 07:17 AM
1	The fertility rate is inextricably linked to women’s level of “knowledge” I mean at least in my experience I know a lot more men who dont want kids than women. Probably half my male friends never want to have children. Just my experience though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 05:57 PM
10	The fertility rate is inextricably linked to women’s level of “knowledge” In the past people had to to children. If you got sick or got old and couldn't work you would die if you didn't have a family to take care of you. People don't need to have children any more so they stopped having children. Children went from being a necessity for survival to an expemsive status symbol and lifestyle accessory.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 05:31 PM
12	The fertility rate is inextricably linked to women’s level of “knowledge” Everyone has known this for years. There multiple explanations. The most basic is that when women have a basic level of education they undertstand borth control, the more complicated ones are that when women have careers they don't have time for multiple children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 04:58 PM
11	Why does the redpill ignore passport sisters and only focuses on passport bros? Exactly. The average salary is something like $5000 a year, only half the population have reliable access to clean drinking water. The ex-president has just been arrested for legalising murder.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 11:42 PM
14	Why does the redpill ignore passport sisters and only focuses on passport bros? Holy shit. I guess you've never been to the Philipines if you think the US is a 'dystopian hellhole' by comparison.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 11:28 PM
1	Apparently, men are more likely to hit on women they think are easy and not necessarily because they think they're attractive Yeah. Its a risk/effort vs reward thing. A 5/10 girl who you have a 90% chance of getting is often a better option than a 10/10 who you have a 10% chance of getting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 06:17 AM
7	Apparently, men are more likely to hit on women they think are easy and not necessarily because they think they're attractive Put men in prison and some of them will start to have sex with each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 06:16 AM
2	Children need Dads and Fathers. My 47F neighbor is hiring a 29M to come over and attempt to impregnate her on a monthly basis. Am I old fashion or is this crazy? There is an absolute metric fuckton of data showing how much better it is for children to be raised in two parent families and as a society we are willfully neglient about it. We need to acknowledge just how selfish absentee fathers and deliberately single mothers are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/25 05:38 PM
1	Children need Dads and Fathers. My 47F neighbor is hiring a 29M to come over and attempt to impregnate her on a monthly basis. Am I old fashion or is this crazy? You don't need a kid to get by, people want a kid because they think it will add something to their lives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/25 05:35 PM
3	the game plan for women? Because if you want kids you're on a time limit. I know a lot of women who just sort of assumed things would happen for them and they'd just meet a guy, get married & have a family, but it just never happened for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 10:04 AM
2	Short women who want tall men are not absurd because the female equivalent is WHR, NOT height Ive seen short guys get mad at short girls going for tall guys as well. But yeah, have whatever standards you want, its your life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 07:34 PM
–	I think a lot of people going forward have to just get over the idea of sex and relationships Just because they're not attracted to you it doesnt mean they want to be in some other guy's harem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 01:43 AM
–	I think a lot of people going forward have to just get over the idea of sex and relationships Is that what women want? Otherwise this argument doesnt make any sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 07:48 PM
–	I think a lot of people going forward have to just get over the idea of sex and relationships You assume that women can get what they really want. Your argument seems to imply that there are an endless supply of 'high-value' men that want these women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 05:48 PM
0	For men who have been approached at least once in their life: Do you think the women who approached you were in your league? Sometimes yes, sometimes no. I have noticed as rule that when women approach men they tend to go for guys out of their leagues though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 04:56 AM
1	Why does men only like attractive women and not actual good women? Billions of years of evolutionairy programming. I dont think we just look for physical attraction though, we do take personality into account.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/25 06:15 AM
1	It's OK to pay male teachers more than female teachers if it improves boy's educational outcomes. Equal pay between genders isn't the top priority in children's education. Women should be willing to take a "hit". Clearly some men are gullible suckers because there are still male teachers, so why not just pay all teachers less, since they're so gullible?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 07:13 AM
1	It's OK to pay male teachers more than female teachers if it improves boy's educational outcomes. Equal pay between genders isn't the top priority in children's education. Women should be willing to take a "hit". Parents can't teach most subjects, so we have have teachers, but they can be role models. Why should the taxpayer pay for male teachers to do things their fathers should be doing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 04:49 AM
5	It's OK to pay male teachers more than female teachers if it improves boy's educational outcomes. Equal pay between genders isn't the top priority in children's education. Women should be willing to take a "hit". Equal opporrunities laws wouldnt let you have do that. Why should the taxpayer pay for things that parents should be doing? And if you think theres a good reason that they should be doing that why npt have a mentorship scheme instead so that boys without an adult male role model can be placed with on?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 08:08 AM
-2	It's OK to pay male teachers more than female teachers if it improves boy's educational outcomes. Equal pay between genders isn't the top priority in children's education. Women should be willing to take a "hit". Why dont they just do the same thing in their free time?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 07:55 AM
6	It's OK to pay male teachers more than female teachers if it improves boy's educational outcomes. Equal pay between genders isn't the top priority in children's education. Women should be willing to take a "hit". The readon that there are less fewer male teachers is because teaching is a shitty job with low pay So why not just raise the standards and conditions for all teachers to not only attract more men but a higher standard of teacher overall?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 04:17 AM
1	It's OK to pay male teachers more than female teachers if it improves boy's educational outcomes. Equal pay between genders isn't the top priority in children's education. Women should be willing to take a "hit". Why not give it to everyone?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 04:13 AM
0	It's OK to pay male teachers more than female teachers if it improves boy's educational outcomes. Equal pay between genders isn't the top priority in children's education. Women should be willing to take a "hit". Why not just pay everyone a million dollars then we'd all be millionaires!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 01:33 AM
-1	If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married women Why do you think divorces happen and men get affairs? I mean...its incredibly naive to think that looks don't matter, but they're not the only thing that matters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 02:44 AM
63	Q4M: Would you date someone who fetishizes you? Why or why not? Whats the difference between fetishising something and just being attracted to something? Does a woman who likes guys with beards have a fetish for beards?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/25 03:31 AM
1	The advocating of age gap relationships How did you get: I read your post and it appears that the young girls you date have daddy issues. from: Ive had a few relationships with serious age gaps and the girls either just didnt care, or were willing to overlook it because I think I ticked every other box, or just didnt like guys their own age because they found them unreliable or immature.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 02:48 PM
1	The advocating of age gap relationships Maybe you didn't read the rest of my post: Ive had a few relationships with serious age gaps and the girls either just didnt care, or were willing to overlook it because I think I ticked every other box, or just didnt like guys their own age because they found them unreliable or immature.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 10:58 AM
1	The advocating of age gap relationships 'Daddy' means attractive older man, not literally their dad. Maybe you didn't read the rest of my post: Ive had a few relationships with serious age gaps and the girls either just didnt care, or were willing to overlook it because I think I ticked every other box, or just didnt like guys their own age because they found them unreliable or immature.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 09:10 AM
1	The advocating of age gap relationships ...I didnt say that...	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 01:11 AM
5	Would a stigma-free, normalised sex work industry reduce how many men participate in dating? How do you know those regulations are not for health & safety? There has to be regulation to prevent sex trafficking & abuse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 06:58 PM
5	Would a stigma-free, normalised sex work industry reduce how many men participate in dating? Its legal in Turkey. I think its legal in S.Korea & has mixed legalityin S.E Asia. Its illegal in China but still common, like nearly everything else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 06:47 PM
4	Would a stigma-free, normalised sex work industry reduce how many men participate in dating? It depends what you consider stigma to be. Its not stigmatised for men to have sex with prostitutes in those countries. I cant remember the numbers but I think more Turkish men have paid for sex than men from any other country.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 06:42 PM
3	Would a stigma-free, normalised sex work industry reduce how many men participate in dating? S.Korea, China, S.E Asia, Turkey.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 06:34 PM
5	Would a stigma-free, normalised sex work industry reduce how many men participate in dating? In lots of Asian countries prostitution is very normal amd common. There might be connection or there might not (and if there is it might chicken & egg thing), but these tend to be the countries that have the lowest fertility rates in the world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 06:30 PM
4	Would a stigma-free, normalised sex work industry reduce how many men participate in dating? It is very, very normal in large parts of the world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 06:27 PM
