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I don't see where the contradiction is. You think men should praise these women in order to have more whores on the market ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:39 PM
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You are humiliating yourself by doing porn for your whole world to see People get off from watching you humiliated Doesn’t mean they respect you in fact it’s because they don’t that it gets them off
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:04 PM
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I mean obviously if he is in love with you he’ll treat you like a 10/10 and if he is not in love then he’s settling Besides, I don’t think that a woman who changed her ways because she learned from her mistakes is a problem. We are all humans, and while it’s easy to put people down when they do wrong, I think most men can have some amount of empathy for a woman like this. The problem is when she has or has had an partern of acting a certain way towards men, and then changing her ways once she me…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:43 PM
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Because having competition decreases the price one can ask for
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:14 PM
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The fact that Dictatorship like China Russia and India struggle with the same problems as the west suggests that it’s just female nature, regardless of the system
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:52 PM
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Is 99% of them matched my description there’d still be the 1 last % who doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 10:36 PM
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Because it's really not? It's psychological. Lol. Your psychology is largely influenced by your hormones and by the 1.3 K.G piece of meat that you have in your head that's called a brain. This brain didn't get there out of nowhere. it's biology the mushroom tip is said to be able to ensure that sperm stays in. Men are not repulsed by the idea of having sex with promiscuous women. The one who fucked 1 000 dudes in a row proved that. They are repulsed by the idea of forming a relationship and comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:38 PM
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Because my jobs includes talking to a lot of +35y/o women everyday. And more often than not liberal atheist women have 2 men in their lives : the one I described and the one you described, at the same time. The only "good scenario" is when both people love each other enough to actually live a romance, but love themselves enough to have bondaries as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:10 PM
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If a guy loves more it means he is basically being used by the woman. That's a friendzone situation with a little bit more sex and a lot more commitment, because she has the upper hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:03 PM
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Contribute is a better term. That's still providing his ressources and lifetime into the household though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 08:53 PM
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I don’t understand why caring about a woman’s BC is patriarcal or a red flag rooted in insecurity or anything of that sort. Why can’t it just be a preference that’s biological ? In the same way women like men that are tall or dogs like to play fetch and cat like lasers etc .. If you want to challenge men’s preferences, why can’t you start by challenging yourselves’ ? Because why isn’t looking for tall, assertive and rich men considered rooted in patriarchy and insecurity ? This whole insecurity …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 08:35 PM
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When the man loves more, he gets cheated on while he provides for her needs. You can have self respect as a man and/or a women and not go into relationships in which you are not being respected. Even if you are in love with the other person at the end of the day the only relationship that'll stick with your entire life is the one you have with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:55 PM
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Where did you see that men liked crazy women though ? Really hot women can afford to act crazy and manipulative + have no sense of accountability because at the end of day men will never ostracize her, because she is hot. admitting he doesn't really want to break up with her because she's hot and great in bed She was hot and great in bed that's what he liked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:05 PM
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You seem like a shitty person for assuming someone is shitty based on 3 sentences they have written. You seem like an utter idiot thinking your perception based on 3 sentences is has the slightest value. And you seem like shitty contribution to mankind for thinking that your shitty perception and assumptions are worth being communicated to other members of your species Not calling you names by the way, just making observations based on the limited information that I have
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 08:10 PM
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Why the fuck are you calling me names based on 3 sentences you have read, **** ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 07:52 PM
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0 times I'm actually one of the bad ones for the misandrists
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:57 PM
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Okay but you are talking about an event that is extremelly limited both in time and space while gay men being friends with girls is a worldwide phenomenon that has been going on prolly since the dawn of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:22 PM
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I don't think so because in elementary school we don't even know what gay is and we can't really tell who is gay and who is not. If we had turned to women everytime a guy had tried to bully us we'd all be womanizers by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:54 PM
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Because hanging out with people you are not sexually attracted to is far less scary, it's more stable as well because they are not gonna catch feelings for you and we have a similar psychology so it's easier to anticipate their reaction. It's just way less emotionally chaotic in general, knowing basically every human has a natural shyness/insecurity. This is the same reason why gay men are so confortable hanging out with women and feel weird when they are with the bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:47 PM
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I'm pretty sure married people spend time with the opposite and enjoy doing so, otherwise cheating wouldn't be a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 02:25 PM
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Heterosexual men and women on the whole don’t actually like each other. This is advanced perception of chronically online persons. In real life there's no point going to a party if the opposite gender is not going. Hanging out with same sex friends gets boring quick
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:55 PM
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That doesn't mean that struggling dudes who seem confused by basic social queues are doing themselves any favors by becoming hateful, isolating trolls. Evil or not these guys are not getting a GF anyway. Evilness is a luxury If someone does not even need to be nice to others in order to survive, it means he is probably highly successful. Being evil attracts women in the same way a lambo does become it correlates to high status.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 01:33 PM
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You are litterally proving the redpill right and OP wrong with your post
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:08 PM
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Do I need both hands to count ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:23 PM
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Maybe they don’t want to be equal they want a socially dominant guy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 04:36 PM
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pretty sure 100 shades of grey and twilight and Nana and so much more feature a average self-insert woman dating a top 1% alpha male
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:51 PM
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Yes but there is no self insert character so it's not the kind of story that they want for themselves. Otherwise they would simply write stories with a self insert and an emotional guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 11:59 AM
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Danmei is gay so it tells nothing about how a woman would like to be treated by a guy. The heterosexual pattern that appeals to women is a socially dominant man and an average pretty woman. Unless you have an example of a popular litterary sub-genre that features a sensitive guy and an girl ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:02 AM
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Gender Differences in 2024 Vote Choice Are Similar to Most Recent Presidential Elections You can see here that 61 % of young women voted for Harris and 38% for trump. That does not account take into consideration the fact that Harris was especially unpopular and the amount of college educated women that are over-represented on social media and media outlets. (which are far more left leaning that the average women)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 02:13 PM
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Cause the young women (less than 30 y/o) are massively left leaning and they are a democraphic that's extremely vocal online. It's more of a Gen Z women type of thing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 01:57 PM
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Most girls will make the 1st move but they won't make you talk if ur shy, they wont lean in to kiss you, and even if they do both things she's probably ugly + u are still a few steps away from actually fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 02:07 PM
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Then how did you proceed ? Didn't start getting any action until I overcame my shyness as a teen, and many of my friends are like that. Basically incels even though girls say they look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 02:02 PM
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being hot is not enough to get laid as guy, it actually requires social skills plenty of guys around you arent getting any action even though they could walk in any bar and have 10+ eyes looking at them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:55 PM
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relatively low demand for it I suppose and high supply as well I have in fact been friends with bi men who interpreted my gay jokes as flirting (reason why i dont do gay jokes anymore) and guess xhat ? people that are attracted to you are extremelly nice. I have also done the same things with girls, but it hurts my feelings when some other guy hooks up with a girl I spend a lot of public time with, but have put in a "friendzone". These guys will look at me like they out-alpha-ed me Even though I…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:16 PM
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The fact that you like casual sex or not is irrelevant. Because you have the ability to give casual sex to men, puts them in a position of demand towards you. You have something that they want therefore they will socialize with you, invite you to events, pay for things and be nice to you etc ... This implies that, in comparison to an average man, an average women's social life is simply on easy mode. Many orbiters will give you attention and you simply have to select those who are the least stra…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:18 AM
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Boys were lied to since not Disney not their parents nor their feminists teachers which raised them told them this very simple fact : They we were probably never gonna have a decent wife and kids because in this liberal sexual market most of them basically have no value unless they were born with top tier genetics. Their feminists teacher didn't tell them that no women were going to date them unless they achieve a high social status which is superficial + won't happen until they reach 30 if at a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:05 PM
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Tolerating everything means tolerating what could kill us which goes against the purpose of any system, be it political, organic or whatever else.. This is the paradox of tolerance. You cannot be tolerant as a system, as it means tolerating intolerant ideologies. The woke take over of the left or anything of this sort was doomed to happen from the start. True tolerance can only come from within, and is an ideal that is unachievable by sentient beings such as humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:14 PM
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your mom is an incubator ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:37 PM
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There is no political movement calling for men to abandon their children and no tiktok influencer telling them it's ok to do so. There is however a political movement telling women that being against them killing their children is an attack to their rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:22 PM
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The narrative that men are being radicalized at all has to stop. It's women who have invented a whole idiology about how men are the ultimate oppressors of human-kind and who want to go childless because of this ideology. Men just basically want to start a family which is an extreme take in this day and age lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:54 PM
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Social status does play a role in how sexually attractive a man is to women. Just like bodycount plays in role in how a man views a woman. Bezos doesn't need to pay to fuck like the average middle aged balding white man, but he can afford to in order to fasten up the process. Di caprio no matter how attractive he is wouldn't have the same amount of success with women if he wasn't that rich and famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:56 PM
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If people are in a couple it means that they have selected each other in the 1st place. If unemployed men are on average unattractive in the dating market, unemployed men who are in a relationship must have found a way to still make their girlfriends happy to be with them. Besides, a person is less likely to report being in a relationship if he doesnt really love the other person. He will call that a fwb.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:04 PM
