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Getting StartedAtticus_1916/r/Divorce_Men04/04/26 10:52 PM
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Reckless spending gets taken off your split
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/26 02:59 AM
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Going through a horrendous divorce, nearly finalised. I recently met the love of my life and probably going to go for round 2. Humans are stupid I guess
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/26 09:42 AM
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I'm 40 with kids and have no problem meeting people, I am ok looking but I'm great shape at least, I think that's the key
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/26 09:33 PM
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Still going through it, she told me she wouldn't mind if I died. But at least she didn't say she wanted to kill me so could be worse. She's getting worse as we go through the process though, it's clear that the kids would prefer spend more time with me, and she is struggling with that notion. The divorce is going to financially ruin me but losing money is worth the peace of not being belittled and criticised morning, noon and night. I just want her out of my life so I can focus on my relationshi…
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/26 07:53 AM
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Bloody hell man, you should be a writer
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/26 09:36 AM
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Jesus mate that sounds rough, sounds like you need to start your own process
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/26 09:00 PM
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Thanks for the pep talk, I certainly hope so. The thought of totally upending everything shortly after moving halfway across the planet is truly terrifying though!
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/26 11:37 AM
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Marriage counselling might indeed be a good path, but I will absolutely be acting like she is potentially going to pull the plug at any moment
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/26 11:36 AM
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That's all great, especially 3! Easier said that done though, it's all gotten to the point that anything said at all can trigger a reaction, which is why therapy might be the best option.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/26 11:35 AM
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She might think I'm a dickhead and not love me, but I don't think she would be like that (I hope)
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/26 11:33 AM
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This is great advice, I'm usually reluctant to go for any type of therapy, but maybe that would help determine whether this was in any way recoverable. I'm terrified of losing my kids so need to make sure I am not terminating something that can be fixed.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/26 11:33 AM
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100% my priority is my relationship with the children, this supersedes everything else and want to make sure I am present for them. I'm not in too much of a panic re; case building, there's no abuse, no excessive drinking or drugs etc. I'm assuming that courts are very big on evidence and there is very little incriminating in either direction. But some preliminary advice probably won't hurt considering the outburst, just so I know where I stand.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/26 11:31 AM
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So you never got divorced? Or she only got a lawyer after you initiated? What exactly did you regret?
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/26 11:27 AM
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I have always shared this sentiment!
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/26 11:26 AM
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She absolutely has checked out, I'm just wondering if it can ever get pulled back from this point when it suddenly goes south. The option of starting over definitely sounds attractive, but the kids complicate things. It would be lovely to be able to come home to someone who actually smiled at me once in a while when I walked in the door. Maybe some advice wouldn't hurt whether I decide to take it further or not.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/26 11:25 AM
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She has given me a heads up, but I'm hoping if it goes that way that we could both be reasonable people and do what's best, but maybe getting some advice wouldn't hurt.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/26 11:23 AM
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