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Late to the party here but I hope this will help. You are looking for what I call "the X factor". You've found it before, we all have. It's that intangible "something" that someone you meet has. All the lists and qualifications in the world won't help you find it. People either have it with you, or they don't. The way to find the X factor is doing exactly what you are doing. Just keep dating, have fun, and it will smack you over the head eventually.
/r/seduction26/08/13 04:52 PM
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You are going to get a bunch of responses saying its not important. While that's kind of true, it makes it MUCH easier. I mean when you are gaming girls and have an option between a 6 and an 8 which are you going to chose? Doesn't mean you can't game, it is just going to require more conversational skills. You will have further to go than a more attractive equal.
/r/seduction16/08/13 05:21 PM
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Always show your interest. What I meant was don't be so concerned with the outcome. The false perception of scarcity is something beginners have to get over. If that one doesn't like you, someone else will.
/r/seduction19/07/13 06:45 PM
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I agree. What I was trying to convey is outcome independence. Show your intentions but don't care If you get rejected.
/r/seduction19/07/13 06:44 PM
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This is all true. When I first started this was a huge lesson for me. I still have issues with some of it. However, it becomes learned behavior. The results are almost paradoxical. The less you show you are interested the more they flock to you. It is really eye opening.
/r/seduction19/07/13 04:21 PM
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Texting just isn't the same as face to face interaction. Just don't get so hung up on her before even going on a date. Being relaxed and outcome independent will only help.
/r/seduction20/06/13 04:05 PM
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In my experience the more I want a relationship with someone the less likely it is to happen. The inverse is true as well. This has happened multiple times with my FWB's. the less I want a relationship the more they seem to want one. My advice to you is to be outcome independent. Go out with her with the plan of having a good time, and that is it! How do you even know you want a relationship with her? You don't even really know her.
/r/seduction20/06/13 03:48 PM
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I use this all the time, works amazingly well.
/r/seduction08/02/13 05:49 PM
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All good looks does is makes attraction easier to build. I've had nights where I have girls approach ME all night, and nights where I get blown out all night. The thing that I finds works best is good social proof. I have a group of girls that I keep as, what I call potentials. We hang almost every weekend and it's always mildly sexual, but I don't try with them because I don't want to lose my proof. The amount of closes I've gotten BECAUSE of them far outweighs any benefit of closing them. Actu…
/r/seduction06/02/13 01:37 AM
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I didn't say speak softly, I have calibrated myself to always speak SOFTER than I think I should.
/r/seduction29/01/13 09:47 PM
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I have a very deep voice as well. It's not the volume, it's that deeper sounds carry more. Just change where you speak from, I can speak from higher in my throat, and it's not as deep. If that doesn't work, just speak softly, if girls have to lean in to hear you it can be used to test interest.
/r/seduction29/01/13 02:01 PM
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It's rare, but of you find one you will be able to spot it easily.
/r/seduction19/01/13 11:46 PM
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I know you posted this for self reference, but just a word of encouragement for you. You need to realize that this stuff doesn't come quickly or easily, unless you are a natural. Since that doesn't seem to apply to you you need to start changing the way you measure success. Success for you, as a beginner, should be to simply approach. That is it! A good night for you is 3-5 approaches. Period. Do not let how the sets go determine how we'll you did that night. This will obviously change as you wo…
/r/seduction14/01/13 01:50 PM
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Feel free to hang out with her, just don't take it physical. And if she tries, stop her and tell her why. Can still be a decent dude AND do pick-up
/r/seduction13/01/13 12:18 AM
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No problem.
/r/seduction12/01/13 09:00 PM
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As the night progresses and people start just dancing it becomes weird to walk up and talk. This is why you approach when you get there before it becomes one big dance party. Ideally you will have a set or two you are hanging with, and thereby gain social proof. Then opening new sets is much easier. In fact, in my experience when I'm already dancing with several girls, dancing with a fresh set is far easier. Sometimes they will even come dance with you.