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It's correlated just like other factors are correlated, such as ideology, culture, lifestyle etc .. They are all correlated to the sexual openness of a person one way or another. Conservative women who live in rural areas are less sexually open for example than liberal ones living in urban areas. But of course, the proportion of sexy madonnas and alphas is small and that is the reason why most people are dissatisfied with the dating market. Men and women settle or stay single for this reason. Or…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:56 PM
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You are talking as if having a high libido necessarily means having a high bodycount. Humans have some amount of free will that allows them to not always act according to their pulsions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:38 PM
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I wouldn't date that type of women unless as I grow older I realise I can't afford to be picky anymore because I am low value. I guess that's what these other men you are refering to are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:35 PM
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A hot sexual woman that is sexual just to him is not a whore. Nobody would even think about a woman like this a whore. As you said most guys would rather marry a non sexual madonna than a highly sexual whore because this is just not the wife kind a person to most men, the same way a car is just not meant to take off and fly. Just because a woman is a madonna doesnt mean she is perfect, it means that she has the minimum requiered to be a (maybe horrible) wife
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:18 PM
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My point is that a beta is the low-dating-market value of a man, a low ncount is the high value of a woman. If you start thinking like this then we all settle for everything. You don't have the perfect car, the perfect friends, the perfect children, the perfect computer etc .. Even if you date a 9/10 millionaire you are not dating a 10/10 billionaire, because this guy was the best you could have.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:12 PM
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Main difference imo is the fact that a woman would date the alpha if she could, but since she can’t she settles for a guy she does not really like. Now If you take account the fact that most men do not like a high bodycount in a woman it means a beta is basically a loser, while a low n-count woman is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 12:35 PM
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I want to be free myself, why do you think I'd deny my admiration to people who want to free themselves too ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:56 PM
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Basically* every civilization changing invention is the invention of a man. Fixed it for you, happy now ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:35 PM
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If you cannot take any form of power it means you do not have any value to leverage Now women have power because they can work on their computers it's as simple
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:52 AM
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Even the slave in rome would leverage their value to get better treatment from their master, become free, make money and start their own fortune.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:44 AM
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In this world, nobody is going to give you power. You have to take it. If you repeatedly fail to seize any form of power then you have no one to blame but yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:33 AM
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Back in the days, women were considered a waste of ressources. That is why in asia for example families didn't want to have a daughter and would kill/sell them if they had one. In EU we never did that because of our religion. But it's not men's fault if women had been an efficient investment in ressources for most of history. If you were useful to society then, by definition, you would have had power;
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:30 AM
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For 1 Marie Curie and 1 joan of arc there is a 1000 Guntenbergs and a 1000 Napoleon
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:23 AM
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You really can't think of what men bring to society huh ? Maybe you should look at what is around you, because everything around you has been invented by a man, built by a man, shipped to you by a man. Every civilization changing invention is the invention of a man. The AIs are an example. You know who else takes care of their elderlies and take care of their kids ? female chimpazees.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:17 AM
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You can have in front of you one the most amazing thing to have ever existed and then decide to focus only on its (perceived) negative aspects You could do that with the earth, the sun, the concept of art/literrature/music, the gods, or Michael Jackson, Santa Claus etc ... This is literally what you are doing with one most amazing creation of all, which is men. But you'd to do something like this seriously you'd have to be either very evil, or very stupid, or very brainwashed, because that is lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:55 PM
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You wouldn't be here if men couldn't do the dirty job for you. But someone has to do the dirty job, not because we enjoy it but because it is the law of nature if you want to survive. Female neanderthals who have loved to have our males but they didn't and that's why they are dead Besides, it is men that are killed when they fail. As a guy if you fail you die, as a woman if you fail you go to bed with the winner. Hypergamy is proof that women are hard wired to select the winners. This is a law o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:18 PM
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Deal with the ungrateful misandrists first or go live in the wild. All the confort you have is made by a man's mind and talent
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:45 PM
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As Ive said : Men are amazing and it is a political choice to blame them for everything without praising them for what they are accomplishing The reason men suffer from a bad image is not because they should do better, which is proven by the fact they are already one of the most amazing species earth I've ever had. The reason they suffer from a bad image is because of political choices and propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:40 PM
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You are simply a victim of the male hating propaganda. Men are amazing and it is a political choice to blame them for everything without praising them for what they are accomplishing on a daily basis. Men are the one getting the nobel prizes, building the AIs, inventing and building civilization for the last 10.000 years. They are the one who built the confort we currently enjoy. Other species would love to have males as amazing as human males, but they don't and that's the reason why they live …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:51 PM
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Ashley madison is a website used by men mostly. Men vote republican and cheat more
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:25 PM
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There is not one definition of what a good person is. If you are a feminist you will abide to feminist moral dogmas more, and if you are religious you will follow religious moral rules more, if you are a US army sniper you will do what a good sniper does, etc ... Simply because you are incentivised by your beliefs and your community to do so This is literally the reason why morality evolved into our brains in the 1st place But I don't even know why we are talking about this subject though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:39 PM
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There is going to have a lot more heresy scandals in a religious society and a lot more rape scandals in a feminist society, because the community wants to discourage these behaviours. The little there is is unacceptable. It's like saying no rape was happening in the 70s because no scandals emerged in opposition to today. Every behaviour is an adaptation of our psychology to a given context. So it's both. A house cat is scared to go outside and is thus not the same as a street cat, but they stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:10 AM
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The dual mating strategy women use in real life has nothing to do with having babies, just like IRL men do not have babies with all the women they hook up with. It's different : Women have a labrador boyfriend/husband who gives them a sense of stability but they cheat on that person with men they seek validation from or are sexually aroused by. Most of the time they are in a dead bedroom with their husband, at best they fuck from time to time. She is very happy with this partner because he treat…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:14 AM
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I would say its unlikely to get such an accusation for most men, but if this one guy is a public figure or rich the likelyhood increases for him. So for this specific guy it would make sense to protect himself. + such a form would simply prove that you agreed at the beginning not necessarily that you are going to consent to everything he's gonna do after, so for him it's not a free pass to do weird things. STOP ROLLING THE DICE. It's really convenient that the solution to this problem men have i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:57 AM
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pretty sure you wouldnt care about any of that if he was a 9/10 and rich
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:54 PM
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I mean Jesus said otherwise and he is quite the inflencial guy so ....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:28 PM
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go solo traveling around the world it will give you a lot of social exp and you will unlock perks on your skill tree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:26 AM
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I mean it does not make sense from a woman's evolutionary psychology perspective to seek male's validation for your accomplishments because men do not care anyway. This is probably why y'all are so obsessed with your looks while men don't really care about theirs. And probably also why you do not agree with me here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:04 PM
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Yes it's you, as long as you are not too old of course because it will only last ~20 years only + It feels weird knowing that the best quality by far you have to attract the potential partner of your lifetime is something you have done literally nothing to earn. God simply decided to make you hot for some reason even though you've done nothing to earn it. At least your accomplishment are things you have earned to some extent. They are also relevant to who you are as a human (its gonna be differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:28 PM
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Then the problem is to know if they like YOU or your money/status. This is the curse of every successful person ever. That does not change the fact that people will fall for you and give you all they have etc... This is the same if you are physically attractive you do not know if you are loved for yourself or for your looks. It's always better than not being loved at all + you have the halo effect
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:16 PM
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Yes but an average guy 10 millions followers on insta gains a few points of genuine attraction on the scale too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:40 PM
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I mean that's like me saying men are attracted to boobs. I guess some men are not of course
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:03 PM
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So women are attracted by status and wealth but you, KayRay1994, think it's bad and that they are bad people if they are attracted by status and wealth but that's your personal opinion that we do not really care about so that leaves us with women are attracted to status and wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:52 PM
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TLDR of your post : Yes we make LTR men work harder for sex but actually it's not work, it's the good part ! We make them wait for sex to make sure they do not leave us and miss out on being in a relationship with us ! You are confirming what we already knew. You are just trying to rebrand it to make it sound less bad than it is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:23 AM
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I’m correcting your claims that educated women are mostly unmarriageable barren sluts I never claimed this. I talked about the statistical prevalence, in this demographic, of these traits : infidelity, sexual promiscuity, childlessness and leftist worldview. You have not corrected that. You simply said that some educated women have higher TFR than other groups of educated women, w/o mentioning that the difference is extremelly small, so not relevant in real life scenario when making dating decis…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:38 AM
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Your numbers are radically different from what these studies say Total Fertility Rates, by Maternal Educational Attainment and Race and Hispanic Origin: United States, 2019 The Impact of College Education on Fertility: Evidence for Heterogeneous Effects - PMC as well as this one : Total Fertility Rates, by Maternal Educational Attainment and Race and Hispanic Origin: United States, 2019 : https://stacks.cdc.gov/view/cdc/105234 I cant access the sources of your website it's just raw data so idk A…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:12 PM
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The fertility thing is wrong, the lower divorce thing is not relevant because people barely marry anymore (which is a trend that is correlated with the education levels) I had to check because of you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:35 PM
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I don't care abour your life and you don't care about mine. We only care about discussing the topic. If you want to act like Im making it personal you're right it's better to just stop talking
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:48 PM
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And yet it’s the truth I can swear it in front of any god
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:44 PM
