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Atomic_Thr0away/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:11 AM
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Binge and purge on this!Atomic_Thr0away/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:25 AM
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Proxy Agents. Women are willing (and expect) that someone (male) will do the work for them. Their willingness to have/accept (for free) proxy agents is a huge deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:48 AM
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I didn't read the whole thing but my buddy is being accused of the same shit. He hasn't even been alone with his (now 22 year old) daughter in 15 years. The accusations started when he went to a lawyer (now that the daughter is 22) to end child support. The ex wife is on disability and her children are her income boost. TL:DR, this is basically SURVIVAL MODE for the ex. She's got no skills, no experience. If she looses this support, she's finished. No man would want her. This is survival so they…
/r/MensRights03/07/23 06:09 AM
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Everyone that travels for work is going to be way more tempted and have way more opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:27 AM
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If you've ever bullshitted a man with a "I have a boyfriend" (when you don't), then you're not confrontational. It's pretty easy for women to feel as if they don't mind confrontation at work or in a relationship when she knows she's protected. But in real life, in the wild, if a woman can't say "No thanks, I'm not interested." she's non-confrontational. I don't care about the rationalizations like "I didn't want to hurt his feelings..." "Let him down easy", "he might turn into a stalker" "he doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:32 PM
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It's more about 'confrontation' than communication. Women DO NOT LIKE confrontation. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:05 AM
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women are prey in this world yeesh. Ya know, without the male sex drive, you'd already be dead. It's men's sexual desire that gives you ALL your power. And when you talk about 'prey'... yeah, ask divorced men how they feel. The idea that women don't prey on men is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:09 AM
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Dude... ALL THE FUCKING TIME. This is some deep bible shit but: Isaiah 3:12"As for my people, children are their oppressors, and women rule over them. My people, those who lead you cause you to err, and destroy the way of your paths." Women ABSOLUTELY BELIEVE they SHOULD be in charge of the children. But if men go "Ok women, you're in charge of the children." they lose their fucking minds. Then there's Orwell: "It was always the women, and above all the young ones, who were the most bigoted adhe…
/r/MensRights01/07/23 04:14 AM
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I wish women knew how the word "want" has a huge spectrum. Woman: He wants to fuck me. First, well. duh. But the problem is "how do you quantify 'want'" If I'm walking down the fucking street and someone steps out of the Dairy Queen and goes "Hey, we are giving away free Ice Cream today, do you want one?" Well DAMN, this is my Lucky day. My point being is, that I didn't "WANT" one, but since it's on offer, HELL YEAH. But then there's the days that I really REALLY WANT an Ice Cream. And i will ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:57 AM
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"Fuckzone" omg, it's perfect. It's purgatory. The same purgatory (but opposite) but you get it.
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 12:42 AM
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It's normal for teenage boys to be slightly consumed by the thought of sex, it's not normal for an adult man to be fixated on sex above all else. So many variables in there, things get murky. So teenage boys are normal if they are "slightly" "consumed"... how are people consumed by something but only slightly? Then you move onto adult men and say it's not normal to be "fixated" on sex "above all else"... It's not normal to be fixated/consumed by ANY SINGLE THING, including sex. Yeesh, that's pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:10 AM
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Due to a female's hypergamous nature she chooses a mate that is of higher socioeconomic status than she is. So when they break up (and if there is no transfer of wealth from him to her) then of course she's at a higher risk of poverty. If she worked at the coffee shop and married an electrician, well yeah, she probably only has the skills to go back to the coffee shop. Unless of course she can get a hold of the pawns... er... I mean the kids, and them for resource extraction. Novel idea eh? /S
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:47 PM
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Yeah, and ya know, it seems pretty dam narcissistic to believe we "need" to have children. This isn't a 'climate change' or 'too many people' argument. Why does Earth need people at all? There are lots of other planets out there with no life at all. They seem to be doing just fine. lol Anyway, my main point here is that any woman that's like "well, we make the babies and without us the human race would die off"... um, yeah, ok. But why does that even fucking matter? But the real narcissism comes…
/r/AllPillDebate25/06/23 03:26 AM

Hummmm... gee... I wonder... now this might sound kinda crazy... but imagine if there was this thing that could legally bind people together. Ya know, both people could agree to it and then announce it in front of all their friends and family and sign this legal document that basically says "I'm not going anywhere and neither can you" so that there's no way someone can be like "he wanted me to have a kid and said he'd stick around, he's a deadbeat liar"... Oh wait, there is, it's called marriage…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:51 AM
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However, the upsides to women living in a world like this would far outweigh this single downside. HA. Women's super power over men is sex. If men didn't need women for sex, omg, it would be bad. Yeah, it would have been a hell of a lot worse before the modern era. Way back, women's only system of barter for male protection and provision was sex. Today, well... Women think they don't need men... until the Air Conditioning goes off. I get it, the battle of the sexes has always pretty much come do…
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 11:34 PM
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At 2:45 he/she says she wants kids of her own... HOW THE HELL do they believe this will happen? Are they really not 'educated' on this? Or is the delusion go grand they think they can 'wish it' ...er... "manifest" it into reality?
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 09:40 PM
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Swiping left or right on a dating app is not the way they're going to answer a survey. Yeesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 11:47 PM
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Yeah, when women are ahead all of a sudden everyone's a conservative "hey hey, slow down there bud.... "
/r/MensRights21/06/23 07:49 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:04 AM
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Rising childcare costs have forced some women out of work as they cannot afford to. Can't afford to work? Oh I see... these are women living on the dole and child support and/or maybe disability... and "can't afford to work because of childcare costs" is a FANTASTIC way to, once again claim victim for her and the child and make everyone feel terrible because of the "hungry children" when it's like... "um... ok, don't have kids then." REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE Yeah, we get it, it's 'too late' …
/r/MensRights20/06/23 11:30 PM
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I'd assume the comment wasn't directed at you. It's more for the crowd of lurkers. Or, /u/63daddy doesn't know that /s (sarcasm) means. Meh.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 11:23 PM
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Doesn't matter. When people go "eww" (disgust response) it's an instinct and instincts are a reaction and a feeling, sometimes called a 'gut feeling', they aren't thought out processes. We can think about them later and why we felt a certain way but at the end of the day the disgust response is way faster at protecting us from contamination than out rational brain. Our lizard brain goes "HIS IS A CONTAMINATION RISK - AVOID CONTAMINATION!" and we obey. When you see a pile of dog shit, you go "eww…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:09 PM
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Oh absolutely, and women love the Dark Triad in men. I mean hey, CLUSTER B can be FUN. It's a rollercoaster of drama which is really just a lot of push-pull, hot sex, not knowing 'where this it going'... I'm kinda lucky, I've only really had a little involvement with these girls. They don't like me much because I am too much 'order' and they're too much 'chaos'. And they know they can't 'get away' with their shit. I can detect a BPD pretty frigging quick. Don't get me wrong, quite often I'm like…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:39 AM
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These types of assertions always include some sort of vague but insinuated passive aggressive kinda shit like... What is overly? Please, define it for me? Is there an amount that is normal? And how do you define that? Is it purely subjective? Is it relative to something else we can compare it to? What about "fixated"? Similar to above, how do you determine what it is a "fixation" vs I dunno, a general curiosity and or concern? Notice how both of the above are have setup the conclusion because if…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:11 PM
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Um yes. Why is that so hard to believe? Teens do even dumber shit than that actually. Here we being the micro/macro type argument. This is what you're going to do the whole time to feel like you're making good arguments, but you're not smart, just ambitions with your arguing. So yeah, people do dumb shit when they're young, and they do dumb shit when there's older too. And people will usually keep doing dumb shit as long as it feels good and or profits them in some way even if it's just attentio…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:48 PM
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I work for a small trucking company. The core employees are men that drive trucks. And yeah, every year we have a 'safety meeting' and the 2 girls in the office (owners wife 'HR'; and an administrative assistant). They put together the power-points and they also bring the coffee and doughnuts. And I promise you, I buy and use more cleaning supplies in my truck in a month than they do all year. It's like, ok, if the idea of cleaning is so oppressive, well fuck, make someone else clean my truck? N…
/r/MensRights18/06/23 03:03 AM
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As far as I know, Becky and Stacy are pretty much interchangeable. They are hot girls with lots of options that chase Chad/Alpha. In the teen angst movies she was the hot cheerleader that dated the Jocks. I've never heard noodlewhore either but it's apparently an Asian woman. Since the name is a lot harsher than 'Becky' or 'Stacy', I imagine it's an average Asian woman that still rejects most men and chases Chad.
/r/MensRights16/06/23 03:13 AM
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Well, because you can and probably should ave looked up some information before entering a debate forum and questioning my position on it. Like, just a cursory web search can find you this shit. So, although you might have just been ignorant about it, I presume you're being disingenuous when I guess you're just 'low effort'. We don't really care about a woman's career or the finances or status it beings because we do not have access to it. Furthermore, due to hypergamy, high earning women are on…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:07 PM
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Poorly written title. Men were told as boys "just be yourself" and "there's someone for everyone"... THAT is what bred the idea that we'd all get one. I mean, the math worked out since there are pretty much even numbers of men to women. But no one told us about hypergamy. Women don't want to admit it. It would make them look bad. So, they tell their sons a bullshit fairytale and wash their hands of it. Single mothers make blue pill simp's and it's all for selfish reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:57 PM
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"I was manipulated!" How far are we really going to let this victim shit go? Like, really, some 18 year old doesn't understand that taking your clothes off and fucking in front of a camera for cash is, well, let's say "probably not a good idea." and "might come with some unintended consequences?" It's amazing how stupid women are willing to lead us to believe they are to avoid accountability. TEMPTATION is NOT MANIPULATION. And the TEMPTER isn't the one with the problem (as long as it's legal). …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:35 PM
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Always the hero or the victim; never the villain. Pure narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:29 PM
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Came to say pretty much the same thing. Since fucking when is calling someone names a hate crime? They use the example of "Becky", yeesh this is just a shortcut that gives people a quick mental image of the person being described. Is "noodlewhore" a bit ridiculous? Sure, but what about "Karen"? When someone says "There was this karen" we can all get a quick mental image of who we're talking about (usually a privileged/entitled white middle aged woman that has been pretty well protected and taken…
/r/MensRights15/06/23 06:02 PM

I don't agree with this either. How will a woman not need a career if she "taps out early" can you explain this? Who is the hypothetical man she is "tapping out" for? Where is she meeting him? I refuse to believe any woman has never had some sweet guy that was in love with her. What a pile of garbage. You may not have noticed, but he was there. He was the guy that rode his bike past your house. He helped with homework. He asked (or wanted to ask) you to the dance. You remember. Use the force. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:47 AM

It feels like it's more of a result of just being defensive - they feel personally attacked, and so they knee-jerk with personal reply. Winner winner chicken dinner. But of course, they say "you" have a (shuffles cards) psychological malfunction/defect. Or... wait for it, just "can't get laid." Women love the pop-psychology bullshit almost as much as "Well, we weren't compatible, I am a Virgo and he's... {whatever}"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:50 AM
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Proof? OMG, how disingenuous. Look, if women keep screaming about the pay gap - who the hell do you think is paying the majority of the bills in relationships? How can you come on PPD? Is this your first day on earth? Ok, yes this SOURCE is from AdviceForMen, but I'm using it because it's taking the reported data and slicing through all of its obfuscation and boiling it down. If you want the 'real data' it's out there. And sure, you can say "well this is new zealand" all day. It's ALL western "p…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:36 AM
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Ok ok, he wasn't writing a book/thesis. It should have said that "pretty girls don't THINK they need careers", and a lot don't actually "need" a career AS LONG AS THEY TAP OUT EARLY....otherwise yeah, she will find herself at the mercy of some beta bux (we all have a boss) and she'll resent him.. And BTW, this whole idea that women are scared to 'settle' because 'what if it doesn't work out' is crazy... You get HALF plus the kids. The whole system is setup that women can't fail unless.... UNLESS…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:29 AM
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DAMN that guy nailed it. No wonder they gave him 90 days - the truth will cost you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:14 AM
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Although there are women out there that would be overt and go after exactly what they want, it's not typical. And even when they do 'approach' it's not like a man. A man will be like "Hey, I saw you over here and thought I could buy you a drink" or something like that - basically, there are words involved and the intent is pretty much overt, in other words, there's not a lot of room for plausible deniability. Women on the other hand love plausible deniability. So, women send signals. Maybe she's…
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 04:45 PM
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This is my take on it. I had a FTM living in my building. I never would have guessed by looking at him but he loved telling everyone, he enjoyed the attention of telling his harrowing story of everything he's been through. Anyway, he did have a very attractive gf. However, I started to get the feeling that this girl was a little dumb, a little naive, and probably had this giant heart and may have been with him more out of sympathy than anything else. She was probably the 'rescuer' type. ANYWAY..…
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 03:38 PM
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I do. I'm just so tired of it being the default. Men have been so demoralized. Everything we do that isn't stamped "approved" by women is called toxic. And the only things that are approved by women are things that benefit her or the children. Anything else will be diagnosed as a problem. Golf, beer, video games, porn, motorcycles, cigars - anything a man enjoys that a woman doesn't see value in will eventually become a problem she'll try to 'fix'. And if he doesn't change, then he's a bad guy.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 05:15 PM
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Of course there's a point in telling me. And I'm glad you can walk down the street feeling safe. Great awesome. And I can understand why women might feel less safe. But the ones I'm focusing on are the anxious ones that see r@apists in every bush and every man walking down the street is considered a threat. It really doesn't feel so good on this end. But these types of women justify their generalizations under the cloak of protection.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 01:01 PM
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I didn't see him call YOU names. Seemed like a general announcement to me. But once again, female solipsism is on display. Everything is about you. Hell, even when another woman is called out it seems like women I general feel a disturbance in the force.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 12:57 PM
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Nope. There's nothing we can do about generalizations because it's really pattern recognition. Humans are really good at pattern recognition. It's a lot easier to recognize a lion and determine the dangers based on their patterns of behavior than it is to try and get to know one and see if he's any different. Our brains do this automatically and you can try and fight it all you want and then tell yourself that you're some special virtuous person but you're not. If you're walking down some street…
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 11:53 AM
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Yet another trope. Why the hell would anyone think that getting/having a woman is like a title belt? She wouldn't consider a man that wasn't winning anyway. But apparently, he's not a winner until he's banging a chick? Once again, pre-selection rears it's head. You basically have to get a woman to attract women, but yet women deny this, It's ridiculous. Like, if I'm not walking around with a woman hanging from my penis by her mouth, then I'm a sexless loser. Damn, imagine the narcissism it takes…
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 01:41 AM
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Patriarchy was the compromise. Without it, men will be ruled over by stupid worthless prostitutes Well done. One example, a woman taking a man's name. So she get's access to resources and utility for her and her kids for a frigging lifetime, he get's to put his name on them. Yeesh, omg, the chains....
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 01:32 AM
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We can all be dogs, but I'll be damned if every damn argument/point is met with "men too/women too". That all sounds fine on paper and in an internet forum but it's basically the laziest bullshit argument ever. Like, why even bother saying anything at all? Women can say "Well, I want to meet a man in a public place, because men can be dangerous r@pists" And if someone (especially a man goes) "Women rape too!" It's met with an indignant scoff and "Well, yeah, but WAY WAY less than men." So is it …
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 01:29 AM
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Damn, if you don't start humping (or being horny as fuck and trying desperately to hump) by like 13-15, you're in trouble. Some of the easiest sex was back then because we were all horny kids. And although things get really messy, ya gotta start making a mess young so you can sort it out as you go. I couldn't imagine starting at 23, yeesh. Sorry, I ain't got much advice. But yeah, over protective feminist single mothers (she was essentially a single mother for a long time by the sounds of it) ar…
/r/MensRights11/06/23 06:09 PM

A quality post. I'm not necessarily agreeing with all of it, nor and I trying to challenge it. I did want to make a comment about the divorce rate stats. It was my understanding that the divorce rates were calculated in pretty much the same pedantic way the wage gap was. Wage gap: Take all men, get average salary; take all women, get average salary; find the difference (no need to look any deeper, we found our smoking gun) scream and yell that women are oppressed. I was under the impression that…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:57 PM

