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Most things people speak to the public are statements, and not true decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 10:33 PM
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Should consider that not all people are only settling, but for some, preferences changed as they got more experience with what works for them in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:40 PM
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Any father overly paranoid about their daughter dating is outing either himself, his past, who he associated with, or his beliefs towards male-female dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:08 PM
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Been reading your comments here recently - it's very socially aware. Many people don't want to find a gold digger yet their understanding of value is the same as that of a gold digger, but in reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:43 PM
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You may run the fault of only looking for sources and communities that confirm your bias. There are more young men & women that don't see each other with enmity than the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:56 AM
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More and more men&women are taking care of their skin, gut health, staying active than the old hedonistic supernova days of the 1970-1990s which lends to your point that many people don’t decline like they used to. That phrase refers to the hard partiers or the people who age terribly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:55 AM
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Very good analogy. Seeing or experiencing a lot does not necessarily remove the desire to settle down in one place later. However it does for a smaller subsection of society
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:19 AM
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The man having to foot the bill on every date means she sees her time as more valuable than yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:18 AM
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Don't be average is the only answer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:04 AM
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Emotional availability only matters later - if she will continue to date said person or not. It's hard to gauge emotional availability as strangers/acquaintances - unless you are close friends first.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:05 AM
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It's because of the economic, political, and working climate, not because of a social trend. People in developed countries only want children if they can sustain their current lifestyle with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 12:45 PM
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How about none of them are at fault? Can we agree on this? At least for once on this site which likes to paint every single guy as the evil himself? Can we for once? Please? Just for once? If their externals are in line, they are: defective/lacking in social graces to some extent higher standards than what they are themselves else it's guaranteed they can find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:35 PM
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a fat, out of shape cashier who's confident and disciplined This is nearly impossible because a really disciplined and confident person would likely be in shape or no longer a cashier. I agree, a lot of time they go together and there is no low-rung really confident person (at least not for long)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:31 PM
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If you are successful and decent looking, you will easily find a regular partner (casual or serious), no need for that unless you're a thrill seeker.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 06:07 PM
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If you are able to land dates on your own you can do better than most of these set-ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 03:20 AM
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I have gotten these offers as a guy, but women only offer to set you up if you are already at the point where you are able to score a date or relationship on your own. They're not going to set up unattractive men with their friends. You will at most be "not her type", but she will recognize that you are conventionally attractive to some.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:31 PM
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Women do not need to compete for a man, women are the electors in the sexual market. That's how it is. As a hot woman in my early 20s, I can afford to be picky because there are plenty of men with the same values who want to date me. This means that the most attractive men/women treating others like shit and getting away with it is just simple maths, and is ethically justified in your dating model. This is why a lot of attractive, successful men do the bare minimum - because they will still get …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 12:13 PM
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My counter point: Men are actually forced to improve at a rapid rate in the modern dating market because marriage and women were more guaranteed in the recent past.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:25 AM
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No, it’s also muscle definition and muscle memory. That’s why people who have strokes or memory loss have a “changed face”, despite being physically the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 02:32 AM
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The funny thing is fat and obese women say fat acceptance but never date a fat man, when I mention this offhandedly their entire argument fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 01:10 PM
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Most women tend to know the “right answer” to things that are what society or progressive thinking pushes , even if they don’t actually truly feel that way. So some who don’t have emotional maturity just lose attraction and so despite pretending it’s fine, it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 08:03 PM
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Hookup and casual dating culture exist in clubs and pubs, but for the most part, you need to have a shared circle. Shared circle as in, a hobby community, an activity club, or some 3rd party association to you.