1	The advocating of age gap relationships Where do you think the "Daddy' thing comes from? Ive had a few relationships with serious age gaps and the girls either just didnt care, or were willing to overlook it because I think I ticked every other box, or just didnt like guys their own age because they found them unreliable or immature.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 03:59 PM
0	Women are only against age gap relationships when the man is much less attractive than the woman. Unless the woman is older or its a same sex couple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 12:00 PM
1	Men who have hook-ups, how often are you 100% upfront with the women? If you hook up with a girl on thr first date unless they're completely naive they know whats going on	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 04:19 AM
0	If a guy wants NSA sex he has to go to where NSA sex is Then why are there so many examples of unnattractive men who still get girls?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 04:05 AM
2	If a guy wants NSA sex he has to go to where NSA sex is Yep. But tell them that and you're talking to a brick wall.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 08:37 PM
3	If a guy wants NSA sex he has to go to where NSA sex is The only guys who think that dont have any social skills. The world is full of examples of unattractive men who still get girls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 08:35 PM
7	If a guy wants NSA sex he has to go to where NSA sex is Half the men who use this sub are antisocial and literally cant comprehend the idea of just talking to a woman in a social setting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 03:27 PM
7	If a guy wants NSA sex he has to go to where NSA sex is And yet people still have a problem comprehending it	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 02:34 PM
1	If a guy wants NSA sex he has to go to where NSA sex is Go to a bar and buy girls drinks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 01:01 PM
–	Why can’t there just be healthy balances and compromises on a person by person basis? And if she gets too out of shape for his liking he can bring it up in a polite manner, and if she doesn’t feel like changing, then he can move on. If a woman absolutely won’t date someone under 5’ 10, that’s her preference, there are plenty of women that date shorter men. In other words people should go for people in their league. If people thought like that this wouldn't be an issue and this sub would not exist. If women were honest about much of a negative being fat is to most men there would …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 04:59 AM
–	Society should encourage Women to become single moms. Dont women on average earn more than men now? If it is linked to poverty, and thats linked to fathers not paying child support should the lesson not be that women shouldnt have kids with unreliable, deadbeat guys?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 05:56 PM
–	Society should encourage Women to become single moms. Note that half of those are 'single-parent' not 'single-mother'	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/25 05:52 PM
1	Paternity tests should a standard part of the birthing process. When these kind of things are mass produced its easy to get the costs down. Look at corona virus tests, when they were pumping them out on mass they came down to virtually nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 06:04 PM
-1	Paternity tests should a standard part of the birthing process. Like I said: if it were standardised the price would come down a lot. If it was offered for $10 with a helpful 'disclaimer' there would be no reason why most people wouldnt take it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 05:51 PM
-1	Paternity tests should a standard part of the birthing process. https://www.chcfl.org/how-much-does-a-paternity-test-cost/ It says $100 here. If it were standardised it would come down a lot. There is an argument that both parents should be tested to prove patentage to avoid the possibility of infants getting mixed up. If the test were free or almost free, and you made that argument, why would anyone refuse unless they have something to hide?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 04:40 PM
–	Many women are against men aged 30+ dating below 25 years old women because apparently the brain doesn't stop developing till you are 25. This is a total myth that has no scientific backing at all and it shows that only red pillars aren't the only ones to promote fake science. What about a 40 y.o guy hitting on a 25 y.o girl?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 11:38 AM
4	Many women are against men aged 30+ dating below 25 years old women because apparently the brain doesn't stop developing till you are 25. This is a total myth that has no scientific backing at all and it shows that only red pillars aren't the only ones to promote fake science. What about a 40 y.o guy hitting on a 25 y.o girl?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 11:37 AM
-3	Many women are against men aged 30+ dating below 25 years old women because apparently the brain doesn't stop developing till you are 25. This is a total myth that has no scientific backing at all and it shows that only red pillars aren't the only ones to promote fake science. I mean, if youre 20 whats the difference between a 20 y.o guy pestering you or a 40 y.o guy pestering you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 11:28 AM
-4	Many women are against men aged 30+ dating below 25 years old women because apparently the brain doesn't stop developing till you are 25. This is a total myth that has no scientific backing at all and it shows that only red pillars aren't the only ones to promote fake science. So whats the differencw?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 11:20 AM
1	Many women are against men aged 30+ dating below 25 years old women because apparently the brain doesn't stop developing till you are 25. This is a total myth that has no scientific backing at all and it shows that only red pillars aren't the only ones to promote fake science. What's the difference between being pestered by guys who are older than you and guys your own age?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 10:23 AM
5	Many women are against men aged 30+ dating below 25 years old women because apparently the brain doesn't stop developing till you are 25. This is a total myth that has no scientific backing at all and it shows that only red pillars aren't the only ones to promote fake science. We dont care! I think its creepy ....Im genuinely lost for words....	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 07:11 AM
3	Many women are against men aged 30+ dating below 25 years old women because apparently the brain doesn't stop developing till you are 25. This is a total myth that has no scientific backing at all and it shows that only red pillars aren't the only ones to promote fake science. If the question to "What do think of older guys going out with younger women?" and you don't care then the answer is "I dont care." not https://jill.substack.com/p/the-problem-with-men-who-date-much	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 07:06 AM
2	Many women are against men aged 30+ dating below 25 years old women because apparently the brain doesn't stop developing till you are 25. This is a total myth that has no scientific backing at all and it shows that only red pillars aren't the only ones to promote fake science. You're not a guy going out with a girl half his age. Look at stuff about Leo DiCaprio going out with younger women. Its blatant and obvious, and its always when mem go out with younger women, its never when a 50 y.o gay guy goes out with a 25 y.o guy, or a 50 y.o woman goes out with a 25 y.o guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 06:51 AM
5	Many women are against men aged 30+ dating below 25 years old women because apparently the brain doesn't stop developing till you are 25. This is a total myth that has no scientific backing at all and it shows that only red pillars aren't the only ones to promote fake science. Then....they do care.... If they dont care the answer is 'I dont care' Also, no one is asking them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 06:31 AM
15	Many women are against men aged 30+ dating below 25 years old women because apparently the brain doesn't stop developing till you are 25. This is a total myth that has no scientific backing at all and it shows that only red pillars aren't the only ones to promote fake science. We don't care! It amazes me the amount of shit older guys going out with younger women get, and yet people still say things like this with a straight face. Any guy who has had a younger girlfriend will have heard variations on 'Isnt she too young for you?' and 'Why dont you go out with someone your own age from women'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 05:57 AM
–	Q4M: would you date a sex offender? It could happen. Sexual assault is defined in its loosest for as sexual touching without consent. Im from the UK & Ive never heard anyone say womens prisons should be closed down	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 09:00 AM
–	Q4M: would you date a sex offender? It depends on how serious it was. If I didnt know & couldnt find out I would cautiously go ahead & try it out. 'Sex offence' is a pretty broad catagory, she could have grabbed the wrong persons arse at a bar when she was drunk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 06:48 AM
2	The best way to correct the dating market is for men to leave women alone. Like men, maybe, going a way which is their own?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 12:09 PM
2	Society should encourage Women to become single moms. Do you want to depressingly long list of facts and statistics associated with the children of single mothers? Single-mother families are disproportionately represented in poverty statistics. A significant percentage of children in single-mother households live in poverty. Children in single-parent families are more likely to drop out of high school compared to those with married parents. This is potentially linked to factors like fewer economic resources, social instability, and parental challen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/25 04:48 AM
2	If men don't want to date women over 30 because they're jaded, bitter and have trouble pair bonding, wouldn't the same thing apply to men over 30? Its not it at all. People dont suddenly become bitter & jaded when they turn 30.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/25 12:17 AM
1	If men don't want to date women over 30 because they're jaded, bitter and have trouble pair bonding, wouldn't the same thing apply to men over 30? Thats not why men dont want women over 30.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 02:56 PM
1	What’s Your Opinion on Men Who’ve Never Been in a Relationship Ever. There's nothing necessarily bad about it, but I just mean you have to ask yourself the question, and be honest with the answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 02:55 PM
0	What’s Your Opinion on Men Who’ve Never Been in a Relationship Ever. Anyone who's never had a relationship by that age should be asking themselves some serious questions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 02:18 PM
0	What’s Your Opinion on Men Who’ve Never Been in a Relationship Ever. And how would you know unless you ask yourself the question?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 11:58 AM
1	What’s Your Opinion on Men Who’ve Never Been in a Relationship Ever. How do you know its lack of social skills without asking yourself some questions?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 12:21 AM
-3	What’s Your Opinion on Men Who’ve Never Been in a Relationship Ever. Why wouldnt you be interested in a relationship or sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/25 12:20 AM