/r/seduction12/01/13 08:36 PM
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Couple things here. She is clearly interested, her behavior screams attraction. Girls don't just go to some dudes place an get drunk of they don't like him. She has been raped, so I'd relax on some of the more aggressive moves, pick-up should be tailored to your target. She is with a dude. It is easy, especially in light of progressing success, to forget that pick-up isn't just about getting the F-close. Would you want your girl in that situation? Just cause you are practicing pick-up doesn't me…
/r/seduction12/01/13 08:22 PM
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Going out alone can be very difficult, especially for a beginner. Remember though, the wingman concept is pretty advanced and is very difficult to pull off. You seem to be using it as a crutch. Even when I go out with my wing, we approach different sets, and very rarely do we approach together. For us, the wing is a way of providing social proof, and comfort. One guy alone looks weird, two guys alone look like some dudes out to have a good time. Thus, just use wings as basic social proof and not…
/r/seduction12/01/13 08:13 PM
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Watch mystery do it. The first approach he does shows a situational opener, and immediate disqualification when he rolls off, the DHV by simply moving around them and making them lean in to talk. http://youtu.be/hMOJMth4gKY
/r/seduction12/01/13 08:09 PM
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The disqualified step is often blended with the opener. When it stand independent it's called a "neg". The opener when blended with a disqualification is unique from her perspective in that you approach and make no comment about their looks or even who they are. You can open with the drug dealer/smoker line, and you don't come off as hitting on them.
/r/seduction12/01/13 08:04 PM
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Absolutely, unless you are a "natural" you will need some predetermined conversation threads. My favorite 2 are cold reads, which open up a huge variety of conversations. The second is a story I have about something that happened earlier that night, it never actually happened but it's a story with several DHV spikes. It's personal in that it has to do with some obvious physical characteristics I have (I'm really tall) but make up your own story. It doesn't have to be true, but put in some DHV sp…
/r/seduction12/01/13 08:02 PM
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Good job, but let me give you a kick in the ass. Stop being so damn timid. There is no magic way to get over AA, it doesn't get better. You have to learn to power through it, every time. If you do, this FR will be happening several times a night. Also, if you legit want to get better, you HAVE to go out more. It's a skill, and nobody gets good at anything doing it every other week.
/r/seduction12/01/13 07:57 PM
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Then work on your openers, the whole pickup should be a smooth flow. This your conversation threads should ideally flow from your opener. So instead of saying "hi" try using the drug dealer/smoker opening, or the "who lies more opening" and have 3-4 predetermined conversation threads the naturally flow from it.
/r/seduction12/01/13 07:52 PM
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Actually your opener is not good. You are displaying interest right from the beginning, when you should be disqualifying yourself. Did you actually do research about pick-up? This is one of the most basic concepts.
/r/seduction12/01/13 07:48 PM
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Openers are plentiful, the easiest ones are site and situation specific. Meeting friends? An opener can be about making sure you have the right bar. My buddy is a fan of the drug dealer/smoker opening. Remember, it's irrelevant WHAT you say, the point is to initiate conversation and disqualify yourself at the same time. As far as transition, get through your opener, go through any spontaneous conversation that originates from that opener, then stop and say "we've been talking for 5 minutes alrea…
/r/seduction12/01/13 07:46 PM
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It's not your height, it's how you were doing it. You walked in and got in state and then proceeded to AFC it up. Dancing around chicks and beckoning them to dance is going to creep most girls out. You seem to have forgotten everything you learned. You need to approach, disqualify, and demonstrate DHV. instead you didn't approach, hit on them (the opposite of disqualify), and were ignored in full view of the club, a massive DLV. Simply reading the seduction material isn't enough, you need to pra…
/r/seduction12/01/13 07:41 PM
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You can also use it as a neg. my personal favorite is "You think you are different from others your age" in a completely neutral way. Then when they say "well, yeah" you say "well, Id like to find out if you are"
/r/seduction08/01/13 04:54 PM
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Course it is. However, your choices will be 1 of only a couple girls, if that, and you are taking a gamble on wether you will be happy with them. The better idea is to learn some social intelligence. It will at least broaden your options.