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I am a kind of therapist, most of my clients are women so I am in good position to tell you that there is a oppenheimer vs barbie difference between the dating habits of liberal women and the rest And the statistical correlations I’ve mentioned are just the exact same stories being told through numbers If more men were doing my job they would think like me because there is just no way they wouldn’t But if you are a liberal woman and found a Labrador husband I can’t blame you, I’d simply rather b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:04 PM
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I don't have any disdain for woman with education levels, in fact my girlfriend has a master degree in law, and even if i did I dont know how that would be relevant to the conversation as I am not talking about my feelings about them, only facts It just so happens that higher education is correlated to other traits that I dont like and are deal breakers to me, (even for hook-ups ) : infidelity, sexual promiscuity, childlessness and leftist worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:10 PM
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My point it that, just like today, people did what they had to do to survive and raise their children, and actually going for what one fantasize about is a luxury As I said at the end of my previous message, mariages were/are often thought of as alliances between families. Of course a powerful guy wants to ally with a powerful family. This has nothing to do with his sexual preferences. This is the reason why so many children were being made outside of wedlock. We grew up in a christian world so …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:01 PM
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these things are correlated with values and mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:27 PM
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I mentioned education because there is a stong correlation between money and level of education, that's all
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:14 PM
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infidelity, sexual promiscuity, childlessness and leftist worldview have a LOT to do with mindset and values actually. I mentioned education because there is a stong correlation between money and level of education, not because I think higher education = intelligence Barely anybody is stupid enough to fail university , so it doesnt say much about raw intelligence (imo)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:12 PM
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And I wanted him to elaborate on what he said
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:03 PM
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I think OP is right. Higher education in women is strongly correlated with infidelity, sexual promiscuity, childlessness and leftist worldview, all things the average men tend to dislike in women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:58 PM
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Higher education in women is strongly correlated with infidelity, sexual promiscuity, childlessness and leftist worldview What part of this mindset do you like there ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:57 PM
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This is like saying 15 years village girls were happy to marry 40yo guy who owns a mill back in the days because statiscally this is what was happening. In reality we simply live in a day and time where men have no choice, because, as you said, one income is just not enough to provide for a family anymore. Men with options have been dating and marrying lower status women this the dawn of time, their preferences didn’t change (of course they also married higher status women to keep/gain power but…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:34 PM
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From my POV as a guy if you are not confident you are cooked 100% because women barely make the 1st move or pursue men I was considered very attractive but nothing would happen to me before I got a lot of confidence, and this is the case of a lot of my friends too. I was lucky to have the opportunity to travel a lot but that is not the case of many guys who are basically incels even though they look good and studied in money making fields. If I were a woman I would go for a guy like this but I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 01:01 AM
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I mean, it sounds like common sense but of course it's not an exact science Imo if I were a woman I'd look for a good looking guy who struggles a bit with women (is afraid to approach etc .. ) rather than a guy that has invested a lot of his time learning how to flirt. A guy who is has flirting experience will probably not value so much because he knows he can easily replace you while this other one will surely do his best to keep you But maybe women like it too much when a guy does the first mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:52 PM
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Because it's harder for him so he values what he has more
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:32 PM
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So now you decide what people should want ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:54 PM
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Men provide, women nurture
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:22 PM
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I, personally, don't want anything serious with a woman that has been into casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:51 PM
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there is nothing casual about fucking people, but it's mu opinion i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:33 PM
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Most people divorce. Most of those who dont stay together for their children/house. Our understanding of the world is distorted by our emotions. That's why religions and marriages exist for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 12:16 PM
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this is from your POV. The worst mistake a guy can make is think he/she is special If somebody crushes on you for some random reason that doesnt make you special. This is just human nature. This crush will leave just as randomly and you will crush on somebody else randomly again after and you will think they are very special until you have another crush and that's life. + It's a guy's job to make a woman feel special. If you think a guy is special he probably just learned through practice how to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:04 AM
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I mean, objectively he was kind of right, no ? You made an exception because you were really attracted to him. What if you are really attracted to someone else in the future ? He is aware that he is not special. If you decide to change your behaviour in the future it's ok. I think most men can understand that you have made a mistake in the past. The whole problem is that the line is slim between a mistake and a double standard. Women, and all people, are entitled to learn from their experiences.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:39 AM
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I am not looking for the exception. Its unsafe to bet against her social conditioning and her nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:54 AM
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But I don't really understand how do you know how fast your gf had sex with her last bf I dont know so that's why I treat all liberal women the same way. Even if she hasnt done it yet, she would probably do it. It seems like men basically see women as commodity to buy and hold resentment that some man bought this pussy just for a 8$ cheap cocktail but I have to pay for restaurant? I mean, I understand that we all change through the experiences that we gain in life blabla... But why would I want …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:51 AM
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I know that such a woman would probably never tell me the truth. That's why I said that I treat all liberal women the same way. (no religion, career oriented, urban lifestyle, tatooed, doesnt want to have children, etc ...) They have the same software implemented into their brain. They do not see sexual promiscuity as something to be ashamed about, and if they do their environment do not and will shame them/ influence them. Even if she is a virgin it's probably just a matter of time before her s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:32 AM
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I mean, yes, FDS makes perfect sense. But there is still is a major issue with this. If you have standards for 1 man you should have standards for every men. Most of the time what happens is that you will make the nice guy wait and pay, but as soon as you meet someone that you are really attracted too, then all those rules while instantly disappear for some reason. Basically AFBB. In this context the guy you've asked to pay will probably hold ressentment towards you because I'll know that he was…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:01 AM
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So the bluepill approach to being successful with women is basically about finding a lotery ticket. A woman who will not mind you being poor and short and that you will like too. This is not a repeatable solution that you can provide to a struggling guy. The redpill approach is all about finding consitent success, therefore you obviously have to disregard the individuals and look at the trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:53 PM
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i corrected myy msg
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:38 PM
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Ok ? so ? If I say women like barbies it doesnt that 100% of women like barbies all the time. It simply means that theres a strong correlation between your sexe and your preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:34 PM
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isnt redpill just about admitting the hypergamic nature of female preferences and leveling up ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:06 PM
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Thats literally evil ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:31 PM
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Isn't the point of offering flowers to a woman to show that you thought about her in that specific day ? A subscription would kill this purpose. As for me, I don't care about receving gifts. So if you offer me something it's better to offer me something that I'd actually already like to have. There are things I'd like to have but do not want to buy because im lazy or it's just not a rational way to spend my money, such as the new jersey of my team, that one video game that is releasing and kinda…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 02:43 AM
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I don't think it insiuates that. It simply insinuates that things would be better if women were in charge because men are evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 02:19 AM
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I don't think modern feminism relies on the noble savage theory. In fact to them all men are basically rapists and what not by design, while women are angels that are victims of men. If a woman does something wrong, it's men's fault because of the patriarcchy they have established. Feminism is a misandrist ideology. Everything that's patriarchal culture is wrong in essence. It is nothing more than an tribe instinct fueled movement. My tribe = good, Not my tribe = bad. In fact, it's not even an i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:45 PM
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there is a linear negative correlation between experience and attractiveness. each +1 bodycount is a -1 (tho you can always argue on the numbers) in value. There is no sweet spot of "just experienced enough", at least from my pov
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 08:01 PM
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If I ever write for example that gamer girls/female reddittors/busty women are wonderful and my girlfriend is not a gamer/reddit user/busty then yes it's proof I settled/am unsatisfied with what I have. I guess it's not that different from watching porn while in relationship but Idk for sure Might make the wife insecure but that"s just a proof I find her attractive atm and want that attraction to last for years. I would never do this even if I settled, unless I intentionnally want to hurt the pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 07:56 PM
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Why would I date a woman that is not in love with me ? If I ever find myself in this situation I would have no one to blame other that myself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:35 PM
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hmm 30y/o and 40 and 50 and 60 y/o men are still attrated to 20y/o women and a lot of that has to do with the fact that these women are less experienced than older women. Look at billionaires or celebrities. They often pick much younger women. It's attractive for a man to be experienced because women get easily bored in bed. But that's not an big issue from a male's POV. She can literally starfish and he'll get off If you go on a date with a man and you later learn that he gets a lot of action t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:36 AM
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I don't think it indicates that something is wrong with her. A woman can literally be the worst person there is + be ugly and still have a lot of sex. To me it would indicate that there is a mismatch between what she wants and what she had the opportunity to get, so she decided to remain celibate, which is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:25 AM
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if you struggle with men because you are not socially developped in that aspect then yes the best way to improve is to practice. Experience does lower the value but maybe the lack of experience is an even bigger problem at this moment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:19 AM
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maybe it's unattractive but it's 100% never gonna be as unattractive as having experience
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:16 AM
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I don’t give a fuck, it’s as simple as that. Everything that looks woke or looks like it has been made to appeal to some sort of woke concept grosses me out and is not getting my money. We are tired of having been fed woke concepts and be afraid of being canceled and losing our jobs + friends for saying common sense things, such as men and women are not the same, for years now, and having been told we are the problem because we are men. By looking woke you automatically gain my bad faith and I’l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:17 PM