7	What’s Your Opinion on Men Who’ve Never Been in a Relationship Ever. Of course they should. If you want a relarionship but you continuely fail to get one its worth askong yourself why. If you want anything and continuely fail to get it its worth asking yourself why. Thats just a basic skill adults should have. How are you going to learn if you're not going to analyse what you're doing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 05:05 PM
4	What’s Your Opinion on Men Who’ve Never Been in a Relationship Ever. Anyone who's never had a relationship by that age should be asking themselves some serious questions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 03:00 PM
7	Why don’t women like dating apps? I know a lot of women who see tinder & bumble as sleazy hook up apps and/or for desperate women who cant meet men any other way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 07:07 AM
2	People who prioritize “standards” before chemistry are delusional/self centered and often treat themselves as trophies Everyone has standards and you're in denial if you think you don't as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 02:42 PM
2	"Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie. If you live in Asia and you see the amount of western women who refuse to go out with Asian men you realise how true this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/25 01:39 AM
0	What are The weirdest dating preferences that you've heard from any gender ? I know an American girl who told me she only dates non American men because American men are too right wing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 10:28 AM
19	We should stop gender splitting in competitions where brain power is the only deciding factor For the same reason we split male and female sports; biological differences give one sex an advantage and that's seen as unfair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 11:05 AM
9	Men who say they don't care A person's job says nothing about their worth as a person. You can be best, most selfless person possible and just not be interested in a career.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 06:03 PM
2	Let's talk about age gap relationships, specifically when the woman is the younger party. So you're now trying to argue that people who can get married, own a business, join the army, have children, have a job, have an onlyfans etc. are 'comparative children'? This is where redditors show how out of touch with reality they are. They'll simulataniously tell people to 'touch grass' but have absolutely no connection with the real world at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 04:34 PM
1	Let's talk about age gap relationships, specifically when the woman is the younger party. You're changing your argument now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 04:11 PM
3	Let's talk about age gap relationships, specifically when the woman is the younger party. I have 20 y.o friends, I also have 60 y.o friends, why would that be weird?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 04:05 PM
9	Let's talk about age gap relationships, specifically when the woman is the younger party. Redditors also believe most 35 y.o guys are like that. The 35 y.o guys who can get 25 y.o girls will. The guys who cant will be what the 35 y.o women are left with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 04:03 PM
30	Redpill or any other similar content is pure grift The only way to be attractive to the opposite sex is by being physically attractive Is that not a redpill? I thought the bluepill is more "Everyone is beautiful, just be yourself!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 12:00 PM
–	Society has given women a free pass for their standards while condemning men for theirs Id be happier if my 18 y.o daughter had a 35 y.o boyfriend than an onlyfans.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 11:19 PM
–	Red pill men in their 30s overestimate their market value 10% of relationships have a 10+ year age gap. Its more common than you'd think. Some men are being unrealistic, some are not. Some women think they're going to hit their mid 30s amd still meet the right guy and have a family. Some of those women are being realistic and some are not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 03:15 PM
5	Is “the wall” different for a female late bloomer? Thats it. Its not that men dont age but its that everyone loses their looks as they age and looks are more important to men than to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 07:44 AM
2	Too many men use ‘being honest’ as an excuse to be bullies They weren't being honest, they were just being dicks. Looking at his twitter it looks like it went fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 11:39 AM
0	When single... Did/Do you care about what the opposite sex finds attractive? Looks + social skills + status. If a man is lacking in one he can make it up with the other two. If you're charasmatic and succesful in some way it doesnt matter what you look like. The problem with a lot of unsuccessful men isnt that they're unattractive, its that they're socially clueless. With women its 90% about looks, and the problem unsucslessful women have is that they're just not attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 09:41 AM
9	When single... Did/Do you care about what the opposite sex finds attractive? I dont agree that looks are 95%. I know too many average looking guys who are successful with women, and unattractive guys who at least get women, for that to be true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 01:56 AM
–	Why do so many men hate sex workers? I have more distain for people who pay for OF than the people on it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 06:11 AM
2	Would you date a broke woman? She's objectively better looking than any of those women. I don't think those women are anything special.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 01:40 PM
2	Would you date a broke woman? She's hotter than any of those women. She had her own place but she was at my place so much she just moved in to save money and I paid for everything. It’s only women who think we care about income > looks, personality. Yep. I keep saying this but women completely underestimate how much looks matter to men, and men completely overestimate how much looks matter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 12:36 PM
-1	Would you date a broke woman? I don't know. A woman who's hot and I'm attracted to. My ex was hotter than any of those women and basically supported her when she was going an internship for a year, but I didn't mind because Icould afford it and she was hot as hell. I'd rather have a hot women who was broke than an ugly woman who wasn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 12:09 PM
6	Would you date a broke woman? Two thirds of university debt is owed by women; https://www.earnest.com/blog/women-student-debt/	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 08:40 AM
2	Would you date a broke woman? In all seriousness: it depends on how hot she was. I dont mind keeping a woman if shes hot enough to deserve it. Ive had relationships with women in the pasr who had no ambition other than to be a wife and mother, but they were hot enough to get away with that. I dont mind being the breadwinner, and even the only breadwinner, but I wouldnt do it any woman who just thought she deserved it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/24 08:37 AM
1	What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards? I already pointed out earlier that most single women are choosing to stay alone instead of entertaining an underwhelming man. Then they're being unrealistic if they're looking for a relationship by defintion. You can either be realistic or be alone. If you're not going to be realisitic you're going to be alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 04:15 AM
1	What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards? What do you think about women attempting suicide more often?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 12:03 AM
2	What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards? If the average man is underwhelming then there are not going to be enough above average men to go around, so a lot of average women are going to end up alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 11:58 PM
5	What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards? Firstly, as you say its 13 years ago, so I don't know how you can get 'underpaid' from $100k a year. Secondly, what about this one: https://www.psypost.org/study-finds-people-in-relationships-tend-to-be-happier-than-singles/ And this one: https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-is-happiest-married-mothers-and-fathers-per-the-latest-general-social-survey	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 06:25 PM
2	What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards? Everyone settles. That's the truth of relationships. They're never perfect. Every single person who has ever had a relationship has settled in one way or another. Its either be realistic or be alone. Those are the only options everyone has. Anyone who is looking for the perfect partner will always be disapointed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 06:13 PM
7	What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards? People lie to themselves. People tell themselves they're perfectly happy and get drunk every night to deal with the lonliness. https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/high-octane-women/201109/meet-the-least-happy-people-in-america	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 06:04 PM
1	What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards? https://www.psypost.org/study-finds-people-in-relationships-tend-to-be-happier-than-singles/ Why make yourself unhappy, or alternatively, why not take the risk of making yourself happier?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 06:03 PM
8	What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards? I am not Chinese but I live in China, and yeah, you realise how surreal western dating is when its put in context. The amount of times I've met middle aged overweight expat women at expat clubs or events trying to get none-chinese boyfriend and then acting shocked and offended when all those guys are going out with hot Chinese or European women. There's just no awareness that its them that's the problem and not everyone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 05:27 PM
1	What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards? https://www.psypost.org/study-finds-people-in-relationships-tend-to-be-happier-than-singles/ Like this one?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 04:53 PM
4	What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards? What is 'too much'?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 03:53 PM
0	There's no reason a modern woman SHOULD date in her league. Men need to quit complaining about it and accept reality. If you dont date in your league you'll end up alone. There is your reason. Be realistic or be alone, that's your choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 01:31 PM
3	What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards? It tells me that they're unrealistic and living in denial. Which they can be, its their choice. But they cant complain or blame anyone else when they end up old and alone, and especially not men their age who are going out with women half their age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 01:14 PM
1	What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards? What difference would 13 years make?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 12:42 PM