/r/seduction21/12/20 10:57 AM
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On Tinder it's implied you both want each other just for who they are. On Sugar apps it's implied the man will somehow pay for the woman's attention, time, or service. Plus he got to list his salary - he could have done that on Tinder and had the same result.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 10:26 PM
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They were a semi-nomadic minority that took over a huge majority of sedentary people. They also made Islam the way to social climb upon conversion. In the case of Mongols, they massacred way more, which meant the remainder would have their genetic mark more so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 10:21 PM
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If you believe the world is a certain way, and you only train yourself to spot things that confirm your worldview, of course. It's undeniable there are still some great couples in our era, and that there are still good men and women out there. The fact you don't see any after being in 70 countries is suspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 05:46 PM
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Men can turn it down - but it depends on what setting. The bar? Most people are trying to get laid. The cafe? A lot more factors come into play. There is a large enough subset of men who won't fuck any girl who's interested, but it depends on what type of guy is the woman's preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 08:36 AM
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if everywhere you go, you smell and spot shit, you may need to check under your shoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 08:23 AM
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sounds like it worked for him - if it works it's not faulty
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 08:17 AM
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I feel the same way in rejecting them, but I don't act poorly towards anybody or hold negative feelings. If a girl was subtly snubbing me or treating me worse during my dark hours, and then beaming around me or casually hinting she likes me when I've got my shit sorted out, I just pretend not to notice it and play oblivious to any indications she likes me. This is especially true when I have made a big leap improving myself, but she remains exactly where she was.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 10:01 PM
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Note: for men who don't agree, they don't have to energy or the interest in arguing it. You don't see men disagree with many things unless it's crazy ridiculous tier. It just doesn't get an upvote. For men, the internet is simple: don't like it, go somewhere else. This is because generally, no matter how much you dislike it, it won't end up harming you if you ignore it. Conversely, as per Isla Vista and the like, this does not ring true for women, so women have a more activist and call-out inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 12:37 PM
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I think this sub gets a bad rep a lot of the time - likely due to the name. What goes on in here to be has been more or less really positive stuff though.
/r/seduction03/09/19 09:41 AM
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Thing is he is mostly talk, as doesn’t actually push the boundaries hard. That’s good imo, because if they feel less “under attack” (not saying if it is reality or not, but they feel this way) they will calm down and loosen up.
/r/MensRights12/03/19 08:46 PM
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I don't think elections do anything to change social standards. Legal for legal, social for social.
/r/MensRights12/03/19 08:28 PM
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That was my knowledge on this. Affirmative action is a legal standard in the US, in Canada its a social standard.
/r/MensRights12/03/19 08:07 PM
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When they think the world only works like that, the answer is to do the same to make it in the world.
/r/MensRights12/03/19 07:49 PM
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I was not aware this was in law, but socially motivated. Oddly enough, Canadian Universities don’t have affirmative action, not as much as US Ivy Leagues have it.
/r/MensRights12/03/19 07:44 PM
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Netherlands?
/r/seduction12/03/19 07:20 PM
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The one thing about “pretending you don’t like her” is: when do you drop the gig? I am a believer in consistency over time so if you start that way, you may never drop it?
/r/seduction11/03/19 12:36 AM
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I am in the major facebook group for it and even there, a shitstorm brewed up due to that statement. Though at least half of the group didn’t overreact, whereas on popular internet, you have every average Joe branding their pitchfork.
/r/MensRights06/02/19 12:37 AM
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When the APA said “stoic” personality is harmful, I actually agreed because the majority consensus on what being stoic is, is actually harmful. This is probably going to get me in the red at this subreddit. It’s people who don’t really understand stoicism that see it as an attack more than a misunderstanding - there are people who haven’t read anything about it being valiant defenders all of a sudden.
/r/MensRights06/02/19 12:22 AM
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As someone who practices Stoicism, this is correct. I try to tell people that Stoicism isn’t emotional repression but they tend to brush me off or accuse me of not being on their side.
/r/MensRights06/02/19 12:13 AM
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As soon as she or anyone who knows finds this, you’re going to be blasted so hard and blacklisted from everyone they know. Should have covered name, info and pictures
/r/seduction06/02/19 12:00 AM
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Thank you - I sometimes feel in their act to renounce tumblr women, this community becomes the mirror image of them - not a good thing.
/r/MensRights05/02/19 07:31 AM
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I agree. The old aristocracy, headed by their male family heads, is also socially conservative and is the society that the feminists take offence to most.
/r/MensRights28/01/19 06:18 AM
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Ad hominem? I’ll wager you have no sex life, by reacting like this you don’t seem to be very mentally composed. I have no complexes in myself, and I’m just pointing out some things that are popular in male pop-cultural spheres. I have not lied in any of those statements - feel free to counter them.