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As I said, ugliness is not the problem. The problem is the motives that put this ugliness here. People are not stupid. we know when something is ugly because it's ugly, and when something is ugly because it's woke. This ideology is the problem because it hates men. You wouldn't buy a game with your hard earned money if you knew the people behind it hate black women. No matter how dilluted their ideology is in it. Even if the game is amazing. There are just that many amazing games to be played th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:02 PM
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Why are they making female character designs that are unappealing to their target audience ? Because of activism. The ugly woman if not the problem, it’s a symptom of the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:15 PM
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men have polygamous tendencies. they ideally want to mate with basically as many women as possible. women have hypergamous tendencies. they want to pick the best available option and stick to it as long as possible. But if a woman is pretty she has more negociating power to get commitment, time or ressources Basically if the pretty girl asks me to do her homework I'll be more likely to do it. If an ugly girl asks me this Ill just say no. That's an example of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:09 PM
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Men are taller than women because women are "breeding" tall men. This is also likely the reason why women are much prettier than men. Pretty women get more protection and support from men thus their offsprings survive longer. This is called sexual selection. + Women dont just pick men that are taller than them. They pick men taller than other men (to a reasonable extent of course)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:46 PM
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Everything is judged based on a variety of factors. Including something as silly as the food you will eat next. This doesnt have anything to do with how high your standards are for these things btw. Have I said that it’s a bad thing ? Hypergamy is a good thing for the survival of the species
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:34 PM
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That is why I said « on average »
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:40 PM
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I came here to call out the lack of argumentative abilities of the 1st commentors, that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:42 PM
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Probably same reason why I am not in a relationship with Sydney Sweeney rn. Because the men she felt deep physical attraction to wouldnt commit to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:24 PM
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That's not a bluepiller thing. That's a "low-thinking-ability-person" thing in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:22 PM
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So if you dont like small boobs you will never ever ever date a woman with small boobs ? even if everything else is perfect and she is an amazing person ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:20 PM
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He may compensate for his shortcomings with other qualities women find attractive. For example his game/social skills. But all other things equal women will pick the tall guy on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:19 PM
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Women like tall men doesnt men 100% of women only like and date tall men all the time. You are proving your unablity to think properly by saying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:03 PM
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Yeah of course, men suffer because of the patriarchy ! Feminism will save us. Men, go to the next feminist rally in your city and shout « men are trash ! » with the crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:33 PM
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The definition of "healthy masculinity" = basically you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:41 PM
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Im not saying that you are lying. There are dogs out there that do not like to play fetch, and they are still perfectly valid dogs. I do not know a single thing about you, maybe you are not even a woman from what I know. I am simply refering to a perfectly observable AND significant tendency that is observed in the group.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:50 PM
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Almost every dogs like to play fetch, almost every guy like to see boobs, almost every cats like to be catch flying things, almost every women are not like the other girls. That doesn't mean these have a hive mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:37 PM
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Yeah of course, YOU are not like the other girls I know. But at the day it's not men that are comsuming videos about how to find rich women, it's not women that are travelling to luxery places to meet said rich women, it's not men simping for female football players etc ... Women just perceive richness as an attractive trait, among others of course. So maybe your husband is poor but he is handsome and funny, and since you make good money yourself it's kinda ok, but at the end of day he'd still b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:28 PM
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I mean, women just feel attraction towards men that are rich. If you are a poor woman you will be extremely attracted to guy that is a Surgeon, but if you make more money than this surgeon then you'll probably feel like he's meh and will be turned on by billionaires instead
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:13 PM
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Men of every demographic/afe group are more prone to voting republican than their female conter part. Why do you think that is ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:30 AM
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Democrats lost support not because they failed to appeal to conservative men. They lost support because they failed to appeal to moderate men. That's is what happens when you blame "all men" of being the problem of basiccally everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:24 AM
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These women you are trying to protect are grow adults that are able to make their own decision They do not need your colon mentality of thinking you know better what is good for them These women will tell you that werstern men treat them a lot better than their local men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:11 PM
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You are only saying this because you want to have a monopoly over these men. That way would havr no choice but to go along with your bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:05 PM
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I don't get why men are so scared of liberal women going 4B. Liberal women is the worst subset of women a man could ever go after, unless he is Chad and looking for short/mid term relationships. If that"s your case then you'll still have no trouble finding partners because they'll make an "exception" for you Either way just go for conservatives women like you always should have. There are plenty of them everywhere. They simply are not vocal in public, in the same way conservative men are afraid …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:34 AM
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When did THEY do it exactly ? Do you have examples ? Because cancel culture is a movement that started by SJWs back when they still werent called "woke" around before the start of COVID Nobody is getting banned anywhere for being pro LGBTQ, in fact they get promoted
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:37 PM
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Isnt cancel culture a leftwing thing ? You can be banned on Reddit for having the wrong opinion, you can freely express yourself on X
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:21 PM
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Of course attractive people can be creepy, but ugly people are always going to be judged far more harshly for their behaviour. Isn't pretty priviledge a thing in your mind ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:57 PM
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so why it's mostly men voting for trump ? and why would it trump that is perceived as the candidate of deflation ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:43 PM
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if that is true, then why are men significantly more likely to vote republican than women ? we should expect no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:35 PM
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You do not need to go to jail to have your life ruined based on false accusations
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:45 PM
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It was never about the legal system
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:41 PM
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I think your problem here is that you lack the social skills to meet men and befriend them, not your value in itself. High bodycount women are less attractive but often are outgoing and sociable, which means it's easy for men to become friends with them. That"s like a lambo has more value in the eye of the majority of men, but most of them don't ride in one because they are less accessible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:14 PM
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ok thank you so both gender agree that having sex with a guy is dirty
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:38 AM
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I am so curious to know now lol ? How do they feel about them ? Less attracted ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:45 AM
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It's hypocritical to praise hatred while not acknoledging that it is going to legitimaze acts driven by this hatred. Criticising one's expression of their hatred is free speech. Praising one's expression of their hatred is free speech
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:29 PM
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You never had a boyfriend or even a brother or a friend with whom you could share your perspective because you had respect and were not judgmental of each other? If your strategy is to call someone a rapist it's probably not gonna make them want to sympathize with you and your experiences so much. It's probably going to make them see you and what you stand for a theat that must be dealt with because that is what you want to be to them in the first place. By saying it doesn't exist in any meaning…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:32 PM
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I kind of feel like this the most massive community at the moment, on french twitter at the very least. Not only that, but this "minority" is currently in power, as portrayed by the articles linked and their influence in western politics is massive. and are pushing their agenda
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:23 PM
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Majority of women label any "criticism" of women as hatred. Women benefit from misandry, and it seems like we live in the most misandrist time and society of human history. What you want is not empathy between men and women but a gender war where both sides are the enemy of each other. You need to frame men as a enemy for your community to prosper because that"s how tribalism works. This is stupid and harmful to yourself and society
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:16 PM
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By legitimizing and praising a feeling people have instead of shaming them for it, you are creating a environment where this hate will most likely propagate and be acted upon. That is why mainstream media did so much to shame incels and their hate speech. But for some reason they are praising women and framing their hate speech as a simple, a mere "feeling" a "trauma response" to escape accountability and frame them as the victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:10 PM
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"men" is a category that regroups a vast variety of people that have nothing to do with each other and disagree with each other on every single thing. "men" only exist in your head. I'm curious how you would label my "criticism" of females if I said "ALL women are weak and irrational"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:59 PM
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Even men are cautious around strangers. That"s natural. That's not the same saying as holding hate speech against a certain sub set of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:55 PM
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I'm a therapist and I talk to both liberal and progressive women. I am in a good position to tell you that women from conservative culture are so much better it doesnt make any sense dating a liberal one. The liberal one, you have to accept her bodycount, and that isn't even worth it because a few years down the road she will cheat or have a side piece. Not to mention the fact that some other dude may come back to fuck her at any time in case of a disagreement between you (and other wicked thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:27 PM
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the game is only wicked when you date liberal women It is true that expecting to a low bodycount liberal woman to not become wicked is a bad strategy. It's a culture issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:57 PM
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I mean as a guy if you cant get into a relationship it's because your value is too low. What else do you people to advise you then ? Improve your value or go date abroad, or maybe give up and go to sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:27 PM
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Yes but why would a woman want to bear the children of a beta male ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:14 AM
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What is this traditional masculinity you are refering too from a woman's POV ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:20 AM
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1 group of men and 1 group of women were each left on a desert island The group of men strived while the group of women got nothing done and kept making stupid decisions The women would have died multiple times had the staff of the show not helped them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:23 PM
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Women can fall in love with short poor nerdy introverted men, they have and they will too. Im just saying your whole scenario is so unlikely, at least from my experience, it’s not even worth discussing. But you know if I ever get into such a situation I will make sure to come back to seek your most precious advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:51 AM