-3	What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards? https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/high-octane-women/201109/meet-the-least-happy-people-in-america What do you think about the most unhappy people being single, middle aged women with no children, and people in relationships reporting being happier than single people?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 12:25 PM
-4	What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards? I dont believe that. I believe people can comvince themselves they are, but we're social animals ultimately. We're meant to be in relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 11:55 AM
9	What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards? Isnt 'being underwhelmed' not just having unrealistic standards by another name? If you cant find a guy who does whelm you its worth considering its because that guy finds you underwhelming.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 11:12 AM
8	What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards? But what does an increasing number of women never marrying or having families or long term relationships mean? Everyone has to be realistic or be alone, but if more women than ever are ending up alone doesn't that mean they're not being realistic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 08:44 AM
4	What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards? It sounds like you are being realistic tbf. Would you not consider going out with an older man, say in his 50s or 60s?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 08:30 AM
3	What do you think about the common assertion that many women have unrealistic standards? How do you feel when ypu dont meet a mans standards?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 07:04 AM
–	Are men afraid of their girlfriends aging? Getting fat is a bigger fear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/24 01:11 AM
1	What can these Tinder gender ratio charts tell us about the male/female dynamics per country? I know a lot of women who see Tinder as a sleazy hookup app, or just for absolutely desperate women who can't meet a men any other way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/24 04:04 AM
1	The dynamic of age gap relationships is multilayered... MY ex was 18 years younger than me, and none of her friends had a problem with it, none of my friends had a problem with it, but the only people who did where middle aged women saying exactly that same kind of "what does a GROWN ASSMAN of 40 have in common with a LITERAL UNDEVELOPED 22 YEAR OLD CHILD" thing. Which is the exact same thing a lot of women here say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/24 03:49 AM
0	You've just been appointed "Minister for Relationships" and have UNLIMITED political/economic/financial power to make any changes to the dating world EXCEPT obligating anyone to date anyone else. Ban video games and social media for people under 18. Create some sort of social clubs where young people can learn to be around each other an socialise with each other. Have some sort of 'socislising' equivalent of gyms were anti-social men can learn to be more social. From what I've seen on here & elsewhere a lot of the problems young men have in dating is that they're just anti social. If they knew how to hit on women in a bar they'd be a lot better of. Additionally: reward marriage/long term…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 03:55 PM
–	Men have a biological clock as well women are allowed to have choices in relationships. So do men. Men don't want older women who can't have kids. Why do women get to have choices but men do not?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 12:05 PM
–	Men have a biological clock as well Why are you so angry that men are allowed to have choices in relationships?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 11:21 AM
–	Men have a biological clock as well It’s an apt descriptor of the a lot of men who put off having kids until they’re too old to attract a fertile woman. Who are these men? Where are they? I don't know any men like that. Every guy I know who got a wife or girlfriend over the age of about 35 is with a woman at least 10 years younger than him. The world is full of older men with younger women. I'm 43 and I've never been out with a woman over 30 and I'm nothing special. Even the guys who are the absolute bottom of the barrel can easil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 04:00 AM
1	Men have a biological clock as well lonely old cat dudes There it is again...	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 02:05 AM
6	Men have a biological clock as well Its not rare. Health defects in babies become more common for men as they get older, but nowhere near as much as they do for women of a similar age. https://newsnetwork.mayoclinic.org/discussion/tuesday-q-and-a-small-risk-of-increased-health-problems-in-children-with-older-fathers/	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 01:29 PM
1	Men have a biological clock as well Well when A.I partners become feasible the human race is probably doomed anywat, so why not?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 12:47 PM
-7	Men have a biological clock as well This is why I go out with younger women. And I run a half marathon every weekend so you dont need to worry too much about my health. , and half of the women are blatantly middle aged and having a meltdown at the idea that they've left it too long. Just because you're never going to have a family it doesnt give you the right to try to stop other people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 12:46 PM
1	Men have a biological clock as well Do you have the article without the paywall?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 12:44 PM
0	Men have a biological clock as well There’s no maximum age that stops a man from being able to have a baby. You can become a father long into your older years https://www.webmd.com/healthy-aging/too-late-to-have-baby-60-year-old-man	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 12:41 PM
3	Men have a biological clock as well I was talking about relationships generally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 11:58 AM
4	Men have a biological clock as well I wasnt just talking about having kids. I mean women can still adopt even if theyre too old to have their own.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 11:49 AM
13	Men have a biological clock as well , and half of the women are blatantly middle aged and having a meltdown at the idea that they've left it too long.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 11:13 AM
13	Men have a biological clock as well My dad was born when my grandad was 45. I have a friend whose dad was 67 when he was born. The oldest father in the world was 95 when he had a kid. This is just pure, absolute projection and nothing else. The lack of self awareness from fully grown adults in this sub amazes me, from both the men and the women. Half the guys are just anti-social and refuse admit that that is their problem, and half of the women are blatantly middle aged and having a meltdown at the idea that they've left it too l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 10:22 AM
127	Men have a biological clock as well Men over a certaon age will find it harder to have children. Women over a certain will find it impossible to have children. There's an enormous amount of projection going on here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/24 09:53 AM
5	Alot of guys here will put no effort into being appealing to women. Because thats not my experience at all. But we're getting off topic: This is my whole point: When men are struggling with dating its their fault for not trying hard enough, but when women are struggling with dating its its the fault of men for going out with the wrong women	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/24 12:19 PM
7	Alot of guys here will put no effort into being appealing to women. Not the majority of people I know. This is my whole point: When men are struggling with dating its their fault for not trying hard enough, but when women are struggling with dating its its the fault of men for going out with the wrong women	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/24 11:57 AM
3	Alot of guys here will put no effort into being appealing to women. None of the girls in their 20s Ive been out have thought that was disgusting, or the friends I have in their 20s. The only people who have a problem with it are women who think men shouldnt have standards or options. Maybe you need to put more effort into being apealing to men. This is my whole point: When men are struggling with dating its their fault for not trying hard enough, but when women are struggling with dating its its the fault of men for going out with the wrong women	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/24 11:24 AM
2	Alot of guys here will put no effort into being appealing to women. About the same. Try being a guy in his 40s who goes out with women in their 20s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/24 11:14 AM
8	Alot of guys here will put no effort into being appealing to women. I could say the exact same thing about most of the unhappily single women, plus they won't even chase the guys they like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/24 10:53 AM
0	Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”. I guess Im not a red pill then. The world is filled with women who have both.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 09:00 PM
-6	Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”. If you disagree with my definitions tell me why. You're asking that question like its a binary choice. Its possible to have a family and a career.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 12:34 PM
6	Men - would you rather be a single mother or a childfree woman, and why? Anyone who uses terms like 'low value man' is saying more about themselves than anyone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/24 04:01 PM
3	Men - would you rather be a single mother or a childfree woman, and why? Thats not just incels.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/24 03:54 PM
0	Men - would you rather be a single mother or a childfree woman, and why? Knowing what the stats are like for children of single mothers I wouldnt want to inflict that on a child. I know women who are in this position: they're hitting middle age and they're realising they'll never have a family so their only option left is to have a kid so they dont end up completely alone when they're old. In a way I can undetstand it but I think its selfish as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/24 03:53 PM
7	Men - would you rather be a single mother or a childfree woman, and why? For who?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/24 03:47 PM
7	Men - would you rather be a single mother or a childfree woman, and why? ....is that meant to be a boast?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/24 01:12 PM
1	As a red pill or purple pilled man, what do you think about feminism? Its a good thing.... buuuuuut I think the problem with it is that it makes people define themselves primarily by their sex and makes men and women see each other as the 'other' and ultimately an enemy. Like men have to agree with other men or they're being simps and not being bros, and women have to side with women otherwise they're being pickmeshas and betraying their sisters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 11:35 AM
3	A lot of people who self-identity as having low SMV actually have a problem with having their standards way too high I think most people with a low SMV don't think they have a low SMV, they think everyone's standards are just oo high.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 11:27 AM
1	What age are you willing to date? In your relationship what is the age gap? I hope so, but is it the end of the world if I dont? My dad was born when his dad was 45, my dad way 29 he had me and didnt live to see his grandkids. Plenty of guys have kids when they're old, plenty of fathers die relatively young.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/24 12:09 AM