/r/MensRights17/01/19 08:05 PM
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normalization of the demonization of men and saintification of women. I have brought this up in other threads. I agree if the fire is lit for one demographic, it should be a viable method to others. The message was to try to be a better person and don't be a bystander for things. I have my criticisms for the video as well, but I end up defending it because I didn't expect the level of reaction against it. I don't have to criticize it in my responses because I would have just upvoted someone else…
/r/MensRights17/01/19 12:12 PM
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They do, but there is a whole subculture of "chad" and the most desirable men doing whatever they want (including harassment), and getting lauded by other guys who respect that they have the authority to do so. I've never met a boy or a group of men who thought sexual harrassment was good or acceptible in my life. I wager about half of this sub is a Trump voter (no comments on that), and that they respect that he has said all that he has said or done regarding his dating life. Guys admire guys w…
/r/MensRights17/01/19 12:07 PM
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Yeah, that’s valid. They were trying to get at bullying but it didn’t pan out right. “Let boys be boys” when it comes to running around, roughing up a bit, etc is fine, but there’s also a “boys will be boys” when it comes to things like actual bullying or harassment.
/r/MensRights17/01/19 07:30 AM
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I know there’s issues with the ad, but is it really worth this level of anger when the delivery was poor, but the message was not?
/r/MensRights17/01/19 05:40 AM
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In this group only learn fundamentals and the must-know concepts, the rest you are supposed to be able to come up yourself after you get a foundation
/r/seduction16/01/19 10:05 AM
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Where did all the conspiracy theorists come from
/r/MensRights21/12/18 11:00 AM
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He says around the world... don’t we all know at least a few places where it’s a huge stigma for women to attend school?
/r/MensRights08/09/18 08:11 AM
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you are seeking approval by wanting attention from girls
/r/seduction26/07/18 03:31 PM
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I think of it as a multiplier, but the base has to be something else besides just muscles
/r/seduction29/06/18 03:00 PM
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You got a good recommendation for where to get a good sharp rock and club?
/r/seduction23/05/18 08:26 AM
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I agree, like you can't go from hunter-gatherer to a industrialized state, you need to go through all those other steps as well.
/r/seduction22/05/18 11:42 AM
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try skincare and other stuff?
/r/seduction04/05/18 05:28 AM
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Let me say it like this: Democrats knowingly or unknowingly may have enacted policies in recent history that may hurt men more than others. However they are also socially more progressive towards men who struggle with issues that traditional malehood ignores or considers a non-factor (things like male visitation, male mental/psychological issues, male rape etc - I know SJWs sometimes deny this but you realize no Republican has ever called out or tried to change these things so they lead) Republi…
/r/MensRights01/05/18 09:04 PM
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You do this alone or with others?
/r/seduction01/05/18 08:19 AM
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Being "good looking" is subjective. That being, there's more than one look. There's a classic handsome/pretty boy/model look - but there's rugged, crazy, eccentric, punk, goth, hobbyist - there's a lot of available looks to own if you're a man. (sometimes you'll have to ease into a look you can be, but not the one you wished you were). Beyond style/marketing your appearance, the rest is eating well, exercise, and the like.
/r/seduction24/04/18 09:33 AM
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work on it until you aren't
/r/seduction24/04/18 09:24 AM
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If you cannot absolutely find even one date, the fault is in you - the way you come off to others, some toxic beliefs beneath the surface, low self confidence, not taking care of yourself, etc.
/r/seduction16/04/18 10:28 PM
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This is me... my best chances are always with girls who don’t mind younger guys or who are 3-5 years younger than me
/r/seduction13/04/18 03:34 PM
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Pretty much, do it before you get into your own head. If you fail, it isn't because of what ethnic group you are, it's a personal quality you don't have. If she says you're not physically attractive - take it for what it is, not "oh she hates me because I'm (insert minority)" If, even worse, she says she doesn't date (insert ethnic group) - you'd have to look at yourself and tell yourself you somehow are or seem like the bad stereotypes of your people. Change accordingly.
/r/seduction23/03/18 12:05 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/malementalhealth/ There's this new sub for any personal issues and just talk. Note though, no diatribe about how X societal ill is super bad, that sub is new and it needs to stay positive/individual focused for now.
/r/MensRights16/03/18 05:36 PM
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it's people like you that keep a lot of us here when we're on the edge of deciding whether to leave or not
/r/MensRights16/03/18 05:34 PM
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These types ruin the legitimate left leaning movements
/r/MensRights16/03/18 01:57 PM
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How good are your pics? Could you explain what your photos are like
/r/seduction15/03/18 11:08 PM
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I always match on Bumble but they never follow up... I think my style and what I give off is not exactly one persons ideal cup of idea, but a lot of people’s okay cup of tea - which makes Bumble bad for me
/r/seduction15/03/18 08:18 AM
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Those "dumb and hot" people are not as dumb as you think - they have hella social intelligence
/r/seduction24/11/17 04:42 AM
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What kind of girls do you want? Have you tried lowering expectations/standards since your goal is to experience romance mostly?
