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Question For MenAtonon3189/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:04 PM
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Atonon3189/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:46 AM
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The most dangerous time for someone in an abusive relationship is when they are planning to leave. Fear keeps those women within the relationship. Yes, if you continuously dating abusive men there is an issue within yourself that you need to figure out but that’s a different topic altogether. In your original post you are insinuating that abusive men show those attributes from the jump which is hardly the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:54 PM
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Why would it be your fault if you partner abused you? That’s just victim blaming as someone in this thread has already told you. Are going to blame an individual who got t-boned by a drunk driver because they chose to go into work that day?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 10:43 PM
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Well if a man is the one perpetrating the abuse why shouldn’t he be blamed? Do you take accountability for a woman cheating on you bc you weren’t able to see the future and know she was garbage in disguise?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 10:38 PM
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Accountability for what exactly? Women can’t read men’s minds, people 100% hide their true intentions all the time. If your girlfriend or wife cheated you, are you going to take accountability for her act of cheating? Because you should’ve just known that she was going to cheat in the future like a psychic?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 10:36 PM
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So you’re suggesting women should just avoid men altogether? Because men aren’t just waltzing up to women like “hey I’m an abusive piece of shit want to date?” they hide those characteristics until they feel comfortable enough to expose themselves. The solution you are suggesting is for women to completely isolate themselves from men because we don’t know who’s going to be a piece of shit or not, and funny enough y’all will find a way to complain about that too, more than y’all already do anyway…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 10:32 PM
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You are not seeking more available women, you are seeking weak women that can’t make money for themselves so they’ll settle for whatever they can get. That’s pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:11 AM
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I’m talking about exclusive relationships I’m not going into the territory of “situationships” because that’s a different topic altogether
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:36 AM
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Then that wouldn’t be considered cheating since both of you agreed to be in a polyamorous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:55 PM
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This sounds so idiotic. You don’t desire, respect, or love your wife if you are going behind her back and sleeping with other women whilst lying to her about it. What part about that sounds like respect or love to you? You are literally putting your relationship in danger in order for a some temporary pleasure. Y’all talk so much about women taking accountability that you fail to take some for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:27 PM
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In this day in age we have paternity tests. If you are uncertain get a test and all your problems will be solved. I’d also say living with with life long STDs is cause for concern for many women, also having random women coming to your door claiming your husband is her baby daddy could be an issue too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:13 AM
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Women certainly do that. Hoes exist. They’ll have no problem banging a guy with a bigger package then go right back to her providing husband at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:01 AM
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You can get a paternity test, problem solved. Is it okay for her to cheat if it doesn’t result in a pregnancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:00 AM
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But if she’s not looking to replace you then what’s the problem? They just want a switch up, new dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 02:40 PM
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So if women cheat with a man below their husbands tax bracket it should be okay right? Because she just needs some side dick that her husbands tiny prick isn’t providing for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:48 PM
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How so? Condoms are a thing, so is birth control, and as a last resort abortions. If she’s able to prevent a pregnancy then what’s the problem? Apart from the whole cheating thing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:43 AM
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Women also have sexual needs. If your 4 inch pecker isn’t hitting the spot she should be able to go out and find a man on the side that will satisfy her, but it’s okay because she still loves you right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:41 AM
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And you came to that conclusion based off of? Many hoes exist who can have sex with men without any emotional attachment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 01:03 AM
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This is referring to men in relationships hence the “cheating again and again and again” part of my argument
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 01:02 AM
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Not all women have sex with men out of emotional need. Some just get drunk and have a one night stand with no emotion behind it. The same way some men leave their wives for their mistress
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 01:00 AM
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What he said wasn’t wrong though. If women have all these options y’all claim and still manage to not cheat then what’s men’s excuse? Literally just selling yourselves as horny dogs with no self control that will hump anything in sight as long as it gives you enough attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:56 AM
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Yes, cheating happens through attraction that’s common sense. People aren’t ruining their relationships to have sex with someone they aren’t attracted to. A heterosexual woman is not attracted to women so she will not cheat with a woman because she’s not gay. Your argument is basically “if she randomly turns gay and fucks a woman that’s fine” when you and I both know that will never happen. It’s a stupid argument which I’m not even sure why I responded to given the complete lack of thought behin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:49 AM