2	What age are you willing to date? In your relationship what is the age gap? Like I said, its relative. A 50 y.o guy would consider a 35 y.o woman a catch.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 05:47 AM
2	What age are you willing to date? In your relationship what is the age gap? Men care about physical attraction, not specifically youth, just because you're young it doesnt mean you're attractive, although ot does correlate. I mean it doesnt always people cheat and relationships break down, but love & loyalty must exist somewhere. The best advice Ive ever heard about relationships is that you should always try to remain attractive to their partner. When people get conplacent and let themselves go relationships break down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 05:39 AM
3	What age are you willing to date? In your relationship what is the age gap? Mostly no with some very rare exceptions. I think women can go out with whoever they want, but you have to be aware that whoever you want may not want you. The reality for women is that as they get older they will find the dating pool thins out dramatically because men their age will start going for younger women. The smartest thing a womam who wamts a relationship & a family is to get it when still young enough to attract the mem they want. I know a lot of women who thought they could wait unti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 05:19 AM
1	What age are you willing to date? In your relationship what is the age gap? Say 20-35, it would depend on other factors though. Im 43 and I want kids at some point so women my age are out of the question. Im single atm, my last girlfriend was 22 when we gpt together. Age is relative to a certain degree, this is why rich old guys dont exclusively go for 20 y.o super models. Micj Jagger's girlfriend is in her 30s, Rupert Murdoch is in his 90s and his wife is in her 60s. If a man is 45 and has a 25 y.o girlfriend he'll have a hot young girlfriend, if he's 60 and she's 40 h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 04:59 AM
5	Q4W: Which of these dating preferences is acceptable? You know half of this sub are going to read that, agree with it and wonder why other people just dont get it. And they're going to to turn around and decide that AKSHULLLLLY its completely different when other people have standards that exclude them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 04:19 AM
5	Q4W: Which of these dating preferences is acceptable? Just because they're acceptable it doesnt mean they're realistic	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 03:51 AM
3	There’s nothing wrong with high standards. You can have whatever standards you want as long as you're not going to be hypocrititcal about other people also having high standards. If your standards arent realistic you're going to be the one to pay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/24 09:00 PM
2	If you believe that humans are children until 25 years old, why are you ok with them doing s*x work at 18? What's th difference? its still just an indivual's choice. You can't have ot both ways, you agree with bodily autonmy or you don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 02:00 PM
4	If you believe that humans are children until 25 years old, why are you ok with them doing s*x work at 18? The top users on OF are millionaires. Not everyone is making that but they're not desperate either. but; People can do whatever they want to do. sounds like you agree with the OP	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 01:36 PM
5	If you believe that humans are children until 25 years old, why are you ok with them doing s*x work at 18? So do you not think anyone should be allowed to do sex work? Or should it only be people over a certain age? and: Secondly, a lot of them aren't socioeconomically disadvantaged anymore. Look at onlyfans. Its full of moderately well off, or even rich women making money from their body.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 01:22 PM
2	If you believe that humans are children until 25 years old, why are you ok with them doing s*x work at 18? They're both options they legally have and they're both related to body autonomy. Why is an 18 year old mature enough for one and npt the other?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 12:45 PM
3	If you believe that humans are children until 25 years old, why are you ok with them doing s*x work at 18? I meant do you not think abortion has less consequences than having an onlyfans.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 12:35 PM
1	If you believe that humans are children until 25 years old, why are you ok with them doing s*x work at 18? How do you know they're not mature enough? People have been having children younger than that for most of human history. Do you not think that having an abortion is a much bigger life choice than having an onlyfans? Is that not also body autonomy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 11:58 AM
0	If you believe that humans are children until 25 years old, why are you ok with them doing s*x work at 18? Do you think an 18 year old is mature enough to choose to get an abortion?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 11:35 AM
9	If you believe that humans are children until 25 years old, why are you ok with them doing s*x work at 18? For a start he said under 25 and you've turned that into teenagers. Secondly, a lot of them aren't socioeconomically disadvantaged anymore. Look at onlyfans. Its full of moderately well off, or even rich women making money from their body. So why should a 20 year woman be allowed to have an onlyfans but not not have the right to go out with whoever she wants?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/24 11:34 AM
3	Women should not compete with each other Okay don't compete. Just accept the first guy who asks you out, or just be alone if no one asks you out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/24 06:13 PM
1	The attraction for age gap relationships seem one sided to me How do you know? And how are you defining 'very young'?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 06:22 PM
0	The attraction for age gap relationships seem one sided to me Its reddit. The average age is 23 years old. Of course the guys are going to be obessesing about women their own age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 06:17 PM
0	The attraction for age gap relationships seem one sided to me I see more women obsessing about men's age gap relationships than I do men obessesing about extremely young women. Mick Jagger's girlfriend is 37 and they still got critiscm for their relationship. Like a 37 year old woman isn't capable of making her own decisions. Ditto Chris Evans and his wife. She about 28 and people still called her a 'child bride'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 06:11 PM
1	The attraction for age gap relationships seem one sided to me Not to anywhere near the same degree as woman's fertility does.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 06:09 PM
1	The attraction for age gap relationships seem one sided to me Men don't. That' just your percepetion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 06:08 PM
-1	The attraction for age gap relationships seem one sided to me "Daddy"	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/24 03:54 PM
–	The recommendation to stick to older women makes me giggle. She went to the US to do a masters degree, what would be the difference if I was 20 years younger? I still wouldnt have gone with her. We've talked about getting back together in the future.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 04:31 PM
–	The recommendation to stick to older women makes me giggle. My last girlfriend was the best relationship I ever had. I had very little in common with her but we got on better than anyone Ive ever been out with. The only reason we broke up is because she went to another country to do an Ma. we got on better than anyone Ive ever been out with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 04:16 PM
–	The recommendation to stick to older women makes me giggle. She showed me movies & music she liked and I did the same. What do you talk about is such a weird question, what do you talk about with anyone? We just talked random bollocks about our days and what was going through our heads. I have friends in their 20s and I have friends in their 60s, amazingly I still manage to have conversations with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 03:28 PM
–	The recommendation to stick to older women makes me giggle. Everything you do with your partner. Going to bars, watching movies, hanging out. We liked conpletely different music, movies and everything else, but thats exactly the same with every other girl Ive been out with. Beleive me I have this exact same discussion every time this comes up on this sub.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 03:15 PM
–	The recommendation to stick to older women makes me giggle. Did.....did....you read anything I just wrote?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 03:00 PM
–	The recommendation to stick to older women makes me giggle. My lat girlfriend was the best relationship I ever had. I had very little in common with her but we got on better than anyone Ive ever been out with. The only reason we broke up is because she went to another country to do an Ma. Someone else in this thread pointed this out but your 'match' is whoever you're attracted to and is attracted to you. There is some rule or law that states tall people can only go out with tall people or fat people can only go out with fat people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 02:56 PM
–	The recommendation to stick to older women makes me giggle. What if I told you I'm over 40 and Ive never been out with a woman over 30? What if I dont want to stick to women over 40 and I dont have to?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 02:47 PM
–	CMV: it's rude to tell a woman she looks her age she knows its not true	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 07:13 AM
–	CMV: it's rude to tell a woman she looks her age Its a different situation. Context? Every groom tells his bride shes the most beautiful women in the world, she knows its not true but she understands the gesture is nice. Its weird to have to explain that to an adult. Do you want people to lie to you? Is that how you want your life to be?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 05:25 AM
–	CMV: it's rude to tell a woman she looks her age No one is kidding themselves that that sort of thing isnt just mum stuff. That women in in deep denial if she thinks she looks young.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 05:19 AM
–	CMV: it's rude to tell a woman she looks her age Its ruder to lie to people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 05:17 AM
6	Will this be the next tech revolution in the dating market for men? Sex robots. Seriously. But here's an interesting spin off on ypur idea; what if some kind of 'autism-glasses' were available that told people who had no clue how to behave and respond in social situations?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 07:06 AM
–	Q4M: Would you prefer to date in the West or Eastern Europe? In a previous answer to a similar question I said Asia, because I live in China & the women just put a lot more effort in to dating & relationships. Ive also lived in East Europe and I would choose E Europe again, not because the women put in more effort (its less if anything, they expect the men to do everything), but they put much more effort into being attractive. More likely that women haven't gone to college or have advanced degree, more religious, lower income (if any), expects to be full …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 04:37 AM