Absolutely.... sometimes a decent post comes along in PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:36 PM
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Wow she must be such a joy to be around. Everywhere she looks she sees an oppressed female narrative and therefore some sort of opportunity to break some invisible chains. When she's walking down the street she tells the kids if you step on a crack you break your father's back. And then she passed herself on the back for being a trailblazer! Ugh. Always the hero or the victim; never the villain. Textbook narcissism.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 04:03 PM
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As long as both parties know what the deal is Then all is fair. I'm tired of women painting him as a creep and her as a victim. Angelina Jolie fucking Harvey Weinstein, becoming a huge star, and then claiming he's the creep. RIDICULOUS.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:06 AM
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Oh wow, 99%. Well, since the stats are in (and apparently women can understand them) then you must be right. /s Weird how other stats are dismissed and deflected like the inability to pair bond after just 3 cocks. But nah, that doesn't count, right? /s At best, there's a 50/50 chance that a woman is cock blocking to "protect" the target, and the other 50% is jealousy. But hey, I guess we're all supposed to be fooled by the female' desperate desire to avoid accountability. Listen MEN, "plausible …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:32 AM

I know right? But women (jealous women) can't fucking STAND IT. It's got to be the competition. And I've been noting that the way a lot of women compete is to: create the victim/perpetrator narrative put the target female in the victim role claim to be protecting the target female from that nasty penis-having predator isolate the target female claim to be the hero in the story. keep the target female to herself (of course this removes the target females agency, but that's of no concern the the a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:20 PM

CimZim She's pretty cool. I'm glad she's got a decent reputation here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:08 PM

I'm not reading that novel. Triggered much? Wow, you must be mad writing all that. ha, loser incel with nothing better to do. !That's pretty much the response I get when I put in a high effort post/comment, so there's your equality. !< I'll comment on one thing because you were fair enough to at least explain your fucking position. High effort begets high effort or at least some fucking effort. Jordan Peterson talks about symbols and fantasy archetypes, not scientific work. You are misrepresenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:06 PM
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"I wanna do whatever I wan whenever I want and any problem (no matter how slight) a man has with that is MYSOGYNY!....." But I want a man that does ALL the "traditional male" role stuff. Yeah, no shit honey. I want a 22 year old virgin that is a great cook and wants, so badly, to fuck my brains out that she'll make me perogies and cabbage rolls, takes birth control, and looks at me with the excitement and loyalty of my dead beagle when I have bacon. But apparently I'm the asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 06:27 AM
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You're not gonna expect this, but yeah, you're right. I never paid much attention to psychology. I was a tech in HS and I went into STEM in college and after so many years (decades) of doing what I do, I got sucked in. And after 10 years digging into psychology, i still have no hard answers. It does turn out that men are more interested in things and women are more interested in people. I've rarely ever seen it the other way. And after a decade digging into psychology and RP and related things, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 06:15 AM
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Yeah and then there's the high effort posts that are met with: "Wow, that's long, you must be triggered, I'm not reading that"
/r/AllPillDebate08/06/23 07:12 PM
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Beautifully said. Things run through a woman's mind in this order... Emotions then rationality. For men it's the other way around. Women feel it first. And if it doesn't feel perfectly warm and cozy and comfy, they start getting defensive and angry (by playing the victim) This is why women talk about tone more than the words being said. Women are so much more concerned with etiquette and politeness than men have ever been. Women talk all gentle and cute with babies. And if we speak to women like…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:07 PM
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You really like to drag things to the extreme eh? Although that can be useful to figure out where you land on a spectrum it's really kind of binary and black and white in a debate form and it's not usually coming from a genuine place. I'm offering some other explanations for the way people "sound" through text. There really is nothing more ridiculous and disingenuous then someone replying to someone else's comment with some sort of psychological breakdown on their emotional state instead of addr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:00 PM
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Wow. Killing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:04 PM
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Swallowing the red pill requires going through a phase of anger and confusion and frustration. Nobody learns something or accept something that changes their worldview, without basically going through the stages of grief. Denial anger bargaining depression acceptance. The loudest among the red pill are still in that anger stage. And some people will stay there longer than others. These are the people you're going to hear from the most. Furthermore people vacillate through these stages. Sometimes…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 09:38 AM
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Unfortunately the reality is that this is what it's like dating a woman who is not all that aroused but is maybe (but probably not) considering you for Beta Bux. This means that practically speaking you're not gross. You probably check a ton of boxes. But she doesn't have the feelz n tingles. Women can talk about connection and chemistry all they want. Those are just code words for genuine sexual desire. If she's shopping for men she's going to expect all that crap. And we do it (used to anyway)…
/r/AllPillDebate07/06/23 06:20 PM
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I love the comments below, they handled most of my arguments but I have something to add... CASUAL ≠ PROMISCUOUS. MULTIPLE CASUAL in relatively quick succession = PROMISCUOUS. Look, if a woman wants to hook up with me, no strings, friends with benefits style... yeah, I'm going to wonder how promiscuous she is/has been. Then I have to figure out if it bugs me (disgust response). And I'm allowed to have that. If she's open to banging (or is banging) multiple guys, That just might change my attitud…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:00 AM

LOL, ain't that the truth. It's like those OF or Reddit porn girls going "you like nerdy girls?" because she's got on glasses and probably some other prop/accessory. It's the trope of the 'nerdy' librarian girl that let's down her hair, takes off the glasses and time slows down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:10 PM
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Nope. The red pill is a praxology. it is studying women and their behaviors. It exposes their behaviors. Some guys use female nature to exploit it to get women. I'm going the other way. My own way. Stardusk (one of The originals) just released a video on this. https://youtu.be/gpK5PZlwhDE Yes there's a lot of juicy, lift bro, make money, get a vasectomy, slay chicks, pursue excellence, kind of stuff out there. But those guys are just choosing how to use the framework that the red pill exposed. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:53 PM
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I can use the red pill foundation in any way I like. It is a tool. It is a predictive framework. And at my age and stage in life, and after everything that I have seen, I'm tapping out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:16 PM
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Men have been viewing porn since they first drew a pair of breasts on a cave wall with charcoal. The anti-porn movement is yet another example of how women and governments try and starve men of what their most basic needs and desires are to get them to work harder (perform tricks for treats). Calling porn a crutch is in the same ballpark as saying "you're a weak man" or "you're not a 'real' man" Men, especially red pilled men, have caught on to the same old guilt and shame tricks employed by nar…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:28 PM
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Women treat men like men treat jobs. As men we know we got to work and we'll take what we can get. Having a job, almost any job, is better than no job. For many reasons, including - women aren't going to date a guy without a job. So there's plenty of reasons for men to have jobs. For women it's more of an option. There are many reasons for this and I'm not going to get into it. Too much to cover. And also it seems that women believe they have more options than men which they usually do (until th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:02 PM
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Once again, if you reverse the sexes, she's be wildly offended and probably call you a creep. Women feel entitled to "creep your facebook" and in this case, post your picture to a facebook page that is essentially like putting you in front of a jury for investigation and intelligence gathering. And is also used as a tool for reputation destruction and gossip. And women justify all this shit as a way of 'protecting' themselves. Men aren't allowed privacy. We must be an open book. At all times we …
/r/MensRights28/05/23 05:21 PM
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I'm gonna chime in here because I have the same preference. And here's why.... I frigging LOVE IT when a woman looks and feels comfortable. On the couch wearing some plaid flannel PJ's... that's a HELL of a lot more sexy to me than, well, pretty much everything else. There's nothing more sexy than a woman that looks like she's just feeling comfortable. I think it comes down to a womans need to feel comfortable and protected/safe and a mans natural desire to provide that to her. "BIG TITTIES" are…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:25 AM
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Women don't tell men why they were rejected. Yeesh, they barely even reject in any real manner. They just expect us to "know" we never had a chance. She can be all "I have a boyfriend" and think that was good enough. But Men, being problem solvers, can think "ok then, this is an obstacle, but if they break up....I have a chance" And women know AND INTEND this. Women HATE closing off options. Me, I love it. It's like that Green Day song (F.O.D) from (1994) before you were born. Yes, that was cond…
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 05:58 AM
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Hey Flashy, it's not always about you. *wink* I saw your /s. I just know there are people that need a little remedial education and your post was my 'jumping off point' Thanks for being my spring board. Send nudes.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 05:47 AM
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Because every woman believes she's a 'nice guy'. They all think they're sweet. Even the most conniving bitch thinks she's an altruist. This is exactly the problem with the 'nice guy' bunt women (generally) don't see it. The red pill totally busted 'nice girls' but they freak the fuck out about it. But 'busting' a 'nice guy', well, they love doing that shit. It's basically the "women are wonderful" effect. Women are perceived to be nice and innocent and gentle FIRST. For men, it's the opposite. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:39 AM
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HA, hey, that's funny. I upvoted when this comment was -5. But for real, there are people that think they are in the top 20 or will make babies in the top 20. Ok, so if everyone thinks theire babies are in the top 20; either the top 20 is expanding (doesn't exist) or, they're fucking delusional. When someone confuses me I ask myself "Are they ignorant or disingenuous" I did that for long enough to realize they are highly correlated. Now, I'm guessing you're a chick (all due respect). But it turn…
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 03:55 AM
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It's weird how when women "can't find something better", it's the worlds problem. I'm at my job, it's tolerable. I've looked, I can't find anything "better".... Am I gonna be in the news now? Or, do I recognize that, hey, I'm doing pretty good and it could be a hell of a lot worse? OF COURSE. So I stay. I could make a few more buck an hour, but the amount of effort I'd have to put in to get and maintain is is not worth it to me. So, it's on ME. If I want more, it's gonna cost me more. I'm not wi…
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 03:34 AM

This is great. Keep it going. You (women) are solving all your mothers problems. Becoming the man you wanted. It's fantastic. Yes, it is true, men's nature is to be able to fuck as many women and "spread their seed" and it turns out that, yet, once again, women are competing with men being all "Oh yeah, how many men can I get to cum inside me" And yet, it still doesn't seem the same. Have at it ladies. The trough is yours. Pig out. We'll see each and ever one of you in 25 years looking for your …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:58 AM
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Winner!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:54 AM
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91.4831% of debates are pointlessly pretty. Discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:00 PM
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This is why women can't fail at life. All they need to do is get pregnant. It's one hell of a bailout program. Of course it's predicated on saving the children but since women get the children, they get the housing. And if they're faced with a man challenging for 50/50, they'll say freaking anything. It's survival. It's not a good life. But I guess they figure it's better than working a minimum wage job 50 hours a week or having to be democratic and negotiable with one of those good for nothing …
/r/MensRights25/05/23 11:57 AM
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As /u/MalePsychopath said below "Women are attracted to handsome masculine men. Doesn’t matter if they are toxic or not." But I'll add that "toxic" men (dark triad) guys can mimic the decent and competent men, for a while. Both men have a few things that look the same. He's different (or appears different/unique), he's indifferent, not a SIMP (or pretending), he is/appears to be competent, seems to be on his own path. I'd also like to point out that, there's always going to be some woman somewhe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:56 PM
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Being a submissive/trad wife is not the same as being co-dependent. If a woman is co-dependent and is too high in agreeableness but also high in contentiousness, she can get walked over by almost anyone. And from the outside looking in, people might then think she's a victim and he's a narcissistic predator bully. That word "submissive"... it's dangerous. Seems to me most people assume it's like a slave or something. Maybe words like "negotiable" or "non-contentious" or "non-combative" are bette…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:56 PM

It's not the "sole motivator." You're taking this to extremes. (must be female) but I digress. Yeah, we gotta work to survive and even live a little. But when men decide that chasing women and sex is futile, and realize that the unicorn doesn't exist, we certainly don't have to work/compete/push nearly as hard as we were doing before. Men (blue pill men and or the super competitive types) work/compete extra hard for the potential reward of sex/reproduction. A man will work extra hard to provide …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:35 PM
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Every girl is (pretty much) convinced that every man want's girls, But when it's not working out for them, they're convinced men love "little girls." And it get's weirder from there. When women are interested in men that aren't (all that) interested in them... well, guess what, apparently we're all still weird and into "little girls"; as in: immature, phobic... blah blah blah, even woman "Hater" I've tried to limit my exposure to the whores. I think I did alright. Maybe I didn't have ALL the sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:08 AM
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Must be misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 04:39 AM
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I think you discovered the chip on her shoulder. She's just looking to fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:48 AM
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That's the comment you are taking issue with? You're doing the same thing. You're going "Ha, 30 is like brand new!" No, you're/it's not. And who cares if you wanna/like walking. My lord. Did your comment make you feel like you won something?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:47 AM
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Look for someone that has both parents at home and still married. People from broken home (like me) are much harder to deal with. I never saw it modeled and my youth was chaos and financial hardship. To the women: choose from the men that choose you. If you go chasing, it's probably not going to end well. Keep that body count under control. To the men: Look for the "plain Jane" that could be like a scene from a movie where she takes off her glasses and let's down her hair and holy crap! These ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:44 PM
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True love. Soulmates. Hahahaha yeah whatever. Bezos is hardly the hot alpha girls are chasing after. Could he bang swimsuit models? Probably. But this guy's track record screams blue pill beta. He was married forever and his wife was probably his first. He doesn't know what to do outside of a long-term relationship. And of course there's a lot of status going on here. Both are pretty famous. her more so for her looks and him for his money. she's got a great body. They are doing the power couple …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:47 PM
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Google: Coverture.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 08:03 PM
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This reminds me of something my father used to say. "A second class ride is better than a first class walk." It certainly does appear to me that men are a little bit more practical when it comes to buying a car or getting a woman. Essentially men look at most women and figure "yeah she'll do. And she's within my price range." When you go buy a car does it run and drive? Great, 90% there. This is not the modern woman. Modern women seem to want/expect a brand new car that will increase her status.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:48 PM