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None of what you said addresses why women cheating is worse. Just sounds like ramblings from a bitter man upset that other men are getting pussy while he doesn’t. Address the post or don’t comment at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:43 AM
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Are you going to refute his point using any form of logic or just resort to the classic “she ain’t gonna fuck you bro”? Y’all are supposed to be the gender of logic and reason! Why don’t you use some of that to make a semi-intelligent response.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:39 AM
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We apply different standards to homosexual couples and heterosexual couples because one group is attracted to the same gender while the other is not…a man cheating with a woman while in a heterosexual relationship is bad because that man is attracted to women, the same way it is bad when a woman cheats with a man while in a heterosexual relationship, because that woman is attracted to men. She’s not just gonna magically turn gay so she can cheat, she’s gonna go for the people she’s always been a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:36 AM
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And men get those women pregnant which is why men shouldn’t be cheating either, your logic is so flawed it’s baffling. Where is the accountability y’all talk so much about? And not all sex leads to pregnancy, contraceptives exist so as long as those are used women should be able to cheat all they want, using your logic of course. Who got said “slut” pregnant? She didn’t do that by herself. It’s just as much your responsibility as it is hers, maybe even more so since you decided to have sex with …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:29 AM
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This is dumb. Most women in heterosexual relationships are heterosexual, so they wouldn’t cheat with a woman because they aren’t attracted to them. Men don’t apply those same standards or else they would be cheating with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:23 AM
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That is extremely fucked up. I’m glad she eventually got out, being stuck in such a situation especially with so many eyes on you is beyond unimaginable. You truly can not love someone and do such a thing to them, just doenst make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:20 AM
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“Mostly loyal” doenst exist. You are either loyal or you aren’t, point blank. And based on who provides more depends on each relationship. Either way that discrepancy in funds is made up by the woman doing the housework and taking care of your children even while working which most women do. Your financial prowess doesn’t excuse your infidelity the same way her nurturing your children AND working doesn’t excuse her infidelity. How is the man more loyal for cheating than a woman who is also cheat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:15 AM
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“Mostly loyal” doenst exist. You are either loyal or you aren’t, point blank. And based on who provides more depends on each relationship. Either way that discrepancy in funds is made up by the woman doing the housework and taking care of your children even while working which most women do. Your financial prowess doesn’t excuse your infidelity the same way her nurturing your children AND working doesn’t excuse her infidelity. How is the man more loyal for cheating than a woman who is also cheat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:15 AM
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Damn, that’s awful. What did she end up doing if you don’t mind me asking? Can’t be easy to face a betrayal like that from your partner that you have spent years with(I’m assuming).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:28 PM
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Making a generalization a point of your argument isn’t logical though. We have to consider every possible avenue for situations like these to come to a fair and logical conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:23 PM
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That was a generalization said from men on Twitter, and is not one I agree with entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:22 PM
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So if a woman does it in the heat of the moment it’s okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:13 PM
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And where did this assumption come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:12 PM
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“Cheating partner does not. The cheating man reduces his investment less than the cheating woman” And how exactly is that measured?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:11 PM
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That’s not the main reason cheating is bad at all though. It’s the betrayal of trust that is the problem. You are also forgetting men can end up getting women pregnant which could cause a fair share of problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:09 PM
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100% false all heterosexual women (seeing as though I am one) are NOT into men without sexual discipline. Most women I know would leave a guy if he proved he couldn’t keep it in his pants while in a relationship. Elaborate on that last point more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:07 PM
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How is irrelevant to your argument? How is the investment into the relationship measured if the wife isn’t sure if you have an emotional connection with the other woman or not? Who believes who certainly doesn’t change that cuz once you’ve cheated you clearly have shown you aren’t invested in the relationship as much as your partner thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:04 PM
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The relationship is in serious trouble either way. Your wife doesn’t trust you and is heartbroken maybe even considering leaving you if she finds out, you don’t think that’s a cause for trouble in the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:00 PM
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Who wants to be with a man with no sexual discipline? The cheating is just gonna happen again and again and again. Maybe even leading to some pregnancies, STDs God knows what. Why should a woman tolerate that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:57 PM
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But how is your girlfriend/ wife supposed to know you don’t have any emotional connection with the woman you are cheating with? You’ve already proved you aren’t trustworthy so why would she believe anything you have to say? And I still don’t see how cheating with someone you don’t even care about is better than cheating with someone you do. Either way the relationship is trashed, the trust is broken, the respect clearly isn’t there so how is one better than the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:56 PM