10	Would you prefer to date in the West or Asia as a Man Im not Chinese but I live in China. I pretty much exclusively date western women because Im not really attracted to Asian women, but it is a hell of a lot easier dating them. Asian women put in vastly more effort into dating and relationships in every way. Dating in Asia (e.g., Japan): You receive hundreds of likes each month, primarily from women who are slim, fashionable, and educated. Women may text you first or even initiate date plans, creating a more balanced exchange of effort and attenti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 11:28 AM
5	Older men dating younger women: A youngish woman's perspective You realise you're a woman commenting on what men find attractive? This is exactly the problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 05:31 AM
15	Older men dating younger women: A youngish woman's perspective I keep saying this but men do not go for younger women, men go for attractive women. BUT everyone peaks on their 20s and them goes downhill so inevitably there's going be a trend of mem going for younger women. Give nearly every guy a choice between 40 y.o Gal Gadot and 20 y.o Bella Ramsey and they'll Gadot every time, but give them a choice between 40 y.o Gadot & 20 y.o Gadot and thr 20 y.o Gadot will win. It mostly wont be 50 year old guys going for 20 year old girls but it will be 50 year old…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 05:24 PM
1	Men need to learn to be happy being single That’s something that can’t be explain in a Reddit comment But you know so you must be able to explain it. But it must be true or all people that were unhappy would die unhappy or get pulled out of it by luck Or they're learning to cope with being unhappy, or they're solving whatever external issue is making them unhappy, like not having a partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 01:44 PM
2	Men need to learn to be happy being single So what do you have control over? Well that's a philosophical question for another time. And how do you explain the gazillions of people that have wives and are still unhappy? Oh wait. You can’t. https://ktla.com/news/nexstar-media-wire/are-married-couples-happier-than-singles-heres-what-the-research-says/ Married people, particularly those aged 25 to 50, consistently reported higher levels of well-being compared to singles, regardless of race, age, and gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 01:12 PM
1	Men need to learn to be happy being single I didnt say it wasnt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 12:58 PM
4	Men need to learn to be happy being single Dont be silly of course its not. Thats the dumbest thong Ive ever heard. Thats just nonsense pseudo philosophy. Think about how many millions of people there are in the world who are unhappy and depressed and all the ecpert psychologists and phsycistrists who've spent their lives trying to figure out how to cure them and you can just spout some trite nonsense and it'll all go away.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 12:56 PM
7	Men need to learn to be happy being single Brilliant. Well done. You've just solved depression.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 12:50 PM
2	Men need to learn to be happy being single How?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 12:28 PM
28	Men need to learn to be happy being single The single women being the happiest thing has been debunked. Asking people to learn to be happy is ridiculous, its not something people have control over, what you're asking people to do is to cope with bring umhappy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 12:06 PM
1	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman So a 20 year old can leave home, join the army, have children, have an onlyfans, have a car and whatever else but isn't mature enough to decide who they want to have a relationship with? But here's an idea: Why don't we just let consenting adults relationships be their own business?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 01:40 AM
1	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman If you have 10 relatiobships odds are that 1 of them will have an age gap that big. I have not noticed an obession with that kind of from men but I have noticed an obsessive hatred of them from women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 01:43 PM
5	Q4M: What goes through your mind when you hear "The sexiest thing a man can do is XYZ"? I imagine a obese antisocial neckbeard reading 'rolling up his sleeves' on reddit and then spending his days rolling up his sleeves around attractive women thinking that will make them overlook his gut and body odour.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 07:34 AM
1	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman 10% is still statistically significant	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 01:48 AM
1	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman They didn't care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 12:59 PM
2	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman Do you have some evidence to back up your claims? Are you saying allll those hot yong women dating & marrying rich & famous men just have daddy issues?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 12:44 PM
1	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman We were together 2 years	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 12:36 PM
1	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman Its amazing when you consider we're a quarter of the way done with the 21st century and people still have the right to judge other people's relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 12:36 PM
1	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman Or its just that two people are attracted to each other and some people cant deal with that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 12:32 PM
0	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman She's gone to another country to do a masters and I think she's planning on staying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 12:31 PM
1	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman Ive no idea who they were going out with before that age. So you agree that its not age, its attractiveness thats the factor?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 12:29 PM
1	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman I can assure you that aside from not being bald or overweight there is nothing unusual about me whatsoever. And any man can not be fat so if thats all that it takes any man can get a younger girl	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 12:28 PM
-2	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman I'm not fat or bald but I don't think I'm anything special. I'm a reasonably average well maintained man in his 40s. Most of the guys I know who are my age are not fat or bald either. My point is that the idea that younger women don't like older men is just not true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 11:19 AM
1	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman 10% of US couple in the US have an age gap of ten years or more. Its noit the norm, but its not that unusual either. You're saying the guys you know didn't get married until they were over 35 years old? I'm saying the guys I know who met their partner after about the age of 35 are almost all 10+ years older than their partner. They generally don't. Exactly so I don't understand the point being made. You're saying that women don't like unattractive men. So they must like attractive men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 11:14 AM
-2	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman My ex was 22 and I was 40 when we got together. But believe whatever you want to believe if it makes you happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 10:34 AM
1	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman What if he's not fat & balding? And what if he's young & balding?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 10:05 AM
2	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman They don't and none of this matters anyway because young women want young men. Not some fat, bald, man in his 40s, with ed and no stamina. That was the point I was disagreeing with, nothing else. And it sounds like you agree with me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 10:04 AM
2	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman There you go, you said it yourself. Looks matter more to men than women, and since people lose their looks as they get older men will tend to go for younger women as they get older. And the guys who can get younger women will, and the guys who cant will be left over for older women. And you seem to think you'll be fine getting a guy 10 years younger than you but a man cant do the same thing, despite, in your own words: men are more visually orientated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 09:17 AM
-2	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman ....and why would they have less options? ...think it though....	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 08:40 AM
-2	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman I know loads of couples like that. I mean almost every single guy I know who got a wife or girlfriend over the age of about 35 is with a girl at least 10 years younger than him. And you didnt answer my question: If young women dont want fat, balding older men why would older women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 08:16 AM
-4	Women should not complain about being left for younger woman I'm not fat or balding, but I am in my 40s and I've never been out with a woman over 30. If a man is attractive to a 40 year old woman why wouldnt he be attractive to a 20 year old woman? But believe whatever you want if it makes you happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/24 07:23 AM
–	I think women could possibly be socialized to be more willing to date shy guys. Its not morally stignatised now unless you're being about it. Most women I know conplain that men dont approach them anymore	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 08:38 PM
–	I think women could possibly be socialized to be more willing to date shy guys. Its not working for increasing amounts of men because increasing amounts of men are unsociable. If you cant convince shy men to approach women you will not be able to convince women to approach men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 07:17 PM
–	I think women could possibly be socialized to be more willing to date shy guys. Why not just socislise shu guys to be more sociable?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 03:18 PM
6	Does Pete Davidson prove that size actually does matter? Men would love it to be anything other than theit dick. I agree though, there are plenty of other guys like him. Russel Brand was fucking everything he could back in the day, Leo D Caprio looks like an onion and he only dates supermodels half his age, plenty of guys do that. Most men are so focused on physical attraction that they cant comprehend that women are attracted to non-physical things	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/24 01:01 PM
1	If women are hypergamous by nature, then why are there so many women in society who do not 'Date Up' Im going to be honest here mate but Im having trouble taking anything setiously from a guy called goodgoy6969 and a comment history full of redpill stuff	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 11:57 PM
1	If women are hypergamous by nature, then why are there so many women in society who do not 'Date Up' You're probably not as much as you think	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 11:37 PM