I don't need sex to be democratic and negotiable with other men. But if I'm gonna be "friends" with a woman, ya better NOT be bringing sex but something else. Unfortunately, sex will almost always come up. Then I'm faced with true female nature. Do I really have to elaborate? I think, not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:37 AM
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Not sure how this is hypergamy. Sure, a woman's hypergamy will drive her to pick the best provider possible. But my examples above are more about women avoiding the consequences of their choices. Hypergamy might kick in again if she thinks she can get a better deal and leaves this guy to monkey-branch to a newer 'better' man. But it's pretty gross that she wants to be provided for, until she can 'lock down' the next guy. This is solipsism.
/r/MensRights21/05/23 03:53 PM
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It was about cherrypicking the authority/rights they wanted and discarding any responsibilities they didn't. As the saying goes "Responsibility without authority is slavery; authority without responsibility is tyranny" When they talk about how women were basically men's property, they conveniently leave out all the responsibility that came with that. Like, when they say shit like "Women weren't allowed to have bank accounts and or taking out credit/loans/cards" they forget that, if a man's wife …
/r/MensRights21/05/23 05:36 AM
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I like the way you put that. I was thinking "Give'em an inch they take a mile." I mean, cmon, we all knew/know they were never going to ever get to a place and go "Ahh, did it, now we're equal, let's go home ladies!"
/r/MensRights21/05/23 05:22 AM
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Well, technically 18 is an adult so at 19 he would be considered a man. Look, I'm not trolling, and yeah, I get that 'ick' too, but then I remind myself of the "consenting adults" thing that plenty of people wanted to be the one and only rule. But it seems that rule is only in place when it's convenient for the person(s) involved. So I'm playing Devils Advocate. There were lots of things that were considered immoral that are not considered immoral anymore. Seems to me "immorality' is transient, …
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 09:22 PM
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Anyone suggesting that people have free will and free choice and can alter their preferences at will are naive. The problem begins in childhood with the blue pill programming. There's this idea out there that anyone can be anything and that we're basically blank slates and can completely control our instincts and preferences. The red pill and the black pill are tough to swallow. And there is usually a stage called red pill rage. It's exactly like the five stages of grief. Denial anger bargaining…
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 07:18 PM
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Men are attracted to neotany (The retention of juvenile characteristics in the adults of a species). Women are attracted to neotany too but it's focused on children. The big eyes, smooth skin, cherub looking face/cheeks. This signals our brain that this "little human" should be protected. When women "hit the wall" it's typically when they loose their neotany. And women notice that they aren't getting noticed anymore. So yeah, the smaller/petite women are going to trigger a greater response. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:36 PM
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We’re walking right up to creepy, but he goes for career girls with options Hey, fair enough. I do have to deal with the word "creepy" and it really ticks me off. Yea, a "trigger" if you will. I just can't help but notice that, it seems like you sorta said "Well, as long as these women are socio-economically established, then, ok" And that seems to me to be an "out"... and ok, but if she doesn't, "well then he's an asshole" if it goes sideways. So, as it comes down to finality, it seems as thoug…
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 06:23 AM
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And who says he's been doing the dumping? Maybe the girls were riding the star. But no one thinks that because it's "always his fault"and it's always a fault of long term commitment. Which in the end proves that we want what we can't have. Men want FREE access to sex, and to offset that, women want commitment. Who knows if they talked about it. Maybe it went unspoken. But neither got "fucked over" when it was done. So how does the narrative become "he's an immature loser that won't grow up" and …
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 03:05 AM
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It is better to live in a desert land than with a quarrelsome and fretful woman.
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 02:59 AM
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"Weird" is a feeling. And feelings (especially negative ones) come when you think you know what was going on and it's not and then projecting that onto others. "Creepy" and "weird" might just be your worldview coming to an end. It happend to me. I didn't think/say "Oh, that's weird/creepy" (still making it the worlds problem; as if I had all the answers). No, I fucking dealt with it. I'll let Tate explain it. https://youtube.com/shorts/V5vjDUS4lm0?feature=share
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 02:44 AM
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all of whom seem to have amazing careers. So, this is getting really weird. So you're talking about 18 from no where or early 20's with 'careers'. So now things are blurry. Is it the age or the socio-economic status? I so understand the blurring from your perspective, I think. I think you see it as: "Well if she's not dependent on him then it's ok" (that's a very HIGH level LOW resolution, one sentence summary so please don't fucking lose it on me. And I see it as: "No matter what, she's legally…
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 02:38 AM
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Nope. The condition is, if she does decide she would fuck you, and you turn it down. Standards are only standards if you stick to them, no matter the incentive. To put it another way, if you would fuck her if no one would ever know, you do not have standards. It's hard for a man to turn down sex. And when you do, there will be times when you'll think about the missed opportunity. When that happens, just rub one out. In a few minutes you'll forgtall about it.
/r/AllPillDebate19/05/23 05:37 PM
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Yep, you're right. But I think it's wild which groups are protected from criticism like the LGBTQ folks. But even those people would call out some (maybe not all) age Gap relationships. When I see the Golden rule of "as long as they're consenting adults" go out the window, I know it's envy. I'm 48, I can't bang 20 year olds. I don't have the wealth, looks or status to pull that off. But when I see Leo DiCaprio banging younger 20 year olds, I'm like YOU GO BOY!!! Meanwhile some bitter 40 year old…
/r/AllPillDebate19/05/23 12:38 PM
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Well sir, you got me there. I doubt she (or a facsimile) would be on the escort pages, but yes, yes, yes, all fucking day (and night) and I'd make her meals too. Damn, nice call mate. But yeah, if I have a few hundred dollars and an itch I can't scratch, I'm scrolling for petite brunettes/black hair with blue/green eyes and a bubble but. Don't care about tit size. If anything I'd take almost nothing over anything over D's.
/r/AllPillDebate19/05/23 01:04 AM
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Oh? why only 5-10? Who the fuck is making these rules? If the rule is "consenting adults", then everything else is personal preference (or, personal disgust) and none of anyone's business.
/r/AllPillDebate19/05/23 01:00 AM
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I'm pulling (my dick) a lot. It's saving me from falling for some Cluster B cat lady. You're craving a "real man." That's why you're looking for "vibes" (sexual chemistry) because your cuck BF ain't doing it for ya. Also, in the competition between him and you in an "open relationship" is not a competition at all. It's like Lia Thomas taking a trophy and walking around taking photos as if he accomplished something. Yeah, I can take candy from a baby too. yeesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:57 AM
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Ridiculous. It's so easy to say those words. Yeah yeah, ok, she she wants to be "you're little slut" but you can't call her that? Fine, a boundary, a weird one, but ok, whatever. Like, cmon, her profile, whereever she's fishing probably says right on it "FWB" or "LOOKING FOR CASUAL" or something similar, and a guy drops a "hey slut" and she's disgusted and offended and hits reject... And then comes here to lecture men on why they're not getting laid. It's the same old story. The ladies (cough, v…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:52 AM
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Why is the answer never "because men think women in their twenties of the hottest" It's always some negative arrested development or predatory bullshit. Like if I'm going to go to a prostitute I'm going to go find me one in my twenties. What man's going to go looking for a prostitute in her 40s?
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 09:15 PM
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Pretty much everyone thinks age got relationships are weird. But it's the middle-aged and older women that scream and yell about it. Younger women will consider an age Gap relationship provided he's got enough socioeconomic status.
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 09:13 PM

Whatever, the worlds gone crazy. Everything is about vibes and feels. But hey, just shows once again that the red pill is right. And she loves cats too. Thank you for saving me from these women, my red pill lords!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:24 PM

This. All day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:02 PM

It sounds like you want the boyfriend experience with all this talk of getting to know you before you jump into bed. That's not a short-term dating strategy or friends with benefits. Oh sure and of the hundreds of men only a couple of them you weren't attracted to? Gentleman, this is bait. This is a woman once again trying to convince you that it's not about looks and that if you're just a gentleman then she'll fuck your brains out with no strings except that there's strings of you know getting …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:01 PM
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Womens main currency/ leverage (even if it's the last line of defense) is pussy. This is also why there will never be equally of the sexes. No matter what laws/policies are put in place to "even the playing field", women will always have this advantage. Women don't even have an obligation to fulfill their part of the bargain. If women play it right, they can get a man to commit everything, for a lifetime, for access to pussy. She can stop fucking, divorce him, and he's still going to pay, maybe …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:06 PM
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Aggressive? Yeesh. Why is it always women (and some effeminate men, simps and white knights) that "feel the tone" of a message first/before addressing the content? Well, I'll tell you, women "feel first" and when they feel uncomfortable/defensive about it, then they start with their pop-psychology which always ends up projecting some "negative psychological motive" so they can dismiss the claims of the author and walk away feeling like they got a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:56 PM
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it never ends, the generation(s) after you (younger people) think they know everything that that you're stupid and out of date; the same way you feel about boomers. The boomers don't think they know everything but they still think they know better than you. The difference is that for the generations older than you, you think "things aren't like that anymore" and the generations younger than you, you think "dumb ass kids, don't know shit" It will always be this way. Anyone a decade older than you…
/r/AllPillDebate17/05/23 11:15 PM
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Well, although I can see what you might be getting at, you brought your own applause section so I guess I'll take the L.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:51 PM
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Yep. This is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:15 PM
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"Partner" is a woman's attempt to equalize her contributions in the relationship. This isn't a problem until you accept hypergamy as fact. Women date across and up socio-economic hierarchies. I'm sorry to have to explain this but if she's dating/marrying UP, that means they are not equal partners. But as soon as she feels it's exclusive,all of a sudden they're "equals"... yeesh. Weird how they're never 'equals' or 'partners' with a guy lower than them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:48 AM
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At a certain point everything a woman wants, that shes not getting, is "immature." A guy that's having the time of his life at 35 is "immature" when the woman, that was once having the time of her life riding on her youth and beauty at 23, all of a sudden decides she's "matured" and "grown up" and "changed". Men had to earn that shit. God and L'Oreal gave you yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:41 AM
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This is so freaking wild. Am I really watching a woman tell a man he's wrong about something, when she wasn't even there, in an effort to defend the behavior or two strange women? Yep, that's what I'm watching. These instincts you hare are toxic. And they are rampant because women justify it as protecting themselves or other (especially younger) females. Jordan Peterson said women basically put people into one of 3 categories: infant caregiver of infant(s) threat When i heard that so much "click…
/r/AllPillDebate14/05/23 05:45 PM
1

Look, I'm not rationalizing "abusive" relationships, but that word "abusive" is thrown around so casually it's lost most of it's meaning. So when you come along and say i'm trying to rationalize abusive relationships, there's really no argument I can put forth. This "abuse" thing just shuts down any possibility of conversation/argument/debate. And when you drop it like that, I think that's your intention. And then you can walk away feeling all morally superior and like you "won." NO BODY is IN F…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 10:28 PM
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I agree that most women, when confronted with a crying man, have a response that can range from "deer in the headlights" to a full blown disgust response. But in this particular situation it's more like schadenfreude: Pleasure derived from the misfortunes of others. Malicious enjoyment derived from observing someone else's misfortune. And it's narcissism too. If the narcissist can't "win" with a decent merit based argument (most can't because they're spoiled malicious insecure children in adult …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 07:34 PM
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I like this. Can't believe I'm 48 and never thought about it like that. It's such a fucking trip to watch the frothing wrath of someone that apparently loved you until you decided you weren't going to play their game anymore or even just had a different opinion. And if you give in, all of a sudden they're back to "normal" (whatever that is for these types).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 07:22 PM
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But (and I'm assuming) they still don't advocate for "open justice" in the "family court" system. In Ontario, the public is not allowed to attend. And even as a person related to the situation, all parties and the Judge must agree to let you in. And of course, no recording. The biggest problem with accusations of domestic violence, sexual violence and drunk driving is that, the moment you are arrested, the vast majority of the damage "punishment" has already been done. Your care has been impound…
/r/MensRights12/05/23 01:48 AM
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Why? Well if I had to guess I'd say nature makes us really horny from time to time, especially around people that nature has deemed compatible for reproduction. It shuts down our critical faculties so we breed instead of getting all tangled up in the logic of it. You ever seen cats go into heat? Basically the female assumes the position and puts her ass up in the air and start baying to attract the attention of some tomcat to come and breed with her. You don't think the cat is in full control of…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 01:19 PM
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Once again, the woman is the victim and the man is the oppressor. Shocking. /S How come the explanation is never something like he seemed exciting and she was horny and she had Rose colored glasses that didn't allow her to see any red flags through the adventure and excitement. And it's only after the hormones calmed down and they both settled into a boring routine did some negative things become apparent. You see the thing is that both men and women have that roller coaster honeymoon face in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:54 AM
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Look, I ain't gonna write a thesis on this. The personality and temperament differences have been well documented. Women are more neurotic than men and more collectivist. The collectivist part makes them more sensitive to 'strangers' that like like they 'don't belong' or look out of place. Women have an in-group bias towards women and against men. Especially if that man isn't in the employ of a woman and/or children. Women are more anxious around men, especially ones they don't know. And maybe t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 12:48 AM
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I don't believe women have any extra special senses like intuition. I do believe they watch people a lot more closely than men do. They do this for a number of reasons like safety but they also want to be able to measure their status in the group. And they need to be wired to pay special attention to infants so the kids don't die. So basically women are always trying to figure out when someone else is up to. I think this is a big reason why so many of them go into psychology. They're desperate t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:51 PM
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When men do it we're (perceived to be) attacking when women do it they are defending/protecting. Women seem to think everything they do is altruistic and "for the greater good". And apparently everything men do is for selfishness, power, greed... And it all comes from a place of bitterness and resentment because we've apparently lost our power, but are still patriarchal oppressors.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 12:15 PM
2

I don't care if she works at the coffee shop as long as she's not looking for a bailout. I'm very leery of the women on disability though. There's nuance of course, but at my age (48), most of these women really totaled the first half of their lives, are single mothers, and have "anxiety and depression". Yeah, that will happen when you're basically drowning and the last kid is about to move on and you're gonna lose a ton of income and that subsidized housing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 08:39 PM
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Good point but no one was thinking about that. We're talking student loans, consumer debt, car debt on a car that's obviously out of her economic range. Like, c'mon. But yeah, I don't wanna be on the hook for paying back any medical debt either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 08:35 PM
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All relationships are transactional. It might start all hot and heavy but the transactions have to keep going after the honeymoon phase. The honeymoon phase ends. Transactions, specifically financial transactions, and even more specifically financial transactions from him to her, can go on long after she cuts off sex or leaves altogether. And I highly impulsive high libido high body count woman can find herself caught up in the heat but then once the heat wears off she's bored and wants to leave…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:25 PM
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And yet "hypergamy" is just a figment of the patriarchy's imagination. These women played the casino of youth and kept doubling down... Just one more pull, just one more card, just one more spin, just one more roll... BUST. Casino wins. Women complain that the casino is fixed and "made her do it". And people actually listen. Yeesh.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 08:18 PM
1

Yes they do. Those Cluster B women will fuck like a champ, but they are spiteful and vindictive when it's over... As we see in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:45 PM
1

