AttentionOverloaded Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
203	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution.	CMV	AttentionOverloaded	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 12:09 PM
2	The heightism thing is so blown out of proportion. You can't get a solid girlfriend because most are already gone from the sexual market.	Discussion	AttentionOverloaded	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/21 11:36 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	The reason why women can’t admit that dating is OBJECTIVELY harder for men is because they feel it’s an attack on their right to complain Yeah, thank you for the conversation. I understand the anger and frustration you must feel, it's to be expected when you've felt this lonely for a long time. I wish I knew what to say to help you, but unfortunately I don't. So I'll just say good luck. Hope you find happiness in life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 08:16 PM
1	The reason why women can’t admit that dating is OBJECTIVELY harder for men is because they feel it’s an attack on their right to complain Okay, well sorry, I'm not a native speaker. Never heard this used.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 07:31 PM
1	The reason why women can’t admit that dating is OBJECTIVELY harder for men is because they feel it’s an attack on their right to complain I literally have no idea what that is. Never heard of any site called OLD. People here use Tinder only, then some specific groups on facebook or so. That's Europe I guess	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 07:05 PM
1	The reason why women can’t admit that dating is OBJECTIVELY harder for men is because they feel it’s an attack on their right to complain As I've said, I don't know a single pair that met on tinder and stayed together to recent days. If you want to use dating sites, do whatever, but don't whine about meeting bitches that's literally where they spawn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 06:45 PM
1	The reason why women can’t admit that dating is OBJECTIVELY harder for men is because they feel it’s an attack on their right to complain If she had any solid ones, she wouldn't be searching for a guy on fucking Tinder. But irl it must have been clear she's fucked in the head. By far his worst experience: They both swiped right, went out a few times, even fucked. She's been to a few of our parties, looked pretty basic, but whatever, it's his business. Then boom, after two months, she just blocked him everywhere and never texted again. Some time after that we've heard rumors circulating around about how he "was abusive" and "she fe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 06:16 PM
1	The reason why women can’t admit that dating is OBJECTIVELY harder for men is because they feel it’s an attack on their right to complain Dude I've literally said I live in a flat with two other guys. I've even fucked around with their Tinder profiles in the past. They are both mostly single, sometimes manage to get a girlfriend off of Tinder for like a month, then she ghosts them, I know how that shit works. I've told them not to use these sites countless damn times because they will never find anybody solid on them ever. Why are you even bringing that up? I've already said like 5 time already that yes, online hookups are easier …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 06:05 PM
1	The reason why women can’t admit that dating is OBJECTIVELY harder for men is because they feel it’s an attack on their right to complain You have all of this and yet you are still so unhappy and angry in life? You're rich and loaded and you did not manage to find ANY woman that would date you in 15 years? I don't think how that helps your situation tbh. I live with my boyfriend and 2 of our very good mutual male friends, I know very well how men live their lives, what struggles they face while dating and in general. I know society is much harder on them than it is on me at certain fields. Like when we were doing driving test and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 05:42 PM
1	The reason why women can’t admit that dating is OBJECTIVELY harder for men is because they feel it’s an attack on their right to complain I've read your whole manifesto, don't be worried, you have not written it in vain. However, no points you've made stretched deeper then the "it's not my fault" cries that are so typical for incompetent individuals trying to excuse themselves. Take responsibility for your failings and don't blame the world, you'll be happier in life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 05:21 PM
1	The reason why women can’t admit that dating is OBJECTIVELY harder for men is because they feel it’s an attack on their right to complain Bro. If you're 40 and have 0 dating experience, it's not the fault of the system. I'm sorry, not trying to be mean towards you, but that's reality. Men face their own unique challenges in life and many obstacles they have to try hard to overcome are lower for women, sure. But there's some possible systematic disadvantage, making things harder for certain groups of people and then there are personal failings of an individual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 05:10 PM
3	What are some things you dislike about your own gender/nature? Women: A certain portion of women are fucking psychos, manipulative, evil, willing to destroy your fucking life if you get in their way even slightly. And they rarely get punished in any way, because they don't get physical and justice system is always kinder to women. Women NEED men in their lives, even if they try to insist they don't. Even lesbians do. Not as partners necessarily but as friends, colleagues etc. Women only groups are absolutely insufferable and even women themselves intentiona…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 11:18 AM
2	The reason why women can’t admit that dating is OBJECTIVELY harder for men is because they feel it’s an attack on their right to complain That's because you've never seen the situation from the other side. You've never been publicly threatend in a mall by a stranger whose dating offers you've politely refused online. You've never had a stranger send you a photo of your house, saying that they can't wait for you to go outside and "show your beautiful face to them". You don't need to start running when a black van starts slowing down on the street paralely with you and you know there's a psycho kidnapping women in your neighborhood.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 10:52 AM