0	If women are hypergamous by nature, then why are there so many women in society who do not 'Date Up' I think hypergamy means equal or higher status, not just higher status.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 07:59 AM
-1	Older men have no incentive to improve themselves for older women who are "tired of their bullshit".. Yep, me and just coincidentally all those billionaires, movies stars and celebrities. Its just a massive coincidence. Our results show that age preferences essentially shift with age, but in different ways for men and women: Whereas men increasingly prefer younger women as they age, women’s age preferences become increasingly diverse. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/283454064_The_Gendered_Dynamics_of_Age_Preferences_-_Empirical_Evidence_from_Online_Dating	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 12:19 AM
-1	Older men have no incentive to improve themselves for older women who are "tired of their bullshit".. Well its 1 in 10. Its not that small of a percentage, and as men get older they will start going for younger women. Older guys don’t have the option to date 21yr olds because statistically women prefer men 2-3 yrs older and this is also the general age gaps within relationships. I mean the average 40 y.o guy might not be able to get a 21 y.o gf, but he's not chasing 40 y.o women either. Women have to deal with the reality of this eventually. The reason why most relationships have a small age gap…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 03:29 PM
-2	Older men have no incentive to improve themselves for older women who are "tired of their bullshit".. This is provably untrue, about 10% of relationships have an age gap of 10+ years and a lot more if you include homosexual couples.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 03:00 PM
–	The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generations That's only true in countries where there is no welfare for the old, even in countries with generous state pensions poorer people have more children than wealthier people. In case its not lack of money that's stopping people having children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/24 01:04 AM
–	The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generations You're assuming your 'right person' wants you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 11:24 PM
–	The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generations This is provably untrue and it annoys me that people keep claiming things like this. Fertility has a negative correlation with wealth. In any society the people with less money have more children, younger than the wealthier people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 04:20 PM
1	Fairness/equality if the dating landscape could only exist if the vast majority of women’s life’s were worse if single. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/happy-together/202402/the-benefits-of-long-term-intimate-connections You're assuming that they are happier	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 10:26 PM
7	Men complaining in a free market where nature chooses will only fall on deaf ears Ive found that women are far worse at dealing with the idea that dating and relationships are a free market than men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 05:36 AM
4	Men complaining in a free market where nature chooses will only fall on deaf ears Why not?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 04:50 AM
5	Men complaining in a free market where nature chooses will only fall on deaf ears Im not sure what your point is	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 04:44 AM
33	Men complaining in a free market where nature chooses will only fall on deaf ears I mean I agree with you, but do you not think exactly the same thing is true for women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 11:38 PM
6	[35-F] Don't dare to ask this post-wall russian gem to pay half of the bill. You will miss the opportunity of your life. Don't be asshole and man-up, you White Knight. Remember to message first, she's special! It tends to be like that in Asia as well. Anywhere outside of the western world really.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	02/07/19 03:41 PM
16	[35-F] Don't dare to ask this post-wall russian gem to pay half of the bill. You will miss the opportunity of your life. Don't be asshole and man-up, you White Knight. Remember to message first, she's special! Yeah, this is just the culture in Russia & Eastern Europe; the man pays for everything but the woman takes care of the house and does the cooking and stuff. You might think that it’s old fashioned but it’s not unfair. And honestly, where else are you going to meet a 35 year old woman that looks that good?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	02/07/19 09:15 AM
4	[28F] "I'm 5 months pregnant with my first child. Looking for a nice guy who respects and adores women, is romantic, goal-oriented, goes to church, and is a great lover in every way." With people like this I really feel sorry for their children. They have absolutely no idea what pregnancy or having a child involves. This woman's body is about to go into open revolt against her for the next four months and then she's only going to be sleeping three hours a night for the next year or two after that. If she thinks she can date anyone she's either inhuman or completely delusional.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	13/08/18 09:06 PM
24	[25F] "Just got out of a 3 month abusive relationship but it was over in my heart long before we broke up. I am looking to settle down. Get a house together and get married. I am a big girl so only guys who like BBW. I am not employed I am on a permanent disability pension as I cannot work." I’m guessing she hasn’t actually met many Asian, Korean or Japanese men.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	05/07/18 05:23 PM
4	I'll Just Leave this here. Have at It! If you have a relationship with someone who has young children you’re taking on the children as well, that’s just inevitable. Also, after ten kids her body is going is going to be wrecked. If it was your own kids that’s fine because you kind of did it, but why would anyone want a women with a sagging belly and miles of stretch marks because of someone else’s kids?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	01/07/18 03:33 PM
4	I'll Just Leave this here. Have at It! You’d think anyone who is about to have child would have more important things going on with in their lives than looking for a date. Because, y’know, they’re about to have a child	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	01/07/18 03:28 PM
27	Reminder: Women that are lonely in their 40's, were not lonely in their 20's. How did they react? I was out with some female friends a while back and the conversation got around the deal breakers & deal makers for women, and it was everything you’d expect, which was fine. And then I told them that dealbreakers for me were; single mothers, and that was fine, fat girls, which wasn’t so fine (‘What’s fat? Who’s fat? Fat is just a social construct, can’t you handle a real woman? Why would you want to go out with skeletor?’ etc.). Then I told I didn’t go out with women over 30…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	28/06/18 05:23 PM
26	Reminder: Women that are lonely in their 40's, were not lonely in their 20's. Oh fuck, if you ever want to see some fireworks tell a group of who are over 30 that you don’t go out with women over 30.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	28/06/18 04:29 PM
36	Reminder: Women that are lonely in their 40's, were not lonely in their 20's. I always wonder if women realise how much their looks go when they hit their thirties. I know women like this in their mid-thirties and I don't think they realise that men their age are all chasing women 10 years younger than them.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	28/06/18 01:37 PM
43	Reminder: Women that are lonely in their 40's, were not lonely in their 20's. Sales of chocolate.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	28/06/18 01:32 PM
2	"I'm finally ready to settle down." It seems to, I reset it to 18-30 and noticed a drop in the amount of matches I got, then I maxed it out again and got a lot more. What’s interesting is that some people use the paid service to hide their age, but the algorithm still puts them on the same bracket as their age group. So if a 40 year old pays to hide their age they still don’t appear in the under 40 group. I realised this because the only people who hide their age are over 40. I’m pretty sure the algorithm only gives you one match …	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	23/06/18 06:18 PM
23	"I'm finally ready to settle down." I have mine maxed out because the algorithm works by placing the profiles that are right swiped the most at the top of the stack, so my theory is that the more women who see me, the more women who right swipe me, the more who I want to see me will see me. But yeah, I have to work through a lot of desperate 30/40/50 year old women. Someone needs to tell these women that if you’re 40 years old and searching for a husband on tinder you’ve really fucked up your life somewhere.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	22/06/18 10:27 PM
7	This image slide is surprisingly good! Even the music goes with it well. It needs more fat orange girls. People who put pictures of their kids in their dating profiles creep me out, I don't understand why they feel the need to do it. If you want people to k ow you have kids just put it in the bio.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	18/03/18 07:39 AM
8	[18F] "I'm pregnant and want a respectful man who is kind-hearted and a family man." What the fuck is going on in people's heads when they're trying to date while pregnant? Dos it not occur to them that they might have other priorities?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	12/12/17 09:11 AM
9	Pregnant, Two Kids, Looking for her White Knight Why is she showing a picture of her foot?	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	02/12/17 06:39 AM
9	[24F] "Looking for a man who knows how to treat a pregnant woman." To be fair a lot of people who are that fat claim to be 'average'.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	21/11/17 01:49 AM
8	[24F] "Looking for a man who knows how to treat a pregnant woman." Like an obstetrician maybe? I don't understand this thing with women looking for new boyfriends while pregnant, you'd think they'd have more important things to think about.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	21/11/17 01:48 AM
1	I don't fucking understand what to talk to girls about Talk about yourself. Women want men of status, men of status are used to having people interested in them and hanging off their every word. But again, what you're saying isn't as important as how you say it.	/r/seduction	14/11/15 08:10 PM
1	24 years old and going on my first date ever. What are some things I should know? Smile. Eye contact. Be prepared to talk a lot, particularly about yourself: You're interesting and people want to know about you. Tease her.	/r/seduction	29/10/15 08:43 PM
4	Smiling makes men more attractive as husbands -- but not as hook ups You just have to smile with half your mouth, that way you'll be irresistible, like this guy.	/r/seduction	27/10/15 11:37 PM
53	What Do You Usually Text Girls the Day After Sex for the First Time? Because My beer goggles have fallen off.	/r/seduction	24/10/15 08:03 PM
5	What Do You Usually Text Girls the Day After Sex for the First Time? I'm usually avoiding their texts to be honest.	/r/seduction	24/10/15 07:38 PM
2	What are some fun games to play with a girl as you're trying to escalate and build rapport/attraction? Tell her you can move a glass/pen/whatever without touching it. Put whatever it is down on the table and tell her that first thing is that she has to pick it up. When (if) she does you've won. Usually works best when they've had a few drinks, I haven't seen many sober people fall for it.	/r/seduction	11/10/15 02:10 PM