This is so stupid. It plays on the idea of the college frat boys that gangr@ape a co-ed. People drink and fuck ALL the time. Alcohol is practically an appetizer. And this scenario always (as usual) still puts all the responsibility of the interaction on the man. No one asks if he had any drinks. No one implies a woman r@ped a man that had a few. Fuck all this. If I'm going to be held responsible for drinking and driving then clearly my accountability doesn't disappear when under the influence. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:42 AM
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Don't they mean "telling the NON father might trigger a break up" like, what the fuck. People can justify anything when they're pointing at a child. We've got to stop this child worship shit. This shit was still going on 2000 years ago in the Bible. "Your children will oppress you and women rule over them. Those that lead you cause you to err"
/r/MensRights01/05/23 09:40 AM
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Not a drop of accountability. yeesh. Yeah, she was so young and naive, but she was not too young and naive to recognize he had lots of money and how she could benefit from it. Just gotta trade a little sex. Oh, and I love this line "There's no way to know how someone would turn out to be after 4 years." Oh really... so for the first couple years he wasn't grooming and getting her loaded and high? That just started a couple years in? What a load of crap. The old "Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde story" Da…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:24 PM
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When drugs and alcohol are being given to someone under 21 that's illegal Well, technically, but you knew it was illegal too and I'm still not hearing how he somehow forced you to drink it. Oh yeah, an no one tries to drink or do drugs before 21. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:18 PM
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A tale as old as time. And they say men take what they want and leave. Yeesh. But of course, you're going to have a victim narrative. Oh, yep, there it is. I see your comments about how he groomed you and plied you with alcohol and drugs and you were too young... yeah yeah yeah... weren't too young and naive to see that he had a bunch of money and how you could benefit from that by trading sex. But yeah, you're the victim and "he should have expected it"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:16 PM
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Choose from the men that choose you. ie: don't go chasing Chad. I really don't believe women if they claim they never had some guy that hung around but she friendzoned him because she 'thought she could do better'. "He's cute, and a decent guy, but there's just no chemistry (arousal) and I don't want to ruin our friendship". Yeah, THAT'S the guy that would have been fucking thrilled to have you and that would significantly increase the odds of him sticking around. It's too late to put the cat ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:10 PM
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The old system pushed women into relationships they didn't want to be in. When people imagine arranged marriages, I think they imagine the worst case scenario like some poor beautiful pure princess being forced into slavery (sexual and otherwise) for some monster. Like the scene out of Star Wars where Princess Leia is in shackles and a slave to Jabba the Hut. This is ridiculous exaggeration. My old boss was from India. When he was 18 his mother tells him that his father wants to speak to him. Ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:38 PM
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mainstream? I'm not exactly what you mean by "mainstream" but from my understanding of what it means, that will never happen. We're not ever going to see TV shows and News outlets talking about things like hypergamy as fact. If the mainstream media ever talks about red pill stuff it will always be to criticize and brand it as misogyny because most people, but especially women, love to think they're all perfectly unique snowflakes. That there is no way to come up with any generalization about wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:08 PM
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Leverage, money, power, attention and a 'pass' from pretty much all accountability.
/r/AllPillDebate27/04/23 06:26 AM
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This is pretty much my experience. I think it mostly goes like this. Due to hypergamy women date across and up. If you are pretty much an across guy... You're going to have to bring more to the table. Usually by way of resources and commitment. If you're way up there, and she's highly aroused, she's not going to make you wait because she knows you'll be out the door in 5 seconds. So it can be summed up like this. Women have a choice. Fuck him and he might leave. Or don't, and he will. Another st…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:47 PM
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To put it another way, women can't stand rejection. But you're not only expected to take rejection gracefully, you're expected to act like it never happened and be her knight in shining armor when she becomes the damsel in distress. I think a lot of "I have him a soft rejection because you never know if these guys are gonna flip out and stalk, hurt, r@pe me." Is a projection of the wrath women feel when scorned.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:57 AM
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This one is kinda weird Younger voters will probably see your voting power as a threat, as you are single and childless it is likely you will vote for your own self interests at the cost of younger taxpayers. They will want you dead. Everyone votes their best interests. And what that usually means is "won't somebody pleeese think of the children!?" A heavy tax burden goes to things for children (and by proxy, their mothers, especially the singe mothers). I have no idea how much money goes to wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:32 PM
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Family/divorce law somehow being against men is possibly the biggest red pill boogeyman myth. The legal system is supposed to be 'blind' to biases. And for the moment, let's assume it is. Meaning, it treats men and women 'equally'. With this assumption, men can still complain that shit is stacked against them, and here's why. (drum roll please).... Hypergamy. Since women tend to date UP in socio-economic status, when the marriage is dissolved, it certainly appears that she 'won'. The idea of 'eq…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:57 PM
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They're immune to cognitive dissonance. And if they feel that tingle coming on, they revert to victim/oppression politics.
/r/MensRights23/04/23 05:38 PM
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Anytime the topic of body count comes up, someone somewhere is going to throw in the 'insecurity' thing. The first thing I think when I see it is that it's nothing more than a deflection. And I think that because it's so vague. Insecure about what, exactly? The second thing I think is that it's an attempt to question a mans masculinity. It's like saying "what, are you a pussy? chicken? scared?" Well, ugh, yeah, some things are scary. Only a narcissistic bully (like back on the school yard) uses …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:39 PM
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They want to make their boys into well behaved (easily controlled) plow horses and service dogs for women (including themselves). Just work, don't complain, give everything to the women and children and be grateful for the opportunity. The seem to forget that all women want to 'tame' a man. They don't want him to come already 'trained'. That's a turn off. Every girl dreams of getting some big powerful wild stallion and taming him to be exclusively hers and in service to her. They wanna train it …
/r/AllPillDebate22/04/23 10:13 PM
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Well, you're a dude. And it's different, and I don't care what anyone says about that, Women should be more careful about what they put inside their bodies. Women naturally ARE more careful about that. That's why promiscuity triggers an 'ick' disgust by 'normal' people. It's like a disgust/contamination response. And that's what women hate about this topic. They never want to be seen as the 'contaminated' one. They can call it 'slut shaming' all they want but what's really happening is that they…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:37 PM
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15 dicks ain't promiscuous? Jeez, ya know, like 4-5 in a lifetime is manageable. 7, you're pushing it, after 10, yeesh. And how many have they 'forgotten' about
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:00 PM
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women raping boys is ok HEY, it's "seducing" or "having a sexual relationship"... we'll have none of that R word (for women) here. /s
/r/MensRights21/04/23 01:59 AM
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Yep. It blows my mind how many women are like "but what if I put all my eggs in one basket and it doesn't work out"... Um.... You're covered in that situation. Everything gets split down the middle. Spousal support and child support. Like .. duhhhhh... There are no guarantees in life but the safest bet a woman can make is getting married before anything else. It's friggin insurance for crying out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:57 PM
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"Her money is her money, his money is our money" - it's a tale as old as time. When the woman is in the weaker financial position, she expects him to spread the money around. When she becomes a professional and makes more money than he does - divorce. She ain't sharing her money with him. It makes her feel gross. Then that hypergamy kicks in again and she wants a man that makes around the same (at minimum) or more than she does. So, these things correlate with capitalism and communism. When peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:20 PM
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See, but no women are panicking that a man will try to take them to court for misrepresenting themselves through makeup, heels, etc. Because that's the way it's been forever. That doesn't make it 'deception', but it isn't exactly honest either. Just because we like the way it looks, doesn't mean it's authentic. I also noticed how you completely dodged the bodycount issue. But yeah, "nothing to see here" right? ​ I wear dresses most days. They are like the most comfortable garments in the world. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:43 AM
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And, the flip side to that is that "Top (capitalist) Men" (speaking about class) are also the reason I don't have to be a peasant farmer. There are trade off's, but there was no 'upward mobility' in feudal times. I have an apartment, a vehicle, amazon deliveries, and I'm typing on a computer and operating system all designed and sold by "those capitalist pigs." Yeah I get it, I'm still a wage slave. And I'll work until I'm dead. But I tell ya, if it wasn't for women and children (communists), I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:43 PM
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Get a big bristol board sign that says "tickle fight time" and put it in the window when you do it. Or maybe write "take a picture it lasts longer" Or, "howdy neighbors!" Something cheeky. Maybe won't ruin the relationship that you need but could embarrass/shame them a bit. But of course, when people want to avoid shame/guilt they come up with some "we were just being good people!" Kinda bullshit. People seem to think they can justify almost any intrusive behavior as "protecting the infants" It'…
/r/MensRights18/04/23 08:45 PM
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I never made it a legal thing. I used legal terms like felony to describe how women FEEL it should be treated when some guy bullshits you into bed. Men don't like it when women lie about their shit either. That makeup - that ain't your face. Those heels make you taller. That padded bra makes your titties look bigger. Your hair ain't that colour. YOU were the narcissist in your 'abusive' relationships. And omg, bodycount, bunch of liars. Why can't ya just own your shit? Oh right, because when Mr.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:49 AM
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Yeah, I understand that when it comes to a court of justice that a guy acting like he had more money or a bigger dick or whatever... Of acting like he wants a LTR to get a woman in bed would never make it to criminal law. BUT, that doesn't mean that women don't see it as just about as bad in the court of public opinion. And I think that a lot of women would actually like to see those kind of deceptions be legally actionable. They always seem to forget "buyer beware" when it's convenient. If she …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:11 PM
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WELL DONE. Someone needs to distract OP. I'm sick and tired of envious cockblockers trying to act like they're "protecting the infant".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:54 PM
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Why the hell other women feel it's their job to "protect" other women. Sometimes they're "protecting" another women right out of what she wanted to do in the first place. It's frigging gross. Jordan Peterson (yeah, i heard your eyes roll back in your head) recently said that women put people in to 3 categories. infant caregiver of infant (usually herself) Threat What you almost did was infantalize that other woman and make your friend a threat. Now, you may say he's not your friend, but from you…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:51 PM
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I found the solution to consent while drinking is simply to watch my limit and/or NOT drink with people I wouldn’t consent to. If I am knowingly drinking past my limit I’m basically giving consent Well hell, that's a breath of fresh (accountable) air. It is kinda weird how, if I drive to the bar, drink too much, get nailed for drunk driving, I am held responsible for my actions because it's like "Well, you went to the bar, you intended to drink, you didn't make a plan B, C, or D... you decided t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:29 PM
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Not sure how rebounds came up but you have an interesting perspective. However, i can still see how a woman on a rebound would still consider herself the vulnerable victim and therefore, the male in the equation "took advantage of me because I was hurt from my last bf and was on a rebound" I'm sure her friends, when providing emotional support, would say something along those lines. The story is ALWAYS "she was in a bad place" so therefore her mistake wasn't really HER mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:02 PM
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You're a despicable troll that does not come to discuss/debate in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:57 PM
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It's a story as old as time. "will you still love me tomorrow?" "oh yeah baby, of course I will love you tomorrow." Except now that's, like you said, r@p3 deception because, only women are allowed to change their minds. And men aren't allowed any excuses. It doesn't matter if he was in a 'fog of hornyness' or if he had a 'couple drinks'. Fraud ≠ r@pe, that's why there are different terms. But women don't feel that way. On the internet women can talk all day about how some women just have sex for…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 08:40 PM
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Once again, you can't listen to what they say, you must only observe what they do. Women are never going to say "I was just so hot and horny for him that I was blind to red flags, my shields were down, my security system went offline." It's like when women say "he told me all the things I wanted to hear"... oh god sweetheart, it didn't fucking matter what he said, you had genuine burning desire for him because attraction cannot be negotiated. If another guy came along that she didn't find so aro…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 08:12 PM
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Anything that appears to be a 'cheat code' to gain sexual access is the ultimate betrayal (and even worse) to women. I mean, I think we all agree that r@pe is bad, but it is a 'cheat code' (putting it mildly) to getting sexual access. What's interesting is that when it comes to any 'cheat code' or 'trick' a man might perform are all pretty much on par with r@pe in a woman's mind (and plenty of men too). Basically, there are no misdemeanors, they're all felonies, some are capital crimes. We only …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:51 PM
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HYPERGAMY. That's why. Women date UP. Women can talk all frigging day, yap yap yap yap.... watch what they do not what they say. Lot's of things sound good on paper, but they just don't work. This isn't new stuff. Maybe it's new to you, but this has been the way it is for a couple hundred thousand years. You're not gonna change that because it sounds nice. And there is no such thing as 'equal' except in math. You cannot possibly have a man and woman that are absolutely equal in socio-economic st…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:33 PM
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Or... Now this might be crazy.... Maybe... Just leave shit alone. It's only been like this since the beginning of time. I don't know why people think it's so freaking easy to just start monkeying with shit that has been with us for hundreds of thousands of years as if we can just educate it out of us within a generation or two. One of the things people just naturally do is look for a model of how they should do things. Monkey see monkey do. And the model of the male protector provider and the fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:33 AM
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I've got a few upvotes so a few read it. But hey, I'm not here for upvotes or readers. Sometimes I see something I wanna say some shit about it. And it feels good to get it out. I'm 47, my wife died 2 years ago. And no, I haven't fucked anyone since. So does that still make me an !ncel? Or am I an oldish guy who's had enough of the work that goes into getting and keeping pussy that I'm like 'meh, if it happens it happens.'? Ya know, men that are experienced with women can sound pretty close to f…
/r/AllPillDebate09/04/23 09:53 PM
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The thousands of guys didn't come up with the advice, they're just spreading the news. The actual advice trickles down from the few that have real knowledge and experience. And that doesn't even mean they've laid a ton of women either. Jordan Peterson is an example. He's been married to one woman for a very long time. I bet she's his first and only. However, his studies and experience in psychology, history, politics, etc. has given him plenty of opportunity to observe female nature. Then there …
/r/AllPillDebate09/04/23 03:28 PM
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Very interesting thoughts. 7 billion... yeesh... that's apparently supposed to make people happy that "there are 3.5 billion more fish in the sea" but that's a rough number of every person alive. That's like how women talk "wage gap" without taking any other variable into consideration.
/r/AllPillDebate09/04/23 04:04 AM
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Why ya gotta pull out words like "hate". ugh, so stupid. Men (fishermen) are going to go fishing where they catch fish. If you can't catch fish here, then go catch fish there. And if the fish here are like "ha, fucking loser, you gotta go fishing over there because you ain't good enough over here", what fisherman is gonna care as long as he's catching fish? A man moving fishing spots might be like "WTF, I used to fish here all the time and I always got something." Ok. And yeah, that can be frust…
/r/AllPillDebate09/04/23 03:35 AM
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Most of the information in my comment can be discerned in the first three paragraphs. I went on because I needed to provide examples for the ignorant or disingenuous that would inevitably attack me if I had left it short and unexplained. Basically they would have said the standard stuff "not all women" and or "misogyny". You have to draw a picture for those people and yet most of the time they still won't get it. Peterson himself is not really red pill when it comes to women. He's quite blue pil…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:07 PM
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Women think it's their job to "protect the infants/vulnerable" from the threats of the world, mainly men. Jordan Peterson has said that women put people into one of three categories. Infant Caregiver of infants Threat This becomes more obvious once they have children but it seems to me that even young (early 20's) childless women play this game. This game gives them immense power because they can switch between hero and victim masks quickly to always avoid being seen at the villain and avoiding …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:08 PM
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"oh, what's a little make up ya pussy" and ""oh, what's a little make up ya PREDATOR" Like, you're NUTS. I'm making points. You might want to deflect, diminish, distract, deny, damsel, but that doesn't invalidate my points. "Accessories" "enhancements"... i don't give a shit what you call them. You can polish a turd ya know. Even if we like them, they are still mis-representations of the actual product. It might sound "extreme" but, sometimes you gotta be extreme to make points with people that …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:42 AM
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asking someone their body count is not a background check. You went on and on after this but I still can't figure out how trying to figure out (or ask) about bodycount isn't a background check. A background check is simply trying to look for history, good or bad, to try and make predictions about future behavior. If someone has a criminal background of DV, you want to know because it's probably a pretty good risk indicator of future behaviour. Same as bodycount. It doesn't have to be a crime/ill…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:27 AM
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As Rollo Tomassi says, there's a difference between attraction and arousal. Those might be attractive qualities for a long-term partner and it might help a woman feel safer with him but they don't get her raging wet with desire. The guys with the dark triad traits get her wet and then she wants them to change and have the above listed attributes. For a guy that's already got the above listed attributes she doesn't have any work to do. Women like a man that's a project. If he's already got it all…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:27 AM
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If he said it to manipulate her into sleeping with him then, yes We were JUST talking about this shit that men could deceive by wearing makeup and lifts. Ain't that a lie/manipulation of reality to get better results? And why is it not a problem if women wear makeup, heals, extensions, fitting undergarments. Cmon. That ain't you. That's a lie. But apparently, that's ok. Women lie "down" and Men lie "Up". She reduces her age, weight, bodycount, etc... He increases his height, salary, and yeah, bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:09 PM
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Also you don't have to be open to a background check, no one has to actually tell you they've run a background check on you. Yep. But if we weren't 100% COMPLETELY open and dumped it all on the table, she'd be on some other thread going "this doesn't quite line up but there's a grey area, is this a red flag?" and everyone would be like "YEP, RUN" Women are more discerning and do care about how honest you are guess you don't know what sluts are men are less discerning when we just wanna bang and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:03 PM
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This is the feminization of men. And at its core women hate it. Women want men not people with penises makeup and high heels. Oh I know you're thinking oh it's just a little cover up under the eyes and a half inch lift. You really think it's going to stop there? Do you really think women would accept this? In case you haven't realized it even the slightest deception by a man that lands a woman in bed is virtually a capital crime. If a man says I love you baby we'll be together forever, fucks her…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:03 PM
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I don't know how you can say that supports are equally available to men and women. You use the example of going to a therapist but all I really have to do is just ask myself what happens when a man is abused and needs to escape the situation.... It's the homeless shelter for him. But women have their own special shelters which is good as a hotel room with free food and free kitchen and free internet. Support services will come to her. The differences is clear as black and white if you care to lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 12:06 PM
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This comment sounds like it belongs on /r/nothowgirlswork and /r/twoxchromosones MEN: DO NOT EVER TAKE RELATIONSHIP ADVICE FROM WOMEN. They will turn you into a neutered domesticated cat and then go fuck Tyrone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:43 AM
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Make up can make men look taller? Interesting. Look, what women find attractive in men can not be 'brushed up' with makeup. Eye bags, skin and cheek bones? Femininity? You think that's what women want to see in men? Yeeh. Are you 12? Do you like One Direction? (ok, I like them, but I actually like the tunes, not because they're pretty boys). You've totally missed OP's point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:41 AM
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Nice side step. generally speaking women are more necrotic than men. You have a better supports because you are seen as being weaker than men. When you complain, people listen. When men complain: "you'll still be here crying about women being unfair."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:13 AM
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Women are on anti depressants more because women can reach out. No, generally speaking women are more necrotic than men. The facts are in on this. Do your homework. And then you do all that just to do a witch cackle paragraph at the end doing the whole "men are useless to women" "men are asshats" and of course "you can't get laid, go cry about it bitch" when you make it almost like you might have had a little concern for men in the beginning. It doesn't take long for a cluster B to show her true…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 12:48 AM
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I imagine that they saw "Ladies" and nothing else mattered. The gynocentric social order on display. "Dear" - fail - too old school, didn't he do research? "Greetings" - "Too robotic and PC" "Madam" - "OMG there are two of us!" "Ms." - "I'm married!" "Mrs." - "I'm not married" "Sir" - "we're women" "To whom it may concern" - "We just interviewed him, he's lazy and disrespectful" At the end of the day, they both want the job or at least they want a woman. Experience, education, skills... BAH, mea…
/r/MensRights04/04/23 12:16 AM
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The guy has probably banged a bunch of married women. Without socially enforced monogamy, this shit is gonna happen. Married women cheat too. Obligatory: "not all", else I get fucking lynched.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:38 PM
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Once again, I find it strange that on one hand most people accept that women do want good sexual experiences... I know right? "ThE hUmAnItY!?" but apparently we have to place a tangible value on them, and can't simply enjoy sex as-is. Yep. and yet those women don't seem to put it together... "um, so, I guess I'm a prostitute" I think the idea of 50/50, when scrutinized even just a little bit, falls apart because... when it comes to sex, most people think HE is getting the 'better deal'. Which, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:25 PM
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Well, there is no such thing as 100% when it comes to making predictions about people based on gender. So yeah, I guess it's an exaggeration, but it's pretty damn near ALL. I have seen women try to give men MEAT when he's bringing only SEAT and it never ends well. No one (ok, ALMOST no one) things that's ok. But, when it's the other way around, well shit, that's pretty much status quo. Look, I know you're a bit different and autistic. So maybe that's the 'key', but with all due respect, autism e…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 07:54 PM
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Honestly though, it's really not all that 'common'. Yeah, I assume/believe your a fair and reciprocal type. But a good deal of women look at fair/reciprocal women as being a victim/sucker. My wife was very fair/negotiable/reciprocal, and all of the females in her life (from friends to mom) looked at me on a range from 'suspicion' (her gf's) to 'threat' (her mom). And this was because we got together when I was about as close to 'rock bottom' as i could be. Just shy of being homeless. The thing w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 07:00 PM
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Hey CimZim. So yes, ideally we all pay. However, men pay with MEAT (MONEY, energy, attention, time.) our sex, even when she totally wants to fuck your brains out, doesn't factor in as something of tangible value to women. That's because women pay with her SEAT (SEX, energy, attention, time). Let's be real. If an outsider (especially a woman) sees a woman trading MEAT for SEAT, she will be told she's being taken advantage of AND giving him 'free sex' in top of it. And he will be called a 'loser' …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:32 PM
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Sex is the tool to extract money, energy, attention, time (MEAT) from men. But if men aren't giving her MEAT he becomes a threat.... lemme explain Women put people into one of the categories. Infant(s) (includes anyone perceived/deemed vulnerable/weak) Caregiver of infant(s) (most women put themselves here) Threat (men are put here to start) As you can see, it's a pretty powerful position they put themselves in. They get to rule over the infants and if you're not 'with them' ie: providing resour…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:24 PM
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If a woman is a housewife/stay at home mom, that's some audacity to complain about this shit. I can see why working women do it but I think it's because, when the child comes, mom is hyper vigilant. She's wired to be. She's nervous and on constant alert for at least the first 9 months. So basically, dad is kinda watching and waiting to be called upon. Basically, mom's leading this part and dad's following. And if someone's leading and the situation is under control, who the hell steps in just to…
/r/MensRights01/04/23 03:06 AM
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Vetted her properly and agreed with her parenting style (true) Established yourself as any kind of disciplinarian for the 10 years you were together before the kids were bratty teenagers. (they were pretty darn good until they hit their teens) Let her know what your hard limits were in terms of household management like cleanliness. (can't know that until the threshold starts getting pushed and then stomped on). Like, was I supposed to be "Hey, so when the kids are teens and leaving their dishes…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/23 02:29 AM
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Wouldn't really be a problem without adding the gay part. So yeah, at the end of the day, which contributed most to the spread of HIV/AIDS. Anal tissue (and ruptures) being more susceptible to infection Or The gay people having anal sex. One leads to the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:25 PM
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Wait what? You think a step-parent is out of bounds for telling the kids what to do? This is exactly the problem. I"m supposed to "step up" and provide resources and utility to a mom and her kids but I don't get any authority? And yeah, their mom either wasn't noticing the dishes piling up in their rooms or didn't care. And i got tired of going to the drawer for a spoon or the cupboard for a bowl and there were none. I got with her and I made out lives better. She was living with another single …
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/23 02:54 AM
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I see. gonna be a smart ass. I can do that too. r/falserapeaccusations/ Quick story. 2 summers ago there was a group of musicians that would gather down by this little park with a canal nearby. I'm a musician too. I got to know one of the women a little and was kind of being accepted by the group. It was fun. One day a new woman shows up. She was kinda fat but I still thought the was pretty and I've got some weight on me too. I'd say, in that department, we were well matched. She came by a coupl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:22 PM
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Holy crap. Damn. I'm sorry that happened. When something happens like that to a woman, yeah, I totally understand her fear. I hope you have some supports and maybe therapy. I don't know if I believe that stuff works but some people think it does, so maybe worth a shot. I'd hate for you to be "that level" scared of men for the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:27 PM
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I'm almost 50. At this point, it doesn't really matter how fit and wealthy I could be. The women I would find aren't looking for a breeding stud anymore, they're looking for security. So when I think about all the things i would have to do, just to attract a parasite that probably wasted her youth and beauty on losers.... let's say, I'm not all that motivated. I have a job, it's ok. I have a vehicle, it's ok. Just an average guy making an average wage with an average vehicle. And it's much more …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:07 PM
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"very often" Ridiculous. Show me the numbers? And don't give me any "well, a lot go unreported" crap either. There are a small number of men that do this shit and they are repeat offenders. You're mixing up "possibility" with "probability" - seems to be something women do a lot. And this whole thing is missing context. Like, really??? the guy that asked for your number at the (library, gym, grocery store, coffee shop, on the street in broad daylight, at the bus stop) is gonna do some assaulting …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:37 PM
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That sucks. And it does happen. And then I gotta start wondering... what was the context? did you know each other? Were there any red flags that were ignored? Was alcohol involved? No, this isn't "victim blaming" because asking questions is not victim blaming. He's not justified. He's a criminal. But even in the law they look at the circumstances to see if there were mitigating factors. Like, there's degrees of murder because one is planned and cold and calculated and another is a "crime of pass…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:54 PM
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Warhammer convention lol Thanks for being a good sport. "Intimate partner" implies they're already in a sexual relationship. And yeah, I can use some extremes to demonstrate my points and I don't think it's "cheap contrarianism, and anti-feminist talking points". Hyperbole and rhetoric are still a widely used debate technique and I'm fighting fire with fire. I get it. Women are smaller and more vulnerable (especially sexually) and all that... So yeah, their apprehension is warranted - to some de…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:57 PM
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There's always going to be exceptions. However, if man doesn't understand that it's a bad deal he is either ignorant (blue pill) or doesn't want to face it. Maybe he's desperate, maybe he's so thirsty he would cut off his arm for a bit of sex, maybe he's got that "hero/rescuer" itch... whatever it is, it's a bad deal. And sooner or later he'll figure it out. Maybe the first time he says "clean up the dishes in your room" and gets "you're not my dad!" and the mother goes "stop micromanaging them"…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/23 03:59 PM
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The examples you provide are drunk guys in a rowdy bar that requires bouncers and intimate partner violence. Yeah, when people get drunk they can do stupid stuff. And women commit domestic violence just as much (pretty much) as men. Source The idea's put forth by Feminists and the Duluth Model is all frigging propaganda to keep the "women oppressed; men oppressors" narrative going. There's a lot of money in it. And although women want to believe they are "strong and independent" they aren't goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:49 PM
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I don't even believe they necessarily sense that. I don't think it's a sense at all. It's the default. And I can't tell if it's meant to keep them safe of if it's an ego boost. Depends on her mood and hot hot the guy is. All things being equal if she can't quickly discern a plausible reason for you to be speaking to her then the assumption is that it's an approach based on sexual attraction. People do plenty of things for "no reason". Or no tangible reason. Sometimes a guy just might feel chatty…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:42 PM
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Correct. It's a liability, not an asset. Step-whatever is a ploy. I'm sad to say I fell for this...ONCE. Never again. For men it's all responsibility and no authority. Fuck all that. ROI is negative.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/23 06:04 AM
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Nah, this is a rationalization to avoid accountability. Women aren't scared the guys going to go nuts and punch her in the face. Women don't want to look like the bad guy. They don't want to seem shallow. They want everyone to believe they're so polite and gentle. When a man ask someone out and she's not interested that feeling that she gets inside isn't fear of physical retaliation from a man that she rejected... My god... That's a feeling of cognitive dissonance. If she knows she's single and …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:58 PM
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Well, looking at the comments on this thread, I'm convinced that there is no such thing as red pill women. Yeesh. Like I understand that this woman is not worthless or any of that kind of crap but man there sure is a lot of hemming and hawing and mental gymnastics going on. The red pill has a simple answer for a woman like this. Lower your standards and take any beta Bob that shows interest in you. Treat him well and you might get his long-term investment. No that doesn't mean grovel and bag no …
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 04:57 PM
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Well done. Yes, being a single mother decreases sexual market value. Along with many other things. But being a single mom is a big 'thing' because you can't change it. And it's a massive liability for a man because he gets nothing in return. He doesn't actually get to be that kid's dad. And the moment things get inconvenient for Mom or child they just say "you're not the father so fuck off. You have rights or authority here!" But the manosphere is aiming their pointed sticks mostly at the single…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 04:51 PM
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Women and children aren't ever supposed to feel the slightest discomfort in this gynocentric society. It's like "uncomfortable" has become a crime. And it allows them to have their daily dose of victimhood and indignation.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 05:29 PM
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They fucking know they only have one power.
/r/MensRights20/03/23 07:21 AM
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Once again, men aren't allowed to have 'the ick' factor. It seems only women are allowed to have a disgust/contamination/ick factor. Well fuck that. Women are the penetrated partner. Go ahead, gorge yourself, you do you... But I'm allowed to be grossed out by your gluttony.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:14 AM
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equally opposite. If a woman was like "I want a dick, now" she can get it. So they're shamed for taking the "low hanging fruit" For a man, getting sex is much harder, so they're shamed for not being able to get it nearly as easily.
/r/MensRights20/03/23 06:34 AM
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Great points. I think the medication is a big one that I don't think these complaining neurotic women think about. There are a lot of women on some sort of anti depressant and/or anxiety meds and that can prevent orgasm. I was on them once for a while. I could be hard as a rock and hump forever but couldn't cum. It was SO frustrating. When I got off the meds everything went back to normal. https://www.statista.com/statistics/1133598/antidepressants-usage-by-age-gender-us/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:58 AM
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Yeah, because people jump to conclusions and don't ask questions and they love their indignation and moral outrage. And they like to feel superior "omg, how could she" translation "omg, I would NEVER do such a thing" translation: because I'm an amazing and morally virtuous person right up there with Jebus!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:51 PM
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How could I possibly provide examples of over protective (aka. devouring mothers) that would possibly satisfy your question? The whole point is that the devouring mother has cover... people assume FIRST and to a great degree that "mom has her kids best interest at heart and WoUlD nEvEr do anything to limit, much less hurt her kids for her own benefit - HoW dArE yOu?" Hell, people would have thought that about my mother who knew my grandmother was R@PING my brothers but she needed to let it happe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:52 AM
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Ya know, that was a long read, and if you read it, I appreciate it. But I just thought of something else. I want you and everyone else to notice that basically it's "if she left her kids, she must been crazy" Firstly, i stand in AWE. What if she was just a bitch? Not allowed? Why is it that everything a woman does that might be shocking - uh oh, mental illness or "must be a predatory man involved!" (that was from her mom and ex; you didn't say that) So then i have to ask... do you understand the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:08 AM
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Meh... all this "meet the parents" shit is old/traditional... which is weird because of how women cherry pick the parts of traditionalism they like and discard the rest. Non-virgins want white dresses, the girl that was sneaking out to fuck you wants you to meet her parents, and good luck getting a sandwich. Hell, far too many girls come from broken homes with crazy mothers that didn't have any respect for the man they had a child with... and now that woman is going to get to vet me? Fuck all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:26 AM
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"fucking crazy selfish son of a bitch" was my embellishment. He was one of those man-babies. He had been cheating a tried to 'open the relationship' (just for him). Look, it's a long story. And yeah, we were kinda crazy. Maybe a death sentence does that to people. In the end I can't precisely tell you why she left. But the fact is, she did. And her mother, that only ever involved herself around holidays, tried to tear it apart. But once my wife made it clear she was staying with me, her mother c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:16 AM
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Great I hope it remains that way and I hope that once you draw a boundary they'll will respect it but, there are a lot of parents (mostly mothers) that aren't willing to do that. Their cover story is that they want/know what's best for you, and that they're "just" protecting you. That can go too far. We're all going to get damaged in this life we can't be protected from everything. In the longer parents spend protecting their children the longer the children will remain naive and vulnerable even…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:10 PM
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You know it sounds great on paper. And it's so difficult to make a case against this. But I've seen it enough times to know that there are some narcissistic parents that just cannot let go of the "child". My wife and I were getting together when she was 40 and her mother would not get out of the way and was constantly trying to break us up and then when she realized it was futile she ignored her until the day she died. You see my wife got cancer at 40 and left her husband and children to be with…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:55 PM
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The thing is I don't really think parents are thinking about problems with a gap in maturity. All they're thinking is that he's getting the better deal and that she's going to get hurt. That he's not going to commit. That he's just having fun and that she's being used. The problem is if they said the things that I just said the girl might say well too bad it's my life. So then the parents start digging around coming up with things like "your age difference is so big what could you possibly have …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:03 PM
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That's a possibility. Also possible that he doesn't see them as exclusive and she hasn't brought it up. Also possible these guys are just engaging in random hook ups and never sees them again. Women would rather share and alpha than be exclusive with a beta. Due to pre-selection and social proof when a guy finally lands a girl willing to have sex with him, we usually experience some sort of snowball effect. All of a sudden there's more interested women. It's such a trip but happens most of the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:18 PM
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Socio-economic status has always had a big impact. It's almost always been everything. It's just survival. When women are poor they play up the femininity to land a man with money (or at least a job). When women are relatively wealthy and believes her options are unlimited (delusional) and her 'beauty is evergreen' it's "I don't need no man" It's hypergamy. When the economy ain't doin' so good, women would rather be a housewife than a homeless prostitute. Which is also why i just don't believe i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:32 AM
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That speaks more to male entitlement than anything else. Otherwise why not just avoid her? Why does this sound like it's pointed at me? I absolutely avoid women with those red flags. Playing with them is playing with fire. Fuck all that shit. Look you asked how I can possibly know a womans bodycount. No, I can't figure out an exact number. But those red flags say "too many" and that's all i need to know. What the hell you going on about male entitlement and their inability to accept a "no". And …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:54 PM
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How can you tell if she has slept with 0, 3 or, 'ridden the carousel' and slept with 33 men? There are signs. Anxiety and depression. Tattoos. "recovering addict" of some sort. Multiple baby daddies. Nose rings - especially the septum ring (yeesh). Colours her hair like skittles. Hair is drier than it should be for her age. Tired looking face. Voice sounds like a smoker. Cackle type laugh. Serial monogamy. Impulsive. Short relationships and the type of guys. "I'm tired of the players/bad boys" i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:45 PM