1	The reason why women can’t admit that dating is OBJECTIVELY harder for men is because they feel it’s an attack on their right to complain As any women existing on the internet, I've had countless guys texting me asking me for relationships. I can assure you not a single one of them was a husband material, even if I wanted to pretend really hard. Either they were 30+ years older than me, texting me without any context of us knowing each other, or they sent a dick pick after 2 damn messagea for me to "rate" or in the worst case they ended up stalking me in public places. Even though I've declined every single one (because I'm in a r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 10:38 AM
1	The reason why women can’t admit that dating is OBJECTIVELY harder for men is because they feel it’s an attack on their right to complain Dating practice is not a real thing. The higher your body count, the lower your chances of ever finding a longterm relationship. Most lifelong couples that are together were each others firsts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 10:30 AM
1	The reason why women can’t admit that dating is OBJECTIVELY harder for men is because they feel it’s an attack on their right to complain I've never met a single person whose tinder date lasted longer than a few months in my life ever. Not a single one. If what you're saying is a USA thing or idk where you are from, and even then, it's going to be like less than 1% of all the tinder dates that happened there. And with how many people use these sites to cheat on their partners, it still broke more relationships than it put together. None of the strangers that randomly bombarded my social media accounts with dickpicks, with whom it …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 10:28 AM
1	The reason why women can’t admit that dating is OBJECTIVELY harder for men is because they feel it’s an attack on their right to complain I love this argument. "Is there too much oxygen in the air for you? Huh? Are you choking? Well I guess you want no oxygen then, hmm? How is the breathing with no oxygen, hm? Are you still choking hmm? Oh you're still not satisfied? Well then decide your mind woman! It was too much before, it's too few now, you just really can't decide what you want, can you?! Having some special snowflake requirements all the time."	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 03:04 AM
1	The reason why women can’t admit that dating is OBJECTIVELY harder for men is because they feel it’s an attack on their right to complain Getting easy tinder dates with stuck up, desperate and horny guys that would be willing to go on a date with anything remotely resembling a women isn't an advantage for long term relationships because absolute majority of these affairs end after the first, maybe second meet up. Life long relationships almost always start up with at least a few months of intensive friendship, usually at some educational institution or at workplace. Exceptions exist, but these are the general rules.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 02:37 AM
1	The reason why women can’t admit that dating is OBJECTIVELY harder for men is because they feel it’s an attack on their right to complain I don't think I understand what you mean bro, maybe try to elaborate a bit	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 02:23 AM
4	Women, are you confident and charismatic? These dating sites statistics always have a very quick and easy explanation - women easily bamboozle guys with makeup and well taken photos. Guys don't wear makeup and take photos like boomers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 02:08 AM
1	Women, are you confident and charismatic? 1) My boyfriend was neither when we met, but over the course of our relationship he did built a lot of confidence and some charisma as well. I was drawn to the vulnerability and softness of his, how shy and cute he was so I honestly do kind of miss that. But he's definitely looking much happier now so I don't mind the change. Personally, I prefer cute shy pies though. 2) Hard to tell. I've often been called charismatic by my teachers and friends, but I wouldn't say I'm confident 3) 20% 4) 30% 5)…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 02:01 AM
1	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. That's kind of a humanity in general problem though, isn't it. It's always easier to blame someone else for your own personal failings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 01:38 AM
0	The reason why women can’t admit that dating is OBJECTIVELY harder for men is because they feel it’s an attack on their right to complain Nothing ever is bro, we're talking supergeneralised scenarios. If we weren't, debating weather "men or women have a harder time dating" would be absolutely pointless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 01:32 AM
2	The reason why women can’t admit that dating is OBJECTIVELY harder for men is because they feel it’s an attack on their right to complain What do you mean by dating? Is it quick fuck? Yes, women have it easier. Unfulfilling marriage forced out of desperation? Probably, yeah. A happy, long term relationship? Nope. That's equally hard to find, simply because it doesn't reflect the need of men to fuck and not be single. Desperate, sex deprived, lonely men won't be able to hold this kind of relationship and that's the target group making other types of dating easier for women. Women have easier time finding short term relationships wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 01:28 AM
8	How responsible are women for men's behaviour? I sincerely wish life was as easy as you imagine it and all women that are currently being abused by their partners were free to just leave without having to face any of the consequence they know it would have and go on to live their happily ever after.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 01:07 AM
1	The reason why women can’t admit that dating is OBJECTIVELY harder for men is because they feel it’s an attack on their right to complain What do you mean by dating? If quick tinder sex hookups are on your mind - yes, women definitely have that easier. But when it comes to serious relationships, happy, working marriages, you know, the meaningful shit then I don't think you can say anybody has it harder or easier. Yeah, I guess if a women wanted SOME marriage, she would be able to find a desperate guy that would marry her easier than vice versa. It's arguable, but probably true, because (from my experience) while many women don't r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/21 12:49 AM
