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| 1 | Struggling with depressionGo see a doctor and/or counsellor. Then take small daily steps to get your life back on track. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/11/21 07:15 PM |
| 5 | How do you find the good attorney?Reviews can help, but are not foolproof. At a minimum, they might let you know who to avoid. Another review site is: https://www.lawyerratingz.com/ There are also some community Facebook groups where people ask about recommendations for family lawyers. Most lawyers now charge a consult fee to see them. Sucks to drop $300 or $400 to find out they are not someone that you want to retain. Hate to say it, but generally avoid the new ones (less than 3 to 5 years experience). Avoid the ones with Cheez… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/21 07:37 PM |
| 3 | Alimony/child support as lump sum vs. monthlyYes, a lump sum payout is usually less in total than ongoing regular payments. Due to: Time value of money Risk/Certainty. What if you get sick and/or lose your job, or even die? Tax implications in some jurisdictions. Lump sums may be treated differently than ongoing payments. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/21 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Trial Separation - Any Experience/Rules/Advice?If you are going to to a trial separation, see a lawyer first as the others have said. Consider renting an apartment and you both agree to alternate weeks staying there and in the family home. Make the switch on a Monday through Thursday. Not on the weekend. Neither of you should move out exclusively until the dust settles, | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/21 07:37 PM |
| 4 | What's worth fighting for when it comes to finances in a separationDid she stay at home while working part time to take care of the girls and look after the household? If she did she may be eligible for a compensatory claim which would make it more difficult for you to stop paying spousal support if her circumstances change, like her re-marrying. Not sure why she is pushing for an earlier separation date. The longer the relationship, the longer the duration of support payments. With your income spread and duration of marriage, and 2 young children, you will lik… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/20 06:13 PM |
| 4 | What's worth fighting for when it comes to finances in a separationDepends what State or province you are in. As well as if either of you gave up career opportunities and if there are kids involved Ultimately each party should figure out the mostly likely outcome if the divorce went to trial, make your arguments for your position and negotiate towards an outcome that avoids trial and a long drawn out process. If you both feel like you lost out in the agreement then it is probably the correct agreement. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/20 04:39 PM |
| 4 | What should a pre nuptial agreement haveIt should have your lawyer's input. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/20 09:47 PM |
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