I'm not sure how you could read my comment and think that I'm saying it's a bad thing for men. It's not so great for women though as they have to lower the price of sex to be able to compete. But hey this is what the girls wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:18 PM
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I'm not sure how you figure that. The graph above still shows that sexlessness is much higher in both sexes. But it also shows the dudes are getting a little more lately while the girls lag behind. And when I looked at the graph I noticed the dips (more sex for men) almost seem to line up with past recessions. You see I'm almost 50 years old so I can remember the recession in the early 90s. So I looked up that unemployment data and I find it interesting that as unemployment rates rise (usually a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:16 PM
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That last part is the general sentiment of red pill men that are still dating. No we don't like it when they ride the cock carousel and then decide that I'm the poor schmuck that has to wait. They're not even really doing it to make a guy wait for the sake of seeing if he'll stick around - that doesn't work anyway. It's more of an attempt to gain control. She wants to see if he'll sit like a dog. But then if he does she loses respect for him anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:02 PM
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They all know how to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:56 PM
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Rant: To speak or write in an angry or emotionally charged manner; rave. To express at length a complaint or negative opinion. To utter or express by ranting. Yeah, I don't think my comment qualifies. But besides that, what do you take issue with? anon018274031 makes a claim that getting birth control has gotten harder. Where's the evidence for that? There are so many forms and methods for female birth control. So I call bullshit. And you say I'm on a rant. yeesh. Then I look at your post histor…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:17 AM
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Seems to me that men start getting more sex when economic times are tough. unemployment rates:max_bytes(150000):strip_icc()/recessionsfigure-032522-b91ba309d29f4688ad1abc4d934eb496.jpg) ~1992 ~2002 ~2008-9 ~2020 When women are broke they start fucking men. Also, RP is catching fire and women are being kicked off the cock carousel when they start trying to play stingy with the puss. "You gotta wait 3 months" NEXT. "fine, I'm packing up my favorite toy and going home" - SEE YA!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:10 PM
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There it is... It's always someone or something else's fault with women. Harder to get birth control? What the hell you talking about? My god, I think this is a low key "give us abortions and other free shit and we'll sleep with you". Surprise surprise, women use sex-hope to reward/punish. The problem is that you can't negotiate attraction. When men start performing tricks for women in the hopes of having sex, it never works. And it's basically prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:56 PM
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Ahhh, female solipsism. YOU were creeped out, so that means the younger woman should be 'creeped out' too. This is so messed up because men, we don't GAF who's fucking who. With few exceptions, we know how to mind our own business and we don't make it our business to feel any type of thing towards other's and their relationship choices. Yeah, I can imagine the father of that young woman being bend out of shape about it, but not strangers on the street. Well, unless that stranger is female. It's …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:16 PM
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People in relationships are always playing a role. There's no "I'm gonna find a relationship where I am free to be 100% myself" because there are no perfect people that can be a perfect match for someone. The only time a person can truly be free of expectations and "be themselves" is when they're alone. When you're with someone, there's always going to be something you wish was different, even if just a bit. And that's where the "compromise" comes in. Any compromise is literally a person forcing…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:08 PM
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Because women typically like men that are a couple years older. Yeesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:55 PM
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(Man here).. So I'm not going "top level" but I have something to say. There's a pretty good chance you're onto something. But.... She did say he backed off. Look, us dudes are gonna test too. I don't like the idea that when a woman does a "shit test" that she's testing for strength but if a man does it he's looking for weakness. Sometimes a dude might be seeing "how she takes it" rather than 'trying to box her in'. And cmon, we all say/do some dumb shit when excited of cocky or insecure. So, to…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/23 03:37 AM
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Is this different from "he's gotta wait x amount of dates before sex?"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:15 PM
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I saw your post earlier but decided not to comment because of rule 9 (I'm male) and because this is such a complicated subject. However, I just stumbled across a YouTube video by this Psychologist (not Jordan Peterson) that just might help understand the concepts at play here. Men treat WOMEN the way women treat MONEY
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/23 12:51 AM