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That’s not loyalty though, just sounds like an excuse to have sex with other women and not feel bad about it. If the woman is taking care of said “offspring”, cleaning, cooking, making sure everything is in check, helping make sure bills are paid on time etc. isn’t that providing something to the relationship? That’s also completely ignoring the fact that most homes in America are dual income meaning women are indeed providing more to the relationship than just “offspring and loyalty” You seem t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:50 PM
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But doesn’t that mean the man just has no sexual discipline and is sort of weak in a way?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:40 PM
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Why would we make an effort to change and respect men if they aren’t willing to do the same for us? More and more men are growing into raging misogynists because of their shitty experiences with women, that’s only going to drive women to be more hateful toward y’all in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:20 PM
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A woman has an inflated ego because she doesn’t want to fuck you? Oh Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:57 PM
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It’s very true..look at the backlash Sam Taylor Johnson gets. It’s just as weird if it’s a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:27 PM
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People will always judge older folks going for younger regardless of gender. Sam Taylor Johnson comes to mind, she gets criticized all the time (rightfully so) bc the situation is just very odd, but at the end of the day nothing we can do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:19 PM
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What exactly was contradicting about my statement? I see enough women reject guys with sexist views, does that mean all women reject men with these views? No, because my personal experience isn’t a universal truth it’s that simple. No one said it was just you, does it happen? Yes, but it is not “universal” like you claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:22 PM
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Clearly you do if they are tolerating your sexism and hypothetical abuse. Women are not a monolith this is basic information, you claiming it’s “universal truth” doesn’t make it so. Just another form of narcissism coming from men on this forum, thinking their experience must be what everyone else is experiencing. You are not the center of the universe. Your experiences aren’t universal, get your head out of your own ass for two seconds and you will come to terms with that very simple fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:12 PM
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Sigh, another generalization from a bitter man on this forum. Just because you are able to reel in women with low self esteem that are somehow able to put up with your bullshit doesn’t mean it applies for the entirety of our gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:51 PM
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She never tried to compare it she only said she experiences it too (obviously not to the same extent) and some women also haven’t felt intimacy or romantic affection their entire life why are u trying to make that a male centric issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:44 PM
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Basically what sweetbrown89 said. It’s one sided. No one said you seeing women as attractive human beings you want to be close with is a bad thing, but if the woman in question doesn’t feel the same about you and just wants to keep it platonic there seems to be issues that come with that. Not every woman who befriends a man is doing it for romantic purposes, sometimes we just want a friend, and if you end up looking for more out of that friendship then the friendship won’t work. At least from wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:25 PM
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Platonically rarely ever works. Since some men decide to voice that “guys and girls can’t be friends and that he just wants to fuck you” leaving us a little paranoid to pursue friendships with men, and some dudes who end up proving that statement right by catching feelings for their lady friend around 80% of the time, just leaves the platonic scenario seeming kind of unrealistic . unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:45 AM
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Yes because it’s not our obligation to fix y’all’s sex lives…we can’t fix your desirability that’s on you and you alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:02 AM
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Point to me where I said OP shouldn’t gtfo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:18 AM
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If you aren’t a virgin by “a good chunk” then you won’t ever need to worry about being the last of a “whores choice” this is directed at incels who are mad that they don’t get sex but pass up on viable options because of who said “whore” has had sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:17 AM
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Oh pls y’all say this every few months and never end up doing shit so let’s keep the “when men wake up” bullshit to ourselves, and y’all make it seem as if you don’t have many other options but now all of sudden you have enough options to pick and choose between who you do and who you don’t want? So which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:14 AM
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Then he should just break up with her and find a girl who isn’t a hoe. Shouldn’t be a problem if he’s desirable right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:12 PM
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It should be special if no other girl is willing to pick you. A woman coming your way whether she is a hoe or not should be a blessing if sex and relationships is as hard to get for yall as it’s claimed it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:02 PM
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You tell me…you were the one claiming she wasn’t wife material so it seems you already have the answer for that question, but if you are going to continue to act dumb there’s no point in continuing the debate. Best of luck education ad!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:56 PM
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I personally wouldn’t want a man who has slept with half of my friends, but that’s just me. I know you’re trying to be clever and pull a lil strawman out to try and get me to slut shame homegirl but that won’t be happening here so let’s stick to the topic at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:53 PM
