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same trends are on display here in spain where women keep getting laws more favourable/ equitable to them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:58 AM
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this is dogshit, men have always been obsessed with sex, and now have more alternatives to get off that dont involve real women than ever so theres no reason to believe the current obsession with sex is magically causing more female depression than it did 50 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:55 AM
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Fair point, not really exclusive to abortion though, same happens with many facets of politics , some rather more important
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:16 PM
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cool, doesnt answer what i said? are most pro lifers advocating that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:11 PM
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no youll find yours are, pretty much all abortion advocates ( like 99% plus) are ok with abortions when the mother is in danger
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:09 PM
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okay ill play along with the thought experiment ( i live in europe and dont give the slightest shit about american abortion laws ) , lets suppose thats the case, isnt less people who dont like eachother enough to wanna fuck with some risk involved not fucking good?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:06 PM
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i dont think its that many, its just the loud minority question. consider this, a man who never gets a date, laid , whatever and just suffers in silence isnt going to make for much of a news story, hell very few even know hes burdened at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:23 AM
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Damn so who are these woman ive been beating
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:03 AM
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eh ig
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:35 AM
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i wouldnt want a girl hiding stuff from me before sex so im just doing the like
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:31 AM
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i mean im a virgin and id disclose it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:29 AM
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im pretty sure thats a shitty thing to do, and its gonna disclose itself probably unless she also has no experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:05 AM
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kinda does tho because it literally means fuck all. you wanting to start shit over being a child
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:55 AM
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i hope you never have to visit england
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:09 AM
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blanket statement but eh you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 10:58 AM
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why base your view on a niche leddit sub full of larpers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 10:31 AM
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no, but thats what the legal system is for, imposing certain moral standards
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:38 AM
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irrelevant, the whores who would sleep with some 35 year old sugar daddy are of no interest to me eitherways, the whores and the wannabe pedos can hang out together
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:33 AM
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is the line always that cleaar cut?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:22 AM
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lmao it feels like its a self fulfilling profecy the longer i go without dating the more my non ability at flirting will stick out as a sore thumb increasing my likelihood to not get any more experience making the issue even worse. at some point im going to start wondering what to even do in life. i dont smoke or drink or do drugs so the misery is always right there in my face. really i dont blame women whether they believe me or not, bad circumstances. still feels like shit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:21 AM
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really, a midget fucker
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:07 AM
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the nature of love obfuscates that which is obvious to the rest of us
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:41 AM
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ive always fancied myself a romantic, but i might have to dip since im clearly not good at this, if i can learn to desire the single life that would be a dream come true
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:26 PM
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or maybe ill end up a soon to be catman ;P
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:01 PM
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i still think meeting through friends was better for both of us
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:33 PM
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lmao. funny one
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:20 PM
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she confirmed 1 wasnt the case she mentioned shed never dated so thats also not the case not sure about this one. i thought i was being obvious but thats a perception thing. eitherway time for some more gaming, icecream, and reflecting about how im headed straight towards my mid 20s with no dating experience lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:05 PM
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yeah im in it for LTRs, casual isnt my sorta vibe, then again thats half the reason ive never gotten laid, i can live with it tho
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:39 AM
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im gonna just dip ig
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:20 AM
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mgtow isnt for me, i dont have the strength of character. too much of a romantic. i dont think she was being sadistic knowing her, shes had a troubled childhood, and probably appreciated the additional warmth, support and compliments. that said i have to draw the line somewhere and this will likely be the end of our interactions
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:08 AM
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Welp. today was a day, a girl i grew incredibly attached to told me the guy shed been calling a friend for the better part of us knowing eachother was her BF. like why do this, she couldve told me early on, spared me this ridiculous heartache and feeling of betrayal. man it feels so needlessly cruel. im going to add here just incase that i have no issue being rejected, lied to however is so much worse
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:43 AM
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im sure someone will monetize air
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:16 AM
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intent is not the same as actions, and even in terms of intent this doesnt apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:24 PM
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well theres no sort of halfway relationship between friend and sexual partner for 99% of humans, where you everything youd get in a relationship except the sex , so this kinda feels like a mute point, what i want is to not come home to empty house, some amount of physical contact. etc.. i know im on the weirder side but id take a romantic non sexual relationship aslong as there was a good reason for it not being sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:11 AM