Marie Curie. Don't forget: Sarah Boone (1832–1908), U.S. – improved ironing board design. She was black too. OMG.... Let's have a loot at a couple lists shall we? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_inventors https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Timeline_of_scientific_discoveries But I guess you won eh? lol I find the Marie Curie thing kinda wild too. I mean, how did she discover radiation? "Hey, this rock is weird and when I handle it something is basically burning my skin... I'll keep playing with …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:09 PM
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women are just as capable, if not more, of advancing scientific innovation. hummm. I see no evidence of this. Of course, if I said "show me the inventions/scientific advancements of women" I'd get the pre-canned response "well, that's because men wouldn't let women... blah blah blah" And it's this victimhood narrative that I think really holds women back. If they gave it up but ended up failing, who they gonna blame? So they hold unto that victim crutch. It's real convenient to pull out when may…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:20 PM
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perfect.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/23 04:30 AM
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Every culture has noticed hypergamy since, well, a long long time ago. My lord, the denial. it's like they wanna go "well I know this one woman who is the primary breadwinner" and we can all nod along but this is NO WHERE NEAR common. In general we can say "people with a post secondary education tend to make more money than those with just highschool" and they'd all be like "yep"... and if you then asked "But is it always the case that those with post secondary education tend to make more than a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:49 AM
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Of course it's a woman that's going to come up with these brilliant ideas of what should be done. Women know exactly what their leverage is and where their bread is buttered. "Hey look ladies, wanna leverage your reproduction but don't wanna have to deal with those pesky penis-havers? Let's tell the government that will have more babies if they just give us more free stuff and money!" Of course more and more women are working in contributing to the tax pool but the backbone of that tax pool is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:05 PM
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So basically it's all "dose dependent" until we come close to running out of options. Then all of a sudden we have a bunch of "reformed whores" running back to the "beta boys" they originally turned down but now want to get security from. Surprise, surprise. Hypergamy is real. When women are young they're playing a giant game of "deal or no deal"... until they run low on briefcases and she "settles" for beta bob where she becomes bored, restless and resentful... gee, where can I sign up?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:52 AM
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People misusing words is triggering not your stupid ideas. At best you could make an argument for hypogamy. QUICK REFERENCE Marriage customs in which the partners are of different social statuses (see anisogamy). In hypergamy, the woman is typically of lower social status than the man; hypogamy is the opposite. isogamy designates marriage between social equals. See also marriage systems. Sauce: https://www.oxfordreference.com/display/10.1093/oi/authority.20110803095953889;jsessionid=6168EA2CE3BF…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:25 AM
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You don't understand hypergamy at all. Hypergamy is women seeking out men in a higher socio-economic status/class than they are. And older man with high status getting with a younger hotter woman would not be possible if women were not hypergamous. If Leonardo DiCaprio was a truck driver, do you think young women would be throwing themselves at him? pfft... so, although he's a good looking guy, it's his social and economic status that gets him the young hot models. If you want to look at it from…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:00 AM
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You think a prostitute wants so show her drivers licence or passport? Wow... so a guy can get her real name and find her address? And showing an ID doesn't mean she's not being trafficked... my lord. Were you born yesterday?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:30 AM
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Hey Cim, So like, I'm seeing this idea that somehow a man is responsible for vetting prostitutes. I really don't know how anyone can think that's possible outside of a movie where he 'gets to know her'... like pretty woman. Like, cmon... what's he supposed to do? Just ask? "ugh so, like, I just wanna make sure you're not being trafficked... cool?" Do you actually believe there are prostitutes out there that aren't being "forced" to be a hooker in some way? No, I don't mean by some pimp. I'm talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:19 PM
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You're setting up a double bind here... like, what kind of due diligence is a guy gonna do before the hooker sucks his dick? Seriously... go ahead, I'll wait. guy on phone: "ugh hi escort company... um... yeah, do you have a petite brunette that does anal? Oh you do? Oh wow, that's great... um.. wait, one more thing, some bimbo on the internet says I should ask you... um... so, this whore you're sending... I just wanna make sure she's, you know... acting of her own free will and isn't like being…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:39 PM
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Weird... it's almost like a persons history is the best predictor of future behavior. Not for women though. When a woman decides she's "changed her slutty ways" and wants to "settle down" with a "good man" then "the past is the past"... Only a man's past matters right? ugh. What else is new.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:19 PM
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So like... hate=dislike now? Figures. Headline news: "Only women are allowed to dislike things (have a disgust response)" Also, in breaking news: "Women don't know how to measure"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:16 PM
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perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:46 PM
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You may not have realized that you were using "turn off" in a sexual way, but you were... hear me out... Women are very high in disgust sensitivity, and for plenty of good reasons when it comes to protecting a baby and deciding who gets access to your body. All of this relates to sex. I mean sure, we all have a disgust response to say, rotten food, vomit, poop... we all go "ew" and maybe wanna throw up. This is also a nice reflex to keep poison out of our bodies. But when women are doing the "ew…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:25 PM
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You: "everything you do is measured in - turns me on; turns me off" Weird. Ya know, if you stopped after the first sentence, you have a valid argument. After that it's "are you turning me on or off" You women are beautifully amazing with the roller coaster of "haha, can't catch me!" I think you know that, without the potential of sex, you're 'just another dude' - that's why you measure shit in "makes me hot; makes me cold" If you didn't have a vagina, who the fuck would care? Don't get me wrong.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:06 AM
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I hadn't realized that when you go out alone, girls clock you as the lone wold hungry guy. The guy who can't get friends. Weirdo. Low status. Stranger. Danger. 100% And then women have the fucking audacity to talk about misogyny. Like, you literally just looked at some random man and put him down as a threat because, why? You don't find him attractive and he doesn't have a woman dangling from his balls at that very moment? Women are BY FAR the most sexist sex. And they get away with it by claimi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:22 AM
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Although I agree that "Social circles are really not a good way to meet women" I'm much less persuaded by the reasoning that it's because her GF's are avoiding the discomfort of a breakup. Women are highly social/group oriented - more so than men. They also have a same sex bias - basically 'girl power' and "we women have to stick together (to beat the men)" And although it makes sense that they want to stick together. They need to, to survive, because women are HIGHLY reliant on the group (alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 01:07 AM
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Oh wow, there's so much to unpack here. You vagina-havers are really laying it on thick. Like, you vagina havers absolutely HATE the idea of "judgement"... and then judge me as creepy based on a reddit post? Like, what? Then you throw in some truth... you're damn right we don't give a fuck how wealthy you are... we don't get access to that, ever. Then women are able to be like "well, he only wants me for my pussy" well shit... that's the only thing you're bargaining with... yeesh Yes, men are ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:04 AM
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TL;DR: No. It's not even in the realm of "well maybe it will work" Long answer: There are 2 approaches to relationships. Figure out what someone wants and give it to them. Figure out what someone wants and withhold it from them. Everything has been reduced to a transaction, and an ALMOST INSTANT transaction where women can and will always claim to be ripped off. And they will be believed. And men will pay. There's only one possible way out of this. STARVE THE SYSTEM. Yes, that means that men MUS…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:16 AM

As Arthur Shopenhouer pointed out in his essay "On Women" "A woman pays the debt of life by what she suffers" Every woman knows how to play victim. They know it works. Something they exchanged freely today... Oops, all of a sudden tomorrow she's decided she was ripped off/you got the better deal. So now she wants more or worse, she can turn that shit into an allegation of epic proportions because "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" If they FEEL like you got the better deal, you now owe her.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:43 PM

Right, girls are sharing dudes and probably don't even know it. They're thinking he picked her. Lol Men know and admit reality, these women are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:58 PM
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A stepdad is not a father and will never be seen as a father by the children or the mother... Not when the rubber hits the road. Oh sure if you're lucky enough to be with her for about 3 and 1/2 years you can then be considered common law and she can take you to court and get you to pay child support for the children and alimony to her for the rest of your fucking life. You're not going to have any success trying to get any sort of custody. What a ridiculous question. If you want to solve the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:51 PM
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I had 2 men as tech teachers in Highschool. I fucking LOVED going to class. I went on breaks and lunch when most people thought this punk rocker was out doing drugs. Won technical achievement award my graduating year (1994). I went on to do some cool stuff. My male teachers were all awesome, smart, competent MEN. Boys need male role models.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:03 AM
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First, that's not what the patriarchy is and you know it. Second, it really sounds like you think women owe men sex. They don't. This is 1ncel logic. They don't OWE me, but that's what I want and they know/assume it. So, ok then, now that that's clear... yeesh. As if women don't know. The difference is how MUCH I want it with HER. I see plenty of women and my 1-10 rating is more like "how much effort would I put in to fuck her" and for most it's really low. So it's weird... Ya see, women aren't …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:48 AM
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I "target" young(er) women because they're hotter and worth more effort. It's really that simple. Women "target" older men for the stability ("maturity" as they call it). Doesn't matter. Men and women want different things. Usually pretty opposite things. The things we can't (or have a harder time getting). Like, women are shorter, but prefer taller men (and vice versa). Men like soft bodies, women like hard bodies. It's all relative of course. And there are the outliers. I consider myself a "mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:37 AM
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I'm 47. She died at 44. But that doesn't matter.... WOMEN set the price of sex. They wanna play casual, until they don't. They'll be fucking your brains out to try and hook you, then all of a sudden, you're an asshole for fucking some other chick. Point being, most of them don't have a fucking clue what they want more than 5 minutes in front of their face. This has been known as long as recorded history.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:27 AM
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I remember when I was 16 fucking a 14 year old. Damn, good times. The best times. Yeah, I'm 47. Can't do that anymore. But what if she was 16? I ain't breaking no laws???? But the world would have a heart attack. Hell, when I got with my wife when she was 40 (I was 43) people lost their minds. Now it wasn't age, it was everything else. Doesn't matter, people gonna freak out about something when they're jealous and losing control.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:23 AM
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My boss has power. He owns a company that employs me (pays me to show up). I have assigned him power. If he goes broke, I ain't showing up no more, so he now has lost the power over me that I assigned him. Vagina isn't much different. But I tells ya, 24 year old expecting me to bend over backwards for some puss vs. 45 year old expecting me to bend over backwards for some puss... BIG difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:17 AM
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Who cares... all those things you listed are what women look for in men.... Men? We're like... is she hot? Is she available? Is she open to this opportunity? And finally "how much fucking shit am I going to have to go through to get it". Women care about men's ability to provide and his experience and all that other shit. Men don't care if you're broke. And the less experience you have the better. Sure... you might not be ROCKING HOT in the sack... but we'll get there... ohhh yeah... it's like c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:46 PM
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I see what you're doing there but /u/OnlyToPostThisOne didn't make and argument for or against women's agency. Just pointing out that OTHER WOMEN are removing her agency. Women know that women are influenced by group-think and fear than men are. But they'd don't say "look girl, you're being stupid" they go "he's using you, be afraid! he's a predator, like ALL MEN!" Misery loves company. Women don't like it when another woman is able to so quickly "skip the (socio-economic) queue" using her youth…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:39 PM
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Yep. It's women that 'protect' other women right out of their own agency. (jealous) Women feed women fear and sell them protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:55 PM
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She's got plenty of power. A different kind of power/leverage, but make no mistake, it's power... it's a huge power. And that's why, when women can't have or lose that power (youth beauty fertility) they fucking LOSE THEIR MINDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:54 PM
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Yep, women always the victim and man always the perpetrator. That's feminism for ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:52 PM
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I want to say thank you because that is what they're saying... it's just NOT their place to say it. Mind your own. Why the hell do women think it's like their fucking duty to protect other women? By doing so, you're removing that womans agency and basically saying "she's too stupid to handle her own affairs, I SHOULD BE IN CHARGE OF HER LIFE!" I know why... the women doing this wasted their youth, beauty, purity chasing broke ass Chad and Tyrone. They never got their own Leo DiCaprio. Those wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:50 PM
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It's literally only older women that are annoyed Caprio would never date them, and simps that want to sleep with those 19 year old women. Fixed it. Could also be shorter: "It's only jealous women and thirsty men that get pissed about this" "thinking this is off or just plain creepy" those are feelings... feelings of disgust or jealousy??? Well, you think it's disgust. I think it's jealousy. Besides, we're on 4 generations of kids raised by women. They emulate women. Women say "gross" daughters s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:41 PM
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If Leo showed up at their door they'd drop their panties so fucking fast all the hair below the waist would be shorn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:30 PM
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Eventually you would hear people women and blue pilled beaten down married (beta cuck) men talking shit that it's creepy and judging him for it. Fixed it for ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:27 PM
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My wife left her husband at 40 to be with me. Long story but were we dated in highschool and I guess something was always missing, for both of us. She got a cancer diagnosis and I guess her world view changed. The kids were teens by then. She was totally taken for granted at home. I guess she wanted to taste life again and BAM, she's in my inbox... Her mom and ex were basically making claims that somehow I must have magic powers and tricked/manipulated her. I guess that helped them cope with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:26 PM
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It's 16 in Canada. It USED TO BE 14! In May 2008, the Canadian government led by Stephen Harper [conservative] passed a bill to raise the age of consent from 14 to 16, while creating a close-in-age exemption for sex between 14–15 year olds and partners less than 5 years older, and keeping an existing close-in-age clause for sex between 12–13 year olds and partners less than 2 years older.[3] The initiative also maintains a temporary exception for already existing marriages of 14 and 15 year olds…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:14 PM
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Also, tight... everything, so tight... ass, skin, shall I go on? lol Women be like "If you can't accept me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best." That only makes sense for a man to say. We have to work and grow from our worst to out best. If a man accepts a woman at her worst, WTF is he gonna do to get her best? Build a fucking time machine and go back to (try to) prevent her from fucking Chad and Tyrone, only to be rejected, beat up and called a creep all over again?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:06 PM
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Ok, so, let's raise the age of majority to 25.... No person can make a contract, consent to anything, drive a car, drink, vote...etc... until 25. There, all problems solved... That was easy. Until that 16 year old girl sneaks out her bedroom window, runs down the street, hops in her 19 year old boyfriends car and goes down to the beach to fuck. Ugh, when I was 16, man... I remember a couple of the cute girls going out with guys that just graduated highschool. I remember I was disgusted, but real…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 03:02 PM
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it's obvious that men are still the dominant competent power in the West. FIFY.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:49 PM
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Patriarchy is/are groups of men organized into a hierarchy by skill and competence that get together to solve a problem, shake hands, and go home. If you wanna spit on it... ok, spit on your phone, the furniture your ass is sitting on, the floor the furniture sits on, the toilet you void in, the AC you enjoy, the car in your driveway, the road you drive it on, protected by the police and the laws as you fill out your tank with fuel dispensed by a pump, on your way to your school/workplace, dress…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:49 PM
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It's not great if genders are reversed either Translated: Women most effected. Always the victim or the hero, never the villain. That's narcissism. Nobody wants to think of their daughter of ANY age getting pipped down. Geez, my wife got with me at 40 and her mom nearly had a fucking heart attack and did everything she could to try and destroy it, and it almost worked. Then her mom, not getting her way, refused to see/speak to her for the next 4 years as the cancer slowly killed her. Her mom acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:28 PM
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Touchdown.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:21 PM
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Yeah, where was the "He's not even 25 yet, his brain isn't fully developed, therefore he cannot give informed consent".... lol crickets..... "here's a gun, do something useful and protect us, and YOU should be grateful for the opportunity to do so because if you die we'll give your mom a flag and shoot a few 50 cent bullets into the sky for you."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:17 PM
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Women put anger, disgust, jealousy all together. It's called indignant. Women love their moral indignation. It explains all the tabloids. Always looking for something to be like "Look how gross this is/these people are" translated "Look at how awesome and moral and pure I am in comparison"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:14 PM
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Nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:12 PM
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It's a great conversation to have. Isn't it nuts how if a woman is under 25 and a guy 25 or older is banging her, other women are like "OMG, he's so gross, such a predator, he's 'taking advantage' of her, what could they possibly have in common, her brain isn't even fully developed yet" But good luck telling women "sorry, you can't do anything (bank account, drivers licence, drink, smoke, sign contracts, etc... until you're 25, your brain isn't developed yet!" lol Oh women and their double, trip…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:11 PM
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Headline news: Women avoid self-reflection and accountability like the plague. She got the ick factor? It couldn't be that she feels jealous, gross, old, less desirable... nope... it's always external - "someone else made me feel uncomfortable - GET HIM!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:17 PM
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So you've never heard the term "slay the dragon"? It's about facing the most dangerous foe one can imagine and being brave enough to encounter it fight it and overcome it. Some in psychology circles will say the "shadow". In every hero story that has ever been written there is the ultimate villain to overcome like Darth Vader. Even if you never heard that saying you couldn't even extrapolate what it meant? Okay that's a skill that you're missing. Unless you're being disingenuous to troll which m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:00 PM
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I'm just starting to accept that everything is my/men's fault. There's no point in trying to reason with women. And I believe that the reason there are many more social safety nets for for women is because the people at the top know that more than half of them are just plain old bat shit crazy. Of course they can't say that so, once again, let's blame "abusive men" so these women can avoid a single drop of shame/guilt/accountability because at the end of the day, that's what's driving them crazy…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:14 PM