/r/seduction08/01/13 03:43 PM
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You have to keep your partner interested, and someone has to keep you interested. Those that are happy do this innately, the dynamic of two people create this naturally. I think that's what really keeps people together.
/r/seduction15/12/12 12:59 AM
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Something to add. I had a girl attempt to pick me up at a club last week. Now it might have been cause she was young (23) and I'm 30, but her approach was childish. She gets proximity to me and I notice what is happening, I give her brief eye contact and see how she responds. Instead of talking to me she proceeds to talk to my friends, one of the females in our group, and ask her questions about me. It was done at that point, if a girl show interest, I'm more than happy to let her take initiativ…
/r/seduction14/12/12 08:15 PM
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In my experience, game never stops. It changes in the confines of a relationship, but there is always an element of it.
/r/seduction14/12/12 07:53 PM
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Being with a group absolutely raises your value.... Its not even a question.
/r/seduction30/04/12 01:29 AM
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It's not that you look like a dickhole, it's that you come off as trying too hard. "Hey, I play guitar, wanna see?" - really? The only way to do it and maintain value is if it looks like you are doing it for other reasons and she happens to catch you. Like answering the door with your equipment out, "Oh, i was practicing" or simply join a band and invite her to a gig.
/r/seduction29/04/12 10:13 PM
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Holy One-Itis batman. You are talking to a girl ONLINE, that you have never met. What is happening (IMO) is that you are projecting everything you want in a girl, thinking she is these things, because you can. You have never met, you have no idea what she is like, and is most likely not the person you think she is. Stop talking to her. Stop thinking you are going to marry someone you haven't ever met in real life. If you are really attempting to be a PUA and work on seduction, then you need to r…
/r/seduction29/04/12 09:44 PM
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It's really simple. You did 2 things incorrectly. 1) When she was taking pictures and such, you displayed lesser value by being a by-standard. You need to go off on your own faster or say something like "You chill here, I'm going to go find someone to play Beer Pong with." This puts you back in the lead of the situation and shows her that if she doesn't pay attention to you, you will find someone else who will" 2) You derped around too long. You were waiting for her to take the lead physically. …
/r/seduction29/04/12 08:42 PM
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Something is stopping you. The sex drive is one of the strongest we have, if you aren't following through when able you need to look inside. some trauma? Get hurt? Sexually unconfident? Gay?
/r/seduction29/04/12 08:34 PM
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Its called S and R value. Your social value goes up when you are seen with people, specifically attractive females. edit: Downvotes? You guys realize he is getting negative feedback being alone. Half the comments in here are treating it like it's a positive. And my reply is almost a direct quote from Mystery.
/r/seduction29/04/12 08:32 PM
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You really need to read the guides on this subreddit, look to your right. If that isn't enough start with: http://contemporarylit.about.com/od/memoir/fr/theGame.htm Then go read: http://www.amazon.com/The-Mystery-Method-Beautiful-Women/dp/0312360118 Also, your post is all about how you are and thinking that you won't need to change yourself to be successful. While you won't have to change the core of how you are, alot of "game" or "Seduction" is about be confident inside, changing how you view y…
/r/seduction29/04/12 07:52 PM
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You are missing the point of eye contact. You don't go around campus making eye contact with everyone, that is just weird. While walking around campus you should have your shoulders back, head up, casually scanning people you pass (this is normal). If you lock eyes with a dude, just give a slight head nod, and move on. This is in no way dominance or homo, it's acknowledging him and you move on. If you lock eyes with a girl, and slight smirk and a slower head nod all that's needed. Anything more …
/r/seduction29/04/12 06:17 PM
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