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tbh if im gonna be left to bleed out anyways eating steak while i die doesnt sound like the worst experience
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:02 AM
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interesting analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:50 AM
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is this an america thing, none of the girls i know here in spain taste any millionaire lifestyle,
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:54 AM
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but we are talking about men who cant get laid,
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:29 AM
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yeah i agree, i still think its likely we will end up in some eugenics dystopia
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:45 AM
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i mean technically long term if we disregard ethics it would benfit lower end men by bringing them closer on average to the high end
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:52 AM
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based lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:45 AM
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alright but if you tie that together you are fundamentally saying sexist douches with good looks wont struggle to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:27 AM
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When you getting hired for sexy plumber pornhub shoots ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:30 PM
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Respecting and a maybe slightly adoring someone is not the same as worshipping lmfao. Ofcourse I would never date a woman who doesn't respect me and isnt fond of me. I have no use for someone like that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:43 PM
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Funny I don't remember opening with "on behalf of all men"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:08 PM
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Care to elaborate? As in why they might be too low? Legit question I'm not a redpiller waiting to hound whatever response you give
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:38 PM
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Me. 21m
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:25 PM
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Religion does. Many people abstain from sex for it. That's why I asked Ridiculously attractive huh? Well I have no reason to believe you're lying so I'll take your word for it, hope you find whatever it is you're looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:25 PM
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Hey it was a legitimate question to try and understand the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:17 PM
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Imma be rude but I have to ask Are you Religious Potentially asexual Or unattractive? Or none of the above
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:11 PM
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Nah I'm a man. It's just. I'd rather be single than deal with a woman who resents my existence crawling around the house for the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:27 AM
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This is arguably worse. Please women never marry men you aren't actually interesting in. Recipe for disaster
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:56 PM
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Purge time or smth but yeah this kinda distasteful
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:41 PM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:21 PM
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No way they unironically think a 3 year gap at 21 is pedophilia
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:17 PM
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I wouldn't say having tastes Is racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:19 PM
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Nah western women are pretty dope. Some of them anyways..the non whore ones. Women from more traditional countries tend to be doormats and I find that unappealing too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:54 PM
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Am I getting deja vu I swear I've seen the exact same comments Anyways. Virgin 21 year old dude. Not asexual or anything . Def not a need. The lack of sex doesn't even bother me that much. What bothers me is what it signifies ( my lack of ability to get a partner I can foster companionship with aswell)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:35 PM
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Trad wives are pushovers . Damn better get the message across to most of the old married couples around here because these trad women didn't seem to get the memo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:17 AM
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How long do I have before the marriage ? If it's just whenever then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:42 PM
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Made my day thanks dude
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:42 AM
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Yeah but I wasn't factoring in sexual partners at all. The interesting analysis would be ( same n count . Let's say 0 for convenience ) across different ages of having met and the likelihood of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 12:41 AM
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Yeah it's whatever. And no I'm 21. But seeing as the next few years are gonna be spent in the sausage fest called being a web programming student I'm calling those a write off. We were set up by my best friend and her boyfriend (who is my husband’s brother). Coincidentally, they were married around the same time and are still happily married, too. You can't make this shit up textbook fantasy romance novel
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:17 AM
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To boot my dad was from what little I know quite the player and all my uncles on my mother's side have had gfs whenever they want because they're all good looking . Most of my cousins both male and female are also far better looking . So yeah I can't even dodge that shit from my 3 years younger zoomer cousins . But it's whatevs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:12 AM
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It's not even just potential partners. As the years go on my family ( especially the women ) are becoming increasingly "girlfriend when". Like it's some badge of honour for them if I finally get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:05 AM
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I'm posed to hit 25 without even having dated at current pace so I don't think thisll be a concern for me 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:02 AM
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If you flip a coin enough I guess it will end up on its edge as some point lol. Glad that work out for you. Come to think of it I think one of my aunt's met her now husband ( both 57 ish) at 14 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:13 AM
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Do pickmes actually exist. Id always assumed they were just high budget trolls lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:59 AM
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I am currently 21 and a virgin. And I speculate that won't be changing any time soon. On the bright side ( negative really if I was in a relationship but whatever) my sex drive seems to be slowly diminishing. Drive for female companionship which lacks a low quality substitute like sex => porn is what bothers me more
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:57 AM
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Guess those teenage relationships do work out occasionally huh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:53 AM