Could have just said "you can't negotiate attraction" And what's this weird idea that men are telling women to be different... Men know a tiger doesn't change its stripes. It's women that "wake up one day" and all of a sudden wanna "settle down" but they don't put any effort into that and they don't get therapy and they certainly have no experience . They just want it. Now. It's like a kid that wants to play piano today and next week it's ballet, and the next week it's who the fuck knows. Women'…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:36 PM
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Hypergamy has a definition though and it's going UP in socio-economic status. I don't know if there's a term for "marrying the hot young girl" but it's not hypergamy. Besides, marrying the hotter younger woman is almost exclusively available to... (drum roll please) men of higher (much higher) socio-economic status. Take Leo DiCaprio. He keeps cycling women in around 21 and cycling them out by 25. This is only possible because he's got a very high socio-economic status (he's famous AND rich). Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:59 PM
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Men and Women cannot be "partners" (insinuates 50/50) because women are hypergamous. These things cannot both be true. Her level of hypergamy may have chilled out a bit, but women DO NOT go for men that aren't at LEAST even with them in the socio-economic status. The "Receptionist" may date the "Truck driver" but she's not dating (with intention) the guy that details cars or works in garbage collection. They idea that they all of a sudden become "50/50" partners... wow... maybe not impossible. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:26 PM
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Look that's a really long post but I really don't see how being a traditional woman has any more risk than not being a traditional woman. Each are going to have a different cost/benefit and each come with a different set of risks. But to keep this real short and sweet... If a woman hitches her wagon to a man and does the traditional thing, she's going to walk away with half and usually the kids and quite often spousal support. No I'm not really sure if you're talking about a woman that is a stay…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:39 PM
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Women are guilty of all these crimes, including buying vicious dogs they can't control Oh man, this is so true. Yes, it's a specific type of woman that does this. And if you look at their men it's like the same deal. They want this tough (looking) dog/man (the badboy) that can (or just looks like it can) protect. But when they aren't fighting it's like they want it to be this fucking lapdog/workhorse. And when the dog (badboy) gets 'off leash' they start screaming at him but THAT TYPE OF DOG AIN…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:12 PM
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"those things ALONE"... YEESH... alone? You say 'things' (plural) and then "alone"? My lord. Yeah ok, so a man has to be everything. Always has a burden of performance. And you/women get to sit back and review the performance. Got it. 10-4. Loud and clear. Like, omg, how many men are married to a starfish? No one cares. And of course, it must be his fault. Couldn't be that women are just more miserable than men in general eh? Couldn't be an alpha widow either eh? And then men have the "audacity"…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:54 PM
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You believe anger is a problem... it can be, but pretending like it doesn't or shouldn't exist... well, that makes you a woman or at least a communist, at worst, delusional. Anger is an energy and a perfectly normal emotion. Yet, I'm not angry. It's all you touchy weirdos that "Read" that from my prose. If your army instructor was giving you orders, you can't be all "geez man, lay off, you're so angry..." But this is a result of men being removed from their children lives. It's like everything h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:49 AM
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Why do I post things on the internet, in a "debate" forum, when there's always some asshole going to turn into a psychotherapist? Did you not read OP? This is what's she's saying. I just took it to it's final destination. Hell, I still have (at the moment) haven't been downvoted into oblivion by all the bluepill/feminist/deniers/censors. You don't give a shit about me. Why pretend? I'll tell you why... because in a gynocentric world, people are put into 3 categories. This is from Jordan Peterson…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:08 AM
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I can't find the auto mod so here goes. Thank you. Thank you for finally admitting what red pill 101 (and ancient philosophy) has been saying. Female nature is HYPERGAMY. Women fought this idea for so long. Told so many lies like "I love you" to keep the plow horse plowing. Women do not love men. Women have never loved men. Men are only "loved" on the condition that they provide something. Since the beginning of time women have been painting this picture like their glorious goddesses of empathy …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:32 PM