1	How can a 36 year- old, Single father learn pickup. Daycare, playgrounds, kids toy stores. Probably don't want to hang around those places telling people you're there to pick up hotties though.	/r/seduction	10/09/15 06:35 PM
-2	What Makes A Woman Chase You? I think it's when she perceives that he'll be a good partner, as some people put it: has a high Survive and Replicate value. I've heard it said that there are social tricks you can do that have the same effect. There might be something you're naturally doing that makes women like you.	/r/seduction	07/09/15 11:23 PM
1	What Makes A Woman Chase You? You're either very good looking or you've caused them to invest in you.	/r/seduction	07/09/15 10:14 PM
2	Mark Manson says you won't have much luck going outside of your "demographic." Have you guys found this to be true? There's a lot of evidence that people are attracted to people like themselves, then again you can use that to your advantage 'be the person you want to be with' and all that.	/r/seduction	01/09/15 12:26 PM
2	What else can I try to improve my appearance? Make you're skin healthier, find a haircut that suits you, tow some interesting facial hair.	/r/seduction	23/08/15 08:45 PM
2	What to do about girls who actually have boyfriends? I'm going to be hated for this, but, if she's going to cheat with you she's going to cheat, so either fuck her or tell her boyfriend. Or both. Don't get serious with her though because if she's going to cheat on him she'll cheat on you too.	/r/seduction	17/08/15 09:45 PM
1	30 years of loneliness Have you read The Game? Style was around 30 when he was introduced to pick up and look what happened to him. I honestly think it's when you're at breaking point that you start to see changes in yourself, don't give up.	/r/seduction	15/08/15 11:51 PM
-1	Guys with funky schedules/work all the time. Where and when do you go out to game? Seconded. Also girls work with.	/r/seduction	29/07/15 10:05 PM
1	What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say") What are you interested in? Whatever it is, talk about it: 'Do you like X' 'Uhhh, I don't know' 'Yeah the thing about X is that in some ways it's better than Y but it can'r beat Z and blah blah blah' With small talk it doesn't matter that much what you say as long as you're saying it confidently and holding her attention.	/r/seduction	22/06/15 09:32 PM
2	K-closed a girl in my social circle, not sure how to behave next time. This. Play it cool, men and women kiss all time, women kiss you all the time because you're so awesome that's what you need her to believe.	/r/seduction	21/06/15 01:55 PM
2	18yo kissless virgin here. Were any of you guys ever in my shoes? What's your story? Any advice? There's nothing wrong with having standards but remember what you think may be being picky may actually be fear of rejection.	/r/seduction	28/05/15 01:55 PM
1	"Making fun" of someone It's a form of negging. Teasing is the easiest way to do it.	/r/seduction	15/05/15 04:34 PM
9	The lessons I learned trying to help my female friend pickup a quality man My female friend is really attractive. Solid 9. I son't think you're the best judge of that. Basically you're just saying that you're friend sucks at picking up men but that's all the guys fault?	/r/seduction	08/01/15 01:02 AM
2	"Start making yourself into the type of person people want to be around" I was going to suggest meetup. Find something social and fun to do with other people, if you're worried about meeting people just be honest with them, tell them you have social anxiety and you're trying to be ore sociable and meet people. As long as you're honest people are a lot more accepting than you think.	/r/seduction	29/12/14 12:15 PM
1	Why do my friends and co-workers think I'm a man whore? I'm kind of a huge geek. Sounds like you're doing it right, well done bro.	/r/seduction	11/12/14 03:33 PM
1	How much does having money/being highly paid help you get more beautiful women? I think it helps with girls looking for relationships but not so much with casual things, you have to play up the 'exciting action man' persona for that.	/r/seduction	11/12/14 04:41 AM
9	Looking for a wingman in Bangkok Permanently, I live here.	/r/seduction	10/12/14 06:03 PM
1	Sedditor Locator 2014. Find awesome buddies for sarging! Thailand	/r/seduction	10/12/14 03:56 PM
3	is it bad if your standards are high and you only approach the hottest girls? If you're a virgin you probably need to drop your standards just to get it out of the way. BUT, you should generally only be going for 7's and above. To me that's the whole point. I can pick up ugly girls any time I want, but I want to have the skills to do something better.	/r/seduction	10/12/14 03:52 PM
3	I have no club game. At one point one of the more attractive ones just walked up and stood there facing me. But she didn’t dance or move. Where you in front of the bar? Seriously why not just smile and say hi?	/r/seduction	09/12/14 01:06 PM
2	You made me realized I was so wrong! Dude, you pretty just described my life as well. I couldn't understand why I kept failing in relationships and getting rejected when I was trying so hard with women, I was the fucking archetypal nice guy getting dumped for the jerk, until I started learning about PU.	/r/seduction	08/12/14 04:42 PM
18	You made me realized I was so wrong! It's being vulnerable without appearing weak or needy that's the trick.	/r/seduction	08/12/14 04:40 PM
3	Having trouble keeping girls interested after closing Sounds like you're doing it right already. Have you tried just giving it some time then calling a girl out of the blue and suggesting you hang out again?	/r/seduction	08/12/14 04:28 AM
1	What do you guys do on day 2? Coffee and movie. Drinks and clubbing. Cook for her at my place. Maybe take her climbing for 4. If I can convince her, if not just repeat 2 & 3 until I get somewhere or I give up,".	/r/seduction	08/12/14 04:26 AM
0	Misinterpreting a Shit Test I've never come across that, girls always ask me if I've got a girlfriend and I always treat it as a shit test, I never give a straight answer and they never get pissed. You could do a bit of both; 'no, are you seeing other girls?' Or something.	/r/seduction	06/12/14 06:16 AM
1	Why is it a bad thing to be considered friend zoned? If you want it to be more than friendship it feels like you're being rejected, like you're not good enough for her. I've got a lot of female friends but they're women I've never tried or wanted to have a sexual relationship with. If I've tried to pick up a woman and she's friend zoned me I've just dropped her.	/r/seduction	05/12/14 01:03 PM
1	How the hell do I flirt??? I'm not great but gently teasing girls works well, just being generally playful. And smile like a motherfucker.	/r/seduction	05/12/14 12:26 PM
3	How do I friendzone a girl? You want to get into the friendzone? I just hang out with them without making any moves. Don't hint that you're not into them or disqualify them cos that might make them like you, just don't show any interest other than being friendly. I have a few female friends but they're all women that I'm not interested in sexually, so I guess you need to look for girls that you want to fuck under any circumstances.	/r/seduction	05/12/14 07:36 AM
1	"What do you do?" 'I'm a cheese-monger, I make cheese.' 'Bullshit!' 'It's true, I studied Cheese making in Stuttgart for three years now I produce my own hand made Cheddar.' 'What...really?' 'No, I'm just messing with you. I'm really a (whatever), but it's my ambition to be a cheese-monger.' (with a smile). I do something along those lines.	/r/seduction	02/12/14 03:06 PM
1	How to compliment a girl? Go for their insecurities, the reason we like compliments is because they make us feel better about our perceived flaws. 9/10 in women this about their looks but that only works once their defenses are down so figure out something less obvious; tell a shy girl how much everyone likes her, tell a ditzy blonde that you think she's smarter than she lets people think.	/r/seduction	02/12/14 02:56 PM
1	Keeping in touch after tinder? I don't believe waiting for a month and then texting/calling her is a good idea. It's a better idea than calling and texting someone you don't obsessively. Maybe just text her occasionally telling her what you're doing, not just asking her how she's doing. Be patient.	/r/seduction	02/12/14 01:48 PM
1	Had the guts to finally ask her on a date only to be rejected. Might be worth one more try, give it some time and then get in touch and ask her when she's free and tell her 'We should do X then'. If she bails on you again let it go and find another girl.	/r/seduction	01/12/14 03:19 PM
1	Best way to respond to "you're going to have to work harder than that" when asking for a girl's number? 'Give me a chance and I will' or something like that.	/r/seduction	29/11/14 10:24 AM
1	A quick video I thought you'd like Now I've had time to watch it a few times in detail this is what I've noticed; Phillipa is obviously the target, Alex and Michelle are the pawns. He quickly establishes himself as the centre of attention by being very talkative and making lots of hand movements, also by giving the women compliments. Even though they're brushed off women always love compliments and he's able to do it with humour that establishes a rapport and relaxes them. The one key thing that he starts doing is giving out plea…	/r/seduction	12/11/14 03:46 PM
4	I'm unhappy with the quality of girls I'm spending my time with It sounds like you're fucking up because you don't think your worth high level women. Next time you're in that situation why not try telling yourself you're not going to kiss, fuck or do anything else with those women no matter what happens, you're just there to have fun and get to know people. Maybe it'll make you more comfortable around women like that.	/r/seduction	12/11/14 03:14 PM
1	Do any of you see yourselves getting married? One day I'd like to be married with kids, although I'm not in a rush. If I'm going to live until I'm 80 and still firing live rounds till I'm 60 I don't see the point in hurrying things.	/r/seduction	12/11/14 02:58 PM
4	What's your line or trick to find out if she has a boyfriend? This. If she wants you to know she's attached she'll tell you.	/r/seduction	08/11/14 02:48 PM
3	Tinder help? Why is this so difficult? I've currently got 66 matches and you've just made me a very happy man.	/r/seduction	25/10/14 03:19 PM
1	Used to have game, lost it. I had something similar happen to me, only I got fat and lost all of my confidence with women. It's weird how it's come back since I've made the effort get back in the game though, it's like muscle memory, once I'm back in the same situations I can kind of figure my way through again.	/r/seduction	20/10/14 07:54 PM
2	Being inexperienced sexually with an experienced other. How to do it? Just tell her, I don't think it'll be as much of a thing you think it is.	/r/seduction	20/10/14 07:50 PM
1	When girls become flustered and look away I would guess it means she's either uncomfortable with you or wants to hide her true feelings. If she's looking down it's a sign of submission, is there anything else you notice about their body language?	/r/seduction	17/10/14 05:31 PM
1	Why do I end up falling for taken men? I'm guessing you're talking about a specific person here.	/r/seduction	17/10/14 05:01 PM
2	Why do I end up falling for taken men? They're probably not flirting with you as much as you think, but you're just being more open and receptive to them. In my experience it's usually the more risk-averse girls who want the already taken men simply because single men are kind of untested.	/r/seduction	17/10/14 03:59 PM
7	Why do I end up falling for taken men? Pre-selection, someone else has chosen them so that proves they must be worth being with.	/r/seduction	17/10/14 05:28 AM