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That's really sad. Hope he finds someone. We are after all big brained monkeys and lots of it is instinctual. Tis what it is . And thank you for your kind words
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 08:02 PM
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Fully agree. It does wear you down after a while. I can live without getting laid (maybe because I never have and don't know what I'm missing out on) but the whole not having dated anyone and the loneliness it entails slowly wears oneself down. It's almost paradoxical. I wouldn't date myself if I was a woman but that doesn't really make me feel any happier
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 07:50 PM
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Fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 07:12 PM
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Yeah. Not to sound like an incel because tbh I'd probs do the same if I was a woman. But nah I ain't risking getting called a creep because my looks arent up to scratch. I'll leave the cold approach for the Greek statue embodiments out there
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 07:11 PM
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A lonely man's best friend :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 11:01 PM
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yeah, i still have worries such as "dating knowledge debt" for lack of a better term, by that i mean im 21 with no dating experience which is uhhhhhhhh, eitherway ive shifted my life from being focused around having a family to being single just incase, even if i find the notion very unpleasant
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:34 AM
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its a spectrum and yeah i agree, but as i said i live in the middle of nowhere, bad rep with one girl is bad rep with the rest, maybe stuff will change when i leave
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:28 AM
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medication is a very double edged sword, im not sure how to explain it other than that it numbs, not fixes. in exchange for making me less volatile and more bearable to the average person and boosts my ability to concentrate it makes me super dry and uncaring about others. as for therapy i did 5 ish years of that, feels great talking to them but imo it doesnt translate well to the rest of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:01 AM
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Not really dates never gets to that. I'm rather shy and prefer to meet people through hobbies than straight out but I could always tell there was a point where they wanted nothing with me. It's especially brutal because I'm rather exotic looking too so I initially attract attention more than your average person so the drop off is more noticeable. As for whether they explicitly knew? Some did ( I don't hide it if asked ) most didn't explicitly know what it was they just knew it was something. Add…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:54 AM
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Because ADHD doesn't go away. I've learned to mask it better over time but there's always little outbreaks of weirdness which scare potentials off. I could tone my body and get myself back up to my peak of like 6-7ish out of 10 on the outside. but that falls apart after the first impressions when other things become visible
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:48 AM
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Fully agree. Deep down I care because I think it's bad for both genders. But superficially I haven't really had any women in my life I care about in a number of years bar my mother so I've kinda lost tact with it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:46 AM
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how is this news. 21 M here and already painfully aware of how i might end up, i dont really harbour any ill will towards women because i wouldnt date myself either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:42 AM
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the og feminism is a dying breed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:34 AM
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can we negotiate a 57% ratio :insertpleadingemoji:
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:27 AM
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That's uh . Oddly specific. Nothing particularly wrong with it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:29 AM
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Why would he. Just say it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:15 AM
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Yup I feel that's where I'm headed. Iirc I started becoming interested in girls around age 11 ( 14 sexually but I don't think that distinction matters much ) and honestly it's been a whole load of embarrassment , loneliness and pain. I don't particularly blame them I wouldn't date myself either in my current state, doesn't make the experience any more pleasant tho. I'm 21 rn and whilst I def have a strong sex drive still id say it's peaked. I'm more worried about coming home to an empty house fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 10:47 PM
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This hits where it hurts. But I must say it's not just money. Don't think I'd be successful at attracting anything other than gold diggers at 30 if I have the dating know how of a 16 year old regardless of money
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:07 PM
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I wouldn't say those are the only two options.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:04 PM
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Has it ever occured to you that I don't fancy being alone until I'm 30. Crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:58 PM
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One cannot put numbers on such a thing. But probably alot. Most humans are fickle and easily subject to circumstances. Whilst 30 years ago being " high on the chart of guys she'd met" wasn't that hard potentially now the amount of exposure to these is so much higher which creates unrealistic expectations for both genders .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:47 AM
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i dont disagree but like being a virgin your whole life usually has alot of tie ins, bar being asexual / having a partner that has some sort of inabality to have sex it usually also means never dating ( bar some non sexual dating in your teens potentially, unlikely in the demograpic being examined and either way it will be a long forgotten feeling ) which can easily lead to extreme loneliness once you age
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:21 PM
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Yikes holy fuck. That's beyond nasty
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:35 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 02:25 PM
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what a bunch of male hysterics think of me has little bearing on my life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 05:38 PM
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I wouldn't realize say these men are betas. Just loving partners. And I don't have to adhere to strict RP terminology since I'm not one. What distinguishes this sort of man from a "beta" loser is A: they are generally considered attractive B: they care for their partners ( in most cases) and aren't cowards. Just because they "provide" doesn't immediately turn them into betas
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:48 PM
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lots of women want a tamed alpha male , which these guys fit the bill for, except in bed where theyd prefer the so called "caveman treatment" which again these books satisfy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:36 PM
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