1	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. I don't think you've understood what I was saying at all bro. 1) Men have drastically varying sexual market values. Some have nearly none, some have a lot. Women usually have all around the same value. That is the reason why most billionares are men. And why most homeless people are men. IQ is one of the important attributes for humans, where this difference is very neatly visible. That is why I chose to demonstrate it on this example. I've literally never said anything about women always going …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 11:12 PM
1	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. As I see it, you're just looking at it from too slim of a view. Is your boyfriend a caring, good guy? Well then there's a great chance he will stick around and invest in your offspring. Autistic people are usually intelligent, which can mean a good, high paying job - more resources etc. Different women prefer different attributes, because they are wired to prefer different evolutionary strategies. Generalised, oversimplified example: Rich, unattractive guy can have the same value as poor, good-l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 10:47 PM
0	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. There's a lot of genetically really good men and really bad men. Women are usually neither very good, nor really bad. This is seen in IQ graphs very clearly for example. Men usually score really poorly or really well, while most women were in the middle of the results list. Are there exceptions? Yes, there are always exceptions. Do women with very poor genetics exist? Yes they do. But thi is a general rule.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 10:40 PM
1	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. The points I've made are based on evolutionary studies. RP theories are based on unfounded, subjective feelings of angry people. Sometimes they happen to align with reality, sometimes not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 09:20 PM
1	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. Many reasons. I find him attractive, he's going to be an engineer in a few years, he has many positive characteristics our children can inherit. I believe it's a good choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 09:06 PM
2	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. I can agree with that, yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 08:36 PM
7	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. The fact that the man is wealthy most probably means he is successful. Did he inherit the money? Well, then his father with whom he shares 50% of genes was pretty successful, wasn't he. Evolution isn't about "choosing the muscle beast".	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 07:03 PM
2	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. Either, or we use genetic manipulation. In ideal society everybody could reproduce - we would just edit the bad things out of the genom poll.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 07:01 PM
1	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. 5000 years is not enough for evolution. Modern humans were almost exactly the same for last 200 000. The thriving is due to many external factors. Do you think we would be advanced if we lived in an ice age now, like many of our ancestors? This is the friendliest of ages we've ever lived in - no predators, no cataclysms. That's why we are so successful now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 06:55 PM
2	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. When we live in a society where every individual is more or less successful. We're not threatend with hunger or violence on daily day basis to know who is the strongest, smartest etc. so how can we determine who is the most successful around us? Well basically, we have to think something up right. Brand clothes are expensive, that means a lot of money, that probably means success. Flashy car means a lot of money - probably successful. And we can go on and on. All of these things are social const…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 06:33 PM
2	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. Women that are free to select as they please, without bounding outside factors, like most wester women nowadays are should be accountable for bad decisions they make.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 05:14 PM
2	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. Yes, women can be very hypocritical about this. Mine is 160cm Aryan, so I guess I'm halfway there. You're right, there's many factors to sexual reproduction - things that might be desirable for this population, but not that one over there and someone who isn't sexually desirable here can be on top of the ladder elsewhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 05:06 PM
0	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. Modern humans are about same for about 200 000 years. Arranged marriages are relevant for what.. like 5000 years? Look at European emperors and what arranged marriages did to them. They are not good for evolution.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 04:52 PM
1	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. Thank you for these fine arguments! Finally, men invest in their children as fathers, which kinda goes against your hypothesis. A lot more factors than just genes goes into childbearing. Unless, ofc, you think some men do not naturally invest in being fathers, which is a theory that veers dangerously into racist Rushtonian r-k pseudoscience. We've been taught that males in nature have two valuable strategies to chose from: a) if they have high sexual value, they don't need to invest in the femal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 04:44 PM
1	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. Yes, sexual selection isn't always best for the species, you're right. In some birds among others (like red junglefowl) it led to them becoming evolutionary much less successful. That's a very solid counter point. I would argue that for example it's been proven women are strongly attracted to men with complementary immune systems (unless they are on birth control), based on smelling tests. So it's not as easy as choosing "the muscle beast", other factors, as hard to detect as they can be, play a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 04:21 PM
-1	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. That's really generalised, I can imagine many scenarios where this wouldn't be a case. But if we are talking about middle class, western cultured, financially stable women with no history of family abuse - yes, she should have chosen a better father for their children. However, what is interesting and I feel often overlooked - male pump and dump doesn't need to necessarily be a bad strategy for females. Sure, he won't bring in resources that would have been evolutionary beneficial, but if he pro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 04:02 PM