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He didn’t need to say it. That fact that he is with a girl that has had sex with half of his friend group is proof enough. Do you really think “chads” are dating girls like these? If not average then what else could he possibly be?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:51 PM
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I mean if he was that desirable I doubt he’d be dating women that fucked half of his friend group but alas. I’ll play along though. Let’s say he’s more on the average side doesn’t that mean average men still have a chance with women? Cuz y’all always say the women only want “chads” and what not but if we use this post as evidence (anecdotal sure but still) we can see that is not always the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:49 PM
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That doesn’t make sense cuz it seems the og redditor that posted this comment is an average man other wise he wouldn’t be dating a “hoe” so obviously promiscuous women do go for average men since he was able to even bag her in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:45 PM
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Which brings me back to the last point I made. If he isn’t that desirable in the first place he shouldn’t have such standards if his goal is to find a partner which it seems he already has in a girl that can be considered a hoe, but men are still shaming him for it for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:41 PM
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Good for you, but not many men have that same luxury. Shouldn’t he be with someone willing to give him a chance rather than be completely alone which seems to be the bane of many men’s existence?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:37 PM
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And how often is that happening? How many times has a sex worker rejected you based on your race?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:32 PM
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If you are unwilling to “turn a hoe into a housewife” then don’t complain about not having a housewife at all
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:29 PM
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He should feel special cuz that “hoe” chose him in the first place. Constantly on this sub y’all talking about women having such easy access to sex and relationships but when you have access to both you squander it by worrying about her past relationships, and then return to this subreddit and complain about the same shit you willing gave up…if your not that desirable in the first place your pickings are slim shouldn’t be out here rejecting girls on the basis of their past when that’s likely the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:26 PM
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And this why y’all are sad and lonely…y’all be saying this stuff to the only women that are willing to give you a shot. If single life really is that bad for some of y’all you would stop complaining so much over the very little options you do have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:24 PM
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I’m not arguing for who is worse…I’m trying to understand why men bash the only women that are willing to have sex with them only to come complain about women not having sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:23 PM
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This. More often than not I’m seeing average go with average and below average go with below average and so on and so forth, but for some reason they assume every average girl is dating a 6’2 + billionaire with chiseled abs and a sharp jawline when that’s just not the way things are in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:22 PM
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If you really are so sure that the child isn’t yours to the point that you are getting a paternity test I think that’s just a risk you are gonna have to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:19 PM
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This post was specifically aimed at men who bash promiscuous women yet complain they have no options, if that shoe doesn’t fit you then don’t wear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:15 PM
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Bc those average promiscuous women can’t score “top men” so gotta settle for the next best thing. Average men dwindle their own options by bashing/excluding women on the basis on how much they have sex, so in the end your loneliness is a product of your own righteousness
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:13 PM
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If you find pleasure in making fun of women and wanting them dead because of your failed sex life and undesirability I’m afraid it has nothing to do with women at all, you’re just a bitter ass loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:08 PM
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Practice for who though? I thought y’all weren’t getting any other women now all of a sudden you got enough options to pass “sluts” off as practice?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:48 PM
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Wouldn’t those men on the top shelf be going for women who are also considered to be on the top shelf? Your average girl isn’t out here regularly bagging top men, will they sleep with her? Probably. But they won’t marry her or date her like most guys are saying in this thread since they have better options so why don’t y’all just swoop in and take what’s left? It’s not like it’s unheard of for women to go for men who are far less attractive than them. Then why don’t those sexless men blame those…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:57 PM
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I feel it’d be quite difficult to not meet their requirements …most men are not in that bad of shape to where sex workers are casually rejecting them. Let’s be a little serious here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:02 AM
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But if you marry her you have a woman to fuck right there…instead of complaining about the lack of options you have might as well just take what you can get
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:21 AM
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Promiscuous women in general are selective with who they sleep with? Or the promiscuous women YOU want are selective with who they sleep with?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:17 AM
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Then why complain about a lack of options if you are missing out on a perfectly viable candidate right in front of your face? Not sure virgin Alice down the street is gonna be quite keen on having relations with the man who gives it up to the first woman that says yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:05 AM
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