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Amazing take. Not sure if what you describe is what turns some dude into misogynists but that process you are describing is very relatable. I'd say misogyny comes from the fact that we are not women so we tend to think of women as a somewhat homogenous group and build stereotypes about them, fueled to some extent by the most extreme examples, as these tend to strike our attention + can't easily be dismissed by saying "it's only a minority of women" since, then again, we are not women. The fact t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:05 AM
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So basically you think men fall in love with the women they hook up with. Yep that’s what I said. The attractive men do something similar but with the hot women. Average men barely get any action therefore they are desesperate. HVM men get a ton of options and don't feel like commiting to 1. Men are polygamous not hypergamous like women are. What if a taller cuter guy tells her the same thing to get her to sleep with him. Oh ok we are living in the world where everyone is in love with that one w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:22 PM
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You are mistaken if you think pretty looking women are harder to get than average ones. That's all the same thing. If you are attractive to women, you are attractive to women. Uglier/older women may be more demanding than a pretty one because they've already had their fun before. Most women are attractive to most men lookwise. Beauty isn't such a big differenciator. Some had multiple FWBs at once I know my roommate did that. My point being to better ensure fidelity men need to be in committed re…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:55 PM
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I don’t think commiting is necessary to « lock down » a woman. If she gets emotionnally attached from the FWB type of relationship she probably will not seek other guys to have sex with because she already sleeps with the one she wants. Meaning as a guy you have no incentive to commit in this situation. Only reason to commit would be because she gives sex only in the context of a commited relationship. But hook-up cultured women will have a hard time convincing a HVM that he needs to commit to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:16 PM
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I think it’s riduculous from any woman to expect a man with a lot of options to stay loyal to only her Does that mean I should lie to a woman and tell her I would be loyal just because I think her standards are riduculous (and i want to get in her pants) ? This is a jugdment that is totally personal from my own POV to begin with. If Im a slut Im a slut, and lying about it is fucked up, same goes for you. What you think is riduculous is your personal appreciation of his standards, not his
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:47 AM
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Other factors than money and status are at play, but there is a strong correlation between a malés attractivness as perceived by a woman, and the money that he has
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:24 AM
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You call it « protecting his ego » I would call it hiding the fact that you are a hoe so he agrees to date you Stop acting vituous while in reality you are lying to his face to get what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:20 AM
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If u are a fire type pokemon you’d be better matched with a grass or water type pokemon than with another fire type
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:11 AM
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Women attracted to money is a pleonasm
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:01 AM
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Yes that the whole take of OP Women care about celebrities personal lives, whatever is the appeal they find to it, and men don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:35 AM
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men talk an athlete's personal life only when its relevent to explain his performances on the pitch
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:24 PM
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There is a vast difference between engaging with somebody’s content and seeking details about their personal lives ??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:38 PM
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That his different in the sense that these youtubers/streamers are going out of their way to bring value/entertainement to their audience. We do not care about their lives, we care about their content.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:16 PM
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into me enough to kiss me, not enough to kiss me for too long. That is just what the game is about, maintaining a woman's interest in you from 1st eye contact to sex and then it gets somewhat easier after that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:53 PM
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I am attractive and women do change their mind really easily initially. One bad joke, one kiss that lasts for too long etc ... and it is ruined. You have to learn of those things after trying again and again to make sure you don't make mistakes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:00 PM
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That is amazing I am so happy for you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:22 PM
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Well the concept of vows is kind of stupid to begin with. No one knows what the future holds and what kind of person we will be in 10 or 20 yrs. Just because someone has vowed something to you doesn't mean they will magically stay loyal to their words. If the future is sexless mariage then it's not a promise that's going to stop a man from looking elsewhere. This means that as a partner if you do not want your husband/wife to cheat start by not putting them under pressure and taking their loyalt…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:07 PM
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I don’t need others to make me validate this, nor do I need to play the victim for whatever reason. At the end of the day humans are selfish and « ethics »are just a tool they use to gaslight others into thinking that what benefits them is a moral good. That is the way humans act. That means if you don’t give your husband what he wants, don’t cry about ethics if he seeks it elsewhere. Same goes for a woman who cheats because her husband isn’t enough. There would be nothing intelligent from a the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:24 PM
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I’m pointing out the fact that ethics is subjective and every human have a moral bias. Everybody is building a narrative make themselves look like the good guys despite their actions If you don’t want sex with your husband and you know that frustrate them, but you still don’t divorce, you are being selfish. You are staying because it benefits you hoping his frustration will stay muted Therefore u shouldn’t be mad if he chooses to be selfish as well. but instead you build a narrative where you ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:11 PM
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So is demonizing someone because he doesn’t want to stay frustrated for the rest of his life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:00 PM
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So this means a man should agree to never have sex for the rest of his life then ? Precisely because it is more than just sex he may still want to stay with wife despite the dead bedroom situation
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:57 PM
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Then why should it matter if sex isn’t important that husband if having sex elsewhere ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:49 PM
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That was a general « you » I don’t know anything about that person + if every women divorced over their dead bedrooms there wouldn’t be any dead bedrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:48 PM
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Why don’t you divorce your husband then if you don’t want to sex with them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:37 PM
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I don't either. I took Aristotle's example because he is the oldest example I know of men describing women as irrational. Many philosophers and men in general have done so up until recent times when it became taboo to hold such views publicly Most importantly men still come up with this idea today which is the whole reason your post exists in the first place. I am not saying they are right but you are missing the whole point when u talk how about your behaviours make sense from your POV Our beha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:30 PM
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When somebody like Aristotle talks about women's "shortcomings in reason" he doesn't refer to their dating patern but rather to their ability to analyse the world rationally/philosophically. It makes sense from a cat's perspective to ask their human to open the door but then decide they don't want to go out. That doesn't mean cats are rational creatures or are very good at thinking logically. As humans we have irrational biases coming from our emotions and these are clouding our ability to see t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:16 PM
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The fact so many of them talk about how romcoms lied to them should be a good indicator that a lot of these guys are stunted. Mainstream culture is constantly lying to men and gaslighting them. Women will always be portrayed as accountable and are always the victims and men as the oppresors in mainstream culture. They have a hard time moving on from rejection. Because ONE CHICK wanted an asshole over him, and he makes it his whole personality to be bitter and jealous about it. Most men feel disr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:21 PM
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I think hopeless romantic are basically low value male hoping a woman would crush on them for some reason but if he had options he would sleep around instead. I mean if a guy sleeps around it's likely he simply doesn't want to sacrifice his freedom because no woman is worth the price of sacrificing all his other options for no reason. Why commit to a 8/10 if you can just replace her with another one when she becomes too demanding? + having options makes us more detached and less needy therefore …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:51 PM
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Men do not care about commitment and "relationship" the way women do. That is not immaturity, that is just differences in wants. Immaturity is thinking that the only correct to see things is the way YOU happen to see things. What they care about is her being loyal to them. Therefore we give women what they want (ie romance) to make sure she stays loyal as long as possible. That is the reason why HVM almost never stay loyal, they know they don't have to and that their wife will stay since their s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:10 PM
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Men do not a relationship because they want a relationship. They want a relationship because it’s the HIGH PRICE they are willing to pay to secure a HIGH quality woman and not risk losing her. Sacrificing your freedom and commiting is a price for men that only low n-count high value women deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:37 PM
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Men are PAYING to sleep with literal whores so … They most likely not gonna marry them though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:10 PM
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hook up and settle if she's a catch. Which a I "had hoe phase" girl probably isn't
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:50 AM
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Yes that is a valid excuse to never talk to them again
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:00 AM
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what are the books portraying the ideal partner for a woman OP ?? Im curious now
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:33 PM
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Too bad men have disliked promiscuous women in every culture everywhere on the globe throughout history. The laws of the first human civilisation were already punishing promiscuity in women there probably isn't a single example of promiscuisty being perceived as cool in women ever
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:22 PM
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Subjective doesn’t mean pointless Stop answering to my messages plz, at this point you are just making noise
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:30 PM
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I believe most cats aren’t good at maths. Does my belief means I have hatred for cats ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:27 PM
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The male and female's dating strategies are different, that is not hatred of women to point that out. For example, men will string a woman along for sex, which is something most women wouldn't do to men. Do I hate men for pointing that out too ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:09 AM
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Everything is a subjective opinion since objective truth doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:05 AM
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your 1st assumption about me is false therefore your whole paragraph is irrelevant ​ That is what happens when you make assumptions about people you don't know
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:03 AM
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Difference is that a guy will stay with a woman because he really loves her, a woman stays with a guy because she realised she couldn’t keep the ones she really wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:21 AM
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well, then this is a kind of ick that can uncrush a crush. I think it's somewhat common actually for men to suddenly lose interest in a woman they are into when they learn something unattractive about her
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:35 PM
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So women wanting a tall, rich and confident boyfriend is deliberately construted since that is what they have been shown on TV since childhood? Also, bodycount is a taboo subject that as boys we wouldn't be aware of until maybe mid-late teenagehood. I think we should deconstrut women, they should also love them poor short and socially awkward men !