-1	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. Thank you for this neat explanation! That's exactly my point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 03:54 PM
11	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. Yes, you are right. Unless he pulls the pump then dump attitude which is more common, like many men do now - that's why the rise of single mothers. I'm not saying I agree/disagree with this reality. I'm jist saying it's inevitable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 03:33 PM
4	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. Sexual selection of women is not the only evolutionary factor playing a role of course. If we lived in an ice age today for example, like big portion of our ancestors did, we wouldn't be nearly as advanced. Among other things, we are thriving because we live in a great age with little to no natural disasters. And at the same time, it's a huge misconception that women are attracted to the strongest males - no, they are attracted to the most successful ones, which does not mean a "buffed beast" as…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 03:28 PM
4	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. Yeah, it sometimes is a double standart. Shouldn't be, because objectively from a biological point of view - general woman is more picky then general man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 01:49 PM
2	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. I'm not arguing against that. Have your preferences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 01:44 PM
8	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. I don't. You are right, pumping and dumping is an evolutionary strategy for men. It might not be nice, but again - nature is not nice, it's efficient.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 01:33 PM
-2	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. You debunked nothing and from this comment it is very clear you could not understand anything I've said above. Have a nice day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 01:32 PM
7	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. I'm not talking about 200 years ago pal. That's absolutely no time in the life of a species lol. No, I'm talking about the other tens of thousands years of human history. Hate to break it to you, but majority of the existence of human race, we've been a matriarchal society so the "women decided nothing until recently" is not a good point. Looking into the animal kingdom, sexual selection is one of the strongest factors deciding where the species are gonna go. If you're saying it doesn't exist, y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 01:21 PM
1	Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution. Humanity tries to evade nature as much as we can. Medicine, electricity etc are tools helping us deal with the natural unfairness of reality. These are not social constructs, but inventions we've managed to create thanks to our superior intellect. We wouldn't have a superior intellect without sexual selection. We've decided killing each other isn't good because there is chance we ourselves, as an individuals, might get killed. We've decided stealing isn't good, because we, as individuals, might …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 12:48 PM
1	How much does clothing influence your attraction to a man? A lot. "Don't judge a book by it's cover" is a bs for the most part, the way somebody cares for their appearance tells you so much about their personality and lifestyle. It's not about brand clothes or expenses accessories at all though, but about being able to dress appropriately for events and social gatherings, having neat and clean clothes that smell good and fit well. It tells you a lot about the relationship this person has with society and at least for me personally, it definitely matters…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/21 11:11 AM
14	Q4W: What qualities make you fall in love with a man? And what qualities make you fall in lust with a man? Fall in love - definitely feeling of security. That I can rely on him, trust him, count on his support anytime I need it. And feeling on enrichment I guess, that being with him completes me and makes me a better person than I would be on my own. And fall in lust is easy right, that's about looks, charisma, body language. Dominance is a big factor for many women also.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/21 05:56 PM
1	Are women naturally more attracted to men who are "naturally successful" vs men who can only succeed with significant effort? On paper, they should be. Based on evolutionary biology that we are taught at the university: There's a "theory of handicaps". Basically men try to present certain signs that are supposed to show they are successful and therefore have a good genome. The catch is, these signs should objectively "cost them something", meaning only a truly successful male can afford to present them. For example in nature, lions with darker mane are seen as more attractive to the females. Because of the dark mane ho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/21 11:50 AM
8	Kindness, and Respect are not sexually attractive to women Kindness and respect are the minimum every person should have. Would I date my boyfriend if he wasn't kind and respectful towards me, my parents etc? No. Would I date him if these were his only positive characteristics? Also no. A lot of guys like to say that girls don't date them because they're "too nice". Usually the only men I've ever heard say this were not nice at all, just thought they were, because thinking you're "too nice" and "too good" for women is easier than admitting you're a bori…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/21 11:02 AM
3	Do you think there's a stigma against men being feminine? Absolutely. Women can get away with pretty much any gender nonconformity. Guys can't wear skirts, tight clothes, colorful clothes, dye their hair, wear makeup, anything pretty much etc etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/21 10:50 PM
1	The heightism thing is so blown out of proportion. You can't get a solid girlfriend because most are already gone from the sexual market. Exactly as I see it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/21 12:21 PM
1	Europe: best men (average height, penis size, gdp per capita, RV ethnicity rank) and women (breast size, ass, easiness, RV ethnicity rank) Czech Republic doing good on both fields, nice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/21 01:58 AM