Yeah I don't really think fallacy is the right word. Should just call it a tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:27 PM
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Every man that takes the red pill must go through the five stages of grief. denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance I went through it just like that. At first I was like nah come on.... Because my whole life I was essentially lied to. You could make an argument that no one lied to me but I certainly wasn't educated on female nature. And don't we say that education is the best path to solving all of our problems? Bargaining is what you're going to hear when dudes are tossing around idea…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:26 PM
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Impulsivity is the point and you know it. I'm not a rape apologist, but I'm not a slut apologist either. Women can try and spin, out run, deny, scream... Doesn't matter, the day is going to come when you'll have to come to grips with the fact that low n is a normal preference for healthy men seeking LTR. Being easy is easy for a woman. So it has no value. In fact, it's a liability. The only women that complain about this are the promiscuous ones. Low n women knew it had value and they kept their…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:13 PM
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I know exactly what you'e saying and it refers to this: Women will be able to argue how men only want the 20% of women who aren’t promiscuous just like how it’s argued that women only want the top 20% of men. It's very disingenuous of your critics to just ignore the modifier "who aren't promiscuous" I don't know why it's so hard to understand that a promiscuous woman is just like a fat guy at a buffet or a drug addict in a meth lab or an alcoholic at a bar. Weird how being fat is shamed, drug ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:54 PM
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lord's of the realm Hey, that's really cool! I was born 1975. I had Atari and Nintendo, but by the 90's it was "chicks and cars and the third world war" But apparently the Motte and Bailey was an early fortification and pretty cheap compared to the idea we modern folks have of a castle. So I can see how it was an attractive - but not ideal - fortification based on a cost/benefit analysis + risk analysis. ( I still separate the C/B from R but they all overlap). I don't know who you are, stranger,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:49 AM
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Ya know, I'm kinda tired and about to hit the sack. But I'm going to leave this page/comment open and review it tomorrow because I see some fucking effort here, and that effort deserves some regard. I tried skimming but I felt like I was not giving you the respect you deserved. I will be back. I can smell some shit in here that seems (at minimum) superfluous. But hey, it's Saturday night and I'm getting tired and drunk so, see you tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:36 AM
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There's always a "first off", sometimes a "secondly" but rarely a third. Seems kinda pointless to make a list. SECONDLY, (lol) OMG I wasn't writing a dissertation so my bear/bare... oh lord, forgive me (even though you know exactly what i meant) so it's not a point of confusiuon that needs clarification but a weakness that you'll jump on to be like "Hey look everyone, he's a fucking moron" Point and Case: The biggest issue is that people are way too dumb and lack the knowledge required to have c…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:31 AM
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Everything is a weapon (leverage), even and especially, being the 'victim'.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:18 AM
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I'm stumped. I have no idea WTF you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:17 AM
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SOC-8 ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:15 AM
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“If you’re not catching flak, you’re not over the target”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:33 AM
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There's a lot to unpack here but I'm going to start with the word "follow"... so like... do you mean "follow him on social media?" or do you mean "follow in his footsteps" or "wanna be him" or are you getting to a little more like "follow = worship"? Words matter. It also seems like this question is bait to lure in and then, right at the end, slam men for not living up to Tate. Look, Tate is right about women. So is the Red Pill. So was Arthur Schopenhauer, so is Jordan Peterson, so was the Bibl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 10:50 PM
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I get as many affirmative replies as I do these stupid "you're old, cranky and bitter and need therapy and need to leave us alone, who hurt you" bullshit replies Even if i was hurt and bitter and in need of therapy, I really need you to realize that you just told me to go get fucked. You need to notice this when you believe you're speaking to a woman. I know you'd be speaking different to a woman, especially a younger woman. NO ONE says "Yeah whatever you bitter old cunt, go away" to a woman. We…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:59 AM
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DING DING DING... Winner winner chicken dinner. Well done. Just wanted to add that this is EVERYONE's fault (especially the government and feminism) because if woman needs a man, then shit changes. But apparently even admitting that she might need him more than he needs her and WHAM, here come the accusations that "he keeps her dependent" and "she's oppressed" and "we must save her from him".... then they lure her with the promise of places to stay, a free lawyer, full custody, don't have to ans…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:12 PM
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It's never a woman's fault, hell, she's never even culpable. As soon as us men get that through our fuckin head we'll be better off and women will be abandoned besides some occasional recreational activities. Then they'll play all sweet, but it's all a sham. On their next cycle they're eyeing up the door and she's watching everything you do. During this time all you have to do is rip a fart and she's gone. Women do not love men. They do not know love. Everything to a woman is a temporary experie…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:37 PM
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Aww shucks. Thanks. Jan 3 was 2 years since she died. I still think of her everyday but it hurts less. I hope you're well. Thanks for remembering.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:28 PM
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That was me. I changed handles. I remember you. You're smart, level headed, and you don't get all hyper sensitive/defensive when talking about the pills. That's why I'll take the time when I see you post. Proof: https://i.imgur.com/b8qeWps.jpeg
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:00 PM
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No I suspect that your FWB arrangement keeps things fresh as you don't have to live together or have kids together or deal with life stresses together but just get together when you want to have a little fun and friendship. And yes I understand women are rarely out of options even when past the wall but they aren't options that satisfy their hypergamy. Don't get me wrong my high school girlfriend married some other guy was married to him for 20 years she got cancer rang me up and we were off to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:39 PM
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Do you have any idea how diverse women's preferences are? Are you like brand new? born yesterday? Or disingenuous? My lord, all the stats are in. 100% of women want the top 20% of men and really only engage with the top 5% of those. And you've seen the OK Cupid stats on what women find attractive, right? Look, if women's attraction was as diverse as you are saying there'd be a pretty even distribution and people with relatively close SMV/looksmatch would all be hooking up. And that would also bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:08 PM
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Goo Goo eyes and a low n count takes a lot longer to wear off. The goo goo says "I'm so hot for you and respect you" the low n count means she can actually bond with you which means she's going to be more empathetic to your desires even if her's are a little lower at that time. But yeah, eventually it all wears off. The only real hope then is that she's past the wall (out of options), and so heavily invested that it's not worth it to go looking for 'greener pastures'. By invested I mean kids, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:57 PM
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My problem with women doesn't start with women. It starts with society and culture. Women are protected, coddled and elevated, and YOU CANNOT do those things for one without expense to the other, namely men. Justify it all you want "men have privilege... men oppress women yada yada yada" that's just more cover and it works because NO ONE says to a truly oppressed person "yeah, but did you really have to.... xyz?" My problem with women begins with their willingness to abuse that trust ("women don…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:19 AM
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Weird how women complain that 'all men want is sex' until that Chad comes along and she's fucking THROWING it at him hoping he sticks around for more. When he doesn't "fucking men... pigs... only think about sex" ha, good one. And, even if it's true, that ALL we want is sex... ok, well, that also explains why it's a very rare woman indeed that can't get sex or a baby. So, double edge sword. In my experience, when they realize I'm not going to be controlled through sex, they ghost or project "he'…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:46 AM
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ha, i love how you did this. Crazy, my mom at 28 (right on time to get off the carousel) marries my dad (33) - Bad ass biker guy, hangs with all the gang guys but keep his distance (doesn't join), works in a factory and drives truck (which was a good job back then). He's also got a '66 Corvette and a Campervan they take on trips. He works his bag off to buy a decent house. My mom turns 29, has me... 10 months later my middle brother, 1 year later the youngest brother... hangs in for another coup…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:20 AM
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Lol I love this. Imma totally gonna rock this shit bro! Gonna go get me one of them wahmen folk. We'll be in love, have a couple wonderful children that will grow up to cure cancer. She'll never leave me bro! I'll be even better than Tom Brady and Will Smith put together!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:08 PM
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Telling women to stay single is in the same vein as telling them "you don't need no man". This mantra has been repeated ad nauseam for like 60 years now. The feminist Hope was that they can override a female's natural desire to seek the provision of protection of a male. They figured if they could just repeat it enough times... They could brainwash/educate women out of their natural proclivities. The intent was to hurt and starve men into submission. And if the man wouldn't submit then he is to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:09 PM
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There has to come a point where you draw a line, where the ever increasing demand for more (especially the hypergamous 'more') when you realize through cost/benefit analysis (which men are way better at) that the return on investment isn't worth it. Men, through history made their impact on the world by doing, achievement and competition but those things were properly measured by men (who are better at measuring). Now we're supposed to get attention and validation by being pretty too? Also, it s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:11 PM
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Women often feel closer emotionally to someone after having (good) sex with them, fall in love / fall more deeply in love etc. You can throw in the "good. to make another qualifier for men. But besides that, yep, the first couple-few sexual partners for a woman, oxytocin is released, she bonds/falls in love. I mean, how the hell else is a person going to get in the most vulnerable position they possibly could, under a bigger stronger man, and let him put himself inside her... like FFS. There's a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:47 AM
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The men women really like never have to wait for sex. Unless she's like a 13-15 year old virgin about to enter HS and her so called friends (competition) are like "make him wait a year".... if' she's not a virgin it drops to 3 months. WTF? So much for logic The guy she makes wait is the guy she's training. She knows she's gotta give him some eventually. She's using that this as dog treats. The guy that gets her motor running... she'll walk 500 miles to his house, uphill both ways, in winter, lie…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:11 AM
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Once you take away the single artists and celebrities and high powered doctors and lawyers out having a wicked party, you're then left with some quiet wealthy but hungry men who's wives probably overlook the hookers as long as it doesn't bring any trouble and he keeps the money flowing. These are the alpha men that folks like Kevin Samuels pointed out. The women share these top men. Back in the working world women aren't going to tolerate a man spending any money on whores that could otherwise b…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 08:03 PM
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Damn... All due respect.... BASED! I still believe in redemption and love: https://youtu.be/5xfdGXA62ZM
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:00 AM
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Nah, the crux of the problem is that women want what they want, the way they want, when they want it, right now. And we can say "men do too", fine, but we don't get that women do. If a woman is having her 'hot girl summer" she'll treat sex like a party and men like they're fuck toys... and then, if the next day she wants a relationship (usually to lock down one of those fuckboys that satisfies her hypergamy - for now) all of a sudden "men ain't shit" and "where have all the good men gone" and "m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:50 PM
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My point exactly. Yeesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:20 PM
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Yeah of course, all those virgin births... Oh wait, there was only jebus. But what is more likely, the entire natural order is suspended or a Jewish minx would tell a lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:31 PM
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This is huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:47 PM
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It's amazing how women can rely on facts when it seems to go in their favor. Why do you need to ask me if 20% of women get raped? You show me the source. And I swear to God if it's some big bullshit number that includes some sort of harassment or some guy slapped me on the ass I'm going to dismiss you as being disingenuous. I'm driving and cannot go look this up on my own right now but I have a feeling I know where you're trying to get that one in four women on college campuses have been raped a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:03 PM
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Just as you'd probably say that most of the women you know have experienced some sort of sexual assault, I can tell you that most of the men I know have had a false accusation. Not all these women went to the cops, but they threatened it. And it's getting worse. Summer 2021 my landlord had moved in some real trashy young women. They didn't like that I actually had some money and would enjoy the backyard which was quite large in the rear of this nine unit apartment building. It wasn't so bad unti…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:35 PM
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Oh we understand that once it gets to court you'd have to prove it beyond a reasonable doubt... But there's a lot of damage done between a false accusation and actually getting to the courtroom. People that have never been through the system in any sort of way have no idea just how fucking stressful and expensive it is especially when you know it's a waste but you're still in peril. The process alone is already punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:55 PM
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Relativism. And the answer always comes back "women most affected " Even when someone show stats people go oh well what about all the unreported? And about the false accusations... Even when men are found not guilty people just go oh well maybe there just wasn't enough evidence but we know he did it, essentially. And then after that of course there's the court of public opinion which, like c'mon. My best friend was married 20 years ago had a daughter and the wife kicked him out with a bunch of f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:34 PM
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Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:35 PM
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So, we can tell men there are things they can do to prevent false rape accusations but can't tell women there are precautions they can take to avoid rape. There, there's another to add to OPs list. Men's problems are always diminished and responsibilities placed squarely on their shoulders. And everyone bends over backwards to remove responsibility from women. Hey look, another for the list! When the group talks to men it's basically the narcissist's prayer. That didn't happen, and if it did, It…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:33 PM
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Although I don't consider it n-count technically... It's more like n-count lite. If a girl's been with three guys that sucked five dicks I'm not going to be as twisted about it as if it was the other way around. But in the example above, 36 dicks? Yeah. There's got to be a point for every man where he's just getting that ick factor. Women seem to really hate that it's like they think that the ick factor is only for themselves. Ick is a rejection. It's "ewww you're gross and I don't wanna be cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:48 PM
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What you said there is exactly what these women would say. Weird when my first wife and I got together we both went out and we both drank but then once we were married (no kids), she started the old "I hate your friends"... She made home late so uncomfortable that I did end up going out many times a week to go sit at a box there was nowhere else to go. And then of course that feeds her narrative that I'm an out of control drunk spending way too much of "our" money at the bar. It took 18 months a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:37 PM
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The word submissive gets everybody so bent out of shape. In the Bible it says better to live on the corner of a roof of a house then in the house with a contentious woman. So can we say that submissive to me is a woman that doesn't fucking argue about every freaking thing. And if she does are you she has a conversation relatively gently about it. Women seem to be the gender that discuss social etiquette and hold it in such high regard and seem to think they're the experts on it so they're always…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:12 PM
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It's fucking amazing how they always come up with some way to rationalize how they're suffering the most and how it's men's fault. That's narcissism.... Always the hero or the victim never the villain. The weird thing is we can't even say that with these women are doing is wrong because it's like not illegal or anything. And someone else could argue that it's immoral and someone else could argue that it's moral, like the person above. But at the end of the day the objective reality of the situat…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:30 PM
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Exactly this. Male sexual attention is really the only leverage women have ever had. I mean, they used to do other stuff for us too but those days are gone. They don't know how to cook or would just refuse anyway "I'm not your mother!" Women will always need men for their to provide and protect. They can sit their in their office (built by men) at their computer (build by men) thinking "I don't need no man", until the AC shuts down. Now all of a sudden it's "call the HVAC technician" (almost cer…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:28 PM
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Truth! Jeez, women get jealous over a guy's car or hobby or dog... but apparently they're not going to be jealous or down right angry when they lose the last (only) bit of leverage they ever really had. Namely Sex. They always want to take away/limit/control the things men like/enjoy and then make the men work for a taste. They don't want us being distracted or being satiated on our own. Tobacco, alcohol, porn, guns, fast cars. If the female derives no benefit from a thing or activity that men e…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:22 PM
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That's how I see it. Of course the females here will turn it into some pop psychology shit that twists it to make him out to be someone who needs therapy that can't get laid by organic females. Basically a loser incel because apparently men can't make anything that isn't about themselves in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:09 PM
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All women are hypergamous. That is what is demonstrated by the data. All data, not just OLD. Women of course are hypergamous to varying degrees. The "take it slow" types are low in impulsivity and high in conscientiousness and patience. Well unless she's one of those reformed whores who's now trying to take it slow because she realized that shit wasn't working. Those ones like to show up at church and play good girl to try and lock down a decent guy but he still has to be higher than her in soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:54 PM
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Women have been trying to tell (control) how men behave (that most benefits them) since the beginning of time and they use sex as the carrot on the stick that they almost never intended to actually give you. But when some guy comes along that really gets their motor running they're throwing carrots at them. They don't give a shit if he's a bum with a criminal record and facing jail time, hell it seems to me like they're like "even better this will give me even more control, and if it all goes to…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:02 PM
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He ain't a deadbeat, he's just the same he always been. 100% For me, it was 1991, 15 years old, second year of HS. I was a nobody the first year. Over the summer I turned into a punk rocker. I got back for second year looking like Johnny Rotten (Sex Pistols). Was playing guitar. Started a band. Would hang out and play in my band in the rough bars in town. Was going to an academic school. I was the only punk for a while and to this extreme. Guess what... PUSSY! All of a sudden I'm fuckin'. Not Ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:44 AM
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Everything you just said is SO 100% My buddy had 3 with this stripper. He was a petty thief, drug addict, but we got along. I tried to help him a lot too. Anyway, once the youngest was a couple years old, she does the old "abuse" claim, he's removed and ends up homeless multiple times. She runs to big daddy gov, legal aid pays for her lawyer. Gets full custody, even goes for "supervised visits" (which would cost him each time). He can't afford a lawyer, well, I'm not stupid, I do all the paperwo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:57 AM
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I hear ya. I know a guy that drives for Purolator. Makes 70k a year, union, pension, all that. Yeah well, fucking guy is in and out of that truck WHO KNOWS how many times a fucking day stopping on average every 8 minutes. Unloading shit, trying to get signatures. Fuck all that. I drive a couple hours, open my doors, get loaded, drive 5 hours, open my doors, unload, drive to yard. Drive home. Repeat. I'm glad you like it. But for me, fucl all that shit. Fucking hand trucks and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:18 AM
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Wait what? HA. Wow. How about this. In Grade 5 (1985) I told my fav music teacher I wanted to be a truck driver like my dad. She gently said something along the lines of "you can do better". And I did. I was in IT for like 25 years. Paid off my student debt a way back. Used to fly around the world consulting. Finally got a nice office job sitting behind a desk for a decade. The company sold. Now, instead of "you don't have experience" it was 'your education is old". Couldn't find work for a coup…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:15 AM
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That's really strange because the statistic for example single black man in the United States... 51% single and childless. Where you get this idea the majority of men are in long-term relationships and having sex is ridiculous. Even the man in the long term relationships are rarely having sex and they ain't all that happy. It's just cheaper to keep her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:32 PM
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I feel like this is the case too. I'm not so sure about this huge societal crash however.... The really low rung women (living on some sort of government support or maybe has some minimum wage shit job like cleaning hotel rooms or serving coffee) are probably close to starving. Sure they can get the sex from the fuck boys but those guys don't have any real extra income to share or even if they do they're not going to share. What I'm seeing is women trying to keep pretending that they have abunda…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:30 PM
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No, toxic women call any male critic of female behavior, misogyny. Just another deflection. Can't have people looking too close and putting that shit together. Gotta call them a hate group and censor those men before they blow the cover.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:06 PM
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If you really are a gym bro and former man whore, it seems to me your perspective is going to be like the average woman. Abundance! So it also makes sense that you (and average or even below average) women basically sing the same refrain "man up, do better, the problem is you" There seems to be this pervasive idea out there that any and every man can just hit the gym, dress a little better, and 'get out there " to get access to lots of women. This has never been true since the beginning of time.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:33 PM
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Hypergamy. I mean, I can understand women thinking "get the best one you can get" but there's a hidden "he's gottta be better than guys 'on my level'. Hell, even if the individual woman would be content with a guy on 'her level', her peers will be that confused look like "jeez, why's she with him?" and it's meant to make the woman question it. Men see a buddy get a gf and we're like "right on dude, good for you" and we don't question it... well, I didn't until I took the red pill. My god I see w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:03 PM
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TRP is 'just another lens' to see the world and holy crap, THANK YOU (to the men that were able to get this information out to us from behind enemy lines). They risked everything. They are the rebels. They are the hero's. Women have been saying/screaming "We're the same as you" and "we don't need you" for two hundred years. And some men (MGTOW) went "ok, see ya" and then the ladies went "Where have all the good men gone?" when enough dudes were like "fuck this I'm out" Instead of adapting, women…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:30 AM
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Well, gotta point out that this is a very female trait. Jordan Paterson point out that women, but especially psychopathic women use guilt, shame, reputation destruction as their main tools to bully and there's nothing a man can do because if it was another man, I can fight him. Even if I don't win, it's still an option on the table and this is what keeps disagreements more civil between men. Sauce That's forbidden in discourse with women. Women also fucking LOVE their indignation. They love gasp…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:13 PM
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Wow Jesus that was kind of hot... And you know it all sounds great I guess I'm just thinking about those times when she's moving and then you're out of sync and it's like I'm pushing forward and she's pulling backwards so therefore no friction. But you know all the rest of that stuff sounds pretty good I don't think I've ever had that. I don't think I'd be a big fan of the nipples thing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:58 PM
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Hey CimZim. It's been awhile since we've crossed commented and I was under a different name but I know who you are. Well okay not in some real life creepy sort of way. Lol Are you being serious with the question? Just hold still. Sometimes a woman can mess up the motion of the ocean. If I'm moving forward and she's moving backwards no one's getting anywhere. When you're on top though, row away!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:10 PM
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Unless you're on top, just hold still for crying out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:10 AM
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Your comment caught my eye. I'm not a hard liner on this stuff. Consenting adults - great, you do you... however, it does seem to me that most of these poly types are really just kinda playing/living some sort of 13 year old male-typical sexual fantasy. See:Hugh Hefner. Seems to me that they're 'getting while the getting is good' - playing the field- exercising options - making no sacrifices - cherrypicking only the parts they like and discarding the parts they don't and this really doesn't play…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:58 PM
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Well, if I'm honest about it, I found one like that at 16. Dated for a couple months. Her friends all got in her head "He just wants one thing!"... ya see, i was a punk rocker. They all figured I was "bad". That was just the cover, but it did help me get chicks... but anyway. She says "you gotta wait 3 months" and I bailed. i didn't have the words to articulate it at the time but any stupid number is just arbitrary. It doesn't mean I'm gonna stick around. Shit, at that age, I'd wait 3 months for…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:23 PM
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As low as reasonable for her age. I'm 47 now and I have a vasectomy, that was a life changer, I no longer had that fear of being duped by some whore and being cucked. All of a sudden N count mattered a hell of a lot less. I don't even look for N count anymore, most will lie or deflect anyway. Here's how I ballpark N Count. Women over 35 that are all neurotic (anxiety, depression, unstable, biploar) - I already pretty much know N count is HIGH. Obligatory "NOT ALL" for all the screaming banshee f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:51 PM
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Yep. My wife was married to my competitor for 25 years. Nearing the end he wanted (with her permission) , more. She asked "And me?" and of course, "no way"... a few months later she was riding my cock like it had the cure for cancer in it. Yea, she was diagnosed terminal at 40. I guess she just HAD to fucking "know me" (in the bible sense) before she died. She was a rower. Oh my god, men... get yourself a rower.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:54 AM
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HYPERGAMY mate. The GF thinks he's so awesome (maybe it's real, maybe it's perception) she's willing to share. Girls, who knew? /s HA, shit, they knew this shit THOUSANDS of years ago. The "virgin" Mary never counted on the internet. Now women be freakin' out, runnin' around calling everyone 'haters'. <--- narcissism exposed. ​ "What's more likely - that the entire natural order was suspended or a Jewish minx would tell a lie?" - David Hume via Christopher Hitchens Sauce: https://youtu.be/bQwZwd…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:50 AM
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You just drug it lower. OP made an observation that plenty of people see and have seen for millennium and then you come along and basically turn OP into a whiny bitter loser incel. There was nothing about OPs post that sounded anything like that. You took it further whilst making it out like someone else always drags it lower. Hypergamy exists. Pointing it out doesn't make someone a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:37 AM
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You can't decide "would I be this or that" unless you know what you want, and that's the kicker. Lemme use an analogy I like to use that demonstrates that choices, by definition, are sacrifices. "Do you want Mc Donalds or Burger king?" "Um well... I dunno, I love the Whopper but I like the nuggets at McD's" "Well, we're only making one stop so...." Typical western woman: "Wahhhh, I want a whopper and then we can stop at McD's for nuggets." "Um no, one stop" "He was a toxic abuser!: I really wish…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:44 AM
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We were and still are lied to. Our fathers were used and discarded. We grew up under our mothers and then our female teachers all feeding us a bunch of bullshit that only served to make themselves simultaneously the Hero and the Victim. They manipulated us men for their own ends and still claim we're the villains. And it's not like women be backing the fuck off. They've doubled and tripled down. And then, when we get close enough to the truth, you come out with that tired old "Men too!" fucking …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:32 AM
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Exactly - "You can't negotiate attraction" The guy that gets her motor running - he's not more socially adept. If he's a Chad he's probably less adept than others because he gets laid without doing fuck all except show up and maybe flash a smile. When a chick wants a dude they miss tons of red flags and have a very low bar for entry. Then, after a couple weeks or maybe a couple months he's doing even less and these chicks are crying on youtube going "What's the problem with these men?! And what'…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 08:24 PM
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Feminists are narcissists. Essentially they are always the hero or the victim or ideally both - but never the villain. They cherry pick what's good for themselves and themselves only. Anything that might ever be used to bring shame to or hold any woman accountable must be burned and buried. To accomplish this they pull the "patriarchy!" bullshit. They want to hold men accountable and responsible for everything. As for mandatory testing, well, at this time (in Canada), testing is legal, but you g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:51 PM
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Hey, finally some honesty. I get it. Men have always had to compete for access to sex/reproduction. Women got to just chill and wait. I guess women didn't like that. They wanna be the boss. Ok go. And the idea was "men will have to keep upping their game." The government liked that idea too. However, for women to catch up, men had to be held back. Now women are ahead and they find there ain't no one "good enough" (see: hypergamy). And they aren't going to take care of a man like men had to take …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:34 PM
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Ok, so when men had the leverage it was "women are victims" and when women have the leverage it's "suck it up and submit bitch!" And the idea that men were colluding to keep women out of the coal mine is ridiculous. Yeah, ok, the monopoly man wasn't gonna step aside but for the vast majority of us penis people it's work or die, and the only work was shit women aren't built for. They were better off using their skills in the home raising children. And the idea that men didn't let women have bank …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:15 PM
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Do you feel you should be able to coast through life, be relatively boring, not work on your physique, not work on your finances, not have passion and a developed and interesting personality that’s fun and exciting to be around, and STILL experience love and sex and companionship? Um.... works for women. These types of posts always come off as humble-bragging as opposed to real world advice. It's like "I lift bro, i get chicks, you should lift" yeah yeah, we get it. The issues that have (had) pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:15 AM
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So many younger people lack social skills and don't even understand the basics of the opposite sex. Well that's true, but it doesn't sound like you understand the opposite sex either. And then there's the insult "a significant portion of men should just learn basic social skills." like we're retarded or autistic or something. I (47M) have never had a relationship develop out of a friendship. Sure, there were girls that would 'hang around'... putting themselves in my view and hoping I notice them…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:14 AM
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