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:22 PM
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So it is not biology is dogs like to play and are highly social, and cats like to chill and are not social ? It's because of the patriarchy maybe ? An evolutionary psychology hypothesis like the one I made can't be proven or denied through scientific methods due to practical reasons, but it is the only plausible way to explain why different species have different psychologies. Men from every culture in the world throughout the whole history of mankind civilisation have had this preference, no ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:34 PM
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I am nihilistic, so to me morality doesn't exist, and I still wouldn't date a hoe ever That is fine if a woman decides to spend her life hooking up that's her life not mine. And I believe there is nothing wrong or good about that. But that is gross from my perspective just like a spider is gross for no real reason. So I wouldn't date a high bodycount woman because I'm not attracted to that just like you probably are not attracted to short guys. The reason why men are grossed out by high bodycoun…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:18 PM
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So you are basically that your ideology (which is basically women's public discourses to stay social desirable) is smarter than your instincts. Understandable have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:06 PM
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that would be double standard if men and women were the same thing, which is not the case. That is my whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:59 PM
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then explain to me why you are blue pill instead of simply listening to your instincts built upon hundreds of thousands of years of reproductive success ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:58 PM
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Low body count doesn’t inherently equal no game, first of all I think we can both agree that there would be a strong correlation though You can build up your game by just flirting, you don’t have to actually have sex to do it Ok but then what is the point of going through so much hassle ? Men train their game and face rejection 100x times to get sex; f you remove that STRONG incentive then less ppl will be willing to go overcome themselves ​ physical preferences like wanting someone tall is diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:56 PM
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it's not double standards if it's not the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:30 PM
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So as a "experienced" "emotionnally mature" man, you would be confortable with wifying a woman that has had a LOT of experience with other men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:28 PM
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That is just a matter of preferences. Women are attracted to men that are tall, funny, confident.But as a woman, that doesn't mean you are required to be tall, funny and confident to attract those guys. Men are attracted to women with low bodycount. That is just an arrational preference men have no control over. That doesn't mean they should be required to have a low bodycount themselves to attract those women. In fact, to get what he truly wants, a man would most likely needa lot of experience …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:24 PM
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I mean if a woman is beautiful consciensious and low bodycount then she is HV in the dating market, regardless of her dating strategy Although I agree with you that chasing is an unattractive dating strategy for women, and of course you should expect a guy to put efforts in you if you want to be treated right. + yes if you've allowed a guy to treat you poorly and stayed, other men will be less willing to do a lot of efforts for you cause basically your value will have decreased But that is not e…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:06 PM
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Well they have to be HV enough (according to men) to convince a guy who has a lot of options to commit to them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:41 PM
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Women are not marrying them although they want to, because they can’t. HV according to/in the dating market. Not saying it’s a achievement. But it is for sure only achievable by HVM
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:15 PM
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A guy that’s hook up material is high value and is also relationship material in most case A woman that’s hook up material is mid/low value So mid value men complain because they would need to pour in more love and commitment, and still get less than the guys she’s hooked up with in the past. Work harder for lower results That’s something one would refuse to do if they had self respect On the other end, a whore-madonna duality is just basically a woman choosing between instant gratification vs l…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:06 PM
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No no, you're right
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 03:14 PM
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Let’s say there are 2 scaleS A hot scale and a wifey scale. So if you have just hot stats you are a whore and iF you only have wifey stats you are a madonna. But a pure wifey material is just someone that is hot AND wifey. And sure as a guy you’d feel sexual desire for her if she’s hot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:49 PM
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It's easier to get someone to laugh at your jokes if you are rich + handsome. Or for a woman young and pretty That is called halo effect
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:32 PM
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That is why I never said it was meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:56 PM
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That's your theory that the stats are contradicting. Online Dating has overtaken every other ways of meeting a partner. If you are good looking and hugh status then use tinder to get far better results with women. Maybe in that case cold approching would still work but why bother working on such a complicated skill for lower results ? If you are not good looking then why would she bother talking to you when she can have a dozen of 9/10 on her phone?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:51 PM
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Social skills need to be honed constantly. If you lose touch with your social circle for a year then your social skills will get dustier So their awkwardness is a cause not a consequence
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:10 PM
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The importance of social skills is decreasing tremendously with the hegemony of online dating. Now you need to work on your status and look and show that on your profile to even get a chance to open a conversation with a woman. Whether you are good at making conversation and telling stories or not is close to irrelevant in that context
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:48 PM
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Who are you talking about ?
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/24 07:22 PM
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No Simps want to marry pornstars and prostitudes and OnlyHoes because they have no better options and they kinda feel close to these women. Not realising that their relationship is purely transactional in the 1st place. + madonna whore complex look it up.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/24 07:11 PM
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Ok my bad. But tbh the rates of marriages have decreased drastically in the same period of time. More women earn money now, so it was to be expected that more of them would be « breadwinners » in the first place. In this landscape, among the population that chooses marriage, of course there will be a sur representation of men being ok to earn less and women being ok to earn more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:58 PM
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So you are basically saying that in 71% of relationships men are the ones to earn more ? How does that prove your point ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:54 PM
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Precisely, these men would love bomb her, and she would be reluctant until they manage to earn her trust, which may take time. They’d be the one doing the chasing. That’s not what is happening here. He is the one being chased because his value is too high. His value is too high because he fucking travels in private jets. That means these women are willing to take the risk of hooking up with him quickly instead of venting and potentielly losing his attraction. They are blinded by his overwealming…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:27 PM
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Maybe because these women can get their share of younger good looking men, who are smart, charming and cunning by opening their app called "Tinder" ??? Though none of them is gonna offer them a ride in their private jet ...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:03 PM
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Once again, you can be naturally ugly, and that would make you unattractive. So yes in that case get surgery or make-up or whatever. But then a guy may feel scammed. If you are upfront then yes it's still attractive, but just not AS attractive as natural beauty. Basically if a guy says he likes natural women, that doesn't mean he HATES unnatural women. That's not cognitive dissonance. Maybe misterpretation from women. Natural > Plastic > Natural Ugliness So if you are in the natural ugly zone th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:28 PM
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Of course there has to be confidence, and looks, and practice and whatever other factor. But you can't say that the money isn't a huge factor that contributed to making him wildly attractive to them in the first place. Confidence with women isn't that hard to get once you are attractive to them, because you keep getting positive feedbacks from them no matter what you do. The tough part is being attractive, then you just learn how to turn that attraction into sex/money through experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:20 PM
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If people can't tell an advertising is a scam, doesn't it prove the point that you can't trust them when they say they don't like getting scammed ? Originally yes you cannot tell but you will eventually find out and you'll feel scammed once you learn that it's not her real nose or whatever. But of course it's better to be plastic than ugly. Natural pretty is better but it's better being plastic pretty than ugly. Just be upfront about so the guys know what they are getting. Some will think it's k…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:13 PM
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The manipulation is being extremely attractive (rich), acting perfect and fond of her. At this point she is a dream. Earn her trust, then asking for money. Strangely enough after the high end restaurant date he hooks up with them after the 1st date. It's easier to hook up with women if there are pictures of you in your sports car in your tinder profile and if you invite them to a luxury restaurant afterwise. Most guys don't hook up easily on Tinder, too bad they do not have the interpersonal ski…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:07 PM
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I mean if I had to choose between an ugly woman and an attractive plastic woman it'd choose the plastic one for sure. But that's still gonna kind of a turn off to me knowing that I'm currently dating "ugly genes" It'd rather date a girl that is a 6.5 totally natural than a plastic 8. And in terms of the attention she receives, of course we can hardly tell if a woman is natural or not by just looking at her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:00 PM
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interpersonal skills you are talking about : "inviting them to a high luxury restaurant" and "offering them a trip in his private jet" These are investments that he made to trick them into falling in love for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:52 AM
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What we don't want is a woman that looks good with make up but is actually ugly without. If she is prettier with it but still pretty without it then it's fine. We simply do not like false advertising. Cause that's a scam and nobody likes getting scammed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:45 AM
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Then how do you explain the "Tinder Swindler" success with women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:39 AM
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You guys want a top 20% man, then you want them to be nice to you even though you aren't 20% women. Most of you guys simply cannot afford these guys' niceness. Instead of hooking-up with them you would ask them to commit to you first. But you can't do that because you are not the prize, he is. If you wanted them to be nice to you then they would. They would be nice to get what they want. But instead women are OK to chase them. Tbh women just can't expect to never date down while being at the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:56 PM
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If women picked men for their niceness, then every guy would be feminists gentlemen. We would see that it's those guys we get the bitches that we want and would do like them/learn from them. Instead women pick men for their money/looks, so men become gym buddies and huslers. If you want nice men to exist then why don't you select them, forcing them to adapt + then bread nice men into existence ? Because that's not what you guys actually want. The human race is going to continue no matter what. L…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:55 PM
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money was accounted for in my mind when I said power. Along with high social status and social dominance Having money allows him to afford many things, including the ability to treat his girlfriend like shit and still have her running after him. That's why boys don't understand why the bad boys always win when they've been told they should be nice guys to women to be loved. A HVM isnt gonna say "I'm the prize". He knows it but instead he will treat her like shit and sometimes he will be a little…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:35 PM
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Yes an individual can choose in theory to have children while being single, but statistically speaking that is not a common occurence. That means somehow our societies iare creating childless and single women, who want to remain that way Of course it would take a few years for those new babies to become economically active but yes it would make us all way richer on so many levels. I don't even understand how you could possibly argue otherwise??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:11 PM
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Having ressources is an essential part of what makes a man attractive to women That'd be like a woman saying "they only like me for my big boobs"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:00 PM
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Most boys actually grew up thinking that women were angels who wanted a nice guy who opens doors for her etc.. Then they got redpilled when they realised that was just not the case. What women want is : power - good looks - social skills Once a guy is able to offer that then she will try win him over by making him commit to her alone. This guy can afford to treat her like shit because he is the prize
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:48 PM
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Yes the life of an average man sucks in the modern world which is why they feel like society is failing them, they feel resentment for having been lied to. In reality they should understand that nothing is to be saved here and move abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:41 PM
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Women choosing to be alone is fucking up our demographic. This means that none of us will have the pension we are being taxed for as we grow older. We will be poorer than our parents and our standards of living will decline. Our economies are gonna slow, and our civilisation and culture is commiting suicide and will be replaced by stronger ones. This is unsustainable. Sustainable civilizations will strive as we decline That’s why I would « resent » one, if I did. I don’t feel lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:14 PM
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Why are you afraid of a man getting to close to you ? Are you picturing yourself living with a man in the future ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:04 PM
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why are you black pill leaning ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:44 PM
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She would divorce me a look down on me if i did that A woman outearning the man is #1 predictor of divorce. That’s not even an option I could consider
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:51 PM
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She would divorce me a look down on me if i did that A woman outearning the man is #1 predictor of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:51 PM
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Ah yes, the beauty of the morning trafic jam and the coworkers’ faces. You can take your kids for a stroll !