/r/seduction24/11/17 04:36 AM
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A lot of them get downvoted to shit on those main ones though
/r/MensRights14/08/17 08:24 AM
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Can't deny that this sub has a lot of actual neckbeards, white supremacists, red-pill or other weird people here though.
/r/MensRights13/08/17 12:17 PM
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Maybe their comments need to be deleted here
/r/MensRights13/08/17 10:23 AM
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I'm pretty sure there are many on this place that browse things like T_D, altright, white nationalism, and many other fucked up shit - but that isn't what this sub is about.
/r/MensRights13/08/17 10:22 AM
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Wow Stoicism is leaking everywhere - even in seduction! Never have I thought when I first found out about the philosophy years ago it would be so relevant to everything.
/r/seduction25/01/17 10:22 AM
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Women buy those magazines though, men don't donate to support whatever views get published inside. By continuing to buy them, it means they support the views espoused in the magazines.
/r/MensRights21/12/16 02:51 AM
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She does have the weight distribution of a fat asian kid. That actually means worse, if she has the same amount of metabolism, it takes a lot of overeating to achieve that.
/r/MensRights21/12/16 02:47 AM
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To be honest girls aren't conditioned or encouraged to seek out hobbies or time sinks like guys are in their youth (games, train sets, sports whatnot) so the ones that are neither independent enough to pick up something on their own or attractive enough to get the attention of others feel very left out of society in a way - enough to start to blame others for it. It's much like male neckbeards blaming society for "not respecting proper nice guys" like them.
/r/MensRights24/08/16 09:36 AM
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confirmed good looking
/r/seduction22/08/16 11:16 AM
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He's trying to imply most of them (that do that) are not very attractive
/r/MensRights02/07/16 12:41 AM
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It's actually not that bad. Remember in this sub posts the most ridiculous offenses. Just like how SJWs aren't exactly every single non-male, Canada isn't full of this stuff. Especially in Canada, people aren't that community-oriented as it is in the states (IMO); so it's mostly niches and pockets of people who have certain opinions and group up due to it. I usually dislike that Canadians keep to themselves more than Americans do, but this also means bad opinions don't spread to everyody that qu…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 03:40 AM
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Stuff like push/pull might work on flirty guys, a lot of the little playful banter stuff, framing. Have to be careful though, some guys get intimidated if you can out-do his own game.
/r/seduction28/04/14 05:21 PM
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I don't know about you, but I have standards too...
/r/seduction28/04/14 05:20 PM
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Oh man I had this problem a two years ago. It was because I was used to speaking quickly and nasally. Mostly because when I was younger I had minor seasonal allergies that plugged up my nose a bit, so I got used to speaking without a relaxed throat. First off, make sounds in different octaves without stressing, every guy has a deep-ish voice (might not be super deep, but it's not gay). Then get used to talking in it. I think the sound should come from your neckbone height, at the very start of w…
/r/seduction28/04/14 05:11 PM
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Oh that too. OP, That's for people trying to look better than they actually are. If you want people to objectively judge you shouldn't be doing that
/r/seduction28/04/14 05:04 PM
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You, me - sex.
/r/seduction28/04/14 04:57 PM
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Actually, IMO this question is completely valid, but it doesn't belong in this sub. I am 100% sure there is a subreddit for girls who rate guy's bodies, and it's not this one.
/r/seduction28/04/14 04:55 PM
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Careful with the social constructs. Their social mannerisms expected from people are different, so they might infer different things from the same actions
/r/seduction22/04/14 07:46 PM
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I think amateur should be what people should be sticking to. It all feels so much more real
/r/seduction22/04/14 03:59 AM
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I usually prefer seddit for my info, but I am still subscribed here for things like this. I don't agree with being resentful or angry towards women, but this stuff is stuff that needs to change
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 02:10 AM
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You can be nice, just not nice all the time. That way the times you are actually nice, it's noticed/valued rather than, "that's how Tim is always like".
/r/seduction03/04/14 06:14 AM
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The problem is like most guys want one but girls all assume anyone who asks is a player and sleeps around
/r/seduction02/04/14 07:46 PM
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I've been part of the seduction knowledge community for a while, but it still escapes me how people manage to get regular fuck buddies. Care to elaborate?
/r/seduction02/04/14 07:39 PM
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