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:23 PM
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Most SAHM being in abusive relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:14 PM
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Well I want children so that doesn’t bother me that much. That’s just a phase eventually they will become way more self sufficent, then avoidant. I have some free time too and when I think of the few moments that my working parents had for me when I was a kid to help study for example, I feel grateful thinking that I will be able to give that to my children countlessly. Even if I lose 1 client or 2. In 15 years I will remember the time spent with my children and not the 2 clients a months I’ve l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:38 PM
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You just described what being a web entrepreuneur is like. It’s not that bad I promise. I’m happy I don’t have to face the cold of outside every morning
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:19 PM
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Is there data for this ? Genuinely curious In my family my father was doing as much housework as my mother, if not more cause she doesn’t like it while he is a highly consciencious person
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:16 PM
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Having to work doesn’t make you unhappy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:34 PM
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Why would it have to be with a not respectful husband ? You can get a not respectful working environment as well
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:32 PM
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yes assuming other pretty women are not trying to marry him at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:54 PM
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it's not hopeless, it's unlikely just like become rich is unlikely. It's easy to understand why. There are not as many HVM as there women who want them + these most often won't commit to a single woman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:41 PM
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1) You are making a lot of assumptions about me and the way I think. 2) Woman are irrational creatures, just like men. Our actions are driven by our irrational desires. Not only are you a bluepill working against the interests of your own sexe, you are also utterly stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:39 PM
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because this is competition, and women want to be free to compete for the top men they feel extreme attraction for. Even tho it is hopeless. That's like people trying to become billionaires even tho they know the odds are against them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:03 PM
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being ugly/short/poor does not make you a "terrible" man. Being hot/tall/rich does not make you a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:01 PM
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Your comment is stupid I can’t even Get an education or something With all due respect
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:57 PM
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Homo sapiens are over 300 000 years + no everyone is christian/muslim Civilisation is a brand new
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:14 PM
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Some "new understandings" that are killing civilisation involve thinking that : religion is useless we can save everyone /universalism nobody should settle for less (than what ?) and we should all compet to get the best mate possible having a child is burden as it makes me less competitive for jobs + mates communautarism is bad etc etc... These are "new understandings" that are contributing to a disfonctionning society. and are not from one specific cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:57 PM
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> how are you attributing this to a specific cause? Never said it was a specific cause. Societies evolve because of a many different complex factors, and they produce a whole bunch a new causes, ideologies and "understandings" > if this is how men think, they need to stop describing themselves as leaders and protectors. ?? what A man is litterally protecting you from other men. To be a leader you litterally have to make sure nobody is strong enough to be stand in your way. To do that you have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:41 PM
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our archaic understandings are the heritage of hundreds of thousands of years of darwinian evolution, adaptation, and learning. Your "modern understandings" are killing civilisation. We are comitting suicide litterally. (low birth rate/high unhappiness/low sense of community) That means your new understandings will be disappear in 1 generation and be replaced by stonger, more resilient "archaic" societies + Men are in competition with each other for ressources status and sex. Why would they lose…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:17 PM
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If a man whines to over men he will be met with the kind of comment I just gave him. > "Stop whining, be a man and carry your own weight, because nobody actually gives a shit about you and if you can't even do that then you are useless and are dragging us down" Now if a woman whines to these same men, these men will offer her the support she seeks, because males have no inherent value contrary to females Now if he can afford to pay someone into caring about his "traumas" then good for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:47 PM
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Nobody gives a f about your self esteem issues and no one is gonna help you with them unless they have something to gain from it. Stop whining and be a man. Women can afford to whine about things because there will always be simps that are gonna be there for them. because they think they may gain something from the support they are giving her. This is a luxery that you do not have so stop whining. They do not give a f and nobody does
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:23 PM
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Well I wouldn’t be ok if I actually were the father
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:06 AM
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"Personally I think a woman's body count matters" > not getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:07 PM
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Morality is just a reflection of people's self interests in the first place. it's hypocrisy Most men acting like this to get laid will find moral ways to justify their action. The same way you would find moral justifications for your contributing to the torture of animals because you like to eat them, or your contribution to the exploitation of third world countries slave children to consume, or whatever else; I am not interested in presenting moral reasonings to justify my actions because I am …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:06 PM
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It makes it even more likely to be bollocks actually
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:18 PM
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Of course you cannot know if someone is lying to you that's the whole point of lying in the first place. The problem is that lying is the ONLY viable strategy as honesty is almost never getting you laid. Because women hate when men do not tell them exactly what they already want to believe. It's like there is a script in their head that you have to figure out first through trial and error, and then follow exactly ; and whatever you say that is not the script is getting you cancelled from the sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:53 PM
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The thing is that you are allowing this to happen to yourself by selecting dishonesty in men. Men simply cannot afford to be real and give you honest feedbacks cause doing that isn’t getting them laid. So they will tell you what to want to hear and feed your delusions Of course you shouldn’t be insulted or mistreated for your hobbies by some random dude, but even showing disapproval is enough to lose a part of her attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:50 AM
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If a girl talks about astrology to me I will act like I am interested and ask questions about it etc .. for strategy reasons I’ll just be nice to her and not judgemental about whatever « stupid »hobbies she tells me about. But I will have a huge internal eyeroll. I know I would be incompatible with a woman who thinks about these things So my question to you OP is, are you ok with men being dishonest to you and acting like they care about your hobbies in order to get what they want, while in real…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:35 AM
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An atheist woman from a conservative society will have more conservative values than a religious woman from a neo-liberal society
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:08 AM
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That's better than having no sustainable way to access it at all. so yeah it would make them happier. Even men that are not paying because they would have less competition for the women they are pursuing IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:44 AM
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As long as she stays attractive she will not « get lazy ». Even old women are still interested in dating hot guys from Africa for example … As you said the hoe phase is inevitable because they were raised in culture that’s letting it happen. Even if you marry a western woman that is a virgin, her upbringing will most likely turn her into a hoe eventually because that is the life that is being promoted to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:34 AM
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Yes hoes I am in right position to tell you that some cultures produce more promiscuous women and some others do not. The cultural differences between a muslim woman and a atheist woman here in France make a HUGE difference in their dating habits. Tbh at this point I don’t even see the reason in commiting to a western woman as their « whore-like » behaviours have totally gotten out of hands and are so normalized. Only reason is that you are a naive man or you have no better options. Most western…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:22 AM
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There is no way I am committing to this kind of woman. Maybe this is necessery for every liberal woman but it’s not happening in other cultures, where people still have a god and are shaming promiscuity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:09 AM
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Yes I understand you are right. You are so smart. "my body my choice" is actually used for abortion and sexual freedom, but it is interesting as this slogan implies that they have to be in support of sex workers too. So some women perceive that helping sex workers to get more rights will in turn give them more rights. as they have commun interests to some extent. Just like a cop and a drug dealer would be against the legalization of weed together and support each other because it would take away…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:56 PM
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The demand for sex buying would increase, because lower prices + safer accessibility etx.. This in turn would lower the demand for relationships because these men would have other alternatives than to simp in order to get mediocre female attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:46 PM
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Tbh I think you are right for the most part. Most women here do not even seem to be aware that it would contributation to hoe deflation. Just like with legalization of weed, it is unclear what the impacts might be on a given society as many complex factors are at play at the same time.If I knew it would make my life/country better one way or another I would support it, if not I would oppose it. But it is unclear whether I would win or lose from it so I just don't have an opinion. So if female re…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:34 PM
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Half of what you said is irrelevant, the other half is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:48 PM
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Love is a competition and like in any competition there are a few winners a lot of losers. Most people do not get what they want.Most people end up settling or being alone + u are using a lot of moral reasonings. this is an irrational way of thinking. You should be aware of it as a philosopher.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:36 PM
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Most men are not getting healthy intimacy. They are paying for only fans and sub to girl streamers because that’s the only alternative they can afford in this times of hoeflation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:18 PM
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finding it icky because 1) low value man are doing it but they wouldn't mind if lebron james did it. 2) this ick is a instinctive reaction of moral disgust. Moral disgust comes when a behaviour go against your interests
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:44 PM
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I am literally french It's not gonna solve the problem by itself. It's going to somewhat deflate pussies and thus contribute to making it less worse. Of course hoeflation is consequence of a set of a lot of different factors depending on each individual country. For example in Thailand prostitution is illegal but culturally overly accepted. In switzerland it's legal but no so well seen + really expansive. Many factors are at play here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:41 PM
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yes high demand (male thirst) + lowering supply = inflation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:29 PM
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most of their clients are male + they make far less money cause there is far less demand
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:45 AM
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The fact that men are willing to pay such a high amount tells a lot about how inflated pussy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:43 AM
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Just because you do not like it doesn't mean it's horrible or that it is not reality. These men will act perfect until they get what they want. Then they either decide to keep acting perfect / dumping her / or simply let her chase him for more fake romance for her part and actual free sex for his Some men might actually develop feeling in the process but that is quite uncommon
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:42 AM
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Don’t wanna sound like a child but she kinda started it by insulting out of nowhere
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:26 AM
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Many will pursue a relationship simply because they are horny. That is why so many women are put in a situationship with close to bno intimacy. Men simply do not crave intamacy as much as women do. Most of the time men actually offer romance and commitment to a women in order to get sex. These men would have an alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:24 AM
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That is when you come with arguments that are gonning to change my view (CMV) I don’t know any country that would prove thr point you are making.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:23 AM
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I understand but do come back later when you have more time because it is a interesting conversation that we are having rn and I want to know where I might be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:54 AM
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Who are you to tell me how to speak ? If your weak brain is satisfied with weak concept to apprehend reality that is your problem not mine. + attacking me personally (and making assumptions about me) instead of attacking my arguments simply goes to show the limit of your intelligence. People with limited intelligence are in no place to tell others what words they should be using.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:47 AM
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Yeah so buy a $500 minimum trip to some other country just to for some sex lol. That's not accessible or sustainable for most men. And btw women hate passpor bros. And that is for the same reason that they don't want prostitution to be legal It gives men alternatives and thus it lowers the demand for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:43 AM
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you don't say it because you are not necessarily aware of it consciously. And if you were you wouldn't say it cause it's socially unacceptable. And women more than men can't deal that. ​ Instead they will simply find a way to express it in a way that puts them in the victims position or something
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:39 AM
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I think you are cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:35 AM
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You are right, but I disagree with the last paragraph I dont want to be sell my dignity in a big company while my labor's benefits actually goes to the sharesholders and not to me. But as of now I do no feel disguted by the fact that so many people are in this situation because I know it's never gonna be me. I may even benefit from the low incomes in the future. ​ That's just not my problem. So is male loneliness not women's problems. They are actually quite happy about it because they benefit f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:28 AM
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Moral instincts are viceral feelings that people feel but dont truly understand. People are doing to others what you wouldn't like to be done do you ? (doing something that doesn't match your personal interests) > moral disgust > you explaining how God/justice/whatever is against it and it is bad. ​ But people don't really understand morality, they are simply following their impulses with low self awareness like animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:04 AM
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sugar babies are sex workers that are specically there for men craving intimacy. Btw many men try entering relationships and are thus simpying just because they are horny and want sex. (It is actually quite common to behave like this for men and put women in situationships/sex-friendships) Those simps would have another alternative and this would deflate Female sexuality's value
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:34 PM
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Well an average men can't "afford" to date a below average woman anymore. That's inflation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:19 PM
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You are right. Some men benefit from it (ie High SMV men) while most don't And some women benefit from it too. And there are also a number of people that are brainwashed. They think that there is such a thing as actual morality and that X country should be bombed because of morality
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:18 PM
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Back in the days men did not want their daughters and wives to think prositution was a legitimate way to make money. This is actually a complex phenomenon as conservative societies actually control people's lives though religion It is far different from our current societies which are nihilistic for the most part
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:12 PM
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Most men are not getting actual intimicy in the first place the replacement that men currently have for actual intimacy is settling with a woman who "had her fun" in her youth while ignoring him, and settles for him now. Maybe these men would reconsider commiting to these kinds of women if they had some sort of alternative. This would deflate women sexual value, meaning that more men would be able to actually afford this actual intimacy you are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:09 PM
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Men made it legal before the neo liberasation of the sexual market.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:02 PM
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Yeah. sucribing to an onlyfans wouldn't either. Developping para social with streamer girls and offering them sub either. Offering dates to a woman who friendzoned wouldn't either. Yet miserable men are still doing all of those things, and thus are contributing to the "hoeflation"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:59 PM
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Yes I know it's a minority. But it is just a proof of how valuable female sexuality in the current dating market in general. Some will leverage it for a career on onlyfans, others will simply have their date buying them expensive gifts or better looking men settling with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:54 PM
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Now imagine how much "worst" it would be if 4) It was illegal and clients could get arrested for participating in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:50 PM
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You are using moral arguments btw. this is a natural reaction coming from you and it proves my point. They want it, actually most sex workers are happier the more clients they get. They just want the money coming with it. And I'm not saying men want to have sex with sex workers. That would just be an alternative in case women are too demanding and they just can't make themselves attrative enough..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:41 PM
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That's just what happens when you legalize stuff most of the time. I'm too lazy to explain exactly because that would be an economic discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:35 PM
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So when I talk about the labor market I think of humans as commdities too ? The "services" that we can provide just happen to have an economic value, and there is a market for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:32 PM
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They are already taking money from simps but the inflation on women's sexuality is so high that they don't even have to sleep with the guys. These men are ok with paying for their onlyfans/webcam services etc ... If there is less money to make for it because it's now legalised, women would actually have less economical incentives to prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:31 PM
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this would deflate the value of women's sexuality on the sexual market as men will have more options to choose from You are using moral arguments that you probably wouldn't be using if you had felt like you had something to gain from it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:27 PM
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Because the society in was banned in originally was far different from the one that we have today. Back then there were no neo-liberalisation of the sexual market.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:25 PM
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this would deflate the value of women's sexuality on the sexual market as men will have more options to choose from
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 10:22 PM
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I agree that it is somewhat caricatural, but any man would tell that there is some level of truth to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:13 PM
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Madonna-Whore Syndrome. Men are simply attracted to 2 types of women. ​ Powerful men will simply sleep with various promiscuous women and never pursue relationship with them. ​ On the other end, there is no way a relationship oriented guy wants a "IG baddie" promiscuous values. ​ And even rich/powerful men will tell you that bodycount matters to them openly + will look for younger women cause she likely has a lower bodycount.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:55 PM
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Telling people they will regret the consequences of their actions isn’t about scaring them, but warning them. I dont care about how you guys chose to live your lives. I know that the birth rates are doomed and I am preparing for this individually to save myself from it. Stating that there are no guarantees in life is irrelevant. Poverty doesn’t guarantee unhappiness but it does help a lot. Not studying doesn’t guarantee a bad grade but it does contribute a lot. Not having babies because you don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:45 AM
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With the declining birth rate young nurses will be scarce in comparison to old people, meaning they will be unaffordable for the vast majority of people. Y’all are just gonna end up alone and depressed once your beauty has declined.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:11 AM
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Nobody with self respect would commit to a woman who made them wait for sex, while giving it to low effort men or having done so in the past multiple time. ​ Women control the value of their sexuality. By sleeping around they make it valueless
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:31 AM
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His social status relatively to her is a fondamental part of what makes a man attractive to a woman. Just like a Surgeon or a entrepreneur would be more attractive to a western women, an average western is extremely attractive in lower income country. Not to mention theiraverage height, look, confidence in comparision to the local population. etc.. All of this advantages while NOT meeting women who stopped counting how many men they've fucked with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:57 PM
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Witchcraft, prayers, cards, karma, omen, signs, good deeds whatever. These are all the same thing. You invent a spiritual reality overlapping and influencing the real one. You invent ways to influence this secondary reality and therefore the real one with it. It allows you to have some sense of control. Whether it's in a bad or a good way. I'm not saying conspiracy is always about thinking for yourself . It's about finding counter narratives to the dominant ones through logical reasonings. These…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:15 PM
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Conspiracy theories and superstitions serve different psychological needs. Superstitions give u a sense of control over your own fate when you can’t accept the fact that you truely don’t have much if any. You want to be happy/heal your friend’s grandma/save africa but can’t ? Use cristals Conspiracy theories imply the need to go out of the way the norm thinks or what they see as good which is the reason why I believe women don’t like them as much as men would It implies using your reason to go a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:08 PM
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I want my daughter to be extremelly rich, have nobel prize, be funny and confident. But I don’t that these are qualities that will make her more sexually attractive to HVM. If I wanted my daughter to marry a billionaire I would raise her to be submissive, caring, religious, beautiful, pure etc… because I know that’s what make a woman attractive to a guy And I’m a guy btw
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:28 PM
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I don’t see how it’s problematic in a darwinistic world, to want to spread your genes as much as possible, and to make make sure your daughter doenst spreads the gene of the first horny guy that owns a car. Your morals might influence the culture but wont change the biological determinisms this said culture would go around calling creepy. You want create moral judgments in order to make male believe that they have a reason to according to the way YOU want them to act. Which they just dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:11 PM
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Doesnt make it any less true. Stop thinking your morals will influence reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:47 PM
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Men just don't want their daughters to date
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:21 PM
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arational You just taught my new favorite word thank you !
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:11 PM
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I think "values" is story people tell themselves. In reality the only thing that truly motivates us is desire. And then again, I don't see why I should look for someone with similar "values" as mine. Moreover, in my opinion a high n-count doesn't grosses me out because of different values. I think it's totally fine for a woman to do whatever she wants. She can even like the same writers as I do, have a similar philosophy as mine, there could even a good "feeling" between us and I would even be w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:41 PM
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So ? It’s like saying u want a funny guy if youre not funny yourself or rich if you’re not rich etc… One criteria is important for one gender and not for the other it’s as simple as that. Assuming both gender have/should have the same criterias to pick a partner is just dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:37 AM
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It's not. It's like saying a girl that wants tall guys has to be tall herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:18 AM
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